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We Are All Warriors

Our courageous, beloved IDF soldiers are fighting the war against our vicious enemies who threaten our physical existence – while Jews everywhere wage a different war, to ensure our nation’s spiritual survival. 

 

This month, we read about the first time our nation has been forced to fight a war.  After the Exodus from Egypt, as our ancestors made their way toward the Sinai desert, where they would receive the Torah, they came under attack by the evil nation of Amalek.  Moshe instructed his closest disciple, Yehoshua, to mobilize an army in order to defend the people.  Miraculously, Beneh Yisrael subdued Amalek’s forces, but without eradicating them completely.  Amalek would return on several occasions in the future, and, in fact, Gd proclaimed that His struggle against Amalek will be waged “midor dor” – for all time (Shemot 17:16). 

 

The unique gravity of Amalek’s assault on our ancestors is reflected by the famous command to recall this incident, a mitzvah which we customarily observe on the Shabbat before Purim.  And, we are commanded to eradicate this evil nation from the face of the earth. 

 

What is so unique about Amalek?  What does this nation represent, and why does the Torah so emphatically demand that we remember what they did? 

 

Sabotaging the Process of the World’s Rectification 

 

The first clue to the answer is the verse in which the Torah commands us to remember Amalek’s attack: “Zachor et asher asah lecha Amalek baderech, betzetchem miMitzrayim – Remember that which Amalek did to you along the road, after you left Egypt” (Devarim 25:17).   

 

Significantly, the Torah emphasizes that Amalek launched its attack “along the road,” as Beneh Yisrael were journeying.  As mentioned above, Beneh Yisrael were on their way from Egypt to Mount Sinai, where they would receive the Torah, which was to have been the moment of the world’s rectification.  Ever since Adam and Havah’s sin in Gan Eden, the world waited for the time when the damage caused by that sin would be fully repaired.  This was to have happened at the time of Matan Torah, when Gd revealed Himself to our ancestors at Mount Sinai and gave them the Torah.  Unfortunately, however, although Beneh Yisrael succeeded in defending themselves from Amalek’s aggression, the spiritual effects of this attack lingered, such that the long-anticipated rectification of the world could not occur at that time, even when the Torah was given. 

 

Forty years later, as Beneh Yisrael were poised to cross into the Land of Israel, two evil men – Balak and Bilam – conspired to annihilate Beneh Yisrael by placing a curse on them.  Although this effort failed, they succeeded in luring Beneh Yisrael to idol-worship and immorality, resulting in a deadly plague (Bamidbar 25).  This plague would have annihilated the entire nation, if Pinhas hadn’t arisen to avenge Gd’s honor by killing two public violators (Bamidbar 25:11).  The last two letters of Bilam’s name – ayin and men – combined with the last two letters of Balak’s name – lamed and kof – spell “Amalek,” indicating that these two figures were Amalekite proxies.  They were doing Amalek’s dirty work, getting in Beneh Yisrael’s way as they were on the brink of fulfilling their spiritual mission. 

 

Our next encounter with Amalek occurred after the establishment of the Israelite monarchy.  Once King Shaul was crowned as Beneh Yisrael’s first king, the next step was to have been the building of the Bet Hamikdash, where Gd would reside.  But like in the desert, Amalek set out to sabotage the process.  King Shaul was called upon to eradicate Amalek, but he failed to do so, leaving the king, Aggag, alive.   

 

This mistake led to Amalek’s next attempt to sabotage the process of perfecting the world.  Seventy years after the destruction of the Bet Hamikdash, the Persian Empire took control of the ancient world, and its benevolent emperor, Cyrus, allowed the Jews to return to Israel and rebuild the Bet Hamikdash.  Once again, Amalek set out to foil the Jews’ redemption.  Haman, a direct descendant of Aggag, rose to power and nearly annihilated the entire Jewish Nation. 

 

Amalek’s goal is to stop Beneh Yisrael every time we are poised to bring the world’s final redemption.  They consistently attack us “baderech,” when we are making our way to greatness, ready to fulfill our mission of perfecting the world. 

 

This is why we are commanded to never forget Amalek’s assault, and why we are bidden to eradicate this evil nation.  In order to fulfill our mission, we must be aware of the efforts that Amalek has made, and will always make, to stand in our way and prevent us from bringing the world to its state of perfection. 

 

Amalek’s Two-Pronged Approach 

 

Probing a bit deeper, it is significant that the initial battle against Amalek was led by two righteous men – Moshe Rabbenu, and his disciple, Yehoshua.   

 

As mentioned, Yehoshua led the armed forces on the ground.  Moshe, meanwhile, sat on a hill overlooking the battlefield, and when he lifted his hands, Beneh Yisrael succeeded in defeating Amalek.  The Mishnah (Rosh Hashanah 3:8) explains that when Moshe raised his hands, Beneh Yisrael’s eyes and hearts were drawn heavenward, to Gd, thus reinforcing their faith, in the merit of which they were victorious.  The Torah thus says about Moshe’s hands during this battle, “Vayehi yadav emunah” (Shemot 17:12) – literally, “His hands were faith.”  Moshe led this war by strengthening the people’s emunah, their faith in Gd.  Amalek set out to extinguish the raging fire of emunah which was kindled by the unprecedented miracles of the Exodus and the splitting of the sea.  In response, Moshe arose to reinforce Am Yisrael’s faith. 

 

Yehoshua was a descendant of Yosef, who, as a 17-year-old boy, was cruelly banished from his home and brought to a foreign country, where his morality was tested.  Working as a slave, Yosef was tempted by his master’s wife, and heroically resisted her advances, preserving his morality and purity.  His heir, Yehoshua, was chosen to wage the battle against Amalek because Amalek’s spiritual offensive against our nation entails not only a war on faith, but also a war against our moral code.  Amalek seeks to undermine our kedushah, our sanctity, exposing us to things we should not see, and enticing us to inappropriate conduct. 

 

This is why Balak and Bilam conspired to lure Beneh Yisrael specifically to the sins of pagan worship and illicit relationships.  As emissaries of Amalek, their plan to spiritually annihilate Am Yisrael focused on these two particular areas – our belief in Hashem, and our moral lifestyle.  This is Amalek’s strategy – to undermine our people’s faith, and to lead us to immoral conduct. 

 

The Modern-Day Amalekite Onslaught 

 

In our generation, Amalek has launched yet another assault – one which is far subtler than its earlier attacks, but no less dangerous.  This assault is taking place now because we are approaching the time of our final redemption.  As Mashiah’s arrival draws near, Amalek again rears its ugly hand, doing everything it can to derail this process, to make us unworthy of our geulah (redemption) and incapable of fulfilling our mission to perfect the world. 

 

This is why our generation faces unprecedented challenges in these two areas – emunah and morality.  Our society ridicules the belief in Gd who governs the world and imposes upon us certain obligations and restrictions with which we are obliged to comply.  Modern man finds such a notion archaic, primitive, and naïve.  And, we live in a society that champions a lack of restraint, that glorifies promiscuity and exposure – in direct contrast to the Torah’s ethic of modesty and of the sanctity of marriage.  These societal influences are spiritually harmful in their own right, but they are made especially pernicious by modern technology, which exposes us to society’s values on an ongoing basis.  Never before have Torah-committed Jews been so vulnerable to the threatening spiritual forces of Amalek.  In the palm of our hand, we have unlimited access to atheistic, heretical ideas, and to the lowest depths of immorality.  The closer we get to our final redemption, to the ultimate rectification of the world, the greater force Amalek exerts in its relentless efforts to disrupt this process – hence the unparalleled spiritual challenges that virtually every observant Jew confronts in today’s day and age. 

 

We must realize that each and every one of us is a soldier, a warrior taking part in this battle against Amalek.  Our courageous, beloved IDF soldiers are fighting the war against our vicious enemies who threaten our physical existence, who seek the destruction of the Jewish State and the Jewish Nation.  We, who live outside Israel and are not fighting against Palestinian terrorism, are nevertheless warriors, full participants in Am Yisrael’s struggle for spiritual survival.  And as we wage this war, we must celebrate every small victory.  Every time we reinforce our emunah, turning to Hashem in prayer, or sacrificing for the sake of a mitzvah, we score an important victory against Amalek.  Every time we avoid looking at something inappropriate, or we walk away from somewhere we aren’t supposed to be, we win a battle. 

 

Let us not be discouraged by today’s spiritual challenges, or allow ourselves to fall into despair.  Let us instead remember what these challenges mean – that we are in the process of bringing the geulah, that Mashiah is around the corner, thus prompting Amalek to “work overtime” in luring us to sin.  And let us draw encouragement from our significant victories, from all the times when we did not allow Amalek to defeat us, from all the mitzvot that we observed even when it was difficult, even when we were tempted to neglect them.  Like soldiers on the battlefield, we must stand strong, with confidence and resolve, determined to win this difficult war that our generation has been chosen to wage so that we can usher in the final redemption, may it unfold speedily and in our times, amen. 

Unraveling Israel’s Complex Battle with Hamas

DAVE GORDON 

 

In the midst of an all-out war between Israel and Hamas, it is a challenge to understand the intricacies of what is happening. The situation is ever evolving and is complex, with numerous events unfolding simultaneously and critical details emerging on various fronts. 

 

Israel finds itself entangled in a multifaceted struggle with Hamas. Israel’s goals include seeking out terrorists and destroying the Hamas infrastructure, locating the hostages, shoring up security, and protecting Israeli soldiers and her citizens. The conflict involves not only military operations but also complex political, humanitarian, and diplomatic considerations. 

 

To gain a comprehensive understanding, let us delve into how Israel is navigating this challenging terrain. The details of Israel’s strategies, tactics, and decision-making processes provide critical insights into Israel’s approach to handling the complexities of this war. 

 

 

 

The Hostage Situation 

 

On October 7th, Hamas took 240 hostages captive. Between November 24th and 31st 110 hostages were released, including 81 Israeli women and children, one Russian Israeli man, and 24 foreign nationals.  

 

Ohad Lapidot, the Canadian Israeli father of Tiferet Lapidot, who was murdered at the Supernova festival, told Community that during the painful ordeal, he was heartened by our nation’s unity in a tangible way: “It was really important to see the love, the support, and the solidarity of Jewish people… Keep your chins up, I’d say.”  

Lapidot was pleased to see how many rallies there were around the world, but although rallies help morale, he believes that “social-media warriors” play an integral part in the war effort, too. 

“Public opinion is important. We have the tools with us, and we have to keep telling the truth – that we are under Nazi-like barbarian attacks and we should defend ourselves,” he said.
 

Lapidot told Community that he experienced the strength of Jewish achdut when strangers, both in Israel and the Diaspora, offered to help.

While touring in North America to tell his story, he met a man who kept a photo of Tiferet in his siddur and prayed for her. “I don’t know his name. We’ve never met before, but I do know he’s Jewish and he’s family,” Lapidot said. “I lost my daughter, and he believes he lost a niece.”  

 

Difficult Truths About the Hostages’ Conditions and Release 

The liberation of the hostages came at a high price. Israel made the difficult decision to release over 230 Palestinian security prisoners – meaning each one was convicted of committing violent crimes and acts of terror – and agreed to halt military operations temporarily, and facilitate daily humanitarian aid and fuel deliveries to Gaza.                                                                           
After the hostages’ release, disturbing revelations about their captivity emerged. Eylon Levy, an Israeli government spokesperson, condemned the conditions where the hostages were held in what he called “Hamas terror dungeons.”

In his November 29th briefing, Levy detailed, “Our children were serially abused. The hostages were not held in reasonable conditions.” Twelve-year-old Eitan Yahalomi was forced to watch videos of the October 7th massacre. Sisters Dafna and Ella Elyakim endured psychological torment, while elderly women hostages experienced significant weight loss and medication deprivation, indicative of the severe conditions and neglect.

While the release of hostages brought relief to many, it also highlighted the ongoing heartache for those still separated from their loved ones. In a December 6th update, IDF Spokesperson Daniel Hagari reiterated the critical mission to rescue the remaining hostages. “Our intelligence has been closely monitoring the hostages’ situation, confirming that every minute in Hamas captivity poses a life-threatening risk,” he stated. 

Levy reported on December 10th, “137 hostages from October 7th remain in Hamas captivity in Gaza, along with four others taken before the massacre. Twenty hostages from October 7th were killed by Hamas, which is now holding their bodies.”

The IDF’s Offensive Strategy – Tactics That Are Turning the Tide Against Hamas

The Israeli Defense Forces (IDF) have executed a series of strategic maneuvers that have disrupted Hamas’s leadership and infrastructure and have caused an unforeseen outcome – the surrender of numerous Hamas operatives.

IDF Chief of Staff Lt. Gen. Herzi Halevi, speaking at a Hanukah event with Nahal Brigade troops in the south, said, “We are seeing every day more and more terror operatives killed, more and more terror operative wounded, and in recent days we’re seeing terrorists surrendering – a sign of the disintegration of their system.” He noted the rising toll of casualties and “white flags” among terror operatives. 

As Yair Pinto of TBN Israel reports, this significant change is the result of the IDF’s carefully designed strategic military operations, characterized by precision and an unwavering commitment to national defense.

December 14th saw dozens of terrorists – weapons laid down – emerge from the Kamal Adwan Hospital, surrendering to the IDF. On December 15th, Senior Hamas official, Mousa Abu Marzook,  made an unexpected statement: “respect the recognition of Israel.” His comment alluded to following the PLO’s stance on Israel’s existence, in order to head the Palestinian Authority in the future to end the internal Palestinian conflict. However, later he backtracked.   

 

Khan Yunis School Site – Not Only for Learning  

The IDF’s 55th Brigade battled terrorists in a school located in Khan Yunis in southern Gaza on December 14th, as reported by the IDF Spokesperson. The military operation was initiated based on intelligence indicating suspicious activities within the school, where terrorists had launched attacks on IDF soldiers. During the raid, Israeli forces confronted a terrorist cell armed with firearms and rocket powered grenades (RPGs), resulting in a firefight that led to the elimination of the terrorists. 
 

Further exploration of the school revealed an underground combat complex. An airstrike was executed to dismantle the complex, targeting its physical structure and control and observation centers utilized by Hamas. Throughout the ground offensive in Gaza, Israeli forces consistently discovered terrorist infrastructure, such as tunnels and weapons storage, within and adjacent to civilian areas, including schools, hospitals, and homes.  

Israel’s Complex Approach to Complicated Warfare

The IDF’s approach involved a three-stage operation. Initially, aerial strikes targeted key Hamas locations to disrupt their operational strength. This was followed by efforts to neutralize explosives and traps, clearing the way for ground operations. The final phase saw infantry, tanks, and engineering units strategically encircling and targeting Hamas-controlled areas to dismantle their terror infrastructure.

One of the critical challenges for the IDF in this urban warfare scenario, as Pinto points out, is distinguishing civilian structures from those used by Hamas fighters. “Identifying a normal house from a terror house in the Gaza Strip is an almost impossible task,” Pinto explained, emphasizing the IDF’s innovative efforts to minimize civilian casualties.

In Jabalia, the IDF neutralized about 200 underground terror tunnels. In Beit Hanoun the IDF dismantled 40 terror tunnels and over 240 Hamas positions. In Khan Yunis, the IDF’s operations focused on ensuring civilian safety, with targeted strikes carried out after civilian evacuation.

These strategic advances, particularly in the southern Gaza Strip, and the use of advanced technologies, like the flooding of Hamas terror tunnels with sea water, have significantly weakened Hamas, leading to the surrender of many of their militants.

Furthermore, the IDF’s strategic scope extended beyond Gaza. In Yemen, a joint operation with the United States targeted Houthi positions, uncovering the use of advanced Iranian-made missiles. Along Israel’s northern border, engagements with Hezbollah demonstrated the effective use of the Iron Dome system and subsequent strikes that have diminished Hezbollah’s capabilities. 

The IDF’s operations demonstrate a blend of strategic insight, technological innovation, and a commitment to reducing civilian casualties. These operations shed light on the complexities of modern warfare and the challenges Israel faces in its ongoing conflict with Hamas.

Political and Humanitarian Considerations

Former Knesset member (Yesh Atid) Rabbi Dov Lipman pointed out that as the war progresses, the biggest challenges for the IDF  are to destroy Hamas, while not hurting the hostages, and minimizing civilian casualties.

“We have the power to carpet bomb Gaza and destroy Hamas. But we cannot forsake the hostages, and we are the most sensitive army in the history of the world to civilians being harmed. This means we have to use our ground troops to carefully go through the buildings and deal with the tunnels, which leads to our soldiers being killed and injured. It’s a really complicated situation,” said the founder and CEO of Yad L’Olim, an organization that helps new immigrants to Israel.   

“The U.S. support has been remarkable. Their support of our military effort and their involvement with the hostage releases has been really important.  I just hope that it continues,” he told Community. 
 

“We will have to fight in southern Gaza and this will lead to civilian casualties. The U.S. has already shown displeasure with that and I hope we don’t reach a breaking point in which they pressure Israel to stop before the job is done.” 

After the War Is Over 


Once the war is over, Lipman is uncertain as to who, or what, will oversee Gaza. 

“I don’t know. It can’t be Hamas. That’s for sure. I believe we will have our forces there for quite some time. There will have to be some kind of international effort with the IDF still having the ability to enter and deal with security issues.” 
 

Despite the uncertainty and turmoil, Lipman said he’s heartened to see so many Jews outside of Israel lend their support. “I have been so inspired by the response of Diaspora Jewry. The amount of donations that people are giving, the number of people who are coming to Israel to volunteer, and the number of rallies, prayer gatherings, group acts of kindness, have been remarkable. Those should continue.” 

His organization is “bombarded with requests” from soldiers who need equipment, materials, and clothing, in addition to requests from evacuated families. 

What Israelis Worry About

Oded Revivi, Mayor of Efrat, said that the October 7 attack “breached so many understandings” that have led people to ask whether they are ultimately safe or protected. “Are those who are responsible for their protection able to protect them? And if not, what do they need to do in order to protect themselves? That, I would say, is the biggest concern right now.”  

Efrat residents have not been displaced, “so that is not a relevant worry,” Revivi said. They are, however, “definitely worried about their beloved ones who are at the front line now. They’re definitely worried about employment and income sources because in times like this everything gets jeopardized. But I would say the number one concern is the lack of sense of security.” 

Lipman said that Israelis are currently most concerned about the hostages and the soldiers. “Everyone has family members who are fighting. Everyone is close to someone who has family in captivity. It’s a painful and anxious time for all. The economic issues are somewhere in the back of our minds and will come to the fore at some point. But right now it’s our brothers and sisters.”  

Outside Pressures
  

In terms of the battle against Hamas, Revivi acknowledges that Israel faces outside pressures from those who may not grasp the entirety of the challenges.
 

“As time goes by, it is evident that it’s going to take longer than the international community would have liked. The amount of civilian casualties involved is definitely something which the international community and Israel are concerned about. Israel does its best to spare innocents, yet still has to eliminate these horrific terrorists, so that they do not repeat their brutal acts. That’s why the challenge is, ‘how do we gain more time to conclude what we actually need to conclude?’” 

“If you compare it [the October 7th massacre] to what the Americans wanted to do after 9/11, so you understand the severity of the attack, and you understand how long it takes for a country to basically protect itself from acts like this repeating.” 

Outside Support 

Meanwhile, Revivi is thankful for the U.S. government’s support, when that friendship is most needed. “Support we’re gaining from the American administration is definitely heartwarming and definitely allowing Israel to carry out what we need to do. I only hope that that support will carry on, and will stay at the same level so we can really complete the mission.” 

“I think the Diaspora Jews have been absolutely amazing … by their support, by their unity, by their generosity, and by their concern as to what’s happening in Israel. I think it’s been a very long time since we saw such unity in Israel, and also amongst the Jews in the Diaspora,” he said. 

“That is definitely very heartwarming. I can also say that people in Israel are looking at the rise of level of anti-Semitic attacks happening in the Diaspora, and we’re definitely very worried about your safety, and your welfare, in the countries that you live in, including the United States.” 

Conclusion

As Israel grapples with the challenges posed by terrorism, we see the journey to root out these threats is long and arduous. Our nation’s unwavering commitment to its security remains resolute, embodied by the brave men and women of the IDF. 

It is imperative for us to unite in solidarity and offer our heartfelt prayers for the safe return of the hostages. They serve as a poignant reminder of the human toll exacted by acts of terror. As we extend our thoughts and prayers for them, we must also extend our gratitude to the dedicated IDF fighters who sacrifice so much to safeguard us and our nation. 

 

Now the Jewish community must remain vigilant, recognizing that efforts to aid Israel are of paramount importance. Solidarity, cooperation, and a collective commitment will ensure that Am Yisrael stays united. Together, let us keep Israel in our thoughts, prayers, and actions.

Talking to Your Children About the War in Israel

Frieda Schweky 

 

What do we say to reassure, educate, and enlighten the next generation about the war in Israel? Our children are looking up at us during these trying times and it’s up to us to model for them the correct behavior and the proper outlook concerning the situation. When my daughters ask me about what’s going on,  I try to be as honest as I can without oversharing details that will scare them. I try not cry in front of them. If we let all the crazy news get to us in a way that’s unproductive and depressing, Hamas wins. It’s up to us to use the current situation as fuel to do more. This is the message we want to send to our kids. We’re down but we’re not out. We have an incredible opportunity to raise lions. We are strong and our children can absorb our strength, too. Popular opinion about the next generation in America is that they are weak, have everything handed to them, and arere offended by everything. These attitudes will not bring about a positive future of our nation, no matter where we live. We must be empowered as mothers, fathers, and teachers to take our torches and light the flame of the next generation of Jews. We are oil and we always rise above. So, yes, the spotlight is now on the Jewish people, and we have the opportunity to show the world who we really are. We are a light unto the nations. Now, let’s hear what community members have to say. 

 

 

Mrs. C. 

 

I teach the fifth grade in a community school. Our school asked the teachers to deflect conversation and to not really discuss the war in Israel. Initially, I was really disappointed because I knew how much the students heard and were exposed to. Also, we are currently teaching about human rights. So watching or hearing about such obvious violations of human rights really made the students upset and confused. Human rights is such a broad topic, and our students must have so many questions. But, again, I have been asked not to address their questions. Even if I could, I’m not sure I have the answers.  

 

Jessica B. Cohen 

 

In my kids’ school, they did all the cute things like wear white and blue and perform different hesed programs for Israel – but they didn’t attempt to educate the children on what’s going on in Israel. For my son’s World News assignment he was asked to write about the conflict in Ukraine. I think it’s more important to know what’s going on with our own people!  

 

We’re living through history, so are our kids. Not only as Jews, but as human beings, we should know what’s going on. And there’s a way to educate kids on the topic. We can even talk to our kids about the hostage situation in a way that will not scare them. The schools should hire child therapists to advise the teachers on what to say and let them teach it in an appropriate manner. I feel that to ignore the topic in the classroom is a real missed opportunity. It shouldn’t exclusively be up to the parents to explain what is happening in Israel. We are juggling so much as it is.  

 

Chaya Lipschutz, LSW, Licensed Social Worker 

 

Here are a few quick tips I would like to share.  

 

Validate – always validate your children’s emotions, For example, yes, a war can be scary. 

 

Normalize – normalize the fear, because war is frightening. It makes sense to feel nervous and anxious.  

 

Inform – You can give factual, age-appropriate information that can help children feel safe. For example, yes, there is a war going on and people are getting hurt, but here in Deal (or wherever you are) we are far away from the Arabs and we are safe here.  

 

 

Melanie Falack 

 

As a grandchild of Holocaust survivors, I believe it is imperative to instill in my children awareness and pride in what it means to be a Jew. Throughout our existence, there have been countless nations who wanted to destroy us, but with Hashem’s loving protection, we have prevailed. Explain things to children in a way that is age appropriate. Some kids can handle more than others, depending on their personality and coping skills.  

 

When it came to the October 7th massacre, I informed my children before they heard anywhere else that there was a terrible incident that occurred in Israel. Jews were killed and taken hostage into Gaza and there is now a war. I can be sad in front of my kids if I feel sad in a healthy, controlled way. It’s important to feel sad when our nation is down just as it is important to celebrate our nation’s up’s. 

 

I assured my children that we are far away and “safe,” but just as our army will protect us physically, that we, as Jews around the world, have a job to protect our brothers and sisters through prayers and mitzvot. My goal is to instill a feeling of being special along with an unwavering pride in being a Jew and ignite a fire within them to ACT. We pray Tehillim together for the release of the hostages, we sing praises to Hashem each day that a hostage is released. We hung up a huge Israeli flag on a wall in our home, say berachot, and give tzedaka before I light my Shabbat candles for all the Jews who died on kiddush Hashem 

 

In the beginning I even put an empty place setting for all the hostages who weren’t able to sit at their own Friday night meals. We talk about being UNITED as siblings, families, communities, and as a nation and work on things like mitzvot ben adam lechavero, sibling relationships, and friendships.  

When we are weak as nation we can crumble, but when we are a strong and united nation, no one can penetrate us. We pray that Hashem bring Mashiach as soon as possible and we know no more suffering or pain! 

 

Elki Mor 

 

If my children were old enough to ask me about the war and were concerned I would tell them that throughout history the Jewish people have had enemies, and these enemies are bad guys. They don’t want us to believe in Hashem and they don’t want us to be Jewish, but that just makes us even stronger. We stand up to the bad guys. Hashem gives us the ability to win. The Jewish people are the eternal nation and we will always prevail and we will always win and Hashem is always on our side. Even though it can be scary and there are scary people involved, the good people will always win and Hashem will always have our back. I would really simplify it to that extent. I would make it historical and put in thoughts of emunah and Hashem being with us.  

 

Sarah Azar, LPC, Child Therapist 

 

How I would discuss with children the war in Israel depends on their age. Here are some basic tips. Most importantly: 

Be sure to ask what they know before you share any information. My go-to line for younger kids is to tell them “as much as necessary, and as little as possible.” 

Validate their feelings and concerns – war is very scary and confusing and they have every right to feel scared and confused. Some kids may appear to not feel anything or seem to not be affected and that’s okay, too. 

Create a safe place for children to ask their questions. Remind them that if they hear something they don’t understand or are worried about, they should ask you.  

Protect their innocence – do not let them watch any of the scary videos! It’s one thing to hear something, but to see it is much harder to erase from your memory.  

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As the IDF battles to physically eliminate Hamas, we all have our roles to play. We, the Jewish people, are one unit and we know each parent and teacher plays a major part in the success of our nation. If you’ve been avoiding the topic with your children or have not been validating their worries, I pray that you heed the advice given above and try to rectify this. Things that get swept under the rug can’t stay there forever and this is too important a topic to ignore. If we apply some thoughtfulness and tact, we can successfully educate and empower our youth to be the future leaders of our great nation.  

 

Until next time,  

Frieda Schweky

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The Case – Cease and Desist

An affluent Jewish congregation in the Tri-State area entered into a contractual agreement with Harold to construct a community center in the heart of their neighborhood. The complex was to include a synagogue, social hall, mikveh, and workout room. Harold hired out subcontractors for each of the different features of the project. The mikveh complex was subcontracted to Maurice, who was entrusted with the project based on his impressive résumé.  But after the mikveh was completed, a bitter monetary dispute raged between Harold and Maurice regarding the total cost of the mikveh project. The two appeared in Bet Din to resolve the complicated matter, in which Maurice claimed he was owed a substantial amount of money and thus requested a “cease and desist” order, preventing use of the mikveh by the public until he was paid in full. He pointed out that the mikveh was built using his raw materials and his workers, and until he received the full payment, the mikveh should be forbidden to use. Maurice further noted that forbidding the use of the mikveh could also be beneficial to Harold in giving him leverage to recoup some of the additional expenses he had incurred from the congregation that hired him. Additionally, he claimed that since the local neighborhood maintained an operating mikveh in the area, preventing use of the new mikveh would not stop people from observing this important mitzvah. 

Harold responded that while it is likely that he owed Maurice a minimal amount, he was by no means willing to make any further payments until their dispute was resolved. In addition, Harold felt it would be preposterous to punish the congregation until he makes whatever payment is required, given the small amount entailed.  

How should the Bet Din rule? Does Maurice have a valid claim? Should the Bet Din prevent the opening of the mikveh until the matter is resolved? 

 

Torah Law 

According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a craftsman who receives raw material for labor is not viewed as the rightful owner of the developed product. Though the craftsman developed and enhanced the raw material submitted to him, nevertheless, he is not deemed the product’s legal owner. 

If, however, a craftsman supplies the raw material for a product that he subsequently develops, according to halachic authorities the craftsman is considered the proper owner.  Since his time and money was invested, he is the legal owner and is entitled to dictate and control the status of the product.  While according to one opinion a craftsman maintains the status of an employee even if he supplies the raw material, the consensus of the majority is to rule as aforementioned.  

The above ruling is applicable in instances in which the craftsman or contractor performed services for his client without receiving monetary compensation. If, however, the client prepaid for the work performed, the money extended is to include the cost of the raw material, thereby making the client the official titleholder of the project.  As the property owner, all major considerations regarding usage, occupancy, and the like, are to be regulated by his order. This ruling is applicable even if the prepaid sum merely covers the cost of the raw material and not the cost of labor. Since the client paid for the material, the contractor is viewed as an employee who is owed wages for his services. 

By rule of the Shulhan Aruch, partners who are shareholders in a property cannot prohibit entry onto the said premises to each other.  Since they had invested together, each has the legal right of entry, and until proven otherwise, each may equally share and benefit from the property. In instances in which one of the partners has the property deed in his name and a certificate of occupancy enabling him legal entry, the other investing partner may by no means prohibit entry. Even if the investing partner may have a valid claim, he may not prohibit entry to the titleholder. As titleholder, one maintains legal possession of the property, and unless the claims against him are validated by a Torah judicial system, he is permitted to occupy the property. 

By Torah law, in instances in which a dispute occurs regarding public property, a Bet Din will be deliberate and cautious before preventing the public from occupying grounds without first hearing the case. Although the legal position of the public is by no means favored over a private individual, nevertheless, a Bet Din will refrain from enacting a cease and desist against a public building unless clear evidence is submitted to validate the claim. Without hearing the case, and without a formal lien on the property, a Bet Din is likely to reject a cease-and-desist order. 

VERDICT: Proceed and Permit 

The Bet Din rejected Maurice’s request for a cease-and-desist order to prevent usage of the mikveh by the public until the monetary dispute is resolved. Although Maurice did, indeed, use his raw materials and workers to construct the edifice, upon inquiry, he acknowledged that he received numerous payments that clearly covered the costs of the raw material. Hence, as elaborated in Torah law, Maurice maintains the mere status of an employee, and is not entitled to dictate the condition of occupancy of the property. Furthermore, even if a substantial sum of money is due to him, he is at best only a partner in the property, and by Torah law cannot prohibit the other partners from entry. In addition, the leaders of the congregation submitted the deed and the certificate of occupancy allowing them entry onto the premises. With the members of the congregation in full legal possession of the mikveh, Maurice’s request for a cease and desist was easily discarded, and the Bet Din informed his attorneys to proceed with the monetary claim for possible collection. As a rule, a Bet Din will proceed with caution before preventing public entry into a community building. 

In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H 

YOU BE THE JUDGE 

 

Three iPhone 15s 

 

Eli went out for lunch with his friend David in a local café in Israel. The two were discussing Eli’s upcoming vacation to Los Angeles, and David asked Eli to buy him the new iPhone 15 from overseas. Eli agreed, and David forwarded the full sum in cash to Eli for the purchase. At the Apple store in Los Angeles Eli inspected the new gadget and he decided to purchase three phones. One phone was for David, the second was for his own personal use, and the third he intended on selling in Israel at a profit. Eli wrapped the three phones in bubble wrap and packed them in his suitcase. Upon arrival in Israel Eli opened his suitcase and discovered that his bag was tampered with. He inspected the contents of the bag and immediately detected that the bubble wrap was ripped and one of the phones was missing. He filed a complaint with the airport authorities, and while they were planning to investigate, the airport authorities added that it was possible the phone was stolen by a passenger as the suitcase was revolving on the belt. Eli had decided that it was David’s phone that had been stolen and Eli contacted David to inform him of the unfortunate occurrence. David responded that Eli had no right to determine that of the three phones it was specifically his that was stolen, since all three models were the same. David suggested that perhaps they split the loss between the two of them, or possibly Eli was to suffer two thirds of the loss as two of the three phones were his.  

How should the Bet Din rule – in favor of Eli or David? 

Permanent Make-Up for Medical Purposes

Rabbi Yehuda Finchas 

 

 

 

Eddie and Tami asked me if permanent make-up is permitted according to halacha. Eddie wanted to have a micropigmentation procedure to cover a facial scar after a recent injury. And Tami inquired about microblading (a semi-permanent tattooing technique used for thinning or absent eyebrows) in the shape of eyebrows, as her eyebrows fell out after chemotherapy treatment. They know that the Torah prohibits tattoos (Vayikra 19:28) and some friends told them their rabbi allowed these procedures since they were not similar to tattoos and others told them their rabbi forbade them because they were too similar. Eddie and Tami asked me what was the position of the Sephardi Hashimi.  

 

Permanent make-up is not exactly permanent. Unlike a tattoo, permanent make-up lasts only up to three years, as the pigment does not penetrate the skin to the level and depth as that of a regular tattoo. Generally, permanent make-up is employed for cosmetic purposes. The question is whether this type of pigmentation is sufficiently similar to a tattoo and is therefore forbidden or are the differences between the two significant enough to permit permanent make-up? I discussed plastic surgery in the July issue and explained that Hacham Ovadia, zt”l (Yabia Omer CM, 8:12) permits cosmetic surgery for reasons of shalom bayit or to help marriage prospects. In Taharat Habayit (Vol. 3, p. 28), Hacham Ovadia has another long responsa discussing “permanent” make-up, and I will briefly summarize his main points. 

 

Hacham Ovadia’s Reasoning 

 

Hacham Ovadia explains there are various halachic reasons why permanent make-up is different than a tattoo, and we will discuss three of his main points: 

 

  1. The Gemara (Makkot 21a) discusses forbidden tattoos: Rav Shimon taught that the prohibition only pertains to a tattoo that includes writing the name of an avoda zara. The Hachamim, however, disagree and rule that any tattoo is prohibited.  Shulchan Aruch (YD 180:1) follows the majority opinion of the Hachamim. However, the Rif and Rosh rule like Rav Shimon. And there is much debate as to whether the Rambam (Avoda Zara 12:11) follows the position of the Hachamim or Rav Shimon

 

  1. The Torah describes a tattoo as “ketovet ka’aka.Ketovet has the same root as ktav, which literally means to write. Therefore, some Rishonim, like the Meil Zedaka, understand that even the Hachamim agree that a person violates the biblical prohibition of ketovet ka’aka only if the tattoo includes letters. However, a tattoo that does not include letters is an issur d’rabbanan – rabbinically prohibited, as it is not considered a ketovet

 

  1. The third difference between a tattoo and “permanent” make-up is that according to many poskim, a forbidden tattoo must be literally permanent, something that is forever etched into the skin. Hacham Ovadia quotes Rashi (Vayikra 19:28) and other Rishonim who make this distinction and he therefore rules that the only tattoos that are biblically prohibited are those that literally last forever. Any tattoo that will disappear over time is only a lesser violation of an issur d’rabbanan

 

Hacham Ovadia explains that since permanent make-up does not contain letters, it certainly is not avoda zara, and it is not “forever” etched into the skin. On the other hand, however, the simple understanding of the Shulchan Aruch, who does not make these three distinctions, is that all tattoos are prohibited. Consequently, it is difficult to rule leniently based on these factors alone. Hacham Ovadia writes that initially he ruled against allowing permanent make-up and, in fact, this is the position of some contemporary poskim. 

 

Hacham Ovadia’s Conclusion 

 

However, upon reevaluation, Hacham Ovadia concludes leniently because of a combination of factors: 1. Rif and Rosh rule like Rav Shimon that a prohibited tattoo is only one that includes avoda zara script.  2. Even the Meil Zedaka, who disagrees, still requires that a biblically prohibited tattoo must include some letters. 3. Rashi prohibits only tattoos that will actually last forever, as opposed to permanent make-up that will not. In cases of kavod habriot (human dignity) when people feel embarrassed and ashamed due to their scars, there is room can be lenient and incorporate these three leniencies and to allow micropigmentation to cover scars or microblading to create the illusion of eyebrows. As with all complex halachic questions, especially when there are differences of opinion, always refer to your local posek. But according to Hacham Ovadia, it is permitted le’chatchila in these specific situations. 

 

Rabbi Yehuda Finchas is a worldwide expert, lecturer, and writer on medical halacha, and is the head of the Torat Habayit Medical Halacha Institute. His latest book is “Brain Death in Halacha and the Tower of Babel Syndrome.” To contact Rabbi Finchas, email rabbi@torathabayit.com 

Miracle at the Kotel

A person who trusts in Hashem is always happy. If things don’t go his way, he strengthens his faith. He doesn’t fall into depression or despair when his prayers aren’t answered. He knows the pasuk in Tehillim (27:14) that states that one should pray to Hashem, and if he is not answered, he should strengthen himself – and pray even more. The person who trusts in Hashem has heard hundreds of stories about Hashem’s salvation, and knows with confidence that Hashem can save him from his problems in but an instant. He also knows the inestimable value of heartfelt prayer.

I heard of a couple, Yaakov and Miriam; both are baalei teshuvah. They lived in Israel and were childless for twelve years. They tried every procedure possible, but nothing worked, and the doctors could not figure out the source of the problem. Finally, they reached the mutual decision to divorce, in the hope that they could each remarry and have children with a different spouse. Yaakov’s friends pleaded with him to reconsider his decision, noting that since he was a Kohen, he would not be able to remarry his wife once they divorced. But his mind was made up, and he gave her a get.

Within a few months, he discovered that his wife was expecting. He was heartbroken. They had tried to have children for twelve years and nothing worked, and now he could not marry her again and raise the child together. It is difficult for us to even begin to imagine the agony he felt.

Devasted, Yaakov went to his rabbi and showed him the get, hoping that maybe the rabbi could find something wrong with the document so it could be invalidated. But the rabbi found nothing wrong. The rabbi advised Yaakov to bring the get to Rav Elyashiv, zt”l, who was one of the greatest halachic sages of the generation, to see if perhaps he could find a basis for disqualifying the get. To Yaakov’s dismay, Rav Elyashiv, too, found that the get was perfectly valid. There seemed to be no hope of bringing the family back together.

Rav Elyashiv urged him to go to the Kotel to pray. “Go pour your heart out at the Kotel,” he said. “Hashem is the only One Who could help you. Many people have received salvation there at the Kotel.”

Yaakov went to the Kotel and cried his eyes out. As he was praying, a stranger came over to him and said, “You have to see your father.” Yaakov paid no attention to the man. He had never seen this man before, and besides, although he had a father in Dallas, they were not on good terms. He hadn’t gone to visit him in a long time. And so, Yaakov went back to his prayers. But a few minutes later, the stranger returned and told him he had to go to his father. Yaakov was very perplexed. That night, he thought about this incident for a long time, and finally decided that he should go visit his father.

Yaakov took a flight to Dallas, and when he walked into his father’s home, his father, for the first time in his life, called him by his Jewish name, Yaakov, instead of Jason. “Yaakov!” he said. “It’s so great to see you! How’s everything? Did you bring your wife?” Upon hearing this, Yaakov broke down crying. He told his father the entire story, and the painful situation he now faced.

His father listened and kept silent for a number of minutes. Finally, he said, “My son, there is something I need to tell you. Your mother swore me to secrecy, but now I must tell you: you are not really my son. We were childless, and your mother wanted a child very badly. We adapted you, but we never told a soul. Everybody assumed that you were our biological son. And you grew up thinking you are a Kohen, but you’re not.” He showed Yaakov the adoption papers, and Yaakov retuned home and remarried his wife.

That stranger at the Kotel was Hashem’s messenger. This is the power of heartfelt prayer.

The person who trusts in Hashem knows that Hashem can help him in an instant. He also knows that if he hasn’t been answered yet, there must be a very good reason for it, and therefore he thanks Hashem, confident that Hashem knows best. And, he knows that Hashem wants him to continue praying, and he always anticipates his salvation the next time he prays.

Kosher Paradise at Grand Hyatt Playa del Carmen

Luxury and Tradition Meet South of the Border

J. Cohen

Nestled in the vibrant heart of Mexico’s Riviera Maya, Playa del Carmen offers sun, sand, and now, a seamless blend of five-star luxury with year-round kosher hospitality. The Grand Hyatt Playa del Carmen has embraced a unique initiative, establishing itself as a premier destination for discerning travelers, including the observant Jewish community, seeking both relaxation and reliable kosher dining.  

What began as a successful Passover program sparked an idea: why not cater to kosher guests 365 days a year?. After careful planning, the resort transformed its grill restaurant into a dedicated kosher establishment, “The Grill”. But the commitment doesn’t stop there. Kosher options permeate the resort experience. Guests can enjoy 24-hour kosher room service (with breakfast best ordered the day before), poolside kosher burgers, and even kosher bakery items at the coffee shop – perfect for grabbing a bite before heading out on a tour. The Grill itself welcomes not just hotel guests, but visitors from other properties and the local Playa del Carmen community.  

Beyond the extensive culinary offerings, the Grand Hyatt Playa del Carmen ensures comfort for observant guests with thoughtful accommodations like a dedicated prayer room available year-round. The hotel also collaborates with partners to offer exclusive packages during holidays and festivities, incorporating kosher food and beverage options.  

When asked about his personal highlights, General Manager Paul Wood points to three standout features. First, the award-winning Cenote Spa, recognized globally for its excellence, offers a sanctuary for relaxation. Second, the food itself, particularly the carefully curated kosher menu, stands out as a significant achievement. Finally, Mr. Wood praises the hotel staff. Recognizing the importance of cultural understanding, the local team receives regular training from a rabbi, ensuring knowledgeable, sensitive, and welcoming service for all guests.  

For travelers seeking a luxurious Mexican getaway without compromising on kosher requirements, the Grand Hyatt Playa del Carmen presents a compelling option. Offering exceptional amenities, dedicated service, and comprehensive kosher dining available every day of the year, it’s a destination where convenience meets Caribbean charm. More information and packages can be found on the hotel’s website via Hyatt.com.

Dear Jido – December 2023

Dear Jido,

My wife and I are having a difficult time teaching our seven-year-old (privileged) son the importance of being thankful. We would like to know if you can offer advice on how we can we teach him gratitude. He takes his belongings for granted, doesn’t understand the value of things we pay for, and generally doesn’t realize how good he’s got it. How can we help him appreciate the life we’re providing for him?

Signed,

Frustrated Parents

 

Dear Frustrated,

 

As with everything in life that we want to teach our children, it all begins with one thing – EXAMPLE. Parents have to use every opportunity to express gratitude to everyone and for everything, especially to each other. Even if you are expected to bring home a paycheck and your wife has to do the wash, that does not excuse a lack of thankfulness. Make it a point to verbalize your words of gratitude in front of him. You found a parking spot easily? He got new school sneakers and a backpack? You bought him holiday outfits? Let the words “Thank You!” permeate your home.

We are taught to begin each day with the prayer of “Modeh Ani” – “Thank You Hashem for another day.” This becomes a mindset. Actively teach your son to start his morning with these words. Also, a beautiful way to end each day is to teach him to thank Hashem for his blessings before he goes to sleep. This will become a positive awareness that you should help him cultivate as he grows. There’s no question that daily thanks compels us to feel joy – “Look what the Creator of the Universe did for ME today!”

 

If he’s really stubborn about expressing gratitude, try another approach. We know that “takers” in life are naturally unhappy. They are always expecting more and more and are never satisfied. Children who do not make “giving” a part of their life grow up demanding and arrogant. Have him pitch in and see what it’s like to help cut up a salad, put away the toys, set the table, and bring the groceries in from the car. If you nudge him out of his selfie universe, he will slowly learn to value and cherish what everyone else does for him rather than just expecting more presents.

 

And when he asks, “Why do I have to do all these things?  None of my friends do!” –  just tell him it’s because you love him more than anything or anyone in the world and you want him to be happy. Hopefully he’ll respond, “Oh, okay. Thank you!”

 

Thank you,

Jido

 

The War Continues…

Avi Kumar 

 

The world closely watches as the Operation Swords of Iron war in Gaza unfolds. Hamas, the Sunni Islamist political and military organization that controls the Gaza Strip, claimed responsibility for the atrocities of October 7th. Over 1,200 Israelis were murdered, and over 200 hostages were taken captive. Israel mobilized 300,000 reservists to fight Hamas, and to locate and free the hostages.  

 

The Israeli army has penetrated deep inside the Hamas-controlled heartland in the Gaza Strip and has taken partial control of the northern end of the 140 square mile enclave. Clearly, Israel has a strong advantage militarily. However, Hamas has employed a number of stalling strategies to keep Israeli troops from advancing forward and now downwards in what has evolved into a subterranean war.  

 

Israel also faces external threats by Iran’s other proxies as they mount attacks on the northern and southern borders and from Yemen.  Every decision made by the leadership is a critical one as battling Hamas, rescuing hostages, and minimizing losses all are top priority.  

 

Early Timeline  

 

October 7th 

 

In response to the Oct. 7th massacre, Israelis put aside their differences and became united. Hamas’ actions declared to the world that they had little concern for the political leanings, ethnic affiliation, or religious views of any Jew who had the misfortune to be in their murderous path on October 7th. From foreign nationals to Israeli Arabs, from young to old, none were spared. The atrocities sent shockwaves across the nation and world.  

 

October 9th 

 

The Israeli Air Force began a barrage of airstrikes against Hamas. Defense Minister Yoav Gallant stated that he had ordered “a complete siege” on Gaza and that there would “be no electricity, no food, and no fuel” entering the territory, while Energy Minister Yisrael Katz said he instructed the Water Authority to cut off Israel’s water supply to the Gaza Strip on the same day. 

But the provision of some supplies, including water, has resumed to a limited extent, following heavy international pressure – particularly from the Biden administration – amid concerns voiced by the UN and international NGOs that a humanitarian crisis could develop in Gaza. 

 

The IDF has ramped up intelligence operations to locate and assassinate Hamas leaders. On the top of the list is Yahya Sinwar, the head of Hamas in Gaza since 2017.  

 

October 27th  

 

Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu vowed to end the threat of Hamas and refused to agree to any ceasefire until the hostages are safely released and are back home safely. Israeli troops first entered into the Gaza Strip on October 27th. Now there are over 20,000 troops deployed within Gaza, mostly in the north. The region is effectively split into two parts.  

 

This figure represents the largest number of Jews to have entered Gaza since Ariel Sharon’s unilateral disengagement in 2005, when all Jewish settlements were dismantled and abandoned.  

 

October 29th 

 

Defense Minister Yoav Gallant said he expected the “second stage of the war” to wage on for “months.” Future stages include eliminating pockets of resistance.  Apart from Hamas, other militias that have armed presence are the PFLP (Popular Front for The Liberation of Palestine), PIJ (Palestinian Islamic Jihad), and DFLP (Democratic Front for The Liberation of Palestine).  

 

November 7th 

 

In Israel’s battle to wipe out Hamas, one of the main targets has been Hamas leader Yahya Sinwar, said to be trapped inside a bunker in Gaza City, the Hamas stronghold in the north of the territory. 

 

Israeli Defense Minister Yoav Gallant told a televised news conference that Israeli soldiers had advanced to the “heart of Gaza City” and “were tightening the noose.” Israeli troop presence within city limits is limited and a siege was undertaken.  

 

Diplomacy and the World Picture 

 

Diplomacy during this war is very different from times past. This is primarily due to two reasons – now Israel’s ties with the Middle East and the West are rapidly evolving and also because emotions run high. Following the Abraham Accords in 2020, a few Arab nations have warmed up and even recognize Israel including the UAE, Bahrain, and Morocco. These Arab countries share a common enemy, the Islamic Republic of Iran.. Commentators point to the United States’ pro-Israel stance as connected in part to the US position on Iran. 

 

However, international attitudes could change. The  longer the war in Gaza continues there is a chance of media fatigue with the Middle East. For now, the media spotlight has taken our minds off the Ukraine War. The more things evolve on the ground and change, international pressure could change, for the better or for the worse.  

 

Inside Gaza 

 

So far, more than a million Gazans have been displaced and many traversed on foot south into Khan Younis and other towns. The IDF issued multiple warnings to the Palestinians to flee, including dropping leaflets in Arabic informing them of the upcoming military action, and promising them safe passage south if they waved white flags showing their desire to leave peacefully. Hamas allegedly prevented Gazans from evacuating by shooting them or hitting roads with mortar fire so they could not leave. The IDF also accused Hamas several times of using civilians as human shields. 

 

A recent image circulating on social media showed members of the IDF’s Golani Brigade sitting in armchairs inside Hamas’ parliament building in Gaza City, after its capture. This marked a strategic victory. 

 

The Shin Bet believes that Hamas members are hiding in tunnels and are using hospitals and ambulances to store and transport weapons, explosives, and rockets. These actions by Hamas have been heavily criticized. Captured militants told the Israeli intelligence that this strategy was employed to prevent them from being targeted by Israeli strikes.  

 

Thousands of people fled al-Shifa hospital in Gaza City. Israel claims the hospital is built over a Hamas command center. The U.S. says its intelligence backs this claim, but Hamas vehemently denies it. 

 

Health officials have claimed that the remaining patients inside the hospital would die due to energy shortages and cuts.  

 

However, Israel’s Channel 12 News have noted that if the IDF’s claims hold correct, Hamas had been hoarding enough fuel to keep all of the hospitals in the strip operating over a span of several days. The IDF on October 24th claimed that photos show Hamas holds half a million liters of fuel stored in Gaza. Clearly, local Gazans are not a priority for Hamas. 

 

 

Tunnel War 

 

Tunnel warfare first made headlines in 2006, when Hamas abducted and kidnapped Israeli soldier Gilad Shalit. He was captured in a cross-border raid via tunnels near the Israeli border at the Kerem Shalom crossing. He was released five long years later in a controversial prisoner exchange. Shalit was freed after the release of 1,027 Israeli-held security prisoners, 280 of whom were serving life sentences for planning and perpetrating terror attacks against Israeli targets. In this exchange, Hamas leader Yahya Sinwar was released, who Netanya described as a “little Hitler in his bunker” with “no care for his people.” 

Many have compared the war with Hamas  with the Vietnam War. The major difference is that Gaza is urban rather than jungle, and Hamas has had more time to expand its reach than did the Viet Cong.  

 

Israel controls the skies over the Gaza Strip, and has the edge on land, with troop numbers and tanks. They have controlled the seas and maritime boundaries long before the siege began. The IDF can destroy any building with a well-placed missile. But as the IDF forces advance through the urban jungle, they are uncovering another battleground: the vast network of concrete, reinforced tunnels built by Hamas as well as booby traps.  

 

The soil in Gaza is geologically softer than the soil in New York or Lebanon, where Hezbollah also uses tunnels. The soft soil is easy to dig and to build vast networks with. The tunnels network is comparable to the New York subway system, but rather than being built for commuter transport for daily work and activity, it is custom built for guerilla warfare and to hide militants.  

 

The IDF has a sub-unit dedicated to fighting in these quarters that is a part of Yahalom, the special forces unit of the Combat Engineering Corps. The tunnel sub-unit is called Samur or “weasel” in Hebrew.  

 

The tunnels stretch 15 feet to 200 feet in length and can descend approximately 20-30 stories below the ground. Inside the tunnels there is no GPS availability. Communications are very inconsistent in this type of environment, so the troops cannot communicate with the outside world.  

 

Before the IDF can go into a tunnel, an autonomous robot scouts the terrain, using lasers to navigate and operate on its own. This data is evaluated before they can send in humans to push forward.  

 

Influx of Israelis Return from Abroad  

 

Thousands of Israelis rushed back to Israel after October 7th. Reservists, many who were on vacation or had moved abroad for an extended period of time, dropped everything to rush home. In one day over 100 Israelis headed home from Katmandu.   

 

 

 

Israel’s army relies on an extensive reserve contingent, comprised of civilians who have completed their compulsory national service but can be mobilized again for duty until the age of forty or even older in times of emergency. 

 

Within the ranks of the reservists called up were many well-known figures including ex-prime ministers (Naftali Bennet), former Knesset members, actors, models, and pop stars. Many posted pictures of themselves in uniform on Instagram.  

Among those answering the call were many of the hit TV show Fauda’s cast and crew. Both Lior Raz and Avi Issacharoff were deployed. Raz stars as Officer Doron Kabilio and also produces Fauda along with series co-creator Issacharoff. Prior to the show, Raz was a soldier in a special forces unit. 

 

Master Sgt Matan Meir, a longtime member of the Fauda production team, was one of four soldiers of the 697th Battalion who was killed November 11 by a booby-trapped tunnel shaft next to a mosque. The troops were not inside the tunnel. 

 

Also, prominent Israeli social media influencer and Netanyahu aide, Hananya Naftali was drafted.  

 

Israel’s oldest active soldier, Ezra Yakhine, whose father was from Aleppo, Syria, volunteered despite his being 95. Having fought in the Lehi militia (whose mission was the violent eviction of the  British authorities in the 1940s) Yakhine returned to the front to give motivational talks to young soldiers before they headed off to fight.  

 

Outside of Israel 

 

Amid rising death tolls and an international outcry over the humanitarian situation in Gaza, however, the Biden administration has been warning Israel that its support may be waning. 

 

Diaspora Jewry has seen a dramatic rise in anti-Semitism, especially on university campuses.  Security has been beefed up in synagogues and Jewish buildings around the world.  

 

Pro-Palestinian marches have attracted thousands in Europe and the West. Israel’s supporters have held rallies of our own, with the most dramatic and well attended occurring in Washington, D.C.  Over 300 000 attended the Washington DC rally for Israel on Tuesday, November 14th.  

 

Meanwhile, Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu also issued a warning to cabinet ministers to choose their words more carefully and not stoke controversy. “Every word has meaning when it comes to diplomacy. If you don’t know – don’t speak,” the prime minister said during a cabinet meeting after facing criticism about racist rhetoric including “nuking” Gaza (Heritage Minister Amichai Eliyahu claimed his comment about nuking Gaza was only “metaphorical” after it sparked controversy.) and a new “Nakba.” Nakba literally means “catastrophe” in Arabic, and refers to the 1948 War of Independence, when many Palestinians were displaced. 

 

Violence on Other Fronts 

 

While the IDF has been preoccupied in Gaza, other fronts have become volatile. Soldiers were deployed in the West Bank to battle insurgents – notably in Jenin, which has been a hub of instability and terrorism in the last few years. The Houthis, a Zaydi Shiite movement that has been fighting Yemen’s Sunni-majority government since 2004, is an Iranian proxy in Yemen. The Houthis also claimed responsibility for a drone attack on the southern city of Eilat on November 9th, making it the southernmost enemy to have directly engaged in war.  

 

 

Hezbollah in Lebanon have also attacked from the north using a “tit for tat” strategy. Hezbollah are believed to be the most powerful of the Iranian proxies, with an arsenal said to rival that of certain small nations. While their goal might be to keep the IDF distracted and spread their manpower and resources thin, all-out war has only been hinted at for now.  

 

 

The Future 

 

Noone can predict how long this war will continue or what will happen if Israel destroys Hamas completely. Gaza will never be the same. Hamas’ control and morale is shattered even if they survive politically and militarily. Hamas does not have the capability to destroy Israel, but they have already done great harm to Israel economically and psychologically.  

 

President Joe Biden and UK Prime Minister Rishi Sunak, who have been allies of Israel, have spoken in favor of a “two state solution” after the war is over. However, even leftist Israelis are now more skeptical of the wisdom of a Palestinian state within Israel’s borders. Netanyahu has spoken against granting Mahmoud Abbas and the PLO in the West Bank power in Gaza in the future.    

 

Certainly, a post-Hamas Gaza would require significant international attention and assistance to rebuild. The UN has a long history of anti-Israel sentiment, and its role post-war is not clear.  

 

Conclusion 

 

Israelis are weary of war. Yet, the general consensus is that after the atrocities of October 7th, Israel is duty-bound to fight Hamas, to prevent a repeat of unspeakable brutal cruelty.  Israelis mourn the loss of every single soldier, from every community. The Druze community, for example, lost Lieutenant-Colonel Salman Habaka, who is believed to be the most senior Israeli officer killed in action.  

 

But Israelis are also looking at the positive. The country has united and Israelis from all walks of life have extended their hands to their brothers and sisters, hosting families who have fled their homes, cooking and preparing treats and sending essential items for soldiers, and holding vigils for the hostages. So far, four Israeli hostages have been released. And miracle stories abound about soldiers who miraculously escaped certain death. 

 

Israelis from around the world have returned to their homeland to fight. They and their comrades repeat and believe: Am Yisrael Chai 

Keep Pushing Forward!

Unfortunately, it is very difficult to discern the critical difference between healthy guilt and unhealthy guilt, or what we call shame. Healthy guilt is the experience of realizing that our actions that lead us astray are beneath us, that we are better than our behaviors. It is simply not becoming for a prince of the King of the Universe to act in this way. The key here is to view ourselves as above our poor decision and actions.  

Conversely, unhealthy guilt/shame conceptually means equating our sins with who we are as a person. Our identity becomes what we have done, and we say to ourselves, “If I committed those aveirot, I am obviously an awful person.” When we identify with our flaws and our worst moments, that shame permeates our entire being, making it extremely difficult to return. We believe that the only way out of our despair is not to merely change our choices and actions, but to completely alter who we are. Yet since we perceive ourselves as despicable, the mere thought of becoming better can be overwhelming.  

The prince in our previous example does not have to change his identity. He is a prince, after all. He just needs to start acting like one. 

But he must be patient with himself. 

In many cases, this despair can be traced to the desire for instant gratification. We think, I am going to make sure to pray with kavanah, with concentration. We suppose that it is enough to try and then boom! – all of our tefillot are going to be filled with kavanah from beginning to end. And while we’re at it, we think, I’m going to go through Mesillat Yesharim and become an expert at every middah listed there. If I just stick to it – and there’s no reason to think I won’t – in due time, I’ll be the biggest tzaddik/tzaddeiket around! 

And then, how frustrated we become when we don’t see it happening! 

Slow and Steady Wins the Race 

 

Accordingly, we must bear in mind the all-important rule: Slow and steady wins the race. Don’t overload, don’t jump the gun. The Gemara (Kiddushin 17a) warns, “If you grasp too much, you’re not grasping anything. If you grasp a bit, you’re grasping something.” 

 

And even with that little bit that we can do, we’re going to flounder and mess up. That’s just the way the cookie crumbles. As Shlomo Hamelech states (Mishlei 24:16), “The tzaddik falls seven times and he arises.” 

 

Which brings us to a favorite theme of our society: diets. 

Beware: most diets don’t work. That is a researched fact, with myriad reasons behind it. One of those reasons is that it is only natural to succumb to temptation and eat the cookie that is against the diet’s rules and regulations…So we go ahead and eat the cookie.  

 

Make the Right Choice 

Now we are faced with two choices. Either we pick ourselves up and say, “Okay, I fell, that’s understandable. After all, I do love cookies,” and then get right back on track, and watch our food intake carefully for the rest of the day. 

Or, we make the unfortunate choice made by so many. “Look at me, so undisciplined! I promised myself I would be ‘good’ this time, and now I’m never going to lose an ounce.  Once I cheated and messed up today, I may as well finish the entire box of cookies!” 

That would be like the farmer saying, “Okay, that’s it. Forget it! I received a worthless field. I’m not working anymore. I’ll just throw in the towel!” 

Rather, we must not despair, but keep pushing forward, doing our best with the “field” we have been given. 

 TAKEAWAY 

 

Keep working steadily toward your goal. When you fall and fail, dust yourself off, stand up again, and get right back to work. If you stick to it, you will eventually succeed. 

 

For example, if you inadvertently spoke lashon hara during the hour in which you were meant to be extra vigilant about guarding your tongue, don’t drop out of the program altogether. Rather, figure out a way to remind yourself not to speak lashon hara during your designated time slot, and keep up the momentum!