An excited crowd assembled last month on a bright, sunny day to join the festivities at Kelly Park, which included a balloon artist, free treats, activity books, and goody bags – but the big draw was the playground.
Encompassing 3.5 acres, the park’s sprawling path system feels like an adventure trail between its spectacular play areas. Enhanced landscaping, with new trees, plantings, benches, and safety lighting have created a beautiful, green oasis in the city. New fencing, sidewalks, accessible drinking fountains, and restrooms round out the space.
The visionary design encourages exploration and engagement with color and music, gripping kids’ imaginations and inspiring shared play.
Step inside and you are greeted by soaring structures casting colorful prisms to the ground. Creative features include ramped play structures with climbers and slides of every variation to satisfy kids seeking adventure at every level. A “bank shot” invites you to learn to play ball while a musical ensemble and electronic play station tempt those with varying interests. A soaring innovative tree house and rock climbing wall beckon. There is even an archeological hill sand box with fossils and two swing sets. The interactive water sprinklers were especially inviting on that unseasonably warm day.
Senator Simcha Felder was joined by NYC Parks Commissioner Sue Donoghue, Brooklyn Borough Commissioner Marty Maher, and Brooklyn Community Board 15 Chairperson Theresa Scavo to celebrate the official Grand Opening of Felder’s Dream Park after a historic $10 million dollar renovation funded by Senator Felder – the largest grant ever secured by a single elected official.
The Dream Becomes a Reality
“Over a decade ago, I started talking about having a park in Brooklyn where every child, regardless of their different abilities, has a place to play, explore, and grow. I called it a dream and people said it was a fantasy. Today, I am overjoyed to celebrate the opening of Brooklyn’s only Dream Park for All Children!” said Senator Felder.
Funding this visionary and innovative project took years of persistence – and saving. In January 2020, Senator Felder finally delivered the extraordinary ten million dollar grant to NYC Parks, earmarked to create Brooklyn’s first all-inclusive playground at Kelly Park. Located on Avenue S and E. 15th Street, it is in the heart of Felder’s district.
“It is a simha that we can be here to celebrate the largest funding from a single elected official in my career,” quipped Brooklyn Borough Commissioner Martin Maher. “Senator Felder has always supported parks and we are thrilled he has funded this great project. Kelly Park has been in great need for so long and this will transform the space into a super playground that will be enjoyed for generations to come,” Maher said.
Numerous meetings ensued, and with the Commissioner’s guarantee that this would be the pinnacle of parks everywhere, the Senator was at last satisfied with a design that would delight people of all ages and bring added value to the neighborhood.
When the pandemic paused projects and production, more patience was required, but in September 2022, Senator Felder was on site as NYC Parks finally broke ground.
They Call Me “Mr. Parks”
From Felder’s early days in the City Council and throughout 12 years in the NYS Senate, he has continuously spearheaded the transformation of neighborhood space into beautiful park space for seniors and playgrounds for children. “Our children and our seniors are the driving force behind most of my work, and parks are their safe havens,” he said. “They call me ‘Mr. Parks.’”
“I’m so grateful to Senator Felder for funding this important project and for his longstanding support for our public spaces,” said NYC Parks Commissioner Sue Donoghue. “Thanks to this transformation, Brooklynites of all ages and abilities can enjoy a beautifully renovated play space with something for everyone.”
Senator Felder delivered moving remarks before the ceremonial ribbon cutting. “This park represents our commitment to every single child. Here, every child can feel seen, valued, and celebrated. Imaginations will soar, friendships will blossom, and laughter will echo. When we cut this ribbon, let it symbolize not only the opening of a park but the opening of our hearts and minds to the endless possibilities that lie ahead. Together, we are building a brighter future for our children – a future where every child thrives!”
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
Stanley, a jobber, regularly buys and sells varied merchandise at a small profit. Upon striking a deal to purchase from Harry $7,000 worth of goods, the two agreed that the sale would be on consignment. Stanley stored the merchandise in his private garage, which was protected by a surveillance camera and a sophisticated alarm system. But when Hurricane Milton swept across the Southeast Coast, a tree fell on the garage, starting an electrical fire that caused permanent damage to the merchandise. Stanley immediately notified Harry of the unfortunate turn of events and told him that he had no intention of paying for the goods since they were bought on consignment. Harry did not respond to Stanley but rather summoned him to Bet Din claiming $7,000 in compensation for the lost merchandise. In Bet Din, Stanley explained that although the merchandise was lost while in his domain, by definition of consignment, Harry had retained ownership of the goods until they were sold. Since Harry was the owner of the merchandise, he is to sustain the loss. Harry defended his claim stating simply that while Stanley maintained the right to return the merchandise at any time, if he fails to return the goods for any reason, he is liable for payment.
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
Stanley, a jobber, regularly buys and sells varied merchandise at a small profit. Upon striking a deal to purchase from Harry $7,000 worth of goods, the two agreed that the sale would be on consignment. Stanley stored the merchandise in his private garage, which was protected by a surveillance camera and a sophisticated alarm system. But when Hurricane Milton swept across the Southeast Coast, a tree fell on the garage, starting an electrical fire that caused permanent damage to the merchandise. Stanley immediately notified Harry of the unfortunate turn of events and told him that he had no intention of paying for the goods since they were bought on consignment. Harry did not respond to Stanley but rather summoned him to Bet Din claiming $7,000 in compensation for the lost merchandise. In Bet Din, Stanley explained that although the merchandise was lost while in his domain, by definition of consignment, Harry had retained ownership of the goods until they were sold. Since Harry was the owner of the merchandise, he is to sustain the loss. Harry defended his claim stating simply that while Stanley maintained the right to return the merchandise at any time, if he fails to return the goods for any reason, he is liable for payment.
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
Stanley, a jobber, regularly buys and sells varied merchandise at a small profit. Upon striking a deal to purchase from Harry $7,000 worth of goods, the two agreed that the sale would be on consignment. Stanley stored the merchandise in his private garage, which was protected by a surveillance camera and a sophisticated alarm system. But when Hurricane Milton swept across the Southeast Coast, a tree fell on the garage, starting an electrical fire that caused permanent damage to the merchandise. Stanley immediately notified Harry of the unfortunate turn of events and told him that he had no intention of paying for the goods since they were bought on consignment. Harry did not respond to Stanley but rather summoned him to Bet Din claiming $7,000 in compensation for the lost merchandise. In Bet Din, Stanley explained that although the merchandise was lost while in his domain, by definition of consignment, Harry had retained ownership of the goods until they were sold. Since Harry was the owner of the merchandise, he is to sustain the loss. Harry defended his claim stating simply that while Stanley maintained the right to return the merchandise at any time, if he fails to return the goods for any reason, he is liable for payment.
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
Stanley, a jobber, regularly buys and sells varied merchandise at a small profit. Upon striking a deal to purchase from Harry $7,000 worth of goods, the two agreed that the sale would be on consignment. Stanley stored the merchandise in his private garage, which was protected by a surveillance camera and a sophisticated alarm system. But when Hurricane Milton swept across the Southeast Coast, a tree fell on the garage, starting an electrical fire that caused permanent damage to the merchandise. Stanley immediately notified Harry of the unfortunate turn of events and told him that he had no intention of paying for the goods since they were bought on consignment. Harry did not respond to Stanley but rather summoned him to Bet Din claiming $7,000 in compensation for the lost merchandise. In Bet Din, Stanley explained that although the merchandise was lost while in his domain, by definition of consignment, Harry had retained ownership of the goods until they were sold. Since Harry was the owner of the merchandise, he is to sustain the loss. Harry defended his claim stating simply that while Stanley maintained the right to return the merchandise at any time, if he fails to return the goods for any reason, he is liable for payment.
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
Stanley, a jobber, regularly buys and sells varied merchandise at a small profit. Upon striking a deal to purchase from Harry $7,000 worth of goods, the two agreed that the sale would be on consignment. Stanley stored the merchandise in his private garage, which was protected by a surveillance camera and a sophisticated alarm system. But when Hurricane Milton swept across the Southeast Coast, a tree fell on the garage, starting an electrical fire that caused permanent damage to the merchandise. Stanley immediately notified Harry of the unfortunate turn of events and told him that he had no intention of paying for the goods since they were bought on consignment. Harry did not respond to Stanley but rather summoned him to Bet Din claiming $7,000 in compensation for the lost merchandise. In Bet Din, Stanley explained that although the merchandise was lost while in his domain, by definition of consignment, Harry had retained ownership of the goods until they were sold. Since Harry was the owner of the merchandise, he is to sustain the loss. Harry defended his claim stating simply that while Stanley maintained the right to return the merchandise at any time, if he fails to return the goods for any reason, he is liable for payment.
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
Stanley, a jobber, regularly buys and sells varied merchandise at a small profit. Upon striking a deal to purchase from Harry $7,000 worth of goods, the two agreed that the sale would be on consignment. Stanley stored the merchandise in his private garage, which was protected by a surveillance camera and a sophisticated alarm system. But when Hurricane Milton swept across the Southeast Coast, a tree fell on the garage, starting an electrical fire that caused permanent damage to the merchandise. Stanley immediately notified Harry of the unfortunate turn of events and told him that he had no intention of paying for the goods since they were bought on consignment. Harry did not respond to Stanley but rather summoned him to Bet Din claiming $7,000 in compensation for the lost merchandise. In Bet Din, Stanley explained that although the merchandise was lost while in his domain, by definition of consignment, Harry had retained ownership of the goods until they were sold. Since Harry was the owner of the merchandise, he is to sustain the loss. Harry defended his claim stating simply that while Stanley maintained the right to return the merchandise at any time, if he fails to return the goods for any reason, he is liable for payment.
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
Stanley, a jobber, regularly buys and sells varied merchandise at a small profit. Upon striking a deal to purchase from Harry $7,000 worth of goods, the two agreed that the sale would be on consignment. Stanley stored the merchandise in his private garage, which was protected by a surveillance camera and a sophisticated alarm system. But when Hurricane Milton swept across the Southeast Coast, a tree fell on the garage, starting an electrical fire that caused permanent damage to the merchandise. Stanley immediately notified Harry of the unfortunate turn of events and told him that he had no intention of paying for the goods since they were bought on consignment. Harry did not respond to Stanley but rather summoned him to Bet Din claiming $7,000 in compensation for the lost merchandise. In Bet Din, Stanley explained that although the merchandise was lost while in his domain, by definition of consignment, Harry had retained ownership of the goods until they were sold. Since Harry was the owner of the merchandise, he is to sustain the loss. Harry defended his claim stating simply that while Stanley maintained the right to return the merchandise at any time, if he fails to return the goods for any reason, he is liable for payment.
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
Stanley, a jobber, regularly buys and sells varied merchandise at a small profit. Upon striking a deal to purchase from Harry $7,000 worth of goods, the two agreed that the sale would be on consignment. Stanley stored the merchandise in his private garage, which was protected by a surveillance camera and a sophisticated alarm system. But when Hurricane Milton swept across the Southeast Coast, a tree fell on the garage, starting an electrical fire that caused permanent damage to the merchandise. Stanley immediately notified Harry of the unfortunate turn of events and told him that he had no intention of paying for the goods since they were bought on consignment. Harry did not respond to Stanley but rather summoned him to Bet Din claiming $7,000 in compensation for the lost merchandise. In Bet Din, Stanley explained that although the merchandise was lost while in his domain, by definition of consignment, Harry had retained ownership of the goods until they were sold. Since Harry was the owner of the merchandise, he is to sustain the loss. Harry defended his claim stating simply that while Stanley maintained the right to return the merchandise at any time, if he fails to return the goods for any reason, he is liable for payment.
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
The Case
The Wrath of Milton
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
Stanley, a jobber, regularly buys and sells varied merchandise at a small profit. Upon striking a deal to purchase from Harry $7,000 worth of goods, the two agreed that the sale would be on consignment. Stanley stored the merchandise in his private garage, which was protected by a surveillance camera and a sophisticated alarm system. But when Hurricane Milton swept across the Southeast Coast, a tree fell on the garage, starting an electrical fire that caused permanent damage to the merchandise. Stanley immediately notified Harry of the unfortunate turn of events and told him that he had no intention of paying for the goods since they were bought on consignment. Harry did not respond to Stanley but rather summoned him to Bet Din claiming $7,000 in compensation for the lost merchandise. In Bet Din, Stanley explained that although the merchandise was lost while in his domain, by definition of consignment, Harry had retained ownership of the goods until they were sold. Since Harry was the owner of the merchandise, he is to sustain the loss. Harry defended his claim stating simply that while Stanley maintained the right to return the merchandise at any time, if he fails to return the goods for any reason, he is liable for payment.
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a potential buyer who picks up a product for inspection is liable for all damage caused while in his possession. The logic behind this ruling is that since a potential buyer can benefit from the right to inspect the product at no cost, he receives a legal status similar to that of a borrower. Hence, he is liable even for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control.
Nevertheless, some restrictions do apply. First, the potential buyer assumes responsibility for damages only if the product is so desirable in the market that it could have easily been sold to another party. If, however, the product is one that is not readily sold, the owner may not collect payment for damages caused by an unforeseeable occurrence. For example, if the product is an outdated electronic device, then, in contrast to the situation mentioned above, it is considered a benefit to the seller that the buyer is even considering making the purchase, and thus the buyer is not considered a borrower when inspecting the product and does not bear liability for damages caused by circumstances beyond his control. It is important to note that this rule can be subject to customary store policies, and therefore one must consult a competent halachic authority before deciding whether a customer is liable for damages.
On the other hand, in a similar ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a customer who purchases goods on consignment is liable in a case of unforeseeable damage – even for merchandise that is undesirable. Even though the customer did not finalize the sale and maintains the right to return the undesirable goods at his own leisure, he is nevertheless responsible for all damage.
Leading halachic authorities explain that although buying merchandise on consignment bears some resemblance to picking up a product for inspection, there is a clear distinction. While in both instances the buyers are not under any obligation and may return the goods, one who simply picks up a product for inspection is merely a potential buyer, and the pending transaction is dependent on his decision. Hence, he is only deemed liable for damages if the product is desirable in the market, since only then can we assume that it is likely he will have ultimately made the purchase. By contrast, one who agrees to sell merchandise on consignment has effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintains the right to return the goods, he already owns them and is liable for all damages until their return. Other leading halachic authorities differ with the above ruling and exempt a buyer of merchandise on consignment in instances of unforeseeable damage – unless the merchandise was desirable and could have been readily sold.
Many of the Torah precepts relevant to this issue have been adopted by the non-Jewish world. The Uniform Commercial Code [UCC 2-326 (1) and (2)] differentiates between a sale contingent on the buyer’s approval, and a sale on consignment; goods held on approval are not subject to claims by the buyer’s creditors, while goods held for sale on consignment are subject to such claims while in the buyer’s possession. Our Torah, brought to us by Moshe thousands of years ago, has set the framework for all judicial systems to emulate, for the wisdom of our Torah bears the truth of Hashem’s justice. It is our Torah obligation that all monetary disputes with fellow Jews be decided by a rabbinical court of law, where we can be assured that justice is based on Torah law.
Sources:Shulhan Aruch Hoshen Mishpat 200:11, Ibid 186:2; Kenneset Hagedola, Hagahot Bet Yosef 186:3; Netivot Hamishpat 186:1; Even Haezel Hilchot Mechira 4; Kehilot Yaakov, Nedarim 24; West Business Law, ninth edition, pg.390.
VERDICT: The Calm after the Storm
Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Harry, awarding him a $7,000 claim against Stanley. As mentioned in Torah Law, since Stanley agreed to sell the merchandise on consignment, he effectively acquired the goods by his choice to sell them at a profit. Although he maintained the right to return the goods, in the interim, for all practical purposes, they belonged to him, deeming him liable for all damages. This ruling was decided by our Bet Din after ascertaining that the merchandise in question was merchantable and very desirable in the commercial market. Hence, this decision concurs with the opinion of all halachic authorities. Nevertheless, the Bet Din suggested that Harry consider Stanley’s general financial difficulties and settle with him for a smaller sum. Harry complied and the two settled the matter peacefully.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
Cookies and… Scream
Moe and Cindy were returning home Saturday night after spending the weekend with Cindy’s parents. They stopped off at a local ice cream parlor and purchased ice cream cones that they ate in their car in the dark. As Cindy got to the bottom of the cone, she reached with her fingers to the bottom of the cone to eat what seemed to be the last chunk of chocolate. After biting into it, Cindy began screaming and discharged from her mouth a sizeable roach. Utterly repulsed, she repeatedly vomited. After tending to his wife, Moe stormed into the ice cream store and berated the store owner for the incident, demanding compensation for his wife’s mental and emotional anguish. The store owner was sincerely apologetic but refused to resolve the matter that evening.
Moe and Cindy filed a written complaint to our Bet Din, claiming $10,000 in compensation. In Bet Din, the store owner explained that his store had been operating for over nine years and he never encountered a complaint. Furthermore, he recently passed an inspection with the board of health. He felt that the incident was due to circumstances beyond his control and that he should not be liable for the unfortunate experience.
How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Cindy or the store owner and why?
In Parashat Vaetchanan 6:7, Hashem imparts to Bnei Yisrael a timeless instruction: “Teach them to your sons and speak them when you sit in your house and when you travel on the road.” This command is echoed in Yehoshua 1:8: “Let not this Book of the Teaching cease from your lips, but recite it day and night.” The message is clear—Torah learning should be woven into every aspect of our daily lives.
This message has guided us for generations. Our ancestors carried physical sefarim or tefillin, ensuring Torah was always within reach. They gathered in study halls and homes, creating communities of learning that sustained our traditions.
While the best learning methods remain rooted in tradition, technology expands the possibilities for how we learn. From recorded classes to early websites, our community has embraced new ways to maintain our commitment to constant Torah study.
Developed by Torah Learning Resources Ltd., iTorah merged the resources of several online platforms—DailyHalacha.com, DailyGemara.com, and LearnTorah.com—to create a unified digital space where our community could access Torah learning.
What started with Rabbi Eli Mansour’s pioneering online classes in Halacha, Tehillim, and Daf Yomi has grown from a beloved community website into a comprehensive digital library of teachings from our community’s most respected teachers. The iTorah app represents the next step in this journey, making Torah learning more accessible than ever before.
A Treasury of Torah at Your Fingertips
Whether you’re an experienced scholar or just beginning your learning journey, iTorah’s 50,000+ classes offer something for everyone—from Daily Halacha and Mussar to in-depth Gemara study.
“iTorah is so comprehensive when it comes to its content. Both the experienced scholar and the novice at learning benefit every day from the wide array of choices that they have. The presenters are all hand-selected and renowned educators, rabbis, and rebbetzins. Truly a blessing.” —Rabbi Mansour
The iTorah platform features:
Daily Live Classes – Join live broadcasts from respected community teachers.
Extensive Archives – Access thousands of recorded classes on demand.
Structured Learning Programs – Follow organized series like DailyHalacha, DailyEmunah, and Hok Yisrael.
Multiple Formats – Choose between video classes for focused learning or audio for learning on the go.
Searchable Content – Easily find specific topics, laws, or weekly Parasha insights.
Technical Support – Report issues or get help using the app.
“iTorah offers a one-stop shop for content from our community’s leading rabbis, with videos, audios, written essays, and more. You can search halakhot, listen to Daily Mishnah lessons, learn Daf Yomi, watch broadcasts, and access a library of popular books and teachings. Everything is available for free.” —Morris Dweck, President of Torah Learning Resources Ltd.
Easy to Use and Customizable
While the iTorah.com website has served our community well, the new iTorah app introduces powerful new capabilities specifically designed for learning on the go. With an intuitive and user-friendly search function, it is easy to navigate through the app, and no technical expertise is required to access your desired content in a way that suits you.
“It’s all about convenience. With just two clicks, you can now listen to your favorite classes wherever you are.” —Joey Benun, Project Manager for the iTorah app
Community Voices
“The iTorah app is a game changer! It’s incredibly well-built and easy to navigate. I love the ability to download classes for offline access, which makes learning convenient no matter where I am.” —Joe Esses
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Mr. Green is sitting in his hotel room when there is a knock at the door. He opened the door to see an elderly man whom he had never seen before. The elderly man said, “Oh I’m sorry. I have made a mistake. I thought this was my room.” He then went down the corridor and in the elevator. Mr. Green went back into his room and phoned security. What made Mr. Green so suspicious of the elderly man?
Last Month’s Riddle: Birthday Budget
You’re planning to spend your birthday money taking some friends to the zoo. Is it cheaper to take 1 friend to the zoo twice, or 2 friends to the zoo at the same time – or is it the same either way?
Solution: Take 2 friends at the same time, so you’ll only buy 3 tickets total. If you take 1 friend twice, you’ll need to buy yourself a ticket each time, for a total of 4 tickets.
Solved by: Jack Menahem, Rafael Shmulewitz, Raymond Dabbah, Haim Soleimani, Big Mike, Family Blum, Marlene T., and Mazie Baraka.
Junior Riddle: The Missing Sister
Submitted by: Molly F.
There are five sisters. One is reading a book, another is cooking, another is playing chess, and another is doing laundry. What is the fifth sister doing?
Last Month’s Junior Riddle: Shopping Spree
Alan bought a pair of shoes and a tie, which cost a total of $150. The shoes cost $100 more than the tie. How much was each item?
Solution: The shoes cost $125 and the tie cost $25.
Solved by: Batya Gadeh, Rafael Shmulewitz, H. Soleimani, The Big Cheese, Devorah Gadeh, The Blum Family, Martin Safdiegh, Mazie Baraka, and The Shmulster.
“Sir you have got to help!” said the tearful man at the door. “There is a family that I know very well that is in desperate need of money. The father has been out of a job for over a year, they have five kids at home with barely a bit of food to eat. The worst part is, that they are about to get kicked out of the house and they will be left on the streets without a roof over their heads!” the man concluded with one last heart-wrenching sob. “Well,” said the man of the house, “that really is a sad story. Why don’t you come inside and we’ll talk about it a little more.” “So how much money is needed exactly?” asked the man when they were both seated. “Oh, it’s really terrible,” said the man starting up again, “why just for the rent $3,000 is needed by tomorrow otherwise they’ll be kicked out onto the streets.” “How do you know so much about this situation?” asked the man as he reached for his check book. “Well,” said the man breaking down once more, “they are my tenants.”
Manny K.
Doggy Deception
Two men, Jim and John, were walking their dogs when they passed by a restaurant. “Let’s go in and get something to eat,” Jim suggested. “We can’t,” responded John. “Don’t you see the sign says NO PETS ALLOWED?” “Aah that sign,” said Jim, “don’t worry about it.” Taking out a pair of sunglasses, he walked up to the door. As he tried walking into the restaurant he got stopped at the door, “Sorry, no pets allowed,” the man said. “Can’t you see,” said Jim “I am blind, this is my seeing eye dog.” “But it’s a Doberman Pincher! Who uses a Doberman Pincher as a seeing eye dog?” the man asked. “Oh,” Jim responded, “you must have not heard, this is the latest type of seeing eye dog, they do a very good job.” Seeing that it worked, John tried walking in with his Chihuahua. Even before he could open his mouth, the doorman said, “Don’t tell me that a Chihuahua is the latest type of seeing eye dog.” Thinking quickly John responded in an angry voice, “You mean they gave me a Chihuahua?!”
Jakie T.
Clean Cup
A husband and wife walked into a cheap looking restaurant. As they were about to sit down, they noticed there were crumbs on the seat. After cleaning up the seat and wiping down the table they sat down. A waitress came over asking them what they wanted. “I’ll just take a coffee,” said the husband. “Me too,” said the wife. “And make sure the cup is clean.” The waitress returned with their drinks “Okay,” she said placing down their cups. “Now, which one of you wanted the clean cup?”
Victor G.
No License Necessary
John Livingstone was sitting on his lawn sun tanning and reading, when he was startled by a fairly late model car crashing through a hedge and onto his lawn. Out came an elderly man named Morty Nussbaum and John helped him sit down.
“My goodness,” John exclaimed. “You are quite old to be driving!”
“Yes,” Morty replied. “I am old enough that I don’t need a license anymore. The last time I went to my doctor he examined me and asked if I had a driving license. I told him yes and handed it to him.”
“He took a pair of scissors out of a drawer, cut the license into pieces, and threw them in the wastebasket. ‘You won’t be needing this anymore,’ he said.”
“So, I thanked him and left.”
Morris S.
Musical Mayhem
A thief broke into the Epstein family mansion early one evening as he had been told that the Epsteins would be out for the evening. But the thief’s information wasn’t very good because suddenly, he heard footsteps – it was the entire Epstein family. The thief was in their music room at the time so he took refuge in the music room closet and hoped that he could slip out unnoticed. But what the thief didn’t know was that the Epstein kids loved their music room, even if their musical talents were still a little…rough.
From eight to nine o’clock the eldest daughter Rachel had a singing lesson.
From nine to ten o’clock the second daughter Sarah took a piano lesson.
From ten to eleven o’clock the eldest son David had a violin lesson.
From eleven to eleven thirty the other son Michael had a lesson on the flute.
At eleven thirty all the brothers and sisters assembled for an ear-splitting voice, piano, violin, and flute concert.
Finally, the thief staggered out from the closet, and falling at their feet, cried:
“For Heaven’s sake, please have me arrested!”
Alan A.
Moving Day
Rachel Ginsberg called up a pet store and said, “Could you please send me ten thousand cockroaches?”
“What in the world do you want with ten thousand cockroaches?” asked the clerk.
“Well,” replied Rachel, “I am moving out of my East Side apartment today and my lease says I have to leave the place in the same condition I found it.”
Sherry M.
High-Flying Granny Tales
Michael O’Brien, an executive at a high tech company had just finished a grueling business trip when he sat down in his airplane seat ready for a much deserved rest. But before he could close his eyes, his seatmate settled in an introduced herself. “Hi! My name is Suri. It’s so nice to meet you! I’m flying to New York for my grandson’s third birthday – it’s his upshern. That’s his first haircut. I’m so excited! I remember when he was just a little cutie pie and now he’s already three! It’s really hard to believe. He’s the most adorable thing you’ve ever seen! You know what? Hold on, I think I might have a picture of my little bubbaleh. Let me take a look in my purse. Yes, here it is, just look at him, isn’t he adorable? Do you see his dimple on his left cheek? Oy! Simply adorable! I could just stare at his picture all day.
“Oy, and you should hear him on the phone! He is just the cutest, he says to me in the cutest voice, ‘Hi Bubbie!’ It just gets me all teary eyed.”
After what seemed like two hours for poor Michael O’Brien, Suri seemed to realize that perhaps she was talking a bit too much. “You know, I feel terrible! Here I am just talking and talking without letting you get in a word edgewise!
Growing up in a community like ours made things seem easy. Surrounded by warm and affirming beliefs, we grew up in an enclave of religious observance, steeped in tradition. Attending the community’s yeshivot, praying and being involved in the synagogues, enjoying the rising number of kosher restaurants, and even participating in events at our community centers, we stuck together and we stuck to Judaism.
However, as many of us came to learn, the rest of the world does not share our values, and upon stepping outside the boundaries of our wonderful enclave of warmth and tradition, it is easy to get swept away by the powerful current of the surrounding culture. Once we leave the spiritual “safety zone” of our community, we run the risk of losing sight of what really matters. Spiritual alienation on college campuses is a real, prevalent phenomenon, and affects many of our youth in some way.
This phenomenon is not new, but it has been significantly exacerbated by the eruption of anti-Israel and anti-Semitic protests on campuses around the United States. The environment has become more contentious in recent months, and it is easy to feel lost on campus, remote from our families and our community.
As a recent graduate of Baruch College, currently enrolled in Cardozo Law School, I can attest to having personally dealt with this challenge. However, I realize that to fully understand the problem, I need to hear other people’s accounts and perspectives.
Rabbi Alter Goldstein has been serving as head Chabad Rabbi of the University of Michigan for 26 years, and I was fortunate to have had the opportunity to speak with him about the sensitive, but crucially important, topic of the risks of spiritual alienation on college campuses. I express my deep gratitude as well to Rabbi Joey Haber, founder and head of the Kesher organization, which works with our community’s post-high school youth, not only for his insights, but also for personally coming to Baruch each week to teach Torah.
The Game is Rigged
“You’re coming in knowing that this isn’t an environment conducive to spirituality and religion,” Rabbi Goldstein says. He explains that college students are exposed to many different lures and influences, that come in the form of parties, weekend events like football games (often on Shabbat), and the reality that many schools have classes on Jewish holidays. The hedonistic nature of campus life, and the celebration of wanton indulgence, pose a serious challenge to the religiously-committed Jewish student.
“It is hard to stay where you are, and even more difficult to grow,” Rabbi Goldstein observes.
Away from family, synagogues and a communal structure, youngsters are likely to look for something else to latch onto. And with alluring activities at arms-length at all times, it’s only a matter of time until some compromises are made.
But beyond the spiritual challenges posed by campus life, grave danger lurks inside the classroom, as well, where students are taught by professors with a secular worldview who select texts and devise curricula that promote their personal opinions and perspectives. Many professors come to the classroom with worldviews which are nothing short of appalling, and students are forced to listen to these foreign values presented as incontrovertible, enlightened truth. The young 18 or 19-year-old student has no easy way to oppose the older, academically-trained professor who speaks with authority as he or she tries to impose his beliefs on his or her students. The student hears only the perspectives the agenda-driven professors provide, and is often lectured to about the validity of these ideas. If the student ignores it or tunes it all out, his or her academic performance will suffer.
The game is rigged against the religious student. The professors control your final grade, so you have no choice to at least appear to agree with them. The problem is, with everyone appearing to agree, with papers being forced to be written in favor of these outrageous ideas, with the higher grades going to those who “buy in” the most, it becomes very difficult not to begin to see some validity in these completely invalid ideas.
I experienced this many times during my years at Baruch, and, like others, I played the game. I appeared to agree, because I learned that when I didn’t, it would harm my grade. I wrote papers wholly in agreement with ideas that I despise. It required a great deal of detachment to pull that off.
Reflecting on these two different challenges – the alluring campus life, and the foreign ideologies taught in the classroom – Rabbi Joey Haber observed that “the parties are a bigger challenge than the ideas,” because “the parties are more attractive than the ideas are.”
At the same time, however, Rabbi Haber believes that the ideological damage can often prove to be more permanent. He says that in his experience, it’s easier to pull someone back into the community if the main issue is the parties or the lifestyle. When it comes to the foreign ideas, though, “while they are more difficult to get trapped by, they are much harder to be pulled from.”
Rabbi Goldstein added that students today seem more apathetic and nonchalant about their connection to Judaism. Resisting the spiritually hostile forces that abound requires strength and fortitude, and, unfortunately, many students simply lack the religious passion and commitment to exert this kind of effort.
Time Constraints
Another important factor to consider is the limits on a student’s time. Most youngsters who enroll in college do so in order to prepare for what they hope will be a successful professional career, and so, naturally, they take their studies very seriously and want to get good grades. Pursuing academic excellence of course necessitates the investment of a great deal of time – which makes meeting one’s religious obligations a difficult struggle.
When I started studying at Baruch, I was living in an apartment in Kips Bay, around a 20-minute walk to the nearest synagogue, which had only one minyan in the morning, at 6:45am. As the weather got colder, this walk became less feasible. My family was all the way back in Deal, and I would see them only on weekends. And so I found myself isolated from my support systems, being forced to fend for myself in an unfamiliar world.
One day, I had to wake up extra early to get to my 7am writing class. Like I had done the day before, I said I would come back to my apartment after the class ended at 9am so I could pray at a (somewhat) reasonable time. I came back, but I had homework to take care of before my history class at 10:45. I did the homework and then left, walking back in at around 1pm. An essay was due at 11:59 that night. I ate lunch and then sat down to work on my essay. I was tired, as I had a long day up to that point, and long nights that entire week. I closed my eyes at around 2pm and woke up again at 4:45. It was getting a little darker out, and I made myself some coffee to wake up. All the while, I felt like I was forgetting something, but had no clue what it was.
It took me a few minutes to realize that I hadn’t put on tefillin yet. I immediately scrambled to get it on before the day ended, ashamed of myself, but too much in a rush to think too much about it. The sun hadn’t set by the time I got my tefillin on, so I did not actually “miss the day,” but this was a close call that rattled me and made me realize that I needed to change something about my situation. I moved out of the apartment a few weeks later and moved in with my grandparents in Brooklyn. The daily subway ride was annoying, but I was making minyan.
For some college kids, keeping kosher is a problem – especially in colleges with limited availability of kosher food. Rabbi Goldstein says that in the case of Michigan, while kosher food is available, it is still a big challenge for people, adding, “I don’t know what they do for their personal life” in terms of kashrut.
Thankfully, this was never an issue for me, partly because I had easy access to kosher food, but also because twice a week, Kesher brought kosher food for the students who attended their classes. In fact, Rabbi Haber says, this is one of the organization’s objectives.
Responding to my question of why Kesher comes to colleges, Rabbi Haber explains, “We have a chance to give them kosher food easily, inspire students, bring them together, give them a sense of community, and give them an opportunity to pray.”
Staying Close to Your Network
What, then, is the solution? What strategies are available to a young man or woman from the community who goes off to college?
First and foremost, Rabbi Goldstein strongly recommends learning for a year in Israel before college, even if no college credits are earned during that year. The experience of immersing oneself in our sacred texts in the Holy Land provides a degree of fortification that can help a youngster withstand the spiritual challenges posed by college life.
And while in college, the student needs to gird himself with strength and confidence.
“The number one thing I tell them is that they’re a leader, not a follower,” Rabbi Goldstein says. The student must realize that he charts his own course, rather than blindly following the crowd.
Furthermore, students should try to keep their education close to home.
While acknowledging that certain colleges offer a better education in some areas than others (Michigan, for example, is renowned for its engineering program), both Rabbi Goldstein and Rabbi Haber say if you want to keep the values you grew up with, stay close to your family and your network, and strongly consider close-to-home options.
It is not uncommon for a community youngster to face the decision between an out-of-town college which specializes in his or her field of choice, and a less prestigious institution that is located nearby and offers the option of commuting from home. Rabbi Goldstein unhesitatingly and strongly recommends the second option.
“Especially in today’s day and age, staying closer to home is so important,” he says. “Specifically in the Sephardic world, there’s a very, very strong family-oriented atmosphere.”
Rabbi Haber concurs, explaining, “When you’re closer to home, your family, your shuls and your friends are surrounding you – and all three of those are a great guide to your life.”
I can relate to this. After a while, I left Brooklyn and just started commuting directly from Deal every day. I adjusted my schedule to make it reasonably work, and took Metro Park into the city. I felt spiritually connected in a way I hadn’t felt in a long time, and got more involved in my local synagogue, taking part in planning and helping out on Shabbat. This coincided with the rise of the hate-filled anti-Israel protests on campus, so I was glad to come home, away from all the chaos. Staying close to home, to your family, friends, and shul, is the best way to maintain one’s spiritual connection.
Additionally, Rabbi Haber says, the college that appears to best prepare the youngster for his or her career might not necessarily turn out to be the best choice.
“It’s very hard to predict how your career is going to go, and even harder to know in advance what will be better for your career.” It’s simply not worth it to risk one’s spiritual connection for the sake of studying at a school which might potentially offer long-term career benefits.
Fighting Fire with Fire
Strange as this might sound, it is important also to “fight back” when this is necessary and possible, to find creative solutions to problems created by the college system.
In my final semester, Baruch threw me a curveball: it required me to find and complete an internship at a communications company in order to graduate. As I was nearing the finish line, about to complete a four-year degree in only two years, and having just been admitted to Cardozo, I had zero interest in getting bogged down by more red tape.
Earlier, I mentioned that to succeed in college, you have to play their game. But while this is generally true, with enough skill and determination, you can beat the system and come out on top.
“How are you guys with nonprofits?” I asked.
“We’re good with non-profits,” They answered. “Just send us an approval letter.”
And so, instead of working at a company of their choosing, which would likely bring with it some degree of spiritual compromise, I walked into my local synagogue and got a volunteer job as an assistant twice a week. I restructured my schedule to Zoom classes on those days, and suddenly, I was only going into the city two days a week. The other two days? I was working in the synagogue, giving back to my community, all on a school-accredited internship. For all the punches they’ve thrown at me, it felt good to land one of my own.
Spiritual alienation is a battle. You are in a fight to keep your values, to keep close to your community, even as outside forces seek to rip you away from it. But do not for a moment think that this battle cannot be won. Be proactive. Be creative. Fight fire with fire. Start a minyan on campus. Find a havruta with whom to learn daf yomi. Build something into your daily routine that strengthens your connection to your heritage.
And what if a student was already alienated, drifting away from religious commitment, and now wishes to return?
“If it’s a girl, find a religious mentor, and if it’s a boy, find a rabbi to learn with,” Rabbi Haber says.
Rabbi Goldstein’s message to college students is: “Try to be an inspiration to others.”
People have tremendous respect for those who adhere to their values, even through hardship. If you win this battle, and remain steadfastly committed even in the face of the pressures on campus, you will be a role model to others, and you will have set yourself on the path to success in all areas of life, having gained invaluable experience in the art of struggle and triumphing over adversity.
Don’t stop fighting to maintain your fealty to the traditions of our community. You can do this!
During the summer, Solomon borrowed $400 from his good friend and was unable to return the outstanding loan until after the summer. As a schoolteacher, Solomon received his first paycheck at the start of the back-to-school season. Anxious to return the loan, he handed the $400 cash he owed to a ten-year-old student and asked him to deliver it to the lender. Solomon was confident that the ten-year-old would safely deliver the cash to the lender, since the lender resided next door to the young boy’s home. But when the ten-year-old arrived home and told his mother of the cash he was carrying, she immediately confiscated the money and was appalled by Solomon’s reckless behavior. She then placed the money on top of the piano adjacent to the entrance of the home. A short while later, a delivery boy from a local grocer who was dropping off groceries entered the home, and evidently made off with the $400. The lady of the home notified Solomon of the unfortunate turn of events and chastised him for his reckless conduct. Solomon acknowledged that he acted unwisely, but claimed that had she not intervened, the money would have surely reached the next-door neighbor. Unwilling to compensate Solomon for the lost funds, and unable to find the delivery boy for collection, the matter was presented to Bet Din to resolve.
How should the Bet Din rule? Is Solomon entitled to compensation or not, and why?
Torah Law
According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a person entrusted with an item to safeguard is liable in case of theft if he had left the item unattended. Even if the third party who was left alone with the item is not a suspicious character, and has no prior criminal record, nevertheless, it is considered negligence, and the custodian is liable. Unpaid custodians are generally exempt in case of theft, but if the item was lost or stolen due to a custodian’s negligence, he bears liability and must reimburse the owner for the loss. This ruling applies even if it is never proven that the third party who was allowed unattended access to the item was, in fact, the thief. Unless the custodian can prove that there is no link between the third party’s access and the subsequent disappearance of the item, he is held accountable for negligently leaving the item unattended.
These guidelines apply only to a custodian who agrees to safeguard an item. However, in instances where one obtains an item belonging to another through a minor, the degree of responsibility may vary. Certainly, one who destroys or damages an item received from a minor is liable for his destructive actions, but many authorities exempt an offender in instances of mere negligence. Since the owner handed over the item to a minor, it may be assumed that he implicitly relinquished all claims of negligence affected by another. Although the negligent party took the item from the minor’s possession, he does not automatically assume responsibility as a custodian. By willingly entrusting the item to a minor, the owner himself can be said to have already compromised the safety of the item. So even if the item was intercepted and subsequently lost by another, since the item may have already had a status of misplacement from the onset, the intercepting party can be exempted from liability.
However, several halachic authorities dispute this ruling and maintain that one who intercepts an item from a minor assumes the status of an unpaid custodian. Since the item may have likely been protected by the minor and ultimately returned to its owner, one who interferes with that process bears liability in cases of negligence.
Generally, when faced with a case subject to two conflicting views among the halachic authorities, a Bet Din will not issue a judgment for payment. Since there are halachic opinions to rely on, a defendant has the legal right to withhold payment.
As a side note, in instances where a third party takes an item entrusted to a minor, and afterwards returns it to the minor, he is not liable if the item is subsequently lost. Since the owner himself placed it in the custody of a minor, it is legally acceptable to return it to that same minor.
The Bet Din did not require the mother to pay Solomon the $400, since, as discussed, according to several halachic authorities, one who intercepts and then misplaces an item entrusted to a minor is exempt from liability. Although the mother was most definitely negligent by allowing a stranger access to the money she intercepted, nevertheless, she never explicitly accepted responsibility and according to several opinions she is exempt from payment.
This ruling was because Solomon gave the money to a minor, thereby implicitly relinquishing claims of negligence affected by the mother. By depositing the money with a minor, he is considered as having partially abandoned the funds and cannot later demand compensation for its subsequent loss due simply to negligence. In essence, he is the one who bears initial accountability for carelessness.
In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H
YOU BE THE JUDGE
The Wrath of Milton
Stanley, a jobber, regularly buys and sells varied merchandise at a small profit. Upon striking a deal to purchase from Harry $7,000 worth of goods, the two agreed that the sale would be on consignment. Stanley stored the merchandise in his private garage, which was protected by a surveillance camera and a sophisticated alarm system. But when Hurricane Milton swept across the Southeast Coast, a tree fell on the garage, starting an electrical fire that caused permanent damage to the merchandise. Stanley immediately notified Harry of the unfortunate turn of events and told him that he had no intention of paying for the goods since they were bought on consignment. Harry did not respond to Stanley but rather summoned him to Bet Din claiming $7,000 in compensation for the lost merchandise. In Bet Din, Stanley explained that although the merchandise was lost while in his domain, by definition of consignment, Harry had retained ownership of the goods until they were sold. Since Harry was the owner of the merchandise, he is to sustain the loss. Harry defended his claim stating simply that while Stanley maintained the right to return the merchandise at any time, if he fails to return the goods for any reason, he is liable for payment.
How should the Bet Din rule – in favor of Stanley or Harry, and why?
By nature, humans are curious. Little three-year-olds begin asking: why? Why is the sky blue? Why are trees green? Why can’t I have another cookie? We need, and therefore demand, answers to our questions even when any answer given will not satisfy us. Have you ever met a three-year-old who responded, “That makes sense,” when his mother explained why he couldn’t have another cookie? As adults, we continue asking why as if everything had a reasonable explanation. Why did I not get that job? Why am I not married yet? Why did my loved one die? No answer will suffice. No response will assuage our loss, grief, and pain.
In our Rosh Hashana prayers, we acknowledge that “the secret things belong to Hashem.” Hashem does not reveal the secret things. He does not offer an explanation or answer our questions as to why. We are told that Hashem runs the world and we must accept His will. And while we can accept His secrets and His decree, acceptance does not mean we will not feel a sense of loss, grief, emptiness, and pain when we lose a loved one. Acceptance and pain are not mutually exclusive. And grieving is not a sign that we lack emunah.
There Is No One Way to Deal with Loss
Grief is the normal emotional response to a major loss, such as the death of a loved one. Grief is highly personal and is experienced differently by everyone. Men and women grieve differently and teens and children mourn differently than adults. There is no “right” way to deal with loss.
Knowing this will allow us to be more compassionate with ourselves and with those around us who are grieving. Because grief has many facets, one may experience many conflicting emotions, such as feeling scared, relieved, resentful, or guilty – all in the same day. You may at times feel nothing at all. You may feel like crying or you may not be able to cry at all. There may also be times when you feel angry at the person who has died. I have heard many a widow lament, “Why did he leave me?” Because a death will always trigger our most vulnerable feelings of abandonment, your anger does not mean you did not love the person you lost. Just the opposite is true. Your anger can be an expression of how connected you were to them. Moreover, your feelings do not need to make sense to anyone else. These are just feelings and having them is normal. Even though you are hurting, you may want a little respite when you can have fun or laugh for a while. This is not a betrayal of your loved one.
While grief is the emotional response to a loss, mourning is the expression of deep sorrow. Mourning practices differ among cultures Our Torah outlines the specific practices one should follow when mourning a close loved one, beginning with the seven-day shiva period. Our sages understood that in the immediate aftermath of a loss, one is inconsolable, as it states in Pirkei Avot 4:23: “Rabbi Shimon ben Elazar said, ‘Do not console him [your fellow Jew] while his dead lies before him.” During this time, one is still overcoming the shock and distress of the loss and finds comfort by being surrounded by friends and family who speak of their loved one who has died. Stories told during shiva may trigger memories of the person who has died, both happy and sad. These memories help one stay connected to the person who died. Although the loved one has died the relationship has not.
Disorientation After a Loss
In his masterful work, Consolation (Jewish Publication Society, 2005), Rabbi Norman Lamm describes what happens to a mourner before reaching grief’s fifth and final stage: acceptance. “We experience an uncommon confusion – not necessarily delirium or chaos, or even bewilderment, but rather dislocation, a form of discontinuity. We sense that something is out of sync, but we cannot quite decode it. During our loved one’s lifetime, we were safe within a circumference of images and memories – the departed and the family and our friends – and now this world is simply not the same. We are disoriented.”
Disorientation is a by-product of our grief. We are likely to become bewildered and disconnected from our normal routine, our normal lives. The loved one for whom we grieve was part of a stable picture in a frame that included us, and now that frame is broken. The picture is torn, and we struggle to deal with the new reality – a reality that no longer includes our loved one – in person. Facing the world after loss feels like the phantom limb phenomenon, where one experiences feeling in a limb that has been severed. The loss is always with you.
Learning from Our Ancestors
The Torah relates the very different mourning processes of our sages. In Parashat Chaye Sarah, the Torah describes that “Avraham withdrew to mourn Sarah and to weep for her.” When Yaacov learned of the death of his beloved son Yoseph – even though it was a lie – the Book of Bereishit narrates that he was bereft and refused to be comforted (Bereishit 37:35). We learn from this that Hashem does send comfort to mourners – who are morning someone who has actually died.
When Aharon is told about the death of his sons Nadab and Abihu, the Torah writes he did not respond – “vayidom Aharon.” He was silent. Parashat Chukat describes the death of Miriam and Aharon. Bnei Yisrael mourned for each of them for thirty days. And in our last parasha, the death and mourning for Moshe Rabbeinu is described. After thirty days of mourning the Torah states: “then the days of weeping and mourning for Moshe were at an end” (Devarim 34:8). While the Torah relates a usual timeframe for mourning of thirty days, this relates to the “formal” mourning period. The emotional grief that one experiences may, and usually will, last longer than we imagine.
Everyone’s Way of Mourning Is Individual
It is important to recognize that your natural response to loss and grief is the right response for you. It does not matter what you or others expect. It does not matter what conventional wisdom dictates. The way you grieve is the way you need to grieve. David Kessler, author and grief specialist writes, “We live in a culture that does not know how to grieve. We live in a society that wants us to get back to normal as soon as possible. We’re expected to keep moving, to get on with our lives. We may have those expectations of ourselves. But it doesn’t work that way.”
Some mental health practitioners go so far as to say that grief counseling is a waste of time and money. Since everyone has their own unique way of grieving, it is impossible for a counselor to pinpoint the specifics of that person’s grief, let alone recommend how to cope with it. This insight is crucial if we are to understand a mourner’s mindset. Everyone grieves differently, no matter what circumstances cause the grief.
Just as we struggle to get to the acceptance of the loss of a loved one, we must strive to accept our personal and individual style of grief. We need to give ourselves permission to feel the pain, without worrying that it will overwhelm or overcome us. Grief often brings the sense of loss of control. We could not control the outcome of our loved one’s illness. We could not control the circumstances that brought about a tragic, untimely death. Yet, even during dark bouts of grief, we still possess the dignity of choice. We can make choices about what activities we attend, join, and do – and what we cannot – to help reinstate some of that loss of control.
The Road to Healing
Humans are wired for connection and a death is the ultimate disconnect from a loved one. Grief intensifies feelings of loneliness, which often leads to isolation. It is difficult, but important, not to remove yourself from others’ lives. Although we do not want to constantly hear, “How are you doing?” prompting us to lie that we are okay for the sake of the other, do not isolate yourself. Be honest about your feelings. If someone took the initiative to ask, then they care enough to hear your sincere response. And, although this is difficult in the best of circumstances, try to communicate your needs. Some days you may want company and distraction and some days you may wish to be left alone. You alone get to decide the amount of interaction that feels comfortable for you.
Grief is an all-consuming emotion that leaves us feeling vulnerable and weak. We become fearful that we will be overcome with grief and will never recover. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, who identified five stages of grief that everyone endures – denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. She emphasized: “The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not ‘get over’ the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will heal and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same nor would you want to.”
May Hashem send comfort and solace to all that need.
The Deal Football League (DFL) has quickly cemented itself as the preeminent flag football league in the community, drawing top athletes from Deal, Lakewood, and Brooklyn to participate each Sunday from September through December. Now in its fifth season, the DFL continues to grow and thrive, capturing the hearts of players and fans alike as we head into the heart of the 2024 season.
It’s almost hard to believe that this season was at risk of not happening at all. After four successful years of being run by The DSN, the league was at a crossroads. Interest levels had always been high, but the day-to-day management became increasingly difficult for the original leadership team to handle. Recognizing the strain, the league’s organizers made the pivotal decision to bring in a fresh face with extensive experience in managing sports leagues.
Enter Sam J. Sutton. After weeks of due diligence, Sam was appointed as the new commissioner, and under his leadership, the league has seen a rejuvenation. Registration numbers soared, and Sutton implemented an entirely new approach to league media through his company, Sam I Am Productions. With fresh energy and a clear direction, the DFL was back in full swing, ready for another thrilling season.
Season Kicks Off
The season kicked off with a live draft at the West Deal Shul Community Center, creating excitement and anticipation throughout the community. Now, three weeks into the season, the standings are beginning to take shape, and the competition is heating up.
DFL’s Media Presence and Player Engagement
A key feature of the DFL this season is its enhanced media presence, led by Sam I Am Productions. The league’s YouTube channel and Instagram page are buzzing with content, from game highlights to player interviews, keeping the community engaged and invested. The league’s group chat is another aspect that keeps players connected and invested in every aspect of the league, giving them a platform to share their thoughts and engage in spirited discussions.
The Stars Shine Bright
The players are what truly make the DFL special. With highly competitive games each week, standout performances, and big moments, the league continues to raise its profile. Every game features shining stars, and the “Player of the Week” and “Play of the Week” awards, along with the “Turning Point of the Game,” keep the spotlight on the league’s top performers.
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In next month’s issue, we’ll dive deeper into the playoff picture and see which teams are positioning themselves for a deep run into the postseason.
For those wanting to stay updated on all things DFL, head to the league’s YouTube channel and Instagram page for all the latest highlights, interviews, and more.
The 2024 DFL season features eight teams, each led by a respected captain and sponsored by community businesses:
You’re a new mom who’s looking forward to your baby’s first Mommy and Me class. Around the room babies are sitting, facing their mothers, and playing “peak a boo” with colorful scarves. Your baby isn’t able to sit yet. You start to wonder if your child should be sitting like his peers. This is not something you foresaw to be a concern. You’re a pro mom, you’ve been acing it for the past seven months. Your baby eats well and sleeps through the night, but sitting, who even thinks about it?
Occupational therapists (OTs) are experts in developmental milestones that begin in infancy. These milestones occur at specific windows of time to progress your baby throughout development. Milestones help integrate primitive reflexes and keep your baby playing and feeding age-appropriately.
As a mother, you aren’t supposed to inherently know about when these milestones occur. Fortunately, your pediatrician goes over a list of milestones at each well visit. Your pediatrician may ask: “Is your child rolling?” or “Is your child pointing?” At a glance these questions may seem like easy yes or no questions. However, if you think about it, does anyone speak about how excited they are that their baby is rolling?
You may answer yes to the milestone questions at the appointment. That afternoon, while playing with your baby, you notice that your baby is only rolling to his left and is only using one hand to reach for toys. This observation may be nothing of concern or possibly your baby may benefit from OT.
What do you do? With any concern, always consult with your pediatrician first. They may advise to seek OT right away, the earlier your baby is in therapy, the quicker they progress. Sometimes, your pediatrician may advise you to “wait and see.” Now, the power is in your hands. If you are worried about your baby, you can decide to seek therapy instead of waiting. You are the expert on your baby. You are taking notice to how he plays compared to his peers. If your OT recommends therapy, now your baby has the best possible chance to get on track. Once your child is evaluated, your OT may recommend physical or speech therapy instead. If your baby doesn’t need therapy, your baby is doing well and your mind is set at ease.
When an OT evaluates your baby’s skills, they are analyzing each of your baby’s body movements, checking their primitive reflexes and overall strength. For example, in regard to rolling: Is your baby rolling to his right and to his left? Is your baby rolling from his back to belly and from his belly to back?
During OT sessions, you’ll receive guidance on stretches, positioning, exercises, and different activities to help your baby achieve his milestones.
The developmental milestones occur within a range of months. As a general rule, OTs give the baby time to “catch-up” before suggesting therapy. Each baby’s case is specific. Whether they were born prematurely, have a muscle tightness, or have a specific diagnosis will dictate the urgency of initiating OT.
The following is a list of milestones that your baby should be able to do by each age. Other milestones related to standing/walking and speech/communication are not listed. Consult with a physical or speech therapist accordingly.
2-3 months:
Lifts head briefly during tummy time
Brings hands to mouth
Visually tracks toys
4-5 months:
Bears weight on forearms during tummy time
Rolls from back to belly and belly to back
Reaches and grasps toys
6 months:
Sits unsupported
Grasps small objects using all their fingers
8 months:
Crawls on hands and feet
12 months:
Pincer grasp with index finger and thumb with both hands
Self-feed finger foods
Transitions between all positions: laying down, sitting, crawling
Additionally, if your baby seems floppy, rigid, or seems to exhibit sensory seeking behaviors (rocking or spinning) or sensory avoidant behaviors (refuses to touch certain textures in food or during play), an OT may be of assistance.
Carolyn Orfahli, MS, OTR/L is a Pediatric Occupational Therapist and founder of MamaBear OT. She has extensive experience working at NYU Rusk Rehab pediatric outpatient unit and in Early Interventions/School settings. She can be reached at: (718) 490-5045.