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Migration

Working from home is not a new concept, but recent events have created a mass shift in the American workforce and more people than ever before are working from home. Many are getting used to the idea of working remotely. The crisis has affected many of our social patterns and habits, some relating to the housing market and real estate. Homebuyers are now looking for larger homes, as the need for spacious living conditions has grown. Spending more time at home has shifted family values as well.

People are now seeking more space, which suburban areas such as Toms River and Deal, New Jersey can offer. With people being forced to work for home, they realize that they are able to move farther away. Some, unfortunately, have lost their jobs and are looking to start fresh in a new setting.

Not only are people moving to the suburbs, but also beyond. Many New Yorkers have fled to sunny Tampa, Florida. In 2018, the New York metropolitan area lost 100 people per day on average, mostly to Florida. Now the number is closer to 270 per day. People are discovering that they can get as much done at home with an improved quality of life.

At the same time, with the nation’s mortgage rates at historic lows, this too has caused an increase in home sales. Some New Yorkers are settled where they are,  due to the need to remain close to family members or because of job considerations, and they are definitely interested in home-buying.

 Mortgage Update

Conforming loan interest rates have been consistently falling with rates under 3% for qualified buyers. Banks are seeing an extreme increase in both purchase and refinance volume, so make sure to get pre-approved and start the mortgage process early on! Take advantage of these once- in-a-lifetime rates!

Although mortgage interest rates have been extremely low, we wouldn’t call it free money, as everyone should be responsible for any money they borrow. We still need to think twice. At the same time, in 1981 interest rates were at 18.45%, in 1990 at 10.2%, and two summers ago, rates were close to 5%. Many are refinancing now and taking home equity line up credits. Reach out if you’re interested in purchasing or refinancing so that we can connect you to lenders who are ready to assist!

 How to Set Up Your First Home Office

Having a designated home office offers a better environment for productivity and is easier to set up than you might think.

  • The first step is to find the right location for your home office. Although it’s great if you have a spare room to use, not everyone has this luxury. A corner of a master bedroom or living room, a loft area, or even a section of a well-insulated garage can work just as well.
  • Once you find the right space, create a list of the materials you’ll need to be productive. A formal desk is best, but if you don’t own one, then any table will work. Use bookshelves or storage cubes to keep paper, pens, and other useful items within easy reach.
  • Pay attention to the lighting – both natural light and lighting fixtures. Cool light, such as sunlight, is best for productivity. Make sure you have a desk lamp or floor lamp if the room does not have proper natural lighting.
  • Once you have the essentials set up, it’s time to add some personal touches. Add a plant or decorate a wall with pictures you enjoy, to bring the space to life. Consider the storage elements as well, such as pen holders or file folders.

A home office does not need to be fancy to be an effective and enjoyable space. The most important consideration is to ensure you can work in peace. Your home office should also offer a pleasant place to be productive that is separate from your living space so you can unplug at the end of the workday.

We Have the Best Lawyer – But He Needs Our Help

When a person is brought to court, he will make sure to hire the best lawyer he can afford, the one who will plead his case most effectively.

As we stand trial on Yom Kippur, we don’t need to hire a lawyer.  We already have one – the best possible lawyer, who is far better than any lawyer we could possibly hire, no matter how much money we have.

Gd Himself is our lawyer.  But only if we let Him do the job.

The Bottom of the Barrel

To understand how this works, let us review a famous – and remarkable – story told by the Gemara, in Masechet Avodah Zarah.

The protagonist is a man named Elazar ben Dordaya, who was addicted to sin.  Specifically, he was addicted to sins of lust.  Apparently, he was very wealthy, because he was able to visit every woman of ill repute whom he heard of – and he did.  He spent his entire life submerged in the abyss of sin, pursuing forbidden pleasures.

Once, Elazar heard of a certain woman in a distant land who charged an exorbitant fee for her services.  He took a stash of gold coins and set sail to visit her – determined as he was not to miss any new opportunity to indulge in illicit conduct.

Something very unusual happened while he was with this woman: she remarked to him that he was never going to repent, that he was stuck in his sinful life, forever.

Can anything be stranger than this?  A woman with the most disreputable profession in the world suddenly turned into a rabbi…warning a customer of the real danger of falling into spiritual oblivion.

Stranger yet – this woman was more successful in inspiring change than many (most?) rabbis.  Elazar immediately ran from her home, and repented.  He wept bitterly, regretting his lifelong pursuit of forbidden lust.  He felt such pain over his depraved conduct that his soul departed.  He died.  A heavenly voice then announced that Elazar had earned a share in Gan Eden.

There are many things to learn from this startling story.  But perhaps the most important thing to learn is hinted to in the protagonist’s name: Elazar ben Dordaya.  As one commentator noted, the word “Dordaya” means sediment, the undesirable solid pieces that collect at the bottom of a barrel of wine.  This is what Elazar ben Dordaya was.  He was the “bottom of the barrel.”  He was the lowliest of sinners.  He was a disgrace, an embarrassment to the Jewish people, to his family, and, perhaps most importantly, to himself.  He was “sediment,” utter filth.

The name “Elazar” means “G-d helped.”  And so the full name – “Elazar ben Dordaya” – means, “Gd helped the bottom of the barrel.”  This is precisely the story of Elazar ben Dordaya – Gd helped him, lifting him up from the bottom of the barrel.

How else can we explain a woman of ill repute inspiring her customer to repent?  How does this make any sense, unless we realize that Gd intervened to help His beloved child, Elazar, who had sunken to the bottom of the barrel, inspiring this woman to make a comment that would change his heart?

This is the critical message of this story – that Gd helps even those in the bottom of the barrel.

Gd Believes in All of Us

Let’s take a moment to understand and appreciate the full significance of this message, and how it gives us an entirely different perspective on Gd’s relationship to us than the perspective that many people have.

Gd does not hate those who sin.  He does not want them to fail.  He does not want to punish them.  He wants to help them.  He is willing and prepared to descend to the lowest depths to bring His children back.

Our sages teach, “Yisrael, af al pi shehata, Yisrael hu – A Jew, even though he has sinned, is a Jew.”  Deep within the soul of every Jew, no matter what he has done and how he currently acts, is a sacred spark waiting to be ignited.  Even Elazar ben Dordaya was precious and beloved by Gd.  Even after all the sins he had committed, Gd did not give up on him.  Gd believed in him, because Gd knows that there is a holy spark within every person.

Our sages speak of sin as the product of a temporary state of insanity.  Our true desire is to follow Gd’s will, to obey His commands, to live a life of religious devotion.  This is what we really want.  We falter because of external factors – such as distraction, negative influences, and our physical impulses.  We are capable of overcoming all these hurdles, but it’s difficult.  Doing what we really want to do is oftentimes challenging, but these challenges don’t change the fact that what we really want to do is the right thing, what Gd wants us to do.

This is why Gd is willing to lift up even Elazar ben Dordaya, even those who have fallen to the “bottom of the barrel” – because He believes in all His children, even those at the very bottom.  Even they have a sacred soul which years to cling to Gd.  Even they truly and deeply want to live the right way.

On Yom Kippur, when we stand trial, Gd comes to our defense.  The prosecuting angels stand before the Heavenly Tribunal well-equipped with the incontrovertible, incriminating evidence against us.  They gleefully play the video reels of all we have done wrong.  The proof is undeniable.  We are guilty.  But Gd Himself arises as our advocate, telling the court that the video tells only a small part of the story.  The real story is what’s inside the heart of the Jew.  And deep inside, his heart is pure.  He truly and genuinely wants to serve his Creator.  He wants to live a sacred life, a life of Torah and mitzvot.  This cannot be caught on video, but Gd, who created us, knows what’s inside our hearts.  And as the creator of the world, He knows just how difficult this world is, just how many challenges, distractions, lures, and temptations we face each and every day.

This is Gd’s defense for His beloved nation, the way He silences the prosecutors and undermines their whole case against us.

But in order for this work, we must do our part.

Let Gd Do His Job!

One of the highlights of the Yom Kippur prayer service is the chanting of the beautiful Adir Vena’or hymn, in which we proclaim many different praises of Gd.  In one passage in this inspirational prayer, we declare, “Goleh amukot, dover tzedakot – Revealer of the concealed, Speaker of righteousness.”

It has been suggested that this sentence holds one of the most important keys to a successful Yom Kippur.

On this day, Gd is “goleh amukot” – He reveals the hidden spark of holiness buried deep within the soul of every Jew, even of the likes of Elazar ben Dordaya.  But He can do this only if “dover tzedakot” – if the Jew whom He is defending speaks “righteously.”

Imagine the scene in the Heavenly Tribunal as the prosecuting angel shows the court the video of a person’s sins, and then Gd rises to his defense, pointing to the hidden greatness within the person.  But then the prosecuting angel takes the floor once again, and strikes down this defense.  The angel shows that this person himself does not believe in the hidden greatness within every Jew.  After all, he regularly, or even just occasionally, points out the faults of other people.  He doesn’t defend people by looking for their hidden greatness.  He angrily or disdainfully criticizes them, complains about them, and gossips about them.  He’s not interested in probing people’s characters to uncover the spark of sanctity and greatness deep within.  So why should his own spark matter?  If he doesn’t see the hidden greatness in others, then his own hidden greatness is not seen, either.

If we speak lashon hara (negative speech) about other people, or if we look down on others, rather than judging them favorably, finding the spark of greatness within their beings, then our “Lawyer” cannot do His job for us on Yom Kippur.  He cannot advocate for us with an argument which we ourselves do not subscribe to.  He cannot draw the court’s attention to our innate greatness if we pay no attention to the innate greatness of other people.

All year round, but especially during this period of the High Holidays, it is so critically important to judge people favorably, to come to their defense, to take note of their good qualities instead of focusing on their faults and their mistakes.  It is safe to assume that nobody in our lives has fallen to the “bottom of the barrel,” to the level of sinfulness reached by Elazar ben Dordaya.  If Hashem saw the spark of holiness within his soul, we can certainly see the spark of holiness within the soul of all our fellow Jews, no matter what faults they have, no matter what we might think of their level of religious observance, no matter what we might think of their behavior and their personalities.  All people have a spark of greatness – and we have to believe in them, and find that spark.

If we can do this, then Hashem will continue believing in us, despite our many failings, and help us ignite our inner spark so that during this coming year, we become the great people whom we are capable of being, and whom we truly and sincerely want to become.

Emotional Fitness Amidst Uncertainty

Is it possible for a person to feel completely calm and serene while not knowing what to expect from one minute to the next?

The answer is an enthusiastic yes!

Strategic Thinking

Over the past few months we have ALL been living in a state of not knowing what is to come. The underlying difference between people who have maintained their emotional wellness and those who have “seemed” to have lost it ( I strategically write “seemed” because emotional health never actually leaves us) is rooted in people’s different ways of thinking. If you fall into the category of those who have seemed to have lost it, you can rest assured that you are always just one thought away from getting back to the state of security and happiness that all people are born with.

When a person is aware that feeling uncomfortable is simply part of the human experience, they become less judgmental of themselves, and just allow the feeling to pass through them. If we allow feelings to pass (which they always naturally do), then they don’t have to get stuck and spill out in other areas of life.

Brain #1 and Brain #2

Here’s a sneak peek into the brain of a person who is unaware of their emotional wellness, which they were born with and never left them.

Brain #1: “All this uncertainty is so hard for me. I wish I knew exactly how the school year would look so I can plan my life better. This is so uncomfortable. (True)

I can’t live this way anymore. (False)

In order to live passionately like I always wanted to, I need the circumstances in my life to change.” (False)

This type of thinking can become habitual, which by the way is not a problem! But did you know that unhelpful habitual thought is not what creates a distressed quality of life? It’s simply ENGAGING with those unhelpful thoughts that can lead a person to major distress and despair. So, if your brain has thoughts like the ones mentioned above, your homework here is to increase your awareness that they are just thoughts, and thoughts can’t harm us.

In contrast, here’s a sneak peek into the brain of a person experiencing emotional freedom amidst uncertainty:

Thinking That Allows Emotional Freedom

Brain #2: “All this uncertainty is so hard for me. I wish I knew exactly how the school year would look so I can plan my life better. This is so uncomfortable. It’s okay to have these uncomfortable strong feelings. Actually, it’s such a normal, healthy part of being human. Just as a shot hurts skin with healthy nerve endings, a challenging life experience creates emotional discomfort. I’m so grateful to be healthy. It’s so nice to know that I am one hundred percent okay one hundred percent of the time, even when I am in extreme discomfort. One hundred percent okay just means that no matter what challenge comes my way in life, Hashem already gave me the tools I need to embrace it. Ahhhh – that feels so peaceful. Uncomfortable and peaceful.”

So next time you’d like to move from the thoughts of Brain #1 to those of Brain #2, remind yourself that you can only think one thought at a time, and you get to choose which thought to focus on!

A Look at a Few Universal Truths About All Human Beings

All people are born emotionally well, with the default settings of happiness, security, and resilience. Nobody has to teach babies how to smile, how to be satisfied with their nutrition, or how to get up again if they tumble.

All people have a full range of feelings, including all the uncomfortable ones such as sadness, frustration, and disappointment.

All people form beliefs about these feelings at some point in life. Beliefs can range from:

True – “It’s so normal to experience intense feelings.” to

False – “Maybe something is wrong with me when I have intense feelings.” to

False – “It’s terrible to experience extremely uncomfortable feelings, and I must do something to stop this.”

Once Upon A Thyme – Individual Apple Cobblers with Vanilla Ice Cream

Cobblers, crisps, crumbles; they’re all the same, right? Actually, while they’re all baked desserts made with fruit, there are distinctions between the three. Cobblers have a biscuit topping which resembles a cobbled road, and so it was named accordingly. Though crisps and crumbles both have a streusel-like topping, they have but one difference. Crisps contain oats which tend to crisp up the crumbly topping, while crumbles do not. Whatever you call it, warm fruit with any sort of pastry dough is delectable. Add a scoop of vanilla ice cream and it’s irresistible!

8 servings

Apple Filling:

1 tbsp cinnamon

¼ cup sugar
6 apples

Topping:

½ cup flour
½ cup oats

¾ cup sugar
1 tsp pure vanilla extract
¼ cup canola oil
1 egg

1 half pint vanilla ice cream

Photo by Adina Yaakov
  1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees Fahrenheit.
  2. Peel and slice apples. Add cinnamon and sugar and toss gently in a large bowl. Evenly place apples in ramekins.
  3. Mix flour and sugar together. Add egg, vanilla, and oil and mix well.
  4. Divide dough into eight parts and roll into balls. Gently flatten dough by hand and place on top of each apple-filled ramekin. Bake uncovered for 30 minutes at 350 degrees Fahrenheit.
  5. Serve warm with a scoop of vanilla ice cream.

 

Recipe, Photo, and Styling By Adina Yaakov, Dietetic Intern and Recipe Developer For more recipes follow @OnceUponAThyme__ on Instagram NEW!  Find more recipes on www.OnceUponaThyme.co

Mashiah Revealed – The Predicted Dates For Mashiah’s Arrival – Part IV

Rabbi E.C. Aboud

 

Throughout this long, tumultuous exile, numerous predictions and speculations have been made regarding the date of Mashiah’s long-awaited arrival – a number of which are even attributed to some of our nation’s most illustrious sages. These dates, of course, came and went without the appearance of Mashiah, leaving us wondering how these great luminaries could have erred, and still contemplating when the redemption will truly unfold. This installment will analyze the words of our sages regarding the time of Mashiah’s arrival, and seek to explain why their forecasts went unfulfilled.

The Great Secret

The prophets clearly state that the date of Mashiah’s arrival is something that Hashem has concealed from even the highest-ranking angels in the heavens.[i] However, our sages teach that there were exceptions to this rule, and this secret was known to a select few sadikim.

The first person who is said to have known the time of Mashiah’s arrival was our righteous patriarch Yaakov, who, the Midrash tells, sought to reveal this information to his children on his deathbed, until Hashem prevented him from doing so.[ii] The Vilna Gaon zs”l commented[iii] that Abraham, Yizhak, and Moshe Rabenu also knew this secret. Some say that Yosef had access to this information, as well.[iv] It is generally assumed that the date was revealed to the prophet Daniel, as alluded to in the Book of Daniel.[v] According to some commentators[vi], however, Daniel received only veiled allusions and was unable to infer the exact date from these obscure references.

The Prophecies of Daniel

There is considerable confusion surrounding the redemption prophecies in the Book of Daniel. Cryptic hints of the date of Mashiah’s arrival appear in a number of places, with a different date appearing to emerge in each context. Many early commentators, including Rashi, the Rambam, the Ramban, and Malbim, attempted to reconcile the different passages and deduce when Mashiah will arrive. Different commentators reached different conclusions – and all the dates mentioned have long since passed uneventfully (see sidebar).

Adding to the confusion are comments in the Talmud[vii] which, based on verses from the Prophets, sternly warn against predicting the arrival of Mashiah. The Talmud goes so far as to say that such activity borders on heresy, and that people who engage in these predictions are deserving of death and forfeit their share in the next world. Assigning a specific time to Mashiah’s arrival undermines the fundamental belief in the possibility of his arrival at any day, at the very moment we are deemed worthy. Furthermore, the disappointment of an unfulfilled prediction runs the risk of breaking people’s faith in Mashiah’s arrival altogether.[viii]

How, then, did the aforementioned commentators make attempts to determine the date of Mashiah’s arrival, seemingly in direct violation of our hachamim’s warning?

The Last and Final Date

Previously, in Part II of this series, we distinguished between the two times at which Mashiah could arrive. Although there is a final “deadline” by which he must come to redeem us, he could potentially arrive at any time, once the Jews are worthy of redemption.

This premise sheds light on the prophecies in Daniel concerning the date of Mashiah’s arrival. Daniel was not told when Mashiah would actually arrive. Rather, he received Gd’s guarantee that even if, Heaven forbid, the Jews would never be worthy of redemption, Mashiah will nevertheless come by a certain time. Accordingly, those commentaries who assigned dates to Mashiah’s arrival referred to the final time by which Mashiah must come; the sages did not imply that Mashiah cannot come earlier.[ix]

The Possible Dates

As for the conflicting times proposed by the various commentators for Mashiah’s arrival – dates which have already passed – it would seem that the sages did not present their interpretations as the exclusive reading of the prophecies in question, or claim that Mashiah would definitely arrive by that time. Rather, these writers explained the difficult prophetic passages in the manner that appeared most plausible to them, while accepting the possibility that other valid interpretations may also exist. A number of commentators said so explicitly while presenting their explanations[x], and others remarked that they would have accepted other interpretations if the dates yielded by those readings had not already passed.[xi] Interestingly enough, Daniel himself was told that many will try, unsuccessfully, to deduce the time of Mashiah’s arrival from his prophecy.[xii]

Times of Great Potential

Other writers[xiii] add that all the possible dates deduced from Daniel’s prophecies by the early scholars were actually times of rasson, occasions that were especially propitious for Mashiah. Had the Jews in those times seized the opportunity, they could have ushered in the Messianic era and established that time as the correct interpretation of the prophecy. Indeed, the Ramban[xiv] writes that Daniel’s prophecy was intentionally formulated in a way that lends itself to different interpretations, and the Jews of each generation could potentially merit Mashiah’s arrival by proving themselves worthy. But if the Jews squander these opportunities for redemption, they are held accountable for this failure, and these occasions, which had the potential for redemption, become periods of great suffering and sorrow. (See sidebar.)

6000 – The Final “Deadline”?

Many scholars have written that Mashiah’s arrival is guaranteed to occur by the Jewish year 6000.[xv] This theory originates from the Talmud’s comment, “Our world spans a period of 6,000 years – two thousand years of tohu (chaos), two thousand  years of Torah, and two thousand years of the Days of Mashiah” (Sanhedrin 97a). Many commentaries explain[xvi] this to mean that Mashiah will arrive at some point within the final two thousand years. Mashiah’s arrival is thus guaranteed to occur by the year 6000, an opinion widely accepted by most of our sages.

Other commentaries[xvii], however, follow the literal meaning of the Talmud’s comment, explaining that the last two thousand years referred to in the Talmud are of the Messianic Era which will span two millennia. According to this reading, the Talmud makes no reference to a guaranteed time by which Mashiah will arrive and the years we are currently in are not mentioned in this Talmudic statement.

Repentance Before Redemption

There is considerable discussion among our hachamim as to whether the final redemption hinges upon the Jews’ repentance, or if it will occur at the designated time regardless of our spiritual condition. It is commonly assumed that Hashem will send Mashiah at the designated time regardless of the Jewish people’s worthiness, as indicated in the first blessing of the amida prayer: “Umevi go’el livneh venehem lema’an shemo be’ahavah – and He brings the redeemer for their (our forefathers’) children’s children for His Name’s sake, with love.” It appears from this passage that Hashem will send Mashiah for His Name’s sake and out of sincere love for His people, even if we are not worthy.[xviii] However, the more accepted opinion among the commentators is that Gd will not send forth a redeemer if the Jews are undeserving of redemption. If the final time for redemption arrives and the Jews are still unworthy, Hashem will cause them to repent through affliction and suffering, so they could earn the Messianic era. This resembles the events of Purim, when Haman’s edict inspired the Jews of the time to sincerely repent and return to Torah observance, thereby becoming worthy of Hashem’s salvation and, ultimately, the rebuilding of the Bet Hamikdash.[xix]

The Opportunity of the Century

Earlier, we mentioned the concept of a time of rasson, an opportunity for Mashiah that the Jewish people can choose to either seize or squander. Our century provides such an opportunity ,as our gedolim (Jewish leaders) have told us. In light of the recent gathering of much of world Jewry to Israel and the rebuilding of our country, along with the fulfillment of the many other signs predicted for the pre-Messianic times, the period appears to be a time of rasson. Unfortunately, it seems, thus far, that this opportunity has yet to be fully recognized and executed by our people.

The Balfour Declaration issued by Great Britain in 1917 proclaimed the Jews’ right to a homeland in Palestine, a promise ratified by the United Nations in 1948. These were both very dramatic events that were met with great excitement and enthusiasm by world Jewry – specifically the State’s establishment, which followed the horrors of WWII and the Holocaust. Many great gedolim who lived at the time of these events, including the Hafess Haim, the Hazon Ish, and Rav Yizhak Zev Soloveitchik (the Brisker Rav), viewed them as the first stirrings of redemption and felt that Mashiah’s arrival was imminent. These feelings were expressed publicly and put into writing. Yet, almost a full century after the Balfour Declaration, we see that clearly the time of Mashiah did not coincide with establishment of the State of Israel. What happened to the predictions of the gedolim? Why did the restoration of Jewish sovereignty in Eress Yisrael not lead to the Messianic era as these sages had anticipated? These questions have troubled many scholars, and entire books have been written in an attempt to answer them and explain the events of the last century.

The general approach taken by our hachamim[xx] is that whenever something of such spiritual magnitude appears on the horizon, the Satan does all it can to prevent its realization. In this case, Satan triumphed by orchestrating that those in power take a secularist approach to the State of Israel. Instead of promoting Jewish life in Eress Yisrael, many Zionist pioneers actually repressed it. And although there were a handful of leaders in the early days of the State who were loyal to the Jewish faith, it was specifically the Secularists – rather than the Torah observant community – who were recognized by the world as the official representatives of world Jewry.

Once the process of statehood fell into the hands of the Secularists, they attempted to build the country on a foundation which would have as little as possible to do with traditional Torah Judaism. Though not widely known or talked about, it is well documented that in the early years of the State, vehemently secular elements in the government carried out horrendous crimes against religious Jews – particularly those arriving from Middle Eastern and North African countries. These crimes included forcibly indoctrinating children from religious families with secular Zionism and even kidnap, as hundreds of Yemenite children were either sold or placed with secular families. Perpetrators of these crimes are believed to have rationalized their actions as nationalistic efforts to obliterate “old fashioned” Torah observance from the fledgling country.

The decidedly secular character of the early state is clearly a contravention of how Jewish sovereignty of the Land of Israel should be built as a preparation for Mashiah; and so the time of rasson – the opportunity for redemption in the twentieth century – was squandered.

Still, the opportunity to bring Mashiah is in our hands today more than ever. The Hafess Haim[xxi] has written that the stirrings of Mashiah have already begun, and if the Jewish Nation undergoes even a small, yet sincere and wholehearted, process of repentance, this would suffice for us to earn Mashiah’s immediate arrival. Torah educated Jews know that Mashiah’s arrival can be ushered in at any time by renewing and reinvigorating our commitment to Hashem and his Torah.

May we all do our share to bring about this change in ourselves and in the general establishment of Eress Yisrael, ensuring that we and all Jews live in accordance with Torah law and values, so that we may hasten the coming of Mashiah speedily and in our days, Amen.

Rabbi Jewish Date Corresponding English Date World Events During that Year
Rambam (Rabbi Moshe ben Maimon 1135-1204) 4972 1212 undocumented
Rashi (Rabbi Shlomo Yizhaki 1040-1105) 5122-5167 Between 1354-1399 undocumented
Ramban (Rabbi Moshe Nachmanidies 1194-1270) 5118 1358 undocumented
Sefer Kets Hapelaot (Rabbi Chaim Yeshayah Halbersberg) 5408 1648 Polish Cossack massacres began.
Many hachamim’s interpretation of the Zohar, and as stated by the Ohr Hahayim (Rabbi Haim Ibn Attar 1696-1743) 5600 1840 Secrets of Kabbalah were revealed, and the Industrial Revolution began.
Sefer Arve Nachal (Rabbi David Shlomo Lipshits 1855-1913) 5620 1860 undocumented
Malbim (Rabbi Meir Leibush 1809-1879) 5673 1913 Start of WWI
Sefer Masa Ba’erev 5727 1967 Israeli Six Day War
Sefer Hatekufah Hagedolah 5750 1990 Saddam Hussein declared his desire to destroy Israel.

 

 

Next Issue: The Wars of Gog Umagog and Mashiah’s eventful arrival

 

[i] See Sanhedrin 99a.

[ii] See Rashi, Beresheet 49:1.

[iii] Even Shelemah 11:9.

[iv] Rokeah on Kohelet 8:17.

[v] See 7:25, 8:14 and chapter 12.

[vi] Ibn Ezra, Daniel 8:25, 11:31.

[vii] Sanhedrin 97b and Masechet Derech Eress, chapter 11.

[viii] Osserot Aharit Hayamim, chapter 3.

[ix] Osserot Aharit Hayamim, chapter 15.

[x]Ramban, Sefer Hageulah, part 4.

[xi] Rashi, Daniel 7:25.

[xii]Daniel 11:35 (see commentaries).

[xiii] See Maharal, Nessah Yisrael, chapter 45, and Kets Hapelaot by Rabbi Chaim Yeshayah Halbersberg, chapter 4.

[xiv]  Sefer Hageulah, section 4.

[xv] Malbim Daniel 11:35.

[xvi] See Maharal, Nessah Yisrael, chapter 27.

[xvii]See Rabbi Baumenger, Meshihe HashekerUmitnagdehem, pp. 39-43.

[xviii] Even Shelemah, 11:9.

[xix] Rabbi Avraham Amsel, U’ba Lession Goel (the entire book was written to develop this point).

[xx] U’ba Lession Goel, pp.56-63, and Meshihe Hasheker Umitnagdehem, pp 621-639.

[xxi] Chomat Hada’at, chapter 13.

Mabrouk – September 2020

Births – Baby Boy

Sam & Adele Sitt

Ralph & Esther Sutton

Danny & Carolyn Orfahli

Births – Baby Girl

Gabi & Renee Peretz

Nathan & Shirley Cohen

Engagements

Felix Ades to Marielle Salem

Simon Dadoun to Eliah Perez

Jonathan Abigzor to Marsella Sitton

Weddings

Rob Shamah to Rose Mishaan

 

 

The M&S Softball Mid-Season Report

The M&S Softball League is about midway through the 2020 season and the playoff picture is starting to get clearer. Almost all seven teams feel they have what it takes to hoist the M&S Cup this season and things are starting to get really interesting!

Who to Watch

At the top of the standing is WWG1WGA – run by Teddy Ishak and Sammy Esses – who started the season pushing all the right buttons and are an impressive 6-2. This team is extremely talented. Anchored by a star-studded outfield featuring former league MVP Michael Cohen, Aharon Cohen, and break out star Alan Jemal. The team also features a rock solid infield manned by Sammy Esses, TI, stud Yanky Gutman, and David Harary. But this team does have some question marks come playoff time. As currently constituted, this team throws out two starting pitchers on game day. Yaakob Seruya starts the first game and then hands the ball to the rising young gun Eddie Harari for the second game. Will they keep up the two-headed monster approach?

Now here is where it gets interesting. Currently there is a tie for 2nd place at 5-3.

Spindrift, led by Steven J Gindi, is a team built on discipline and fundamentals. Spindrift is paced by the SJG and Joe S combo, but Joey Cohen on the mound has been the story of that team. In his first year in the league, Joey is pitching like a battle-tested veteran. Joey is, of course, the son of softball legend Abe Cohen, and was taken with a premium pick in the 2020 draft.

Two-time reigning Cy Young Max Yedid leads the G.O.A.T. organization, which features star shortstop Jon Eliezer and a great supporting cast, such as 2019 batting champ Nathan Kushner, Juber, and Butchy Cohen. The one question mark is the team’s back end of the lineup, but so far so good, they have been producing and have been clutch.

At 4-4, the Punishers, led by captain extraordinaire Michael Melech Solomon, are feeling good about themselves. After starting the season in a hole, they have dug their way out and have been enjoying great pitching by Ralph Hanan paired with slugging by Saul Cohen, Archie Eichorn, and Shimi Cohen. This team plays with confidence and is extremely dangerous. The one bugaboo with this squad is they are not fleet of foot, which can be a problem come playoff time.

Anything Is Possible! Watch for These Teams, Too

Currently 5th in the standings, Michael Sabon Salomon’s Supreme has a record of 3-3 due to an unbalanced schedule. It’s way too early to make any assessments but any team with Abe Saka on the mound will be in the heart of the chase for the cup. Supreme’s deep lineup makes them dangerous. Featured players are Natan Safdieh in CF, reigning MVP JoJo Seruya at SS, along with a strong supporting cast.

Currently at 2-6 Jimmy Malack’s Fauda are scoreboard watching. This team on paper was one of the preseason favorites. A lineup featuring first ballot hall of famer Allie Marshal, Five Towns legend Yanky Itzkowits, Jimmy, and more. Unfortunately, this team has not played crisp ball but if they finish out strong, anything is possible.

In the cellar the Joe Greenberg-led Blue Moon is 1-5 and has been playing without Joe, who injured himself early on. This team has talent. Zack Ashkenazi dominates the shortstop position, Ike Mavorah continues to mash, and Mokass is playing an exceptional right field.  The injury to Joe has hampered the team, but Greeny will be back as soon as next week just in time for the stretch run.

League Sponsors

M&S would like to acknowledge their league sponsors, The Sephardic Food Fund, who does amazing things on a daily basis, and American Friends of Ariel University.

M&S now in its 13th year is firing on all cylinders. Each game is streamed live on Youtube. You can also catch all the highlights via their extremely popular Instagram @MandS_Baseball and website www.MandSBaseball.com.  

 

The Final Rectification

The Shomer Emunim (Vol. 1) revealed a secret in the name of the great mekubal Rav Tzvi Aryeh of Alik.

There was once a gathering in Heaven of all souls who had already gone through this world numerous times. Nevertheless, they had yet achieved their tikkun (rectification) to be granted their position in Olam Haba. These souls asked Hashem, “What else can we do? Please give us another chance!” Hashem responded, “When it comes time for the final generation before Mashiah, all of you will be sent back to the world and will have one final opportunity. You will face many tests, especially in emunah, and My Presence will be hidden. If during that time you can retain your emunah and believe that I am behind everything that happens, that will be your ultimate tikkun.”

Our rabbis tell us that we are those souls, and this is the final generation. We live in a world that does not recognize Hashem. We see things that don’t make sense. We hear of tragedies, lo aleinu, of people dying young, of so much suffering. We want to ask why. However, it is all part of Hashem’s Master Plan, with the single goal of bringing everyone to fulfill their ultimate purpose – to live forever with Him in the World to Come.

The Rambam writes that when a child passes away at a young age, it means that his mission in this world has been completed. He is ready to enjoy the delights of Gan Eden. B’ezrat Hashem, these challenges are not going to last much longer. The pasuk in Malachi 3:1 says that the Mashiah is going to come suddenly. And then, as the navi says (Yeshayah 26:19), the dead will emerge from their graves and families will be united. Our enemies will be wiped out and the Jewish people will live in peace and harmony. We have to believe that this could happen at any moment.

What does it mean that Mashiah will come suddenly?

Rav Chaim Volozhiner painted the following picture with his students:

Mashiah will arrive on an ordinary day, like today. We will be involved in our regular routines. I will go home after Shaharit for breakfast and to prepare my shiur as usual. My wife will go to the market as always, and she’ll remind me to keep an eye on the soup so it doesn’t burn. Suddenly, while preparing for the shiur, I’m going to feel the sun shining with unusual brightness and hear the birds singing the most beautiful melodies. The trees will be in full bloom, more beautiful than ever. There’s going to be a lot of commotion in the streets.

I will go outside and see one of the neighbors running.

“What’s going on?” I’ll ask him, and he’ll answer, “Didn’t you hear? Mashiah is here!”

I’ll run to the closet to change into my Shabbat clothes to greet Mashiah.

My wife will come home. “You forgot the soup!” she’ll announce, sniffing. “It’s burning!”

“Don’t worry about the soup!” I’ll joyously respond. “Mashiah is here!”

 

It’s going to be a joyous times! Until then, out task is to believe that Hashem is running the world, He is here with us. He is causing everything to happen, and He does everything for our benefit. Having emunah in our generation will be our final tikkun, and b’ezrat Hashem, it will bring the Redemption. Chazal tell us (Yalkut Shimoni, Hoshea 519) that we were redeemed from Egypt in the merit of our emunah, and our future Redemption will also come in the merit of emunah.

The Secret to Success

Rabbi Mansour’s article last month (“The Secret to Success During Times of Crisis”) was right on point – as usual. With the rabbi’s permission, I would like to add the following thought. I was taught that tzedekah can take many forms besides a gift of money. According to Hillel, the highest form of tzedekah is to help another person become self-sufficient, not to give them a handout. If you can teach your trade to others, drive them to job interviews, volunteer in a school (even as a janitor, because it will allow the school to spend its limited funds on education, instead of paying janitors) or otherwise do something to help others become self-sufficient, that is a higher form of tzedekah than a financial contribution. Of course, if you are able to do both – to donate funds and your time – that would be even better. As the rabbi wrote, may we all be deserving of a year filled with joy, health, blessing, and success.

Albert M.

Family Tree

Last issue’s column about tracing one’s family heritage (“L’Dor V’Dor – Tracing My Family Heritage”) emotionally moved me. I am also searching for my roots, wanting to find out about my mother’s relatives and ancestors. Who were they, what did they do, how did they think? What were their personalities like? Why was the preservation of our traditions so important to my mother?

To tell the truth, I’m not exactly sure why I’m doing this. I know I want to preserve the pear tree my mother planted, the intricate doilies she crocheted despite being legally blind. I want to see the home where she grew up in Aleppo, Syria. I want to see pictures of her parents. And I wish so badly that I could recall all the details she shared of her youth, while I was a child.

Can you give me information about doing ancestral research? I will be traveling to Israel for my mother’s yartzheit – are any records kept there? Thank you!

Raquel W.

Finding Your Soulmate

Last month’s article about shidduchim (“Finding Your Soulmate”) was one of the most sensible articles written on the topic. This is the sort of thing that should be included in the school social studies curriculum. Give kids at least some straight-forward, level-headed advice, which they can actually follow in practical terms, instead of leaving them with all the ridiculous media messages and silly “Cinderella and the Prince” ideas they get from the movies and magazine articles. I posted the article in my kitchen for my 24-year-old son. Thanks a lot.

Margie  T.

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I found last month’s article about finding one’s naseeb way too simplistic – and far-fetched. Where does attraction and liking the person fit in? The  suggestion that looking for a person with good quality traits seems way too cut and dry. I agree that having fine middot is an important qualification, but if this is the only factor, then it seems as if you can marry just about anyone. Of course, this is not so. True commitment is an essential mainstay of marriage, but if this is what is being taught to people as the Jewish way, I have no doubt as to why there are so many divorces in our community – and not at the fault of the couple – rather a society that defines marriage in such an unrealistic way.

Solomon H.

Recipes

Photo by Adina Yaakov

I love the recipe for the Fruity Pebbles Ice Cream Bowls. It is right up my alley – easy to make and so much fun to eat! My kids loved it!

Sonia E.

Law in The Time of COVID – Is There a Silver Lining? Part II

“Behind every dark cloud there is a silver lining.”

During this terrible time of the COVID-19, which has permeated every aspect of our lives, our community, and the world at large, we find there are actually many positive consequences.  Last month, I observed how we have rediscovered ourselves, our kids, spouses, families, and friends, and vice versa.  We are using the technology that formally isolated and divided us to keep us connected.  We have seen how resilient, creative, and caring we all are.  These things can be viewed as the silver lining.

Estate Planning

In the legal area, as well, there have been unexpected silver linings.  The low interest rates are driving a surprisingly robust real estate market. And negatives such as the stalled economy, volatile stock market, record unemployment, and lowered asset valuations, coupled with the highest estate and gift tax exemptions in history, have created  a unique but short-term window of opportunity for estate planning, asset protection, and tax shelters.   Most people feel that these things are not relevant to them. Rather, they are significant  only for very high net worth individuals. This is a common misconception. Estate planning includes preparing the basic documents, such as wills, powers of attorney, and living wills/health care directives. Estate planning takes into consideration each family’s unique circumstances and goals.  Take, for example, if there has been a second marriage, a divorce, or a loved one with special needs. Estate planning also must consider if there is Medicaid eligibility, business succession planning to plan for, etc.  It is important to note that  properly prepared estate plan can minimize or even eliminate estate taxes.

In “normal” times, common estate planning tools include gifting and creating trusts. Again, do not be intimidated by the idea of a “trust.”   A trust is simply a legal entity that holds assets for the benefit of others.  Irrevocable trusts are generally drafted to make the assets immune to estate tax and, when applicable, to creditors.  And unlike a straight gift, the trust terms dictate how and when the assets are distributed to the beneficiaries.

In order to understand why now is the perfect time to create, review, amend or enhance your current estate plan, you need to be aware of the following:

Gift and Estate Tax Exemptions

Gifts are transfers to either individuals or trusts and the gift giver is the one who is taxed, never the person (or trust) that receives the gift.   At present, the federal gift tax exemption is likely the highest it may ever be – currently $11.98 million per individual. This means that a married couple can make lifetime gift totaling $23.16 million (combined) without incurring any federal gift tax.

The federal estate tax exemption is the same as the federal gift tax:  $11.98 million per individual ($23.16 combined for married couples). Lifetime gifts are subtracted from this amount to calculate a person’s estate tax exemption.  This exemption amount is expected to be lowered significantly after the November elections (no matter who wins) to recoup the billions of dollars being spent for COVID relief, which will leave many estates suddenly subject to an estate tax. This will occur as well on the state level, so it is very likely that our estates will soon be subject to either federal or state estate tax, or both.

It is important to note that New York State has an estate tax exemption of just $5,080,000.00 ($10,160,000.00 for couples). Right now, if the exemptions were to be lowered, many NY estates would be subject to NY estate tax..

Decrease in Valuation of Assets Is to Your Advantage

The valuation of the assets gifted or transferred to trusts is crucial in determining the amount of exemption used; the lower the better. Given the current state of the economy, the valuation of most assets is way down. Appraisers note that they are seeing valuations reduced by up to 50% for real estate.

And valuation discounts are increasing due to higher risk amid the current historic uncertainty. Valuation discounts are used together with appraisals to value commercial properties and  business interests.  Higher discounts further lower the asset value for gift and estate tax purposes.

Now is the time to take advantage of the high estate and gift tax exemptions, depressed asset values, and increased valuation discounts to create the perfect estate plan.

* This information is not intended as legal advice and should not be used or relied upon as such.  It is provided for information purposes only.  Please consult your legal, financial, tax, or other professional advisor.

 Lois D. Sutton is an attorney whose practice area includes residential and commercial real estate, estate planning, wills and trusts, including Halachic wills and Halachic Health Care Directive/Living Wills,  probate, and estate administration, and business matters.   Contact her at 732 245-4500 or at Lsutton@loissuttonlaw.com.