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Ocean Township GOP Elects Magen David Yeshivah Graduate Isaac Shiram As Its Chairman

The Ocean Township GOP committee unanimously elected Isaac Shiram, 25, to serve as Chairman at its recent re-organization meeting.

Shiram recently served as District Director for New Jersey State Assemblywomen Marilyn Piperno and Kim Eulner from 2022 to 2024.

“I am honored to have been elected by the Ocean Township Republican Committee to serve as Chair” said Shiram. “It’s so important to bring new members with diverse voices to the table. I’m thankful for all the support and I look forward to working with our Monmouth County Republican leadership and fellow Committee members to support candidates that prioritize the residents of Ocean Township.”

Elected Republican leaders endorsed Shiram’s candidacy and pledged to work with him to grow the party. “I have gotten to know Isaac well these past couple of years and was proud to support his election as Chair of our Committee,” said Monmouth County Clerk Christine G. Hanlon.

“As a young Republican from a diverse background, Isaac provides a unique and valuable perspective within our greater Monmouth County Republican Committee. I wish him well as he works to build on the successes of outgoing Chair Tom Fitterer.”

Isaac lives in Ocean Township with his family. Currently, he serves as a Confidential Aide to Monmouth County Commissioner Erik Anderson. Isaac received his Bachelor of Arts in Political Science from CUNY Brooklyn College, and attended Magen David Yeshivah High School.

 

Sephardic Community Federation Plays Pivotal Role to Help Elect Kalman Yeger to NY State Assembly

The SCF (Sephardic Community Federation) and the Flatbush Jewish Community Coalition (FJCC) mobilized voters last month to deliver a decisive victory for Councilman Kalman Yeger to succeed retiring Assemblywoman Helene Weinstein, who has served the community with distinction for over 40 years.

In one of the busiest weeks for the community, with schools out and families preparing for camp and summer vacation, the community heeded the call and delivered landslide results. Yeger will appear on November’s ballot and does not face any other party’s opposition.

Councilman Yeger, now the nominee for State Assembly, said, “I am incredibly grateful to our community for standing tall and showing up to vote, and to the SCF, FJCC, and partners for their leadership in coordinating a robust GOTV effort. I look forward to continuing to fight every day for my constituents, now at City Hall and soon in Albany. Come January, our community will have a strong group of assembly members fighting on behalf of the Jewish community statewide.”

Josh Mehlman, Chairman of the FJCC, added, “The Flatbush community recognized the critical importance of this primary election and came out to vote, despite the calendar. We are thankful to our partners – the Sephardic Community Federation, the Marine Park leadership, and the dedicated shul leaders throughout the district who worked diligently to increase turnout.”

 

A Day of Family Fun at the 10th Annual Jersey Shore Hatzalah Carnival

The 10th Annual Carnival of the Hatzalah of the Jersey Shore was held at the JCC in Deal, NJ, on Sunday, July 14th. The first Hatzalah Carnival was created not only to spread Hatzalah’s message of togetherness and community safety, but also to give the community a day of fun and ahdut (unity).

Each year the Carnival gets bigger and better, due to all the volunteers’ dedicated work, which starts every year the very day after that year’s Carnival.

The action-packed day featured a petting zoo, pony rides, a dunk tank, amusement rides, games, prizes, special treats like ices and cotton candy, and a BBQ hosted by the Hatzalah members. On site were ambulances, open for the public to take a look inside.

We are all familiar with the life-saving work of Hatzalah. Hatzalah’s EMTs also strive to be a support for the community and to promote safety education, including safety in the home, at school, and on the road. They also are ambassadors to promote bicycle safety and pool safety. Their mission is “total commitment to the sanctity of life.”

Thanks to a very impressive turnout, Hatzalah was able to accomplish its goal – which was to have an amazing community event for everyone – a day of togetherness and fun. All the children left with smiles on their faces and prizes in their hands. And the adults were smiling too!

Different, But Together

This month’s Torah reading offers us the precious opportunity to take a closer look at one of the most often observed – yet, ironically, seldom discussed – mitzvot: the daily Shema recitation. 

There are two sections of the Torah which the Torah itself explicitly commands us to read twice each day, in the morning and in the evening.  The first, which begins with the famous verse of “Shema Yisrael Hashem Elokenu Hashem ehad,” appears in Parashat Vaet’hanan (Devarim 6:4-9).  The second begins with the words “Vehayah im shamoa,” and is found in the next parashah, Parashat Ekev (Devarim 11:13-21).  These two sections form the first two paragraphs of the daily Shema recitation.  A third paragraph, from the Book of Bamidbar (15:37-41), is added because it concludes with a reminder about the Exodus from Egypt, and we are commanded to read about this event each day.  Our discussion here will focus on the first two paragraphs, which we read this month. 

 

Contrasting “Shema” With “Vehaya Im Shamoa 

Rabbis throughout the ages have noted a number of significant differences between these two pieces of Biblical text.  Perhaps the most important, and most obvious, difference involves the notion of sechar ve’onesh – reward and punishment.  This is the primary theme of the second paragraph, which promises great rewards for the faithful service of Gd, while warning of dreadful calamities for abandoning Gd in favor of foreign deities.  The Torah in this section promises that the service of the Almighty is rewarded with plentiful rainfall, which will, in turn, lead to an abundance of produce and economic prosperity.  It then proceeds to warn that the rejection of Gd will result in severe drought, thus causing widespread starvation, to the point where “you will be swiftly driven from upon the good land which Gd is giving you.”  These promises and warnings do not appear in the first paragraph, which commands us to show unbridled devotion to Gd, but without speaking about the consequences of our loyalty or disloyalty. 

The second discrepancy relates to the person or people being addressed.  The first paragraph, “Shema,” is written in the singular form, addressing itself to individuals.  (Thus, for example, this paragraph begins with the singular term “Shema,” as opposed to the plural “Shim’u” or “Tishme’u.”)  By contrast, the second paragraph utilizes the plural form (e.g. “im shamoa tishme’u”), addressing itself not to each individual, but to the people collectively. 

Finally, these two paragraphs seem to demand different levels of religious devotion.  The first paragraph commands us to love Gd “with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your means.”  By contrast, the paragraph of “Vehayah im shamoa” instructs that we must love and serve our Creator “with all your heart and with all your soul,” omitting the requirement to serve Him “bechol meodecha” – with all our financial resources. 

What are we to make of these distinctions?  What do these two different paragraphs – which we recite twice each and every day – teach us about our obligations to Gd? 

 

Kollel vs. Work 

Rav Chaim of Volozhin (Belarus, 1749-1821) explained that in these two sections, the Torah addresses two different groups of people. 

The background to his understanding of the text is a question discussed by the Gemara in Masechet Berachot (35b) – and which is also discussed and debated quite often among our community members, who are perhaps unaware of the Gemara’s conclusion.  We refer to the question of full-time learning versus working for a livelihood.  Many strongly disapprove of married men who choose to spend their days in kollel learning Torah, and receive support from donors and/or family.  The opponents of kollel life accuse such men of abdicating the most basic responsibility of a husband and father – to support his wife and children.  By contrast, others frown upon those who spend their days in the office, engaging all day in mundane pursuits, rather than choosing to immerse themselves in the sanctity of the Torah.  

Importantly, both these perspectives appear explicitly in the Gemara. 

Rabbi Yishmael, as the Gemara cites, taught, “Hanheg bahem minhag derech eretz,” which, roughly translated, means, “Be normal.”  According to Rabbi Yishmael, although there is clearly an obligation to spend time learning Torah each day and evening, a person should work for a livelihood.  Rabbi Shimon bar Yohai, however, objects, asking, “Torah mah teheh aleha?” – “What will happen to Torah”?  If a person spends his time working, he will not have the time to master the large corpus of Torah, and will remain an ignoramus.  Therefore, according to Rabbi Shimon, one should devote himself fulltime to Torah study, and rely on Hashem to support him. 

The Gemara concludes by observing, “Many acted like Rabbi Yishmael, and were successful; like Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai, and were not successful.” 

Rav Chaim of Volozhin explains this conclusion as expressing that halachah actually accepts both views – that of Rabbi Yishmael, and that of Rabbi Shimon.  For “the many,” the proper approach to follow is Rabbi Yishmael’s prescription.  The vast majority of people are not suited for Rabbi Shimon’s lifestyle.  Spending all day intensively studying intricate, complex texts is exceedingly difficult, as are the significant financial sacrifices entailed – kollel stipends, even when supplemented with parental assistance, do not provide much income, and they require the family to live simply.  The majority of people cannot possibly be expected to choose such a lifestyle.  They are thus commanded to set aside time for Torah learning each day and night, while spending the rest of their time working for a living. 

Significantly, however, the Gemara speaks of “many” who were unable to adhere to Rabbi Shimon’s prescription – clearly indicating that a minority of people could.  Those with the intellectual abilities, self-discipline and motivation needed to devote themselves fulltime to Torah learning, and to make the necessary sacrifices, should do so.  And the gainfully employed with the means of helping to support these scholars should donate generously to this critically important cause of facilitating Torah scholarship.  

 

Two Legitimate Paradigms 

With this in mind, Rav Chaim of Volozhin explains the differences between the first two paragraphs of Shema. 

The first is written in the singular form because it speaks to the rare, exceptional student, who diligently applies himself to fulltime Torah learning.  He is called upon to serve Gd even “bechol meodecha,” with his money, to compromise material standards for the sake of pursuing Torah scholarship.  In this paragraph, there is no mention of rewards of economic prosperity, because the person being addressed has no interest in material blessing.  He is focused exclusively on spiritual greatness, on success in his academic pursuits, and so the Torah here does not need to promise financial rewards for his devotion to Hashem.  For him, the joy and exhilaration of spending his days in the bet midrash is itself the greatest reward he could possibly want. 

The second paragraph, however, is written in the plural form, because it is directed toward the majority of the people, who involve themselves in mundane activities, pursuing a livelihood (while of course allocating time each day for Torah study).  In this section, the Torah cannot demand serving Gd “bechol meodecha,” with all one’s money, because the majority of people are not expected to make the same financial sacrifices that are expected of the nation’s spiritual elite.  And the reward for faithful devotion to Gd in this section is economic prosperity, the success of the people’s endeavors to earn a livelihood to comfortably support themselves and their families. 

These two paragraphs thus address two different groups of Jews, who lead two different – but equally acceptable – lifestyles.  Our daily Shema recitation speaks to the two paradigms of religious life, each of which is right, depending on a person’s capabilities. 

 

Bringing the Two Groups of Together 

What I find especially significant about this insight is that in the siddur, these two paragraphs are brought together.  In the Torah, as mentioned, they appear separately – one in Parashat Vaet’hanan, and the other later, in Parashat Ekev.  But in our daily morning and evening prayers, we recite them together – teaching us that members of the two groups belong together, in the same shul, in the same community.   

We do not need – and should not need – separate synagogues for the different groups of Jews, for those who devote themselves to Torah learning and for those who choose to work for a living.  This is not an “either/or” issue, a question of “good” versus “bad.”  Both groups are equally important and equally precious components of Am Yisrael, provided that they are genuinely devoted to the service of Hashem through each individual’s chosen path.  We need people committed to halachic observance and to making time for Torah alongside their professional and commercial pursuits, as well as a group of accomplished scholars, who preserve and perpetuate our Torah tradition.  And we need them all to join together, with mutual respect and affection, to fulfill our mission as Gd’s treasured nation. 

More generally, the combination of these two paragraphs in the daily Shema recitation shows us that different kinds of Jews belong together, and do not need to live divided, as though in parallel universes.  Am Yisrael consists of many different groups, who are very different from one another, and this is ok.  This is how it is supposed to be.  We aren’t meant to be all identically alike.  But we are meant to join together in unity, respecting one another and working together for our common goals. 

Like the two paragraphs of Shema printed side-by-side in our siddurim, let us come together even with those who are different from us, and join forces to build the Jewish Nation into the extraordinary people that we are supposed to be. 

The Master of Compassion

Rabbi David Ashear

The prophet Yeshayah (25:8) foresees the day when there will be no more death, and Hashem will wipe the tears from every face. The Talmud Yerushalmi explains this to mean that Hashem, personally, will come to each and every one of us in the future in all His splendor and glory, to console and comfort us for all the hardships and tragedies we have suffered. He will explain to each person why He needed to do what He did, and we will see very clearly how everything was done with only love and compassion.

Elsewhere, Hashem tells us (Yeshayah 51:12), that He is the One Who will come to console us. He will comfort us as a mother comforts her child.

A man once came to the Kotzker Rebbe crying uncontrollably after the death of his daughter. The Rebbe said to him, “Your pain is deeper than the deepest ocean. Only Hashem, the Master of compassion, is capable of consoling you.”

We live during a difficult time period when tragedies are prevalent and we are all in need of comfort from the Master of compassion. We do not and cannot understand. Hashem’s ways are hidden and often inexplicable. Yet, we must realize that even when tragedy occurs it is the will of Hashem.

There was once a Rosh Yeshivah whose daughter died tragically, and the Rosh Yeshivah was plagued by guilt, feeling that he was to blame as he could have prevented the tragedy. The Hazon Ish told him, “There is nothing you could have done. Everything is in Hashem’s hands. The causes are irrelevant.”

Hashem has an infinite number of ways to execute His will.

But, how is this possible? Hashem is so merciful. How could He do these things?

The Gemara comments (Moed Katan 27b) that when people are crying over a loved one’s death, and we feel sympathy for the grieving family, Hashem tells us, “You are not more compassionate than I am.” And thus the Torah introduces certain laws relevant to mourning by saying (Devarim 14:1), “You are sons of Hashem your Gd.” Even when tragedy strikes, this is being done by our loving, compassionate Father. Although we do not understand, even what appears tragic is truly an act of mercy and love. The pasuk says in Yeshayah (63:9), that when a person is in pain, Hashem also experiences pain, as it were.

Still, one might ask, isn’t Hashem capable of obliterating all pain? Why doesn’t He see to it that there is no more pain in this world?

Apparently, even the tragedies and suffering are also in fact acts of kindness, and Hashem is willing to endure pain, so to speak, in order to bestow this hidden kindness.

The same loving and merciful Gd Who brings beautiful children into the world also brings them into Gan Eden. The day will come when families will be reunited – children with parents, and parents with children. Until then, we need to beg the Master of compassion for solace and consolation, to work to improve ourselves, and to find comfort in deepening our connection with our Father in heaven.

The Lighter Side – August 2024

Let’s Make a Deal

Shelly’s daughter wanted the new iPhone for her birthday. Shelly told her daughter that she will get one as long as she has good grades, does her chores, and follows the house rules. Otherwise she will get a cheaper phone. Shelly explained to her daughter, “It’s my way or the Huawei.”

Leslie F.

First Day of School

A young boy is going to his first day of school, and he looks worried. His dad asks him, “What’s wrong, son?”

Nervous, the boy replies, “How long do I have to go to school for?”

“Until you’re 17 years of age,” says the father.

The boy nods, and thinks about this quietly. When they get to the front gates of the school, the boy asks, “Dad, you will remember to come and get me when I’m 17, won’t you?”

Martin S.

Measured Response

A fellow was walking along a country road when he came upon a farmer working in his field. The man called out to the farmer, “How long will it take me to get to the next town?”
The farmer didn’t answer. The guy waited a bit and then started walking again. After the man had gone about a hundred yards, the farmer yelled out, “About 20 minutes!”
“Thank you. But why didn’t you tell me that when I asked you?”
“I didn’t know how fast you could walk.”

Jacky B.

Dead Giveaway

Two crows were in a field when they noticed a figure that looked like a man in the distance.
“See that over there? What is that?” asks the first crow.
The second crows takes a long look, “That’s a scarecrow. It looks authentic, doesn’t it.”
“How can you tell it’s a scarecrow and not a person?” replies the first crow.
“Look at its hand. No cellphone,” replies the second crow.

Simon K.

Medical Request

Max goes to his doctor complaining of aches and pains all over his body. After a thorough examination, the doctor gives him a clean bill of health. “Max, you’re in excellent shape – for an 85-year-old man. But I’m not a magician. I can’t make you any younger,” says the doctor.

“Who asked you to make me younger?” says Max. “I’m paying you to make sure I’m getting older!”

Miriam L.

Fat-Free Fries

A boy read a restaurant sign that advertised fat-free French fries.
“Sounds great,” said the health-conscious boy. He ordered some. He watched as the cook pulled a basket of fries from the fryer. The potatoes were dripping with oil when the cook put them into the container.
“Wait a minute,” the boy said. “Those don’t look fat-free!”
“Sure they are,” the cook said. “We charge only for the potatoes.”

Karen M.

Security Clearance

Shlomo worked for the security department of a large retail store, and his duties included responding to fire and burglar alarms. A side door of the building was wired with a security alarm, because it was not supposed to be used by customers.

Nevertheless, customers always found the convenience of the exit tempting. Even a sign with large red letters, warning “Alarm will sound if opened,” failed to deter people from using it. One day, after attending to a number of false alarms, Shlomo got fed up and placed a small handmade sign on the door that totally eliminated the problem: “Wet paint.”

Max G.

Good Reference Needed

Chaim Yankel was sick of his job and was determined to find work elsewhere. But no matter how hard he tried, his reputation as someone who was not dedicated to the job, seemed to follow him around.

One day the phone rang at his office. Although Chaim Yankel did not usually pick up the phone, he picked it up and said hello.

“Hi,” said the man on the line, “I have an unusual question to ask you, I’m looking into a fellow Chaim Yankel for a position in my company. Do you know this fellow?”

“Sure I know him,” responded Chaim Yankel with a smile.

“Tell me,” asked the man. “Is he consistent with his work? Does he always show up on time?”

“Well I’ll be honest with you,” Chaim Yankel truthfully replied, “I’m not so consistent myself, but whenever I’m here he’s here!”

Moishe K.

New Dress

Sam was sitting in one of the chairs provided for men outside the ladies’ fitting room in the local department store. After 30 minutes and six changes of outfits, Sam’s wife Sara came out of the changing room one more time. Sam looked at her and immediately said, “Sara, that looks great on you! Get that one.”

“Honey,” Sara replied, “this is what I was wearing when we came in.”

Rena A.

Hide And Seek

One day, some builders are renovating an old building in Jerusalem when Solly, one of the workers, falls through the rotten floor into a previously undiscovered cellar. As the dust settles, Solly sees to his horror a skeleton lying in the corner. The skeleton is wearing a blue and white sash with these words written on it:

“ALL ISRAEL HIDE-AND-SEEK CHAMPION 1952.”

Henry F.

Candy Sale

Al and David were in third grade, were best friends, and were go-getters. They decided to start selling candy bars out front of a local grocery store to make a little side money. One day as they were selling, an older woman walked by their booth and smiled at their pitch.

“I’ll buy a chocolate bar on one condition,” said the lady to the boys. “My doctor says I shouldn’t eat sweets so you eat it for me.”

She bought a chocolate bar, and handed the candy back to Al. He shook his head as he placed the chocolate bar back into his merchandise display. “I can’t,” he said.

“Why not?” asked the old lady.

Looking the lady in the eye, Al responded gravely, “I’m not supposed to take candy from strangers.”

David C.

The Deli Chase

One day, a New York state trooper was pulling off the highway and as he turned onto the street, he noticed someone pulling out of Moishe’s Kosher Deli. But the driver had placed his pastrami on rye on top of his car, got in, and drove off with the sandwich still on top of his car.

So the trooper decided to pull him over and perform a community service by giving the driver his sandwich. He pulled him over, walked up to the car, pulled the deli sandwich off the roof, and offered it to the driver.

The driver, an old Jewish man, looked at the trooper and said, “No thanks. I just bought one.”

Victor G.

From the Files of the Mitzvah Man Hesed Stories – Vladimir’s Story

Pnina Souid 

This story starts with the phone call to the Mitzvah Man hot line. The caller told the Mitzvah Man that he is looking for help for an elderly man, Vladimir, who managed to escape the Ukraine in the midst of the war, despite all odds. 

Vladimir is wheelchair-bound and is all alone. He speaks no English and has practically nothing. However, a Jewish organization  was able to bring him to America and find him an apartment in Brooklyn, on Ocean Avenue on the sixth floor. Once Vladimir was placed in this apartment, the gentleman representing Vladimir heard about the Mitzvah Man Organization, who he reached out to for assistance. 

Mike Nielman, a Mitzvah Man volunteer, accepted the mission to help Vladimir. Here is Mike’s story. 

When I met Vladimir, I was not sure how everything would transpire. But my goal was to do my best for this man who had to leave his home and country in very difficult circumstances. 

We had no common language so we had to communicate with a type of sign language. It had already been determined that he needed a green card, food stamps, and assistance to pay rent and utilities. 

I was told that it was a pure miracle that the organization was able to get Vladimir out of the Ukraine. 

Over a period of time I spent every day with Vladimir, going to the appropriate office for whichever assistance he needed. 

First, we spent the day applying for a green card. Next day was food stamps. The day after that was to secure funds to pay for rent and utilities. 

Vladimir would point or gesture when he needed to explain what he needed. 

Once all these matters where taken care of I knew that I could not leave him totally alone. So I visited him once a week to see how he was doing and to ask if he needed anything.  

Vladimir’s representative, who made the original call to the Mitzvah Man, called again. This time it was to thank the Mitzvah Man Organization for sending to Vladamir a true hero.

The Mitzvah Man Organization is here to help. Please don’t hesitate to call for assistance or to volunteer. 

Back-to-School Tips – for Parents

The transition from summer break to the school year can be both exhilarating and nerve-wracking for parents. As we gear up for Fall 2024, here are some practical strategies to ensure a smooth start:

  • Connect with Last Year’s Teachers 

Begin by reaching out to your child’s teachers from the previous academic year. Their insights are invaluable. Discuss your child’s strengths, areas for improvement, and any specific needs they might have. Armed with this information, you’ll be better prepared for the new school year. 

 

  • Assess Your Child’s Readiness 

Reflect on your child’s experiences last year. Consider what adjustments are necessary. Does your child need additional support? Perhaps tutoring in certain subjects or extra practice? Use this assessment to plan effectively. 

 

  • Create a Family Calendar 

A shared family calendar is a lifesaver. Include school events, extracurricular activities, and important dates. Having a visual overview helps everyone stay organized and reduces last-minute surprises. Whether it’s a digital calendar or a good old-fashioned paper planner, consistency is key. 

 

  • Reintroduce Regular Meal Times 

During the laid-back days of summer, meal schedules tend to become more flexible. As school approaches, gradually reintroduce regular meal times. Proper nutrition supports focus and sustained energy levels. Consider involving your child in meal planning – it’s a great way to teach healthy eating habits. 

 

  • Set Up a Homework Station 

Designate a quiet, well-lit area specifically for homework. Stock it with necessary supplies: pens, paper, a computer, and any textbooks or workbooks. A consistent study space encourages productivity and minimizes distractions. Personalize it with your child’s favorite motivational quotes or artwork. 

 

  • Establish a Bedtime Routine 

Adjust bedtimes gradually to align with the school schedule. Adequate sleep is crucial for academic success and overall well-being. Create a calming bedtime routine – perhaps reading a book together or practicing relaxation techniques. Limit screen time before bed to ensure quality rest. 

 

  • Label Your Kid’s Gear 

Invest in durable labels for your child’s belongings. Mabel’s Labels, for instance, are waterproof and laundry-safe. Stick them on clothes, shoes, lunch gear, and school supplies. This simple step prevents items from ending up in the lost and found, saving you time and frustration. 

Remember, you’re not alone in this journey. Many parents share the same excitement and challenges. Take a deep breath, follow these tips, and embrace the new school year with confidence. Your child’s growth and learning await!

M&S Summer Softball League – Gears Up for Summer Excitement

Sam J. Sutton 

Despite the dog days of summer, the excitement and anticipation of the M&S Summer Softball season is at an all-time high. The standings have already started to shape up, offering a glimpse of what might unfold in the weeks ahead. The competition has been fierce, and every team is striving to secure their position in the league. 

 

At the Top of the Standings 

Currently, Sarah’s Kibbes, led by the formidable Gabe Abady, sits comfortably at the top of the standings with an impeccable 4-0 record. Their performance so far has been nothing short of spectacular, showcasing their dominance and intent to maintain their lead. The synergy and skill displayed by Sarah’s Kibbes make them the team to watch this season. 

Trailing closely behind in the 2nd seed is Steven Gindi’s Resilience with a 3-1 record. Resilience has shown remarkable tenacity and consistency, which is evident in their standing. With standout performances like that of Sauly Esses, who had a monster week going 5/7 with 5 runs, 4 RBIs, a home run, a triple, and two doubles in a sweep, Resilience has proven they have the firepower to challenge for the top spot. 

 

Following Close By 

The Predators, captained by the legendary Michael Sabon Salomon, currently holds the 3rd seed with a 2-2 record. Despite some ups and downs, Sabon’s leadership and experience have been pivotal. His extraordinary performance against the Dawg Pound, where he went 6/8 with 7 RBIs, 4 runs, and 3 doubles, highlights the potential of the Predators to make a significant impact as the season progresses. 

Edmund Beyda’s IDF team stands at a balanced 1-1, placing them in the 4th seed. The IDF has shown flashes of brilliance and resilience. Their ability to bounce back from setbacks will be crucial as they aim to climb the standings and challenge the top teams. 

 

Teams to Watch  

Tied for the 5th seed with a 1-3 record are Uri Adler’s Dawg Pound and Sammy Esses’ Bleacher Creatures. Both teams have had a challenging start to the season but have shown glimpses of their capabilities. The Dawg Pound and Bleacher Creatures will need to find consistency and capitalize on their opportunities to improve their standings. 

Rounding out the standings in the 7th seed is The Final Battle, with an 0-2 start. Despite their current position, the season is still young, and there is ample time for them to turn things around. The Final Battle will be looking to regroup and come back stronger in the upcoming games. 

While the standings provide a snapshot of the current state of the league, it’s important to remember that we are still early in the season. The standings are likely to fluctuate on a nightly basis, with each game bringing new twists and turns. The competitiveness and unpredictability of the M&S Summer Softball league ensure that no team can afford to rest on their laurels. 

 

Stay Tuned! 

Fans can stay up to date with all things M&S by tuning into the livestream of the games each night. The league’s website is also updated nightly with the latest statistics, league media, and much more. This season, the league is thrilled to have Sarah’s Tent, affectionately known as “The Tent,” as the league sponsor. Their support and involvement have been instrumental in the league’s success and growth. 

As the season progresses, the intensity of the competition will only increase. Each team will be looking to solidify their position and make a statement. Whether it’s Sarah’s Kibbes aiming to maintain their perfect record, Resilience striving to dethrone them, or the Predators seeking to leverage their experience and skill, every game will be a battle worth watching. 

The M&S Summer Softball league continues to be a beacon of sportsmanship, camaraderie, and competitive spirit. As we move further into the season, fans and players alike can look forward to more thrilling games, standout performances, and unforgettable moments. The journey to the championship is still wide open, and anything can happen in the weeks to come. 

Stay tuned, stay engaged, and let’s enjoy every moment of this exhilarating season. Thank you to all the players, fans, and especially to Sarah’s Tent for making this season one to remember. 

Boosting Curb Appeal: Affordable Home Upgrades That Pay Off

A home that looks and feels really nice and comfortable is something that everyone aspires to achieve.  Keeping a home well-maintained, though, can be quite difficult financially – especially when we want to make our home to always feel like new. 

Here are some easy home improvements and upgrades to keep your house looking nice and new without breaking the bank, especially if you plan to sell your house in the near future. 

 

Repaint Areas of Your Home 

One of the cheapest, easiest things you can do is to paint.  Painting the interior of your home helps eliminate dirt, marks, or stains from your walls, thereby giving a fresh feel and appearance.  To help improve the value of your home, repainting the exterior would also be a good idea. 

 

Replace Bath Hardware 

Giving your outdated bathrooms a makeover does not have to be costly. Simply replacing a shower faucet or changing the cabinet handles can do wonders for transforming your bathrooms to have a more elegant or modern look. 

 

Enhance the Indoor and Outdoor Lighting 

Swapping all the old light bulbs for LED lights will greatly impact your home’s energy efficiency and illumination.  Changing the actual fixtures can also be a relatively inexpensive replacement.   

 

Add Storage Areas 

Every home needs a place where we can keep and put away items, especially those that are seasonal such as holiday decorations.  Storage areas can be shelves, a closet under the stairs, or even seats beside a window. 

 

Revitalize Flooring 

Brand new flooring is one of the more expensive upgrades, especially if you’ve got a large area to cover.  That’s why we prepared a few less costly alternatives.  One idea – you may install a carpet on the floor or change the carpet, if there already is carpeting.  Another idea is considering the use of refinishing hardwood or reglazing tile, which could cost a fraction of the cost of a new installation.  Painting the floor a new color or pattern is also another useful tip. 

 

Update Cabinets 

New cabinets can be quite pricey, so if that’s not within your budget, you could tweak your existing cabinets instead of replacing them entirely.  You’d be surprised how something as simple as switching the cabinet hardware can modernize the whole kitchen.  If the cabinets need more of an overhaul, you may want to paint them in a new shade. 

 

Improve Landscaping 

Making simple improvements, such as installing landscape lighting, pressure washing the walkways, planting flowers, adding fresh mulch, and building a firepit can do wonders to boost your yard’s appearance.  In the spring, start planting flowers in prominent areas of your house to stand out from the street.  Pruning trees and shrubs is also the type of  maintenance that can turn a yard from wild to manicured and can up the value of your home.

 

FuN fAcT

Brooklyn has 30 miles of shoreline!  Visitors to the city are often surprised to find there are actually nice beaches in and around the borough. 

The “Doctor” Who Can Cure Everything

Rabbi David Ashear

A person suffering from a headache can take a Tylenol to ease the pain. If someone has a toothache, he can go to the dentist to solve the problem. If a person’s eyes are bothering him, he gets treated by an ophthalmologist. But what if, Heaven forbid, someone lost his eyesight? To whom does he turn for help?

The pasuk in Tehillim (146:8) says that Hashem gives sight to the blind. Before the Jewish people received the Torah at Mount Sinai, Hashem restored the eyesight of all blind members of the nation. Similarly, Chazal relate that when Rabbi Matya ben Harash lost his vision, Hashem sent the angel Raphael to restore it.

Hacham Yitzhak Yosef tells that one morning around Pesach time in 1975, his father, Hacham Ovadia Yosef, zt”l, woke up unable to see properly. The little he was able to see was black and white. Hacham Ovadia described it as though a foreign object blocked his eyes. As time went on, his condition grew worse to the point where he was no longer able to read. He experienced immense pain whenever his eyes were exposed to a ray of light. He had to deliver his classes in the dark.

Hacham Yitzhak said that he had never seen his father pray without a minyan until that time, when he decided to start praying Arbit in solitude so he could extend the tefillah. He would stand in a corner and pour his heart out to Hashem, praying with sobering that cannot be described. He also went to Tzefat for several days, and he spent several hours each day while he was there praying at the gravesite of Rav Yosef Karo.

Miraculously, his eyesight was restored. Although he still had to wear dark glasses he was able to see, read, and write normally.

Even if the doctors believe nothing can be done, it does not deter us from praying, because we know that Hashem is “the Creator of healing” and He can create a cure from nothing.

If someone’s chest hurts he can see a cardiologist. But if someone’s heart is broken, whom can he go to? Hashem is described (Tehillim 147:3) as the healer of the brokenhearted. If a person experiences emotional pain and cannot overcome his depression, he can approach the greatest Healer of all and beg for help. Hashem cures emotional distress – conditions that no doctor or other professional can heal. In addition, He brings these cures in miraculous fashion.

The Sages teach, “Hashem prepares the cure from the wound itself.” And we thus pray each day in the Amidah, “Cure us, Hashem and we will be cured.” The Zohar explains that when the healing comes from Hashem, it is permanent and everlasting; there are no relapses. The Shulchan Aruch (230) rules that when a person visits a physician for treatment or takes medicine, he should say, “May it be Your will Hashem, that this heals me because I know You are the real doctor.” We need to realize that ultimately our health is restored by Hashem.

The Bnei Yissachar writes that if an ill patient who has been unsuccessfully seeking treatment is asked, “How is it going? And he responds “Baruch Hashem, I know Hashem is the Healer, and He can cure me in an instant,” this is a great segulah for restoring health.

May we recognize that all healing and salvation comes only from Hashem, and fully believe with complete faith that it is never too late, and we can always be helped.

The Case – The Matchmaker

Simon, a middle-aged man who underwent two painful divorces, decided that it was time to become an observant Jew, and he began to regularly study in yeshiva. Shortly thereafter, he expressed interest in remarrying, and was told that if he seriously chooses to pursue the matter, he is to speak with none other than his friend Reb Mendel. A match was made, and after Simon dated Miriam twice he received a phone call from Reb Mendel that the fee for his services is $5,000. Miriam as well was informed by Reb Mendel that if the match proved to be successful, the fee for his services is $2,500. The two, who were clearly interested in each other, were appalled by Reb Mendel’s exorbitant fee, and rejected his outrageous demands. Happily, the couple married and some two months after the wedding they were summonsed to Bet Din by Reb Mendel who claimed to be owed $7,500. In Bet Din, Simon and Miriam explained that they were of Sephardic origin and never imagined that there existed a fee for matchmaking. Furthermore, Simon claimed that as a good friend of Reb Mendel, it was obvious that the match was made in good will and not for monetary compensation. Reb Mendel responded that he is an experienced matchmaker and regularly collected payment for his services. His reasoning for charging Simon $5,000, as opposed to only $2,500 for Miriam, is that Simon is a high-risk client, as he is two times divorced. Reb Mendel explained that working with a high-risk client always presents difficulties, and he is entitled to compensation accordingly.  

How should the Bet Din rule – in favor of Reb Mendel or the couple and why? 

 

Torah Law 

According to the ruling of leading halachic Ashkenazi authorities, a matchmaker is entitled to monetary compensation for the service he provides. His fee is customarily collected only after the couple marries, and both the bride and groom are responsible for the expense.  Even in instances in which the matchmaker does not stipulate payment from the onset, he is nevertheless entitled to collect payment according to standard market rate. The rationale behind this ruling is that although the matchmaker did not stipulate for payment from the onset, it is unreasonable to assume that he provided his services free of charge. 

Notwithstanding, if a matchmaker or service provider does not stipulate for payment, he is only entitled to collect according to the actual time and energy he invested. Hence, although the price in the market of an elderly bride and groom may be substantially higher, if the matchmaker’s efforts were minimal, he is only entitled to a basic fee for his services.  

Every so often, matchmakers and other service providers extend their assistance to close friends and relatives not intending to collect payment. In such instances they may not lawfully thereafter petition for payment. Although a Bet Din has no way of determining the true intent of the servicer, they will nevertheless inform him of the severity of his actions.  

As opposed to common Ashkenazi practice, it is widely accepted in Sephardic communities that matchmaking is performed at no charge. Although it is deemed proper to acknowledge the favor extended by presenting a gift as a token of appreciation, no monetary compensation is required. 

Hence, unless the matchmaker stipulates payment from the onset, it is assumed that his services were provided at no charge. This ruling is applicable specifically to Sephardic matchmakers extending their assistance to Sephardic couples. If, however, an Ashkenazi matchmaker services a Sephardic couple, even if the matchmaker did not stipulate for payment, the couple may be responsible to pay. If the couple initiated their involvement with the matchmaker by reaching out for his services, then it stands to reason that the terms and customs of the matchmaker prevail, and the couple is required to make payment. If, however, it was the matchmaker who introduced himself and suggested the match, then the terms and customs of the couple would prevail. Even in instances in which the couple was unaware of the matchmaker’s customary charge, nevertheless, they are liable, since it was their responsibility to verify the norms of the market before entry. 

 

VERDICT:  The Strike of a Match-Maker  

The Bet Din awarded Reb Mendel a minimal fee of three thousand dollars for his services, a $1,500  liability for each the bride and groom. Before exacting payment, our Bet Din cross-examined Reb Mendel to confirm that he indeed made the match with the intent of collecting payment and not as a favor to his friend Simon. As discussed in Torah law, a service provider will sometimes extend assistance at no charge to friends and family, restricting him from later collecting for his services. Although according to Sephardic custom matchmaking is performed at no charge, nevertheless, since Simon reached out to Reb Mendel, he is required to pay him for his services as customary in Ashkenazi circles. Simon’s claim that he was unaware of the Ashkenazic custom of payment for matchmaking was rejected on account that it was his responsibility to verify the norms of an industry before involvement. Reb Mendel’s claim to collect $7,500 from the high-risk clients was rejected as well, since he did not stipulate for payment from the onset.  In absence of an agreed upon price, Reb Mendel is only entitled to payment according to the time and energy he invested into the couple. Since Simon and Miriam were independent of Reb Mendel’s services already from the second date, they proved not to be high-risk time-consuming clients.

 

YOU BE THE JUDGE 

A Broken Heart 

Debbie and Alex were dating for months until the big day finally came, and the two were engaged to be married.  After a joyous engagement party, the preparations for the wedding began. Debbie’s parents put a $5,000 down payment on a hall, and prepaid the florist $2,000. Other expenses included $2,000 to reserve a photographer, and $1,000 for invitations. Thereafter, the parents met to finalize the day-to-day finances of the couple, and unfortunately, the conversation resulted in a heated argument.  Alex’s parents claimed that they were told by the matchmaker that the bride’s parents were willing to contribute to the financial support of the couple for at least the first few years of marriage. Debbie’s parents responded that no such agreement was made.  For the next few days the couple’s parents tried to negotiate the matter, but to no avail. Eventually, Alex’s parents called off the engagement, and Debbie was nothing less than devastated by the news.  Debbie’s parents summoned Alex’s parents to Bet Din claiming to collect a total of $22,000. The list of expenses included a rental fee of $2,000 for the hall of the engagement party, the money spent on the wedding preparations, which amounted to at least the sum of $10,000, and $10,000 in monetary compensation for their daughter’s disgrace caused by the broken engagement.  Alex’s parents refused to pay the $22,000 claim, on the grounds that they only agreed to the engagement based on Debbie’s parent’s willingness to provide financial assistance. They added that, in any event, they should not be held fully responsible for the unfortunate turn of events, as Debbie’s parents are also responsible for the break-up. Furthermore, their son Alex was as well emotionally pained from the break-up, and although they sympathize with Debbie’s shame, their son is suffering as well.  

How should How should the Bet Din rule, and why?

 

In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H