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Making a Living – the Jewish Way

Years ago, one of our community’s most renowned philanthropists said to me, “If anyone ever proudly tells you about how they made their fortune – don’t believe them.  It’s all nonsense.” 

 

He proceeded to explain his remark by sharing with me a story about his own fortune. 

 

Once, at the pool, he was approached by a friend who was, as they say, “in the know,” and he gave him a tip on a stock.  Based on his knowledge of a certain company and market trends, the friend was confident that this company’s stock was going to rise by a few points.   He urged this investor to buy a large volume of shares, as he was certain to make a fortune. 

 

“Sounds great,” the man said.  “What’s the company’s symbol?” 

 

“ABCD,” the fellow replied. 

 

Later, the investor phoned his stock broker, and said, “I just got a great tip on a stock.  Buy me a million shares of BCDE.” 

 

“Why?!” the broker asked, perplexed.   

 

“I don’t know,” the investor replied.  “But I trust this guy.  He knows what he’s talking about.” 

 

The broker did as he was told.  The purchase of a million shares of this company’s stock caused a stir in the market.  In fact, the company’s CEO called up this investor to ask him if he might know something about the company that he didn’t know.  The CEO couldn’t understand  why somebody would invest so much in his company.  But this investment caused the price to go up, and this man made a huge fortune. 

 

A few days later, he met his friend again at the pool.  He gleefully went over to him to thank him for the tip, and share the news that he had made an enormous amount of money. 

 

“What?!” the friend asked.  “I don’t know what you’re talking about.  I was afraid to come here, because the stock actually went down a few cents.” 

 

It was then they figured out that the investor had made a mistake went he spoke to his broker.  And this mistake is what made him his fortune. 

 

The man told me the story to express his firm bitahon (trust) in Hashem, to demonstrate how ultimately, it is Gd who decides what we earn and what we lose.  We might think that our hard work, our ingenuity, our intelligence, our experience and our knowledge is what brings us success.  But the truth is that our livelihood depends exclusively on Hashem. 

 

Many in our community, and beyond, experienced something similar several years ago, during the COVID pandemic.  While there were, unfortunately, a large number of people who suffered considerable financial losses due to the lockdowns, there were others who, astonishingly, ended up making more money during the pandemic than they did before.  Their profits actually went up!   

 

When these things happen, they remind us a basic truth about parnasah (earning a livelihood): it is dependent exclusively on Gd.  Of course, we are enjoined to invest effort, to work hard, and to be fiscally responsible.  At the same time, however, as devoted Jews, we must never forget that the outcome does not depend on us.  Hashem ensures that we have precisely what we are meant to have, irrespective of anything we do or don’t do.  And so, even when mistakes are made, and even when an unprecedented pandemic shuts down the economy, people can earn lots of money – because when Hashem decides that a person should enjoy prosperity, He will find a way to make it happen no matter what that person does. 

 

The Farmer’s Septennial Miracle 

 

A Biblical source for this fundamental precept is the mitzvah of shemitah, about which we read this month, in the beginning of Parashat Behar. 

 

This mitzvah is, for good reason, considered the most difficult mitzvah in the Torah to observe.  It requires a farmer in the Land of Israel to cease all agricultural work for an entire year, every seven years.  Not only must he refrain from plowing and planting during the shemitah year, but he must also regard his fields as ownerless.  This means that anybody has the right to come into his fields at any time and take what they want (as long as they don’t hoard large quantities).  This would be akin to telling a storeowner to shut down his business for an entire year every seven years, and to keep the doors open throughout the year, allowing people to help themselves to the available merchandise, free of charge. 

 

The Rabbis applied to the farmers who faithfully observe this mitzvah the verse in Tehillim (103:20), “Gibboreh koah oseh devaro – Those mighty in strength, who fulfill His word.”  This verse is said about the heavenly angels, but the farmers who comply with the demands of shemitah are truly like angels, letting go of their agricultural enterprises for an entire year in humble subservience to the Torah. 

 

Several different explanations have been offered for why the Torah introduced this mitzvah.  Of particular interest to us in this context is the approach taken by the Keli Yakar (Rav Shlomo Efrayim Luntshitz, Prague, 1550-1619), who writes that the mitzvah of shemitah is intended to heighten one’s awareness of Gd’s Providence, to reinforce his belief that his livelihood depends entirely on Hashem.  In the ancient world, the Keli Yakar explains, farmers would work the land in three-year cycles, sowing and producing food for two years, and desisting on the third year, allowing the land an opportunity to “rest.”  The Torah therefore commands, “For six years you shall sow your field.”  The farmer is specifically instructed to continue tilling the land nonstop for six years, in direct opposition to accepted agricultural norms.  He is to let the land lie fallow every seven years, not every three years – a system which, naturally, should pose a grave risk to his entire enterprise.  But Gd would miraculously grant him blessing and prosperity, to show that financial success depends not on following conventional procedures, but on Gd’s blessing. 

 

Every seven years, the farmers in the Land of Israel were shown that they could be successful even when they do the “wrong” thing, when they follow what everyone would consider to be the very worst business practices.  They were shown that even when an investor mistakenly buys the wrong stock, or even under the direst market conditions, Gd is fully capable of showering us with His blessings. 

 

Lest anybody misunderstand, the Keli Yakar is absolutely not encouraging people not to work, to stay at home and wait for a miracle to provide them with the money they need.  Quite to the contrary, the Keli Yakar interprets the text as commanding the farmer to work for six years.  Ever since Adam’s sin in Gan Eden, we have an obligation of hishtadlut, to work to secure a living through natural means.  The Keli Yakar warns, however, against attributing the outcome to our efforts and ingenuity.  When we succeed, we must not pride ourselves for attaining success through our hard work and wisdom, and when things do not go the way we want, we mustn’t fall into depression or worry about the future.  We are to instead continually reaffirm our belief and understanding that we always have precisely what Gd determined we should have, no more and no less, such that there is no reason to take pride in our wealth, or blame ourselves for our financial struggles.  Under all circumstances, we need to place our faith solely in Gd. 

 

Quantitative Blessing & Qualitative Blessing 

 

This mitzvah also provides us with another lesson regarding the Torah’s perspective on making a living. 

 

In presenting this command, the Torah anticipates the people asking how they will survive by following the Torah’s plan (25:20).  Gd responds by promising, “I shall bestow My blessing upon you during the sixth year, and it shall produce the grain for three years” (25:21).  

 

The conventional understanding of this verse is that Gd would increase the agricultural output during the sixth year, such that the grain will suffice for three years, until the seeds sown during the eighth year produce food.  Beyond the standard annual output, the ground will, miraculously, produce an additional two years’ worth. 

 

The Keli Yakar, however, explains this verse differently.  He notes that the Torah here speaks of the ground producing “HAtevu’ah” – “THE grain,” using the definitive article “the.”  This implies that the Torah says not that the ground will produce three years’ worth of grain, but rather that “the grain” – meaning, the ground’s normal output after the sixth year – will suffice for three years.  This quantity of food, which would normally sustain the people for just one year, will miraculously sustain them for three years. 

 

The Keli Yakar here conveys a vitally important insight into financial blessing, distinguishing between what we might call “quantitative blessing” and “qualitative blessing.” 

 

“Quantitative blessing” is the more obvious form of blessing.  If a businessman normally earns $1 million in profits annually, and one year his profits are $1.5 million, he has, of course, received a great blessing, with a significant increase in his income.   

 

However, Gd’s blessings also come in a different way – qualitatively.  Sometimes, the same amount of money goes further than it did previously.  Prices might go down.  Or, he might find that, for whatever reason, he doesn’t have the same expenses he had in the past.  Perhaps fewer things break, resulting in lower maintenance costs.  We can all attest that at certain times we need less money than at other times.  This, too, is part of Gd’s blessing, which we must recognize and feel grateful for. 

 

More generally, Gd’s blessing of parnasah comes in different ways.  Neither our tax returns nor our portfolio tells the whole story.  Gd’s providence is often hidden, challenging us to muster our unwavering faith, and trust that we are constantly under His care. 

 

Living with this faith makes our lives so much calmer and more pleasant, as it saves us from unnecessary worry and anxiety.  When we trust that Gd can provide us with our needs under any circumstances, and that He cares for us even when we do not see how, we can enjoy peace of mind of serenity at all times, regardless of our income, and regardless of what is or isn’t in our bank accounts – because we know with certainty that our loving Father is looking out for us, throughout our lives. 

Chef Shiri – Pita Pyramids and Hummus

Utensils Needed:

Pastry brush

Knife or kitchen scissors

Baking sheet

Colander

Measuring cups and spoons

Blender or food processor

Oven mitts

 

Ingredients:

4 pita bread pockets

¼ cup olive oil

½ teaspoon salt, divided

1 (15-ounce) can garbanzo beans (chickpeas)

1 tablespoon lemon juice

1 tablespoon olive oil

1 clove garlic

½ teaspoon ground cumin

2 drops sesame oil (optional)

1 tablespoon fresh chopped parsley, for garnish (optional)

 

 

 

Let’s Get Started!

  1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees Fahrenheit.
  2. Use the pastry brush to brush both sides of the pita pockets with olive oil. Sprinkle a pinch of salt on each pita.
  3. Use the knife or kitchen scissors to cut each pocket into 4 pyramids (triangular shapes). Place them on the ungreased baking sheet.
  4. Bake pita in oven for 5 to 7 minutes, until they are warmed through. Wear the oven mitts to take the pan out of the oven.
  5. Drain garbanzo beans in the colander. Rinse the beans and drain again.
  6. Place garbanzo beans, lemon juice, olive oil, garlic, cumin, remaining salt, and sesame oil in blender on low speed for 2 minutes, until the mixture is smooth.
  7. Garnish hummus with fresh parsley.
  8. Serve hummus in a bowl with pita pyramids on the side.

 

Serves 4!

 The Pita Pocket 

The “pocket” in pita bread is made by steam. The steam puffs up the dough, and, as the bread cools and flattens, a pocket remains in the middle.

PITA PYRAMIDS and HUMMUS

Chef Shiri Says…

 

Hummus is not only for pita — try it smeared onto a sandwich, baked on fish, or made into a delicious dip to perk up vegetables, chips, or pretzels!

Prayer Pointers from

Buzz the Brachos Bee

When making the berachah Hamotzi on bread, you should place all ten fingers on the bread to represent the ten mitzvot involved in its preparation and the pesukim about the mitzvot that each has ten words.

Deal Elections: A Candid Conversation with Mayor Sam Cohen and Commissioner Jack Kassin

Victor Cohen 

 

On May 14th, residents in Deal, New Jersey, will vote to determine who will govern for the next four years. 

 

How Deal Governance Works  

 

Deal is governed by a non-partisan commission, as prescribed by the Walsh Act. The Walsh Act, signed into law in 1911 by then Governor of New Jersey Woodrow Wilson, permits municipalities to adopt a non-partisan commission form of government. The commissions in Walsh Act municipalities are composed of either three or five members, elected for four-year terms. The commissioners themselves elect one commissioner as mayor, who serves as the chair of the commission. Most towns or cities conduct highly political mayoral elections. In Deal, this is not the case. 

 

In In the upcoming Deal elections,  three commissioners are running for election, one of whom will become mayor, as mentioned above. A two-thirds majority of the commissioners is required to pass any ordinance or bill. All significant resolutions are decided in this manner. 

 

I was privileged to interview two candidates in this year’s election, newly appointed Commissioner Jack Kassin, and Mayor Sam Cohen. They are both part of the Simhon-Cohen-Kassin team, which is seeking reelection. Let’s hear what they had to say. 

 

 

 

Commissioner Jack Kassin’s Vision for Deal 

 

Mr. Kassin stated, “My vision is to make Deal into a very nice neighborhood, to keep the idyllic small-town feeling.” One of Kassin’s goals is to improve and beautify Norwood Avenue. He proposes  more consistent signage and making Norwood Avenue more pedestrian-friendly. Mr. Kassin also discussed possible renovations for the Deal Casino. 

 

Mr. Kassin has a proud legacy of working with local community institutions, such as the Lawrence Avenue Synagogue. He has been involved with the synagogue and has been part of its committee since its dedication in 1984. He said, “I am devoted to that synagogue, to the rabbis, the committee, and the members of that congregation.” 

 

Mr. Kassin said,  “DSN is one of the biggest blessings and accomplishments in our community in a long, long time, and we’ve had many, thank Gd.” 

 

All faucets of DSN are active in the winter, including the sports leagues, the restaurants, and the use of the buildings themselves. Mr. Kassin noted that Deal’s population  is growing year-by-year. “I pray that this growth continues and we build from strength.” 

 

Summertime in Deal 

 

During the summer Deal changes quite a bit. “When the summer comes around,” Mr. Kassin said, “of course it becomes very exciting, filled with events, fundraisers, weddings, engagements, brit milot, you name it! 

 

“In the summer, thank Hashem, every single synagogue in the area is booming. It’s a beautiful thing to see, a beautiful thing to have going on, and it involves men, women, and children.” 

 

Strong Commitment to Deal 

 

Mr. Kassin’s involvement comes from a desire to do his part to help in all aspects of the town. He is proud to be a member of his team. He concluded, “Our team, starting with Mayor Cohen and Commissioner David Simhon, has a proven track record – caring deeply for the benefit of the community. They are honorable men, with great integrity, they love and care for everybody within Deal. The motivation strictly concerns what is good for the town, what’s good for the year-round and summer-only residents, and what is good for the overall benefit of the community.” 

 

Mayor Sam Cohen Weighs In 

 

One might ask why Mayor Cohen made the move from Brooklyn (he lived in the 70s between O and P) to Deal. He said that when he got to Deal, “I noticed immediately how much better life was there.” Between the tranquility of the town, the less aggressive drivers, and the ease of parking, Mayor Cohen decided to make the move to Deal and he has never looked back. 

 

Thirteen years ago, Mayor Harry Franco, a”h, told Sam Cohen that there was an opening for one of the commissioner spots, and that he thought Sam was right for the position. Sam was elected as one of the commissioners. Tragically, within a year Mayor Franco passed away. After a few more years serving as commissioner, Sam ran alongside David Simhon with the goal of becoming Deal’s next mayor, and won. 

 

Mayor Cohen’s Praise of DSN 

 

Mayor Cohen praised DSN wholeheartedly, citing DSN’s strong influence on the Jersey Shore community. DSN brought people in Deal together, especially the youth. It provided community members with a central meeting place, which provided a venue for events, sports, and even restaurants. DSN truly lives up to its name as the “Deal Sephardic Network,” and acts as a unifying force for the community in Deal. 

 

Mayor Cohen  noted that at the opening of DSN, Steve Carasia, the former town administrator was honored. He worked tirelessly for the benefit of the community, unfortunately passing away this past year. Mayor Cohen said, “He was instrumental in helping us pave the way to many projects that we have implemented, and was a true friend to the community.” 

 

Current Status and Future Plans 

 

Mayor Cohen believes that Deal is on a very healthy path and is headed in the right direction. He notes that, “Deal boasts the lowest crime rate of any town in the area, and will continue to implement the latest security measures.” Due in large part to Deal’s robust monitoring system, Mayor Cohen said, “If any undesirables drive into town, we know within seconds.” 

 

Mayor Cohen’s main goal is to keep much of Deal as-is, keeping it from being overdeveloped. Currently, the town is healthy financially, and Mayor Cohen believes that leaving Deal in the steady, capable hands now at the helm is the way to ensure the best governing of Deal in the future. 

 

 

 

As for future plans, Mayor Cohen would like to see the Deal First Aid situated in their own building. Up until now they have been working out of the fire station. 

 

Mayor Cohen would like to beautify Norwood Avenue in partnership with Ocean Township. One project in progress is aimed at introducing plants that are more aesthetic and less intrusive. Mayor Cohen notes that despite bureaucratic red tape, the project is well on its way, and he takes pride in its progress.  

 

 

May Deal continue to prosper and be a source of blessing to all its residents.  

Community Highlights – Magen David Warriors Win the MYHSAL Yeshivah League Championship

 

The Magen David Warriors defeated their crosstown rivals in Yeshivah of Flatbush in an overtime thriller. The Warriors were led by a superb coaching staff in head coach Ike Dweck, and assistant coaches, Benny Mann and Morris Zarif. Each of the previous matchups with the YOF Falcons have been thrillers and this one was no different.

 

After facing a six point first-half deficit, the Warriors had to find a way to shift the momentum. They used their patented full-court press to cut the deficit to two and you felt the momentum shifting in the gym. After a back-and-forth fourth quarter, the Warriors were down by one with under a minute to go.

 

The Warriors found an answer in a Mark Sardar pull-up jumper with just under 30 seconds left. After a Flatbush free throw, the game went to overtime.

 

Flatbush struck first in overtime by converting a free throw, but Moses Smeke immediately followed with a pull-up jumper. Joshua Chabbott would hit a clutch three pointer to put Magen David up by four. The final score was 57-48.

 

Moses Smeke led all scorers with 13 points. Mark Sardar added 12 points and Jack Haber added 10. Phillip Sherr was awarded Finals MVP with stellar point guard play.

 

The Warriors won their second championship in five years and their hard work throughout the season had paid off. Magen David’s hard earned victory only came after putting in long, hard hours in the gym. Their comradery and work ethic makes them deserving of such an amazing accomplishment. After practicing since last March, the Warriors now owned a 35-2 record along with three tournament victories, and most importantly a Yeshiva League Championship!

Mastering Masechet Sukkah with Oraysa Amud V’Chazarah 

Thousands of Lomdei Oraysa from around the globe have just celebrated the completion of Masechet Yoma with the Oraysa Amud V’Chazarah  program that has revolutionized the Torah world.

On the first day of Hol Hamoed Pesach, Oraysa lomdim began Masechet Sukkah.

The timing of this next Masechta coincides beautifully with the calendar, as Oraysa is set to finish Masechta Sukkah just in time for Succot of 5785.

Participants describe the immense satisfaction that they receive from the innovative program that calls for the studying of one amud a day, five days a week, with Friday and Shabbat dedicated to reviewing the two-and-a-half blatt learnt over the week. With this format, each amud is learned and mastered.

The shiurim available on Oraysa’s website and hotline featuring top-notch magidei shiur in English, Yiddish, and Hebrew have also proven to be a major attraction. The handy Oraysa calendar is one user-friendly tool that many carry around that helps lomdim stay up-to-date and keep track of what they’ve learned. It is just one of the many resources offered by Oraysa.

It has become a common sight to see lomdim proudly bearing the highly popular “Yalkut Oraysa.” This booklet is a masterfully created work of marei mekomot, explanations, daily quizzes, and halacha l’ma’aseh that are utilized as important aids to enhance the learning of thousands of avid Lomdei Oraysa.

For anyone looking to acquire a Masechta and gain daily satisfaction and simcha in learning, Oraysa may just be the program you are looking for!

To join Oraysa for Masechet Sukkah or for more information, contact Oraysa at 914.8.ORAYSA or email info@oraysa.org

The Lighter Side – May 2024

Redecorating

What did the blanket say to the bed?

I’ve got you covered!

Sarah Dweck

Not in Stock

I once overheard one of my cashiers tell a customer, “We haven’t had it for a while, and I doubt we’ll be getting it soon.”

I quickly assured the customer that we would have whatever it was she wanted by next week.

After she left, I told the cashier, “Never tell the customer that we’re out of anything. Tell them we’ll have it next week. Now, what is it that she wanted?”

“Rain.”

Shlomo Schweky

Fixable Falls

A tour guide is showing a group of Israeli tourists the world famous Niagara Falls. “I’ll bet you don’t have anything like that in Israel!” boasts the tour guide.

“You are right, we don’t,” said one Israeli. “But we’ve definitely got engineers who could fix it.”

Melissa S.

New Hair Style

One day, while having coffee in an Upper East Side café, two elderly women were overheard talking.

First woman: “What did you do to your hair? It looks like a wig!”

Second woman: “Actually, it is a wig.”

First women: “Really?! You’d never know it.”

Jack V. Grazi

Wisdom of the Times

Living on Earth is expensive, but it does include a free trip around the sun every year.

How long a minute is depends on what side of the bathroom door you’re on.

Birthdays are good for you. The more you have, the longer you live.

Ever notice that the people who are late are often much jollier than the people who have to wait for them?

Working for Gd on earth does not pay much, but His retirement plan is out of this world.

Ron E.

Multilingual

An American soldier called his family from overseas. “Hi Mom, I learned to speak three languages since I’ve been deployed.” His mom responded, “Well, I hope one of them is better English so you can tell us all about it!”

 

Meryl T.

Dog Eat Dog

Abe and Irv were neighbors in a Florida retirement community, and both proud pet owners.

“My dog is so smart,” Abe bragged, “that every morning he waits for the paperboy to come around. He brings the kid his tip and then brings me the paper, along with my morning medicine.”

“I know,” said Irv.

“How could you know?” asked Abe.

“Because my dog told me!”

Sharon C.

Amazon Shipment

My husband received a shipment from Amazon and was very happy with what he got. To show his thanks, he said “Birkat H’Amazon.”

Yossi W.

Red Flags

After a severe storm walloped a town in Kentucky, the utility company sent a truck to the hardest hit area to get power restored. The worker was picking up fallen wires when a car horn blared at him.

“Hey,” he yelled at the driver. “Didn’t you see all those red flags, signs, and barriers back there?”

“Oh yes,” the driver replied. “I got by them all right. It’s your truck that’s in the way now.”

Jack V. Grazi

The Wake-up Call

Harry got a job at an economy motel working at the front desk. A guest checking in, a Mr. John Robinson, ordered a 6am wake-up call. The next morning, Mr. Robinson awoke before 6am, but Harry didn’t call until 6:30am.

“Good morning,” Harry said sheepishly. “This is your wake-up call.”

Annoyed, Mr. Robinson let Harry have it. “You were supposed to call me at 6am!” he complained. “What if I had a million-dollar deal to close this morning, and your oversight made me miss out on it?”

“Well, sir,” said Harry, “if you had a million-dollar deal to close, you wouldn’t be staying in this motel.”

David S.

Tax Talk

As income tax time approaches, did you ever notice that when you put the two words “THE” and “IRS” together it spells “THEIRS”?

Arlene R.

Kosher Menu

A man walked into a kosher seafood restaurant and asked, “Do you serve crabs here?”

The hostess, an older Jewish lady, looked at the man and said, “Sure, we serve anyone – where would you like to sit?”

David B.

Canine Complex

A man walked into the office of Dr. Seymour Epstein, a well-known psychiatrist, and sat down to explain his problem.

“Doctor Epstein, I’ve got this problem,” the man said. “I keep thinking that I’m a dog. It’s crazy. I don’t know what to do!”

“A common canine complex,” explained Dr. Epstein soothingly. “Relax. Come here and lie down on the couch.”

“Sorry Doc,” the man said nervously, “I’m not allowed up on the furniture.”

Micky K.

Only in America

Only in America do banks leave vault doors open and then chain the pens to the counters.

Only in America do they have drive-up ATM machines with Braille lettering.

Nathan H

Hearing Aid

Morris realizes that he needs a hearing aid so he goes to Zak’s Hearing Emporium to check out his options.

“How much do they cost?” Morris asks Zak.

“That depends,” Zak says. “They run from $2.00 to $2,000.00.”

“Let’s see the $2.00 model,” says Morris.

Zak puts the device around Morris’ neck. “You just stick this button in your ear and run this little string down to your pocket,” he instructs.

“How does it work?” asks Morris.

“For $2.00 it doesn’t work,” Zak replies. “But when people see you wearing it, they’ll talk louder!”

Joe R.

Homework Helper

Teacher: Jacob, your composition on “My Dog” is exactly the same as your brother’s. Did you copy his?

Billy: No, teacher. It’s just the same dog!

  1. G.

National Colors

An American and a Dutchman were talking.

“What does your flag look like?” asked the American.

“It has three stripes,” replied the Dutchman, “red, white, and blue. We say they have a connection with our taxes – we get red when we talk about them, white when we get our tax bills, and we pay them until we’re blue in the face.”

“That’s just how it is in my country,” replied the American, “only we see stars, too!”

Yona F.

The Bakery Sign

After starting a new diet I altered my drive to the gym to avoid passing my favorite bakery. I accidentally drove by the bakery this morning and as I approached, there in the window were a host of goodies. I felt this was no accident, so I prayed: “If it was Divinely destined that I should have any of those delicious goodies, show me a sign in the form of an empty parking space right on the block of the bakery.”

And sure enough, my prayers were answered… On the twelfth time around the block, there it was!

Jonathan F.

Riddles – May 2024

RIDDLES

RIDDLE: What Am I?

Submitted by: Sion K.

 

I sound so cool and people all over the world come again and again to see me. Most people spend years with me – but you can’t be too old or young to come see me, unless you decide to make me part of your career. I can also help make you smarter and wealthier. What am I?

 

Last Month’s Riddle: Water Ways

The rungs of a 10-foot ladder attached to a ship are one foot apart. If the water is rising at the rate of one foot an hour, how long will it take until the water covers the ladder?

 

Solution: It will never cover the ladder because as the water rises, so will the floating ship.

 

Solved by:  David Cohen, H. Soleimani, The Blum family, Linda Grazi, Molly T., The Big Cheese, Orly Mamrout, and The Shmulster.

 

Junior Riddle: Sleepless in Brooklyn

Submitted by: Arlene N.

 

How is it possible for a person to go seven days without any sleep?

 

Last Month’s Junior Riddle: What Am I ?

I can be cracked; I can be made. I can be told; I can be played. What am I?

 

Solution: A Joke!

 

Solved by:. Orly Mamrout, David Cohen, Family Blum, H. Soleimani, Big Mike, Alex D., The Shmulster, Jacob F., and Linda Grazi.

Mabrouk – May 2024

Births – Baby Boy 

Jonathan & Liat Zehavi 

Steven & Celia Jemal 

Ezra & Frieda Bibi 

David & Marilyn Shamula 

Isaac & Denise Steinberg 

Rabbi Eli & Danielle Cohen 

Charles & Stella Saka 

 

Births – Baby Girl 

Jack & Raquel Alboucai 

Mr. & Mrs. Reuven Jurrist 

Ralph & Rose Mizrahi 

Nathan & Jessica Franco 

Ralph & Molly Betesh 

Chuck & Renee Seruya 

Jack & Esther Hanon 

Mr. & Mrs. Morris Kairey 

 

 

Engagements  

Abie Tuachi to Dee Shammah 

Joel Nasar to Teera Ades 

Hal Doueck to Naomi Moses 

David Rahmey to Joyce Shalom 

Douglas Sitt to Manie Dweck 

Joe Levy to Danielle Franco 

Joey Harary to Jacqueline Beyda 

Steve Saff to Ruth Tawil 

 

 

Weddings  

Ikey Abady to Robin Beyda 

Mordechai Semah to Mazal Cohen  

 

 

Once Upon A Thyme – Chili Sweet Potato Salad

Ever since tasting this chili sweet potato salad at our cousin’s Shabbat meal in Israel a few
months ago, we’ve been hooked. Although delicious on its own, sweet chili sauce gives sweet
potato a slight kick, mild enough for those who don’t like spice. Chock full of fiber and
antioxidants, sweet potatoes are a satisfying and nutritious food choice. Along with other orange-colored vegetables, sweet potatoes are rich in Beta Carotene and Vitamin A, which build our immune systems and support good vision. This salad is always quick to finish – so be sure to double for a crowd.
 

4 medium sweet potatoes
½ cup Canola oil
1 tbsp salt
3 cloves minced garlic
1 cup sweet chili sauce
2 tbs sesame seeds
 

Optional:
½ cup craisins
Pumpkin seeds
Candied walnuts, chopped 

  1. Peel and cube sweet potato into ½ inch pieces
  2. Place in an oven-safe tray, add salt, drizzle evenly with oil.
  3. Cover and bake on 350 degrees Fahrenheit for 20 minutes. Uncover and bake on 400 degrees for another 15-20 minutes until outer edges become crisp. Remove from oven and let it cool.
  4. Meanwhile, mix sweet chili sauce, garlic, sesame seeds, and optional ingredients in a
    container. Add cooked sweet potato cubes and toss. Keep refrigerated until ready to serve.
     

Recipe, photo and styling by Adina Yaakov, Registered Dietitian Nutritionist. For more recipes visit www.OnceUponAThyme.Co
 

 

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Animal Experimentation in Halacha

Rabbi Yehuda Finchas 

 

 

 

Ikey shared a serious dilemma. He is a medical student and his research entails experimentation on mice. Ikey is very fond of animals and asked me: “Rabbi, I know that our experiments may lead to a breakthrough in scientific understanding or even to a cure for a disease. But on the other hand, there is a fair bit of pain caused to the mice and other rodents. What should I do? Isn’t this a problem of tzaar baalei haim?”   

 

Moshe is an animal trainer who trains dogs to sniff out illegal substances for the police force. The training involves some discomfort and even cruelty to the dogs. He wanted to make sure that what he was doing was halachically acceptable. 

 

Animal experimentation has been vital to advancing medical science. Many life-saving medications and treatments were developed based on animal experimentation. On the other hand, causing pain to animals is biblically prohibited according to the majority of the poskim and is expressed through a number of different mitzvot. The Torah commands us to help unload the burden from a friend’s donkey (Bava Metzia 31a). Furthermore, “If you see your enemy’s donkey lying under its burden would you refrain from helping him? You shall surely help along with him” (Shemot 23:5). And one may not muzzle an ox while it plows a field (Devarim 25:4) as this can cause distress to the animal. In fact, we must be so careful in taking good care of our animals, that we must feed our animals before eating ourselves (Berachot 40a, S.A. OC 167:6, Kaf Hahaim 50). 

 

This is an area where we are taught to be particularly careful.  Rebbi was punished for his lack of compassion to a calf and his suffering only ended when he later had the opportunity to show mercy to an animal (Bava Metzia 85a). In contrast, Moshe Rabbenu was chosen to be the leader of Am Yisrael due to the compassion he showed to animals (Shemot Raba 2:2) [“If he can show compassion to an animal, he can show compassion to man.”]. 

 

Hacham Ovadia, zt”l, has numerous responsa on proper treatment of animals. In Yehave Daat (3:66) he prohibits bullfighting and expands that this even includes attending a bullfight as a spectator. He quotes the Noda Beyehuda who prohibits hunting for recreational purposes. “We only find the title, ‘hunter’ with regards to Nimrod and Esav (Beresheet 10:9, 25:27). But this is not the way of Avraham, Isaac, and Jacob.”  

 

And in Yabia Omer (YD, 9:3) Hacham Ovadia prohibits force feeding geese (which involves significant discomfort and even torture) and encouraged people to ban the sale of foie gras. At the same time, one may certainly visit a zoo, “For a person’s soul is moved by seeing the works of Hashem, as it says, “How great are Your works, Gd! All of them were made with wisdom (Tehillim 104:24).” Hacham Ovadia quotes how Maran Hida visited a zoo when he was in London to observe Hashem’s creations. 

 

Hacham Ovadia (Yabia Omer YD, 9:32) explains further that the prohibition of tzaar baalei haim is defined as inflicting unnecessary pain on animals. Consequently, he permits using doves in treating jaundice, as tzaar baalei haim does not apply when the action is necessary for human benefit. According to this principle, it is similarly permissible to perform clinical tests on animals for the purpose of developing medications and understanding disease in humans (Shevut Yaakov 3:71), always being careful not to cause any additional harm than is absolutely necessary. 

 

The Rishon Lezion, Hacham Yitzhak Yosef (Shu”t Rishon Lezion 1:5), was asked by the head of the Israeli police if they can train dogs to detect illegal narcotics, where the process would involve a certain level of suffering to these dogs. The Rishon Lezion, based on the principles above, ruled that if absolutely necessary, this would be permitted in order to ensure these dangerous narcotics would be out of harm’s way. However, any suffering to the dogs should be limited as much as possible. 

 

In conclusion, one must take great care not to cause cruelty to animals, however, as per Ikey’s and Moshe’s questions, since what they are doing is for human benefit it is permitted. However, they must try and minimize any harm as much as possible.  

 

 

Rabbi Yehuda Finchas is a worldwide expert, lecturer and author on Medical Halacha. He heads the Torat Habayit Medical Halacha Institute. His latest book is “Brain Death in Halacha and the Tower of Babel Syndrome.” To contact Rabbi Finchas, email rabbi@torathabayit.com.

One on One with Camille Saka

Ellen Geller Kamaras 

 

“I always tried to be conscious about not allowing my work to infringe on family time. Having a home office gave my children a bird’s eye view into what I do. I hope they learned that women can be valued for more than just their roles as wife and mother, that parents are people too, that Hashem gives us talents and it’s our job to use them to the best of our ability.”  ~~ Camille ~~ 

 

 

  

It gives me great pleasure to introduce you to Camille Salama Saka, the talented and poised founder of Fusion Graphix Design.  

 

Camille is the daughter-in-law of the late Charlie Saka, a”h, a beloved humanitarian and philanthropist. Camille is proudly carrying on his legacy. 

 

Two of Camille’s other family members were featured in “Woman to Woman” – her younger sister, Jacklyn Lahav, a certified nurse-midwife, and Camille’s niece, Brenda Saka Antebi an event planner. Both women, like Camille, are striking in their commitment to the community   

 

Camille’s Story 

 

Camille Saka, née Salama, was born in Brooklyn, to Barbara Shreety Cohen and Maurice Salama. She is the oldest of five children.  

 

“We lived upstairs from my maternal grandparents and within a block or two of all my aunts and uncles.  We were a very close-knit family.”    

 

Barbara, of Egyptian and Syrian descent, is American born and Maurice is one of the fortunate children from Egypt who was rescued by Rabbi Avraham Kalmanowitz, the founder of Mirrer Yeshiva, in the late 1950s.  Maurice, only 12, arrived in Brooklyn with his sixteen-year-old brother. Their parents followed later.   

 

Camille is extremely close with her siblings. 

 

Camille attended Yeshiva of Flatbush for both elementary and high school, graduating in 1989. She was an A student with a strong work ethic. “I was your classic Type A personality, very meticulous with detail and organized, but I also had a creative streak.  These two attributes sometimes worked against each other.” 

 

A quiet and serious child, Camille had a lot of responsibility helping her mother with her siblings.  She remembers helping pack school lunches and get the little ones to bed. She attributes her work ethic to her role as the eldest child. 

 

Post High School 

 

After high school, Camille began her studies in the Brooklyn College Scholars Program. She was good at creative writing and math and wondered what career path would allow her to use both sides of her brain.  Camille tried fine arts and architecture, but neither was a good fit.  She chose marketing because it felt like it was creative side of business. Camille transferred to NYU Stern School of Business. 

 

Then Came Marriage 

 

Camille met her naseeb, Raymond Saka, four years her senior, at the age of nineteen. Once married, the couple moved to Deal, New Jersey.  Camille was planning on finishing her bachelor’s degree at NYU.  When she became pregnant, the commute was harder than she expected, so she put college on hold. 

 

Camille and Raymond live in Oakhurst, NJ, and were blessed with three daughters and one son. Their children all attended Hillel Yeshiva, spent a year in Israel before college, and are now married. 

 

Her Core 

 

Camille says that people describe her as being on the quiet side.  “I’m the introvert in my marriage.”  Camille is also calm, graceful, self-aware, and confident in her beliefs and abilities.  She is the embodiment of the expression “still waters run deep.”  

 

“I’m organized and dependable, but also creative. I grew up with focus and attention to detail accompanied by a strong desire to create. I’m good at multitasking, but I need downtime to re-charge, or I get overwhelmed.” 

 

Family and Career 

 

When Camille’s second child was 18 months old, Camille returned to college, attending Monmouth University part-time.  “I earned my degree but had no clue how to apply it in a way that was compatible with motherhood.”  

 

Once all her children were in school, Camille volunteered for the PTA and was drawn to projects with a graphic design component.  After working with graphic designers on many projects, Camille recognized that she would rather do the design work herself.  She began to teach herself, but needed more instruction.  Attending grad school in person felt too daunting with young kids.  A friend recommended online courses.  Camille earned a master’s certification online. She says, “It was the best decision. I took courses while the kids were in school or in bed. This became the model of how I would run my business.” 

 

After completing her master’s, Camille decided to charge for the services that she was already doing as a volunteer. She started with friends and family members.  She called her company Fusion Grafix Design, with the tag line, “a fusion of communication and design.”  Camille explained that graphic design’s intention is to communicate a message, and that is done effectively through good design. 

 

Camille is the sole designer and does many projects for community organizations, schools, synagogues, private parties, and start-up businesses, many of which are owned by women. 

 

“I have a home office, which affords me flexibility. I was present when I was raising my kids and scheduled my hours around their needs.” 

 

Passion for Graphics 

 

Camille is energized by using her creativity for a purpose. “Everything you see or read is influenced by the way it’s presented. Good design, like good writing, makes all the difference in how a message is received and perceived.” 

 

Her biggest challenge is protecting her work hours. Although she built her business to enable flexibility in her personal life, she needs to protect her work hours, too. “It’s not always easy to explain that I have a deadline and can’t ignore work just to do something fun.” 

 

On the flip side, Camille needs to remind herself that she will do better work if she is well-rested, rather than staying up late to finish one more project.   

 

Secret to Success 

 

Camille described four qualities that are her secret to success:  being a good listener to help clients determine their needs, adhering to deadlines (since most projects are time-sensitive), having basic technical knowledge of printing and production (“If your design doesn’t translate from digital to physical when needed, it’s useless.”), and keeping the lines of communication open.  

“Always reply to messages, even if you can’t act on them immediately. Your client will see that they have your attention, and that you are reliable.” 

 

Family Support and Balance 

 

Camille could not have created her business and raised her children without her husband’s support and help.  “Raymond never begrudged the time I gave to work. When the kids were younger, this sometimes meant him taking them out on a Sunday without me.  Raymond is very involved in the community, and we are both flexible with each other’s time and needs.” 

 

Camille credits her parents, siblings, and in-laws for supporting and influencing her in their own individual ways.  “They encouraged me to explore various creative outlets, led by example about being an involved and productive community member, and the importance of doing your best and striving for excellence.  They always believed in me, even when I didn’t believe in myself, encouraged me to do more, even when I thought it was too hard, and made me feel valued, even when I doubted my own value.” 

 

Community 

 

Community involvement is central to Camille’s family. She counts many community schools and synagogues among her steady clients.  She is an ardent supporter of the State of Israel. She and Raymond joined a mission in February, a trip she will never forget. 

 

Unwinding 

 

Camille starts her day with a yoga or Pilates class.  “It sets the tone for the rest of my day.”  She adores playing with her grandchildren – getting on the floor to do puzzles or having a silly dance party. 

 

Passions and Achievements 

 

Camille is proud to have found her passion after a long journey and to have turned it into a business she loves, that allows her to give back to the community.  

 

She is grateful to Hashem for giving her a wonderful husband, children she is proud of, and a continually growing family. “My children’s spouses are like my own children. My grandchildren have taught me to live in the moment. I make a conscious effort to plug into my playful side when I am with them.” 

 

Career Advice  

 

Explore and be flexible. “You don’t need to figure it all out by age of twenty. Take classes you don’t know you’ll like. Volunteer for different hesed projects. You never know what will strike a spark. Be open minded and patient with yourself but always continue to grow.” 

 

 

You can reach Camille at csaka@fusiongrafixdesign.com 

www.instagram.com/fusiongrafixdesign/  or 732-673-4490. 

 

 

 

 

                

 

Ellen Geller Kamaras, CPA/MBA, is an International Coach Federation (ICF) Associate Certified Coach.  Her coaching specialties include life, career, and dating coaching.  Ellen is active in her community and is currently the Vice-President of Congregation Bnai Avraham in Brooklyn Heights.  She can be contacted at ellen@lifecoachellen.com(www.lifecoachellen.com).