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Softball Under the Lights: Preview of the M&S Summer Night League

Sam J. Sutton

The 2024 M&S Summer Night League is set to ignite the summer with its 17th season, continuing a cherished tradition of competitive softball under the lights. This year’s opening night carries a special significance as it features two rookie captains leading their teams into battle. Edmond Beyda’s IDF will face off against Uri Adler’s Dawg Pound, setting the stage for a thrilling start to the season. 

Let’s meet the teams…

IDF: Youthful Energy and Athleticism

Under the leadership of Edmond Beyda, also known as “The Phenom,” the IDF boasts a roster teeming with youthful talent and athleticism. Beyda himself is a formidable presence on the mound, setting the tone for a team that combines speed, power, and defensive prowess.

David “Buca” Cohen: Known for his explosive power at the plate and remarkable speed on the bases, Cohen is expected to be a key offensive force.

Joey Cohen: The team’s slick shortstop, renowned for his defensive skills and quick reflexes.

Isaac Sasson: An up-and-coming outfielder with the potential to make significant contributions.

Eric Cytyn: A defensive wizard whose plays can change the momentum of the game.

Bernie Pindek: A power hitter capable of delivering game-changing base knocks.

Yossi Abramson: A versatile player with a wide range of skills, making him an invaluable asset.

Mordy Chrem: Known for his lockdown defense, Chrem will help anchor the infield.

Jack Bibi: The super utility man, ready to fill multiple roles as needed. 

Maurice Haber: A veteran and future Hall of Famer, bringing leadership and experience.

Albert Massre and Alfonse Missry: The dynamic catching duo, reliable behind the plate and adept at handling pitchers.

Dawg Pound: Experience and Power

Uri Adler’s Dawg Pound combines the wisdom of seasoned veterans with the promise of talented rookies. Adler’s leadership and strategic acumen make the Dawg Pound a formidable opponent.

Saul Cohen and Hank Dwek: Prolific sluggers who can dominate the game with their batting prowess.

Aaron Cohen: A top-tier center fielder, known for his exceptional defensive skills and batting consistency.

Morris “Mo-Mo” Levy: Entering his rookie season with high expectations and a lot of potential.

Ralph Hanan: The seasoned pitcher aiming for an unprecedented fourth M&S championship.

Nussi Jacobovitch: Returning after a hiatus, adding depth and experience to the roster.

Lawrence Kurtz: The team’s X-factor, recovering from ACL surgery and ready to prove himself.

David Minzer: A new recruit with high aspirations and potential.

Isaac “IC HOT” Cohen: Known for his powerful bat and tendency to go viral.

Ricky “The Railroad” Rothstein: Another rookie with high hopes and the skills to back them up.

David “Coney” Cohen: A World Series-winning catcher, bringing his championship experience to the team.

The Anticipation Builds

As opening night approaches, fans and players alike are buzzing with excitement. The matchup between IDF and Dawg Pound promises to be a captivating spectacle, with both teams eager to make a strong start to the season. The game will not only showcase the talents of two rookie captains but will also highlight the dynamic blend of veteran experience and youthful exuberance on both sides.

A Season of Excitement and Community

The M&S Summer Night League promises to be more than just a game. It will be a celebration of community, tradition, and the love of softball. Fans will gather to support their teams, enjoy the camaraderie, and witness the beginning of what is sure to be an exciting and competitive season.

Let the games begin! 

Community Highlights – The Edmund J. Safra Synagogue Hosts Rabbi Avraham Goldhar of Zichru

Last month, Rabbi Eli Mansour and the Edmund J. Safra Synagogue in Flatbush hosted Rabbi Avraham Goldhar of Zichru for an informational session on how members can better utilize the free Gemara memorization method. Zichru helps you retain your learning through pictures, text, and audio files focusing on the main points of any daf. It is utilized by daf yomi learners, Mesivta bachurim, and anyone who wants to better understand and remember Shas. Zichru is available on Zichru.com, as well as an Android and Apple app.

Over fifty people gathered in the shiur room of the synagogue to hear Rabbi Mansour, who himself is a proud Zichru member, speak. The crowd was treated to a deluxe breakfast followed by words of hizuk from Rabbi Mansour. Rabbi Goldhar then answered questions from the audience, offering strategies for success in their learning. Members of the audience got to meet their fellow Zichru lomdim as well. The morning was one that participants will not soon forget.

 

Night of Excellence

Last month, Magen David Yeshivah High School held its annual Night of Excellence ceremony. MDY celebrated the induction of their top students into the Kavod chapter of the National Honors Society.

The evening began with the exhibition of MoMa, the Museum of Magen Art, coordinated by Mrs. Jennifer Cabasso and Mrs. Jeanette Terzi. After words from Rabbi Eli Mansour, the students heard from Joey Azrak about the Torat Hayim program and Poet Laureate Ezra Grazi recited his original poem.

President of the Kavod chapter for this year, Jacob Hamui, addressed the crowd and Vice President Jacqueline Cohen led the candle lighting ceremony. Alyce Shabtai lit the candle of Torah, Philip Sherr lit the candle of Scholarship, Sarah Mizrachi lit the candle of Character, Rachel Fallas lit the candle of Service, and Marc Mizrahi lit the candle of Leadership. Before the awards were given out, the students heard from Marc Sutton, Student of the Year.

 

New Beginnings: Introducing Monmouth County’s Newest Commissioner

As the newest member of the Monmouth County Board of County Commissioners, I am excited to introduce myself and welcome you to the Jersey Shore for the 2024 summer season.

Prior to joining the Board of County Commissioners, I served on the Borough Council and as Mayor of Shrewsbury. It is an honor to now have the opportunity to serve the residents of Monmouth County. As mayor, I supported our law enforcement officers and first responders to keep Shrewsbury safe, kept local taxes low, and expanded our partnerships with nearby municipalities and Monmouth County to better serve our community. On the Commissioner Board, I will work with my fellow commissioners to build on these priorities for the benefit of all Monmouth County residents.

Monmouth County is a very special place. From our pristine beaches to our rich historical sites and vast farmlands, Monmouth County has something for everyone. My fellow commissioners and I are focused on maintaining open space, protecting our beaches and treasured coastline, and ensuring Monmouth County remains a great place to live, work, and play.

It is a privilege to serve as your Monmouth County Commissioner, and I hope you will take advantage of some of the exciting events taking place this summer throughout the county. For more information about upcoming events and things to do in Monmouth County, you can visit www.monmouthcountytourism.com.

Wishing you and your family a safe, healthy, and enjoyable summer.

Very truly yours,
Erik Anderson
Monmouth County Commissioner

 

MDY Warriors Repeat as 7th/8th Grade Yeshiva Softball Champions

The Magen David Yeshiva Warriors led by Coaches Ezra Sultan and Richie Mizrachi became the first team to win back-to-back titles in the Yeshiva Softball League.

It was not an easy feat – as they needed to beat the undefeated YDE team. YDE, led by Coaches Sammy Esses and Max Antar, boasted a 7-0 record during the regular season and was the favorite to win this year’s title.

The MDY Warriors were led by pitching ace Charles Sultan and a stellar defense and offense that consisted of 3rd baseman Hymie J. Gindi, SS Benny R. Mizrachi, SCF Chales Azar, 2B Jack J. Gindi, 1B Michael Esses, LF Daniel Saff, Catcher Mark Antar, CF Albert Ancona, RF Jacob Kassin, DH Solly Gindi, Jack Avital, Izzy Benjamin, Elliot Movazeb, and Benny D. Mizrachi.

YDE was led by a group of All Stars that included Abraham Shammah, Raymond Swed, Eddie Saadia, Eddie Dweck, Jack Shrem, Isaac Sardar, Jack Hoffman, David Antar, Raymin Imani, Abie Gindi, Morris Sutton, and Jacob Esses.

Entering the final inning, the teams were tied at 1-1. Then, in the 7th inning, the MDY Warriors broke the game and the hearts of all the YDE Fans.

Jack J. Gindi led off with a walk, followed by a single by his brother Hymie. Daniel Saff followed with a line drive single to give MDY a 2-1 lead. MDY went on to add two more runs, highlighted by a monster RBI double by Michael Esses.

YDE did not go down without a fight, as they did manage to load the bases in the bottom of the inning – but only came away with one run. Final score: MDY 4 YDE 2.

Congratulations MDY Warriors!

 

Congestion Pricing in New York City Postponed

Gov. Kathy Hochul of New York announced last month that she was shelving the long-awaited tolling plan known as congestion pricing, just weeks before it was to go into effect.

“After careful consideration I have come to the difficult decision that implementing the planned congestion pricing system risks too many unintended consequences,” Ms. Hochul said, adding, “I have directed the M.T.A. to indefinitely pause the program.”

The move angered environmentalists, transit advocates, and economists, with some accusing the governor of abandoning a plan that was decades in the making due to political reasons in a critical election year.

The decision, Ms. Hochul acknowledged, was not an easy one. But she said it was nonetheless crucial in light of the lingering effects of the coronavirus pandemic on working families and on New York City’s economy.

The congestion pricing plan, the first of its kind in the nation, was slated to start June 30. Drivers using E-ZPass would have paid as much as $15 to enter Manhattan south of 60th Street.

The governor said she feared that instituting a toll to drive into the borough would “create another obstacle to our economic recovery.”

A Siena poll from April found that 72 percent of New York suburbs opposed congestion pricing. Statewide, the number is lower, but still a majority – including 54 percent of Democrats.

Tens of Thousands Renew Their Commitment to Shabbat at Dirshu Kinnus Olam HaTorah in Prudential Center

Leading Rabbis Call for Daily Study of the Halachot of Shabbat 

By Chaim Gold  

It was surreal, a scene that will never be forgotten by the thousands who were privileged to be at Newark’s Prudential Center Arena on the Sunday night before Shavuot, for the Dirshu organization’s “Kabbalat Shabbat event, reaffirming their commitment to meticulous Shabbat observance.  

The renowned Rav Shimon Galei, shelit”a, who had come especially from Israel to address, was about to complete his inspiring talk when he suddenly changed tones. Instead of concluding with the traditional wish for the arrival of Mashiah, he began singing. Wearing a radiant smile on his face, microphone in hand, he enthusiastically sang the famous song, “Shaareh shamayaim petah” (“Open the gates of heaven”), pleading to Hashem to open the heavenly gates and shower the Jewish People with blessing.  

“I feel that this moment is a tremendous ‘eis ratzon,’ an opportune time when the gates of heaven are wide open, and we can beg Hashem for all our needs!” 

He then began singing this song again, with tears glistening in his eyes, as the nearly 15,000 people filling the stadium joined in a thunderous outpouring of emotion.  

Watching Rav Shimon singing, one could see the worry lines and wrinkles on his face temporarily disappear. He glowed with genuine joy, leading the assemblage in song and explaining to them that the great merit of Shabbat was opening the gates of Heaven, that Shabbat has the power to save the Jewish Nation from its enemies. The great sage lauded the crowd that had gathered, who had come together to enhance their Shabbat observance by committing to learn the halachot of Shabbat daily and comprehensively. He said that through their devotion to Shabbat, they became the conduit through which Gd’s grace and compassion would descend upon the entire Jewish Nation.  

This moment marks just one of many emotional highlights of a truly remarkable event that the Jewish world experienced that night, the first day of the sheloshet yemeh hagbalah (the three days of preparation for Shavuot). 

The Dirshu organization – which runs various programs aimed at encouraging and supporting intensive Torah learning – has held numerous large events in stadiums before, but these were generally celebrations of siyumim – the completion of a cycle of Torah study. This event, by contrast, celebrated not a siyum, the completion of a cycle of learning, but rather a kabbalah – a commitment, a pledge. Hundreds of thousands of students took it upon themselves to learn the laws of Shabbat in the framework of Dirshu’s popular and acclaimed Daf HaYomi B’Halacha program, which began studying the halachot of Shabbat on the day before Shavuot. Not coincidentally, this pledge was made just before Shavuot, the holiday celebrating our nation’s acceptance of the Torah at Mount Sinai – for our sages teach that Shabbat observance is equivalent to the observance of the entire Torah.  

Neither is it coincidental that the very popular Dirshu Amud HaYomi program is currently studying Masechet Shabbat. Students participating in both programs have the special opportunity to learn the Gemara’s discussions regarding Shabbat observance, followed by the practical halachic conclusions that flow from the Gemara. 

 

Inspiration in Harmony 

The Kabbalat Shabbat event was attended by numerous prominent Rosheh Yeshiva, poskim, rabbis and Hassidic rebbes. including: HaRav Malkiel Kotler, shelit”a; HaRav Dovid Schustal, shelit”a; HaRav Reuven Feinstein, shelit”a; Harav Hillel David, shelit”a; HaRav Yaakov Horowitz, shelit”a, Rosh Yeshiva Beis Meir; HaRav Shlomo Feivel Schustal, shelit”a, Rosh Yeshivas Tiferes Yerachmiel; Rav Osher Dovid May, shelit”a, Rosh Kollel of the Passaic Yeshiva Kollel; HaRav Yerachmiel Ungarischer, shelit”a, Rosh Yeshiva Beis Medrash Elyon of Bnei Brak; the Verdaner Rebbe, shelit”a; Rav Meir Meyers, shelit”a, Belzer Dayan in Boro Park; Rav Shlomo Leizer, shelit”a,  Sanzer Dayan; Rav Avrohom Spitzer, shelit”a, Skverer Dayan of Lakewood; Rav Shmuel Lichtenstein, shelit”a, Krasna Dayan; Rav Yitzchok Zalman Gips, shelit”a, Rav of Khal Birkas Avrohom; HaRav Moshe Chaim Kahan, shelit”a, Dayan, Beis Medrash Govoha of Lakewood; and HaRav Moshe Zev Feldman, shelit”a, Dayan, Beis Medrash Govoha of Lakewood.  

The event featured soul-stirring music, including a new song about Shabbat, “Bo’i Be’shalom,” sung by the Shira Choir. Some of the greatest talents in the Jewish music world were on hand, including Baruch Levine, who sang “Ve’zakeni,” the beautiful prayer recited by women at the time of the Friday afternoon candle lighting, beseeching Hashem for children who will illuminate the world with their Torah and good deeds. Hershy Weinberger was joined by a wunderkind soloist in singing the new song “Tanu Rabbanan,” expressing passionate love for Torah. Zanvil Weinberger sang the timeless words of the Mishnah in Pirkeh Avot (6:1), “He who engages in Torah for its sake earns so many things.” And Naftali Kempeh sang the famous, inspirational Shavuot song, “Kad Yasvin” that describes Hashem’s immense joy as he sees His beloved nation putting aside their personal struggles and hardships in order to focus on Torah learning. The beautiful music helped make the evening unforgettably uplifting, the perfect way to prepare for kabbalat haTorah, the acceptance of the Torah on Shavuot. 

 

Hastening the Redemption 

One of the most electrifying addresses delivered that evening was given by HaRav David Ozeri, shelit”a, Rav of the Yad Yosef Torah Center of Brooklyn. Rav Ozeri cited the famous words of the Hafetz Haim, in the introduction to the volume of Mishnah Berurah devoted to the laws of Shabbat, urging communities to hold special study sessions for learning the halachot of Shabbat. The Hafetz Haim assures us that these communal efforts to enhance our knowledge of the halachot of Shabbat will hasten the arrival of our final redemption.  

“Dirshu is therefore actually engaged in bringing the geulah [redemption] closer,” Rav Ozeri said, “by ensuring that so many shiurim and so many groups of lomdim [students] are getting together daily to learn hilchos Shabbos. This gathering here today is certainly a gathering that is bringing the geulah closer!”  

Rav Yechiel Mechel Steinmetz, Skverer Dayan of Boro Park and one of the senior poskim of America, took note of the heartwarming sense of ahdut (unity) that was palpably felt in the arena.  

“We see here Gd-fearing Yidden [Jews] from all walks of life who have come together,” Rav Steinmetz said, noting the presence of hassidim, “Litvishe” Jews (those who follow the Lithuanian tradition), Sephardic Jews, kollel students, and men who work for a living. The Dayan described this assemblage as a replica of our ancestors’ encampment around Mount Sinai in preparation to receive the Torah “as one person, with one heart.” Just as they all came together to accept the Torah, so had this crowd assembled to commit to enhance their Shabbat observance. 

Rav Steinmetz exclaimed, “I feel that today we are all here to collectively say, ‘Naaseh V’Nishma’ [‘We will do and we will hear’]!”  

 

“Where Were You?” 

Rav Dovid Hofstedter, shelit”a, Nasi of Dirshu, began his remarks by addressing the crowd as “Tayere Heiligeh Mishpachas Dirshu, shelit”a” – “My dear, holy Dirshu family, shelit”a.” He spoke not as the detached figurehead of an organization talking to those under his charge, but rather with sincere love and affection, as a father addressing his cherished family. Every person in the cavernous Prudential Center felt the love expressed by the Nasi. His speech took the form of an earnest conversation among friends, delivering a practical message with readily discernible pain and concern.  

“On the one hand,” Rav Hofstedter said, “look at this generation! It is such a beautiful generation! Perhaps in the history of our galus [exile] there has never been a generation where so much Torah is being learned. Torah is being learned across the entire world – in Eretz Yisrael…and outside Eretz Yisrael. In cities and towns literally where until more recently the kol Torah [sound of Torah] has not been heard, there are kollelim. There are yeshivos and Bais Yaakovs in communities the world over, with tens and tens of thousands of talmidim [students].  

“All areas of Torah are being learned. In our entire history, there was never so much Talmud Yerushalmi being learned as today. Our generation is producing comprehensive sefarim [books] covering virtually every area of Torah at the highest levels. It is absolutely wonderful! A blessed generation!  

“On the other hand… look at the terrible tzaros [troubles] that we have experienced most recently. We are experiencing a difficult tekufah [period] of hester panim [Gd’s concealment]. Is it possible that the tremendous…bounty that Hashem has bestowed upon us has distracted us from our ultimate mission in life? Is it possible that with all the Torah being learned and with all the wonderful, spiritual developments in our time, that we are missing something?” 

With great passion and pathos, Rav Hofstedter exclaimed, “Our generation is such a generation of opportunity! There is so much Torah being learned, so much ruchnyius [spirituality], so much good! We have the opportunity to soar in ruchniyus. Yet, there are serious challenges.  

“Let us not look back at our lives with regret. Let us not one day regretfully look at the missed, unfulfilled potential! Let us not say we could have been beki’im [experts] in hilchos Shabbos [the laws of Shabbat], we could have kept Shabbos properly without inadvertently transgressing…but we didn’t avail ourselves of the opportunity. Let us not one day have the anguish and regret that ‘I could have been a Shas Yid [Jew proficient in Talmud]…’ Let us not one day look back and say, ‘I could have brought the geulah, I missed the opportunity…’ Let us not be the generation that had so many tzaros and will one day have to answer the question, ‘Where were you? What were you doing when my children were being slaughtered? Where were you when so many children were being lost? Were you too busy enjoying life when the umos ha’olam [nations of the world] were disgracing My Torah?” 

With a fiery spark of hope in his eyes, Rav Dovid continued, “Let us rather be the generation of kinyan Torah [acquiring the Torah]… Let us be the generation whose Father welcomes His children with open arms! Let us be the generation that will finally witness yeshuas Yisrael [the Jewish Nation’s salvation] and welcome the goel tzedek [redeemer]!” 

With that rousing ending, Rav Hofstedter was about to step down…until something happened that captured the hearts of every person in the audience. Rav Shimon Galei quickly stepped up the podium next to Rav Dovid and, as an appropriate conclusion to Rav Dovid’s address, grabbed Rav Dovid’s hand and began singing the famous Yiddish words of the song composed by Rav Don Segal, begging Hashem to come back home to His children: “Tattele kum shoin aheim! Tattele kum shoin aheim!”  

It seemed as if the roof was going to blow off of the stadium as the entire crowd rose to their feet as one, singing with overflowing emotion, “Tattele kum shoin aheim!” – “Our Dear Father, PLEASE COME HOME!” 

 

Learning From the Hafetz Haim 

HaRav Yitzchok Sorotzkin, shelit”a, Rosh Yeshiva of Telshe and Mesivta of Lakewood, observed that during periods such as ours, when Am Yisrael endures hardship, people are often told to reinforce their commitment to shemirat halashon – proper speech, refraining from speaking negatively about others. 

But while we must certainly always strive to maintain proper standards of speech, Rav Sorotzkin said, this must not be our only response in times of crisis. He cited Rav Matisyahu Salomon as observing that in the letters written by the Hafetz Haim during difficult periods that befell the Jews in his lifetime, he almost always attributed the hardships to deficiencies in Shabbat observance and in Torah learning. Thus, Rav Sorotzkin declared, in our times, when the Jewish Nation is beset by grave dangers and crises, we must work to raise our standards of Shabbat observance and increase our Torah study.  

The audience was then shown video recordings of Torah sages both in Israel and in America urging everyone to undertake the project of learning the laws of Shabbat. A powerful message resonated from Eretz Yisrael during the recent nesius meeting of the Daf HaYomi B’Halacha program with the Gedolei Yisrael of the Yeshiva, Chasssidic and Sefardic communities in Bnei Brak. 

 

Experiencing the Delight of Shabbat  

The renowned maggid (lecturer) HaRav Shimon Spitzer, shelit”a, referenced the famous story told in the Gemara about a gentile who approached Hillel and promised to convert if Hillel could teach him the entire Torah succinctly, during the time he stood on one foot. Hillel replied, “That which you dislike, do not do to your fellow. The rest is commentary – go learn it.”  

Rav Spitzer asked if this really can be considered “the entire Torah.” Aren’t there 613 mitzvot and numerous details which we are required to observe? 

Rav Spitzer answered that there are certain “foundational” mitzvot which lead to the observance of the other mitzvot. Treating other people the way we wish to be treated is one such mitzvah, Rav Spitzer said, and another is Shabbat. The mitzvah of Shabbat, he explained, encompasses all other mitzvot, which is why a person who observes Shabbat is considered as though observes the entire Torah, while one who desecrates Shabbat is considered as though he does not believe in the Torah. 

Rav Spitzer urged the assemblage to experience the special ta’am (“flavor”) of Shabbat, to feel the spiritual ta’anug – delight – that Shabbat brings. 

“This ta’anug,” he said, “can be felt when someone devotes time to learning hilchos Shabbos.”  

Another highlight occurred at the very end of the event with the arrival of the venerated Skulener Rebbe of Boro Park, Rav Yeshaya Yaakov Portugal, shelit”a, and the Rebbe of Toldos Yehuda Stutchin, Rav Mordechai Zilber, shelit”a. The Skulener Rebbe declared, “Shema Yisrael,” the pronouncement of kabbalat ol Malchut Shamayim (accepting Gd’s Kingship), as the Stutchiner Rebbe looked on. The entire assemblage thundered after him, in a roaring acceptance of ol Malchut Shamayim. He then said, “Hashem Hu Elokim” (“Hashem is Gd”) seven times, declaring our emunah in Hashem. What an appropriate culmination to a night that was completely devoted to Shabbat, the foundation of our emunah 

To join Daf HaYomi B’Halacha and/or Amud HaYomi, please contact Dirshu at info@dirshunj.org or at 1-888-5Dirshu.

Chef Shiri – Chocolate Coconut Bites

Efraim Harari

Creative Cooking with Chef Shiri

Kids – See if you have what it takes to become a Junior Chef!

Adult Supervision Required

Utensils Needed:
Sifter
Baking sheets
Medium-sized bowl
Saucepan
Microwave-safe glass bowl
Plate
Spoon
Measuring cups and spoons

Ingredients:
2 cups powdered sugar
½ cup instant nonfat dry milk powder
1/3 cup unsalted butter
3 tablespoons water
1 cup semisweet chocolate chips
1 tablespoon coconut oil
3 cups sweetened flaked coconut – PLUS ½ cup for rolling
1 teaspoon vanilla extract

Makes 20 Bites!

 

Let’s Get Started!

1. In a medium bowl, sift together the powdered sugar and the milk powder. Set aside.
2. Melt butter in a saucepan over low heat. Remove the pan from the stovetop and stir in the water and vanilla extract.
3. Slowly stir dry ingredients into the butter mixture and mix until smooth. Stir in coconut. Allow to cool for 15 minutes.
4. Once coconut mixture is cool enough to handle, pull a small piece off and roll it between your hands to shape into a one-inch ball. Place each ball on the ungreased baking sheet. Refrigerate for 20 minutes.
5. Sprinkle the ½ cup of coconut on a plate and set aside. In the microwave-safe bowl, melt the chocolate chips and the coconut oil in the microwave for 20 second at a time (around 2 minutes total). Use a spoon to help coat the bites in chocolate, then roll them in the coconut.
6. Let harden for 10-15 minutes before eating.

 

Fun Food Fact

Chocolate is the only edible substance to melt around 93° F, just below the human body temperature. That’s why chocolate melts so easily on your tongue!

 

Chef Shiri Says…
The white, fleshy part of the coconut seed is called coconut meat. It has high amounts of Manganese, Potassium, and Copper. The meat is used fresh or dried in cooking, especially in confections and desserts such as macaroons.

Creative Cooking with Chef Shiri is presented by The Jewish World of Wonders

 

What’s In A Name?

The name coconut is derived from 16th century Portuguese sailors who thought the 3 small holes on the coconut shell resembled the human face so dubbed the fruit “coco” meaning grinning face, grin, or grimace. The word “nut” was added in English later on.

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For over 179 years, we’ve delivered on that promise thanks to our financial professionals, who every day are helping people in their communities build, protect, and grow their financial security. Whether you’re a recent graduate, looking to change jobs, or want a more meaningful career, there’s never been a better time than now to become a New York Life financial professional. 

 

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From the Files of the Mitzvah Man Hesed Stories: A Unique Birthday Surprise

Pnina Souid 

Very recently, the following letter arrived in the Mitzvah Man Organization’s mailbox.  

Hi Mitzvah Man Volunteers! 

My name is Jennifer Levi*. I work one-on-one with a ten-year-old boy at a school for special needs children. He struggles in his learning and finds many activities to be challenging. I got to know him very well and I invest a lot in him. I try to make sure that he is happy. However, there are times when it is hard for him to show his happiness. 

His birthday was coming up and I wanted to make it a special and memorable day for him. It took a few days of thinking about what kind of birthday treat would be over the top.  

I know that he loves cars. Nothing seems to make him happy except for sports cars. Corvettes are his favorite. His dream is to buy one in the future. He also enjoys Lego and is artistic, too. I had a few ideas of what to buy him, but I decided that I wanted to do something exciting, something he’ll remember, not just buy something for him to play with. 

Finally, I thought of an amazing idea. I would rent a sports car for the day and have him get a ride in it. However, when I saw the prices, I realized it would not work.  

I am familiar with the Mitzvah Man Organization and thought that maybe they would be able to help me out, even though I knew that they were involved in a different type of hesed. I called the Mitzvah Man hotline and left a message on the answering machine. I will never forget the results of that call. 

Less than an hour later, a Mitzvah Man volunteer called me back. He said that they would love to help me. They would send messages out to their volunteer contact list and get back to me. Soon after, I received a call from the Mitzvah Man with two phone numbers of volunteers who had the exact cars that my student loves! A Porsche convertible and a Corvette! The volunteers were so excited to be part of this hesed. They made it sound like I was doing a hesed for them and not the other way around.  

I was told that a volunteer who works out of Florida and owns a Ferrari and a Lamborghini offered the family an all-expense paid trip to Florida, and he would drive them around in his sports cars. However, the decision was made to gracefully decline this very generous offer.  

On the day of my student’s birthday, the Mitzvah Man volunteers showed up and gave him the time of his life! One man even brought him a Lego set! 

They were so eager to fulfill the hesed of making my student happy. How great and empathetic is our community! 

This is something my student will never forget for the rest of his life. He mentions it almost every day. Talking and thinking about it makes him happy and excited. 

Thank you, Mitzvah Man and your selfless volunteers, in helping make a struggling child’s dream a reality! 

*Name has been changed. 

MEDICAL HALACHA – The “Wrongful Death” of Frozen Embryos

Rabbi Yehuda Finchas 

In December 2020, a patient gained access to a fertility clinic’s cryopreservation unit and dropped some frozen embryos. (Cryopreservation is the process whereby cells are cooled to sub-zero temperatures, allowing them to be preserved for long periods of time.) The embryos “died” as a result of the patient’s actions. The clinic was sued for committing wrongful death by negligence and the case reached the Alabama Supreme Court. The court recently ruled that the “Alabama’s Wrongful Death of a Minor Act” applies “to all unborn children without limitation. And that includes unborn children who are not located in utero at the time they are killed.” Many people have asked me, what is the halacha’s stance on this question? Is the destruction of a cryopreserved embryo considered halachic “death”? 

Hacham Ovadia, zt”l, (Hazon Ovadia, Shabbat, Vol. 3, p. 338) discusses a similar question that sheds light on this question. Does pikuach nefesh apply to an unborn fetus? In other words, may one desecrate Shabbat in order to save the life of an unborn child? Hacham Ovadia concludes that one is obligated to desecrate Shabbat in order to save a fetus, even within forty days from conception. However, Hacham Ovadia’s conclusion was written regarding a fetus in its mother’s womb. Does the same apply to a frozen fetus in a cryopreservation unit? 

At first glance, the answer to this question depends on the halachic basis for desecrating Shabbat to save a person’s life. The Gemara presents two different sources for this obligation. According to Shmuel, the Torah’s instruction, “v’chai bahem” – “live by them,” (Vayikra 18:5) informs us that mitzva observance must not cause a person’s death. This includes the mitzva to fast on Yom Kippur and to abstain from melacha on Shabbat. On the other hand, Rabbi Shimon ben Menasia learns this from the pasuk, “And Bnei Yisrael shall observe the Shabbat” (Shemot 31:16).  

The Torah’s use of the word “observe” implies that one’s actions should ensure the maximal observance of the Shabbat. If by “desecrating one Shabbat, Shabbat may be observed many times over in the future,” one is required to desecrate it (Yuma 85b).  

There are various practical ramifications that result from which source one accepts – that of Shmuel or that of Rabbi Shimon ben Menasia. Shmuel’s source only relates to a human who is already born. This is because the pasukv’vhai bahem” expressly refers to an “adam”- a “man.” “You shall keep My statutes and My laws which man obeys and he shall live by them.” 

In fact, the Baal Halachot Gedolot (Bahag) writes that this pasuk specifically relates to “a man” who is already born, and therefore an unborn fetus is excluded. On the other hand, the principle taught by Rabbi Shimon ben Menasia that one should “desecrate one Shabbat so that Shabbat may be observed many times over in the future” ought to apply to a fetus. Hacham Ovadia rules that we rely on the source presented by Rabbi Shimon ben Menasia and therefore desecrate Shabbat to save a fetus. 

Parenthetically, Hacham Ovadia challenges the Bahag by pointing to Beresheet 9:6, “Whoever spills the blood of a man inside a man, his blood shall be shed.” The Gemara explains that this refers to aborting a fetus. “Which kind of man is ‘inside a man’? A fetus in its mother’s womb” (Sanhedrin 57b). Evidently the Torah does call a fetus “a man? Hacham Ovadia answers that the Torah defines a fetus asa man inside a man,” but not as a “man” who so happens to live inside another “man.” 

Intuitively, the principle of Rabbi Shimon ben Menasia could be applied to a frozen embryo as well. The embryo may come to observe Shabbat many times over if we desecrate one Shabbat to save it! However, Hacham Ovadia, quoting Rabbi Shmuel Vozner (Responsa Shevet Halevi, 5:47), rules that one may only desecrate Shabbat to save a fetus in utero who is at least “a man inside a man,” but not for a frozen embryo that is only a “man inside a freezer.”  

In conclusion, frozen embryos have a different halachic status than a fetus in utero. While you must desecrate Shabbat to save an unborn child in its mother’s womb, you may not desecrate Shabbat to save a frozen embryo. By the same token, while it is forbidden to abort an unborn child in its mother’s womb, this does not apply to a frozen embryo.  Therefore, destroying such an embryo would not be halachically considered the wrongful death of a minor. That said, since the embryo is an object of great value, it should not be discarded without a valid reason.  

Rabbi Yehuda Finchas is a worldwide expert, lecturer, and author on Medical Halacha. He heads the Torat Habayit Medical Halacha Institute. His latest book is “Brain Death in Halacha and the Tower of Babel Syndrome.” To contact Rabbi Finchas email rabbi@torathabayit.com. 

Mayor of Long Branch Letter

Dear Community Members,

Welcome back to the City of Long Branch for another great Summer Season at the Jersey Shore!

Our city has so much to offer to make this summer one of the best. So, whether you are spending your summer with us or just visiting for the day, we hope you will take advantage of what Long Branch has to offer you.  

We have several parks for recreation. Manahasset Creek Park has fields and courts, a walking path, and fitness stations. Our recently
upgraded Jackson Woods park is a peaceful location for a stroll. Our Arts & Cultural Center on Broadway offers many interesting exhibits and programs, and our newly opened Fire and History Museum gives you a glimpse of the city’s proud past.  

Oceanfest features one of the best fireworks displays along the shore with fun for the whole family! There are many other events throughout the summer months. Please go to our website at longbranch.org under “Community Events” to see a comprehensive list of summer happenings. 

Long Branch has four miles of beautiful shoreline for you to enjoy. Our many beaches include some with extended hours, two fully accessible locations, and a variety of food and refreshment options nearby.  

Our beaches are open from now through September 2, 2024. For more information, please visit our website under “Beach Information.” 

We also offer daily passes for Long Branch residents at our community pool, and both residents and non-residents may purchase season passes. 

The summer months are a time for relaxation and fun. I wish everyone a safe and enjoyable summer! 

Sincerely,
John Pallone
Mayor

One on One with Brittany Cogan

Ellen Geller Kamaras 

“It is not our right, but it is our obligation and responsibility to share Ellie’s story and raise awareness for pediatric cancer.” ~~ Brittany  

Brittany Cogan, née Rumeld, is a daughter, sister, wife, mother, teacher, and the co-founder of the Ellie Ruby Foundation.  She is a young and courageous mom who, along with her husband Jonathan, navigated an overwhelming journey with their baby girl’s brain cancer. 

 

Childhood 

Brittany was born in Manhattan, to Elysee and Myron Rumeld, both New Yorkers of Ashkenaz descent. She is one of four children and “second in the line-up.”  The siblings have remained close.    

Brittany grew up in NYC and her family had a summer house in Deal.   When she was five, her parents decided to move and settled near Congregation Magen David of West Deal . Brittany attended Hillel Yeshiva from kindergarten through high school. 

While growing up in the Syrian community, Brittany maintained her Ashkenaz identity by going away for the summers. She became an advocate for Israel at a young age when she attended a two-year leadership and education program for Jewish high school students.  

Brittany loved school and was an A student. She graduated Summa Cum Laude from college with Phi Beta Kappa honors.  

 

College & Career  

After high school, Brittany studied at Binghamton University, majoring in history with a minor in Jewish history. Each summer, she took different internships to help her to decide on the right career path. She interned at an advertising agency a fashion PR firm, and the summer before her senior year, at the Stephen Gaynor Summer Camp in Manhattan. At the camp Brittany developed a special connection to the children. Brittany felt it was rewarding to be part of a camp that gave kids a specialized setting to learn and play. 

After graduating, Brittany moved to Manhattan and attended Bank Street College of Education to pursue a dual degree master’s program in Childhood General & Special Education.  

My practicum experiences at SAR Academy as an assistant teacher and with autistic children in a public school helped me to understand my career path and how to make a difference with special education. There is nothing more rewarding than helping children overcome their challenges to become the future leaders of our country. 

After graduating Bank Street, Brittany was offered a position as a third grade teacher at Ramaz. After three years, she became a learning specialist, and was able to follow her true passion. “Work never ended at dismissal. I tutored many students nightly to help support my family. After three years as a learning specialist, I resigned from Ramaz when Ellie got sick, to become her primary caregiver.” 

 

Then Came Marriage  

Brittany married her naseeb, Jonathan Cogan, one year older, immediately after graduating college. Jonathan is a finance professional at BlackRock, a multinational investment company. The couple live in Deal, and are blessed with two sons and one daughter, Brody (ten), Grayson (eight), and Ellie (four).   

Their children attend Hillel Yeshiva and the family practices a mix of Ashkenaz and Sephardic traditions.   

 

Essence & Passions 

Brittany loves to help others feel good about themselves, whether it’s in her teaching career with learning-disabled students or in her latest career endeavor as a Megaformer workout instructor. 

She is also passionate about spreading awareness for pediatric cancer. “I wish the world knew more about this, so that we can create a better future for children like my daughter.” 

Her proudest accomplishments include her master’s in a dual program, being a mom to three unique and amazing children, establishing the ERF with her husband during the most challenging and dark time, being a supportive, communicative wife, and building a tutoring business. 

“My husband and children are supportive of my career choices and are my best cheerleaders,” Brittany says with a smile. 

 

Ellie’s Journey 

In July of 2020, when Ellie was 11 months old, she stopped moving her left arm. Determining what was wrong was difficult as Ellie could not talk to describe what was going on with her or to express her pain.  Unfortunately, she was misdiagnosed for weeks by various doctors and hospitals until Brittany told the new residents at NYP Weill Cornell to run a brain MRI.  They found an eight cm brain tumor that took up the entire right lobe of Ellie’s brain.  

“Ellie had emergency surgery that next morning on July 19, and my life will never be the same. I left my career, my boys, and became a cancer mom.”  

The tumor and surgery left Ellie hemiplegic, meaning she suffered paralysis on one side of her body. For Ellie, the slight paralysis was in her left side.  The Cogans were told that the surgery was “successful,” and that Ellie needed to be in a rehabilitation hospital before chemotherapy could start. 

Brittany and Jonathan rotated staying with Ellie, as COVID rules permitted only one caregiver at a time. Two weeks after the surgery, Ellie fell out of her crib onto her head and had a follow-up MRI scan.  The tumor had grown back only two weeks after surgery.  

Ellie was diagnosed with a glioblastoma. Glioblastoma is the most aggressive type of brain tumor.  But Ellie’s tumor was presenting differently.  After three resection surgeries (resection surgery removes tissue or all or part of an organ) and four different chemotherapy agents, Ellie’s tumor continued to grow back.  

 

Taking Action 

Since it was the height of the pandemic and no one in their communities had gone through infantile brain cancer, the Cogans decided to share their story on social media. 

Their friends organized a Warrior Walk in honor of Ellie to help bring awareness and raise money with the sale of Team Ellie t-shirts. People showed up from near and far to participate in an outdoor COVID-safe walk in support of Ellie. The Walk raised even more funds than were expected. The Cogans had also received considerable support from strangers in the form of meal trains and gift baskets. 

That is what compelled them to establish The Ellie Ruby Foundation (ERF) – to bring smiles and support to families battling pediatric cancer. “We looked at our Ellie through every surgery, procedure, and chemo regimen, and she was always smiling. Her smile inspired us to help others. ERF helps families financially and emotionally and funds research for cures for rare cancers.” The Cogans are proud that through their efforts, almost a half million dollars has been donated to pediatric cancer research and help for families.  

 

From Out of the Depths 

While planning the launch of their foundation, Ellie was losing her battle to brain cancer. In January 2021, the Cogans were told that their last option was to try proton radiation, also known as proton beam therapy, which is a radiation treatment that precisely delivers a beam of protons to disrupt and destroy tumor cells. This treatment is not recommended for children under three years old (Ellie was 17 months) because it can cause significant cognitive delays and deficits. However, the Cogans pursued that treatment, realizing it was their only option.  

Brittany is thrilled to report that Ellie has been tumor-free since March 2021. She gets MRI scans frequently to ensure there is no resurgence. 

Ellie’s journey does not end here. She is followed by a team of doctors, therapists, and specialists who manage her ongoing care to help with her hemiplegia and cognitive deficits. The Cogans continue to spread awareness and advocate for pediatric cancer because they understand that a pediatric cancer diagnosis presents a lifelong challenge.  

 

Family Role Models and Support 

Brittany’s mother and her paternal grandmother, Ellen, inspired Brittany to become a teacher. Ellen fled Nazi Germany and immigrated to the U.S. She was committed to staying close to her Jewish roots and taught Hebrew school in Forest Hills.  

Brittany’s mother, Elysee, is her best friend, whose opinion she valued from day one. Brittany followed in her mother’s footsteps.  Elysee has a master’s in special education and taught at the Stephen Gaynor School and at Ramaz.  

Brittany’s dad encouraged her to work hard to achieve success. “He commuted to/from NYC before blackberries and remote email, yet he always helped me with homework and attended my basketball games.” Mr. Rumeld currently serves on the Hillel Yeshiva board. 

Brittany’s husband Jonathan stayed close by her side through thick and thin. “Jonathan supported me through every career endeavor, and worked tirelessly to find the best hospitals and doctors who could save our daughter’s life while still working his day job and providing for our family. He always stayed positive and strong, and held himself gracefully when his mother lost her battle to cancer this year.” 

Brittany’s aunt, Daniella Schertz, was there for Brittney. Daniella launched Ellie’s Great Big Challah Bake when Ellie was diagnosed with cancer. It went viral on Instagram, and Daniella was dubbed “CHOPRA” – “Challa Oprah.”   

 

Daily Routine 

Brittany wakes up 5am, two hours before her kids, to get as much done as she can for the busy day ahead. She cooks dinner and plans her workout sequences or lesson plans for tutoring. Once her children are up, it’s non-stop. Brittany strives to get to bed at 9:45pm to be prepared for the next day. 

“Now that Ellie is home, I can spend time with my family, cook their favorite foods, and help them with their homework. This role reversal is wild, but I wouldn’t trade it in for the world.  

“I LOVE and truly respect the Deal Syrian community for being so tight-knit and supportive in every area of life.” 

Brittany is involved with the Morris Franco Center, which tremendously helped support her family. She aspires to build a network of resources for pediatric cancer so that the Center can help more children.  

 

What’s Next 

Brittany plans on growing the ERF to help more children and to support more research for cures for rare cancerous tumors like Ellie’s.  

“Ellie is always smiling and lights up a room.  She says hi to everyone.  She’s the celebrity and I am her agent.” 

Connect with Brittany at brumeld@gmail.com or on Instagram.com/Brittanycogan, and please visit ellierubyfoundation.org.  

Anti-Semitism on College Campuses – What’s a Jew to Do??

Ellen Geller Kamaras 

Hamas’ barbaric October 7th attack on Israel, and the war which has been raging in its wake, have had a significant impact on U.S. college campuses, giving rise to the question of whether they are a viable option for Jewish students. 

Since October 7th, anti-Semitism has surged in much of the world, and especially in colleges. 

I still remember when one could separate anti-Zionism from anti-Semitism, when those opposed to Israel’s policies and actions did not necessarily show hostility to all Jews. Today, however, anti-Zionism and anti-Semitism are one and the same, as the enemies of the Jewish State openly express their contempt for Jews generally. Indeed, Rabbi Jonathan Sacks, a”h, famously described anti-Zionism as “the new anti-Semitism.” And so the anti-Zionism currently running rampant in academia – to the point where many university administrations could not even bring themselves to unambiguously condemn the October 7th terror attack – poses a risk to all Jews on campus. 

 

“Into the Lion’s Den” 

On the campuses of Ivy League schools, private universities and state universities throughout the country, protestors loudly chant calls to “free Palestine,” and cry, “From the River to the Sea, Palestine will be free” – a thinly veiled wish for the destruction of the world’s only Jewish State. 

One night in late October, a group of Jewish students at New York City’s Cooper Union were forced to barricade themselves in a school library as frenzied pro-Palestinian activists pounded menacingly on the windows. Around a week earlier, an instructor at Stanford University was suspended for ordering his Jewish students to stand in a corner, labelling them as “colonizers.”   

The response by universities to Hamas’ attack, and to the anti-Semitism on their campuses, has resulted in a “donor revolt,” with key philanthropists announcing the discontinuation of their financial support of certain elite institutions. These include Ronald Lauder, Marc Rowan, Jon Huntsman (Penn); Bill Ackman and Leslie and Abigail Wexner (Harvard); and New England Patriots owner Robert Kraft (Columbia). 

Naturally, the situation has triggered fears among Jewish students and parents. Many Jewish parents are, understandably, fearful of sending their children away to colleges where they may be harassed, isolated, and subject to bias by professors with passionate antipathy to Israel.   

What, then, are the preferred options for our generation’s college-age youth? Do we keep our children close to home, or allow them to expand their horizons despite the anti-Semitic sentiments that permeate throughout this nation’s colleges?   

Of course, even before October 7th, most of us understood that children cannot be kept in a bubble forever.   

“Every child grows up in a bubble,” says pediatrician Dr. Meg Meeker. “The real question for parents is: what kind of bubble do you want your child to grow up in?  Like-influences support kids in the direction they are traveling, and we as parents are the ones who decide which direction we want our kids to go. This is responsible parenting.” 

But does responsible parenting involve steering our children away from certain schools due to the fear of anti-Semitism? Moreover, if we pull our children out of excellent universities, or don’t send them to college at all, does that mean we grant the anti-Semites victory? 

More than 55,000 people have joined the Facebook group “Mothers Against College Anti-Semitism” to address these and similar questions. Members share reports of anti-Semitism at colleges, and exchange information about the safest schools for Jewish kids. One mother said she wasn’t willing to send her teen “into the lion’s den.” She explained that it would be different if her child was in graduate school or already established at a college, but “freshman year of college is complicated enough,” adding the anti-Israel vitriol sounded daily on campuses could easily lead to physical violence. 

 

What Jewish Youths – and Their Parents – are Saying 

This past February, BBYO, the world’s leading pluralistic Jewish teen movement, completed a thorough survey of Jewish high school students to assess the impact of the 10/7 terrorist attacks on young American Jews. The findings were grim, with Jewish teens reporting an increase in anti-Semitic discrimination and incidents. More than 70 percent of the youngsters in the survey said they experienced harassment either in person or online. Well over half (64 percent) of the participants responded that anti-Semitism on campus was a significant factor in choosing a college.  

Twelfth grader Ethan Smith says that he withdrew his application to the University of Pennsylvania after hearing the university’s president, Liz Magill, testify to Congress that calling for the genocide of Jews wouldn’t necessarily violate the institution’s rules. He plans to attend Rutgers University in his home state of New Jersey. Rutgers has a large Jewish population, and Ethan thus felt he could be comfortable there without having to continually look over his shoulder. 

Bianca De Almeida, a high school senior from Miami, says she was very affected by the December Congressional hearing, in which the presidents of Harvard University and MIT declined to state whether campus policy prohibited calls for the genocide of Jews. Many youngsters, Bianca reports, did not apply to those schools out of safety concerns. Indeed, Harvard reported a 17 percent decline in early decision applications.  

A different survey, commissioned by the Jewish campus group Hillel International in March 2024, found that an overwhelming majority of Jewish parents of high school juniors and seniors say the October 7th attack and its aftermath have affected their children’s college plans. Alarmingly, 19 percent said they were considering not enrolling their children in any college. 

The Hillel survey was conducted three months after the shocking Congressional hearing on campus anti-Semitism, and more than five months post October 7th. 

Over 80 U.S. Department of Education investigations into possible violations of the Title VI anti-discrimination law in colleges and schools have been initiated, a large percentage of which involved suspected anti-Semitism. Sixty percent of the parents responding to the survey said that news of investigations was a significant factor in their child’s choice of a college. 

Hillel’s President and CEO Adam Lehman described these findings as “an important additional wake-up call for universities that their positive actions, or failure to act, is going to have real consequences when it comes to their ability to attract Jewish students.” 

Nevertheless, Lehman does not believe that parents should keep their kids out of college altogether. He stated that Hillel is “working hard to ensure that we fix the campus climate at schools where the climate is broken, rather than really self-ghettoizing in terms of where Jewish students feel comfortable attending university.” 

 

The Jewish University Option 

The tidal wave of anti-Semitism on college campuses has encouraged more HS students to opt for Jewish universities. 

A 5/27/24 report cited that enrollment has soared to a record high at Yeshiva University (YU), America’s only university under Orthodox Jewish auspices, increasing by approximately 52 percent since October 7th. The rise included Jewish transfer students from Ivy League universities seeking a more secure environment. YU President Rabbi Dr. Ari Berman said that the institution had to lease additional residences for its Midtown campus. 

YU student Ethan Oliner explains that growing tensions on the Cornell University campus forced him to transfer to YU.  “It’s a safe environment where you’re able to focus on your actual studies, and not on fighting anti-Semitism.”  

YU extended its deadline for transfer students seeking to move to YU this coming fall, in order to accommodate the exodus from other institutions. 

On May 29th, at Yeshiva University’s commencement ceremony, it gave a special award to Senator John Fetterman, a Pennsylvania Democrat, who has emerged as a leading supporter of Israel since October 7th. The Senator has wallpapered his office with pictures of the hostages, and wears the popular dog tags to express his fervent hope for their release. In interviews and on social media, Senator Fetterman has been outspoken about Israel’s right to wage its unrelenting war against the barbaric Hamas terror organization, and about the worrying scourge of anti-Semitism. In his acceptance speech, the Senator repudiated his alma mater, Harvard, for what he described as the university’s “inability to stand up for the Jewish community after October 7th.” 

Sophia Esses, mother of Sandy, a senior at Hillel Yeshiva in Deal, shared that her daughter, an honors student, chose to attend Stern College, YU’s undergraduate institution for women.  As they have closely followed world events, Sophia and her husband, David, spoke openly with Sandy about the October 7th attack, Israel’s current war, and anti-Semitism. Sandy had no interest in attending universities where Jewish students don’t feel safe, and where college officials didn’t put an end to violent and disruptive anti-Israel protests. Sophia says she’s grateful that Sandy will be able to focus on learning without distracting and unsettling anti-Israel activity on campus. 

Sandy will live at the Stern dormitory in Manhattan. Her parents believe that attending a Jewish college in the heart of midtown Manhattan strikes the appropriate balance for a young adult such as their daughter, as she will be living on her own, but in a safe, Orthodox Jewish environment. 

 

A Silver Lining? 

Renowned Israeli media personality Sivan Rahav-Meir spent Shabbat with 150 Chabad women emissaries from global college campuses, and shared the following reflections:  

“I heard about the anti-Semitism and lies they are facing, but mainly heard about their proud Jewish and pro-Israel response to the belligerent atmosphere on their campuses. One woman told of “Israel Apartheid week” advertised on a hostile campus. Her husband said, ‘I’m sure that many students whom we’ve never seen before will join us this Shabbat meal.’ We have seen with our own eyes, how the darkness increases the light.” 

As has frequently happened through our long, tumultuous history, the rise of anti-Semitism has had the effect of awakening many Jews to their roots, and reinforcing their Jewish identity. The hostility shown to Jews on campuses have prompted many Jewish youngsters to reassess their attitudes toward the liberal values championed by so much of academia, which now include an irrational hatred of the world’s only Jewish State, and support for its ruthless, inhumane enemies.  The rise of anti-Semitic sentiments has thus been met with a rise in Jewish pride and interest in Judaism among Jewish college kids. 

Regardless, time will tell whether current trends will continue, pushing more and more Jewish youths away from college campuses, or if the fanatical, obsessive contempt for Israel might trigger a backlash and a gradual return to normalcy, at least in some academic institutions. In the meantime, Jewish teens and their parents are carefully exploring their options in determining where the most formative years of their lives can be spent productively, meaningfully, and, most important of all, safely.

 

Factors to Consider When Choosing a University

Many of these considerations were relevant before October 7th, but are even more critical now.   

  1. Parents and the prospective HS graduate should meet with their HS college guidance counselor and discuss the student’s options and which colleges would be an appropriate match given his or her grades, financial needs, preferences, and long-term goals. 
  2. Do some extra research about the climate at colleges of interest, including reaching out to their on-campus organizations. Is your child’s HS guidance department doing their due diligence vis-à-vis colleges they recommend? I heard that the college guidance counselors of some Jewish HS’s are visiting college campuses across the country to vet these schools. 
  3. The parents and the prospective graduate should plan a visit to the university. This visit would include talking to the college administration, to the Hillel and Chabad directors, and to other Jewish students, and spending a Shabbat on campus. 
  4. Check availability of kosher food options and proximity to synagogues or Jewish communities.  
  5. Find out whether there were pro-Palestinian protests and encampments on the campus of the school your child is interested in.   
  6. Jewish parents and their children can consider colleges with a large percentage of Jewish students, or Jewish universities, such as Yeshiva University, Touro College, and Focus Education.  

Ellen Geller Kamaras, CPA/MBA, is an International Coach Federation (ICF) Associate Certified Coach.  Her coaching specialties include life, career and dating coaching. Ellen is active in her community and is currently the Vice-President of Congregation Bnai Avraham in Brooklyn Heights. She can be contacted at ellen@lifecoachellen.com (www.lifecoachellen.com)