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Riddles – November 2024

RIDDLE: Wrong Room

Submitted by: Steven B.

Mr. Green is sitting in his hotel room when there is a knock at the door. He opened the door to see an elderly man whom he had never seen before. The elderly man said, “Oh I’m sorry. I have made a mistake. I thought this was my room.” He then went down the corridor and in the elevator. Mr. Green went back into his room and phoned security. What made Mr. Green so suspicious of the elderly man?

Last Month’s Riddle:  Birthday Budget

You’re planning to spend your birthday money taking some friends to the zoo. Is it cheaper to take 1 friend to the zoo twice,  or 2 friends to the zoo at the same time – or is it the same either way?

Solution: Take 2 friends at the same time, so you’ll only buy 3 tickets total. If you take 1 friend twice, you’ll need to buy yourself a ticket each time, for a total of 4 tickets.

Solved by: Jack Menahem, Rafael Shmulewitz, Raymond Dabbah, Haim Soleimani, Big Mike, Family Blum, Marlene T., and Mazie Baraka.

Junior Riddle: The Missing Sister

Submitted by: Molly  F.

There are five sisters. One is reading a book, another is cooking, another is playing chess, and another is doing laundry. What is the fifth sister doing?

Last Month’s Junior Riddle: Shopping Spree

Alan bought a pair of shoes and a tie, which cost a total of $150. The shoes cost $100 more than the tie. How much was each item?

Solution: The shoes cost $125 and the tie cost $25.

Solved by: Batya Gadeh, Rafael Shmulewitz, H. Soleimani, The Big Cheese, Devorah Gadeh, The Blum Family, Martin Safdiegh, Mazie Baraka, and The Shmulster.

The Lighter Side – November 2024

Charity Case

“Sir you have got to help!” said the tearful man at the door. “There is a family that I know very well that is in desperate need of money. The father has been out of a job for over a year, they have five kids at home with barely a bit of food to eat. The worst part is, that they are about to get kicked out of the house and they will be left on the streets without a roof over their heads!” the man concluded with one last heart-wrenching sob. “Well,” said the man of the house, “that really is a sad story. Why don’t you come inside and we’ll talk about it a little more.” “So how much money is needed exactly?” asked the man when they were both seated. “Oh, it’s really terrible,” said the man starting up again, “why just for the rent $3,000 is needed by tomorrow otherwise they’ll be kicked out onto the streets.” “How do you know so much about this situation?” asked the man as he reached for his check book. “Well,” said the man breaking down once more, “they are my tenants.”

Manny K.

Doggy Deception

Two men, Jim and John, were walking their dogs when they passed by a restaurant. “Let’s go in and get something to eat,” Jim suggested. “We can’t,” responded John. “Don’t you see the sign says NO PETS ALLOWED?” “Aah that sign,” said Jim, “don’t worry about it.” Taking out a pair of sunglasses, he walked up to the door. As he tried walking into the restaurant he got stopped at the door, “Sorry, no pets allowed,” the man said. “Can’t you see,” said Jim “I am blind, this is my seeing eye dog.” “But it’s a Doberman Pincher! Who uses a Doberman Pincher as a seeing eye dog?” the man asked. “Oh,” Jim responded, “you must have not heard, this is the latest type of seeing eye dog, they do a very good job.” Seeing that it worked, John tried walking in with his Chihuahua. Even before he could open his mouth, the doorman said, “Don’t tell me that a Chihuahua is the latest type of seeing eye dog.” Thinking quickly John responded in an angry voice, “You mean they gave me a Chihuahua?!”

Jakie T.

Clean Cup

A husband and wife walked into a cheap looking restaurant. As they were about to sit down, they noticed there were crumbs on the seat. After cleaning up the seat and wiping down the table they sat down. A waitress came over asking them what they wanted. “I’ll just take a coffee,” said the husband. “Me too,” said the wife. “And make sure the cup is clean.” The waitress returned with their drinks “Okay,” she said placing down their cups. “Now, which one of you wanted the clean cup?”

Victor G.

No License Necessary

John Livingstone was sitting on his lawn sun tanning and reading, when he was startled by a fairly late model car crashing through a hedge and onto his lawn. Out came an elderly man named Morty Nussbaum and John helped him sit down.

“My goodness,” John exclaimed. “You are quite old to be driving!”

“Yes,” Morty replied. “I am old enough that I don’t need a license anymore. The last time I went to my doctor he examined me and asked if I had a driving license. I told him yes and handed it to him.”

“He took a pair of scissors out of a drawer, cut the license into pieces, and threw them in the wastebasket. ‘You won’t be needing this anymore,’ he said.”

“So, I thanked him and left.”

Morris S.

Musical Mayhem

A thief broke into the Epstein family mansion early one evening as he had been told that the Epsteins would be out for the evening. But the thief’s information wasn’t very good because suddenly, he heard footsteps – it was the entire Epstein family. The thief was in their music room at the time so he took refuge in the music room closet and hoped that he could slip out unnoticed. But what the thief didn’t know was that the Epstein kids loved their music room, even if their musical talents were still a little…rough.

From eight to nine o’clock the eldest daughter Rachel had a singing lesson.

From nine to ten o’clock the second daughter Sarah took a piano lesson.

From ten to eleven o’clock the eldest son David had a violin lesson.

From eleven to eleven thirty the other son Michael had a lesson on the flute.

At eleven thirty all the brothers and sisters assembled for an ear-splitting voice, piano, violin, and flute concert.

Finally, the thief staggered out from the closet, and falling at their feet, cried:

“For Heaven’s sake, please have me arrested!”

Alan A.

Moving Day

Rachel Ginsberg called up a pet store and said, “Could you please send me ten thousand cockroaches?”
“What in the world do you want with ten thousand cockroaches?” asked the clerk.
“Well,” replied Rachel, “I am moving out of my East Side apartment today and my lease says I have to leave the place in the same condition I found it.”

Sherry M.

High-Flying Granny Tales

Michael O’Brien, an executive at a high tech company had just finished a grueling business trip when he sat down in his airplane seat ready for a much deserved rest. But before he could close his eyes, his seatmate settled in an introduced herself. “Hi! My name is Suri. It’s so nice to meet you! I’m flying to New York for my grandson’s third birthday – it’s his upshern. That’s his first haircut. I’m so excited! I remember when he was just a little cutie pie and now he’s already three! It’s really hard to believe. He’s the most adorable thing you’ve ever seen! You know what? Hold on, I think I might have a picture of my little bubbaleh. Let me take a look in my purse. Yes, here it is, just look at him, isn’t he adorable? Do you see his dimple on his left cheek? Oy! Simply adorable! I could just stare at his picture all day.

“Oy, and you should hear him on the phone! He is just the cutest, he says to me in the cutest voice, ‘Hi Bubbie!’ It just gets me all teary eyed.”

After what seemed like two hours for poor Michael O’Brien, Suri seemed to realize that perhaps she was talking a bit too much. “You know, I feel terrible! Here I am just talking and talking without letting you get in a word edgewise!

“Tell me…what do you think about my grandson!”

Nancy H.

Emotional Wellness – False Identity

Rabbi David Sutton & Dr. David Katzenstein, LCSW-R 

If we watch an exciting and engaging video for two hours, during that time we’re so engrossed, so detached from reality, that none of the thoughts that usually run through our mind are present. Our brain is, in a way, shut off. It is basically not working. We are no longer aware of reality, and are aware only of the images flitting across the screen. As we watch and listen, we are using two of our senses, hearing and seeing.  

Imagine a more advanced types of movie, which causes us to use more of our senses, where we can smell or perhaps even taste the popcorn the characters are eating, or even feel what’s taking place on the screen. For example, our chair may shake during an earthquake in the movie.  

But we still have our mind. 

Now, imagine if the movie is so advanced that when the characters were scared we would feel fear. The movie would be in full control of our brain. 

That’s Life 

That’s life. We get drawn into it as if into a movie, but actually it is only our perception. In reality, life is merely a video, where nothing is really happening. We can choose to pull out and ignore everything. We can choose to not allow the screen to take command over us, to not become emotionally involved.  

In life, we can pull back.  

Increasing Awareness 

Developing increased awareness of our thoughts and emotions can be a powerful tool for self-improvement and personal growth. One way to start is through the practice of mindfulness. This involves focusing on the present moment, without judgment, and paying attention to our internal experiences.   

Another way to increase awareness is through journaling and self-reflection. Writing down our thoughts and emotions can help us gain insight into patterns and habits, and can help us to  understand the root causes of our feelings 

Most of us have heard stories of great rabbis who remained totally engrossed in their learning or their prayers while the world was collapsing around them. They had total focus on their avodat Hashem, not on what was going on around them.  

Along similar lines, people employ breathing techniques to effect natural pain relief, such as using the Lamaze method in childbirth. By concentrating on her breathing, in and out, in and out, the laboring woman distracts herself from the pain.  

Identifying with Things Outside of Ourselves 

There are multiple ways of identifying ourselves with factors that are not really us.  

Rav Wolbe tells a story that took place decades ago in Israel. The government wanted to incentivize the ultra-Orthodox to join the army – or to punish them for not joining. At a certain point, a young man could not receive his driver’s license unless he served in the army. Obviously, this caused quite an uproar in the yeshivah world. The yeshivah boys wanted to be able to obtain their licenses, and eventually, the law was rescinded. 

While all this was going on, Rav Wolbe was thinking, What’s the big uproar? What’s the great need for licenses? In his view, yeshivah bachurim have no need to drive a car. They could take a bus or ride a bicycle. What is the need for a car? With his philosophical approach, Rav Wolbe posited that when a person drives a car, he identifies with his car. His self becomes larger. When you sit behind the wheel in a small sports car and go from zero to 60 in a few seconds, that surge of energy somehow identifies with you. 

It is a fascinating concept when you think about it, though it is basically false. When people go on vacations and rent luxury cars, sitting behind the wheel of a Rolls Royce or a Bentley, they suddenly feel more important. They identify themselves with that car.  

Pleasure Points vs. True Happiness 

There is a significant error in this type of thinking, as it is based on a vital misconception between two distinct experiences: pleasure points and true happiness. Pleasure points are temporary moments of enjoyment or satisfaction that come from external factors, such as driving a fancy car, eating a delicious meal, buying a new item, or experiencing a thrill. They bring a momentary boost in excitement and pleasure, which can be mistaken for happiness. But they do not create a lasting sense of fulfillment.  

On the other hand, true happiness is a deep-seated and enduring sense of contentment and fulfillment, which comes from within. It is most often related to a sense of purpose, meaningful relationships, and personal growth. True happiness is not dependent on external circumstances, and can be sustained even in the face of challenges and difficulties. 

We can identify ourselves with many things. And just like we can become engrossed in that movie, we can become engrossed in the movie of life, instead of peeling away the layers of the onion, so to say, to get to who we really are. 

Hacham David Yosef Elected as Sephardic Chief Rabbi of Israel

Victor Cohen 

On September 29th, Hacham David Yosef, shelit”a, was appointed by a statutory election committee to be the new Sephardic Chief Rabbi of Israel, following in the footsteps of his brother, Hacham Yitzhak Yosef, shelit”a, and, of course, his late father, Maran Hacham Ovadia Yosef, zt”l. He will serve in this position for the next ten years, succeeding his brother, whose ten-year term ended last year. 

Israel’s Chief Rabbi is charged with making decisions on a wide range of important public policy issues, and, by virtue of his stature, has the opportunity to be a strong and influential advocate for the needs of Jews both in Israel and around the world.  One example of the great significance of this position is the effort made by Hacham David’s father, Hacham Ovadia, after the 1973 Yom Kippur War to help wives of soldiers who did not return from battle. Hacham Ovadia worked tirelessly to study the details of each and every case, and analyze the relevant halachic source material, in order to determine that, there were sufficient grounds to presume death, such that the wives were permitted to remarry. The Chief Rabbi bears the responsibility to address critical and consequential matters such as these, and thus only accomplished scholars with vast knowledge, and years of experience in halachic decision-making, are considered to have the broad shoulders necessary for this important role. 

And there is little doubt that the newly-appointed Chief Rabbi has all the credentials needed to competently fulfill these duties. 

A Giant and Son of a Giant 

Hacham David – the ninth of the 11 children of Hacham Ovadia and Margalit Yosef – was born in Jerusalem on August 10th, 1957. As a youngster, he attended Yeshivat Or Yisrael, and then spent a year in the elite Ponevezh Yeshiva in Bnei Brak, before enrolling in the Hebron Yeshiva in Jerusalem.  

Hacham David Yosef not only belongs to an illustrious rabbinic family, but is also an accomplished scholar and leader in his own right. For 30 years, from 1990 until 2020, he served as Chief Rabbi of Jerusalem’s tight-knit Har Nof neighborhood, which is home to some members of our community who made aliyah. Additionally, he leads a kollel named Yehaveh Da’at which trains rabbis who go on to serve communities both in Israel and around the world. Hacham David has also been involved in the Shas Party, which his father founded and guided, and which works to advance the causes of observant Sephardic Jews in Israel. 

Halachah Berurah  

Beyond his leadership experience, Hacham David is renowned throughout the Torah world as an outstanding halachic scholar, best known for authoring Halachah Berurah, a monumental work on practical halachah. To date, this series consists of 26 volumes. Hacham David masterfully presents for us the halachot in a clear, concise fashion, providing extensive annotation where he goes through the relevant source material underlying his conclusions. 

My first experience with Halachah Berurah came on the night of Shavuot when I was studying at Moreshet. One of my advisors delivered a memorable class to the kohanim (including me) on the laws of birkat kohanim – the special blessing that kohanim confer upon the congregation each day.  He covered the topic extensively, going through minute details such as how kohanim are to position their hands, feet and shoulders while reciting the blessing. The text he chose for this comprehensive presentation of the topic was Halachah Berurah

This work follows the sequence of the Shulhan Aruch, the famous halachic code authored by Rabbi Yosef Karo in the 16th century that has since become the authoritative halachic text. The format of Halachah Berurah resembles that of Mishnah Berurah – the classic work by the Hafetz Haim (Rav Yisrael Meir Kagan, 1839-1933), which presents a running commentary on the first section of the Shulhan Aruch (Orah Haim), explaining the text and citing opinions of later authorities. Like in the Mishnah Berurah, the primary text of Hacham David’s work elucidates the halachot according to the sequence of the Shulhan Aruch.  A separate text, entitled Berur Halachah, features lengthier, more intricate essays on questions related to the Shulhan Aruch’s ruling, corresponding to the Hafetz Haim’s essays in the Be’ur Halachah section of his work.  And, like the Mishnah Berurah, Hacham David includes a section called Sha’ar Hatziyun briefly referencing the sources of the information he presents in the main body of the book. 

At the end of the book, the rabbi appended a series of in-depth halachic responsa, entitled Otzerot Yosef

The clarity of Hacham David’s writing style, and his comprehensive mastery of the material, citing numerous sources from the Geonic period through recent and even contemporary sages, have made Halachah Berurah an instant classic, and a priceless resource for both scholars and laymen alike. He thus brings to his position many years of outstanding scholarship, deep respect for the great rabbis of yesteryear, and a keen understanding of how to accurately apply our ancient, sacred halachic system to our ever-changing world. 

Leadership in a Time of Complexity 

The difficult challenges currently facing the State of Israel, which has been waging a war against several enemies for over a year, and is beset also by numerous internal struggles, require a competent leader who can navigate these complex issues and make the right decisions.  There is little doubt that Hacham David Yosef is well-suited for this role.  

In recent months, he has already expressed his opinion on several important issues of national import. For example, while sternly insisting upon an exemption from military service for yeshiva students, he stated that young men who, for whatever reason, are not learning in yeshiva must enlist in the Israel Defense Forces.  And, shortly after his appointment, Hacham David ruled that IDF soldiers participating in combat are forbidden from fasting on Yom Kippur, as they must ensure to be in peak physical condition in order to carry out their vital mission to protect the Jewish State. The Hacham added that the soldiers must not even eat shiurim – meaning, small amounts in intervals, as ill patients are generally told to do on Yom Kippur – and should instead eat normally to maintain their strength. As for soldiers who are involved in the war effort but not in active combat, Hacham David said that if such a troop fears that fasting could compromise his ability to properly concentrate on his tasks, he should consult with his military rabbi for guidance. 

Baruch Hashem, our generation has been blessed with great Torah leaders who can guide, inspire, and represent the Torah with nobility, thus bringing honor to the Torah and the Torah world. With Hashem’s help, Hacham David Yosef will lead the Jewish People to a period of peace and prosperity, and will help advance the timeless principles of our Torah and continue the chain of our glorious spiritual heritage.

Ask Jido – November 2024

Dear Jido, 

I have an old friend who seems to consider herself very well-mannered. She writes her thank-you notes on cards and mails them, while I send my thank-you messages via email.  

When I tell her she doesn’t need to send a handwritten thank-you, she says, “My mother taught me to always do it that way.” Of course, that makes me feel “less than” for my emailed thanks. 

When she comes to visit me, she always brings a hostess gift. It’s very thoughtful, although it’s usually something I can’t use. I appreciate the gesture, though. 

She knows that my guest bedroom and bathroom are stocked for the use and comfort of my guests. Yet, when she takes a shower, she only uses the hand towel to dry herself. She uses a bath towel at home. 

I assume she feels it is somehow more polite to not soil a bath towel, but to make do with a hand towel. I don’t say anything about it, but it feels like an insult to me. I am trying to provide everything to make a guest feel at home. How should I handle this? 

Signed, 

Puzzled 

Dear Puzzled, 

Not to get too Biblical on you, but the Talmud actually speaks about someone who is very “particular” about their ways and habits. 

If it was only one idiosyncrasy that she had about not dirtying a bath towel, you might take it personally. But since she seems to have a series of habits that appear to you to be over the top, you can assume that she is what the rabbis in the Talmud call “delicate.”  There, it says that they even make “minor” accommodations for that type of person and allow a deviation from certain laws. 

There doesn’t seem to be any intent on her part to slight or embarrass you. I would assume that she is a very special person holding on to long-held habits and is to be admired. Invite her often and enjoy her company. 

All the best, 

Jido 

Medical Halacha – Using Doves to Cure Jaundice

Rabbi Yehuda Finchas 

Sara gave birth to a beautiful healthy baby boy. She was excited that her brother Yosef, a mohel, arranged to fly in from Israel to New York and had agreed to perform the brit mila for his new little nephew. Yosef arrived the day before the brit mila was to take place.  

He looked at the baby and shook his head. “Sara, Mabrouk! But the baby is yellow and I cannot perform the brit mila unless the color clears up by tomorrow.” Sara responded, “But the baby is healthy!” She called her doctor to confirm that the baby was, indeed, perfectly healthy. Dr. Walter Smith had checked the baby and reiterated that  he was, indeed, perfectly healthy.  

When Yosef told Dr. Smith that it was possible to treat jaundice with doves, the doctor was incredulous. “Using doves to heal jaundice?!” he responded. “Is there scientific evidence to support this?!”  

According to Jewish tradition, the “pigeon treatment” has been employed successfully for generations. 

When a Baby Is “Yarok” 

Physiological jaundice in a newborn is not usually considered a medical risk even if the baby has a yellowish appearance. However, the Gemara (Shabbat 134a) notes that a sick child should not undergo a brit mila until he recovers and this includes if a baby is “yarok,” meaning he has a greenish or yellowish appearance. Such a baby should not have a brit mila until he loses the “yarok” complexion. Even though there may not be any medical reason to delay the brit mila, the Rambam (Mila 1:17) and Shulchan Aruch (YD 263:1) rule that one may not perform a brit mila on a baby who is “yarok.” 

The Dove Treatment  

Hacham Ovadia, zt”l, has a responsa (Yabia Omer YD, 9:32) discussing the halachic implications of the healing power of doves in treating jaundice. He quotes a segula from Taamei Haminhagim, where the treatment for curing jaundice (often seen in hepatitis patients) is to place a male pigeon on the navel of a male, or a female pigeon on the navel of a female. Hacham Ovadia, also notes anecdotal evidence of cases in which the pigeon dies and the patient is healed. The claim is that the pigeon draws the jaundice out from the patient, thus eliminating the jaundice. Dr. Walter saw no medical need or benefit to do this ancient “treatment” and even claimed that it should qualify as animal cruelty. 

Hacham Ovadia acknowledges that the doctors question this form of intervention and understands that it may not cure all patients from jaundice. However, Hacham Ovadia recognizes that many patients have been cured this way. 

Rulings of Hacham Ovadia and the Rambam  

Hacham Ovadia further explains that in this instance there is no concern of animal cruelty – tzaar baalei haim, even though this procedure causes the death of the doves. While there are many sources that argue that tzaar baalei haim is a Biblical prohibition according to most poskim, this prohibition is waived when the action is necessary for human benefit. In other words, tzaar baalei haim does not apply when there is human gain. Hacham Ovadia applies this concept to using doves as a segula for health reasons, even if there is no scientific explanation for the phenomena. 

In a different responsa, Hacham Ovadia (Yabia Omer OC, 8:37) discusses using a segula as a treatment for an illness that involves hilul Shabbat. When quoting different opinions among the poskim whether this is permitted, he elaborates on the Rambam’s position. In his Pirush Hamishna (Yuma 8:6), the Rambam explains that you may not use a segula that involves a prohibition unless it is has a proven medical efficacy. In Moreh Nevuchim (3:37) the Rambam explains that the we do find Hazal using segulot that cannot be explained scientifically, but as long as experience demonstrates their efficacy, they may still be used. Therefore, even though using doves to treat jaundice qualifies as segula without scientific basis, Hacham Ovadia writes that it works and it is permissible to use this treatment.  

Hacham Ovadia is confident that regardless of the Rambam’s position vis-à-vis segulot, the Rambam would still permit using doves to cure jaundice as he (the Rambam) rules that tzaar baalei haim is only a rabbinic prohibition and should be permissibly violated for human benefit. 

Conclusion 

In conclusion, a brit mila may not be performed on a baby who is “yarok.” But since there is no medical illness, the brit mila may be performed as soon as the baby loses his “yarok” complexion. The Rishon Lezion, Hacham Yitzhak Yosef, explains (Sova Semahot 2:16:3) that even though we must usually wait a full seven days for a baby to recover from an illness, since physiological jaundice is not considered a classic medical illness, one does not need to wait seven days in this instance. He also rules that it is permissible to use doves to try to cure the jaundice. 

Rabbi Yehuda Finchas is a worldwide expert, lecturer, and author on Medical Halacha. He heads the Torat Habayit Medical Halacha Institute. His latest book is “Brain Death in Halacha and the Tower of Babel Syndrome.” To contact Rabbi Finchas, email rabbi@torathabayit.com. 

Once Upon A Thyme – Red Schug

Adina Yaakov, RD CDN

If you love heat, then this recipe is for you. With only six ingredients, Red Schug takes less than ten minutes to prepare. Hot chili peppers paired with sweet sun-dried tomatoes blend seamlessly together to create the ultimate spicy condiment, perfect with challah, burgers, and much more.  

Ingredients: 

  • 5-6 cloves garlic  
  • 8 red chili peppers with seeds intact, stems removed 
  • 1 cup sun dried tomatoes  
  • 1 tsp  salt 
  • ¼ cup lemon juice 
  • ½ cup olive oil 

Directions: 

  1. In the bowl of a food processor or blender, add all ingredients and blend to a smooth paste.  
  2. Store in an airtight container until ready to use.  
  3. Store in the refrigerator and use within 5-6 days.  

One on One with Sabrina Benun

Ellen Geller Kamaras 

“My greatest passion is the Food Connection. It’s tiring but immensely rewarding to cook Shabbat meals for the elderly and for people and their families who are in the hospital for surgery or are undergoing treatment. I hold it near and dear to me.” -  Sabrina 

Please meet Sabrina Benun. She is the Operations Director for M. Hidary & Company, a wholesale clothing company that specializes in the design, manufacturing, and distribution of wearing apparel.  Its focus is on active lifestyle clothing, such as athletic wear, swimwear, and outerwear for the entire family. 

A true woman of valor, Sabrina is the co-founder of Food Connection, which prepares hundreds of Shabbat meals weekly.  She and her friend Remy Zeitoune started the Food Connection at the beginning of the pandemic, in March 2020, when the SBH Food Pantry was about to close. Three years later, the Food Connection reached a milestone of over 50,000 meals prepared by its volunteers for the SBH pantry.  This translates to 50,000 times that a family or individual received a homemade meal prepared with love and care by our community members. 

Sabrina wears two more hats! She caters Shabbat meals and also owns a dehydrated fruit business called “Whole Fruits.” 

Let’s go back to Sabrina’s childhood and follow her trajectory in becoming the talented and resourceful woman she is today. 

Beginnings 

Born to Mona and Jack Benun, Sabrina grew up on the Jersey Shore and was a student at Hillel Yeshiva for elementary and high school.  Jack is of Syrian descent and was born in the U.S.  Mona was born in Egypt.  Sabrina is the second of four daughters, Rebecca, Sabrina, Vanessa, and Jasmine. The sisters are still very close and were fortunate to have traveled with their maternal grandmother to Egypt to learn about their roots.  

Sabrina’s dad modeled a strong work ethic, and her mother was very creative and opened her home to guests and family. The Benun girls saw many parties in their childhood home and helped their mother shop, decorate tables, and more. Sabrina always enjoyed cooking.   

As a child, Sabrina was very shy, quiet, and serious. She was an honor student.  “Learning came easy to me and my favorite subjects were science and chemistry.”  Sabrina also liked to paint and play softball. 

After high school, Sabrina enrolled at Monmouth University. She was an avid student and took a broad range of subjects including public relations and journalism.  She graduated with honors with a major in communications. 

What is Sabrina’s essence?  Her family describes Sabrina as caring, giving, outgoing, smart, savvy, and she possesses a heart of gold.  I would add extremely resourceful, energetic, inventive, creative, and driven.  Sabrina’s devotion to community is boundless. 

Career and Hesed 

After college, while building her career and community, Sabrina evolved from a shy student to an outgoing, strong woman. 

Fresh out of Monmouth U., Sabrina moved to Manhattan and started an e-commerce business in 1999, buying trendy closeout items and selling them on eBay.   Sabrina learned about eBay from a classmate in her public speaking class.  He said that eBay is like an “online garage sale.” This analogy fascinated Sabrina and sparked her interest.  

“I liked fashion and I was one of the first sellers on eBay. My specialty was women’s high-end clothing and accessories.  I thrived on keeping up with the next trend, the next hot item.”  Her younger sister, Vanessa, joined Sabrina when she graduated college. 

The eBay market started collapsing in 2007 and completely crashed with the 2008 market and financial collapse.   

In 2008, Sabrina secured a full-time position in logistics for a clothing and accessories company and continues to work in this industry.  She began her role as Operations Director at M. Hidary this past May.  “Logistics and Operations come naturally to me – it makes sense to me and I am very organized at work.  I enjoy the people and every day my job presents me with new challenges.”    

The Pandemic 

Sabrina worked for a wholesale company whose customer base was supermarkets. She was therefore considered an essential worker and continued to go into the office even after Covid struck. 

Food Connection 

The Food Connection was born when Sabrina’s friend Remy saw an SBH flyer asking for volunteers to cook Shabbat meals in March 2020, right when Covid hit.  The SBH Food Pantry was shutting down due to a food shortage.  Remy said, “Let’s volunteer.”  They made 60 meals! After posting on social media, volunteers began to cook the meals at their homes, maintaining strict standards of kashrut.  They even freeze some meals for last minute requests.  An SBH chat was created to ensure all requests are met. 

Sabrina organizes events where young people participate and cook meals together.  Approximately 300 Shabbat meals were cooked. 

Approximately 250 to 400 Shabbat meals are now cooked by 15 to 20 Manhattan volunteers, largely for the elderly and families in need, served by SBH Brooklyn. 

Shabbat meals are also prepared and delivered to community members and their families in hospitals and sometimes to where the Morris Franco Community Cancer Center directs them.  

There is a large Sephardic/Syrian community in Manhattan.  Sabrina prays at the Safra Synagogue and loves the community saying,  “Wherever we are, we stay connected.” 

Whole Fruits 

Eleven years ago Sabrina launched her dehydrated fruit business, Whole Fruits, on Instagram.  She saw a dehydrated fruit platter on Pinterest and asked a friend, “If I sold this, would you buy it?”  The rest is history! Sabrina dehydrates the fruit herself.  Dehydrated fruit is healthier than dried fruit as there is no added sugar. Dehydrated fruits are a good source of fiber, vitamins, and minerals.  They are made by baking fresh fruit in the oven at a low temperature.   

Sabrina sells platters for the holidays that are available on koshervalet.com, under the strict supervision of Rabbi Navarro. She also accepts orders throughout the year, via text or private message on Instagram. Her platters are available at Ouri’s Market in Manhattan and in Deal Foods in the summer. Follow her on Instagram @whole_fruit. 

Balance  

Sabrina continually strives for work-life balance.  Her chief challenge is managing her time. 

She works out and enjoys meeting friends for dinner. Sabrina has a personal trainer for boxing, which really releases her stress.  She travels as much as she can. Most recently she joined a safari at the Kruger National Park in South Africa. She recommends visiting countries abroad, including South Africa, Zimbabwe, Zambia, and Botswana. 

What’s Next 

Did I mention thatSabrina also loves cooking and hosting meals?  

“I like to try new recipes and putting my own twist on Sephardic dishes.” 

Sabrina caters Shabbat meals for community individuals and families. She has also cooked for working moms.  Opening her own full-time catering business is definitely on her wish list. 

Sabrina encourages young people “to put it out there if they find something they like.  I never knew I would make and sell dehydrated fruit platters eleven years ago until I tried it.” 

To join Sabrina’s team of volunteers or to speak with her, feel free to connect with her by email Sbenun77@gmail.com, text 732-233-5689, or Instagram@sabrinajb.  

Ellen Geller Kamaras, CPA/MBA, is an International Coach Federation (ICF) Associate Certified Coach. Her coaching specialties include life, career, and dating coaching.  Ellen is active in her community and is currently the acting President of Congregation Bnai Avraham in Brooklyn Heights. She can be contacted at ellen@lifecoachellen.com (www.lifecoachellen.com). 

Chef Shiri: Kids – See if you have what it takes to become a Junior Chef!

Adult Supervision Required

Utensils Needed:

  • Can opener
  • Strainer
  • Medium Mixing Bowl
  • Fork
  • Measuring cups & spoons
  • Electric mixer
  • Baking sheet
  • Oven mitts

Ingredients:

  • 1 can  (15.75-ounce) sweet potatoes
  • 1 cup soymilk
  • ¾ cup dark brown sugar
  • ¼ cup all-purpose flour
  • 2 eggs
  • 1¼ teaspoons ground cinnamon
  • 1/8 teaspoon salt
  • 1 ready-to-bake pie crust (9-inch)

DIRECTIONS:

  1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees Fahrenheit.
  2. Open the can of sweet potatoes and pour into a strainer over the sink to drain out all of the liquid.
  3. Place the sweet potatoes into a medium mixing bowl. Mash them with the back of a fork.
  4. Add the soymilk, brown sugar, flour, eggs, cinnamon, and salt.
  5. With an electric mixer at medium speed, mix all the ingredients until the mixture becomes a smooth batter.
  6. Place the pie crust on a baking sheet. Pour the batter into the pie crust.
  7. Transfer the baking sheet into the hot oven and bake the pie for 10 minutes.
  8. Lower the oven temperature to 350 degrees Fahrenheit and bake for an additional 40 minutes.
  9. Use the oven mitts to carefully remove baking sheet with the sweet potato pie from the oven.

Serves 12!

Not a Potato Nor a Yam

Despite their name, sweet potatoes are not related to regular potatoes. A sweet potato is a root, while potatoes are tubers.  The sweet potato is also often called a yam. Again, the two are unrelated. True yams are starchy, underground tubers.

Community Highlights – Senator Felder Fights Back: Are Sanitation Tickets Targeting Shabbat Observers?

Senator Simcha Felder has issued a formal letter to the New York City Chief of Enforcement at the Department of Sanitation (DSNY) in response to growing concerns from constituents regarding sanitation violation tickets issued to Shabbat-observant residents. Many in the district and throughout New York City have reported receiving fines for placing their trash at the curb before sunset on Fridays, a religious requirement that conflicts with new sanitation rules.

In New York City, residents and businesses can be fined for setting out trash at the wrong time or in the wrong way. Trash has to be set out after 6pm in a bin with a secure lid, or after 8pm, if putting bags directly on the curb. The Jewish Sabbath begins 18 minutes before sunset on Friday, and as we enter the Fall-Winter seasons sunset comes earlier each week. Shabbat observers with Saturday collection will need to set their trash at the curb in advance, which will be earlier than DSNY’s Trash Setout Times.

Senator Felder’s request is clear. He is urging DSNY to cease the enforcement of sanitation violation tickets for trash setout times on Fridays in neighborhoods where trash collection occurs on Saturdays. By doing so, he aims to protect the rights of New Yorkers to practice their faith without fear of punitive measures.

In his letter, Senator Felder emphasized that the enforcement of sanitation rules must respect the religious practices of all New Yorkers. “For many New Yorkers, placing trash out for collection before sunset on Fridays is not a mere convenience, but a vital aspect of their religious observance, and the City knows this. It was made very clear to the administration during the public comment period before the rule change,” said Felder.

“I know this city never met a ticket it didn’t like, but issuing fines under these circumstances demonstrates a real lack of understanding toward Shabbat observant communities. I am urging the DSNY to work collaboratively with community leaders to find a solution that accommodates religious observances while maintaining public sanitation standards.”

Met Council  Distributes Nearly $5m in Food During High Holiday Season

Last month, the Met Council provided $4,781,000 of food to 181,000 Jewish families in New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut.

Packages included fresh produce, canned fruits and vegetables, pasta, rice, flour, soup mix, tuna, cholent mix, chickpeas, tea biscuits, honey, apples, grape juice, challah, chicken, fish, and dairy items.

In addition, the organization distributed over 430,000 eggs.

“In the past year alone, egg prices have surged by to over 250 percent, a stark increase for a staple item compared to last Rosh Hashanah,” said David Greenfield, CEO of Met Council. “Everything is more expensive.”

Greenfield noted that the increase in food prices “means more families are facing food insecurity on a regular basis and are forced to choose between nutritional food or paying for basic living expenses. Our mission is clear: to ensure that families can celebrate this yom tov season with dignity, coming together to enjoy the holidays, and start the new year on a positive note.”

Magen David Yeshivah Congratulates 2025 Commended Students

Magen David Yeshivah High School congratulated seniors Philip Sherr and Marc Sutton for being named Commended Students in the 2025 National Merit Scholarship Program. A Letter of Commendation was presented to Sherr and Sutton by Dr. Daniel Vitow, representing both Magen David Yeshivah High School and the National Merit Scholarship Corporations, which conducts the program. Approximately 34,000 Commended Students throughout the nation are being recognized for their exceptional academic promise, placing Marc Sutton and Phil Sherr among the top 50,000 students who entered the 2025 competition by taking the 2023 Preliminary SAT/National Merit Qualifying Test.