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From Darkness to Light: The Return of Israel’s Last Hostages

Linda Sadacka

At dawn on Monday, October 13th, as sunlight broke across the Negev, the Land of Israel seemed to breathe again.

After two years in captivity, the final twenty living hostages held by Hamas were finally home. Families who had not slept for 736 days stood waiting, flags in hand, tears flowing as helicopters touched down on Israeli soil.

Among those freed were Guy Gilboa-Dalal and Evyatar David, two young men whose ordeal came to symbolize the suffering and faith of all those held underground. Their story, as told through the testimony of fellow hostage Tal Shoham, who was freed earlier this year, offers a window into the unimaginable, and into the spiritual strength that sustained Am Yisrael through one of the darkest chapters in its modern history.

Two Years Beneath the Earth

When Hamas launched its brutal assault on October 7, 2023, hundreds of innocent men, women, and children were kidnapped and dragged into Gaza.

Guy and Evyatar, both 22 years old, were taken from the Nova music festival and were beaten, bound, and thrown into trucks as mobs jeered.

According to Shoham, who was imprisoned with them for more than eight months, the two were kept for weeks with their hands tied behind their backs and their heads covered, fed almost nothing. “They came to us in terrible shape,” Shoham later said. “Starved, terrified, but somehow still with spirit.”

Food rations dropped to a single pita a day, sometimes shared between them. Water was rationed to half a liter. The guards mocked them daily, eating in front of them and saying Israel had abandoned them. Yet, even despite the cruelty, the hostages clung to faith. “We shared everything,” Shoham said. “Our food, our prayers, our hope.”

The Descent Into the Tunnels

In June 2024, the men were told they were being moved to a “better place.” Instead, they were disguised as militants, blindfolded, and placed in a Red Crescent ambulance packed with armed terrorists, a blatant abuse of humanitarian symbols.

They were driven deep underground and forced to march for hours through suffocating, airless tunnels until they reached a chamber of concrete and sand. There, four hostages were sealed behind an iron door.

“That was our tomb,” Shoham recalled.

The men received almost no oxygen and were given so little food that their bodies wasted away. “The thirst was worse than the hunger,” Shoham said. “But we made a rule: no one eats alone, no one prays alone.”

In total darkness, faith became their only light.

The Vigil Above

While the hostages prayed below ground, Am Yisrael prayed above.

Night after night, families gathered in Tel Aviv’s Hostage Square holding photos, lighting candles, and reciting Tehillim. Across the Jewish world, in yeshivot, shuls, and homes, Jews whispered the same plea: “Please, Hashem, bring them home.”

As weeks turned to months, the world’s focus shifted elsewhere. International agencies issued reports about Gaza’s “humanitarian conditions” while ignoring those literally starved

underground. But the Jewish nation never stopped believing. Every psalm recited and every tear shed became a spiritual lifeline connecting heaven and earth.

The Turning Point

In January 2025, change began to unfold. President Donald Trump, newly re-elected, launched a direct diplomatic effort to secure the hostages’ release. Working closely with Israel, Egypt, and Qatar, he insisted that every living captive be freed as a condition for any ceasefire or aid.

By February, the first group of hostages, including Tal Shoham – was freed.

Eight months later, after intense international mediation, the final twenty were released.

For Israel, the moment felt like the dawn after a long and bitter night — improbable, overwhelming, miraculous.

A Nation Reunited

When the helicopters landed, cries of “Am Yisrael Chai” filled the air.

Television cameras captured emaciated figures stepping into the sunlight, draped in Israeli flags. Medics wept as they treated survivors who had been starved, beaten, and cut off from all light.

In one hospital, Guy Gilboa-Dalal and Evyatar David, childhood best friends who were taken hostage together, were reunited for the first time since Hamas had separated them months earlier. Their embrace said everything – no words, only tears, only gratitude.

Doctors reported that all twenty freed hostages were malnourished and weak but in stable condition. Many will require months of recovery. Yet, they are home – and alive.

Voices of Gratitude

In Jerusalem later that day, President Trump addressed a special session of the Knesset. He is only the fourth U.S. president ever to address the Knesset, preceded by Presidents Carter (1979), Clinton (1994), and George W. Bush (2008). Standing beside Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, President Trump said, “This is not the end of a war, but the beginning of an age of faith and hope.”

Netanyahu, visibly moved, turned to him and replied: “Thank you for bringing our sons and daughters home. You stood with us when others turned away.”

These were not political speeches. They were acknowledgments of courage, Divine mercy, and the miracle of survival.

An Exclusive Interview with Minister Miki Zohar

In an exclusive interview with Community Magazine, Minister Miki Zohar, a respected Knesset member and Israel’s Minister of Culture, spoke about the moral clarity guiding Israel’s leadership throughout the ordeal.

“Israel is doing everything it can to pursue peace,” he said. “We want peace all the time – but if we must, we defend ourselves. The whole Middle East knows this.

Our first option is peace, not war. But we cannot allow our people to be endangered. If Hamas stands behind the agreement it signed, we will have peace. If not, we’ll have no choice but to defend our people again.

“We hope they will continue to disarm and bring all the hostages back. Then, maybe, we will finally have real peace.”

His words reflected the guiding principle of the Jewish state – that peace must never come at the cost of life, and that defense of the innocent is not only a national right, but a moral duty.

Israel’s Diplomatic Perspective

On the international stage, Israel’s leaders continue to stress both the moral and diplomatic urgency of upholding the agreement that brought the hostages home.

Earlier this week, Minister of Foreign Affairs Gideon Sa’ar addressed the issue ahead of his participation in a panel at the MED Conference in Naples, hosted by Italy’s Foreign Minister Antonio Tajani.

Minister Sa’ar stated, “We know for certain that Hamas can easily release a significant number of hostages in accordance with the agreement. What they are doing now is a fundamental violation of that agreement.”

He elaborated on Israel’s commitment to the peace framework, explaining:

“I told Deputy Prime Minister Tajani that Israel is committed to implementing the Trump Plan. We want the Trump Plan to succeed, and accordingly, we will act. But I also shared with the Minister some of the concerns and worries we have. The problem of our dead hostages – nineteen of them – are still being held by Hamas. And we know, as a matter of fact, they [Hamas] can easily bring back a significant number of dead hostages and give them back according to the agreement. What they are doing right now – it’s a fundamental breach of the agreement. We share our worries with our American friends and we expect the mediators to help us resolve this issue immediately. It’s very important because it’s also playing with families that suffered enough for more than two years.”

What sustained the hostages through starvation and darkness was not politics, but emunah – the quiet conviction that Hashem and the Jewish people had not abandoned them, even when every human comfort had been stripped away.

Shoham recalled that they recited Tehillim and whispered Shema every night. “We didn’t know if our words reached Heaven,” he said, “but we knew Heaven was listening.”

Their survival, he added, “was not coincidence – it was a miracle.”

In the days following their return, Israel overflowed with gratitude. Soldiers danced with joy, mothers, fathers, and children embraced their returned family members, and synagogues across the country filled with prayers of thanksgiving.

Communities everywhere recited Nishmat Kol Chai and Hallel in gratitude to Hashem. From the north to the south, Jews paused to remember not only those who were saved, but those who were lost.

For every hostage returned, there are many families are still mourning. And yet, even in mourning, the message remains: Am Yisrael does not abandon its children, and Hashem does not abandon His people.

Light Overcomes Darkness

The tunnels of Gaza were built as graves. Yet they became the setting for miracles.

As Shoham said, “We were supposed to die there. Instead, we came back to life.”

That is the story of our people – of Yosef thrown into the pit, of Esther standing before the king, of a nation that has endured exile after exile, yet rises again. From the depths of darkness, Hashem lifts His people toward light.

Am Yisrael Chai

As the sun set on that historic day, the sound of Acheinu filled the streets of Jerusalem. Strangers stopped to listen, some crying quietly, others whispering Baruch Hashem.

For one brief moment, there were no political divisions, no disputes — only unity, faith, and gratitude.

The hostages’ return reminded the world that while evil can bury bodies, it cannot bury souls. It reminded us that “lo yanum v’lo yishan Shomer Yisrael” – the Guardian of Israel never slumbers or sleeps.

And it reminded every Jew, in Israel and around the world, that even in the darkest tunnels, the light of Hashem’s people still shines.

Linda Argalgi Sadacka is a writer, award-winning strategist, and political activist known for helping candidates craft winning campaigns. She hosts The Silent Revolution on Spotify, where she blends Torah, prayer, and real-world reflection to make ancient wisdom powerfully relevant today.

Exploring the Wonders of the Human Anatomy

What Do Our Bones Do?

There are more than 200 bones in the human body, and the bones are all connected to form the skeleton. It is your skeleton that supports you, protects you, and gives your body its shape. Not only does the skeleton prevent you from collapsing into a Jello-like blob, it is a movable frame that helps you stand, walk, run, jump, lift, and push.

Bones also protect the soft organs inside your body. For example, the bony skull protects your brain, while your ribs protect your heart and lungs. But your bones don’t do everything themselves; many bones are joined together by muscles. Bones and muscles work together to enable you to move.

Bones are far from solid — otherwise your skeleton would be five times heavier! Each bone has an outer shell of a very strong, dense substance, called compact bone. The inside, called spongy bone, is porous and has hollow spaces within it, like a sponge. It is still strong, but its structure makes bones slightly flexible. The spaces within the spongy bone contain red bone marrow, which is where most of your blood cells are made.

Another function of the bones is to store vital minerals, such as calcium, which the body uses when needed.

What Happens When You Break a Bone?

Broken bones are common medical emergencies for children. Fortunately, and incredibly, your body can heal broken bones all by itself!

When you fracture (break) a bone, your body gets to work producing new bone cells, which will help heal the break. Of course you need a doctor to help it along. He’ll give you a cast or sling to make sure that the bone heals straight and properly.

A broken bone heals in stages. When the bone first breaks, the area gets swollen, as your blood clots to stop the bleeding at the fracture site. Next, collagen fibers start to grow over the broken area. The collagen, together with cartilage (a flexible, connective tissue), bridges the gap between the two sides of the break. This bridge will continue to form and harden until the bone is healed. While the bone is healing, it can’t take the stress that a normal bone can, which is why people use crutches and slings to take the pressure off the bone while it’s healing.

There are several different types of fractures. A complete fracture occurs when a bone is broken all the way through into two pieces. Greenstick fractures happen when a bone cracks only on one side. If a bone breaks and then protrudes through the skin, it’s called an open fracture. Depending on the type of fracture and the size of the bone, the bone may heal in as little as a couple of weeks or in as long as a couple of months or more.

The collarbone is the most commonly broken bone among children, while when adults break a bone, it’s most commonly a bone in the arm.

Inventions & Innovators

Coca-Cola

In 1886, Atlanta pharmacist John Pemberton, a wounded Civil War veteran, was seeking a cure for his painkiller addiction. Through experimentation, he created a medicinal tonic containing small amounts of cocaine, as well as the caffeine-rich kola nut. This mixture, combined with carbonated water, was the original formula for Coca-Cola. In the years following, fellow pharmacist Asa Candler secured the formula and rights to the beverage for a reported sum of $2,300. (It’s worth noting that the company stopped adding cocaine extracts to the drink by 1903.)

Potato Chips

The popular potato chip was born out of spite in 1853. At Moon Lake Lodge in Saratoga Springs, New York, a demanding patron repeatedly rejected chef George Crum’s French fries, claiming they were too thick. Frustrated, Crum decided to teach the diner a lesson. He sliced a potato paper-thin and fried the pieces to an unusable, brittle crisp. To Crum’s surprise, the customer loved the crunchy slices, and they became an instant sensation. Customers began requesting the new creation, which was known as “Saratoga Chips” until the mid-20th century.

Popsicles

In 1905, eleven-year-old Frank Epperson was mixing powdered soda and water to make soda pop. He accidentally left the drink on his porch overnight. When he returned the next morning, he found the liquid had frozen solid, with the stirring stick frozen upright. Epperson discovered that his frozen fruit-flavored concoction was delicious. He originally called his invention ‘Epsicles’ and began selling them. In 1923, he patented the idea, eventually changing the name to the one we know today: the Popsicle.

Chocolate Chip Cookies

The chocolate chip cookie was invented in 1930 by Ruth Graves Wakefield at the Toll House Inn in Whitman, Massachusetts. While baking a batch of regular cookies, Ruth ran out of the standard baker’s chocolate. As a substitute, she broke a bar of semi-sweet chocolate into small pieces and added them to the dough, expecting them to melt and blend. Instead, the chocolate pieces held their shape, softening into distinct chips throughout the cookie. Ruth’s unexpected invention was an immediate hit. She later reached an agreement with Nestlé to print the “Toll House Cookie” recipe on their packaging in exchange for a lifetime supply of chocolate.

Kellogg’s Corn Flakes

In 1894, Dr. John Harvey Kellogg, superintendent of The Battle Creek Sanitarium in Michigan, and his younger brother, William Keith Kellogg, were attempting to make bread dough from boiled wheat. Unexpectedly, they were called away to the sanitarium, and the wheat dough went stale by the time they returned. Rather than discarding it, they decided to roll out the dough anyway. Instead of a cohesive sheet, the wheat flattened into small, thin flakes. The brothers toasted the flakes, finding them crunchy and tasty. They initially experimented with different grains before settling on corn to create the first batch of Kellogg’s Corn Flakes.

Chewing Gum

The first successful chewing gum factory in America was the result of a failed venture. In 1869, Thomas Adams of New York was attempting to use chicle, a natural gum from the sapodilla tree in Mexico, as a substitute for rubber to make items like toys and tires. Every attempt failed. Frustrated, Adams one day put a piece of the surplus chicle in his mouth. He liked the chewy texture and realized it could be an excellent base for flavored chewing gum. Shortly after, he

began adding flavoring and opened the world’s first chewing gum factory. In February 1871, Adams’s “New York Gum” went on sale in drugstores for a penny apiece.

Diet Soda

The world’s first sugar-free, zero-calorie, carbonated soft drink, called “No-Cal,” was invented by Hyman Kirsch and his son Morris in 1952. They developed the sugar-free drink, initially a ginger ale, to benefit those suffering from diabetes.

Voices of Vision – November 2025

Ellen Geller Kamaras

“I love games and logic puzzles, and career counseling feels like the ultimate version of both. At the same time, it’s deeply meaningful because I get to guide people toward recognizing what makes them truly unique. It’s the perfect mix of challenge, fun, and fulfillment.” ~~ Caroll ~~

Please meet Caroll Dweck Sutton. Caroll was born and raised in Brooklyn and attended Yeshivah of Flatbush from first through twelfth grade. Her parents, Paulette and Jack Dweck, are both Flatbush graduates as well. Caroll, named after her grandmother, who also spells her name with two L’s, has three younger siblings. “My personality is very much [that of] an oldest child, and my siblings are my best friends.”

Extremely social, Caroll shared her mom’s recollections of Caroll making friends immediately wherever they went. When she was three years old, her mother took her to the beach and reportedly within five seconds she was digging holes with kids she had never met.

Caroll absolutely loved school and took it very seriously. She was Salutatorian of both her high school and college graduating classes, but she also made sure to have a lot of fun. She participated in every extracurricular activity from sports to the dance team to Model UN and student government, and kept up a very active social life.

After high school graduation, Caroll studied psychology at Macaulay Honors College at Hunter.

She earned two graduate degrees at Columbia University (Teachers College), a Master of Arts in Mental Health Counseling and an Ed.M. in Psychological Education.

Her Essence

Caroll describes herself as outgoing, fun-loving, adventurous, competitive, and a doer. “I am most definitely a thrill seeker. I have jumped out of planes and dived with great white sharks – no relaxing on the beach for me on vacations!”

Her friends and family would definitely tell us that Caroll loves games! She is super competitive and will play any game at any time – sports, board games, you name it. “I can spend hours upon hours figuring out logic puzzles without sleeping or eating. More than playing games, I also love to make up games. If it’s someone’s birthday or other celebration, I’ll create a funny game about that person.”

Caroll views herself as an “all-around camper.” Why a camper? Camp was her very favorite environment, and her interests and skills are all over the place. “I love switching activities every 45 minutes, and color war is me in a nutshell. If I won the lottery and could do anything forever, I would be a camper, no question.”

Career Trajectory

While Caroll was attending grad school, she volunteered at The Propel Network and was a Young Leadership Board member. PROPEL is a community nonprofit organization that enables women to enter the workforce by providing career guidance, educational coaching, and ongoing mentoring, and by guiding women to enroll in training, professional, and higher education.

At PROPEL, Caroll was responsible for developing programming for first-generation working women including panels, seminar-based discussion groups, and individual career coaching.

After completing graduate school, she was hired by Flatbush Yeshivah High School for two positions, the Pathfinders Department Director and AP Psychology teacher.

Through the Pathfinders Program, students are encouraged to discover and expand their special talents and abilities and explore career options for the future.

Among her many functions as Pathfinders Department Director, Caroll – along with her amazing team – created and organized programs including a Career Day with over 40 presenters, resume writing workshops, dozens of curated professional speakers and career-based trips. They provided individual career counseling to high school students and developed clubs and commissions for student growth.

“I had a phenomenal psychology teacher in high school, Erika Levavi, who really made the material come to life. After that class, not only did I want to become a psychologist, but it was my dream to teach AP Psychology. I was honored to teach AP Psych for six years alongside Erika, which was a real dream come true.”

For close to a year, Caroll was a mental health counselor at the SBH Counseling Clinic. At SBH, she did individualized therapy with clients with disorders such as generalized anxiety and major depression, and Caroll co-facilitated art therapy for geriatric women.

Taking on the Reins as Executive Director of PROPEL

Last June, Caroll left Flatbush Yeshivah to become the Executive Director of PROPEL.

She is thrilled to see how the community members support one another, especially the entrepreneurs. For example, experienced interior designers will mentor aspiring designers and teach them about pricing models. Or an established fitness instructor might help a newcomer

figure out how to structure group classes to build both community and income. Instead of viewing their mentees as competition, they give them the tools to thrive to strengthen the community at large.

Caroll is energized and in awe of working with such powerful and successful women. PROPEL recently launched a podcast called Chapters.. In each episode, they dive into the highs, lows, and turning points that shaped the careers of trailblazing community women.

PROPEL has changed over the last ten years. When PROPEL was established, the majority of its clients were a little older They were women who needed to enter the workforce for financial reasons such as divorce or their husbands’ losing jobs. Later came an influx of younger women who wanted careers, and PROPEL’s demographic changed.

Passions

On a professional level, career counseling is Caroll’s passion. In graduate school, the class she took in career counseling was her favorite.

Caroll thrives on helping people find their unique strengths. The clients she most loves to work with are the ones who have no clue as to what they want to do in the future. “It’s deeply meaningful for me because I get to guide people toward recognizing what makes them truly unique. It’s the perfect mix of challenge, fun, and fulfillment.”

Caroll’s proudest accomplishments are the little moments, such as running into a client on the street and hearing that she landed her dream job or chose a career path because of a conversation they once had.

What really lights up Caroll is coaching women, in particular. That is the demographic she is most impassioned about. When Caroll was growing up, she often heard girls say, “Why work so hard if I’m just going to be a mom?” She is dedicated to supporting young girls and women as they navigate the complexities of wanting to be incredible mothers and also pursue meaningful careers that contribute to the world and their finances.

Role Models

Caroll’s mother Paulette deeply shaped the woman she is today. “My mom was a huge role model for me: she had a career and was still a phenomenal homemaker and mother.”

Paulette owned an accessories business, decorated swanees and other occasions, and then switched to real estate sales, which she is still actively involved in.

Other significant female mentors in Caroll’s life include Shifra Hanon, the creator of the Pathfinders Department at Yeshivah of Flatbush High School, Dr. Gayle Krost, the President of Propel Network, and Viviane Darwish, the Director of Operations at PROPEL.

It’s no surprise that both Shifra and Gayle have been featured in this column. Who knows, Viviane may be next!

Family and Work-Life Balance

Caroll is married to Ovadia Sutton. The couple has two daughters, Aura, two years old and Paulette, seven months. “During high school, I learned to juggle and manage a million things at once. Those skills help me every day as a working mom.”

Work was a breeze for Caroll before she had children. As a mother, one of her greatest challenges is if her nanny doesn’t show up or she quits. “If I don’t have the proper support for my kids, I can’t be the person I want to be for my clients and colleagues. It’s something I am trying to figure out for myself and the community at large.”

At PROPEL, Caroll oversees the career coaches and volunteer mentors and plans business and career-related events. She appreciates the flexibility she has at PROPEL to pick up her daughter from nursery and to work remotely part time. Caroll works in person some days and evenings, especially when she runs programs or workshops.

For fun, Caroll enjoys sports (volleyball, tennis, and skiing) and connecting with friends. When her children are in elementary school, she looks forward to being a PTA mom.

Advice for Young Women

Learn about yourself, who you are. Do new things and try new experiences.

You can connect with Caroll at [email protected]. Please check out thepropelnetwork.org and follow @propelnetwork on Instagram and Caroll’s Instagram page, @careersbycaroll.

Ellen Geller Kamaras, CPA/MBA, is an International Coach Federation (ICF) Associate Certified Coach. Her coaching specialties include life, career, and dating coaching. Ellen can be contacted at [email protected].

Words of Rabbi Eli J. Mansour: Be Smart – Be Yourself

Intelligence can be assessed in several different ways, and with several different yardsticks. For example, Pirkeh Avot (4:1) teaches that the wise man is someone who learns from all people. The Gemara (Tamid 32a) defines a wise man as somebody “haroeh et hanolad” – who foresees the outcome of his actions and behaves accordingly.

A lesser-known, but no less critical, definition of wisdom is presented by the Midrash in its depiction of Eliezer – the trusted servant of Avraham Avinu, who takes center stage in one of the stories we read this month in the Book of Beresheet. Avraham quite literally entrusted Eliezer with the future of his family and of the nation he was to establish, by assigning him the task of finding a match for his son and heir to his covenant with Gd, Yitzhak. And, according to the Midrash, Eliezer was brilliant.

The Brilliant Servant

The Midrash cites King Shlomo’s description in Mishleh (17:2) of an “eved maskil – intelligent servant,” and it applies this description to Eliezer. He was a descendant of Ham, one of the three sons of Noah, who brazenly disrespected his father, for which he and his descendants were cursed with eternal servitude. Eliezer was well aware that he was – through no fault of his own – consigned to spend his life as a servant. And he decided that instead of serving some cruel, barbaric master, it was in his best interest to become a servant for a righteous person like Avraham Avinu – and this is what he did.

At first glance, this hardly appears as a stroke of genius. Is this not a fairly simple decision that any one of us could make? What was so brilliant about Eliezer’s attitude for which he is lauded as an “eved maskil” – an especially wise servant?

The truth is that Eliezer’s thoughts on his status were indeed brilliant, and, unfortunately, few of us are this intelligent in our attitudes toward our own lives.

Like Eliezer, we are all brought into undesirable circumstances against our will. I have met many people in my life, and I cannot think of a single individual who enjoys a life without some sort of challenge. Some people struggle because of their upbringing, because of the way their parents raised them, or because of a school or a teacher. Some people struggle because of a health problem from which, Heaven forbid, they or a family member suffer. Some people struggle financially. Some people struggle with tensions among family members, or with their neighbor. Some people struggle because of mental health challenges. Some people struggle because of an addiction which they developed. Some people struggle with a child, or with several of their children.

And many (most?) people struggle with some combination of these challenges, and others.

Few of us, however, approach life’s challenges with the composure and levelheadedness displayed by Eliezer.

As the Midrash describes, Eliezer wasn’t embittered or resentful. He didn’t complain. He didn’t wallow in self-pity. He didn’t blame the world for his compromised social standing, for the proverbial “glass ceiling” that constrained him. Instead, he decided to make the best of his situation, to excel within the framework he was placed in, to achieve the most he could under his circumstances.

The result? Eliezer is credited with helping to build the Jewish People, by succeeding in his mission to bring a worthy marriage partner for Yitzhak. His words and actions in this story occupy a considerable amount of space in the Torah, and have been carefully studied and analyzed by laymen and scholars for millennia, and will always be. In fact, the sages comment about Eliezer, “The conversations of the patriarchs’ servants are greater than the Torah of their offspring” – as evidenced by the fact that the Torah elaborates at length in presenting Eliezer’s story, but is often very brief in introducing mitzvot. Eliezer earned himself a special place in the Torah and in the hearts and minds of Jews throughout the ages.

None of this would have happened if Eliezer was angry and bitter. Resentment and self-pity would not have gotten him anywhere. Eliezer was successful because he had a very rare form of wisdom – the wisdom to accept life’s circumstances and make the most of them. He understood that he was going to live his life as a servant – and so he decided to become the greatest servant that he could be, for the greatest man of his time.

We Have EVERYTHING!

Not surprisingly, Avraham Avinu himself also excelled in this special quality.

The Torah introduces this section by saying, “Gd had blessed with Avraham with everything” (24:1).

Did Avraham really have everything? True, he enjoyed great wealth and prestige, but did he really have everything? At this point in his life, his beloved wife was no longer alive. One of his two sons needed to be driven from the house. Just several verses earlier, the Torah tells of the family of his brother, Nachor, who had twelve children and several grandchildren. Nachor, an idol-worshipper, enjoyed peace, comfort and a large family, while Avraham traveled from place to place, had to fight a war, twice saw his wife abducted, and did not beget children until old age.

Yet, as Rav Yechezkel Levenstein (1885-1974) explains, Avraham had “everything” in the sense that he had everything he needed to fulfill his unique mission. Avraham lived each day of his life with the mindset that his circumstances were not random, but rather specifically designed for him to achieve what he was brought into the world to achieve.

Rashi, commenting on this verse, notes that the word bakol (“with everything”) has the same gematria (numerical value) as the word ben – son (52). The Torah here introduces the story of the search of a spouse for Yitzhak by telling us that Avraham had a son, which led him to instruct Eliezer to find a suitable partner. Now, we of course already know that Avraham had a son. But the Torah here is emphasizing that Avraham saw it as his mission at that point to find his son a wife. He looked at his circumstances to determine what his obligation was at that time – and right now, his responsibility was to find a wife for Yitzhak.

This is precisely how we are expected to live life – to focus on our situation, on our current challenges, and determine what Gd expects of us under these conditions.

So often people ask themselves questions such as, “Why aren’t my children like so-and-so’s children?”; “Why wasn’t I raised in a family like so-and-so’s family?”; “Why can’t I find a good job like so-and-so?”; “Why is it so much harder for me to marry off my children than it was for so-and-so?”; “Why aren’t I as smart as so-and-so?”

These questions all work off the grievously mistaken assumption that we and Mr./Mrs. So-And-So are supposed to live the same life. If this were true, then Gd would have created either us or Mr./Mrs. So-And-So. But Gd created all of us because we each have something unique to contribute and to achieve. We aren’t supposed to be the same, and so Hashem creates each person with different abilities, different talents, different handicaps, different challenges, and different circumstances.

It may be true Mr./Mrs. So-And-So has the perfect children, the perfect family background, and the perfect job, but Mr./Mrs. So-And-So also has problems and struggles that we don’t have. If we don’t envy his or her challenges, then we shouldn’t envy his or her blessings, either – because it’s all a package deal. Gd gives each person the life uniquely suited for his or her mission.

If we live life this way, then we will truly feel, like Avraham did, that we have everything. Yes, everything. We have everything we need to be the person that Hashem brought us here to be. The pain, struggles and challenges that we face – like the wonderful blessings and good fortune that we enjoy – are precisely what we need to accomplish all that we are here to accomplish.

It is told that the famous Hassidic master Rav Bunim of Peshischa (Poland, 1765-1827) remarked that if he would be offered the opportunity to be as great as Avraham Avinu, he would decline.

“If I would be Avraham,” he said, “then who would be Bunim?”

Rav Bunim understood that he was brought into the world not to be Avraham Avinu, but to be himself. And this is what we need to understand, too.

The Wisdom to See Ourselves

Today’s world of hyperconnectivity makes it especially challenging to live with this perspective. People spend so much of their time looking at other people’s lives, seeing what they’re buying, what they’re wearing, where they’re going, what they’re doing, what they’re achieving. It might be no exaggeration to say that social media is the greatest tool for arousing jealousy and insecurity ever created. When we look at other people’s joy and successes, it is only natural for us to wonder why we aren’t experiencing that same joy and success, and to feel envious, embittered, and unfulfilled.

Now more than ever, we need the wisdom of Eliezer, the wisdom to see ourselves and our potential, instead of looking at other people. What other people are doing or not doing should not impact our goals and aspirations. We need to live our own lives, not other people’s lives. We need to fulfill our own mission, not other people’s missions.

Because if we try to do other people’s jobs, then we not only fail to do our own job, but will also, invariably, fail to do those other jobs for which we aren’t suited…

One of the most important forms of intelligence is the intelligence to be yourself, to stop trying to imitate others, to stop worrying about what other people have or accomplish, and to focus instead on living the best life that you are meant to live.

Positive Parenting – Why Owning Mistakes Builds Strength

Tammy Sassoon

As parents, one of our most important roles is to guide our children in developing the character traits that will serve them throughout their lives. Among the most valuable lessons we can teach is the ability to take responsibility when they make mistakes. While it can be tempting to shield children from the discomfort of accountability, encouraging them to own their actions helps them grow into resilient, trustworthy, and self-aware adults.

What Are the Benefits of Taking Responsibility?

Responsibility Builds Trust: When a child admits to making a mistake, they are practicing honesty. This quality is a foundation of a strong relationship, whether with parents, teachers, or friends. Imagine a child who accidentally breaks a neighbor’s toy. If they come forward and admit it, they are demonstrating that they can be trusted, even when the truth is difficult. This builds credibility with others and strengthens bonds of trust. Children quickly learn that honesty earns respect, while hiding or blaming only weakens relationships.

Responsibility Teaches Problem Solving: Mistakes often require solutions. When children take responsibility, they are more willing to be part of the solution. For example, if a child forgets their homework at home, blaming the teacher or a sibling won’t help. But acknowledging the mistake allows them to problem solve: “I’ll write a note to explain, and tomorrow I’ll double-check my backpack.” Over time, this teaches children to focus less on excuses and more on actions that move them forward. Responsibility shifts their energy from avoidance to problem solving, which is a skill they’ll need throughout life.

Responsibility Fosters Emotional Maturity: Owning mistakes can be uncomfortable. It requires courage, humility, and self-control. When a child learns to face these emotions instead of running from them, they are developing emotional resilience. They learn that embarrassment, guilt, or disappointment won’t destroy them, and that they have the power to move past those feelings by making better choices. This process builds emotional maturity, teaching children that their actions matter and that growth often comes from discomfort.

Responsibility Builds Confidence: It may seem surprising, but taking responsibility actually builds self-confidence. When children admit mistakes and make amends, they experience the empowering feeling of taking control of their actions. Instead of feeling helpless or defined by their errors, they see themselves as capable of growth and improvement. A child who says, “I forgot my lines in the play, but I’ll practice more next time,” feels stronger than one who insists, “It wasn’t my fault.” Confidence grows not from perfection, but from the courage to take ownership and try again.

Responsibility Models Respect for Others: When children take responsibility, they also learn empathy. Admitting a mistake often involves acknowledging how their actions affected someone else. This builds awareness and respect for others’ feelings. For example, a child who apologizes for teasing a friend learns to consider the friend’s perspective. Responsibility teaches children that their choices don’t exist in isolation, rather that they also impact the people around them. This sense of accountability helps them grow into caring, considerate people.

Children who learn to take responsibility for their mistakes gain far more than the ability to say, “I’m sorry.” They build integrity, resilience, problem-solving skills, and emotional strength. They learn that mistakes are not something to fear but stepping stones on the path to becoming capable, compassionate adults. By guiding children to take ownership of their actions, parents give them a lifelong gift: the confidence and character to face challenges with honesty and courage.

How Can We as Parents Encourage Responsibility?

Model it yourself: Children learn more from what we do than what we say. Admit your own mistakes and show how you make them right.

Praise honesty, not perfection: When your child admits to spilling something or forgetting a chore, thank them for telling the truth before addressing the mistake itself.

Guide problem solving: Instead of rushing in to fix the situation, ask: “What do you think you can do to make it better?”

Keep mistakes safe: Avoid shaming or overreacting. When children feel safe, they are more likely to be honest and responsible.

Highlight growth: Remind your children that every mistake is a learning opportunity. Celebrate the progress they make after taking ownership.

Immortality for Kaboom – Uri Adler Leads Squad to First M&S Cup in Epic Showdown

Sam Sutton

Under the lights at M&S Park, with the stands packed and anticipation thick in the air, a new chapter of league history was written. The 2025 M&S World Series had all the makings of a classic, powerhouse rosters, superstar performances, heartbreak, and redemption. And when the final out was recorded when Captain Uri Adler dove to his knees and fired across the diamond for the clinching play the celebration began.

Champions: Kaboom.

For Uri Adler, it was the storybook ending to his first season as captain a debut campaign that began with high hopes and ended in pure glory. For Abe Saka, it was the long-awaited validation of years of excellence and grit. For ten of the twelve players on this roster, it was a first-ever taste of M&S immortality. And for the league, it was a reminder of why M&S Softball remains the gold standard – passion, competition, and community under one banner.

The Journey to the Crown

Kaboom’s road to the championship wasn’t easy. The postseason bracket was a gauntlet, and every step tested their chemistry, resilience, and belief.

In the Semifinals, Kaboom squared off against Vandelay Industries, a veteran team loaded with bats and experience. But Kaboom had something special – a unified energy that couldn’t be shaken. On the mound, Abe Saka was masterful. Pitching with the poise of a seasoned ace and the fire of a man on a mission, he controlled the tempo, silenced the bats, and carried his squad into the World Series. His performance was so commanding it earned him Player of the Week honors and set the tone for what was to come.

That semifinal series featured one of the most memorable defensive plays in M&S postseason history. In Game One, Sol Fallas, playing short center field, ranged deep up the middle and laid out for a full-extension catch that saved the game and, perhaps, the season. It was the kind of play that would replay in fans’ minds for years. From that moment, the message was clear: Kaboom was on a mission.

A Showdown for the Ages

Waiting in the Finals was the juggernaut King Salomon: Part Deux, led by legendary captain Michael “Sabon” Salomon, a team chasing dynasty status and hungry for another ring. The matchup was everything fans hoped for: two powerhouse teams, two brilliant captains, and lineups filled with stars.

Over the course of three unforgettable games, both teams traded blows. King Salomon struck early and often, with JoJo “Box Office” Levy continuing his meteoric rise as one of the league’s elite hitters. Levy, who crushed another ball over the fence in Game Two, put himself in a new category of player this postseason as a young star whose ceiling keeps climbing, and whose name now belongs among the league’s best.

But Kaboom, true to their name, always answered. Each rally from King Salomon was met with equal fire. Big hits, timely defense, and the unshakeable calm of Captain Uri Adler kept the team focused. By Game Three, the tension was unbearable – until Kaboom broke it open with a relentless offensive surge. The score may have widened late, but make no mistake: this was a battle of inches, decided by heart.

When it ended with Adler’s diving play and the eruption of cheers under the lights the team mobbed the field. Gloves hit the dirt, and years of frustration turned into joy.

Kaboom had done it. They were champions.

The MVP: Abe Saka

At the center of it all was Abe Saka, the bulldog on the mound who refused to bend. His command, endurance, and unrelenting focus made him the heartbeat of Kaboom’s title run. Every inning he threw carried weight; every pitch was a declaration.

Saka’s performance across the playoffs – and especially in the World Series – cemented his place in M&S lore. For years he had flirted with greatness. This time, he conquered it. Fittingly, he was named World Series MVP, a title that felt like destiny fulfilled.

The Captain: Uri Adler

Adler’s leadership was the glue that bound Kaboom together. Known across the league for his professionalism and calm demeanor, he captained his team the same way he played: composed, steady, and relentlessly respectful. He never let his team get too high or too low. He managed personalities, lineups, and moments with quiet confidence – the mark of a true leader.

In his first season wearing the “C,” Adler delivered the ultimate prize. Few captains in league history have ever steered a team to the mountaintop so quickly. His championship pedigree is now sealed in M&S history.

Respect to the Runners-Up

No championship is complete without acknowledging the greatness of the opponent and King Salomon: Part Deux was every bit the worthy adversary. Led by Michael “Sabon” Salomon, the team was a powerhouse from Opening Day. With players like Mo Shamah, TI, and JoJo Levy, to name a few, King Salomon pushed Kaboom to the brink.

Levy’s growth this season was particularly noteworthy – another ball over the fence, another step into stardom. Though they fell short, King Salomon’s mix of veterans and young stars this team was oh-so-close to winning it all.

Legacy of a Champion

What made Kaboom’s title run special wasn’t just their talent, it was their chemistry. They laughed, battled, and believed together. They responded to every setback with focus, every challenge with faith.

For ten first-time champions, the M&S Cup now symbolizes more than just a trophy. It represents late-night Glatt Bite runs, shared trust, and a team that refused to let go of the rope. And for veterans like Finkel and Chrem, it’s another golden moment to add to their legacy.

As the lights dimmed at M&S Park and the crowd lingered to soak in the celebration, one thing was clear: this was more than a championship. It was a statement.

Kaboom arrived. They battled. They believed. And they conquered.

From first pitch to final out, the 2025 M&S World Series will be remembered as one of the greatest in league history and Kaboom’s name will forever be etched on the M&S Cup.

Congratulations to Captain Uri Adler, World Series MVP Abe Saka, and the entire Kaboom roster your names are now written in M&S history!

The Champions: Player by Player

Abe Saka (P, World Series MVP) – The bulldog on the mound. Unwavering, unrelenting, and unstoppable. Saka willed Kaboom to victory with his mix of grit, poise, and power. The title that had eluded him for years is finally his and he earned every ounce of it.

A.Y. Slanger (C) – The starting pitcher’s dream. Slanger’s defensive instincts and lightning-fast releases kept runners honest all season. Behind the plate, he set the tone, controlled the rhythm, and gave Saka the trust every ace needs.

Barry Finkel (1B) – One of only two returning champions on the roster, Finkel once again proved he’s a winning player. His glove was reliable, his bat clutch, and his leadership invaluable. Another ring for a true veteran presence.

Neil “Real Feel” Shweky (2B) – The name says it all. Shweky’s smooth hands and field awareness made him a defensive standout at second base. Add in his timely hitting and you get one of the league’s most underrated stars.

Mordy Chrem (SS) – The defensive wizard. Chrem captured championships in back-to-back seasons, this time anchoring Kaboom’s infield with elite range and veteran composure. His bat packs pop, but his glove is poetry.

Uri Adler (3B, Captain) – The captain who brought it all together. Adler’s steady hand and even-keeled demeanor defined Kaboom’s culture. His leadership off the field was as vital as his steady play at third base.

Sol Fallas (SCF) – The bopper in the lineup with a highlight-reel glove. His legendary catch in the semifinals will go down as one of the greatest defensive plays in M&S postseason history. A true two-way force.

Morris “Mo” Levy (LF) – One of the breakout stars of 2025. Levy’s bat came alive this season, complementing his already-stellar defense in left field. A rising star who proved he can shine brightest on the biggest stage.

Nadav “Nutty” Auerbach (CF) Electric. Auerbach is one of the best center fielders and hitters in the league. His range, instincts, and consistency at the plate make him a cornerstone player and Kaboom’s all-around superstar.

Shimmy Cohen (RF) – The veteran finally gets his crown. After years of near misses, Cohen captured his first championship alongside longtime teammate Saka in a career-defining moment. His bat, his glove, and his leadership all came through when it mattered most.

Isaac “Icy Hot” Cohen (IF) – Reliable and clutch. Isaac delivered steady production and a veteran presence. Every contender needs a player who’s always ready that was Icy Hot.

David Minzer (IF) – The power bat Kaboom needed. Minzer stepped up in key spots throughout the postseason, delivering muscle in the lineup and big-moment energy when it mattered most.

Mabrouk – November 2025

Births – Baby Boy

Albert & Raquel Sultan

Yonatan & Shoshana Aryeh

Dan & Mimi Mizrahi

Sammy & Sara Mishaan

Fred & Yvette Kassab

Gabe & Merle Rudy

Solly & Esther Mosseri

Jimmy & Celia Setton

Ezra & Claudine Shiro

Jack & Henriette Laboz

Joey & Rosie Dana

Sol & Fatima Sasson

Births – Baby Girl

Jack & Shenie Laniado

Ralph & Tunie Gindi

Joe & Jamie Ades

Ike & Lauren Salem

Isaac & Tehila Levy

Murray & Helen Mirzachi

Joe & Sylvi Esses

Mosie & Vivian Salame

Jojo & Renee Tawil

Ezra & Rachel Khezrie

Joe & Marie Mazon

Eddie & Rochelle Jemal

Engagements

Jacob Cohen to Diane Cohen

Alex Mosseri to Lilian Levy

Yosef Levy to Sarah Abadi

Weddings

Moshe Sutton to Deborah Ashkenazie

Creative Cooking with Chef Shiri

Utensils Needed:

Shallow bowl

Skewers

Whisk

Skillet

Fork or tongs

Pizza cutter

Measuring cups and spoons

Spatula

Ingredients:

2 eggs

½ cup nondairy milk

1 tablespoon honey

¼ teaspoon cinnamon

Pinch of salt

5 slices of challah or bread (cut into ¾-inch to 1-inch-thick slices)

1 cup strawberries, halved

1 tablespoon unsalted margarine

2 tablespoons strawberry jam

Syrup

Let’s Get Started!

  1. In a shallow bowl, use the whisk to combine the eggs, nondairy milk, cinnamon, honey, and salt.
  2. Melt the margarine in a skillet over medium heat.
  3. Dip each slice of bread into the egg mixture until both sides are coated.
  4. Place the bread into the hot skillet. Cook for 3 minutes on each side, until golden and cooked through.
  5. Use the fork or tongs to take the French toast out of the skillet. Put it on a plate. Use the pizza cutter to cut it into bite-size pieces.
  6. Make small “sandwiches” with the French toast pieces and the jam, and thread them onto skewers, alternating with strawberry halves.
  7. Serve with syrup.

Serves 4!
Strawberries are NOT only red. There are yellow, blue, white, black, and purple strawberries too!

BREAKFAST ON A STICK!

Chef Shiri Says…

Ounce for ounce, strawberries are slightly higher in vitamin C – and have fewer calories – than oranges!

What’s In A Name?




In France, French toast is called pain perdu, which means “lost bread.” Why lost bread? Originally, people made French toast from stale bread in order to use bread that would otherwise have been lost – thrown away.

Community Highlights – Rising Tuition, Rising to the Challenge

Across the community, families are confronting an escalating challenge: the cost of tuition. For many, these expenses have grown into one of the heaviest financial burdens they carry, forcing difficult decisions and putting strain on households. The issue is no longer isolated – it is widespread, affecting parents from all walks of life. 

Enter UCEF (United Children Education Foundation), a grassroots effort that has quickly gained momentum by approaching the tuition crisis in a new way. Rather than leaving parents to shoulder the burden alone, UCEF taps into the collective power of the community. The idea is simple yet powerful: when everyone contributes where they can, the impact multiplies. 

UCEF has already begun to prove this model works. Its vendor partnerships generate ongoing royalties for tuition. Its insurance collaborations save families money while directing funds back toward education. And with additional creative programs in the works, UCEF is constantly finding fresh ways to reduce costs and increase support.  

Of course, everyone complains about tuition – but the question is, are we ready to do something about it? UCEF offers countless ways to make a difference: through your business, your insurance, your shopping, and through new ideas that are just getting started. No one is asked to go out of their comfort zone. What’s needed is for everyone to get involved in ways within their reach. UCEF doesn’t claim it can erase tuition overnight – but the more people who step up, the faster real change will come.

As Executive Director Sammy Esses puts it: “Our community is amazing, we always step up when someone is in need. Right now, most of the community needs help. Everyone in this community can play a roll, all we ask is that you take a couple of minutes to learn more about what UCEF does and reach out to me – call or text 917-647-9276, or email [email protected]. Let’s have a conversation to see how you can be part of the solution.”

Magen David Yeshivah Students Honor the Legacy of Their Heritage

Last month, the students of Magen David Yeshivah paid a meaningful and moving tribute to its foundational roots by gathering for the annual Selichot Gedolah program. This year’s event was held within the historic Magen David Synagogue on 67th Street, the very location where the community’s inspiring story first began.

The program commenced with Rabbi Eli Mansour offering impactful words that underscored the profound spiritual significance of the day, emphasizing the importance of repentance and reflection as the Yamim Noraim (High Holy Days) approach. Following the Rabbi’s address, the congregation was led in the powerful liturgical songs of Selichot by Hazzan Mordechai Salem. The atmosphere allowed both students and long-time members to deeply connect with the traditions of their forefathers. It was a beautiful expression of kavod (respect) for the past, inspiring the present generation to maintain the chain of mesorah (tradition) with strength and devotion.

Flatbush Shomrim and NYPD Nab Car Theft Suspect

In a powerful testament to community vigilance and seamless cooperation with law enforcement, volunteers from Flatbush Shomrim (FSSP) recently played a critical role in the recovery of a stolen vehicle, in an operation that ultimately led to the discovery of a larger criminal network operating across the boroughs.

The incident began when Shomrim volunteers were alerted to the theft of an Acura. Utilizing advanced tracking systems available to the organization, volunteers successfully located the stolen vehicle in a specific location within the Bronx. Following established protocol, the Shomrim team immediately notified the New York City Police Department (NYPD) of the confirmed location.

NYPD officers quickly responded to the area, where they successfully took a suspect into custody. The subsequent investigation and search prompted by this initial recovery uncovered a much more extensive operation. Law enforcement confirmed that the search led not only to the apprehension of the individual but also to the recovery of multiple stolen vehicles, an inventory of various stolen license plates, and an assortment of sophisticated electronic devices used to facilitate vehicle thefts.

This operation highlights the invaluable commitment of Flatbush Shomrim’s dedicated volunteers, who work tirelessly, often behind the scenes, to ensure the security and stability of the community.