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Echoes from Gaza: The Memoir of IDF Captain Erez Masud

Machla Abramovitz

The scene was surreal. It was early evening on October 7, 2023, and Givati Special Forces Captain Erez Masud, with 25 young men under his command serving as medical personnel, was speeding down the highway toward Kibbutz Kfar Aza, nearly two miles from the Gaza Strip border. The highway was covered in blood, while burning Israeli tanks and bodies littered the roads and along the shoulders. Were these bodies of Israelis, terrorists, dead, or alive? Masud and his group did not know and could not stop to find out or help. Their instructions were clear: go to Kfar Aza and assist the forces fighting there. They therefore forced themselves to disconnect emotionally from the horrors around them and kept racing northward.

“Our only goal was to storm Kfar Aza, evacuate people, and offer medical assistance. But we had no idea who these [IDF] forces were or where they were fighting,” he says.

Finding our forces proved far more challenging than anticipated. On entering Kfar Aza, and after a long period of eerie quiet, chaos erupted. Bullets flew at Masud and his men from every direction, and they returned fire blindly. Being hit by enemy fire and friendly fire was a very real possibility. Two of Masud’s men, Uriel Cohen and Netanel Harush, later succumbed to their wounds from friendly fire.

Kfar Aza

In all, 62 Kfar Aza residents and 18 security personnel were killed on October 7, and 19 civilians were taken hostage. Still, given the bedlam and the fact that the Israeli soldiers were ill-equipped to fight – they had only received shrapnel-proof, not bullet-proof, vests, and their rifles were not zeroed, meaning their accuracy was off – the results could have been even more disastrous.

Captain Masud hesitates to use the word “miracle” to describe what happened that night. “However, it’s hard to explain in any other way all the bullets that flew beside us and didn’t hit.”

Even now, his memories of that day and the days that followed are blurred. Not only was he psychologically catapulted from joyfully dancing hakafot in his hometown of Kiryat Arba into the fray of battle, but he was also clueless as to what he would be up against. It was at the Sde Teiman military base in the Negev where he learned that this assignment was significantly different from his previous Gaza deployments in 2012 and 2014. The venue, they said, had shifted dramatically from Gaza to Israeli territory. But, other than that, he knew nothing about the magnitude of the conflict confronting him.

What he learned since was that Kfar Aza was one of the most brutally hit communities and had been under attack since 6:30am that Simchat Torah morning. Gaza terrorists had breached the security fence between Gaza and Israel. At 8:33am, Golani’s 13th Battalion entered the kibbutz. By 10:45am, additional forces from the IDF’s Maglan unit, the Golani Brigade, and Israeli police joined the battle. However, there was no coordination among the Israeli fighters as the IDF’s traditional chain of command and control was broken. It would take the IDF three days to clear the area of terrorists: In all, the IDF killed 101 terrorists inside the community and 50 outside, the latter gunned down by the IAF and drones.

Profound Personal Changes

Looking back, the 34-year-old captain acknowledges that the 450 days he spent on active reserve duty in and around Gaza have profoundly changed the way he sees life and death, and the nature of evil itself. He confronted evil first hand, seeing it’s perpetration by Hamas and how it is inculcated into the minds of young Gazans. This newfound awareness is fuelling his civilian work, especially his commitment to the expansion and development of the Beit Lechem (Bethlehem) Jewish community, including its Benei Rachel Yeshiva, where he serves as Executive Director.

“We must maintain our connection to our historical past to better understand who we are, and to enable us to build a better future,” Masud says. “When we don’t bring beauty, light, and honor to the land of the Torah, October 7 can happen again and continue to give rise to the kind of evil we found in Gaza.”

Erez Masud’s Background

Captain Masud has an excellent command of English, with no trace of an Israeli accent, thanks to his mother, who hails from Baltimore. She married Erez’s Israeli father, whose family is from Tunis. His father grew up in Tzfat, after the family immigrated to Israel.

Although Masud’s family was not observant, the 6’4” commander attended Ateret Cohanim’s pre-army yeshiva, where he studied Torah, became a chozer be’teshuva, and met Rabbi Eliyahu ElKaslasi, who relocated Masud and his classmates to the Benei Rachel Yeshiva in Beit Lechem. They were the first yeshiva students to study there. Erez Masud is now helping to develop the community.

Even though Masud had dreamed of pursuing a military career as a young soldier, his early marriage to Inna at age twenty and the birth of his two oldest daughters curtailed that dream. Nonetheless, despite never completing officer training courses, he became team commander of the Givati Brigade medical platoon at age 24, a position he has held ever since.

Givati Brigade Medical Team

The Givati Brigade isone of the IDF’s five infantry brigades. It is also one of the two infantry brigades under the Southern Command that have distinguished themselves in counterterrorism and in defending Israel’s borders. Masud’s medical team can build a fully functioning hospital in 48 minutes. However, given Gaza’s proximity to Israeli hospitals, doing so here was unnecessary. Subsequently, the team took on other assignments: escorting secure convoys in and out of the Gaza Strip and serving as a medical emergency evacuation team.

On October 7, Masud commanded a new group of soldiers from Sayeret Givati, who were called into reserve duty for the first time. Not only were the soldiers fresh and inexperienced, but so were the mid-ranked commanders running the show. It, therefore, took time for them to understand how to use the troops to the best advantage. For six weeks they retrained, preparing to go into Gaza, and every day, commanders delayed their entrance for yet another 24 hours.

Many now say that Israel wrote the book on urban warfare – how to fight in such a dense environment where buildings are booby-trapped and with underground terror tunnels. What did the training look like?

“We trained for what we always train for. We know how to infiltrate properly, navigate, how to give emergency medical assistance, evacuate, connect with different forces,” Masud explains. “That said, not in any way, shape, or form did this prepare us for what we had to do at the end of the day. We learned on the go, to do things nobody had done before. Because the Americans were cutting us off, we had to invent innovative ways to address the threats we faced. Still, what our people did was amazing. Not because of their upbringing. Our soldiers grew up in different parts of the world. Rather, doing so was a necessity. We understood that this is the only way for our nation to survive, thrive, and prosper. The war brought out the best in many of us.”

Stress and a Sense and a of Purpose

Consequently, Masud was stressed 24/7. He constantly worried for his soldiers’ well-being as well as his own. Each one felt as if the fate of the Jewish nation was lying on their shoulders. “We felt personally responsible for the hostages, for October 7, and for changing the situation.”

In mid-November, Masud’s team finally entered Gaza. With each sunrise, the team brought in food, supplies, gas, or explosives, and at dusk they escorted out everything that needed bringing out: captured terrorists, equipment, and intelligence.

These were psychologically challenging times. It was hard dealing with the emotions that transporting terrorists elicited. “Knowing what they did, watching them express pain is enraging and triggering. However, you must keep it together and know that you are not the one executing their punishment, but instead, [you must] stay alert [and committed] to the actual mission to secure the convoy.”

Masud’s team members could not contact their families for fear that the terrorists were tracking their whereabouts through their cell phones. Later, when this was no longer a problem, they brought with them phones, but there was no reception. WhatsApp groups updated families about their loved ones’ welfare.

As Jabalya, Beit Hanun, Khan Yunis, and Rafah fell to IDF forces, Masud and his team moved out of their armored vehicles into abandoned apartments with no electricity or running water. The experience was surreal. They were living in people’s homes, trying to act “normally” while under the constant threat of death from terrorists jumping out of underground tunnels or from sniper fire.

What Gazans Valued

They also saw firsthand how the Gazans lived, and what they valued, and were sickened by what they saw.

“We found weapons in every Gaza home. Moreover, they educate their children to hate Jews from early on. A 12-year-old filled a scrapbook with photos of his heroes – Hitler, Ahmadinejad. Another youngster wrote an essay, graded by a teacher, about Adolph Hitler and his success in annihilating Jews. Every soldier encountered similar artifacts.”

These anti-Semitic “artifacts” represented only a fraction of the evil they encountered. How Hamas fights and their disdain for life lies in marked contrast to the values of the IDF: The principle of never leaving anyone behind and protecting their second-in-command is deeply rooted in IDF tactics.

Hamas, on the contrary, did anything and everything to get results, even at the risk of their own lives and those of their comrades. Masud witnessed this sick ideology in action. His team had neutralized three terrorists who had shot a shoulder-launched missile at them. Hamas later distributed a video of the three terrorists shooting the missile, videotaped by the terrorists themselves, despite the rocket missing its mark, and Israel killing the terrorists. “Hamas published the video as a win because merely shooting at us was a win to them.”

In fact, Israel treated the lives of Gaza civilians with more reverence than Hamas did. Gaza apparently has more “hospitals” or “humanitarian” centers per square foot than NYC. These facilities also serve as Hamas military strongholds.

IDF Reverence for Life

“Only the IDF is careful not to hit these designated areas, while Hamas held Israelis and Gazans hostage there so they could fight out of them and create a scene when we retaliate,” Masud explains.

Even when backed against a wall, Masud points out, IDF soldiers’ reverence for the sanctity of life always won out, whether they were dati or not. Most of Masud’s team is not religious, but after working closely with them over these two years, he has observed them mature, religiously, and otherwise. “Facing death daily can’t help but strengthen our appreciation of life. We want to live life to the fullest and enjoy our families. Make religious experiences special. My soldiers all wear tzizit, even if they aren’t religious. Many have become more spiritual, more connected to Gd. They understand that there is something bigger and greater than themselves.”

In the context of war, spiritual awareness and practices change definitively. Days and weeks blur together, making it hard to keep track of Shabbat and Yom Tov. Last Rosh Hashanah, Masud blew the shofar for his men while driving his Namer Tank with a phone ringing in his pocket. “You understand the depths of meaning in being a tokeiah be’shofar during an actual war while protecting the Jewish nation. The practice becomes more profoundly meaningful.”

Psychological Toll

That said, Israel is only beginning to understand the psychological implications of October 7 on Israeli society. Soldiers suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is not uncommon: Many watched comrades die, others lost limbs, while others underwent the breakup of businesses and marriages.

Moreover, many of their war experiences are impossible to share with their spouses. Subsequently, they turn to one another for support and healing. “Even strong, tough soldiers need to heal,” Masud says. “Expressing our feelings to one another helps us alleviate loneliness, which is a catalyst for trauma and war-related mental illnesses.”

However, those soldiers who best understood what they were fighting for – that this war isn’t a battle between Jews and Arabs, about religion or land, but between good and evil – that they are standing on the frontlines of over 3,000 years of Jewish history, those soldiers, Masud claims, pull through these experiences more psychologically intact.

Captain Masud’s Vision

Captain Masud now divides his time between reserve duty and helping expand the Jewish presence in Beit Lechem, which was nonexistent before 2002, and which is presently a hub of Islamic terrorism. Currently, 100 Jews live about 30 feet from Kever Rochel, surrounded by 30,000 Arabs.

The planned expansion of the Benei Rachel Yeshiva, founded by Rabbis Chanan Porat and Benny Alon in 2009, will increase the yeshiva’s capacity from 60 to 300 students and the community’s size from 12 to 35 families, thereby forcing the IDF to expand its buffer zone parameters. There is a waiting list for these new apartments.

A visitors’ center, restaurant, shul, simcha hall, and other amenities to accommodate young families will complete this exciting new project, which will cover 100,000 square feet. A walk-around plaza next to Kever Rachel is almost finished.

“Expanding the Jewish presence in Beit Lechem will not only benefit this community but the public at large,” Masud says. “We now have a real opportunity to build a Torah community where terrorists can’t live.”

Inventions & Innovators – January 2026

Inventions are the ingenious gadgets and machines that have made our lives a little more fun, interesting, and useful. Real inventions are the things that we did not think were possible yesterday, and yet, it would be difficult to live without today. From the tiny paperclip to the massive jet engine, every month we will explore the history behind our world’s most famous inventions and learn about the innovators who designed them.

This month we explore the history behind…

The SNEAKER

The story of the sneaker begins in early nineteenth-century England, when advances in rubber manufacturing opened the door to footwear unlike anything worn before. During the 1830s, the Liverpool Rubber Company began producing simple canvas shoes with thin rubber soles. Marketed as “sand shoes,” these early models were intended for beachwear and were valued for being softer and quieter underfoot compared to the sturdy leather or wooden shoes that dominated the era. Although primitive, these beach shoes introduced the essential combination of a flexible textile upper joined to a rubber bottom – an idea that would become central to the sneaker’s identity.

The Development of the Plimsoll

By the 1870s, the basic sand shoe had evolved into the British “Plimsoll,” named after the Plimsoll line on a ship’s hull. The point where the canvas upper met the rubber sole echoed the line that marked a ship’s safe loading limit. The Plimsoll became widely used in gym classes, athletics, and casual recreation. Its light weight and comfort made it a popular choice for sports such as tennis and recreational activities. Although the design remained straightforward, the Plimsoll represented a key milestone: the first widely recognized form of modern lightweight athletic footwear.

Vulcanized Rubber: The Turning Point

The technological breakthrough that made durable rubber-soled shoes possible came with Charles Goodyear’s discovery of vulcanized rubber in 1839. Vulcanization strengthened rubber, giving it flexibility, resilience, and resistance to heat and cold. Before this process, natural rubber was sticky in warm weather and brittle in cold temperatures. Vulcanized rubber transformed rubber-soled shoes from fragile novelties into practical, long-lasting products suitable for mass production and athletic performance. Goodyear’s discovery would shape not only early sneakers but nearly every major rubber-based product of the next century.

The Rise of Sneakers in the United States

By the late Victorian period, rubber-soled shoes appeared in the United States, where industrialization allowed them to evolve quickly. In 1892, the U.S. Rubber Company began producing a line of canvas-and-rubber shoes that would eventually become the brand Keds, officially launched in 1916. Keds produced one of the earliest widely distributed U.S. sneakers, known for their soft rubber soles that enabled wearers to walk quietly. Around the same period, the word “sneakers” entered American slang, reflecting this quietness and the ability to “sneak” while wearing rubber-soled shoes. By the early twentieth century, sneakers had become accepted for both athletic use and everyday comfort.

Athletic Innovation and the Influence of Converse

The rapid growth of organized sports in the early twentieth century further propelled sneaker development. Converse, founded in 1908, entered the athletic market in 1917 with its first basketball shoe, the canvas-and-rubber “Non-Skid.” This model eventually evolved into the iconic Converse All Star, which gained prominence after basketball player Chuck Taylor joined the company as a promoter and designer. His endorsement and contributions to improving the shoe helped establish Converse as the leading basketball footwear manufacturer in the United States. Through gymnasiums, high schools, and colleges, All Stars became synonymous with athletic performance.

International Growth and Olympic Success

Sneakers reached global attention in the 1936 Berlin Olympics, where American athlete Jesse Owens won four gold medals wearing track shoes crafted by the German Dassler Brothers Company. This company would later divide into the now-famous brands Adidas and Puma. Owens’s remarkable performance showcased the importance of specialized athletic footwear, demonstrating that carefully designed shoes could deliver meaningful competitive advantage. His achievements elevated the reputation of performance sneakers worldwide and helped launch German athletic shoes into international markets.

Post-War Culture and Everyday Fashion

After World War II, sneakers began transitioning from purely athletic equipment to everyday casual wear. Relaxed dress codes in schools and workplaces, combined with the growing influence of youth culture, made sneakers a fashionable alternative to traditional shoes. Their association with leisure, physical education, and comfort allowed them to enter mainstream wardrobes. By mid-century, sneakers were no longer restricted to the gym or track; they were becoming symbols of ease, modernity, and youthful energy.

Innovation in the 1960s and Beyond

In the 1960s, new companies brought further innovation to sneaker design. Nike, founded in 1964 as Blue Ribbon Sports, introduced lighter running shoes and later developed its famous waffle sole, which improved grip and performance. As recreational jogging grew in popularity during the 1970s, athletic shoe companies began producing running shoes with specialized cushioning, improved support, and novel materials. This period marked the beginning of modern sneaker technology, blending biomechanics, engineering, and athletics.

The Modern Sneaker Industry

Today, the sneaker industry brings in nearly $95 billion annually. Hundreds of millions of dollars are spent in research, development, and branding – all to advance the technology of sneakers.

What began in the 1830s as simple canvas shoes with thin rubber soles has become a sophisticated category of footwear that continues to evolve with new materials, scientific advances, and cultural trends – and shows no sign of slowing down.

Ask Jido – January 2026

Dear Jido,

I know I’m supposed to be grateful for everything I have, and I am – mostly. But I can’t pretend I’m not bitter about how this year’s winter break is going to end up.

While my friends are already preparing for ten-day trips to Israel, the Caribbean, and fun cruises, I’ll be at home…again. No sun. No adventure. Just the same couch, the same weather, and the same group chats full of “wish you were here!” photos that feel more like salt in the wound than anything else.

It’s not that I don’t understand the situation – my family just can’t swing a vacation this year. I get it. But it still stings. I’m tired of pretending it doesn’t bother me. I feel left out, annoyed, and, frankly, a little ashamed for feeling this resentful in the first place.

Is there a way to deal with these feelings that isn’t just “be grateful” and “make your own fun”? Because right now, I’m not in the mood for fake positivity.

Sincerely,
Not-So-Content in the Cold

Dear Out in the Cold,

You’re right, this is not the time to hear a lesson about appreciating all you have like a home, a car, health, family, community, and maybe even money in the bank. 

It’s also not necessary to be told about how being jealous of your neighbor is not good and self-defeating. 

You’re asking my opinion about how to deal with both of those feelings?  My answer – make going on a cruise look like child’s play. 

Call up Shomrim and tell them you want to join their investigation team. Maybe you’ll be the guy who finds the wrongdoer on Avenue K who threw the lady to the ground and stole her bag. 

Volunteer for Hatzalah. You don’t have to learn CPR. Serve on the emergency rescue squad that’s called up after a major accident or fire. Maybe you’ll save the life of someone you actually know. 

Tell the Mitzvah Man you want to volunteer for double overtime. With everyone else away, he can keep you busy working miracles. 

All you need is just one such incident and you’ll wish that inter session never ends. It’s a vacation memory that will stay with you forever.  Do something meaningful!

That’s what I would do. But Sito and I have to babysit for our grandchildren while our son and daughter-in-law go to Aruba. 

Jido

The Last Cent: Saying Goodbye to the Penny

On November 12, 2025, the Philadelphia Mint struck the final batch of pennies, closing the book on a coin first introduced in 1793. The decision marked the end of a 232-year production run, making it one of the longest-standing traditions in U.S. currency. Treasury officials confirmed that while pennies will remain legal tender, no new ones will enter circulation, and the supply will gradually shrink as coins wear out or are hoarded.

Why the Penny Had to Go

The penny’s downfall was rooted in economics. By 2025, each penny cost 3.69 cents to produce and distribute, according to the U.S. Mint. Rising prices of copper and zinc, combined with labor and overhead, meant the government was losing millions of dollars annually just to keep pennies in circulation. President Donald Trump directed the Treasury Department to halt production of circulating pennies to reduce “wasteful” spending.

What Happens Next

Though pennies are no longer minted, they remain legal tender. Retailers must still accept them, but many businesses are expected to round cash transactions to the nearest nickel. Already, some stores have reported penny shortages and even offered incentives for customers to bring them in. For digital-first generations, the change is barely noticeable – apps like Venmo and Apple Pay don’t deal in cents anyway.

Cultural Ripples

The penny’s retirement is more than a financial adjustment; it’s a cultural shift. Expressions like “a penny for your thoughts” and traditions like tossing pennies into fountains or saving them in piggy banks are part of American memory. The coin also carried Abraham Lincoln’s image since 1909, giving it symbolic weight as a reminder of thrift and history. Its disappearance underscores how quickly traditions can fade in a digital-first economy.

Winners and Losers

Taxpayers stand to benefit most, as the government will save hundreds of millions annually by ending penny production. Digital payment users will hardly notice the change. Coin collectors, however, are already eyeing the final batch of pennies – two of which were stamped with a special omega mark and will be auctioned rather than circulated. On the other hand, cash-reliant businesses and unbanked individuals may face short-term challenges adjusting to rounding rules.

Should You Save Your Pennies?

Experts caution against hoarding pennies in hopes of future value. With an estimated 300 billion pennies still in circulation, scarcity is unlikely anytime soon. That said, the final 2025 pennies, especially those with special markings, may become valuable collectibles. For most people, though, pennies are best spent, donated, or kept as nostalgic keepsakes.

What It Means for Young Adults

For millennials and Gen Z, the penny’s end is symbolic of a broader shift: cash is fading, and digital transactions dominate. The discontinuation forces us to rethink how we value small change. Few of us bother to pick up a penny off the sidewalk anymore, yet its story reminds us that even the smallest things can carry weight – economically, culturally, and emotionally.

Mabrouk – January 2026

Births – Baby Boy

David & Gabrielle Cohen

David & Maital Cohen

Eli & Allie Dabbah

Mr. & Mrs. Joey Benun

Hymie & Sophia Shriqui

Freddy & Joy Bijou

Morris & Sarah Dabbah

David & Tina Antebi

Joshua & Norma Dayan

Births – Baby Girl

Abraham & Michelle Haddad

Ariel & Camille Bivas

Albert & Sari Saadia

Joey & Nataly Sultan

Mr. & Mrs. Jimmy Ades

Jack & Lauren Catton

David & Marilyn Sarway

Sammy & Joyce Zalta

Raymond & Suzy Mograby

Bar Mitzvahs

Yosef, son of Rabbi and Mrs. Moshe Malka

Engagements

David Dabbah to Rachel Rishty

Zach Arking to Miriam Abecasis

Elliot Levy to Joanie Dweck

Max Cohen to Lana Kishk

Michael Mizrahi to Fortune Cohen

Charles Seruya to Liliane Hamaoui

Ezra Rishty to Rebecca Naoulo

Jack Sarweh to Eileen Dabbah

Weddings

Izzy Sakkal to Liel Zehavi

Yosef Levy to Sarah Abadi

Machon Lev & Machon Tal Visit to Deal Community

In the recent months, Rabbi Shlomo Anapolle, Director of the International Programs at Machon Lev, accompanied by Rabbi Moshe Tessone, visited Deal, New Jersey, where they met with a group of Syrian students to share insights about Machon Lev College for Men and Machon Tal College for Women and their unique educational opportunities. The rabbis were warmly welcomed by Rabbi Harold Sutton and a group of his learning cohorts in the Deal community.

During their visit, Rabbis Anapolle and Tessone spoke about the value of spending a gap year in Israel and how studying at Machon Lev for Men (and Machon Tal for Women) allows students to continue growing both spiritually and academically. The students expressed enthusiasm about learning in Jerusalem, strengthening their connection to Eretz Yisrael, and preparing for meaningful careers rooted in Torah values.

Integration of Heritage and Academic Achievement

The visit underscored how Machon Lev and Machon Tal and their mission deeply resonates with young Sephardic Jews seeking to integrate their heritage with modern professional achievement and with a strong connection to the Land of Israel and Jerusalem. The campuses are centrally located in Jerusalem.

For Sephardic young men and women seeking a meaningful and transformative educational experience, studying in Israel offers not only academic growth but also spiritual and cultural enrichment. Among the many institutions of higher learning in Israel, the Machon Lev (for men) and Machon Tal (for women) stand out as an ideal choice, especially for students who value a strong balance between Torah learning and cutting-edge professional education. With a proud commitment to religious values and academic excellence, both Machon Lev and Machon Tal offer Sephardic students an environment where their heritage is respected, their potential is nurtured, and their future is bright.

Dual Focus Learning

Founded in 1969, Machon Lev and Machon Tal are part of JCT, the Jerusalem College of Technology, which is known for its integrated approach, combining rigorous Torah study with high-level programs in engineering, business management, health sciences, computer science, and more. Unlike many secular universities and colleges in Israel, JCT is deeply rooted in Jewish tradition, offering separate men’s and women’s campuses and schedules that allow students to maintain a full yeshiva-style learning program alongside their degree studies. This dual focus reflects the ideals of Sephardic Jewry – a community that historically has emphasized both religious devotion and active participation in society.

Sephardic Friendly

For Sephardic students, Machon Lev and Machon Tal offer a welcoming and inclusive atmosphere. The college is home to a diverse student body, including many from Sephardic backgrounds – whether from Israel, France, Latin America, North Africa, or the United States. The staff, rabbanim, and faculty are sensitive to Sephardic minhagim and halakhic rulings, and Sephardic students will find rabbis and peers who share their traditions and outlook. From tefillot according to Sephardic nusah to shiurim that reflect Sephardic halakhic perspectives, students are empowered to grow in their own heritage while engaging with a wider Torah world.

Academically, both Machon Lev and Machon Tal are highly respected in both the Israeli and international job markets. Graduates have gone on to successful careers in hi-tech, finance, management, cybersecurity, biomedical engineering, and other fields that are vital to Israel’s economy and to global innovation. With its close ties to the leading Israeli companies and startups, both Machon Lev and Machon Tal students benefit from internships, mentorship, and job placement opportunities that open doors to meaningful careers – all while maintaining a strong Torah identity.

Extra Bonus – Affordability and the Jerusalem Experience

For Sephardic families considering higher education options, the affordability at Machon Lev and Machon Tal is also an important factor. Tuition is often significantly lower than that of comparable institutions abroad, and scholarships are available for international students.

Moreover, the experience of living and learning in Yerushalayim – the eternal capital of Am Yisrael – is priceless. Walking the streets of Jerusalem, praying at the Kotel, and being part of the vibrant religious life of the city is something no classroom can replicate.

In short, Machon Lev and Machon Tal offer a unique opportunity for Sephardic students to combine Torah, tradition, and professional success. It is a place where you can honor your past, build your future, and take your place as a proud and capable member and leader of Klal Yisrael.

Sailing Relationships with R’ Ali – January 2026

QUESTION: 

Dear Rabbi Ali,

I hope you can give me some advice on how to deal with this situation as it’s been taking a toll on my relationship. I work very hard to provide for my family and make a decent living. Sometimes, things are good and other times money is tight. The past year-and-a-half my business has been slow. We are not in a position to spend as we used to, whether it be winter break or summer vacation. I find that my wife and I are fighting a lot about this. I don’t blame her at all. I just would appreciate any advice on how to deal with this situation.


R’ Ali’s Response: 
I’m pretty sure I’ve mentioned this in the past, but it’s worthwhile mentioning again. It’s wonderful when I see more and more people reaching out for help instead of suffering for no reason. Many times, all a couple needs are a few pointers and their marriage dramatically changes for the better. Even if a couple isn’t suffering, but rather needs some clarity, it’s still recommended to reach out to someone who deals with shalom bayit.

Before I give you practical advice, I’d like to mention a few points on this topic in for you and the readers to gain the proper Torah perspective. Everyone, men and women must understand and internalize the fact that money comes from Hashem. I’m well aware that this is a marriage column, but as people of the Torah, we need to incorporate the proper Torah ideologies into our lives. Men are obligated to support their wives and do the proper hishtadlut. At the end of the day, we must all believe, acknowledge, and accept the fact that the amount of money we receive has been decreed by Hashem on Rosh Hashanah. 

Practically speaking, women should be understanding of two things. One, your husband cannot make more than the decreed amount, and two, do not be resentful if he is not bringing in the amount that you’d like. Expressing your frustration towards him will make an already stressful situation into a shalom bayit issue. He may feel down on himself or as many people tell me, they feel like a failure. 

I completely understand that the standard of living these days is high and we need a lot of money to get by. However, this is (for the most part) not your husband’s fault. Being an eshet chayil means being there for your husband whether he is making money or not. Respect is not contingent on dollars and cents. We respect our spouse no matter what they “make of themselves.”

On the flip side, many men overwork when their wives would prefer to live a minimalistic lifestyle and have their husband around for her and the family.  Many men say,  “I’m working all these hours for you,” but their wives are saying they don’t need all of the “extra” money.

Of course, everyone’s situation is different and should be discussed with a third party and people should not rely on an article to make any drastic changes in their work ethic or marriage. Getting back to your question, I believe you need to practice gentle communication with your wife. I don’t know the specifics of your situation, but as a general rule, you should let your wife know how much you can and can’t spend. Validate her needs, instead of saying,  “Leave me alone I can’t afford it.” Tell her, “I totally understand you want to go away, I wish we could. Be’ezrat Hashem, things will get better.” 


In conclusion, having high standards hurts many relationships. Work on being happy with what you have. As the Mishnah says, a true rich man is happy with what he has.

A Gemara asks the question, “How does one become rich?” and answers, “Pray to the One who has the riches.” I hope we all understand that is referring to Hashem!

Work together as a team, pray to Hashem, and you should see tons of bracha in your life and your marriage, amen.

Community Highlights – EJSS Students Conclude Six-Year Gemara Seder Moed Study

Students in learning groups at EJSS have successfully completed Gemara Seder Moed, a monumental six-year project, which concluded with Masechet Chagiga. This significant journey was guided by Rabbis Nathan Escava, Yaacob Tebele, and Nathan Safdeye.

The achievement is a testament to the effectiveness of the Oraysa Amud V’chazara program. Developed in collaboration with leading Roshei Yeshiva and Gedolei Yisroel, this framework meets the increasing demand for a daily Gemara learning structure. It expertly balances the need for a steady, accountable pace with the sophistication level of today’s ben Torah.

Amud V’chazara incorporates special features – such as multiple, built-in reviews, tests, and stipends for achievement – specifically designed to enhance the long-term retention of the masechtot learned.

UCEF Debit Card: Turning Everyday Spending into Real Tuition Savings

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Miracles of Renewal: When Two Hearts Give as One

Last month was an extraordinary month for Renewal, filled with miracles and matched kidney donors. Among the many transplants that took place, three stories stood out amongst the rest with a special kind of light. Not only were these stories rooted in compassion, but in partnership as well. Let me explain…

This month, Isaac (Yitzy) Cwibeker, Joshua Rosen, and Heshy Cohen each donated a kidney. What makes their generosity so remarkable is that their wives, Danielle, Terri, and Esty, had already donated kidneys in previous years. 

Three couples. Six kidneys. Countless lives changed.

In the Jewish community, we speak often about “bayit ne’eman”- the faithful home, built on shared values. These couples live that ideal to its fullest. Their homes aren’t just filled with kindness. They radiate it. The couples’ acts of courage remind us that giving is contagious, especially within a marriage where hesed is part of the family DNA.

They say, “Couples that pray together stay together.” At Renewal, this month taught us a new version: Couples that give life together, grow together.

Each spouse’s decision was personal, but their shared legacy is powerful. These kidney donors demonstrate to us that when two people commit not only to each other but are committed to uplifting the world around them, their impact becomes exponentially greater. Their partnership becomes a source of healing and blessing far beyond the walls of their own home.

As we celebrate these recent transplants, these three couples remind us that love can inspire giving and motivate action. And when two hearts choose the same mission, the impact is extraordinary!

Living Emunah – Chizuk for Raising Children

Rabbi David Ashear

Many righteous individuals have children who have veered off the path of Judaism, thereby causing them great anguish. Family harmony is shattered, their other children are negatively influenced, and the wayward child’s behavior brings much shame into their life. “We tried so hard to educate our child and show him the beauty of Torah and mitzvos,” they may say, “but it got us nowhere. Why should we invest effort with our other children? We’re obviously failures.”

What can we say to give them chizuk?

The Gemara (Chagigah 4b) says that when Shaul HaMelech summoned Shmuel HaNavi from Gan Eden, Shmuel thought he was being called to judgment in front of Hashem. He became afraid and brought Moshe Rabbeinu along to defend him.

Rav Menashe Reisman quoted Rav Meir Simchah of Dvinsk who wondered why Shmuel was so afraid. Didn’t he know that he was a tzaddik? He answered by quoting a Midrash on Tehillim (80) that tells us that Shmuel’s children, Yoel and Aviya, were wicked. Shmuel was afraid he was going to be held accountable for his children’s sins. Therefore, he brought Moshe Rabbeinu, whose son Gershom also had a child who was idolatrous.

The Midrash relates at the end of Parashas Chukas (33) that when Hashem told Moshe (Shemos 34:7), “…recalling the iniquity of parents upon children,” children will be held accountable for the sins of their fathers (and vice versa). Moshe pleaded with Hashem: “What about when a child is a complete tzaddik and his father was a rasha, like Avraham, the son of Terach? Or what about when the father is a tzaddik but his son goes off, like Chizkiyahu, the son of Achaz?”

Hashem responded, “In those cases, you are right. Fathers shall not be put to death because of sons, and sons shall not be put to death because of fathers (Devarim 24:16). A father will only be held accountable for his child’s wrongdoings when he was the cause of his deviating from the proper path. So, too, a child will only be held accountable for his father when he continues in his ways.”

Shmuel HaNavi was completely righteous; he gave his children the best chinuch. In fact, he taught the entire generation to go in the ways of Hashem, yet his own children didn’t follow in his footsteps.

We see that it is possible for parents to give their children the right education, and nevertheless, the children veer from their path. Some of our greatest luminaries had children who did not follow in their path. In those situations, we say that it’s min haShamayim – from Heaven. This family was given the test of raising a rebellious child. If the parents did what they could to educate the child, they should not hold themselves accountable should he depart from their ways. It’s a test like any other. They have to respond the way Hashem wants them to respond. Each situation is different. They should seek rabbinic guidance on how to proceed. However, they must do their utmost to always love and educate all of their children to the best of their ability.

Chizkiyahu HaMelech was the gadol hador. He elevated his people to the highest levels, yet his own son, Menashe, became a complete rasha. Rabbeinu Nissim Gaon writes that even King Chizkiyahu saw a prophecy that his son would go off, he still educated him and tried his hardest to make him righteous. In the end, Menashe repented and taught us that teshuvah is always possible. The chinuch his father gave him helped him years later. Even if a child does go off, the education he received from his parents remains stored in his memory. Years down the line, it may suddenly have an impact and steer him back in the right direction.

If we try our best, we are fulfilling our obligation. We can only put in the effort, but results are not in our control.

Medical Halacha – Crutches and Wheelchairs on Shabbat

Rabbi Yehuda Finchas

One Friday morning, Ronnie approached me, with concern etched on his face. “Rabbi,” he said, “I broke my leg playing ball and without these crutches I cannot take even a few paces. But there is no eruv in our neighborhood. Am I allowed to walk with the crutches to beit knesset on Shabbat so that I can attend the youth minyan?”

Not long after, Miriam, a woman in her sixties who had been confined to a wheelchair following a serious illness, asked a similar question. “Rabbi,” she said softly, “without my wheelchair I cannot move at all. Can I wheel myself to synagogue on Shabbat for my grandson’s bar mitzva next month, or can someone push me?”

The Halachic Framework

The Torah forbids hotza’ah – carrying from a private to a public domain on Shabbat. This prohibition includes carrying an object, as well as pushing or dragging it. However, Maran in the Beit Yosef (Orach Chaim 301:15–17) establishes that a prosthetic leg that enables the person to walk is considered an extension of the body and is therefore not regarded as carrying – similar to wearing shoes or eyeglasses. By contrast, an item used only occasionally or out of convenience is classified as a masui – a load or external object – and may not be carried or pushed without an eruv. The Shulchan Aruch adds that one who cannot walk without a cane may also walk with it on Shabbat. The Kaf Hachaim (301:103) explains that if one can manage to walk indoors without a cane, it is classified as a masui and he may not use it outdoors; but if he cannot walk at all without it, even at home, the cane is like his legs and its use is therefore permitted.

Ronnie’s Crutches: When Walking Aids Become Like Part of the Body

Based on the aforementioned Beit Yosef, the Yalkut Yosef (Shabbat, vol. 2, 301:7) rules that an injured or disabled person who cannot walk without a cane or crutches may use them even outside an eruv. In such cases, the crutches are considered as if they were his legs. However, if one can walk without them, even with difficulty, their use is prohibited, as they become a masui. Thus, for Ronnie – who cannot walk at all without his crutches – halacha permits him to go to beit knesset with them, even in a place without an eruv.

Miriam’s Wheelchair: A More Complex Question

The matter is more complex for Miriam. In Yabia Omer (Orach Chaim 9:34), Hacham Ovadia Yosef, zt”l, cites authorities who permit a person to be pushed in a wheelchair, likening it to a cane, and others who forbid it, as it is comparable to pushing a baby carriage, which is forbidden without an eruv. He concludes that for the sake of a mitzvah, such as attending synagogue, one may be lenient – but only if the wheelchair is pushed by a non-Jew.

Hacham Benzion Abba Shaul(Ohr LeTzion vol. 2, ch. 23:5) permits a person to wheel themselves in the public domain, but rules that it is forbidden for another Jew to push them, as that action constitutes carrying a load on their behalf, whereas self-propulsion is similar to walking with a cane. Hacham Yitzhak Yosef in Yalkut Yosef (Shabbat, vol. 2, 301:7) concurs but adds that it is preferable that a non-Jew wheel her to synagogue. Importantly, an electric wheelchair remains prohibited, since activating or controlling its motor constitutes a melachah and is forbidden.

Practical Guidance

For Ronnie, the crutches are essential and without them he cannot walk at all, even at home. Therefore, halacha recognizes them as part of his body. He may walk with them to beit knesset, even where no eruv exists. For Miriam, the wheelchair is her sole means of mobility, and she can rely on the poskim that compare it to a cane. She may propel herself on Shabbat to attend her grandson’s bar mitzvah, but ideally, she should ask a non-Jew to assist her. However, an electric wheelchair may not be used.

Rabbi Yehuda Finchas is a worldwide expert, lecturer, and author on Medical Halacha. He heads the Torat Habayit Medical Halacha Institute. His latest book is “Brain Death in Halacha and the Tower of Babel Syndrome.” To contact Rabbi Finchas, email rabbi@torathabayit.com