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Community Pulse – Community Members Weigh In on Weight Loss Shots

Michele Shrem

The world of weight management is rapidly changing, with new treatments likeweight loss shots gaining attention. These medications contain GLP-1, glucagon-like peptide-1, a hormone thatplays a crucial role in regulating blood sugar levels, appetite, and digestion. The shots help control one’s appetite and metabolism, and offer what seems like an easier way to lose weight than just diet and exercise.

However, behind the headlines are many personal experiences, hopes, fears, and money worries. For every success story, there’s a tale of side effects, problems getting the medication, or a bigger discussion about what “healthy” weight loss really means. To understand what individuals really think about these modern weight loss methods I interviewed eight community members, each with their own unique story. Their insights reveal the promises, challenges, and personal feelings tied to this new approach.

Sarah, 42

“Before the shots, I felt stuck, constantly battling my body. Diets and exercise never worked long-term, and the hunger and cravings always brought the weight back. This cycle left me feeling hopeless. My weight affected my energy, joint pain, and confidence. I knew I needed a change, not just for looks, but for my health. My doctor suggested the shots, and though I was skeptical, I decided to learn more.

“She explained it wasn’t magic, but science, mimicking a hormone to make me feel full. This clicked, and nine months in, it’s been a game-changer. The nagging hunger is gone. I’m satisfied with less food, and my mind is free from constant food thoughts.

“I’ve lost 55 pounds steadily. My energy is high, my knees don’t ache, and I’m sleeping better. My confidence has soared, and I actually enjoy shopping again. There were initial side effects like nausea and constipation, but they subsided. The cost is a factor, but my insurance helps, and it’s an investment in my health. I’m learning mindful eating and enjoying exercise. These shots were a reset button, helping me build sustainable habits. It’s been transformative.”

David, 55

“I keep hearing about these weight loss shots – [like] Ozempic and Wegovy. And my wife’s friend had great success, so it’s hard not to be curious. I’m about 40 pounds overweight, my blood pressure is high, and my doctor wants me to make changes. I try to eat well, but consistency is tough, and fast food is just too easy to pick up after work. Plus, on top of that, exercise feels like a huge effort.

“A shot that reduces appetite and helps me lose weight quickly sounds appealing. But I’m worried about side effects like nausea and vomiting, especially since I already have stomach issues. Will the weight just come back if I stop? That’s a big fear, since I have seen family and friends regain weight after diets. Is it a lifelong commitment? The idea of indefinite injections is scary.

“Then there’s the cost. My insurance is good, but these can be incredibly expensive. Is it worth the financial strain? I also worry about judgment from others, thinking I took the ‘easy way out.’ A part of me still believes in willpower, even though it hasn’t worked for me. It’s a big decision, and I need all the facts before I can even consider it.”

Mary, 38

“I was so excited to start the weight loss shots. I’d seen amazing transformations and thought, ‘This is it!’ I’ve struggled with my weight for years, wanting more energy for my kids and to improve my health. My doctor was supportive, and insurance covered it. The first few weeks showed promise. My appetite lessened, and I started losing weight, and feeling hopeful.

But then, severe side effects hit. Constant, stomach-churning nausea made it hard to function, affecting my mood and focus. I also had severe constipation. Eating became a chore, and sometimes the thought of food made me feel worse. I tried to push through, believing it would be worth it.

After three months, I realized my quality of life was declining. I was losing weight, but constantly felt sick, tired, and irritable. I couldn’t enjoy family meals and withdrew socially. It felt like I was trading one problem for another. My doctor and I tried adjusting the dose, but the side effects persisted, so I stopped. While the nausea went away, the weight started to creep back on, despite my efforts to maintain healthy habits. It was disheartening. For me, it wasn’t the magic solution. These shots can be great for some, but the side effects can be debilitating.”

Alex, 30

“My first thought about weight loss shots was ‘another quick fix.’ I believe in consistent healthy eating, regular exercise, and mindfulness for long-term weight management. It’s tough, yes, but I feel it’s the most sustainable path. My initial concern was that these shots might prevent people from making deeper lifestyle changes, leading to dependence.

“However, I’ve seen remarkable results in friends and family, especially those with underlying metabolic issues. For these individuals, the shots can be a crucial tool, leveling the playing field when biological hunger signals are dysregulated. They can reduce the constant mental struggle with food, enabling people to adopt the very lifestyle changes I advocate.

“My worry remains about over-prescription or viewing them [the shots] as a substitute for effort. These medications should be combined with comprehensive programs – nutrition, exercise, and psychological support. Without a holistic approach, I fear rebound weight gain. So, while lifestyle change is my primary focus, I now recognize that for some, under medical supervision, these shots are a valid and life-changing intervention. It’s not one-size-fits-all.”

Jessica, 27

“These weight loss shots really intrigue me. I want to lose about 30 pounds for more energy and to feel healthier. I’ve tried diets and gyms, but progress is slow, and I get discouraged. Seeing social media posts about big weight loss with injections gives me hope for real results.

“But the cost is shocking. My insurance doesn’t cover it for weight loss, only for diabetes. So, it would be hundreds, maybe even a thousand dollars a month, out of pocket. That’s a huge amount, more than my car payment. It feels unfair that something so helpful is only for those who are already comfortable financially. Health shouldn’t be a luxury.

“I’ve looked into cheaper, compounded versions online, but then I worry about safety. The thought of choosing between rent and a medication that could genuinely improve my health is frustrating. It leaves me feeling stuck, trying diet fads while others have a path I can’t afford. I wish these medications were more affordable and accessible.”

Michael, 60

“My doctor is fantastic. For years, she helped me manage type 2 diabetes and hypertension, but my blood sugar and weight stayed high. It was frustrating and scary. She suggested weight loss shots, not cosmetically, but as a critical part of my health plan – to control blood sugar, reduce appetite, and aid weight loss, directly impacting my conditions.

“This focus on medical necessity was key. It was about preventing complications and improving my quality of life. We started slowly, monitoring reactions. My doctor thoroughly explained side effects and how to manage them, stressing it wasn’t a magic bullet. I still had to commit to healthy eating and activity; the shot just made it easier. Reduced appetite meant no constant cravings, and fullness meant smaller, healthier meals without [feeling] deprivation.

“The results are remarkable. My A1C [results] (a blood test that diagnoses and monitors diabetes) and blood pressure are much better, and I’ve lost 70 pounds. I feel healthier, more energetic, and in control. Regular check-ups ensure safe, effective use. For people like me with real medical needs, these shots are truly life-changing under professional care.”

Chloe, 24

“Honestly, the hype around weight loss shots makes me wonder. It feels like another wave of pressure to fit an unrealistic body ideal. We’re flooded with ‘perfect’ body images, then offered an ‘effortless’ solution, implying our bodies aren’t good enough. I’ve worked for years on body positivity, believing health isn’t just a scale number, and all bodies deserve respect.

“My concern is these shots might continue unhealthy dieting and body image issues. Are we fixing the root causes of weight gain – like stress, emotional eating, or genetics – or just masking them? What happens when people stop the shots? Will the weight return, leading to more shame? It feels like we’re promoting quick fixes over sustainable, holistic health that addresses mental well-being. I believe true health comes from nourishing your body, some form of movement, and self-acceptance. I respect medical necessity for some, but I wish the focus shifted more to body acceptance, intuitive eating, and exercise, rather than just weight loss as the ultimate health goal.”

Ben, 48

“I’ve been on a weight loss shot for two years to manage my weight and metabolic health. The initial phase was incredibly successful; I lost 80 pounds, and my blood work greatly improved. It was a breakthrough after years of struggle. The medication quieted food noise and made healthy choices easier.

“However, long-term maintenance is different. It’s not a ‘take a shot and forget it’ situation. I hit a plateau, which meant I had to double down on diet and exercise even with the medication. It’s a tool, not a magic bullet. I stay vigilant about injections and managing mild nausea from overeating. “Maintenance is the biggest ongoing concern. My doctor and I discuss staying on it indefinitely or tapering off. The fear of regaining weight is always present. It’s a long-term commitment, not just for the medication, but for the lifestyle changes it helped initiate. I’ve built a healthier relationship with food and exercise, but the medication helps maintain that. The financial aspect is also ongoing, requiring regular check-ups and continuous supply. It’s not cheap. While grateful, I’m realistic about the sustained effort and considerations of long-term use. It’s a continuous journey with my healthcare provider.”

The diverse perspectives reveal that the conversation around weight loss shots is far from simple. What emerges is a clear consensus on one point: these shots are powerful pharmaceutical tools, not standalone miracles. Their efficacy is often maximized when coupled with dedicated lifestyle changes, including nutritional guidance, increased physical activity, and psychological support. The importance of medical supervision cannot be overstated, as healthcare professionals are crucial in assessing suitability, managing side effects, and guiding long-term strategies.

As this field advances, the dialogue will evolve. However, these personal stories emphasize the need for a nuanced understanding beyond simple claims. For many, weight loss shots offer a new path to health, but taking the shots demands informed decisions, personal commitment, and continuous care.

Michele

A Legislative Look 

The rapid rise of weight loss shots like Ozempic, Wegovy, Mounjaro, etc. has vastly helped many, buthas also ignited legislative and regulatory activity across the U.S. As demand grows, policymakers, healthcare providers, and insurance companies face new challenges related to cost, access, and safety.

Insurance coverage is a hot topic for legislators. Historically, Medicare has been prohibited from covering medications prescribed solely for weight loss. The Biden administration proposed a rule that could potentially allow Medicare Part D to cover anti-obesity medications starting in 2026. This proposal recognizes obesity as a chronic disease, making its treatment, including medication, eligible for coverage. This rule signals a growing bipartisan recognition in Congress that covering these drugs could reduce long-term healthcare costs associated with obesity-related chronic diseases like diabetes and heart disease.

Employer-sponsored health plans and Affordable Care Act (ACA) Marketplace plans are also navigating the complex landscape of GLP-1 coverage. Most employer plans cover these drugs for diabetes treatment, however, coverage for obesity alone is less common.High prices – ranging from $1,000 to $1,400 per month without discounts – remain a significant barrier. Legislation is being considered at state levels to mandate Medicaid coverage for FDA-approved chronic weight management drugs, to improve healthcare accessibility and address the obesity epidemic.

A new issue is regulating compounded and counterfeit versions. Due to high demand and, at times, supply shortages of FDA-approved drugs, a market for compounded Semaglutide and Tirzepatide has emerged. However, the FDA, has issued strong warnings and implemented stricter bans on these compounded versions. The FDA prohibited the large-scale sale of many compounded versions of Ozempic, Mounjaro, Wegovy, and Zepbound. Safety is the concern, since compounded drugs are not FDA-approved. Reports of problems linked to dosing errors and the use of different active ingredients in compounded products highlight the risks. Legislation aims to protect public health by channeling patients towards regulated, FDA-approved medications.

The Inflations Reduction Act (IRA) also plays a role, as drugs like Ozempic, Wegovy, and Rybelsus have been selected for Medicare’s direct price negotiation program. The program aims to reduce the high out-of-pocket costs for Medicare enrollees, potentially saving billions of dollars for taxpayers in the coming years.

The legislative and regulatory environment surrounding weight loss shots is rapidly evolving. As the understanding of obesitycontinues to grow, further legislative changes are expected to shape how these transformative medications are prescribed, covered, and accessed.

SCA’s Birthright Trip in the Line of Fire: A Journey Through War and Resilience

Most of what we were hoping to experience from the trip was canceled. There was no Kotel, no Tel Aviv, no hike up Masada… But we did spend four days together and five nights in the bomb shelter… There was basically nowhere to go and not much to do. And yet, somehow, it is still one of the best trips I have been on.

The trip was not perfect by any means. We missed so much. But, still I believe we gained so much more than we missed. This trip was unforgettable and I would never change a thing about it.

SCA’s Birthright Trip in the Line of Fire:

A Journey Through War and Resilience

Linda Dayan

On June 12th  2025, Israel launched a targeted attack on Iran’s main nuclear sites. That same night, Iran retaliated with ballistic missiles of their own, leaving 30 dead, over 5,000 homeless, and causing a series of sleepless nights for Israelis around the country.  The constant barrage of rockets also shut down all air travel to Israel, leaving many thousands of Israelis stranded abroad. Anyone planning to fly out of Israel suddenly could not leave the country for the foreseeable future. Among the stranded outbound travelers were many Birthright groups, including my group, an all-girls trip run by SCA, the Sephardic Community Alliance.

After that Thursday night, our group spent the following four days restricted to the area extending no more than a five-minute walk from our hotel. We were staying at the Spirit of Herzl Hotel in downtown Jerusalem on Ben Yehuda Street. The main topic of conversation became how and when we would be able to get home. The answer turned out to be a cruise ship bound for Cyprus, which was arranged by Birthright in collaboration with the Israeli government. This arrangement facilitated Birthright groups to get out of the country and Israeli citizens waiting in Cyprus to get back home. From Cyprus, SCA organized our flights. Within 24 hours, we were on our way to JFK airport with a seven-hour stopover in Milan. We spent about 70 hours in transit, nearly three days. Whenever I relay the experience, I am often asked the same question: was it worth it?

Birthright’s Itinerary Cut in Half

Birthright was designed to show young diaspora Jews all that Israel has to offer. The itinerary is carefully planned to showcase both the hidden and the well-known and loved gems of Israel. Clearly, this trip was cut too short. Friday the 13th was meant to be a day at the shuk (the outdoor market), and many dreamed of the Kabbalat Shabbat at the Kotel as promised in the itinerary. But those dreams never came to fruition.

Jacqueline Halabi, another girl on the trip says, “It hurt in my soul to be stripped of the opportunity to pray by the Kotel. Visiting Israel without experiencing that holiness was unfathomable to me, so much so that I was anxiety ridden as soon as the war broke out. Being a short drive away for days, yet confined to the hotel … I felt powerless.” Most of what we were hoping to experience from the trip was canceled. There was no Kotel, no Tel Aviv, no hike up Masada, and no night spent in Bedouin tents. But we did spend four days together and five nights in the “bomb shelter,” which was just the dining room on the hotel’s lowest level. Instead of traveling the country we were only allowed to stray five minutes walking distance from the hotel. There was basically nowhere to go and not much to do. And yet, somehow, it is still one of the best trips I have been on.

Worried Family Members Call

Throughout our stay at the Spirit of Herzl Hotel, I got many phone calls from concerned family members asking about the safety of my sister and me. “Are you okay?” “Do you feel safe?” “Are you hoping for the next flight out?” My answers were always yes, we are safe and okay, and if we have to stay in Israel an extra week since the skies are closed, so be it.

Most callers responded,  “You are only so calm because you don’t truly understand the situation.” But, how could we not? SCA was doing everything they could to keep us informed and in the loop. Our chaperones, Sonny and Lauren Setton, and our tour guide, Ido Reuven, made sure to share with us anything they heard to make us feel less lost. We were confined to the hotel and the immediate surrounding area, alerts from the phone ap “Tzofar-Red Alert” were constant, and we could not even visit the Kotel, which was only a 30-minute walk from the hotel, because there is no bunker there. Of course, we understood the danger, but we also had things that my family outside of Israel did not. The news is a constant barrage of the worst. They flood our feeds with death, destruction, and horror stories. While unfortunately those things do happen you cannot wallow in it.

Keeping our Cool

While the country was at war the streets around us were never empty and never quiet. The piano in Zion Square was constantly in use, the restaurants were not deserted. While the foot traffic was less than it usually would be, there were always people out. Being in Israel taught us that while it is important to recognize the tragedies that occur, and to sit with them, it is also important not to drown in them and to recognize that we must also hold close what joy we can.

We were we surrounded by Israeli culture and we also had ten soldiers join us on our trip for five days. We became fast friends. Within the first day we already had new shared jokes and shared experiences we would never forget. And Thursday night, when most of us experienced our first rush to the bomb shelter at 2:30am, our soldier friends helped keep it light. If anyone had a question about what was happening, there was an answer. And while we were made aware that since the attack was from Iran it would be more intense than missile attacks from Gaza (which has much less sophisticated weapons), we were told so in a way that kept panic at bay. And since the time in the shelter became every night occasion, we grew to expect it and adapted to the situation. Although it was impossible to guess exactly when the alarms would sound, they typically sounded at night, so many of us made a point to shower early, and wear pajamas that we would not be embarrassed to wear if we had to run to the shelter.

The sirens created a routine, and routine creates stability, no matter how unstable the situation was in reality. A key factor as to why we felt this stability was because of the soldiers’ presence. They were only scheduled to stay with us for five days, meaning that unfortunately, that Sunday they had to leave us to go back to their base.

Heading Home

Once the soldiers  left the air shifted. They had become a big part of the group and were crucial to the positive atmosphere created at the hotel. With their absence, where we were stared us in the face again, and the number of the requests from group members to move from the hotel grew.

That Sunday, morphing into Monday, we began to hear of groups leaving Jerusalem for Eilat.  One of the groups staying with us left for Eilat that Sunday night. We began to grow antsy. No one knew what was happening or when we would be allowed to further explore the country or the city. In those four days after our soldiers left the group grew extremely close. Girls who I have known my whole life but had never spoken to became my close friends. But long conversations and longer games of Jungle Speed could not keep away the feelings of anticipation and uncertainty.

Our chaperones tried their best to keep our spirits up. Ido led us on a walking tour of our surrounding area. Sonny and Lauren let us walk to the bakery farther up the street. Ido tried to find us sushi to take a break from the hotel’s meat buffet, but sadly the sushi restaurant was closed. These were seemingly little things, but they made a huge difference.

We were told that by 9pm that night (Sunday) we would be taking a cruise from Haifa to Cyprus, and from there we would make our way home.

Was It Worth It?

So, back to the question everyone loves to ask: was it worth it? The short answer is yes. I asked my friend Esther Shaab the same question, and she said the following: “Growing up I would always hear stories from my father about how amazing Israel is and how every Jew needs to go there at least once in their life. I took this advice and signed up for Birthright not knowing how my trip would inevitably turn out. As it was my first time in Israel, I was excited to do anything and everything Mayanot [Mayanot is one of the organizations that organizes and runs Birthright trips, and is affiliated with the Mayanot Institute of Jewish Studies] and SCA had planned for us.

The first few days of the trip were amazing and then the war began. At first this was not something I was happy about. How could I be? More than half my trip was now obsolete. Things like the Kotel, Tel Aviv, climbing Masada, experiencing the shuk, were all things I would not be able to do. But even though I missed out on most of my trip, I wouldn’t change a thing.

“The people I met including all of the girls and the Israeli soldiers that joined us for a couple days are some of the most amazing people that I now consider some of my best friends. The relationships I have gained outweighs any negatives I experienced on the trip. People have asked me since I got back,‘Did it ruin Israel for you?’‘You’re never going back, right?’They couldn’t be more wrong. This experience actually made me want to go back more than ever. This trip will always hold a special place in my heart and I will never forget it.” The trip was not perfect by any means. We missed so much. But, still I believe we gained so much more than we missed. This trip was unforgettable and I would never change a thing about it.

Mabrouk – August 2025

Births – Baby Boy

Ikey & Hannah Levy

Hal & Eve Sitt

Sam & Shanny Antebi

Daniel & Ninette Abadi

Ralph & Maryelle Hanan

Mr. & Mrs. Moshe Safdieh

Solomon & Ruthie Dweck

Yehuda & Jodi Salama

Shemuel & Molly Menahem

Jack & Melanie Sutton

Births – Baby Girl

Henry & Alice Mosseri

Andy & Abby Mizrahi

Rabbi Ovadia & Shelly Rishty

Allen & Tiffany Chehova

Isaac & Jamie Ades

Sammy & Esther Saka

Toby & Dalia Yedid

Joey & Barbara Cohen

Teddy & Renee Beyda

Dani & Rachel Harari

Bar Mitzvahs

Yaakov, son of Michael and Mary Abadi

Abie, son of Nathan and Shirley Cohen

Shlomo, son of Isaac and Celia Jemal

Engagements

Sam Beyda to Paulina Cohen

Douglas Mizrahi to Cerise Rishty

Albert Sakkal to Betty Alboukai

Michael Sadacka to Linda Gammal

Weddings

Maurice Esses to Isabella Chehova

Shlomo Churba to Sara Franco

Yosef Hazan to Rina Semah

Saul Faham to Mylo Bibi

Joseph Greenstein to Molly Zaafarani

Back to School: Getting Our Kids (and Ourselves!) Back on Track This September

Message from the Simha Health Organization

As the lazy days of summer wind down, a familiar mix of excitement and anticipation, perhaps with a touch of dread, starts to bubble up. Back-to-school season is almost here! Getting our kids ready for academic and social success involves more than just new backpacks; it requires preparation, communication, and a strong partnership between home and school.

Isaac Setton of the SIMHA Organization hosted a valuable discussion with esteemed school psychologists Mrs. Rose Lee Pifko of Magen David Yeshivah, Dr. Nicole Yossef formerly of Yeshivah of Flatbush and now of Yeshivah Prep Elementary School, and Dr. Simone Hidary of Barkai Yeshivah, who shared their expert insights on navigating this critical transition.

Embrace Challenges and Learn from Mistakes

A powerful takeaway was the importance of shifting from being “fixers and protectors” to “empowerers.” As Mrs. Rose Lee Pifko noted, allowing children to tackle challenges and even make mistakes is crucial for development.

“The growth zone, just outside their comfort area, is where real learning happens,” Mrs. Pifko explained. When children tolerate discomfort and push through challenges, they build skills like grit and resilience. This means gently nudging them to try new things, whether it’s a new club or a tricky social situation.

The experts highlighted the value of teaching children how to fail. By reframing failure as “just one possible outcome,” parents can alleviate the pressure. Share your own experiences with mistakes and challenges, show empathy, and use these moments as opportunities to teach problem-solving. This approach cultivates a crucial life skill: learning from setbacks.

Re-establishing Routine: The Foundation for Success

After summer’s relaxed schedule, getting back into routine can feel daunting. Dr. Nicole Yossef provided practical, actionable steps to ease this transition, emphasizing that consistency is key for children of all ages. The goal isn’t perfection, but consistent effort. The more regulated parents are, the more children will mirror that behavior.

The Power of Partnership: Home and School as a Unified Front

“When parents and schools work as a unified team, children receive consistent messaging,” Dr. Simone Hidary explained. This reinforces that they are supported and believed in. Parents offer invaluable insights into their child’s personality, while school staff provide expertise in child development and education. This synergy creates an “unbelievable partnership.”

Tips for a strong parent-school partnership include communicating with teachers and staff about any concerns, and approaching the school with the intention to collaborate with them respectfully.

Isaac Setton emphasized that the goal is “school plus parents,” not “school versus parents.” When children see that parents and school are on the same page, they receive consistent messages, understand expectations, and recognize that everyone is on their side.

Finally, the experts discussed balancing support with parental boundaries. Dr. Hidary highlighted that effective parenting involves both love and limits. Providing love and support while setting clear boundaries is essential for a child’s self-regulation and success. Children understand that rules are for their best interest, even if they don’t like them. As September approaches, let’s embrace these insights to empower our children and ourselves for a successful, fulfilling, and well-supported school year. By fostering open communication, building strong routines, and strengthening the vital partnership between home and school, we can set our children on a path to thrive.

Dr. Yossef’s Top Tips for a Smooth Gear Shift

Adjust Sleep Schedules: Gradually shift bedtimes and wake-up times earlier (20-30 minutes each day) to reset internal clocks.

Foster Independence: Involve children in choosing outfits the night before and packing healthy snacks. This gives them control and streamlines mornings.

Promote Healthy Eating: A balanced diet impacts mood and focus. Involve children in snack preparation for easier healthy choices.

Encourage Physical Activity: Aim for at least 20-60 minutes daily. Walking to school, playing outdoors, or joining a team improves focus and reduces stress.

Manage Screen Time: Set clear boundaries for screen use, explaining these rules are for their well-being. Encourage alternatives like reading.

The Lighter Side – July 2025

Horsing Around

A family went to a ranch to go horseback riding. They all had the chance to pick out their own horses. The dad was the last to pick his out because he helped his kids all get on their horses first. As he kicked his foot into the stirrup, an old ranch hand, leaning against a fencepost, drawled out, “I don’t know about that old nag, mister. She don’t look so good.”

The dad, sweating and ready to start said, “She looks fine to me. Can we just get going?” The ranch hand shook his head and said, “It’s your ride, mister.” And he motioned to the lead horse to get started. The horses knew the way and started off.

About an hour later, the family returned. The dad was all covered in dust. His face was all scratched up and his shirt had been torn in several places. “This is an outrage!” he yelled. “This horse ran into trees, tore through thornbushes, and ran headlong into low hanging branches. It’s like she’s blind!”

The ranch hand pulled a piece of straw from between his teeth and said, “Well, she is.”

“Why didn’t you warn me?” screamed the dad.

“I did,” said the ranch hand. “I told you she don’t look so good.”

Max B.

Dudu’s Gym

Saul joins a local gym in Jerusalem called “Dudu’s.” He can never find the time to go, but when he gets a letter in the mail saying that Dudu’s will cancel his membership unless he renews, he rushes down to make a payment.

When he arrives, his speaks to the gym’s owner, Dudu, and says half-jokingly, “So be honest with me, do you have a name for guys like me who join and never show up?”

“Yes,” says Dudu. “Profit.”

Allan  R.

New Security System

The Israelis are developing an airport security device that eliminates the privacy concerns that come with full-body scanners at the airports. They have a booth that you can step into that will not X-ray you, but will detonate any explosive device you may have on you.

They see this as a win-win for everyone and there would be none of this junk about racial profiling. This method would also eliminate the costs of a long and expensive trial. Justice would be quick and swift.

Case Closed!

You’re in the airport terminal and you hear a muffled explosion. Shortly thereafter, an announcement comes over the PA system…

“Attention standby passengers – we now have a seat available on El Al flight number 386.”

Benjamin  S.

Udder Confusion

There were two cows out in a field, talking to each other. The first cow said, “I tell you, this mad  cow disease is really pretty scary. They say it’s spreading fast – I heard it hit some cows down on the Johnson Farm.”

The other cow replies, “I am not worried, it don’t affect us ducks.”

Ronnie P.

No Strings Attached

Two strings walk up to a restaurant. The first string walks in and orders and the owner throws him out and yells, “I don’t serve strings in this restaurant!”

The other string messes his hair up, ties an overhand in his midsection and walks in. The owner shouts, “Hey, didn’t you hear what I told your buddy?”

The string says “Yeah.”

The owner says, “Aren’t you a string?”

The string says, “No, I’m a frayed knot!”

Donna A.

Encyclopedia Junior

Mrs. Rosenstein was hired as the new librarian at the local yeshiva and one of the skills she wanted to teach the students was how to find information the old-fashioned way – without the internet. So, she found a deal on an encyclopedia set and had it delivered to the library.

On a tour of the library, Eli saw the encyclopedia volumes stacked on a bookshelf.

“What are all these books?” Eli asked.

Somewhat surprised, the librarian replied that they were encyclopedias.

“Really?” Eli said. “Someone printed out the whole thing?”

Simon S.

Engine Trouble

A large two-engine train was crossing New York and at the helm was a train engineer who had recently moved from Israel – Itzik Hadari. After they had gone some distance, one of the engines broke down.

“No problem,” Itzik said and carried on at half power. Farther on down the line, the other engine broke down and the train came to a standstill.

Itzik decided he should inform the passengers about why the train had stopped, and made the following announcement, “Ladies and gentlemen, I have some good news and some bad news. The bad news is that both engines have failed, and we will be stuck here for some time. The good news is that you decided to take the train and not fly.”

Lisa N.

Dressing Up

Miriam said to Harold, “Honey, I need a new dress.”

“Miriam, you can’t just go shopping all of the time,” said Harold.

“But I need a new dress,” said Miriam.

“What’s wrong with the one you’ve got?” asked Harold.

“It’s a little long and…well… the veil keeps getting in my eyes.”

Carol K.

Duty Calls

Abe goes to see his boss and says, “We’re doing some heavy house cleaning at home tomorrow and my wife needs me to help with the attic and the garage, moving and hauling stuff.”

“We’re shorthanded, Abe,” the boss replies. “Sorry, but I just can’t give you the day off.”

“Thanks, boss,” says Abe, “I knew I could count on you!”

Raymond  F.

Eating Out

David and Cathy lived in a small town so they didn’t get to go out and eat in kosher restaurants very often. That’s why they were very excited about their trip to New York.

They went to a restaurant that they had been to on their last trip to New York years ago, and because it was the height of tourist season the restaurant was packed.

Finally, catching the eye of an overworked waiter, David said, “You know, it’s been over five years since we first came in here.”

“You’ll have to wait your turn, sir,” replied the harried waiter. “I can only serve one table at a time.”

Ralph M.

Face to Face

Little Shloimie was sitting on his Zadie’s lap as Zadie read him a bedtime story. From time to time, Shloimie would take his eyes off the book and reach up to touch Zadie’s white beard, and his wrinkled cheek. Shloimie would alternately stroke his own cheek. Finally Shloimie spoke up, “Zadie, did Hashem make you?”

“Yes, Shloimie,” he answered. “Hashem made me a long time ago.”

“Oh,” he paused. “Zadie, did Hashem make me, too?”

“Yes, indeed,” he said. “Hashem made you just a little while ago.”

Feeling their respective faces again, Shloimie observed, “Hashem’s getting better at it, isn’t He?”

 

Adele G.

Riddles – July 2025

RIDDLE:  Coffee or Coke??

Submitted by:  Susan  B.

George, Helen, and Steve are drinking coffee. Bert, Karen, and Dave are drinking Coca-Cola. Following this pattern, is Elizabeth drinking coffee or soda?

Last Month’s Riddle: What Am I?

I am something people love or hate. I change people’s appearances and thoughts. Some people might want to try and hide me, but I will show. No matter how hard people try, I will never go down. What am I?

Solution: Age!

Solved by:  Morris Kabani, Murray Dana, The Shmulster, Family Dweck, Benjamin Dana, Haim S., The Big Cheese, Lisa G., and Mireille Baum,

JUNIOR RIDDLE:  Taster’s Choice

Submitted by: Greg K.

What tastes better than it smells?

Last Month’s Junior Riddle: Family Tree

A girl has as many brothers as sisters, but each brother has only half as many brothers as sisters. How many brothers and sisters are there in the family?

Solution: Four sisters and three brothers!

Solved by: Isaac Dana, Daniel Esses, Dweck Family, Nechama Moradi, Jaclyn Dana, H. Soleimani, Big Mike, Mireille Baum, and The Shmulster.

Community Highlights – Sara Schenirer Charts New Territory in Healthcare Education

With growing demand from students eager to enter healthcare fields, Sara Schenirer proudly announces the launch of a new accelerated Health Science degree track for men and women, to complement its already highly successful Pre-Med Track. The new program begins this fall, and multiple cohorts have already filled due to high demand. Both tracks are offered in partnership with the University of Mount Saint Vincent and Saint Peter’s University.

“Our existing Pre-Med track is ideal for students seeking to apply to medical, dental, or PA school,” explained Rabbi Elazar Meisels, President of Sara Schenirer. “But students who wish to pursue a career in nursing and similar fields will be better served by the Health Science track, which is quicker and even more affordable.”

Which track is right for you?

Pre-Med Track (16 months): Designed for students pursuing admission to medical school, dental school, PA school, or pharmacy programs, this track includes the advanced science prerequisites and lab courses required for those programs.

Health Science Track (11 months): Ideal for students planning to apply to nursing school and similar allied health fields. Fast, affordable, and rigorous, it includes the core science prerequisites needed for those pathways.

Students in both tracks earn a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology, with a concentration in Pre-Med or Health Science, positioning them to apply for graduate programs in a wide range of medical fields. Students may also transfer in dual credit and seminary credits to complete their degree even faster. Both programs offer access to exceptional professors and a highly supportive learning environment.

Although Sara Schenirer does not offer a nursing degree directly, graduates of the Health Science Track benefit from an exclusive agreement with the University of Mount Saint Vincent, which offers a Shomer Shabbat Nursing Program specially tailored for Sara Schenirer students.
“We’ve seen a tremendous demand for clear, Torah-aligned pathways into the healthcare field,” said Mrs. Batsheva Shonek, Director of Sara Schenirer. “These new tracks allow our students to pursue meaningful, respected careers in medicine or allied health – without compromising their values, schedule, or support system.”

Interested in learning more?

Call to speak with one of our trusted student advisors. They’ll give you all the information you need to make a confident decision. To reach the women’s program advisor, call Mrs. Bonni Herman at (718) 633-8557 ext. 37 or email information@sarasch.com. To reach the men’s program advisor, call R’ Reuven Pelberg at (718) 633-8557 ext. 50 or email rpelberg@sarasch.com.

The deadline to apply is July 30th, 2025 so act fast if you’d like to join for Fall Semester.

Mayor of Long Branch

Dear Community Members,

We welcome you back to the City of Long Branch for another great
season at the Jersey Shore! Whether you are spending your summer
with us or just visiting for a day, we hope you will take advantage of
what Long Branch has available for you.

Our city has more to offer than ever before to make it the best place to be to enjoy your summer.

We have several parks for recreation. Manahasset Creek Park has fields and courts, a walking path, and fitness stations. Our revitalized Jackson Woods park is a peaceful place to enjoy nature as well as interesting outdoor sculptures.

Our Recreation Department offers a variety of programs including
five family-friendly Fun Days in various neighborhoods throughout the City. Our Arts & Cultural Center on Broadway offers many interesting exhibits and programs, our new Senior Center offers evening programs open to everyone, and our Fire and History Museum recognizes the city’s proud past.

Oceanfest features one of the best fireworks displays along the shore with fun for the whole family! There are many other events throughout the summer months. Please go to our website at longbranch.org under “Community Events” to see a comprehensive list of summer happenings.

Be sure to pick up a library card to utilize our beautiful, newly renovated main library, and explore all the programs and special exhibits they have to share.

Long Branch has four miles of beautiful beaches for you to enjoy. Some have extended hours, and two locations are fully accessible. Our
beaches are open through September 2, 2025. For more information, please visit our website under “Beach Information.”

We also offer daily passes for Long Branch residents at our refreshing community pool, and both residents and non-residents may purchase season passes.

The summer months are a time for relaxation and fun. I wish everyone a safe and enjoyable summer!

Sincerely

John Pallone Mayor

Borough of Deal Office of the Mayor Summer 2025

Dear Residents, Visitors, and Friends,

Welcome back to Deal.

It’s always a special time of year when summer returns and the town comes alive again. Whether you live here year-round, spend the season with us, or are visiting for a short time – we’re glad to have you in Deal.

Over the past few months, we’ve been working hard to get everything ready. We’ve improved roads, refreshed public spaces, and continued coordinating with state and federal agencies on key infrastructure and safety projects. Our goal remains the same: to keep Deal a safe, beautiful, and enjoyable place for everyone.

As the town gets busier, I ask all of you to help keep our streets safe. Please drive carefully, obey the speed limits, watch for pedestrians, and don’t use your phone while driving. If you’re biking, wear a helmet if you’re under 17 – and no matter your age, stay alert and share the road.

Let’s all do our part to look out for one another and make this a safe and enjoyable summer.

On behalf of the Board of Commissioners, I wish you and your families a great season ahead. I look forward to seeing you around town. Sincerely,

Sam Cohen
Mayor, Borough of Deal

From the Files of the Bet Din

The Case

To Sell or Not To Sell

Upon the passing of their father, Harry and Steven inherited a valuable piece of real estate. Harry, a father of seven children, told his single brother, Steven, that he wished to sell the property as he was in desperate need of funds. Steven responded that it would clearly be a mistake to sell at this time, and suggested that they maintain their partnership and share in the rental proceeds equally. In Bet Din, Harry submitted a written offer from a third party for the purchase of the property and commented that it would be a shame to reject such an aggressive offer. Steven refused, and instead offered to advance to Harry 100 percent of the rental proceeds as a loan. Steven made it clear that he was in no rush to get paid back his share of the rent, and in the meantime, Harry could use the extra cash flow to provide for his family. Steven’s only stipulation was that he be the one to decidewhen to sell the property, and that upon the property’s sale he be paid back the rent he advanced to Harry. Harry rejected his brother’s offer, explaining that he was presently indebted to others and was not interested in additional loans.

Can Harry force Steven to sell? Can Steven force Harry to be his partner? Is Steven’s offer to extend Harry his share of the rent as a loan an enforceable option?  How should the Bet Din rule and why?

Torah Law

According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, an heir of an estate is entitled to sell his share of a property to an outside party. Hence, if two brothers inherit a property, one brother cannot prevent the other from selling his half to a third party.

However, this  rule of the Shulhan Aruchdoes not allow one heir to force another to sell a commercial property in its entirety. Likewise, an heir cannot require his fellow heir to buy his share when seeking to terminate the partnership. As long as the possibility of selling his share alone to the outside market exists, no further rights are extended to him. In the instance in which private property is inherited and it is impossible for one heir to sell his own individual share to an outside buyer, a competent halachic authority is to be consulted.

Nevertheless, as with all partnerships, the right of first refusal is granted to one’s fellow partner before a joint property can be sold to a third party on the outside market. Hence, before an heir can finalize the sale to an outside third party of his portion of the estate, his fellow heir and partner is entitled to buy his share if he is willing to match the terms and purchase price offered by the third party. The laws governing the right of first refusal are extensive, and only a competent halachic authority can determine when and if they are applicable. 

Although it is a positive commandment from the Torah to extend a loan to a fellow Jew in need, nevertheless, it is obvious that one cannot compel another to accept a loan. Furthermore, the laws of interest are violated if  a lender stipulates, when extending a loan, that any benefit or gift of any sort is to be provided by the borrower over and above  return of the money that was loaned to him. This restriction prohibits  a lender from stipulating to more favorable terms in a partnership agreement on account of a loan he is extending to his partner.

VERDICT:The Right of First Refusal

Our Bet Din rejected the claims of both Harry and Steven. Even though  Harry received a written offer from a third party to purchase the entire property, he is still not entitled to require Steven to sell his share of the estate to the third party. On the other hand, although Steven offered Harry a loan, Harry is not required to borrow money to maintain their partnership in the property.

Furthermore, Steven’s imposition of a condition on the loan offer to Harry, his partner, would violate the Torah’s prohibition on interest. The stipulated right to determine when and if the property is to be sold would constitute  a prohibited benefit received by Harry from Steven because of the loan he is extending to Steven, and is therefore forbidden. Our Bet Din explained to Harry that since the property inherited was commercial, he can readily find a buyer for his share. But the mere ability to find an outside buyer for the whole property is insufficient to require his brother Steven to sell to that buyer or to buy out Harry’s share. Four months later, Harry found a potential buyer for his share of the estate. At that  point he had the right to sell to that buyer.  However, his brother Steven did offerto match the purchase price and terms of the buyer. Once Steven expressed his intent to exercise his right of first refusal,  Harry was required to sell his share to Steven  on the terms the outside third party had offered.  Upon selling to Steven, Harry  thus terminated his partnership with his brother.

YOU BE THE JUDGE

The Most Valuable Possession on Earth

Charles, may he rest in peace, was a leading community member who back in the 1970s dedicated a Sefer Torah to his local synagogue. Upon his passing, his two sons built a new synagogue in memory of their beloved father and they requested of their local synagogue to return to them their father’s Sefer Torah. They explained that their father never intended to give the Sefer Torah to the shul as a gift. As heirs of their father’s estate they wish to reclaim the deposited Sefer Torah and transfer it to the new synagogue dedicated in honor of their father. The shul’s committee objected to returning the Sefer Torah insisting that it was the shul’s property. They reasoned that Charles, a”h, donated it over forty years ago and although he was a regular congregant, he never mentioned his intent to one day remove it from the shul. Furthermore, Charles passed on nearly two years ago and this is the first time his sons are requesting the Sefer Torah. The sons counterclaimed that the simple reason why they or their father never mentioned their ownership rights, is because it was obvious to them all along that the Sefer Torah was their private property.

Do the sons have the right to transfer the Sefer Torah to another shul? Who is the rightful owner of the Sefer Torah? How should the Bet Din rule and why?