Dear Jido,
Our family is planning a vacation this summer, and we want to make sure it’s enjoyable for everyone. We have three children, ages 7, 10, and 12, who have different interests and energy levels. My husband and I are also hoping to find some time to relax and unwind. We’re considering a destination that offers a mix of outdoor activities, cultural experiences, and family-friendly attractions. However, we’re not sure how to balance everyone’s needs and preferences. Do you have any tips for planning a trip that will both keep kids entertained and allow us to have some quality family time?
Sincerely,
Vacation Planner
Dear Vacation Planner,
It seems like you have a group where each one is going to want to do different things all at the same time. So my advice to you is – forewarned is forearmed.
Sit down with your husband well in advance and plan out what you would like to do each day. One day the beach, one day the museum, another day the amusement park, and another day a hiking trip. Make sure you include in there – tonight we’re going for pizza! The next night, the fancy restaurant, and another night a private barbecue on the beach.
Map out the days so that each member has something to do that THEY like to do (including Mom and Dad). Then discuss the plan with the kids so that you can make changes long before you board the plane.
When Morris says, “I don’t want to go to the beach, I want to go hiking!” And when Leah says, “How come we always have to do what Abie wants?” Remind each one of them – “That’s right, and tomorrow we’re going to do what YOU like.”
Of course, it can always rain on the day you planned on going to the beach and it could be 85 degrees and gorgeous out the day you’re spending in the museum. But after all, that’s what makes memories!
Enjoy!
Jido