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Burger Bites

A Bite of History

The hamburger made its first recorded appearance in America at the Louisiana Purchase Exhibition in St. Louis, Missouri, in 1904.

Chef Shiri Says…   

Use cold hands if you can. This prevents the meat from heating up and becoming rubbery. (You can just wash your hands with cold water first.)

The Jewish World of Wonders presents…

Creative Cooking with

Chef Shiri

Kids – See if you have what it takes to become a Junior Chef!

Utensils Needed:

Large mixing bowl

Parchment paper

Baking sheet

Frying pan

Knife

Spatula

Ingredients:

9 ounces ground beef

¼ cup fresh bread crumbs

1½ table spoons olive oil

½ garlic clove, crushed

1 tablespoon onion, finely chopped

1 egg

1 teaspoon dried oregano

Olive oil, for frying

To Serve:

16 mini hamburger buns

2 tomatoes, sliced

Cole slaw

14-ounce jar of tomato sauce

Sliced pickles

Let’s Get Started!

Adult assistance required!

DIRECTIONS:

  • Line a baking sheet with parchment paper, and set aside.
  • Combine all the ingredients for the burgers in a large bowl. Use your hands to mix everything together.
  • Form the mixture into balls and then flatten them. Place on baking sheet. Wash your hands well.
  • Chill the burgers in the refrigerator for 30 minutes.
  • Prepare to fry the burgers. Place the frying pan on the stove. Add olive oil in the pan.
  • Ask an adult to fry the burgers over medium heat.  Fry for 5 minutes on each side.
  • Remove the pan from the heat. Let the burgers rest for a few minutes before serving, which lets the juices settle.
  • Carefully cut the buns in half. Fill each bun with a cooked hamburger, a tomato slice, Cole slaw, sliced pickles, and tomato sauce.

Makes 16 Mini Burgers!

The Tomato Palette 

True, red is the most common color among all tomato varieties, but it certainly isn’t the only one. You can find tomatoes in shades of yellow, orange, green, pink, purple, white, and even black! 

Large mixing bowl

Parchment paper

Baking sheet

Frying pan

Knife

Spatula

Ingredients:

9 ounces ground beef

¼ cup fresh bread crumbs

1½ table spoons olive oil

½ garlic clove, crushed

1 tablespoon onion, finely chopped

1 egg

1 teaspoon dried oregano

Olive oil, for frying

To Serve:

16 mini hamburger buns

2 tomatoes, sliced

Cole slaw

14-ounce jar of tomato sauce

Sliced pickles

Community Highlights – Flatbush Shomrim Step Up After Anti-Semitic Attack in Brooklyn

A troubling incident in Brooklyn that occurred last month has once again highlighted the importance of standing up to hate – and the power of community action. A Jewish man was assaulted and called a hateful slur at a Dunkin’ Donuts on Flatbush Avenue and Avenue L. The attack, believed to be fueled by anti-Semitism, is a harsh reminder that acts of hate still happen far too often, even in diverse neighborhoods like Flatbush.

The attacker lashed out without warning or reason, showing just how dangerous unchecked hatred can be. But what happened next shows the strength and unity of the community in the face of hate.

The Flatbush Shomrim acted fast. As soon as they were alerted to the assault, they mobilized to help track down the suspect. Thanks to their quick thinking and teamwork, the person responsible was identified and turned over to the NYPD.

The Shomrim’s response wasn’t just impressive – it was essential. Their presence sends a powerful message: hate has no place here, and the community looks out for each other. In situations where every second counts, the Flatbush Shomrim are often the first to respond, working closely with law enforcement to keep our neighborhoods safe.

MDY Kindergarten Students Celebrate Yom Ha’asmaut

Last month, the Kindergarten students of Magen David Yeshivah were  busy learning about Medinat Yisrael and preparing for Yom Ha’asmaut.

On that day, the students visited various parts of Israel in each classroom. Of course, before any of them can visit Israel, they need passports. The students filled out their own passports, including first and last names, hair color, eye color, and age. They wrote their place of origin (U.S.A.) and their destination (Israel), and drew their own passport pictures.

Additionally, they have been reading a special book about Israel called My Special Flag by Barbara Berl. Each student received his/her own copy without illustrations. As each page was read, they discussed what the illustrations should include, and then they colored away.

Illustrations are such an important part of books, and what better way to hone in on the details of a story than to illustrate those details. It was a great literacy activity that was tied into our celebration of Israel’s birthday!

Renewal Reaches Next Plateau of 1,300 Kidney Transplants

Is this really possible?

For those of us on the Renewal email list, it seems like we are getting an email almost every day about another kidney or liver transplant being done. Many times it’s more than one a day!

Last year, they did 158 transplants, which was a new record for them. And this year they’re already on pace to break that record. They perform close to 70 percent of transplants done in New York, which is the hub of all transplant centers. Where are all these people coming from and a better question is, before Renewal – where did they all go?

As Renewal reaches the next plateau of 1,300 transplants, we can only stand back and be in awe of what they have been fortunate to do.
Our rabbis tell us that if you save a life it’s as if you saved a world. Renewal is saving galaxies.
For info on how to test to be a potential kidney donor go to www.renewal.org.

Living Emunah – The Only Healer

Rabbi David Ashear

Hashem created man with a complex and ingenious body. We have miracles taking place inside us every second of the day. One job our eyes do, in conjunction with the brain, is to visually discern features and objects in the world. Hashem gave us eyes in order to enjoy the beautiful world He created. There is no way we can ever thank Him enough for that gift alone.

A woman who had vision problems for many years and then was healed told her children, “I get so much pleasure from just looking at the little soap bubbles in the air while I wash the dishes. What a blessing to be able to see that!”

In Eretz Yisrael, a boy who had been born with a debilitating disease that took his sight, miraculously was healed shortly before his bar mitzvah. His name is Netanel Davush, and he has a beautiful voice. Now he composes songs of praise and sings them to Hashem for His abundant kindness.

When our bodies are functioning properly, we have to be thankful to Hashem. We also must know, however, that if something, Heaven forbid, malfunctions, it is also being done with awesome Divine Providence. Hashem decides what goes wrong, when it should go wrong, and for how long the problem will last. From the smallest ache to a life-threatening disease, nothing ever happens randomly. It is all controlled by Hashem.

If someone wakes up in the morning with a stiff neck, it is because Hashem decided that he needs a stiff neck now. Whether it is a backache, a knee problem, tooth pain – whatever it is – it was calculated, measured, and given by Hashem with love.

Chazal tell us that before any sickness is given, Hashem decides everything about it: when it will come, when it will leave, and through which medicine it will be cured. This means that the doctor visit is Heaven decreed. The medication we end up taking is Heaven decreed. At times they are effective, and at times they are not. It all depends on Hashem, as the pasuk says (Shemot 15:26), “I am Hashem , your Healer.”

Further, it says (Tehillim 107:20), “[When] Hashem dispatches His word, then we are cured.” We have to do our hishtadlut and go to the doctor only because Hashem seeks to remain concealed in this world. In truth, the doctor actually has no say as to whether the patient will be healed. When Hashem makes a decree that a person should have a certain ailment, the doctor is not able to change that decree. Medication is not able to change that decree. Our prayers and good deeds, however, can change the decree.

The Tziz Eliezer writes that although Hashem decides how long a sickness will last, our prayers can bring the healing earlier than He initially decreed. Whenever a person has any type of illness, it is comforting to know that it came because that is what Hashem wanted. It was calculated and given for a great reason, and we have access to the only One Who can take it away. He loves to hear from us, and wants us to ask Him to remove it.

Let us strengthen our emunah and see through the natural way of the world to realize Who is really in charge, and to understand that sickness and health are totally in the Hands of Hashem. As it says in Devarim (32:39), “I struck down and I will heal.”

May Hashem send all sick people a complete and quick recovery! Amen.

From the Files of the Bet Din

The Case

On the Sneak

Bobby, Jacob, and Al were equal partners in a residential property that they purchased and renovated. Each of the three managed a different role in the partnership, which included construction work, decorating, and financing. The first serious buyer offered 2.4 million dollars for the property, enabling a distribution of 800 thousand dollars to each owner. Al rejected the offer and told the buyer that he was unwilling to sell for less than 2.7 million. However, the buyer discovered that Bobby and Jacob were ready to close at 2.4 million. Realizing that Al was the one holding back the sale, the buyer approached Al and secretly offered him 100 thousand dollars cash if he goes to contract for 2.4 million. Al agreed after making a simple calculation that the 100 thousand would bring his total to 900 thousand, the amount he was holding out for. As planned, the property sold for 2.4 million dollars, which was divided by the three partners, and Alan secretly received an additional 100 thousand dollars in cash from the buyer. Eventually, Bobby and Jacob became aware of the additional payment when reading an email sent by the buyer alluding to transfer of the cash. In Bet Din Bobby and Jacob originally requested to reverse the entire sale but afterwards claimed monetary compensation for their loss. Al defended that they readily all agreed to sell for 2.4 million, and the extra 100 thousand he received was independent of the selling price. Are Bobby and Jacob entitled to compensation?How should the Bet Din rule and why?

Torah Law

According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, one who collects payment for a property he jointly owns with others, is viewed as a representative acting on behalf of his partners. Hence, it stands to reason that if one for whatever reason collects extra funds for a jointly owned property, he is required to split the additional proceeds with his partners.

Additionally, according to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, it is illegal to withhold proceeds collected from another’s principal loss. This ruling is deduced from a classic case recorded by our sages of the Mishna. By rule of the Mishna, a borrower of a cow is liable to pay its owner in case of death caused by accidental mishap.  The borrower is required to pay the owner directly even if he did not borrow the cow from the owner, but rather from a third party who was temporarily renting the cow. Although a renter is not liable for the cow’s death in the event of an accidental mishap, he may not plead exemption to the cow’s owner in order to collect from the borrower. Although the renter extended to the borrower his usage rights of the cow, the renter is not the cow’s owner and is not entitled to collect payment for its loss. The borrower is instructed by law to pay the cow’s owner directly since the owner is the party that sustained a loss of his principal.

Therefore, in the instance in which a joint property is sold, all the proceeds paid for the property are viewed as compensation for its principal value. Hence, one of the partners is not entitled to withhold any of the funds paid for the property and is required to distribute the proceeds equally.

Obviously, when substantial sums of money are transferred from one party to the next, a logical explanation for such generosity is in order. Additionally, even in the event of the transfer of much smaller sums, nevertheless, when the recipient conceals such a transfer from his partners it is an indication of fraudulent activity. People have tendencies to justify unacceptable behavior when a financial gain is concerned. One who conceals information from his partners knowing that if the information is revealed it would clearly raise an objection is dishonest.

It is beyond the shadow of a doubt that when a buyer secretly pays an additional $100,000 to one of the owners of a joint owned property for its purchase, the payment is for the property’s inherent value. Thus, the funds are to be distributed between the partners. As mentioned, even if the sum collected is minimal, a partner is viewed as a representative of the group of owners and the money is to be distributed equally.

VERDICT:  An Order for Distribution

Our Bet Din ordered Al to distribute the $100,000 he received equally between his partners. As mentioned in Torah law, Al is viewed as a representative of Bobby and Jacob when he collected the additional payment from the buyer. As a general rule, one who collects payment for a property he owns jointly, is acting on behalf of the partnership. Unless specific terms in the partners operating agreement dictate otherwise, all monies received are to be distributed equally. Additionally, it is obvious that the extra $100,000 that was paid by the buyer was for the purchase of the property and was not given to Al as a generous gift. The money was paid because of the inherent value of the property. Thus, Al has no right to withhold the principal value of the property from his partners. Before Al paid $33,000 to both Bobby and Jacob, our Bet Din chastised him for his dishonest and unacceptable behavior.

In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H

YOU BE THE JUDGE

A Timely Collection?

Jack extended a loan of $10,000 to his brother-in-law Nathan nearly five years ago when Nathan was out of a job. Since then, Nathan’s financial status has well improved, though he never responded to Jack’s request to pay his outstanding debt. Nearly a year later at a family wedding, Nathan noticed that Jack was sporting a new wrist watch. Nathan inquired about purchasing Jack’s previous watch and Jack replied that he was interested in selling it for ten thousand dollars. The very next day he gave Jack ten thousand dollars cash for its purchase. Jack received the cash payment and informed Nathan that he was collecting the payment on account of the ten-thousand-dollar unpaid debt he was owed. Nathan was upset that he was shrewdly lured into such a predicament and pledged to bring an additional ten thousand dollars the following evening to pay back his debt. He told Jack that although he already purchased the watch, he agreed that it is to serve as collateral until he brings him the money owed. Jack responded that the watch is not for sale, and that he already collected the money owed. The two brothers-in-law brought their case to our Bet Din.

Is Jack required to accept another $10,000 and sell Nathan his watch? Can Jack refuse to sell him his watch after he received the cash from Nathan under false pretenses? How should the Bet Din rule and why?

Riddles – May 2025

RIDDLE:  What Am I?

Submitted by:  Lauren R.

I have a big mouth, and I am also quite loud. I am NOT a gossip – but I do get involved with everyone’s dirty business. What am I?

Last Month’s Riddle: A Long Line

You draw a line. Without touching the line, how do you make it a longer line?

Solution:  Draw a short line next to it and now it’s the longer line!

Solved by:  Haim S., Mrs. Powerpoint, Nissim Matalon, Steve Salem, David E., Carol Ashkenazie, The Shmulster, Moshe G., and Big Mike.

JUNIOR RIDDLE:  The Name Game

Submitted by: Richard B.

Jimmy’s mother had three children. The first was called April, the second was called June. Can you figure out the name of the third child?

Last Month’s Junior Riddle: Cookie Mystery

An elementary school teacher wanted to give her students a snack. She had ten cookies in her cookie jar – which was perfect – since she had ten students in her class. The teacher gave one cookie to each student, but still managed to keep one in the jar. How did she do it without breaking any of the cookies in half?

Solution: She gave the tenth student the jar with one cookie left in it!

Solved by: Nissim Matalon, Clem Naggar, Diana Haddad, Haim Soleimani, Aaron Cohen, Mrs. Powerpoint, Joshua B., Steve Salem, Big Mike, and Marc Esses.

The Lighter Side – May 2025

Picky Parrot

Mr. Rabinowitz is traveling to Israel. The customs officer asks him what he has in his heavy suitcase and he responds, “Birdfeed for my parrot.”

The officer is still suspicious and opens it. It’s all coffee! “Didn’t you say it was birdfeed for your parrot?” asks the officer.

Mr. Rabinowitz responds, “If she doesn’t eat it, that’s her problem!”

Morris T.

A Three-Hour Tour

A passenger ship pushed off from the port in Haifa and traveled a route around the Mediterranean Sea. During the trip, one passenger noticed a bearded man on a small island who was shouting desperately and waving his hands.

“Who is that?” the passenger asked the captain.

“I have no idea,” replied the captain, “but he seems like a strange fellow.”

“Why do you says that?” asked the passenger.

“Because every time we pass by this small island, he keeps yelling at us like a maniac!”

David H.

Aw... Nuts

Rabbi Epstein is known for practicing the mitzvah of bikur cholim – visiting the sick. One day, Rabbi Epstein is visiting Mrs. Hyman who was battling a nasty flu. As he sits on the couch he notices a large bowl of peanuts on the coffee table. “Mind if I have a few?” he asks.

“No, not at all!” Mrs. Hyman replies.

They chat for an hour and as Rabbi Epstein stands to leave, he realizes that instead of eating just a few peanuts, he emptied most of the bowl. “I’m terribly sorry for eating all your peanuts, I really just meant to eat a few.”

“Oh, that’s all right,” Mrs. Hyman says. “Ever since I lost my teeth all I can do is suck the chocolate off them.”

Sherry K.

Lumberjack Needed

A large, well-established Canadian lumber camp advertised that they were looking for a good lumberjack. The very next day, Avrumel, a skinny little teenager, showed up at the camp with his axe, and knocked on the head lumberjack’s door.

The head lumberjack took one look at little Avrumel and told him to leave. “Just give me a chance to show you what I can do,” said Avrumel.

“Okay, see that giant redwood over there?” said the lumberjack. “Take your axe and go cut it down.”

Avrumel headed for the tree, and in five minutes he was back knocking on the lumberjack’s door.

“I cut the tree down,” said Avrumel. The lumberjack couldn’t believe his eyes and said, “Where did you get the skill to chop down trees like that?”

“In the Sahara Forest,” replied little Avrumel.

“You mean the Sahara Desert,” said the lumberjack.

Avrumel laughed and answered back, “Oh sure, that’s what they call it now!”

Maurice A.

Penny for Your Thoughts

One night Rivkah found her husband Shmuel standing over their newborn baby’s crib.

Silently, Rivkah watched him. As Shmuel stood looking down at the sleeping infant, she saw on his face a mixture of emotions: disbelief, doubt, delight, amazement, enchantment, skepticism.

Touched by his unusual display of deep emotions, Rivkah felt her eyes grow moist.

She approached her husband. “A penny for your thoughts,” she whispered in his ear lovingly.

“It’s amazing,” Shmuel replied. “I just can’t see how anybody can make a crib like that for only $39.95!”

Marlene F.

One Tough Customer

Mrs. Rosenbaum was known for being a difficult customer at the local grocery store.

“Give me two pounds of oranges,” she asked the saleswoman, “But I need you to wrap every orange up in separate pieces of paper.”

“And three pounds of cherries, and wrap up every one in a separate piece of paper, too.” The saleswoman obliged.

“And what is that over there?” Mrs. Rosenbaum asked pointing to a bushel in the corner. “Those are raisins,” said the saleswoman, “but they are not for sale!”

Nancy B.

Bad Credit

A customer comes into Moshe’s Furniture Warehouse and wants to pay for his purchase by check. The clerk just looks at him and points to the sign on the wall:

“There are two very good reasons why we won’t take your check. Either we don’t know you, or we DO know you.”

Ralph S

Worried About Benny

Mrs. Stern was worried that her three-year-old son Benny was unusually precocious, and took him to a psychiatrist.

“Right,” said the shrink, “We’ll just try a few simple tests.” To Benny, he said, “Say a few words – anything that comes into your mind.”

Benny turned to his mother and asked, “Does he want logically constructed sentences or just a few random and purely isolated words?”

Laurie G.

A Real Bargain

“Good morning, sir,” Morty says as he greets the salesman. “I came to this store because I don’t like to bargain.”

“Well, you’ve come to the right place,” says the salesman. “We’re strictly a one-price outfit.”

“Excellent. I like that blue suit over there. How much is it?”

“Like I said, I don’t fool around with bargaining. So, I’m not going to ask $250 for this suit, or even $235. I’m going to give you my best price: $220.”

“Well, you’re my kind of businessman,” Morty says. “That’s why I’m here. I won’t fool around and offer you $160 for that suit, or even $175. I’ll give you $200 for it.”

“You can have it for $210.”

“I’ll take it!”

Jacky K.

Doctor Visit

Mr. Levy lives in Tel Aviv and rushes to see his doctor, looking very worried and all strung out.

He rattles off, “Dr. Cohen, take a look at me. When I woke up this morning, I looked at myself in the mirror and saw my hair all wiry and frazzled up, my skin was all wrinkled and pasty, my eyes were blood-shot and bugging out, and I had this corpse-like look on my face! What’s wrong with me, Doctor?”

Dr. Cohen looks him over for a couple of minutes, then calmly says, “Well, Mr. Levy, I do have some good news for you. There’s nothing wrong with your eyesight.”

Eddie M.

Bedtime Ritual

Little Shloimie Rothbart had just been put to bed for the umpteenth time and his mother’s patience was wearing thin. “If I hear you call ‘Mommy’ one more time, you will be punished,” she warned him sternly.

For a while it was quiet, and then she heard a small voice call from the top of the stairs, “Mrs. Rothbart? Can I have a drink of water?”

Ronnie C.

Inventions & Innovators

Inventions are the ingenious gadgets and machines that have made our lives a little more fun, interesting, and easier. Real inventions are the things that we did not think were possible yesterday, and yet, it would be difficult to live without today. From the tiny paperclip to the massive jet engine, every month we will explore the history behind our world’s most famous inventions and learn about the innovators that designed them.

This month we explore the history behind an invention that most of us likely just take for granted…

SUPER GLUE

As a publicity stunt, a Russian program risked a man’s life, just to prove the strength of a new type of Super Glue. They had their producer hanging upside down below a hot air balloon, with nothing but the glue to hold him in place!

The crew glued the soles of the producer’s shoes to a wooden board attached to the underside of the balloon, before flying it up to a height of 5,000 feet. Thankfully, the glue proved to be strong and the man did not fall.

A surprisingly large number of inventions owe a degree of unexpected good fortune to their success. This was certainly the case with the world-famous Super Glue which is found in most households. As a matter of fact., Super Glue was invented by accident, not once – but twice!

In 1942, chemist Dr. Harry Wesley Coover Jr. was attempting to make clear plastic gun sights to be put on guns used by Allied soldiers in WWII. Dr. Coover was experimenting with a form of cryanacrylic which while clear, proved unsuited for the role as it stuck to anything it came into contact with. Dr. Coover abandoned that formulation completely as it obviously wasn’t suitable for his current project, being too sticky.

Nine Years Later…

Nine years later, in 1951, Dr. Coover was working at Eastman Kodak. He was the supervisor of a project looking at developing a heat-resistant acrylate polymer for jet canopies for jet aircraft at Kodak’s Kingsport plant in Tennessee. 

While working on the project, one of his technicians, Fred Joyner, used the rediscovered Super Glue and tested it by spreading ethyl cyanoacrylate between a pair of refractometer prisms. To his surprise, the prisms became stuck very solidly together without the need of any heat or pressure. Rediscovering the substance, Dr. Coover now realized the great potential of such a product and appreciated its attributes. He tested it on various objects within the laboratory, and sure enough it worked consistently. Providing there was a small amount of moisture on the surfaces to be bonded, the objects stuck permanently each time.

Super Glue is Born

Dr. Coover eventually registered a patent for the glue and worked on refining the product for commercial production. Super glue first went on sale in 1958 under the name Eastman 910 before later naming it “Super Glue.” Eastman 910 was soon licensed to Loctite who dubbed it Loctite Quick set 404.

During the 1970s, various manufacturers produced their own take on the fast-setting glue with the strong bond, using Coover’s cryanoacrylic formula. Today, it has many names such as Krazy Glue, Glue Stitch, and SurgeSeal – but to most people it is Super Glue. Dr. Harry Coover became known as “Mr. Super Glue,” which pleased him.

Daring Stunts

Over the years, publicity stunts demonstrating the extreme fixing power of the adhesive have been publicized. One famous advertisement was broadcast on the Russian program, Chudo Tehniki (Wonders of Technology), which showed a man dangling upside down a hot air balloon at an altitude of 5,000 feet, held only by boots super-glued to a small wooden platform!

Medical Marvel

Dr. Coover was also proud of the adhesive’s lesser known but crucial role in medicine. During the Vietnam War, field surgeons found that cyanoacrylates sprayed over wounds incurred in battle could act as an emergency method of staunching blood blow. Today, newly-developed forms of cyanoacrylates are often used in surgery to close up incisions in conjunction with or in place of traditional sutures.

Acknowledged and Awarded 

Dr. Coover worked for Eastman Kodak until he “retired” in 1984 at the age of 67. But he never slowed down. He started his own consulting company. And for nine years, he was also a board member of a large chemical company.

In 2010, Dr. Coover, who had been involved in obtaining 460 patents during his career, received the National Medal of Technology and Innovation from President Barack Obama.

  • Dr. Harry Coover

Dr. Harry Wesley Coover Jr., the inventor of Eastman 910, commonly known as Super Glue.

  • Eastman 910

Super Glue first went on sale in 1958 under the name Eastman 910.

  • One and the Same

Today, Dr. Coover’s Super Glue is available in a variety of names.

  • Super Glue Patent

A copy of Dr. Coover’s patent which was filed in 1954. 

  • Photo of Dr. Coover receiving the award from President Obama.

Dr. Harry Coover being awarded the National Medal of Technology and Innovation from President Barack Obama in 2010.

Ask Jido – May 2025

Dear Jido,

My children are being withheld from me for almost three years now. Until recently, I was still able to spend time with my youngest child every other weekend, but that seems to be ending.

I granted my ex a religious gett without hesitation or conditions, but now, perhaps because of dissatisfaction with the monetary award decided by the court, exercising my 50/50 visitation rights to see my children has become almost impossible.

I fear they are being turned against me, Gd forbid.

The first time my youngest son asked, “Daddy, do you love me?” I didn’t think much of it. But by the third or fourth time, it became clear that something was seriously wrong.

I wish my ex and her family only good b’ezrat Hashem. But the children we both care so much about will undoubtedly suffer needlessly if their father is pushed out of their lives.

I have pleaded for help from my kids’ yeshiva and from many rabbis who have some connection to my ex and her family, but to no avail. What should I do?

Signed,

Heartbroken Dad

Dear Heartbroken,

What you write is truly sad. The love of a father for his children never ends.

I find it very surprising that the Rabbis would not be willing to intervene. It is a fact that if the custodial parent does not allow the visitation rights as decided by the Court, that that parent can actually be forced to surrender their custodial rights to the other parent. This is unless there is substantial evidence that continued association with the estranged parent would be detrimental to the well-being of the child(ren). I’m assuming that this does not apply here.

This is standard practice of the Courts but it may not be well known to the people you have been speaking with.

My advice is to meet with one of the senior Rabbis of the community. (You choose one based on where you are both holding.) Urge him to contact both your ex and her family and advise them of the potential dangers of her actions and of your intent to pursue your rights.

Of course, the best method is to pursue peace by meeting together with the Rabbi and your ex. Let her detail to him her reasoning and convince him that she is justified in refusing to allow you to spend time with your children. Be prepared to be flexible in whatever compromise can be made in the hopes that as your children grow up, they will naturally gravitate back to you.

If there is no progress, get permission from the Rabbi to go back to the Family Court of New York. Generally, we are prohibited from using the courts of the goyim but in this case, a Bet Din would not have jurisdiction over custodial rights.

I wish you much luck.

Jido

Mabrouk – May 2025

Births – Baby Boy

Jacob & Linda Gindi

David & Francine Zagha

Hymie & Fortune Chera

Felix & Marielle Ades

Ezra & Ester Yedid

Joe & Mollie Betesh

Ikey & Leah Rudy

Jack & Shelly Sasson

Joseph & Rachel Sitt

Births – Baby Girl

David & Pearl Sabbagh

Andrew & Corine Cohen

Sammy & Rakefet Habbaz

Hal & Naomi Doueck

Jesse & Sarine Antebi

Mr. & Mrs. Yehuda Chazon

Mr. & Mrs. David Moses

Mr. & Mrs. Yitz Kanefsky

David & Rhonda Dweck

Steven & Danielle Esses

Bar Mitzvahs

Abie, son of Rabbi and Mrs. Leon Cohen

Michael, son of Jack and Frances Haddad

Engagements

Nathan Botton to Elle Cohen

Sammy Doueck to Jessica Saadia

Mark Gindi to Linda Warren

Meyer Sakkal to Jamie Shamah

Weddings

Ariel Edelstein to Norma Serrur

Michael Salem to Marlene Levy

Eddie Salameh to Stelly Swed

Abie Shomer to Mazal Zami

Community Highlights – Assemblyman Simcha Eichenstein Introduces Legislation to Halt Sanitation Ticket Barrage During Shabbat

New York State Assemblyman Simcha Eichenstein introduced legislation at the State Legislature that would amend a discriminatory NYC Department of Sanitation regulation that unfairly penalizes New York City’s Jewish community. 

Last year, the NYC Department of Sanitation enacted a rule requiring residents to place their trash on the curb after 8pm in an effort to combat the city’s rat problem. However, this rigid policy ignores the needs of religious New Yorkers who are prohibited from handling trash on Shabbos. As a result, many residents have been subjected to steep fines of $50-$300 simply for observing their faith. 

“This policy is unacceptable and must come to end,” declared Assemblyman Simcha Eichenstein. “New Yorkers should not have to choose between their religious beliefs and avoiding a ticket.”

Assemblyman Eichenstein’s proposed legislation would prohibit Sanitation Department enforcement agents from ticketing New York City residents from 3pm on Friday through 6pm on Saturdays, thereby accommodating Sabbath observers as well as New Yorkers who wish to enjoy a weekend away from home.

Assemblyman Kalman Yeger, a co-sponsor of the legislation added, “This common-sense legislation will fix a problem that New York City has refused to address. It is impossible for Shabbat-observant New Yorkers to comply with the Department of Sanitation’s new trash setout times. In 2023, the Sanitation Department personally promised me that Shabbat-observant New Yorkers need not worry about being issued summonses on Shabbat. Unfortunately, that promise has not been kept. Assemblyman Eichenstein and I are stepping in with this common-sense bill that should not be necessary, but unfortunately is. I’m grateful for his leadership on this, and I look forward to moving this bill through the legislature.”

Jerusalem’s Mayor Moshe Lion is Welcomed by Community Leaders in Brooklyn

Mayor Moshe Lion (third from left with Abe Lubinsky on his left and on his right Sammy Ayal) and members of the International Committee for Har Hazeitim,  Dr. Paul Rosnstock , Menachem Lubinsky, Dr. Alan Mazurek, and Dov Fishoff. 

Speaking at a distinguished leadership dinner of the Syrian Jewish community, Mayor Moshe Lion of Jerusalem appealed for increased participation of the Jewish community in protecting Har Hazeitim in the Holy City. The reception organized by leaders of the Syrian Jewish community gathered nearly 150 leaders of  the community last month at Castel’s Restaurant on Avenue U in Brooklyn. The organizing committee consisted of noted activists Harry Adjmi, Sammy Ayal, and Elie Nackab. The event was sponsored by OP Jerusalem “luxury living.” The mayor was accompanied by Eyal Chaimofsky, chairman of the Jerusalem Development Authority, which oversees many historic projects in the capital.

Menachem Lubinsky, together with his brother Abe, founded the International Committee for Har Hazeitim in 2010 after years of neglect. Menachem passionately spoke about the holiness and historic significance of Har Hazeitim. In addition to being the oldest and holiest Jewish cemetery in the world, with more than 150,000 Jews being buried there, Lubinsky said, “Har Hazeitim was also the venue where the kohanim prepared for the avoda across the road in the Temple, where the ashes of the parah adumah (red heifer) were burnt, [and] where the new Jewish month was proclaimed, amongst other key milestones in Judaism. The Nevi’im Chagai, Zecharia, and Malachi, as well as Hulda are buried here.”

Rabbi Eli Mansour offered divrei beracha to the assemblage, focusing on the sanctity of Jerusalem and its connection to every individual. He praised the role of Mayor Lion in continuing to build the growing city of  Jerusalem.   A great deal of focus of the evening was on the planned Visitor Education Center on Har Hazeitim. After more than a dozen years of planning, the construction of the magnificent  Center is under way.