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Riddles – June 2026

RIDDLE: The Missing Dog

Submitted by:  Maurice J.

On the first day of school, a dog was reported kidnapped. The police questioned three teachers who were all considered suspects. Each was asked what they were doing at exactly 8am.

  • Mrs. Walter: “I was driving to school, and I was running late.”
  • Mr. Thomas: “I was at home checking English exam papers.”
  • Mr. Benjamin: “I was reading the morning newspaper.”

Based on their responses, who is the most likely kidnapper: Mrs. Walter, Mr. Thomas, Mr. Benjamin, all three teachers, or none of them?

Previous Month’s Riddle: Mixed Fruit

There are 3 boxes: one with only apples, one with only oranges, and one with both. All labels are wrong. You can pick one fruit from one box. How do you label all boxes correctly?

Solution: Pick from the box labeled ‘Mixed.’ Since all labels are wrong, this box must contain only apples or only orange. Whatever fruit you get tells what that box is. Then swap the remaining two labels (since they’re both wrong).

 

Solved by: Family Blum, Big Mike, Isaac Chehebar, Evelyn C., Mark Mamiye, Albert Franco, Stephanie Dwek, The Shmulster, and the Anteby Family.

 

JUNIOR RIDDLE: What Am I?

Submitted by:  Lisa M.

I am served at a table, In gatherings of two or four. Served small, white, and round. You’ll love some, and that’s part of the fun. What am I?

Previous Month’s Junior Riddle: A Numbers Game

How many times can you subtract 5 from 25?

Solution: Only once – after that, it’s no longer 25!

 

Solved by: Max Anteby, The Blum Family, Isaac Chehebar, Nissim Matalon, Stephanie Dwek, Molly Esses, The Big Cheese, Danny G., and The Shmulster.

The Lighter Side – June 2026

Mixed Signals

An American tourist was riding in a taxi in Israel. As the taxi approached a red light, the tourist was shocked to see the driver drive straight through without even slowing down. Surprised as he was, he didn’t say anything feeling himself a “guest” and not wanting to make waves. The trip continued without event until the next intersection. This time the light was green and, to the American’s dismay, the cab driver brought the vehicle to a grinding halt. Unable to contain his astonishment, he turns to the driver.

“Listen.” he says, “When you went through the red light, I didn’t say anything. But why on earth are you stopping at a green light?”

The Israeli driver looks at him as if the American was deranged: “Are you crazy?!” he shouts. “The other guy has a red light! Do you want to get us killed?”

David M.

The Smartest Man Alive

A small plane is flying from Dallas to Denver when the engine sputters and dies. The pilot runs out of the cockpit, grabs a parachute, opens the door, then says, “Sorry, there are only three parachutes left,” and jumps out. This leaves four passengers: a boy scout, a professor, a farmer, and a doctor. The doctor says, “Guys, I need to be saved. I heal people and am a valuable resource to the human population.” He grabs a parachute and jumps out. The professor says, “Well, I’ve won the Nobel Peace Prize and spoken to the leaders of the free world. The President of the United States has called me the smartest man alive. It is obvious I need to be saved.” He grabs a parachute and jumps out, leaving the farmer and the boy scout… but only one parachute. The farmer smiles sadly at the boy and says, “Son, I’ve lived a long and fruitful life. You are young and have the rest of your life in front of you. Take the last parachute.” The scout replies, “It’s okay, the smartest man alive just jumped out of the plane with my knapsack.”

Gabe K.

Bus or Bust

Chaim Yankel was visiting Washington, D.C. for the first time. Unable to locate the Capitol, he asked a police officer for directions, “Excuse me, officer, how do I get to the Capitol building?”

The officer replied, “Wait here at this bus stop for the number 54 bus. It’ll take you right there.”

Three hours later, the police officer returned to the same area and, sure enough, Chaim Yankel was still waiting at the same bus stop.

The officer got out of his car and said, “Excuse me, but to get to the Capitol building, I said to wait here for the number 54 bus, and that was three hours ago! Why are you still waiting?”

Chaim Yankel replied, “Don’t worry, officer, it won’t be long now. The 45th bus just went by!”

Moshe H.

The Clean Cup

A couple walked into a cheap-looking restaurant. As they were about to sit down, they noticed there were crumbs on the seat. After cleaning up the seat and wiping down the table, they sat down. A waitress came over and asked them what they wanted, “I’ll just take a coffee,” said the man. “Me too,” said the lady. “And make sure the cup is clean.” The waitress returned with their drinks and said, “Okay, now, which one of you wanted the clean cup?”

Gladys D.

Stranded in the Desert

Three men are in the middle of a desert when their car breaks down. For their hike to town, they each decide to take one thing with them. One man takes a jug of water. The second man takes a sandwich. The last man takes one of the car doors. The first man says to the last man, “I’m bringing the water because if I get thirsty, I can take a drink. And it makes sense to bring a sandwich in case we get hungry, but why bring a car door?” The last man replies, “If I get hot, I can just roll down the window.”

Joey S.

Favorite Patients

Four surgeons were talking about their favorite patients. The first surgeon says, “Accountants are the best to operate on because when you open them up, everything on the inside is numbered.” The second surgeon says, “Nah, librarians are the best. Everything inside them is in alphabetical order.” The third surgeon says, “You have to operate on electricians. Everything inside them is color coded!” After quietly listening to the entire conversation, the fourth surgeon pipes up and says, “I like engineers because they always understand when you have a few parts left over at the end.”

Steven A.

No Credit

A customer comes into Moshe’s Furniture Warehouse and wants to pay for his purchase by check. The clerk just looks at him and points to the sign on the wall:

“There are two very good reasons why we won’t take your check. Either we don’t know you, or we DO know you.”

Jason G.

Three-Day Pass

An Israeli soldier who just enlisted asked the commanding officer for a 3-day pass. The officer replied, “Are you crazy? You just joined the Israeli army, and you already want a 3-day pass? You must do something spectacular for that recognition!”

So, the soldier comes back a day later in an Arab tank! The officer was so impressed, and asked, “How did you do it?”

“Well, I jumped in a tank, and went toward the border with the Arabs. I approached the border, and saw an Arab in his tank. I put my white flag up, and the Arab raised  his white flag. I asked the Arab soldier, ‘Do you want to get a 3-day pass?’ He agreed, so we exchanged tanks!”

Mordechai A.

Swallowed Quarters

I had to take my son to the hospital after he swallowed ten quarters. He was rushed to surgery. After half an hour, I saw a nurse, so I asked her how he was. She said, “There’s no change yet.”

Nancy P.

Bad Word

A young boy was sitting in the waiting room for a little bit after getting his tooth pulled. The receptionist asked him if he was okay. “Yes, but I didn’t like the bad word the dentist used while he was pulling my tooth.” “What did he say?” asked the receptionist, worried. The boy replied, “Oops.”

Shelly T.

Living Emunah – It’s Not Shocking

Rabbi David Ashear

Some people claim to have seen individuals who have already passed on. Can there be any truth to their assertions, or were they just imagining these sightings? 

The Zohar HaKadosh   (Parashat Balak p. 186) writes that a person can come back to This World and make an appearance. They pass through what is called Gan Eden hatachton – lower Gan Eden – and put on a spiritual garb that makes them look exactly as they did while they were alive.

The Zohar brings a story that Rabbi Elazar and Rabbi Abahu were once discussing an esoteric part of the Torah. Rav Hamnuna Sabba, who had already passed on, appeared to them and revealed deep secrets regarding their discussion. Moreover, the Gemara (Ketubot 103a) says that after Rabbi Yehudah HaNasi passed away, he would come back to make Kiddush for his family on Friday night and sit at their table during the Shabbat meal.

Rav Shabsai Yudelovitz told a story that he heard from his Rabbi, which was directly transmitted from the mouth of Rabb Chaim Volozhin.

Once, one of his students in Yeshivat Etz Chain became very ill, and the Rabbi sent him back to his family for treatment. Another boy from the yeshivah escorted him, and they stayed overnight at an inn.

When they got their bill the next morning, the teens realized that they did not have enough money to pay the full amount. They told the innkeeper that the friend would bring the rest of the money on his way back to yeshivah. When they reached the sick student’s home, he thanked his friend for accompanying him and gave him the balance due on the bill to pay the innkeeper. But it slipped the boy’s mind. He took a different route and didn’t end up settling the account.

A few months later, the yeshivah got word that the sick student had passed away. They gave eulogies and learned in his memory. One night during the shivah, Rav Chaim was walking down the hall of the yeshivah after midnight, and saw the deceased student standing before him. The Rabbi was not afraid. He approached the student and asked what he needed. The student replied that when he went up to Heaven, he saw that he was cleansed from all his sins, due to the suffering at the end of his life. But, as he was about to enter the gates of Gan Eden, he was stopped by an angel who said, “You stole. You cannot enter. The money you sent to the innkeeper never got there, and therefore you still owe.” However, because he had done everything in his power to pay, he was given permission to go back down and ask his Rabbi to ensure that it did get paid. And so, it happened.

Those who pass on from This World are still alive. They are just living in another location. Therefore, it is not shocking if they are seen here.

Eli* told me that he visited the grave of a tzaddik in Eretz Yisrael in 1996. While he was there, a man from his shul, who had passed away that year, appeared right in front of him and told him to light a candle in his memory. Eli was so shocked at the sight that he just stood and stared. The man repeated, “Please light a candle in my memory.” Eli turned around to light the candle, and when he turned back, the man was gone. He said that man’s children about the episode. They told him that their father donated a considerable sum to restore that burial site, so it made sense that he would appear there.

This World is transient. We are here on a mission to follow Torah and mitzvot to the best of our ability, in the circumstances Hashem places us. The Next World is the Real World, the one that will last forever. The better we do our job here, the more pleasant it will be for us there.

*Name has been changed to protect privacy.

Exploring the Wonders of the Human Anatomy – How Do My Eyes See?

When you look at an object, light rays bounce off of the object and into your eyes. The light rays go through the small, black, circular hole in the center of each eye, called the pupil.

Behind the pupil, there is a lens. The light rays travel through this lens, and the lens bends the light and sends it on to the retina, which is a thin layer of tissue that lines the back of the eyeball. The retina then turns the light rays into signals, which it sends to the brain for visual recognition.

The colored part around your pupil, called the iris, is actually a muscle. Its job is to control how much light gets into your eye. When you are in a bright place, the iris contracts (shrinks) the pupil, so that it lets in less light. When you are in a darker place, the iris opens the pupil wide, so that it lets in more light. This helps you see better.

What Determines Eye Color

Just like the shape of your nose and the color of your hair, your eye color is determined by the genes you inherit from your parents. These genes determine how much melanin, or colored chemical matter, you have in your irises. The more melanin you have, the darker your eyes. Less melanin makes for lighter eyes.

Words of Wisdom

The word “eino – his eye” has a gematria of 136, which is the same as “mamon – money.” This teaches us that what a person sees and perceives is influenced by various factors, such as money and incentives. 

Fact or Fiction??

Wearing glasses or contacts will weaken my eyesight, and my eyes will eventually become dependent on them.

This is false! Your eyes will not grow weaker as a result of wearing corrective lenses. However, your prescription may change over time simply due to aging or the presence of an ailment.

Amazing Anatomy

A fingerprint has forty unique characteristics, but an iris has 256 of them! For this reason, retina scans are often used for identification and security purposes.

The Eyes Have It!

Parshat Re’eh begins with Moshe Rabbeinu addressing the people and saying, “See, I have placed before you today a blessing and a curse…” (Devarim 11:26). It seems a bit odd that Moshe chose to begin this pasuk with the word “see” when giving the people the option of choosing between blessing and curse. 

The power of the sense of sight is highlighted in many places in the Torah. In fact, as the Gemara tells us (Sotah 8a), the yetzer hara has no power except with respect to what the eyes see.

Of all the five senses, sight is the only one that does not have the inherent weakness of “forgetting.” For example, it is difficult to remember an actual smell after the source of the smell has been removed, or to remember a certain sound after the noise has stopped. Likewise, it is hard to remember the taste of something that has long left our mouths, or to remember how something feels once we stop touching it.

However, even a quick glance at something is enough to make us remember that sight for a long while. Sight is like taking a snapshot of something with our minds; even years later, we can still see the image on the “screens” of our minds and souls. As such, sight has a longer lasting influence on us, for better or for worse, than any of our other senses. Perhaps that is why Moshe Rabbeinu began his address with the word “see,” for embedded in that single word is the secret to how to we can cling to blessing and avoid curse: by being careful with what our eyes are exposed to.

What’s the Difference between Nearsightedness and Farsightedness?

Normal vision occurs when light is focused directly on the retina (the membrane that lines the back of the eyeball) rather than in front of it or behind it. A person with normal vision can see objects clearly whether they are near or far away. Nearsighted people, however, are only able to see objects clearly when they are near, while farsighted people can only see objects clearly when they are far.

Nearsightedness and farsightedness are two very common – but very different – kinds of vision conditions. Both are defects of the eye that affect its ability to focus light on the retina.

Nearsightedness, or myopia (my-O-pee-uh), occurs when light entering the eye falls short of the retina, usually because the eyeball has grown too long. As a result, distant objects appear blurry. This condition is corrected by wearing glasses or contacts that have concave lenses. These lenses spread out the light rays coming to the eye, so that when the light is focused on the eye, it reaches the retina properly. Farsightedness, or hyperopia (hy-per-O-pee-uh), is the opposite of nearsightedness. It usually is caused by an eyeball that’s too short, which causes light to come to a focus behind the retina instead of directly on it. As a result, close objects appear blurry. This condition is corrected by wearing glasses or contacts that have convex lenses, which cause light rays to come together as they approach the eye. In this way the light can be focused correctly on the retina.

Community Highlights – SCF Hails Major Milestone for Yeshiva Tuition Relief

The Sephardic Community Federation (SCF) announced what it described as a significant development for families with children attending yeshivas and non-public schools across New York, following Governor Kathy Hochul’s public support for the Federal Tax Credit Scholarship Program.

Under the proposed federal program, taxpayers would be able to donate to approved Scholarship Granting Organizations and receive a federal tax credit of up to $1,700 per taxpayer. The donated funds would then be used to provide scholarships for eligible K-12 students, including those attending non-public schools.

While additional steps remain – including final federal regulations and New York State’s formal opt-in process – supporters of the initiative view the governor’s announcement as a major advancement for school choice and tuition assistance efforts. Additional information about the program is available through the Teach Coalition website: https://teachcoalition.org/federalscholarships/

SCF has advocated for the program for more than a year. The group also credited Teach Coalition and Teach NYS, including Executive Director Sydney Altfield, for their continued advocacy efforts surrounding Jewish education and school choice initiatives.

SCF noted that it originally founded Teach NYS and expressed pride in seeing the organization expand into what it described as a statewide and national force in education advocacy.

This program has the potential to be worth tens of millions of dollars in tuition relief and education support for our community, helping parents, strengthening our schools, and easing one of the greatest financial burdens facing our families.

Magen David Yeshivah High School Explores the Immigrant Experience in NYC

Ninth graders at Magen David Yeshivah High School in the Jeff and Rachel Sutton Scholars Program traveled to New York City to explore the Lower East Side as part of their study of the immigrant experience in the early 20th century. In class, students have been learning about life in tenements and the rise of organized crime during this period.

The day began at the Tenement Museum, where students met a historical actor portraying Victoria, a 14-year-old Sephardic Jewish immigrant who lived in the tenement in 1916. Remaining in character throughout the visit, she shared stories about her journey to America, the importance of family, and the challenges of assimilation.

Students then participated in a walking tour of the neighborhood led by Dr. Stephen Hequembourg, Rabbi Elinatan Bitton, Ms. Stacey Wagoner, and Ms. Maryana Sigalova. The tour took them from Little Italy into Chinatown, with stops at Economy Candy, Freeman’s Alley, the oldest Jewish cemetery in North America, and the bustling Doyers Street. Along the way, students competed in a street art scavenger hunt for gift cards.

The group also visited the Bialystoker Synagogue and stopped at Moishe’s Bakery, where Ms. Schreiber, a 96-year-old Holocaust survivor, spoke with the students while slicing bread. The trip concluded at the top of the Edge, where students enjoyed panoramic views of the New York City skyline, including many of the skyscrapers they had studied earlier in the semester.

Eichenstein-Led Bill Aims to Protect Consumers From Steep Utility Increases

Assemblyman Simcha Eichenstein

The New York State Assembly has passed legislation sponsored by Assemblyman Simcha Eichenstein aimed at protecting consumers from steep utility rate increases by requiring regulators to consider whether proposed hikes are affordable for residents.

The bill would require the state New York State Public Service Commission to weigh the economic impact of proposed utility rate increases on consumers before approving them. Under the measure, regulators would review factors including local income levels, unemployment data, and national fuel and utility cost trends when evaluating rate increase requests.

Supporters say the proposal is designed to strengthen protections for ratepayers while preserving utility companies’ ability to earn a fair return.

“For too long, New Yorkers have struggled under the weight of substantial utility rate hikes,” Eichenstein said in a statement, calling the measure a step toward easing the financial strain on families facing a high cost of living.

Leroy Comrie is sponsoring the legislation in the Senate.

Backers say the bill is intended to promote greater transparency and fairness in the rate-setting process while helping shield residents from rising utility costs. The legislation now moves to the Senate for consideration.

Crispy Pastrami Egg Rolls

What’s In A Name?

The word “pastrami” comes from the Romanian word pastramă, which means meat that is preserved. People used this method to keep meat from going bad before refrigerators existed.

Chef Shiri Says…

For even more crunch, place the egg rolls on a wire rack on top of the baking sheet so air circulates underneath!

Creative Cooking with

Chef Shiri

Kids – See if you have what it takes to become a Junior Chef!

Adult Supervision Required

Utensils Needed

  • Large mixing bowl
  • Cutting board & knife
  • Spoon
  • Baking sheet
  • Parchment paper 
  • Small bowl of water (for sealing)
  • Pastry brush or oil spray Oven mitts

Ingredients

  • 1 package egg roll wrappers
  • 8–10 oz pastrami, chopped small
  • 1 cup shredded cabbage or coleslaw mix
  • ½ cup shredded carrots
  • 2–3 tbsp mayonnaise 
  • 1–2 tsp Dijon mustard
  • 1 tsp garlic powder
  • ½ tsp black pepper
  • Optional: 1-2 tbsp sweet pickle relish
  • 2-3 tbsp oil (for brushing or spraying)
  • Optional dipping sauce:Russian dressing or mustard

Let’s Get Started!

  1. Set oven to 425 degrees Fahrenheit. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper.
  2. Make the filling: Mix pastrami, cabbage, carrots, mayo, mustard, garlic powder, pepper, and optional relish.
  3. Assemble egg rolls:
    • Place wrapper in a diamond shape
    • Add 2–3 tbsp filling near the bottom
    • Fold bottom over filling, fold in sides, roll tightly
    • Seal edge with water
  4. Prep for baking: Place egg rolls seam-side down on the baking sheet. Lightly brush or spray all sides with oil.  
  5. Bake for 15 minutes, then flip and bake another 10–15 minutes until golden and crispy.
  6. Let cool for a few minutes, then serve with dipping sauce.

Makes 12-16 Egg Rolls!

Fun Food Fact

Most American egg rolls don’t actually have eggs in the filling or the wrapper. The word “egg” in the name comes from history – it might refer to older recipes that used eggs or the way the roll looks when fried or baked.

Voices of Vision – June 2026

Ellen Geller Kamaras

The bridal gown is an important piece of a girl’s life even though she wears it for one night.  Being a part of that huge moment and making it a happy experience is so rewarding.”  ~ Esther ~

Please meet Esther Cohen Dayon, a wife, mother, and grandmother. Along with 20 devoted volunteers from the community and other family members, Esther runs the Shelly Cohen Bridal Gmach, a bridal gmach,named after her beloved mother. A gmach is short for “gemilat hesed,” the bestowing of lovingkindness. It is a charitable organization offering interest-free loans, or items like furniture or clothing for free or at low cost.

Esther radiates warmth and openness.  She enjoys meeting new people and getting to know them by asking questions.  Esther’s husband, Charlie, affectionately refers to her as “Barbara Walters.” 

Roots and Education

The daughter of Rochelle (Shelly) Tawil, a”h, and Max Cohen, a”h, both Syrian, Esther is one of seven siblings, born right in the middle. Sadly, her sister Paulette Shaban, a”h, passed away four years ago.

Esther attended Hillel Yeshiva in New Jersey for grade school. She has remained close with friends from Hillel and several of them volunteer at the Gmach. Esther was a good student, enjoying her studies and friendships.

When Esther was three years old, her parents took her for a drive to Boro Park, Brooklyn.  Esther declared, “I want to live here!”

Much later, she decided to attend an all-girls high school. However, there were no separate girls yeshivot nearby.  Her brother, Rabbi Norman Cohen, the assistant rabbi of the Eatontown Synagogue, Shaare Tefilah bene Moshe, recommended Bais Kalla High School in Lakewood.

“Newly frum, Bais Kalla High School was the best four years despite personal challenges at home. My mother was in out and of the hospital and my father was seriously injured by a forklift, which required nine surgeries. On the first day of twelfth grade, my mother passed away.  My classmates and teachers were so supportive and helped me flourish and get through the hard times.”

One of Esther’s memorable high school events was presenting the parashat hashavua speech at an eleventh grade Shabbaton. Raizy Diamond Ozeri, daughter of Rabbi Shlomo Diamond, a close friend, was a significant influence in Esther’s religious growth during high school.

After graduation, Esther studied for one year at Lakewood Seminary.

Her Essence

Esther is easy to talk to. She is warm, funny, friendly, humble, and easy going.  

She was strong, resilient, innovative, and giving in taking over the Gmach as a mom of young children. Esther views the Gmach as Hashem’s Gmach.  Esther, her family, and the volunteers are messengers helping Hashem’s daughters to find their gowns.

Marriage and Family

At seventeen, Esther married her naseeb, Charlie Dayon, son of Irwin and Alice Dayon.  Charlie, like Esther, was raised in Deal.  Esther’s cousin, a classmate of Charlie’s, thought it would be a good match, and her aunt made it happen.

The couple have four adult children and several grandchildren. Esther is very proud of her kids. Her three daughters are all creative and work in different capacities in the sheitel industry.  Her son is studying in Rabbi Harary’s yeshiva in Lakewood.

“Our children are my greatest accomplishment, but I can’t take full credit. My husband was and is very hands-on when they were growing up, and we tried to be on the same page raising them.”

Esther and Charlie strove to have their kids become independent.  “That means taking a step back sometimes and trusting that they’ll do the right thing. BH, our children look to do what’s right.” 


Charlie works as a property manager and devotes many hours to his youth passion project at the Eatontown Synagogue.

He became involved in the shul’s youth minyan years ago and he raised it to a whole new level. He runs the youth minyan (with Bingo) on Friday nights, the father-and-son minyan on Shabbat mornings, and the youth minyan on motzei Shabbat.

“After Shabbat, the raffle winners come to our garage to select their raffle prizes. Our garage looks like the boardwalk at Point Pleasant,” said Esther proudly.  

Passions

“Attending the weddings and seeing the gowns in action is always gratifying. And when you get that smile and a thank you with a sigh of relief from the dads – it’s priceless! Weddings are joyful, but financially stressful, too.  We are here to alleviate some of that stress.  Our gowns are brand new and are current styles.  We want our brides to feel special and never less than.”

The Shelly Cohen Gmach

Esther was a stay-at-home mom.  The Gmach landed in her lap when her third child was around a year old. 

“It was a hard transition with three young kids and no experience with managing the Gmach.  Instead of shirts, you have 20 gowns to schlepp back and forth to the dry cleaner with a baby in the car! In addition, we had to relocate our store, and I discovered I needed to hire a lawyer and an accountant to set us up as a 501(c)3 to accept donations.  My mother-in-law, Alice Dayon, helps me fundraise, which is a big stressor. I had to learn fundraising on the job.”

The Gmach began as her maternal grandmother, Paulette Tawil’s passion project in the 1970s in Brooklyn. She would lend out her four daughters’ wedding gowns.  Paulette noticed a need in the community – people couldn’t afford to buy gowns that would be worn only once.  She called her friends that had purchased gowns for their daughters and asked them to donate their gowns, for her to lend them out to brides from one place.  The concept of a Gmach didn’t exist in the community and Paulette had no idea how large an operation it would become.

Every bride received a gift of bridal lingerie that Paulette bought with her own money.  She started visiting local bridal shops to obtain inventory they couldn’t sell and her collection grew.  Paulette did this all from a bedroom closet in her house in Brooklyn. 

Esther’s mom, Shelly Cohen, was living in Deal and had given birth to her seventh child when diagnosed with cancer.  She brought the Gmach to her home as a zechut for her refuah.  Shelly took care of the brides as if they were her own daughters.  None of them knew she was sick and was undergoing treatment.  Mrs. Marlene Massry got involved and helped run the Gmach alongside Shelly for the next six years.  After Shelly died, Mrs. Massry continued to run the Gmach. Cheryl Anteby and Alice Dayon were a tremendous help, too. 

“At my mother’s funeral, Rabbi Michael Haber, zt”l, said the Gmach will be known as The Shelly Cohen Bridal Gmach. It’s 29 years later – and we are in a storefront location in West Long Branch. We have over 20 community women volunteering and taking appointments, we have over 150 bridal gowns and over 200 mother and sister of the bride gowns, as well as headpieces and veils.”

Role Models

Esther’s grandmother, Paulette Tawil, and her parents strongly influenced the woman she is today.  Her grandmother’s strong commitment to doing hesed and her tenacity were values she modeled for her grandchildren. 

“My parents had a beautiful relationship and brought my siblings and me up to be close.  We always felt loved and part of a special family.”

A Family Legacy

“We are the third generation running the Gmach and our kids help too – so that’s the fourth generation! They love it and are proud of this legacy. One day, our children be”H will operate it and as they step up, I’m excited to see the changes they will make.”

Esther, her sisters, her sisters-in-law, brothers, and brothers-in-law, work tirelessly for the Gmach and feel a connection and obligation to it.

Community

Running a community organization, Esther has seen firsthand how charitable and giving the Sephardic community is.  “I’ve had men send donations out of the blue because they were so grateful that their daughters were getting married and they were blessed with the money to get them married off nicely.  As a token of gratitude, they send a donation to the Gmach to help others.”

Esther’s Message

Esther emphasized that gmachs are volunteer-run. Volunteers donate their time to help others, out of the goodness of their hearts. She encourages people who utilize these gmachs to be respectful of the volunteers’ time, of the gmach’s rules, and of the item being borrowed. 

“Please take a minute to appreciate the volunteers.  It isn’t always easy to get an appointment. The hours/days/times may not work for you, but gmachs are hesed organizations ready to serve the community.”

Check out the Gmach’s website at Shellycohenbridal.comand on Instagram @shellycohenbridal.  Esther is in the middle of a live spin-to-win fundraiser where donors can win $25,000 by spinning a wheel (Spyn.it/shellycohenbridal).

The Gmach welcomes volunteers who live in the Deal area. If you are interested, please call 732-222-2080.

Ellen Geller Kamaras, CPA/MBA, is an International Coach Federation (ICF) Associate Certified Coach.  Her coaching specialties include life, career, and dating coaching.   She can be contacted at ellen.kamaras@gmail.com.

Once Upon A Thyme – Rosemary Roasted Carrots

Adina Yaakov

These Rosemary Roasted Carrots are the perfect balance of sweet and savory. Tender carrots are coated in a rich glaze of honey, brown sugar, garlic, and fresh rosemary, then roasted until caramelized and flavorful. Colorful rainbow carrots make this dish especially beautiful for serving, but regular orange carrots work just as well and taste just as delicious. They make an easy and flavorful side dish for weeknight dinners or holiday meals.

  • 2 pounds peeled carrots
  • 6 tablespoons olive oil, divided
  • Salt and pepper, to taste
  • 2 tablespoons brown sugar
  • 2 tablespoons honey
  • 3 tablespoons fresh rosemary, chopped
  • 4 cloves garlic, minced
  1. Preheat the oven to 400 degrees Fahrenheit. Toss the carrots with 4 tablespoons of olive oil, then season with salt and pepper to taste. Arrange the carrots in a single layer on a baking sheet.
  2. In a small bowl, combine the remaining 2 tablespoons of olive oil, brown sugar, honey, rosemary, and garlic. Mix well, then pour the mixture over the carrots.

Cover the baking sheet with foil and bake for 20 minutes. Remove the foil and bake for an additional 10 minutes, or until the carrots are tender and caramelized. Garnish with flaky salt and fresh rosemary before serving.

The Door That Never Closed

Part II of an ongoing series uncovering the hidden history of Syrian Jewish escape routes – and the individuals who quietly altered the course of a community’s future.

In a quiet home in Iskenderun, a lifeline emerged for thousands of Syrian Jews – leaving behind a legacy that still echoes today…

By Linda Argalgi Sadacka

The story of the Shamosh family’s rescue efforts did not begin with Syrian Jews fleeing persecution. In the early 1940s, as Europe descended into war and destruction, Jewish refugees began moving along fragile and uncertain routes toward the Land of Israel. Some crossed through Istanbul, traveling from Europe into Asia by way of the Bosphorus, while others continued south along the Mediterranean coastline until they reached Iskenderun. Iskenderun is located within Turkey’s border and is  the strategic port city resting at the northeastern edge of the sea, where Turkey, Syria, and the broader Arab world converge in a narrow and heavily watched corridor.

“My father saw people coming, even, then from Europe,” Aharon Shamosh recalls.

The refugees arrived in waves, carrying with them the exhaustion and instability of lives that had been abruptly uprooted. Families who had lost homes, livelihoods, and entire communities searched desperately for any viable path forward. Many were not traveling because they possessed a carefully structured plan, but because remaining where they were had become impossible. Over time, the movement of displaced Jews through the region gradually transformed Iskenderun into a quiet but essential stop along a larger humanitarian route stretching across collapsing borders and wartime uncertainty.

At first, helping those refugees did not feel like a historic act to the Shamosh family. It felt instinctive. People arrived frightened, displaced, and exhausted, and the response inside the Shamosh home was immediate and uncomplicated – the door opened. Only years later would the family fully understand that those early acts of assistance established the foundation for a far larger rescue operation that would eventually help thousands of Syrian Jews escape persecution and rebuild their lives elsewhere.

The knocks frequently came in the middle of the night. Sometimes they were urgent and frantic, while other times they were hesitant, as though even approaching the house carried danger. Inside the home, however, explanations were rarely necessary. “They didn’t have to say who they were,” Aharon Shamosh says. “We already knew.” Standing outside were families who had left behind homes in Aleppo, Damascus, and villages they would never see again. Mothers carried exhausted children who had cried themselves into silence, while fathers attempted to guide their families through journeys whose outcomes they themselves could not predict. The families arrived in darkness uncertain of almost everything except the hope that someone on the other side of the door would help them continue forward. In Iskenderun, that hope was rarely misplaced.

A House That Became a Passage

Long before the rescue of Syrian Jewry became publicly discussed or historically documented, there was already a quiet understanding circulating among those searching for a way out. If someone could reach Iskenderun and locate the Shamosh family home, help would be waiting there.

“There was no sign outside,” Aharon says. “Nothing official. But people knew.”

From the street, the house appeared totally ordinary. It carried none of the markers one might associate with political importance or historical significance. Yet, for thousands of Jews fleeing Syria over the years, it became the narrow space between danger and safety. It was not a permanent shelter, nor did it erase the uncertainty that still lay ahead, but it offered something essential to people whose options had nearly disappeared – the possibility of continuing the journey.

The Rabbi Who Stayed

In 1932, Rabbi Yaakov Shamosh was sent from Aleppo to serve the small Jewish community in Iskenderun.

“My father came as a rabbi, hazzan, and shohet,”  Aharon explains.

At the time, communities like Iskenderun depended heavily on rabbinic figures who often functioned not only as spiritual leaders, but also as trusted intermediaries between families, local authorities, and communal institutions. That position of trust would later prove invaluable as the political climate in Syria deteriorated and escape routes became increasingly dangerous.

Aharon was born in Iskenderun in 1936, on the second night of Hanukah, into a household that would gradually transform from a modest rabbinic home into a critical transit point for Jews attempting to flee Syria. What began as communal leadership evolved into something far greater, requiring discretion, courage, logistical coordination, and an unwavering sense of responsibility toward people who arrived with nowhere else to turn. The work was never framed inside the family as heroism or political activism. It was understood instead as obligation, the natural extension of responsibility toward fellow Jews trying to escape from increasingly dangerous conditions.

The Geography That Made Rescue Possible

Understanding the significance of the Shamosh home requires understanding the geography surrounding it. Iskenderun occupies a uniquely strategic position along the northeastern curve of the Mediterranean Sea, where the coastline bends sharply inward and mountain ranges begin separating Turkey from Syria. In this region, borders were never merely abstract political lines. They shaped daily life, identity, commerce, and survival itself.

To the south lay Syria, home to ancient Jewish communities in cities such as Aleppo and Damascus, where conditions for Jews were becoming increasingly restrictive and dangerous. To the north and west stood Turkey, with access to ports, rail lines, and Istanbul, offering one of the few possible corridors outward.

Before 1939, the region had been part of the Sanjak of Alexandretta under French administration as part of Mandate Syria. Following political negotiations, referendums, and territorial restructuring, the area was absorbed into Turkey and became what is now Hatay Province. That transition did more than redraw maps. It created a narrow and highly sensitive passageway that could still, under the right circumstances, allow movement across borders.

“My father was very close with the governor,” Aharon recalls.

In an environment where loyalties, jurisdictions, and identities remained fluid, personal relationships often mattered more than formal systems. Access mattered. Trust mattered. The ability to navigate shifting political realities quietly and carefully became essential for survival.

At one point, local officials were reportedly discussing what the newly absorbed region should be called. “They asked what name they should give it,” Aharon says. Rabbi Shamosh suggested a name rooted in the area’s ancient history, referencing the Hittites who once inhabited the region centuries earlier. The adapted version of that name, Hatay, remains in use today.

The detail may appear small, but it reveals something larger about Rabbi Shamosh’s standing within the region. The same man quietly helping Jews escape through his home was also trusted enough to participate in conversations shaping the identity of the province itself. As conditions worsened in Syria, that fragile geographic opening would become one of the only remaining pathways out.

The First Arrivals

At first, only a small number of people came. Then, the numbers grew steadily.

“They came to our home,” Aharon says. “Thousands. My father was in the center.”

There was no official infrastructure supporting the operation in the beginning. No formal organization, public network, or institutional framework existed inside those walls. What existed instead was a willingness to help, a trusted location, and a family prepared to assume enormous personal risk in order to keep people moving.

The arrivals frequently took place at night, when refugees would appear exhausted and physically worn down by travel, fear, and uncertainty. “They came dirty,” Aharon remembers. “After everything.” Mud-covered shoes. Dust-covered clothing. Children were sometimes asleep in their parents’ arms, while others remained wide awake, silently observing every movement around them. According to Aharon, explanations were often unnecessary because the emotional condition of the people entering the house communicated everything that needed to be understood.

“They didn’t need to speak,” he says. “You could see…”

Inside, the response remained immediate and practical. Families were brought in without delay, given food and water, allowed to wash, and provided clean clothing and a place to rest before the next phase of their journey began. There were no lengthy questions and no hesitation about whether they would be helped. The understanding inside the home was already clear long before the refugees crossed the threshold.

From Impromptu Shelter to Organized System

Over time, what began as spontaneous humanitarian assistance evolved into a far more coordinated process. Refugees arrived under different circumstances and with varying levels of documentation.

“Some had passports,” Aharon explains. “Others had no documents at all.”

During that period, certain forms of identification sometimes allowed movement even without formal passports, creating opportunities for carefully coordinated transit. In some cases, individuals who were not Iranian reportedly traveled using Iranian identification papers that enabled them to move more freely through parts of the region.

“With Iranian documents, they could move,” Aharon says.

From Syria, refugees would pass through Aleppo and continue toward Iskenderun. From there, they traveled northward through Turkey, often by bus or train, eventually reaching Istanbul. “Bus, train, whatever [means of transportation] we had,” Aharon recalls. The process required careful coordination involving rabbinic contacts, consulates, transportation arrangements, and eventually assistance connected to the Jewish Agency. From Istanbul, refugees typically continued onward through Cyprus before ultimately reaching Israel.

“Step by step,” Aharon says of the journey to freedom. “Careful.”

Although Aharon himself never kept formal records, later figures shared with him by the Jewish Agency estimated that more than 3,500 Jews passed through the Shamosh home during the years of rescue activity. The operation gradually evolved from a series of improvised acts of assistance into a functioning underground passage system built almost entirely upon trust, relationships, and extraordinary discretion.

A Family Effort

Aharon emphasizes repeatedly that the work was never carried by one individual alone.

“It was all of us,” he says.

The effort involved brothers, children, extended relatives, and especially Aharon’ mother, who repeatedly undertook long and exhausting journeys while simultaneously raising their five children.

“She went many times,” he says.

Those trips could involve twenty hour bus rides across difficult terrain and under uncertain conditions. Yet within the family, the work was not spoken about in heroic terms. It was viewed instead as obligation, responsibility, and necessity. Everyone inside the household understood that helping others escape had become part of daily life, even when the risks involved were substantial.

When Danger Becomes Routine

Helping Jews escape Syria carried serious risks, both politically and personally. Aharon does not minimize the danger, but he describes how repeated exposure to that reality gradually transformed fear into routine.

“Yes,” he says when asked whether the work was dangerous. “But when you do it every day, it becomes normal.”

Over time, actions that might have terrified others became integrated into the rhythms of ordinary life within the Shamosh household. The secrecy, the late night arrivals, the transportation coordination, and the constant uncertainty gradually became part of the environment in which they lived.

The Mission of 84

Among the many operations Aharon recalls, one mission remained especially significant. In a village near Qamishli were 84 Jews who needed to leave Syria.

“Eighty-four,” he repeats.

At first, only sixty-one members of the group agreed to leave. The remaining twenty- three hesitated.

“They were afraid,” Aharon says.

The question soon emerged whether the operation should proceed with those prepared to escape while abandoning the others to be left behind. Aharon rejected the idea immediately.

“No,” he says. “[It would be] all or nothing.”

He was later summoned to Istanbul, where Baruch Duvdevani, who had reportedly just met with Golda Meir, delivered a direct message: “Tell Aharon, ‘I want 84.’”

Aharon understood the meaning immediately.

“I said, give me one month. I [will] bring all 84.”

The Operation

According to Aharon, persuading the remaining families to leave did not involve force. “It was understanding,” he says. Word quietly spread throughout the village that conditions were worsening and that leaving might soon become impossible. Fear intensified, but some families who could not bring themselves to abandon the only homes they had ever known still hesitated.

Late one night, there was a knock at the door of community members’ homes. Men appeared outside dressed in a way that resembled members of the mukhabarat, Syria’s feared intelligence apparatus.

“They were not,” Aharon says. “But it didn’t matter.”

The fear alone proved enough. Families moved quickly. Children were gathered. Doors opened. Decisions that had once felt impossible suddenly became urgent. According to Aharon, even the children understood enough to recognize that remaining behind was no longer an option.

“They didn’t understand everything,” he says. “But they knew they could not stay.”

Ultimately, all eighty-four members of the group left together.

The Journey Out

The journey was physically demanding and emotionally exhausting. Families traveled north from villages deep inside Syria, sometimes by foot and sometimes by vehicle, making their way toward the Turkish border across dry inland terrain that gradually shifted into the mountainous coastal geography surrounding Iskenderun.

The trip to the border alone could take ten or eleven hours. From Iskenderun, refugees then continued through southern Turkey by bus or train toward Istanbul, a journey that often lasted close to twenty hours.

Istanbul represented more than another stop along the route. It served as a transitional space between worlds, where refugees could finally begin preparing for the next stage of their lives. There they were received, cleaned, assisted, and organized for onward travel through Cyprus and eventually into Israel. Each phase of the journey carried them farther away from the lives they had known and closer to uncertain but possible futures.

Of the 84 individuals who departed together, 83 ultimately arrived safely. One elderly man in his nineties did not survive the journey.

The Memory That Stayed

Certain moments remained permanently etched in Aharon’s memory, particularly one involving a mother and her three children who had been turned back while attempting to cross the border. Between Syria and Turkey stretched isolated areas filled with abandoned structures, empty terrain, and long stretches of silence where people could disappear without anyone knowing. It was there, in that uncertain space between countries, that Aharon eventually found the woman hiding with her children.

“Hiding,” he recalls. “Holding her children.”

According to Aharon, the woman was crying quietly when he reached her. The children remained close beside her, exhausted and frightened after the failed crossing attempt. When she finally saw him, he immediately tried to reassure her that she would not be abandoned there alone.

“I told her, ‘It’s okay. I’m here.’”.

Even decades later, the memory still affects Aharon. He pauses while describing the encounter and reflects on how narrow the margin truly was.

“If I had been late by one hour, she’d have been gone.”

The woman’s name was Gracia Jamal. At the time, her son was only three years old. Today, that young boy has children of his own, part of a generation that exists because someone continued searching long after others might have stopped.

The Recognition That Came Later

The Shamosh family never accepted payment for their work.

“I do this for Heaven,” Aharon recalls his father saying.

Over the years, however, recognition gradually came from Israeli leaders and institutions. Following the rescue of the group of eighty-four, Aharon met Golda Meir.

“When I came to her,” he says, “she hugged me.”

Years later, Shimon Peres honored the family for their efforts. More recently, President Isaac Herzog received Aharon and even showed him the small synagogue located inside the presidential residence.

“They respected us,” he says.

For Aharon, that recognition carried deep meaning, not because of prestige, but because it acknowledged sacrifices made quietly over decades without expectation of reward or public attention.

What Remains

Today, entire families exist because someone opened a door in the middle of the night and chose to help strangers continue forward.

“People come to me,” Aharon says. “They tell me, you don’t remember us. But we remember you.”

He says this matter-of-factly, without dramatics or a show of self-importance. Yet, the implications are enormous. The communities that later flourished in Israel, Brooklyn, Deal, and elsewhere did not emerge in isolation. They were built upon countless unseen decisions, risks, and acts of responsibility carried out quietly by people who expected neither recognition nor reward.

From the coastal edge of Iskenderun to the communities where Syrian Jewish families rebuilt their lives, the journey never truly ended. It continued through generations, carried forward by those who once stood outside a stranger’s home hoping someone would answer the door. A community is ultimately defined not only by what it builds, but by what it chooses to preserve and carry forward. In the case of the Shamosh family, that legacy began with a simple but transformative act repeated thousands of times over many years: when the knock came, they opened the door.

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