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Crispy Pastrami Egg Rolls

What’s In A Name?

The word “pastrami” comes from the Romanian word pastramă, which means meat that is preserved. People used this method to keep meat from going bad before refrigerators existed.

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For even more crunch, place the egg rolls on a wire rack on top of the baking sheet so air circulates underneath!

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Adult Supervision Required

Utensils Needed

  • Large mixing bowl
  • Cutting board & knife
  • Spoon
  • Baking sheet
  • Parchment paper 
  • Small bowl of water (for sealing)
  • Pastry brush or oil spray Oven mitts

Ingredients

  • 1 package egg roll wrappers
  • 8–10 oz pastrami, chopped small
  • 1 cup shredded cabbage or coleslaw mix
  • ½ cup shredded carrots
  • 2–3 tbsp mayonnaise 
  • 1–2 tsp Dijon mustard
  • 1 tsp garlic powder
  • ½ tsp black pepper
  • Optional: 1-2 tbsp sweet pickle relish
  • 2-3 tbsp oil (for brushing or spraying)
  • Optional dipping sauce:Russian dressing or mustard

Let’s Get Started!

  1. Set oven to 425 degrees Fahrenheit. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper.
  2. Make the filling: Mix pastrami, cabbage, carrots, mayo, mustard, garlic powder, pepper, and optional relish.
  3. Assemble egg rolls:
    • Place wrapper in a diamond shape
    • Add 2–3 tbsp filling near the bottom
    • Fold bottom over filling, fold in sides, roll tightly
    • Seal edge with water
  4. Prep for baking: Place egg rolls seam-side down on the baking sheet. Lightly brush or spray all sides with oil.  
  5. Bake for 15 minutes, then flip and bake another 10–15 minutes until golden and crispy.
  6. Let cool for a few minutes, then serve with dipping sauce.

Makes 12-16 Egg Rolls!

Fun Food Fact

Most American egg rolls don’t actually have eggs in the filling or the wrapper. The word “egg” in the name comes from history – it might refer to older recipes that used eggs or the way the roll looks when fried or baked.

Voices of Vision – June 2026

Ellen Geller Kamaras

The bridal gown is an important piece of a girl’s life even though she wears it for one night.  Being a part of that huge moment and making it a happy experience is so rewarding.”  ~ Esther ~

Please meet Esther Cohen Dayon, a wife, mother, and grandmother. Along with 20 devoted volunteers from the community and other family members, Esther runs the Shelly Cohen Bridal Gmach, a bridal gmach,named after her beloved mother. A gmach is short for “gemilat hesed,” the bestowing of lovingkindness. It is a charitable organization offering interest-free loans, or items like furniture or clothing for free or at low cost.

Esther radiates warmth and openness.  She enjoys meeting new people and getting to know them by asking questions.  Esther’s husband, Charlie, affectionately refers to her as “Barbara Walters.” 

Roots and Education

The daughter of Rochelle (Shelly) Tawil, a”h, and Max Cohen, a”h, both Syrian, Esther is one of seven siblings, born right in the middle. Sadly, her sister Paulette Shaban, a”h, passed away four years ago.

Esther attended Hillel Yeshiva in New Jersey for grade school. She has remained close with friends from Hillel and several of them volunteer at the Gmach. Esther was a good student, enjoying her studies and friendships.

When Esther was three years old, her parents took her for a drive to Boro Park, Brooklyn.  Esther declared, “I want to live here!”

Much later, she decided to attend an all-girls high school. However, there were no separate girls yeshivot nearby.  Her brother, Rabbi Norman Cohen, the assistant rabbi of the Eatontown Synagogue, Shaare Tefilah bene Moshe, recommended Bais Kalla High School in Lakewood.

“Newly frum, Bais Kalla High School was the best four years despite personal challenges at home. My mother was in out and of the hospital and my father was seriously injured by a forklift, which required nine surgeries. On the first day of twelfth grade, my mother passed away.  My classmates and teachers were so supportive and helped me flourish and get through the hard times.”

One of Esther’s memorable high school events was presenting the parashat hashavua speech at an eleventh grade Shabbaton. Raizy Diamond Ozeri, daughter of Rabbi Shlomo Diamond, a close friend, was a significant influence in Esther’s religious growth during high school.

After graduation, Esther studied for one year at Lakewood Seminary.

Her Essence

Esther is easy to talk to. She is warm, funny, friendly, humble, and easy going.  

She was strong, resilient, innovative, and giving in taking over the Gmach as a mom of young children. Esther views the Gmach as Hashem’s Gmach.  Esther, her family, and the volunteers are messengers helping Hashem’s daughters to find their gowns.

Marriage and Family

At seventeen, Esther married her naseeb, Charlie Dayon, son of Irwin and Alice Dayon.  Charlie, like Esther, was raised in Deal.  Esther’s cousin, a classmate of Charlie’s, thought it would be a good match, and her aunt made it happen.

The couple have four adult children and several grandchildren. Esther is very proud of her kids. Her three daughters are all creative and work in different capacities in the sheitel industry.  Her son is studying in Rabbi Harary’s yeshiva in Lakewood.

“Our children are my greatest accomplishment, but I can’t take full credit. My husband was and is very hands-on when they were growing up, and we tried to be on the same page raising them.”

Esther and Charlie strove to have their kids become independent.  “That means taking a step back sometimes and trusting that they’ll do the right thing. BH, our children look to do what’s right.” 


Charlie works as a property manager and devotes many hours to his youth passion project at the Eatontown Synagogue.

He became involved in the shul’s youth minyan years ago and he raised it to a whole new level. He runs the youth minyan (with Bingo) on Friday nights, the father-and-son minyan on Shabbat mornings, and the youth minyan on motzei Shabbat.

“After Shabbat, the raffle winners come to our garage to select their raffle prizes. Our garage looks like the boardwalk at Point Pleasant,” said Esther proudly.  

Passions

“Attending the weddings and seeing the gowns in action is always gratifying. And when you get that smile and a thank you with a sigh of relief from the dads – it’s priceless! Weddings are joyful, but financially stressful, too.  We are here to alleviate some of that stress.  Our gowns are brand new and are current styles.  We want our brides to feel special and never less than.”

The Shelly Cohen Gmach

Esther was a stay-at-home mom.  The Gmach landed in her lap when her third child was around a year old. 

“It was a hard transition with three young kids and no experience with managing the Gmach.  Instead of shirts, you have 20 gowns to schlepp back and forth to the dry cleaner with a baby in the car! In addition, we had to relocate our store, and I discovered I needed to hire a lawyer and an accountant to set us up as a 501(c)3 to accept donations.  My mother-in-law, Alice Dayon, helps me fundraise, which is a big stressor. I had to learn fundraising on the job.”

The Gmach began as her maternal grandmother, Paulette Tawil’s passion project in the 1970s in Brooklyn. She would lend out her four daughters’ wedding gowns.  Paulette noticed a need in the community – people couldn’t afford to buy gowns that would be worn only once.  She called her friends that had purchased gowns for their daughters and asked them to donate their gowns, for her to lend them out to brides from one place.  The concept of a Gmach didn’t exist in the community and Paulette had no idea how large an operation it would become.

Every bride received a gift of bridal lingerie that Paulette bought with her own money.  She started visiting local bridal shops to obtain inventory they couldn’t sell and her collection grew.  Paulette did this all from a bedroom closet in her house in Brooklyn. 

Esther’s mom, Shelly Cohen, was living in Deal and had given birth to her seventh child when diagnosed with cancer.  She brought the Gmach to her home as a zechut for her refuah.  Shelly took care of the brides as if they were her own daughters.  None of them knew she was sick and was undergoing treatment.  Mrs. Marlene Massry got involved and helped run the Gmach alongside Shelly for the next six years.  After Shelly died, Mrs. Massry continued to run the Gmach. Cheryl Anteby and Alice Dayon were a tremendous help, too. 

“At my mother’s funeral, Rabbi Michael Haber, zt”l, said the Gmach will be known as The Shelly Cohen Bridal Gmach. It’s 29 years later – and we are in a storefront location in West Long Branch. We have over 20 community women volunteering and taking appointments, we have over 150 bridal gowns and over 200 mother and sister of the bride gowns, as well as headpieces and veils.”

Role Models

Esther’s grandmother, Paulette Tawil, and her parents strongly influenced the woman she is today.  Her grandmother’s strong commitment to doing hesed and her tenacity were values she modeled for her grandchildren. 

“My parents had a beautiful relationship and brought my siblings and me up to be close.  We always felt loved and part of a special family.”

A Family Legacy

“We are the third generation running the Gmach and our kids help too – so that’s the fourth generation! They love it and are proud of this legacy. One day, our children be”H will operate it and as they step up, I’m excited to see the changes they will make.”

Esther, her sisters, her sisters-in-law, brothers, and brothers-in-law, work tirelessly for the Gmach and feel a connection and obligation to it.

Community

Running a community organization, Esther has seen firsthand how charitable and giving the Sephardic community is.  “I’ve had men send donations out of the blue because they were so grateful that their daughters were getting married and they were blessed with the money to get them married off nicely.  As a token of gratitude, they send a donation to the Gmach to help others.”

Esther’s Message

Esther emphasized that gmachs are volunteer-run. Volunteers donate their time to help others, out of the goodness of their hearts. She encourages people who utilize these gmachs to be respectful of the volunteers’ time, of the gmach’s rules, and of the item being borrowed. 

“Please take a minute to appreciate the volunteers.  It isn’t always easy to get an appointment. The hours/days/times may not work for you, but gmachs are hesed organizations ready to serve the community.”

Check out the Gmach’s website at Shellycohenbridal.comand on Instagram @shellycohenbridal.  Esther is in the middle of a live spin-to-win fundraiser where donors can win $25,000 by spinning a wheel (Spyn.it/shellycohenbridal).

The Gmach welcomes volunteers who live in the Deal area. If you are interested, please call 732-222-2080.

Ellen Geller Kamaras, CPA/MBA, is an International Coach Federation (ICF) Associate Certified Coach.  Her coaching specialties include life, career, and dating coaching.   She can be contacted at ellen.kamaras@gmail.com.

Once Upon A Thyme – Rosemary Roasted Carrots

Adina Yaakov

These Rosemary Roasted Carrots are the perfect balance of sweet and savory. Tender carrots are coated in a rich glaze of honey, brown sugar, garlic, and fresh rosemary, then roasted until caramelized and flavorful. Colorful rainbow carrots make this dish especially beautiful for serving, but regular orange carrots work just as well and taste just as delicious. They make an easy and flavorful side dish for weeknight dinners or holiday meals.

  • 2 pounds peeled carrots
  • 6 tablespoons olive oil, divided
  • Salt and pepper, to taste
  • 2 tablespoons brown sugar
  • 2 tablespoons honey
  • 3 tablespoons fresh rosemary, chopped
  • 4 cloves garlic, minced
  1. Preheat the oven to 400 degrees Fahrenheit. Toss the carrots with 4 tablespoons of olive oil, then season with salt and pepper to taste. Arrange the carrots in a single layer on a baking sheet.
  2. In a small bowl, combine the remaining 2 tablespoons of olive oil, brown sugar, honey, rosemary, and garlic. Mix well, then pour the mixture over the carrots.

Cover the baking sheet with foil and bake for 20 minutes. Remove the foil and bake for an additional 10 minutes, or until the carrots are tender and caramelized. Garnish with flaky salt and fresh rosemary before serving.

The Door That Never Closed

Part II of an ongoing series uncovering the hidden history of Syrian Jewish escape routes – and the individuals who quietly altered the course of a community’s future.

In a quiet home in Iskenderun, a lifeline emerged for thousands of Syrian Jews – leaving behind a legacy that still echoes today…

By Linda Argalgi Sadacka

The story of the Shamosh family’s rescue efforts did not begin with Syrian Jews fleeing persecution. In the early 1940s, as Europe descended into war and destruction, Jewish refugees began moving along fragile and uncertain routes toward the Land of Israel. Some crossed through Istanbul, traveling from Europe into Asia by way of the Bosphorus, while others continued south along the Mediterranean coastline until they reached Iskenderun. Iskenderun is located within Turkey’s border and is  the strategic port city resting at the northeastern edge of the sea, where Turkey, Syria, and the broader Arab world converge in a narrow and heavily watched corridor.

“My father saw people coming, even, then from Europe,” Aharon Shamosh recalls.

The refugees arrived in waves, carrying with them the exhaustion and instability of lives that had been abruptly uprooted. Families who had lost homes, livelihoods, and entire communities searched desperately for any viable path forward. Many were not traveling because they possessed a carefully structured plan, but because remaining where they were had become impossible. Over time, the movement of displaced Jews through the region gradually transformed Iskenderun into a quiet but essential stop along a larger humanitarian route stretching across collapsing borders and wartime uncertainty.

At first, helping those refugees did not feel like a historic act to the Shamosh family. It felt instinctive. People arrived frightened, displaced, and exhausted, and the response inside the Shamosh home was immediate and uncomplicated – the door opened. Only years later would the family fully understand that those early acts of assistance established the foundation for a far larger rescue operation that would eventually help thousands of Syrian Jews escape persecution and rebuild their lives elsewhere.

The knocks frequently came in the middle of the night. Sometimes they were urgent and frantic, while other times they were hesitant, as though even approaching the house carried danger. Inside the home, however, explanations were rarely necessary. “They didn’t have to say who they were,” Aharon Shamosh says. “We already knew.” Standing outside were families who had left behind homes in Aleppo, Damascus, and villages they would never see again. Mothers carried exhausted children who had cried themselves into silence, while fathers attempted to guide their families through journeys whose outcomes they themselves could not predict. The families arrived in darkness uncertain of almost everything except the hope that someone on the other side of the door would help them continue forward. In Iskenderun, that hope was rarely misplaced.

A House That Became a Passage

Long before the rescue of Syrian Jewry became publicly discussed or historically documented, there was already a quiet understanding circulating among those searching for a way out. If someone could reach Iskenderun and locate the Shamosh family home, help would be waiting there.

“There was no sign outside,” Aharon says. “Nothing official. But people knew.”

From the street, the house appeared totally ordinary. It carried none of the markers one might associate with political importance or historical significance. Yet, for thousands of Jews fleeing Syria over the years, it became the narrow space between danger and safety. It was not a permanent shelter, nor did it erase the uncertainty that still lay ahead, but it offered something essential to people whose options had nearly disappeared – the possibility of continuing the journey.

The Rabbi Who Stayed

In 1932, Rabbi Yaakov Shamosh was sent from Aleppo to serve the small Jewish community in Iskenderun.

“My father came as a rabbi, hazzan, and shohet,”  Aharon explains.

At the time, communities like Iskenderun depended heavily on rabbinic figures who often functioned not only as spiritual leaders, but also as trusted intermediaries between families, local authorities, and communal institutions. That position of trust would later prove invaluable as the political climate in Syria deteriorated and escape routes became increasingly dangerous.

Aharon was born in Iskenderun in 1936, on the second night of Hanukah, into a household that would gradually transform from a modest rabbinic home into a critical transit point for Jews attempting to flee Syria. What began as communal leadership evolved into something far greater, requiring discretion, courage, logistical coordination, and an unwavering sense of responsibility toward people who arrived with nowhere else to turn. The work was never framed inside the family as heroism or political activism. It was understood instead as obligation, the natural extension of responsibility toward fellow Jews trying to escape from increasingly dangerous conditions.

The Geography That Made Rescue Possible

Understanding the significance of the Shamosh home requires understanding the geography surrounding it. Iskenderun occupies a uniquely strategic position along the northeastern curve of the Mediterranean Sea, where the coastline bends sharply inward and mountain ranges begin separating Turkey from Syria. In this region, borders were never merely abstract political lines. They shaped daily life, identity, commerce, and survival itself.

To the south lay Syria, home to ancient Jewish communities in cities such as Aleppo and Damascus, where conditions for Jews were becoming increasingly restrictive and dangerous. To the north and west stood Turkey, with access to ports, rail lines, and Istanbul, offering one of the few possible corridors outward.

Before 1939, the region had been part of the Sanjak of Alexandretta under French administration as part of Mandate Syria. Following political negotiations, referendums, and territorial restructuring, the area was absorbed into Turkey and became what is now Hatay Province. That transition did more than redraw maps. It created a narrow and highly sensitive passageway that could still, under the right circumstances, allow movement across borders.

“My father was very close with the governor,” Aharon recalls.

In an environment where loyalties, jurisdictions, and identities remained fluid, personal relationships often mattered more than formal systems. Access mattered. Trust mattered. The ability to navigate shifting political realities quietly and carefully became essential for survival.

At one point, local officials were reportedly discussing what the newly absorbed region should be called. “They asked what name they should give it,” Aharon says. Rabbi Shamosh suggested a name rooted in the area’s ancient history, referencing the Hittites who once inhabited the region centuries earlier. The adapted version of that name, Hatay, remains in use today.

The detail may appear small, but it reveals something larger about Rabbi Shamosh’s standing within the region. The same man quietly helping Jews escape through his home was also trusted enough to participate in conversations shaping the identity of the province itself. As conditions worsened in Syria, that fragile geographic opening would become one of the only remaining pathways out.

The First Arrivals

At first, only a small number of people came. Then, the numbers grew steadily.

“They came to our home,” Aharon says. “Thousands. My father was in the center.”

There was no official infrastructure supporting the operation in the beginning. No formal organization, public network, or institutional framework existed inside those walls. What existed instead was a willingness to help, a trusted location, and a family prepared to assume enormous personal risk in order to keep people moving.

The arrivals frequently took place at night, when refugees would appear exhausted and physically worn down by travel, fear, and uncertainty. “They came dirty,” Aharon remembers. “After everything.” Mud-covered shoes. Dust-covered clothing. Children were sometimes asleep in their parents’ arms, while others remained wide awake, silently observing every movement around them. According to Aharon, explanations were often unnecessary because the emotional condition of the people entering the house communicated everything that needed to be understood.

“They didn’t need to speak,” he says. “You could see…”

Inside, the response remained immediate and practical. Families were brought in without delay, given food and water, allowed to wash, and provided clean clothing and a place to rest before the next phase of their journey began. There were no lengthy questions and no hesitation about whether they would be helped. The understanding inside the home was already clear long before the refugees crossed the threshold.

From Impromptu Shelter to Organized System

Over time, what began as spontaneous humanitarian assistance evolved into a far more coordinated process. Refugees arrived under different circumstances and with varying levels of documentation.

“Some had passports,” Aharon explains. “Others had no documents at all.”

During that period, certain forms of identification sometimes allowed movement even without formal passports, creating opportunities for carefully coordinated transit. In some cases, individuals who were not Iranian reportedly traveled using Iranian identification papers that enabled them to move more freely through parts of the region.

“With Iranian documents, they could move,” Aharon says.

From Syria, refugees would pass through Aleppo and continue toward Iskenderun. From there, they traveled northward through Turkey, often by bus or train, eventually reaching Istanbul. “Bus, train, whatever [means of transportation] we had,” Aharon recalls. The process required careful coordination involving rabbinic contacts, consulates, transportation arrangements, and eventually assistance connected to the Jewish Agency. From Istanbul, refugees typically continued onward through Cyprus before ultimately reaching Israel.

“Step by step,” Aharon says of the journey to freedom. “Careful.”

Although Aharon himself never kept formal records, later figures shared with him by the Jewish Agency estimated that more than 3,500 Jews passed through the Shamosh home during the years of rescue activity. The operation gradually evolved from a series of improvised acts of assistance into a functioning underground passage system built almost entirely upon trust, relationships, and extraordinary discretion.

A Family Effort

Aharon emphasizes repeatedly that the work was never carried by one individual alone.

“It was all of us,” he says.

The effort involved brothers, children, extended relatives, and especially Aharon’ mother, who repeatedly undertook long and exhausting journeys while simultaneously raising their five children.

“She went many times,” he says.

Those trips could involve twenty hour bus rides across difficult terrain and under uncertain conditions. Yet within the family, the work was not spoken about in heroic terms. It was viewed instead as obligation, responsibility, and necessity. Everyone inside the household understood that helping others escape had become part of daily life, even when the risks involved were substantial.

When Danger Becomes Routine

Helping Jews escape Syria carried serious risks, both politically and personally. Aharon does not minimize the danger, but he describes how repeated exposure to that reality gradually transformed fear into routine.

“Yes,” he says when asked whether the work was dangerous. “But when you do it every day, it becomes normal.”

Over time, actions that might have terrified others became integrated into the rhythms of ordinary life within the Shamosh household. The secrecy, the late night arrivals, the transportation coordination, and the constant uncertainty gradually became part of the environment in which they lived.

The Mission of 84

Among the many operations Aharon recalls, one mission remained especially significant. In a village near Qamishli were 84 Jews who needed to leave Syria.

“Eighty-four,” he repeats.

At first, only sixty-one members of the group agreed to leave. The remaining twenty- three hesitated.

“They were afraid,” Aharon says.

The question soon emerged whether the operation should proceed with those prepared to escape while abandoning the others to be left behind. Aharon rejected the idea immediately.

“No,” he says. “[It would be] all or nothing.”

He was later summoned to Istanbul, where Baruch Duvdevani, who had reportedly just met with Golda Meir, delivered a direct message: “Tell Aharon, ‘I want 84.’”

Aharon understood the meaning immediately.

“I said, give me one month. I [will] bring all 84.”

The Operation

According to Aharon, persuading the remaining families to leave did not involve force. “It was understanding,” he says. Word quietly spread throughout the village that conditions were worsening and that leaving might soon become impossible. Fear intensified, but some families who could not bring themselves to abandon the only homes they had ever known still hesitated.

Late one night, there was a knock at the door of community members’ homes. Men appeared outside dressed in a way that resembled members of the mukhabarat, Syria’s feared intelligence apparatus.

“They were not,” Aharon says. “But it didn’t matter.”

The fear alone proved enough. Families moved quickly. Children were gathered. Doors opened. Decisions that had once felt impossible suddenly became urgent. According to Aharon, even the children understood enough to recognize that remaining behind was no longer an option.

“They didn’t understand everything,” he says. “But they knew they could not stay.”

Ultimately, all eighty-four members of the group left together.

The Journey Out

The journey was physically demanding and emotionally exhausting. Families traveled north from villages deep inside Syria, sometimes by foot and sometimes by vehicle, making their way toward the Turkish border across dry inland terrain that gradually shifted into the mountainous coastal geography surrounding Iskenderun.

The trip to the border alone could take ten or eleven hours. From Iskenderun, refugees then continued through southern Turkey by bus or train toward Istanbul, a journey that often lasted close to twenty hours.

Istanbul represented more than another stop along the route. It served as a transitional space between worlds, where refugees could finally begin preparing for the next stage of their lives. There they were received, cleaned, assisted, and organized for onward travel through Cyprus and eventually into Israel. Each phase of the journey carried them farther away from the lives they had known and closer to uncertain but possible futures.

Of the 84 individuals who departed together, 83 ultimately arrived safely. One elderly man in his nineties did not survive the journey.

The Memory That Stayed

Certain moments remained permanently etched in Aharon’s memory, particularly one involving a mother and her three children who had been turned back while attempting to cross the border. Between Syria and Turkey stretched isolated areas filled with abandoned structures, empty terrain, and long stretches of silence where people could disappear without anyone knowing. It was there, in that uncertain space between countries, that Aharon eventually found the woman hiding with her children.

“Hiding,” he recalls. “Holding her children.”

According to Aharon, the woman was crying quietly when he reached her. The children remained close beside her, exhausted and frightened after the failed crossing attempt. When she finally saw him, he immediately tried to reassure her that she would not be abandoned there alone.

“I told her, ‘It’s okay. I’m here.’”.

Even decades later, the memory still affects Aharon. He pauses while describing the encounter and reflects on how narrow the margin truly was.

“If I had been late by one hour, she’d have been gone.”

The woman’s name was Gracia Jamal. At the time, her son was only three years old. Today, that young boy has children of his own, part of a generation that exists because someone continued searching long after others might have stopped.

The Recognition That Came Later

The Shamosh family never accepted payment for their work.

“I do this for Heaven,” Aharon recalls his father saying.

Over the years, however, recognition gradually came from Israeli leaders and institutions. Following the rescue of the group of eighty-four, Aharon met Golda Meir.

“When I came to her,” he says, “she hugged me.”

Years later, Shimon Peres honored the family for their efforts. More recently, President Isaac Herzog received Aharon and even showed him the small synagogue located inside the presidential residence.

“They respected us,” he says.

For Aharon, that recognition carried deep meaning, not because of prestige, but because it acknowledged sacrifices made quietly over decades without expectation of reward or public attention.

What Remains

Today, entire families exist because someone opened a door in the middle of the night and chose to help strangers continue forward.

“People come to me,” Aharon says. “They tell me, you don’t remember us. But we remember you.”

He says this matter-of-factly, without dramatics or a show of self-importance. Yet, the implications are enormous. The communities that later flourished in Israel, Brooklyn, Deal, and elsewhere did not emerge in isolation. They were built upon countless unseen decisions, risks, and acts of responsibility carried out quietly by people who expected neither recognition nor reward.

From the coastal edge of Iskenderun to the communities where Syrian Jewish families rebuilt their lives, the journey never truly ended. It continued through generations, carried forward by those who once stood outside a stranger’s home hoping someone would answer the door. A community is ultimately defined not only by what it builds, but by what it chooses to preserve and carry forward. In the case of the Shamosh family, that legacy began with a simple but transformative act repeated thousands of times over many years: when the knock came, they opened the door.

Hot Tech Summer Upgrades

Summer 2026 is stacked with gadgets that do the most – so you don’t have to. Whether you’re chasing cool, convenience, or just a smoother everyday, these gizmos are here to upgrade your routine.

Roborock RockMow X1 LiDAR

Roborock – best known for its top-tier robot vacuums – is stepping into the yard with the RockMow X1 LiDAR, a smart lawn mower designed to take the hassle out of keeping your grass in check. Using advanced LiDAR sensing, it builds a 3D map of your yard for precise, real-time navigation. It can detect and avoid obstacles like tools, toys, or pets, while features like all-wheel drive and adaptive suspension help it handle uneven terrain and slopes.

Ambient Dreamie Smart Alarm Clock
The next wave of alarm clocks is all about making mornings feel less abrupt – and the Dreamie from Ambient fits right into that trend. More than just a clock, it combines a soft bedside lamp with customizable wake-up features like gradual “sunrise” lighting and built-in white noise for winding down at night.

iOttie Arkx Portable Air Pump
Compact, practical, and built for those “just in case” moments, the Arkx Portable Air Pump from iOttie is designed as a multi-use car companion. It can inflate tires, sports equipment, and other inflatables, while also doubling as a portable power bank with a 5,200 mAh battery – enough to give your phone a quick boost when needed.

ZOVO Portable Ice Cooling Fan
When summer heat hits hard, a basic fan sometimes isn’t enough. ZOVO’s portable cooling fan aims to go a step further with a high-efficiency motor and a compact, foldable design that’s easy to carry on the go. A special “cooling” mode is designed to deliver a more refreshing airflow compared to standard handheld fans, while the 6,000 mAh battery can last up to 30 hours, depending on usage.

Kitchenif Ice Cream Maker

Making your own frozen treats at home feels especially rewarding in peak summer, and the Kitchenif Ice Cream Maker leans into that DIY appeal. You can mix up ice cream, frozen yogurt, sorbet, or slush using your own ingredients – ideal if you want to experiment with flavors or adjust sugar levels. It’s a simple, low-tech way to stay cool while getting a little creative in the kitchen.

Vantro Portable Fridge

For road trips, beach days, or even small-space living, the Vantro Portable Fridge offers a compact way to keep things cool. With a 10-liter capacity, it can hold around eight standard 12-ounce cans or a handful of larger bottles. It can be powered through a standard wall outlet or a 12V car adapter.

FROGG TOGGS Chilly Pad Cooling Towel
Sometimes the simplest solutions are the most effective. The FROGG TOGGS Chilly Pad Cooling Towel uses evaporative cooling – just soak it in water, wring it out, and wear it around your neck or shoulders for a lasting cooling effect. With no batteries or charging required, it’s a reliable go-to for everything from workouts to beach days.

SolarFlower Blending creativity with a bit of STEM learning, the SolarFlower kit is a hands-on project that results in a colorful, motorized display piece. Built from over 100 parts, the flower uses a small solar panel to power a motor that drives its moving petals through a system of gears. It’s designed as both an educational activity – demonstrating how solar energy can be converted into motion – and a decorative item you can place on a desk or windowsill.

Navigating the Summer Shift: Strengthening the Relational Core

An interview with Dr. Eli Mandelbaum, Psy.D Director of Clinical Coordination at SIMHA

A relationship is best understood as a living organism. It requires consistent energy and intentional maintenance to thrive. Just as a flower cannot flourish indefinitely without consistent watering and careful pruning, a partnership cannot flourish without a deliberate investment of time and attention to enhance connection.

As the season transitions into summer, the ecosystem of many relationships undergoes a significant shift. For many families, this period involves relocating to summer homes, adjusting to disrupted childcare routines, and navigating changes in physical environments. While summer is traditionally a time for relaxation, these transitions can introduce unique pressures that test a couple’s bond.

The Challenge of the Summer Ecosystem

Throughout the year, couples generally operate within a defined space and schedule. In the summer, that structure often dissolves. Families may find themselves staying with parents in cramped guest rooms or managing a split schedule where one partner remains in the city for the work week while the other stays at a summer home.

When dropped into a context filled with extended family and social obligations, it is easy for a couple to lose focus on one another. These scenarios often lead to missed opportunities, which are moments where connection could have occurred but was instead bypassed due to the noise of communal living or the logistics of summer camps. If one partner feels unsupported while navigating complex in-law dynamics or feels isolated due to a change in routine, the underlying security of the relationship can begin to fray.

Attachment and Security

At the heart of every resilient relationship is a secure connection. Similar to the way a child feels safe to explore a playground only when they know a caregiver is reliably present, adult partners function best when they feel a sense of security. Knowing that a partner is in your corner provides the confidence needed to navigate external stressors, such as critical comments from relatives or the exhaustion of solo parenting during the week. When that security is absent, minor conflicts (like a disagreement over dinner plans) can feel like major threats. Maintaining a secure base during the summer months requires a conscious effort to prioritize the partnership above the surrounding distractions.

Strategies for Relational Resilience

* Maintaining a Team Mentality: The primary partnership must remain the central priority. In environments where external influences, such as well-meaning but overbearing parents, can create friction, staying aligned as a unit is vital. This does not require being against extended family, but rather being consistently there for one’s spouse. Ensuring a partner feels supported in a crowded room is a key component of emotional safety.

* Developing Relational Muscle Memory: Just as athletes practice plays until they become second nature, couples benefit from practicing healthy communication during quiet moments. Building these habits early ensures that when the stress of a chaotic weekend or a difficult travel day hits, the couple has the muscle memory required to remain connected rather than reactive.

* Intentional Reconnection: Meaningful connection rarely happens by accident during the summer; it must be manufactured. Whether it is a twenty-minute walk after the kids are asleep, a quiet conversation before the day begins, or a scheduled date night away from the extended family, these small investments serve as the essential maintenance that keeps the relationship running smoothly.

* Practicing Radical Empathy: Transitions often trigger different stress responses depending on one’s role. In many summer arrangements, one spouse may be home with the children all week, managing the mental load and physical exhaustion of solo parenting in a temporary environment. Meanwhile, the other spouse may be enduring a grueling commute and long hours at work, returning to a vacation home that feels like a second job. Radical empathy involves validating these distinct pressures. The spouse returning from work must recognize the drain of constant childcare, while the spouse at home must acknowledge the strain of the professional grind and the commute. By validating each other’s specific burdens, couples prevent resentment and foster mutual understanding.

Ultimately, the goal of navigating these seasonal shifts is to ensure that the relationship remains a source of strength rather than a source of stress. By approaching the summer with a shared strategy and a commitment to mutual support, couples can transform a potentially taxing season into a time of deep reconnection. Moving through these transitions with intentionality allows the partnership to emerge more resilient, ensuring a solid foundation for the year ahead.

Elevating the Community’s Impact to New Heights

By Eddie Esses and Sari Setton

The upcoming November election cycle in New York represents a pivotal moment for our community: one defined not only by political contests, but by the continued rise of Sephardic representation and influence at the highest levels of state government. At the center of this movement stand Sam Sutton, up for re-election to the NY State Senate, and Joey Saban, now running for NY State Assembly after serving as Senator Sutton’s Chief of Staff.

Together, they have built one of the most effective, outspoken, and impactful legislative operations in New York. And the results speak for themselves.

A Record of Results: Senator Sam Sutton

For over 20 years, Sam Sutton served as the co-founder and President of the Sephardic Community Federation (SCF), delivering tens of millions of dollars in government funding to our community and advocating across government for our community’s biggest priorities. Last year, he took his public service to the next level with his successful bid for a seat in the NY State Senate.

In a short time thus far in office, Senator Sutton has delivered tangible, meaningful results for our community on a scale rarely seen. Most notably, he secured $20 million in security funding for religious institutions, ensuring that our schools, synagogues, and community institutions are protected in an increasingly dangerous environment. Additionally, he has brought millions more in direct funding to our community’s institutions – resources that strengthen education, social services, and communal infrastructure.

Legislatively, Sen. Sutton has proven equally effective. He successfully passed multiple bills through the Senate in a very short time frame, demonstrating both policy leadership and the ability to navigate Albany’s complex political landscape. He played a key role in defeating the City Council’s COPA bill, taking a firm stand against anti-business policies that would have harmed our community and our businesses.

Looking forward, his diligence continues with the major Buffer Zone bill, a critical initiative he introduced to create buffer zones around houses of worship to protect worshipers from intimidation and harassment. The bill is now being incorporated into the State Budget, an extraordinary achievement that underscores his growing influence in Albany.

 The Force Behind the Scenes: Joey Saban

While Senator Sutton has led from the front, much of this success has been powered behind the scenes by Joey Saban. As Chief of Staff, Saban has been instrumental in turning vision into reality – coordinating legislative strategy, managing negotiations, and ensuring that priorities become policy.

From securing historic funding to advancing complex legislation, Saban’s role cannot be overstated. His deep understanding of both the community and the political system has made him a driving force in these accomplishments. Now, as he steps forward to run again for State Assembly, he brings with him not only experience, but a proven track record of getting big things done.

By example, Saban initiated and coordinated the press conference with the governor after the anti-Semitic Swastika incident at Magen David, which led to securing the $20M in security funding for religious institutions. He’s also been the driving force behind the Buffer Zone Bill, coordinating the language of the bill and the full strategy behind passing it.

Looking Ahead: The Election That Matters

While primary elections will take place in June, both Sutton and Saban enter this phase without challengers – a testament to the strength of their campaigns and the broad support they have already built.

That means the real contest lies ahead in the general election this November.

We know that elections are not won in a single day – they are built over months of grassroots effort. Every community member has an opportunity to play a role, whether by volunteering time or making a contribution. Thanks to New York’s public matching system, even small donations are amplified 9-to-1, turning modest support into a powerful force.

A Defining Moment for Our Community

What Sutton and Saban have accomplished together goes far beyond legislation and funding. They have transformed our community’s civic engagement, elevating our voice, our presence, and our influence in ways that would have seemed unimaginable just a few years ago.

They have shown that our community can organize, lead, and win – not just for ourselves, but as a major force within New York politics. The path forward is clear. The leadership is proven. And the moment is ours to seize.

Building Dreams Together – Raising Children for a Future That Is Already Here

Jack Gindi

I didn’t grow up with the education many people have today. I left high school early, and even now at times I read something and don’t fully understand the words or what someone is trying to say. For most of my life, I had to work through that on my own.

Today, I use AI to help me. If I don’t understand something, I ask AI to explain it in simpler terms. I’ll go back and forth until I understand what’s being said. That has been incredibly helpful.

Answer vs. Understanding

I’ve also learned something important: understanding what something means is not the same as knowing what to think about it. AI can help me understand, but it cannot decide for me.

That realization has stayed with me, especially when I think about the world our children are growing up in.

We are raising kids in a system that, in many ways, no longer exists. Most of us were taught to memorize, get the right answers, follow the rules, and perform well on tests.

However, getting an answer is no longer the challenge today. A child can ask a question and receive a response in seconds. They can generate an essay, solve problems, or summarize information almost instantly. But getting an answer is not the same as understanding. And it is not the same as good judgment.

Thinking Is Critical

What I’ve seen is that people who continue to grow are not the ones who rely only on what they are given. They know how to think about things. They question what they are given, test it, and stay with it long enough to understand it. AI does not remove the need for human ability. In many ways, it exposes it.

The real gap forming today is not about intelligence. It is the difference between people who develop maturity and judgment and those who simply gather information without knowing what to do with it.

Over time, that difference will matter more than anything else. The world ahead will not reward people who can repeat information. It will reward people who can understand context, solve problems, and adapt to change.

Real Observation

I was recently introduced to a camp here in Colorado where children are brought into the wilderness. They climb rocks, build fires, and spend time outdoors without screens. For many of them, it is a life-changing experience. That might sound simple, but for some children today, it is the first time they are fully present in the real world.

That matters more than ever. If a child does not develop a relationship with real observation – what they can see, feel, and experience – how will they know what is true in a world where so much is artificial?

If they look outside and it is raining, but a system tells them it is sunny, and they trust the system more than their own experience, then something essential has been lost. That is not a failure of technology. It is a failure of preparation.

Adults Need to Change

This is where we, as parents and grandparents, have to be honest. We cannot simply raise children the way we were raised and assume it will prepare them for what is coming. If we want our children to be ready, many of us will have to change first.

We will have to think differently about what education really is. We will have to value judgment over speed, discernment over convenience, and depth over constant stimulation.

And we have to model it.

Using AI correctly does not mean depending on it. It means using it as a tool. I use AI to help me understand what someone is saying. Then I stop and think. I ask myself if I agree, if it makes sense in my life, and what I believe about it.

That step, forming your own judgment, is the part no system can do for us.

Stay Connected to What Is Real

The children who will thrive will not be the ones who rely on AI the most. They will be the ones who know how to use it without losing themselves in it. They will stay connected to their thinking, their experiences, their relationships, and the world around them. They will use AI as a tool, not as a replacement.

Because while the future may change quickly, the ability to think, question, and understand what truly matters has never changed. AI can help you understand what someone is saying. It cannot tell you what to believe about it.

Rolling Together: The Community Behind BOWL NIGHT

Joey Baghdadi, Bowl Night Commissioner

Every Tuesday night, something special is happening at Fun Fest – and it’s not just the sound of pins crashing.

It’s BOWL NIGHT!

What started as a simple idea quickly turned into one of the most energetic, competitive, and genuinely enjoyable weekly meetups in the community. Thirty-six players strong (and growing), ranging from 13 to 60+, lace up their bowling shoes each week not just to play – but to compete, connect, and create something bigger than the game itself.

This Spring 2026 season was a perfect snapshot of what makes BOWL NIGHT so unique. Twelve 3-man teams battling it out over a 10-week regular season (three games a night). And yes – each roll matters. With the top eight teams advancing to the postseason, the energy definitely reaches that “every frame counts” level.

But what truly levels the playing field – and keeps everyone engaged – is our 85 percent handicap system. It’s the great equalizer. The guy grinding out an 82 average can go head-to-head with someone throwing 180s, and win. That dynamic creates something rare: real competition across generations and skill levels. No one is out of it. Everyone has a shot.

Magical Moments

And that’s where the magic happens – because BOWL NIGHT isn’t just about scores – it’s about people.

It’s fathers and sons sharing a lane (something I personally look forward to every week, bowling alongside my two sons). It’s old friends reconnecting, new friendships forming, and a mix of personalities that keeps the banter lively and the vibe loose. There’s laughter after gutter balls, celebrations after strikes, and just enough friendly trash talk to keep things interesting.

Don’t forget the Three Weekly Winners – those who bowl a game highest above their average – who can choose from a trio of great prizes, too!

A Community of Players

Off the lanes, the league has taken on a life of its own.

Our WhatsApp group chat is buzzing daily – recaps, reactions, lineup debates, and the occasional “power rankings” that somehow spark more controversy than they should. Our Instagram page, Instagram (@BowlNightSY), captures the action each week with photos and videos that bring the night to life. And for those who like to track the numbers, we send out detailed weekly stats – standings, averages, schedules – keeping everyone locked in and accountable.

There’s structure. There’s consistency. But most importantly, there’s excitement.

For me, this has been especially meaningful. Years ago, I ran a league called the SBL for over a decade – a run filled with great memories and even better people. When that chapter ended in the early 2010s, I always hoped we’d find a way to bring something like it back.

In Fall 2025, we did just that. And the response? Incredible.

BOWL NIGHT came roaring back with energy, enthusiasm, and a community that was clearly ready for it. What we’ve built in just a short time feels like the foundation of something long-lasting – something that people genuinely look forward to each week.

Looking Ahead                                            

And now, we’re ready to grow.

As we look ahead to our Fall 2026 season (starting this September), the goal is simple: expand from 12 teams to 16+. The interest is already there. The buzz is building. And the lanes are waiting.

Whether you’re a seasoned bowler or someone who hasn’t picked up a ball in years, there’s a place for you here. You don’t need a perfect game – you just need the desire to show up, compete, and be part of something fun.

Because at its core, BOWL NIGHT isn’t just about bowling. It’s about community.

It’s about showing up on a Tuesday night after a long day and knowing you’re stepping into something positive. It’s about the shared moments, the inside jokes, the small victories, and the big strikes. It’s about building something together – one frame at a time.

So if you’re reading this and thinking, “I could see myself out there,” you’re probably right.

We’d love to have you!

To join or for additional info – please reach out via: BowlNightSY@yahoo.com.

From the Files of the Bet Din – Another Inheritance Dispute

The Case

Joan, the eldest child of her beloved father, testified that months before his passing, he said that he wished to gift her younger sister, Sherry, a sum of $100,000 from his estate. For many years, Sherry selflessly tended to all of her father’s complex medical needs. Their three brothers presented the last will and testament to our Bet Din, which allocated to each of the three sons 25 percent of the estate, with Joan and Sherry to receive 12.5 percent each. Upon Joan’s testimony the three brothers responded that they never heard of such a baseless claim. The brothers explained that the reason their father gave each daughter 12.5 percent was in recognition of Sherry’s dedication. Joan was gifted her percentage only on the account of Sherry, as their father did not want to leave her out of the distribution. The brothers suggested that perhaps Joan and Sherry conspired against them to collect an additional $100,000, since this is the first time they heard of the extravagant gift. Joan emphatically reinstated her claim and added that Sherry and her husband were in deep debt and struggling. Joan claimed that it was their father’s last wish to help Sherry with an additional sum of money.

Is Sherry entitled to an additional $100,000 from the estate? How should the Bet Din rule and why?

Torah Law

According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, a person who is terminally ill is extended the right to verbally distribute his funds to his beneficiaries. While under normal conditions a will is required to be in writing, in extenuating circumstances oral instruction by a terminally ill patient is considered a binding transaction. Nevertheless, numerous regulations govern this leniency. Only if the patient verbally distributes all of his assets is the transaction valid. However, merely gifting part of his assets is insufficient and ineffective.

The underlying reasoning for this stipulation is that the leniency of verbal distribution is limited to, and in place of, a written last will and testament. When a patient distributes all of his assets it is a clear indication that his oral instruction is in place of a written will. He would not have distributed everything he owned and left himself penniless unless it was indeed his last will and testament. In short, the leniency of an oral distribution is not extended to one who wishes to extend a gift to another. 

It is important to note that the above halachic stipulation is for a terminally ill patient. If, however, a patient is clearly on his deathbed, nearing his end, even a partial transfer of his assets constitutes a binding verbal transaction.

Furthermore, according to many halachic authorities, when a terminally ill patient is verbally distributing his estate, he is required to do so by using specific terminology. Terms such as give, transfer, or award are required for a verbal transaction to be effective. Terms such as I wish or want, are invalid and halachically ineffective.

Additionally, in the absence of two valid witnesses attesting that the patient instructed a distribution of his assets, it is highly likely that the rightful heirs will contest whether the verbal distribution ever occurred.

While too often the last wishes of the deceased do not meet halachic requirements and are not legally binding, nevertheless, it is a mitzvah for the heirs to carry out the wishes of the deceased. Interestingly, even to qualify as a mitzvah, the patient is required to empower a specific party with the necessary means to execute his last wishes.

According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, one is required to give ten percent of his earnings to charity. This ruling is customarily practiced by our community and applies as well to money inherited by heirs of an estate. Despite whether the deceased already gave ten percent of the bequeathed money, the heirs of an estate need to give ten percent of their inheritance to charity. 

By rule of the Shulhan Aruch, one of the highest forms of charity is to give to one’s relatives. This preferred form of giving includes giving parents, children, brothers, or sisters. This preference is compounded when the charity is given to a family member who is diligently studying Torah.

VERDICT: Charity Begins at Home

Our Bet Din ruled in favor of the three brothers by denying their sister Sherry  her $100,000 claim against her father’s estate. As mentioned in Torah law, since Sherry did not have two witnesses attesting that her father verbally gifted her the money, her brothers can rightfully contest the claim. Furthermore, even according to the claim, their father verbally distributed only a portion of his assets by “wishing” they be gifted to his daughter Sherry. By rule of the Shulhan Aruch, a partial distribution, along with only wishing to gift, are legal reasons to disqualify such a verbal transaction. Additionally, in this instance, the brothers are not required to perform the mitzvah of respecting their father’s wishes. In the absence of two valid witnesses, it is possible he never instructed to make a payout to Sherry. Also, their father failed to empower one of his children or a third party with the necessary means to execute a $100,000 payout. Hence, their father’s instruction, even if it did transpire, is rendered nothing more than a passing thought and is null and void.

Nevertheless, our Bet Din suggested that a portion of the required ma’aser from the inheritance money be given to Sherry. By rule of the Shulhan Aruch, one of the highest forms of charity is giving to a family member.

In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H

YOU BE THE JUDGE

A Summer Retreat

Benny rented Alex’s home every summer for the past three years. In preparation for this year’s summer rental, they verbally agreed on the cost of rent for the 2026 season. Alex then sent an email request to Benny for a $5,000 deposit along with an attachment of a written contract for signing. Benny immediately transferred to Alex’s account $5,000 but did not sign and send back the contract. With only two weeks before the summer season, Benny called Alex just to follow up and was informed by Alex that the house was just rented to another party. Alex explained that although Benny gave a deposit, he never signed the contract. Alex continued to explain that he did not willingly back out of his agreement with Benny, but rather he was unaware that the exclusive agent that rented out his home during the winter was authorized by contract to rent it out for the summer as well. In order not to ruin his relationship with the agent that rents out his home every winter he agreed to rent it via the agent for the summer as well. In Bet Din, Benny claimed that since he put a $5,000 deposit towards the rental he was legally entitled to the home and demanded that the other party be denied access to the property. Furthermore, Benny claimed that upon inquiry regarding the market for a last-minute vacancy available for rent, he found prices to be substantially higher. One property of interest was nearly 25 percent higher than what was being asked for Alex’s home. Benny was vehemently unwilling to release Alex from his commitment to rent him the property unless Alex compensates him for the additional cost of rent due to the need for a last-minute rental.

Is Benny entitled to the property for the summer?  Is Alex required to compensate him for the additional cost of a last-minute rental?

How should the Bet Din rule and why?