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Community Highlights – The Miracles of Renewal: A Father and Son’s Unbreakable Bond

Years ago, Rabbi Mordechai Besser held his newborn son Donny for the first time, overwhelmed with gratitude to Hashem for the gift of life. He never imagined that one day, that same son would return the very same gift.

After being diagnosed with stage four kidney disease, Rabbi Mordechai Besser faced an uncertain future. His strength, always rooted in faith, was now tested in a deeply personal way. When his son Donny learned about his father’s condition, there was no hesitation. He immediately began testing and soon discovered he was a perfect match.

On the day of the surgery, as father and son entered the hospital together, the moment felt nothing short of divine. Years ago, Rabbi Mordechai Besser had given his son the gift of life. Now, Donny was returning that life back to him. A full circle of love, devotion, and gratitude spanning generations.

Reflecting on the experience, Rabbi Besser shared movingly: “When a child is born, there are three partners: mother, father, and Hashem. Today, as I receive this gift from my son, I feel reborn. Once again, there are three partners: Hashem, my son Donny, and Renewal.”

Their story is more than a medical miracle. It’s a testament to faith, family, and the unbreakable bond between parent and child. Through Hashem’s guiding hand and the tireless efforts of Renewal, what began as a father’s love has come full circle, transforming into a son’s act of ultimate kindness.

For more information about Renewal, please contact AJ Gindi at 718.431.9831 ext. 214 or  732.996.4040. 

Brooklyn Faces Surge in Anti-Jewish Vandalism Amid NYC Mayoral Transition

Brooklyn authorities are on high alert after a series of anti-Semitic incidents, including swastika graffiti at Magen David Yeshivah and Washington Cemetery, was captured on surveillance footage. The suspect, dressed in black with a face covering, remains at large, and the NYPD Hate Crimes Task Force is leading the investigation.

The vandalism occurred shortly after Zohran Mamdani was declared New York City’s mayor-elect, prompting condemnation from Mamdani, Gov. Kathy Hochul, and other political leaders.

Local safety groups, particularly the Flatbush Shomrim Patrol, played a crucial role in responding. Shomrim, a volunteer neighborhood watch, alerted authorities, reviewed surveillance footage, and assisted the community in covering the graffiti with Israeli flags.

Officials are urging anyone with information to come forward. Republican Rep. Nicole Malliotakis and Democratic State Sen. Sam Sutton condemned the attacks, while Jewish organizations highlighted the troubling timing following the mayoral election.

As investigations continue, Flatbush Shomrim’s role demonstrates how community-led vigilance complements law enforcement efforts, offering both practical support and a visible symbol of solidarity for Jewish residents.

Magen David Launches Dynamic New “Corporate Public Speaking” Program for Seniors

Seniors engage in Corporate Public Speaking training with Mr. Alan Kishk.

Magen David Yeshiva High School proudly announces the launch of an exciting new addition to its NEXT Senior Internship Program – Corporate Public Speaking.

Last month, seniors participated in an interactive series of workshops led by Mr. Alan Kishk, designed to elevate their presentation skills, professional communication, and confidence in public speaking. These hands-on sessions will prepare students for success in college, the workplace, and beyond, with a focus on real-world communication techniques such as crafting elevator pitches, delivering strong interview introductions, and mastering leadership-style presentations.

This innovative initiative represents a significant step forward in Magen David Yeshiva’s commitment to equipping students with the skills and poise necessary for their next chapter. By fostering confidence, professionalism, and articulate self-expression, the school continues to prepare its seniors to become the polished, career-ready leaders of tomorrow.

Living Emunah – I Can’t Believe I Did This

Rabbi David Ashear

Every moment of life is precious. With a moment of life, a person can perform a mitzvah, offer a prayer to Hashem, learn a word of Torah, or give a dollar to tzedakah. We have no idea how valuable our deeds are, and how far-reaching.

The pasuk says (Yeshayah 49:21), “You will say in your heart, ‘Who bore these to me?’” The Kedushat Levi explains that sometimes we do mitzvot that come so easily and naturally to us that we don’t even consider them to be mitzvot. But in the future, Hashem is going to show every one of us how great our deeds were and how much they accomplished. We will be so overwhelmed that we will exclaim, I can’t believe I did all this!”

In 1938, a man named Sir Nicholas Winton single-handedly rescued 669 Jewish children from perishing in the Holocaust. He successfully brought them from Czechoslovakia to Great Britain and helped find homes for all how much they of them; most of their parents perished in Auschwitz. Winton never mentioned this heroic feat to anyone.

Fifty years later, his wife found a notebook in their attic, containing the names and pictures of all the children he saved. She gave it to a journalist. When word of his heroism was heard, people wanted to honor him.

Without being apprised of the purpose of the event, Sir Nicholas was invited to a large banquet hall. When he entered, the entire crowd rose to their feet and began applauding. He was told that the attendees in the ballroom were those whose lives he had saved five decades earlier. Now adults, they had all come to thank him personally.

The honoree became very emotional at the awesome sight of what he had accomplished. Had he been familiar with the pasuk in Yeshayah, he could have cried, “Who bore these to me”? I can’t believe what I have done?”

One of the chasidei umot haolam – a righteous non-Jew – Sir Nicholas died in 2015, at the ripe old age of 106. May his memory be blessed.

We can never really know what we accomplish with every mitzvah we do. Hashem keeps track of our every deed and thought. In the future, a person will be shown the effect each of his prayers had. He might discover that he saved lives, gave someone a livelihood, preserved marriages, and much more. If a person brought someone close to religion, in the future he will see how his efforts bore fruit. Generations of Jews will go in the ways of Hashem because of a few words he once said. If one gave chizuk to others, thereby enabling them to go on with their lives happily and to serve Hashem, he will see the extraordinary impact of his words. He will then exclaim, “ I can’t believe what I did!”

Every mitzvah we do brings benefit to the world and blessings to Am Yisrael, and provides protection from harm. We have no idea of the extent of even one mitzvah. Therefore, we need to appreciate the opportunity Hashem gives us and take advantage of every moment to accomplish all we can.

Yossi Bitton: A Journey of Color, Soul, and Vision, Arriving in the US for an Exclusive Winter Art Tour

There are artists who master technique, and then there are artists who master emotion. Yossi Bitton belongs to the rare second group, artists who create not merely with their hands, but with their heart. His paintings exude warmth, presence, and an inner radiance that makes them both timeless and unmistakably modern.

Born in the mystical city of Tzfat, surrounded by the energy of ancient stones and spiritual melody, Bitton’s artistic voice grew from a deep well of inner sensitivity. His journey to becoming one of Israel’s most beloved contemporary artists was not a matter of academic training, but a path paved with emotion, intuition, and a lifelong pursuit of meaning.

Those who encounter his work describe a unique experience, a blend of serenity and intensity, of motion and stillness. His canvases are alive. They shimmer with layers of color, storytelling, and the kind of spiritual resonance that lingers long after one steps away.

Over the years, Bitton’s reputation has expanded beyond Israel’s borders. His works are sought after by collectors, designers, and galleries across the world. And yet, despite his growing international presence, his art remains deeply personal, rooted in his connection to history, heritage, and the Jewish spirit.

This winter Yossi Bitton embarks on an exclusive US Art Tour, a series of boutique exhibitions across New York, New Jersey, Passaic, Lakewood, Monsey, the Five Towns, Brooklyn, Queens, and Manhattan. These stops are carefully chosen communities where art, culture, and connection meet, offering the perfect backdrop for Bitton’s expressive and deeply moving creations.

What makes these winter exhibitions so unique is their intimacy. Unlike large commercial fairs, these events are personal, curated, and crafted to offer visitors time, space, and meaningful engagement with the works. The tour brings Bitton’s art directly to the people, not in distant galleries but in warm and welcoming environments where viewers can connect closely with the pieces, ask questions, hear the stories behind the canvases, and experience the atmosphere of the artwork without distraction.

This is more than an art show; it is an encounter. Each exhibition presents a rare opportunity to stand in front of pieces that breathe with emotion and depth. Whether it’s a vibrant depiction of ancient Jerusalem bathed in golden light, the soulful aura of Rachel’s Tomb, the bold interplay of blues and whites in abstract compositions, or a moment of contemplation captured through delicate brushwork, each painting invites the viewer on a journey inward.

These winter exhibitions hold a special charm: the timing, the atmosphere, and the season itself. As the cold settles over New York and New Jersey, Bitton’s art brings warmth. The colors glow brighter, the textures feel richer, and the emotional resonance deepens. There is something powerful about witnessing spiritual, luminous artwork during winter, a time when people naturally seek meaning, beauty, and inspiration. Bitton’s paintings provide all that and more, creating a haven of light amid the season’s stillness.

Another defining element of these exhibitions is the direct interaction they encourage. This personal touch makes each encounter feel exclusive and memorable — an opportunity to see not only the artwork but the work behind it.

The exhibitions will also showcase some of Bitton’s newest pieces, works that reflect his evolving style while maintaining his signature elements of movement, depth, and spirituality. Each painting is meticulously crafted, layered with meaning, and infused with emotional clarity. For collectors, this tour offers an ideal moment to discover new works and acquire pieces that are both visually stunning and deeply meaningful.

For those who wish to stay connected, ask questions, or inquire about specific artworks, communication is simple and direct. The team is available via WhatsApp at +972587703666 and the artist’s full gallery of works, special collections, and updates can be viewed on yossibittonart.com.

As this winter tour unfolds, the message of Yossi Bitton’s art shines clearly: beauty is a language of the soul. His paintings speak in tones of warmth, hope, and spiritual illumination. They invite us to pause, to feel, and to rediscover the light that resides within every moment.

And for those fortunate enough to encounter his work during this tour — the experience becomes not just memorable, but transformative.

To further explore Yossi bittons works visit his website at www.yossibittonart.com

Riddles – November 2025

RIDDLE: The River Crossing

Submitted by: Andrea S.

A farmer needs to cross a river with a wolf, a goat, and a cabbage.
He has a boat, but it can only carry him and one item at a time.
He can’t leave the wolf alone with the goat, or the goat alone with the cabbage. How does he get all three across safely?

Last Month’s Riddle: Eight is Enough

There is an 8-letter word that can have consecutive letters taken out and remain a complete word until only one letter is left? 

Solution: Starting, Staring, String, Sting, Sing, Sin, In, I.  

Solved by: Lily Sitt, Mark Esses, Steven Shammah, Family Blum, Alice Cohen, Big Mike, David Gindi, Mary F., and The Shmulster.

JUNIOR RIDDLE: The Ever-Increasing Word

Submitted by: Max P.

What 7-letter word contains thousands of letters?

Last Month’s Junior Riddle: WHAT AM I?

Almost everyone needs it, most certainly asks for it, but almost nobody takes it. What am I?

Solution: Advice!

Solved by: The Blum Family, Morris Kabani, The Big Cheese, David Gindi, Ezra Antar, Mrs. Feldman, The Shmulster, and Mary F.

The Lighter Side – November 2025

Keyboard Diagnosis

I told my friend my laptop was driving me crazy.
“The ‘A’ and ‘I’ keys always stick,” I said.
She quickly diagnosed the problem: “Your computer is suffering from irritable vowel syndrome.”

Jack B.

A Copy Catastrophe

A young executive found the CEO staring helplessly at the shredder.
“This is an important document,” the CEO said. “Can you make this machine work?”
“Of course,” said the executive, turning it on and feeding the paper in.
“Excellent!” the CEO beamed. “I just needed one copy.”

A.C.

Super Interview Skills

At a job interview, the manager asked, “What are your greatest strengths and weaknesses?”
The applicant replied,
“My main weakness is that I struggle with reality. I can’t always tell fantasy from real life.”
“And your strengths?”
“I’m Batman!”

Freddy C.

Delayed Payments

While shopping, Ari ran into a customer.
“Abe, you still owe me $1,000. When will I get it?”
“Don’t worry, Ari. You’ll get it tomorrow.”
“Oy, not again! You always say that, then call to say you can’t pay. Last week, last month, three months ago—”
“Enough already,” interrupted Abe. “Didn’t I call every time like I promised?”

Melanie E.

Tech Support Dad

My dad recently decided to become “tech-savvy,” which mostly means he now calls me every time his screen goes dark.

Last week, he called in a panic:
“Son, the internet is gone.”
“Gone?” I asked. “What do you mean?”
“The whole thing! I clicked something and now it’s just… white!”
I asked him to describe what he saw.
“There’s a little picture of a plug and it says ‘no connection.’”
“Dad,” I said, “you just unplugged the router.”
He paused and then said, completely serious:
“So… is there a button to plug it back in?”

Robert S.

Return to Sender

My grandfather doesn’t trust online shopping.
Last month, he accidentally ordered a sweater in the wrong size. Instead of returning it online, he took it to the post office and said,
“I’d like to un-buy this.”
The clerk tried to explain the return process. He shook his head and said,
“I paid real money. I want a real person to fix it.”
Eventually, the clerk helped him print a return label.
As he left, Grandpa turned back and said,
“You know, in my day, we used to go to a store, try something on, and if it didn’t fit… we just didn’t buy it in the first place. Revolutionary, huh?”

Nadine M.

Familiar Face in Court

As a judge, I once faced a defendant who looked strangely familiar.
I checked his record – a career criminal, except for one eight-year gap.
“Milton,” I asked, “how did you manage to stay out of trouble for eight years?”
“I was in prison,” he replied. “You should know – you put me there.”
“That’s impossible. I wasn’t even a judge back then.”
“No,” he said with a grin. “You were my lawyer.”

Hymie G.

The Seed Family

Q: What did Baby Seed say to Mommy Seed?
A: Where’s Poppy Seed?

David A.

K is for Confusion

Callie signed up for a Spanish class with a Hispanic teacher.
“I’m not familiar with your name,” he said. “Does it start with a K?”
“No,” she said. “It’s spelled with a C.”
From then on, he called her “Kallie.”

Fortune D.

Dream Vacation

Rachel asked her manager, David, for a day off.
He said, “There are 365 days in a year.
You get weekends off: that’s 104 days. Now we’re down to 261.
You sleep 16 hours a day? That’s 170 more gone – only 91 left.
Coffee breaks take 23 days. Lunch adds up to 46. Now just 22.
You get 2 sick days. 5 holidays. 14 vacation days.
That leaves just 1 day of actual work.
And now you want that one off?”

Abie F.

The GPS Knows Too Much

My car’s GPS has developed a personality. I swear it’s passive-aggressively judging me.

Last week, I missed a turn and it calmly said, “Recalculating… again.”
Then I got stuck in traffic and it muttered, “This would have been avoided if we took my route.”
Then yesterday, I stopped at the drive-thru for fries.
The GPS just went silent. Totally quiet.
Finally, after three minutes of judgmental silence, it said,
“Proceed to the highlighted route… and perhaps a salad.”

Lisa T.

A Letter Perfect Riddle

Q: What starts with a P, ends with an E, and has thousands of letters?
A: The post office!

Sharon P.

Line Cutter Justice

It was the morning of a big tech sale, and the line was out the door by 8:30am.
A small man tried to push to the front, but was quickly shoved back.
On his second try, he was punched and thrown to the end of the line again.
Dusting himself off, he muttered,
“If they hit me one more time, I’m not opening the store.”

Marty J.

Identity Confirmed

At checkout, the clerk noticed I hadn’t signed my credit card.
“I can’t complete the transaction unless your card is signed,” she said.
So I signed the card in front of her.
She compared it to the receipt I had just signed.
They matched.
Phew!

Nathan H.

Hard to Tell

A mechanic friend loaned me a junker while I saved for a car.
It was so beat up, even its dents had dents.
One afternoon, I saw a police officer and a woman inspecting it.
“I saw her hit your car,” said the officer, “but I can’t figure out where.”

Esther K.

Beachside Wisdom

Savta Esther, a tough Israeli grandmother, was at the beach with her grandkids when a man approached.
“Please, Geveret,” he begged, “I haven’t eaten all day.”
She looked him up and down and said,
“Good. Now you won’t get cramps when you go swimming.”

Rena B.

Doggy Daycare Drama

We took our new puppy to doggy daycare. When we picked him up, the woman at the counter handed him over and whispered, “He’s… very spirited.”

Spirited?” I asked. “Like… playful?”
She said, “More like… he started a revolution in the small dog room.”
Apparently, while we were enjoying a peaceful lunch, our puppy had convinced the others to dig a tunnel under the fence, chew through three toys, and redistribute all the treats “fairly.”
We asked what we should do.
She said, “Maybe… obedience school. Or politics.”

Joey L.

Exploring the Wonders of the Human Anatomy

What Do Our Bones Do?

There are more than 200 bones in the human body, and the bones are all connected to form the skeleton. It is your skeleton that supports you, protects you, and gives your body its shape. Not only does the skeleton prevent you from collapsing into a Jello-like blob, it is a movable frame that helps you stand, walk, run, jump, lift, and push.

Bones also protect the soft organs inside your body. For example, the bony skull protects your brain, while your ribs protect your heart and lungs. But your bones don’t do everything themselves; many bones are joined together by muscles. Bones and muscles work together to enable you to move.

Bones are far from solid — otherwise your skeleton would be five times heavier! Each bone has an outer shell of a very strong, dense substance, called compact bone. The inside, called spongy bone, is porous and has hollow spaces within it, like a sponge. It is still strong, but its structure makes bones slightly flexible. The spaces within the spongy bone contain red bone marrow, which is where most of your blood cells are made.

Another function of the bones is to store vital minerals, such as calcium, which the body uses when needed.

What Happens When You Break a Bone?

Broken bones are common medical emergencies for children. Fortunately, and incredibly, your body can heal broken bones all by itself!

When you fracture (break) a bone, your body gets to work producing new bone cells, which will help heal the break. Of course you need a doctor to help it along. He’ll give you a cast or sling to make sure that the bone heals straight and properly.

A broken bone heals in stages. When the bone first breaks, the area gets swollen, as your blood clots to stop the bleeding at the fracture site. Next, collagen fibers start to grow over the broken area. The collagen, together with cartilage (a flexible, connective tissue), bridges the gap between the two sides of the break. This bridge will continue to form and harden until the bone is healed. While the bone is healing, it can’t take the stress that a normal bone can, which is why people use crutches and slings to take the pressure off the bone while it’s healing.

There are several different types of fractures. A complete fracture occurs when a bone is broken all the way through into two pieces. Greenstick fractures happen when a bone cracks only on one side. If a bone breaks and then protrudes through the skin, it’s called an open fracture. Depending on the type of fracture and the size of the bone, the bone may heal in as little as a couple of weeks or in as long as a couple of months or more.

The collarbone is the most commonly broken bone among children, while when adults break a bone, it’s most commonly a bone in the arm.

Voices of Vision – November 2025

Ellen Geller Kamaras

“I love games and logic puzzles, and career counseling feels like the ultimate version of both. At the same time, it’s deeply meaningful because I get to guide people toward recognizing what makes them truly unique. It’s the perfect mix of challenge, fun, and fulfillment.” ~~ Caroll ~~

Please meet Caroll Dweck Sutton. Caroll was born and raised in Brooklyn and attended Yeshivah of Flatbush from first through twelfth grade. Her parents, Paulette and Jack Dweck, are both Flatbush graduates as well. Caroll, named after her grandmother, who also spells her name with two L’s, has three younger siblings. “My personality is very much [that of] an oldest child, and my siblings are my best friends.”

Extremely social, Caroll shared her mom’s recollections of Caroll making friends immediately wherever they went. When she was three years old, her mother took her to the beach and reportedly within five seconds she was digging holes with kids she had never met.

Caroll absolutely loved school and took it very seriously. She was Salutatorian of both her high school and college graduating classes, but she also made sure to have a lot of fun. She participated in every extracurricular activity from sports to the dance team to Model UN and student government, and kept up a very active social life.

After high school graduation, Caroll studied psychology at Macaulay Honors College at Hunter.

She earned two graduate degrees at Columbia University (Teachers College), a Master of Arts in Mental Health Counseling and an Ed.M. in Psychological Education.

Her Essence

Caroll describes herself as outgoing, fun-loving, adventurous, competitive, and a doer. “I am most definitely a thrill seeker. I have jumped out of planes and dived with great white sharks – no relaxing on the beach for me on vacations!”

Her friends and family would definitely tell us that Caroll loves games! She is super competitive and will play any game at any time – sports, board games, you name it. “I can spend hours upon hours figuring out logic puzzles without sleeping or eating. More than playing games, I also love to make up games. If it’s someone’s birthday or other celebration, I’ll create a funny game about that person.”

Caroll views herself as an “all-around camper.” Why a camper? Camp was her very favorite environment, and her interests and skills are all over the place. “I love switching activities every 45 minutes, and color war is me in a nutshell. If I won the lottery and could do anything forever, I would be a camper, no question.”

Career Trajectory

While Caroll was attending grad school, she volunteered at The Propel Network and was a Young Leadership Board member. PROPEL is a community nonprofit organization that enables women to enter the workforce by providing career guidance, educational coaching, and ongoing mentoring, and by guiding women to enroll in training, professional, and higher education.

At PROPEL, Caroll was responsible for developing programming for first-generation working women including panels, seminar-based discussion groups, and individual career coaching.

After completing graduate school, she was hired by Flatbush Yeshivah High School for two positions, the Pathfinders Department Director and AP Psychology teacher.

Through the Pathfinders Program, students are encouraged to discover and expand their special talents and abilities and explore career options for the future.

Among her many functions as Pathfinders Department Director, Caroll – along with her amazing team – created and organized programs including a Career Day with over 40 presenters, resume writing workshops, dozens of curated professional speakers and career-based trips. They provided individual career counseling to high school students and developed clubs and commissions for student growth.

“I had a phenomenal psychology teacher in high school, Erika Levavi, who really made the material come to life. After that class, not only did I want to become a psychologist, but it was my dream to teach AP Psychology. I was honored to teach AP Psych for six years alongside Erika, which was a real dream come true.”

For close to a year, Caroll was a mental health counselor at the SBH Counseling Clinic. At SBH, she did individualized therapy with clients with disorders such as generalized anxiety and major depression, and Caroll co-facilitated art therapy for geriatric women.

Taking on the Reins as Executive Director of PROPEL

Last June, Caroll left Flatbush Yeshivah to become the Executive Director of PROPEL.

She is thrilled to see how the community members support one another, especially the entrepreneurs. For example, experienced interior designers will mentor aspiring designers and teach them about pricing models. Or an established fitness instructor might help a newcomer

figure out how to structure group classes to build both community and income. Instead of viewing their mentees as competition, they give them the tools to thrive to strengthen the community at large.

Caroll is energized and in awe of working with such powerful and successful women. PROPEL recently launched a podcast called Chapters.. In each episode, they dive into the highs, lows, and turning points that shaped the careers of trailblazing community women.

PROPEL has changed over the last ten years. When PROPEL was established, the majority of its clients were a little older They were women who needed to enter the workforce for financial reasons such as divorce or their husbands’ losing jobs. Later came an influx of younger women who wanted careers, and PROPEL’s demographic changed.

Passions

On a professional level, career counseling is Caroll’s passion. In graduate school, the class she took in career counseling was her favorite.

Caroll thrives on helping people find their unique strengths. The clients she most loves to work with are the ones who have no clue as to what they want to do in the future. “It’s deeply meaningful for me because I get to guide people toward recognizing what makes them truly unique. It’s the perfect mix of challenge, fun, and fulfillment.”

Caroll’s proudest accomplishments are the little moments, such as running into a client on the street and hearing that she landed her dream job or chose a career path because of a conversation they once had.

What really lights up Caroll is coaching women, in particular. That is the demographic she is most impassioned about. When Caroll was growing up, she often heard girls say, “Why work so hard if I’m just going to be a mom?” She is dedicated to supporting young girls and women as they navigate the complexities of wanting to be incredible mothers and also pursue meaningful careers that contribute to the world and their finances.

Role Models

Caroll’s mother Paulette deeply shaped the woman she is today. “My mom was a huge role model for me: she had a career and was still a phenomenal homemaker and mother.”

Paulette owned an accessories business, decorated swanees and other occasions, and then switched to real estate sales, which she is still actively involved in.

Other significant female mentors in Caroll’s life include Shifra Hanon, the creator of the Pathfinders Department at Yeshivah of Flatbush High School, Dr. Gayle Krost, the President of Propel Network, and Viviane Darwish, the Director of Operations at PROPEL.

It’s no surprise that both Shifra and Gayle have been featured in this column. Who knows, Viviane may be next!

Family and Work-Life Balance

Caroll is married to Ovadia Sutton. The couple has two daughters, Aura, two years old and Paulette, seven months. “During high school, I learned to juggle and manage a million things at once. Those skills help me every day as a working mom.”

Work was a breeze for Caroll before she had children. As a mother, one of her greatest challenges is if her nanny doesn’t show up or she quits. “If I don’t have the proper support for my kids, I can’t be the person I want to be for my clients and colleagues. It’s something I am trying to figure out for myself and the community at large.”

At PROPEL, Caroll oversees the career coaches and volunteer mentors and plans business and career-related events. She appreciates the flexibility she has at PROPEL to pick up her daughter from nursery and to work remotely part time. Caroll works in person some days and evenings, especially when she runs programs or workshops.

For fun, Caroll enjoys sports (volleyball, tennis, and skiing) and connecting with friends. When her children are in elementary school, she looks forward to being a PTA mom.

Advice for Young Women

Learn about yourself, who you are. Do new things and try new experiences.

You can connect with Caroll at Caroll@thepropelnetwork.org. Please check out thepropelnetwork.org and follow @propelnetwork on Instagram and Caroll’s Instagram page, @careersbycaroll.

Ellen Geller Kamaras, CPA/MBA, is an International Coach Federation (ICF) Associate Certified Coach. Her coaching specialties include life, career, and dating coaching. Ellen can be contacted at ellen@lifecoachellen.com.

Once Upon A Thyme – Dark Chocolate Almond Butter Cups

Adina Yaakov

There’s something deeply satisfying about treats made with simple, nourishing ingredients, and this recipe delivers just that. Using high quality dark chocolate not only adds rich, complex flavor but also provides antioxidants and minerals like magnesium and iron. Paired with pure almond butter, natural maple syrup, and a touch of plant based milk, these almond butter cups are a deliciously wholesome alternative to processed sweets. No fillers, no artificial ingredients, just real food, thoughtfully combined.

Ingredients:

● 20 oz. dark chocolate (65 to 72 percent cocoa)

● 1 tbsp coconut oil

● 1/4 cup oat milk (or almond milk)

● 2 cups almond butter

● 1/4 cup pure maple syrup

● Flaky sea salt

Instructions:

1. Melt Bottom Chocolate Layer:

○ In a double boiler, melt half (10 oz.) of the chocolate with ½ tablespoon coconut oil.

○ Once smooth, gently stir in the oat or almond milk.

○ Transfer melted chocolate into a zip top bag, snip a small corner, and pipe into the bottoms of paper lined muffin cups (standard or mini size).

○ Gently tap the tray to spread the chocolate evenly on the bottom.

○ Place the tray in the freezer for 5 to 10 minutes, until set.

2. Make Almond Butter Filling:

○ In a bowl, mix together almond butter and maple syrup.

○ Stir until fully combined and smooth.

3. Add Almond Butter Layer:

○ Spoon or pipe about 1 tsp of the almond butter mixture into each chocolate lined cup.

○ Press down gently to flatten the filling without breaking the chocolate layer underneath.

4. Melt Top Chocolate Layer:

○ Melt the remaining 10 oz. chocolate using the double boiler. Add remaining ½ tablespoon coconut oil and mix.

○ Once melted and smooth, spoon it over the almond butter layer in each cup.

○ Gently shake or tap the tray so the top layer settles flat and smooth.

5. Finish & Chill:

○ Sprinkle a pinch of flaky sea salt on each cup.

○ Chill in the fridge or freezer until fully set (about 15 to 30 minutes).

A Historic Journey: U.S. and Israeli Delegation Visits Jewish Sites in Syria

Dave Gordon

A delegation of Jews from the U.S. and Israel took advantage of the relaxing of tensions in Syria to pay a historic visit to Damascus last month.

This was an unimaginable venture not long ago, especially for Israeli citizens. The trip served as a vehicle for goodwill outreach, reconnection to lost Jewish heritage, and the startling possibility of new beginnings.

Asher Lopatin, an Orthodox rabbi from Michigan, spearheaded the trip sponsored by the Syrian government. Participants included Carl Gershman, the founding president of the National Endowment for Democracy and a former U.S. representative to the UN Security Council, Jill Joshowitz, a historian of Jewish visual culture, Prof. Lawrence Schiffman, professor of Hebrew and Judaic Studies at New York University and director of the Global Institute for Advanced Research in Jewish Studies, Marlene Schiffman, Rabbi Mendy Chitrik, born in Safed, currently the rabbi of Turkey’s Ashkenazi community and the chairman of the Alliance of Rabbis in Islamic States, Rabbi Asher Lopatin, Steven Dishler, Assistant VP of International and Public Affairs at the Jewish United Fund of Metropolitan Chicago and former lieutenant in the IDF, Adin Kleinfeldt co-founder of Youngfeldt Holdings, and David Horovitz, Times of Israel editor.

The trip was coordinated from Syria by Syrian-born American Joe Jajati, the grandson of a former leader of Syria’s Jewish community who has established the Syrian Mosaic Foundation, which aims “to unite Syrians and global supporters in celebrating our diversity and building a brighter future.”

Tourists with a Purpose

The visitors moved through a city marked by a Jewish history that once numbered tens of thousands but is now reduced to only six residents clinging to fading memories and crumbling cemeteries.

Through tightly controlled visits to sites such as the Eliyahu Hanavi Synagogue and the Elfaranje Synagogue – historic sanctuaries once central to Syrian Jewry – the visitors pieced together a portrait of a community that has been nearly erased.

At the centuries-old Jewish cemetery, the group prayed together, underscoring both the endurance and fragility of communal memory. One poignant episode unfolded as the group saw the recovered doors of the Menarsha synagogue, stolen in recent years and now objects of both state pride and communal nostalgia.

Dura-Europos Synagogue Murals

Perhaps the emotional high point arrived with a visit to see the Dura-Europos Synagogue murals – 2,000-year-old Biblical wall paintings renowned as the earliest known figurative depictions in a synagogue. Normally off-limits, the group was granted privileged access to this “sacred chamber,” a brush with antiquity that momentarily unites past and present. Museum officials even revealed salvaged relics from synagogues destroyed in the recent Syrian Civil War, vowing restoration in the future.

Despite the presence of uniformed guards and carefully orchestrated encounters, the group’s openly wearing of kippot and tallitot in public was met with curiosity, smiles, and even requests for selfies – a tableau suggesting that, at least in these controlled circumstances, old enemies can briefly become benign onlookers. Encounters were described as uniformly warm, upending stereotypes and hinting at undercurrents of change even as official policies remain rigid.

Damascus at a Crossroads

The travelogue closes with a city at a crossroads: Damascus, still wary, still scarred, but beginning to tentatively acknowledge its lost Jews – and opening the door, however slightly, to a new dialogue. The group spent only forty-eight hours in Damascus, which was a very short time to try to take in decades of history, heartbreak, and hope. The trip included a blur of lost sanctuaries, guarded optimism, and the stubborn possibility of something new taking root amid the ruins.

Speaking to Community Magazine is Prof. Lawrence Schiffman, who offers an astonishing eyewitness chronicle – revealing the silent persistence of memory, and the slightly surreal promise that even the most unlikely journeys can open up surprising new opportunities.

Below are the highlights of our exclusive interview with Prof. Schiffman.

CM: How did you connect to the trip and why did you think it was important to go?

It was suggested by my former student, Jill Joshua. But mainly, she initially had interest in t the Dura -Europos Synagogue (with remains from the 3rd century). She told me there was a chance to go to Damascus and see the synagogue and I was on [board] before I even knew what the whole thing was about. Then I realized that it [the trip] was something very valuable, and [I]

wanted to participate in it. But initially it was the possibility to get to see the stuff that I would never otherwise be able to see.

CM: Did you fear for your safety?

No. First of all, I knew about security arrangements. And second of all, maybe I’m crazy, but I didn’t worry about it.

CM: What did security feel like for you on the ground?

We had four guys with rifles and some plain clothes guys. I don’t know if we needed that security but it was very reassuring.

Believe it or not, there were no traffic lights, and no stop signs anywhere in Damascus. They were apparently destroyed during the war. And whenever we got into a traffic jam, the security guys would jump out, push the traffic away until we got moving, jump back into their cars, and we would be off.

That’s mostly what they did. I’m sure they were doing their job as far as security, but I didn’t see anything risky. Admittedly, we were in a different situation because we were traveling in a bunch of fancy cars. But we didn’t feel anything negative anywhere.

We walked in the shuk, the open-air market, and one of the plain clothes security guards trailed us. We recognized him, of course, and we motioned to him to come and walk with us.

So, he walked with us a little bit. We didn’t feel in the shuk that there was any need for his protection. There were some people said, “Shalom,” when they realized we were Jews.

We didn’t feel any issue at all about being recognized as Jews. We also visited a police station where we were very nicely received. The police had just recovered two doors from a synagogue that had been stolen, and we wanted to see them. They gave us fruit. Then we hobnobbed a little with them. From the first minute that we after we got off the plane we were very well received, including our visit to an airport VIP room, where there were a variety of airport officials and other types there.

We went to the Jobar Synagogue (also known as Eliyahu Hanavi Synagogue, dating back 2,700 years). I would not suggest somebody going there without security, because it’s an abandoned room. [The synagogue was severely damaged in the Syrian Civil War in May 2014.] Any kind of criminal or whatever could easily hide there, wait for some poor visitor, get his wallet or something. It’s not a place to go to without some security or accompaniment. But other than at that place, we got the impression that there were a lot of nice people around, and we had no issues.

CM: Why do you think times have changed?

The first thing to realize is that it is very important to be careful of something. We met certain people and went certain places. We can’t testify about anybody else, right? So that’s the first point that I think is very important. I’m not claiming that there aren’t other people who are not like the ones we met, who, for all I know, may be anti-Semites, ISIS, or Hamas sympathizers.

I am only able to testify about the people we met, be it the government officials or just people who we happened to see.

So, I’m not in a position yet to claim that everything has changed. That’s the first point. Second of all, I have no comparison. I know this sounds funny, I don’t have any comparison. There are places in the Arab world where the anti-Israel feelings are rooted deeply in anti-Semitism, and that anti-Semitism seems to stem from the combination of the “second class citizen” nature of the Jew in Islamic thought and law, which then gets married to a kind of European anti-Semitism that was imported to the Middle East during the Holocaust period.

We encountered people who disagreed with Israeli policies very strongly. It was clear to us, in one of our meetings. with the Deputy Foreign Minister. He rationally explained their view about relations with Israel, and the hope for the security agreement that’s being worked on. But at the same time, they display very strong disagreement with some Israeli policies that can be separate from hating Jews.

I’ll tell you a funny story which illustrates [this]. We went to visit the Jewish cemetery, and we were wandering around there. We met a woman there who seems to maintain the cemetery.

Her house is right next to the cemetery, as is her backyard. Before I know it, I see that my wife is sitting with this woman’s family, and they’re drinking ice water that they brought out and they are talking to these people.

They were just nice people. They keep the cemetery. They probably get tips from people who visit. We did not experience animosity.

That is a really good sign for the future. Remember, we’re talking about our visit to the area that is controlled by the government. I think the majority of the territory is not controlled by the government. Remember that the entire north, the Kurdish north, and the southern Druze area don’t want to be part of the country yet. And in the eastern part of the country, closer to Iraq, the United States military is still battling ISIS. That doesn’t hit the news. So, when we talk about Syria, eventually, we will want to know what the approach of these other people is, as well. We know, of course, the Druze are all friends of Israel. And a Druze journalist interviewed me, and before he started the interview, he said, “I’m Druze. We love Israel, we hate Syria.”

CM: Do you think we’ll see Jewish tourism in Syria soon?

We’re going to be seeing Jewish tourism to Syria soon. They clearly want it. There’s a demand. I think that there’s a lot that has to happen to make it really possible, but I think they would like to see Jewish tourism. And more than that, they would like to see Jewish business. In a country that has to completely rebuild, there’s enormous economic opportunity there.

CM: What would have to happen for another Jewish group to go?

I think that we have to get to a point when there’s confidence in the security situation. I think it would be great if they sign the border agreement with Israel. That’s going to be good for everybody. And I think they know that will be a first step.

And some settling down has to occur. It’s kind of funny to say this, but I really don’t know anything at all about the infrastructure for tourism, like tourist guides and busses and the right kinds of hotels. I don’t know anything about that.

One important thing to remember is you can’t use your credit card there. The U.S. dropped the sanctions. Now what has to happen is, after the drop of the sanctions, various private enterprise and banking and financial transfers have to be possible. And you need to be able to use your cell phone, which only works now with Wi-Fi, because no company has service there.

CM: What for you was the standout part of the trip?

The standout part of the trip aesthetically was the opportunity to see the paintings from the Dura Europas synagogue. And of course, for others, the standout part of the trip was the chance to pray at the grave of Chaim Vital, to have the first minyan, and to meet the government officials who we met. And we met other wonderful people. Our group had a unified purpose. We understood our unified purpose, and we put it into effect successfully.

CM: What message would you send to people now, after having gone on the trip?

I would say the first thing is that we have to hope the notion of Syria reinstituting good relations with the Jewish community, which they certainly want, and better relations with Israel. It is going to be a process. It’s going to take some time. We should all be supporting it, and while we’re supporting it and beginning to interact with the Syrians, we have to be careful to send the right message. That is, that we appreciate the moves in this direction, and we understand the

difficulty that they have in trying to re-establish a new Syria, and we’re in favor of that happening. It is very important to understand why the process with Israel can’t be immediate.

Sailing Relationships with R’ Ali – November 2025

QUESTION:

Dear Rabbi Ali,

Thank you for your monthly articles, I have gained so much clarity in my relationship. I was wondering if you have any tips on how to deal with lying. How do I get my husband to admit when he was wrong? He will deny that I caught him lying or get upset at me for interrogating him. He also tells me he will be home at a certain time but comes home much later without apologizing. Is there a way to get him to see that he is wrong?

R’ Ali’s Response:

I’m glad that you are gaining from the articles, that’s wonderful. It’s also great that you reached out with your own personal question. People can be stuck with an issue for years for no reason. Most of the time a simple answer can dramatically alter someone’s relationship for the better.

You should know that your type of question is not uncommon. Most, if not all of the questions that people ask me are common. The scenarios will differ from one couple to the next but the root of the issues is common. The reason I mention this is to make people feel that they are normal and to encourage them to ask for help.

So, you want to know what to do with a lying spouse, how to put a stop to it, and get him to admit he’s wrong. Well, that’s a tall order! I would rather give a different perspective. As a matter of fact, you yourself have probably tried many clever ways of putting a stop to the lying. Maybe it’s time to look at things from a different perspective.

I like to ask my clients two questions. The first is, why do you think that your spouse is lying? When I ask people this, most of the time they say, “I don’t know.” Now, this doesn’t justify a spouse not being honest with you, but it’s worthwhile understanding their motive for what you see as their being dishonest. When you understand why your spouse behaves the way they do, it can help remove a lot of frustration. It can also help you approach situations in an entirely different way.

Most of the time a spouse is not being honest due to one of two reasons. The more common one is fear. They are scared to tell you the truth because they know good and well what your reaction

will be, and that reaction is anything but pleasant. Let’s take a common scenario. Someone would like to spend time with a friend. They know that their spouse won’t be happy with this idea. They now have a choice, to tell the truth and deal with the unpleasant reaction, or to make up a story to avoid the friction.

If you can identify that this is where you are going wrong, you will have accomplished two things. One, you possibly won’t feel deceived or tricked. Understanding that they are being put in a situation that they don’t know how to handle can make you see them as “stuck” rather than a compulsive liar. And practically speaking, you can avoid these lies going forward.

You can contemplate that maybe you aren’t giving them the space that they need and then you will not be bothered so much when they want to go out with friends. This way they will be more open to telling you where they’re going. If this is too hard, you can be more communicative in the future. For example; instead of saying, “You’re hanging out with them again?!” You can say “I’d like to spend time with you as well,” or “I need your help at home, can you please come help – and then go out?”

Again, this is just one scenario, but the point is to communicate in a way that will encourage transparency. Clearly, I would advise your spouse to do the same thing. Be more communicative and not fear transparency.

The second question that I ask my clients is, “Are you sure they’re lying?” To this most people will say, “Yes!” However, from my experience, many times people jump to conclusions and assume the worst. This point needs more elaboration, which is beyond the scope of this article.

To summarize, it’s important to analyze your situation. Is your spouse really lying and if they are, what part am I playing in this? And, of course, pray to Hashem that He gives you the siyata d’shmaya that you need to have a successful relationship.