Tammy Sassoon
While we all know how important routines are for our children, it is also important to infuse their daily schedules with some excitement. We want to send a message to our children that life is joyous and full of opportunities. However, when we think about routines and structure, it can evoke images of rigid schedules and boring repetition. Routines really can easily become stale, leading to boredom and resistance. The challenge lies in finding the sweet spot – balancing the benefits of routine while keeping things fresh and engaging for our little ones. It’s about injecting fun into the fundamentals of childhood, turning daily tasks into opportunities for connection and joy.
Use Creativity
The key to exciting routines is understanding that children thrive on novelty and play. This doesn’t mean throwing out the schedule altogether. Instead, it means creatively weaving in elements of surprise and choice within the existing framework. Think of it as adding sprinkles to a perfectly good cupcake – the base remains the same, but the added touch makes it much more appealing.
One effective strategy is to introduce variations within the routine itself. For example, mealtimes can become more engaging. Instead of simply placing food on the table, involve children in the process. Let them help with age-appropriate tasks like washing vegetables or setting the table. Present food in creative ways – cut sandwiches into fun shapes or arrange vegetables into a colorful face on their plate. Consider trying a new recipe together. The goal is to make mealtimes a shared experience, rather than just another item on the checklist.
Turn Up the Fun
Morning routines, often the most rushed and stressful part of the day, can also benefit from a dose of fun. Turn getting dressed into a game by setting a timer and challenging them to beat the clock. Create a “getting ready” song and dance routine. Offer choices whenever possible – “Do you want to wear the blue shirt or the green shirt?” – to give children a sense of control. A visual schedule, with pictures representing each step of the morning routine, can also be helpful, especially for younger children.
Another powerful tool for injecting excitement into routines is incorporating imaginative play. Transform everyday tasks into adventures. Brushing teeth can become a battle against “sugar bugs.” Cleaning up toys can be a treasure hunt and bedtime stories can be made more interactive by using puppets or creating shadow puppets on the wall.
Don’t underestimate the power of positive reinforcement. Acknowledge and celebrate your child’s cooperation and effort. Use verbal praise, stickers, or a simple high-five to show your appreciation. A reward chart, where children earn stars for completing tasks, can be a motivating tool. But ensure the rewards are meaningful and not just material possessions. Experiences, like a trip to the park can have far more impact than “stuff.”
Be Flexible
Flexibility is also crucial. Life with children is unpredictable, and routines will inevitably be disrupted sometimes. Don’t be afraid to deviate from the schedule when necessary. A little spontaneity can actually be beneficial, teaching children adaptability and resilience. If a planned activity needs to be changed, explain the reason to your child in age-appropriate words and give alternative options.
Ultimately, keeping routines exciting is about fostering a sense of joy and connection within the structure of daily life. It’s about recognizing that children are naturally curious and playful, and that routines should complement, not stifle, these qualities. By incorporating creativity, imagination, and a touch of flexibility, we can transform routines from mundane obligations into opportunities for shared experiences and lasting memories. And in doing so, we not only make our children’s lives more enjoyable, but we also strengthen our bond with them, creating a foundation of love and memories that will last a lifetime.