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When Inclusion Leaves Out the Jews

Linda Argalgi Sadacka

New York has spent years building an extensive language around diversity, inclusion, discrimination, harassment, stereotyping, and bias. The principle behind that effort is a worthy one: all people should be treated with dignity. Words matter, assumptions matter, and the atmosphere we create around other people matters.

No one should be humiliated because of race, religion, background, or disability. No one should be made to feel that there is something inherently wrong with who he is. No one should have to calculate whether revealing a part of his identity will make him less welcome in the room.

But there is a question New York needs to confront honestly. Where do Jews fit into the conversation?

It is an especially urgent question now because anti-Semitism in New York is no longer something abstract.

A Look at the Numbers and Beyond

In 2025, the Anti-Defamation League recorded 6,274 anti-Semitic incidents across the United States – more than 17 every day. New York recorded more incidents than any other state. Anti-Semitic assaults here reached a record high, with the overwhelming majority occurring in New York City. Visibly Orthodox Jews, recognizable simply by walking down the street, have been particularly exposed.

But numbers can become strangely easy to absorb. Six thousand becomes a statistic. Ninety assaults becomes a line in a report. What gets lost is the human beings underneath the numbers.

A Jewish man should be able to ride the subway without wondering whether the kippah on his head makes him a target. A mother should be able to walk her children to shul without scanning the street first. A family walking home from synagogue down Kings Highway on Shabbat should be thinking about Shabbat lunch, not about whether being visibly Jewish makes them vulnerable. An elderly Jew should be able to enter a synagogue without passing protesters who have decided that a house of worship is an acceptable place to protest objections to the government of Israel. A parent should be able to send a child to yeshivah without thinking about armed guards and security doors simply because the building houses Jewish students. And a Jewish child should not become less worthy of compassion because somebody associates that child with Zionism.

Conditional Compassion

After October 7th, one of the most haunting examples of what had changed was exhibited with the tearing down of hostage posters. After Israelis were kidnapped from their homes and from the Nova Festival, posters bearing the faces of hostages appeared across American cities and campuses. They were not political manifestos – they were photographs asking people to remember that real people had been taken captive.

And people tore them down…

Think about what that requires emotionally. Before someone can rip the photograph of a hostage, especially of aa child, from a wall, that child has somehow stopped being merely a child. The face has been transformed into a political statement. The suffering has been assigned an ideology. Compassion has become conditional.

That is troubling. Anti-Semitism does not become acceptable overnight. It becomes acceptable when Jewish pain is repeatedly qualified, when Jewish fear is treated as political, when Jewish victims are asked what they believe about Israel before anyone decides whether they deserve sympathy. By the time someone is screamed at on a subway or blocked from entering a synagogue, the moral groundwork has often already been laid.

An Atmosphere of Hatred

Hatred does not begin only with the person who raises a fist. It begins with the atmosphere that makes the fist easier to excuse – when one group’s fear immediately produces sympathy while another group’s fear is questioned or justified away, and when we stop seeing individuals and start seeing symbols.

Increasingly, Jews are being treated not simply as Jews, but as representatives of something larger. A Jewish student becomes responsible for Israel. An Orthodox man becomes a symbol of Zionism because he is wearing a kippah. A synagogue becomes a political target. A child wearing a Star of David can find himself carrying the weight of an international conflict he did not create and could not control.

Once that atmosphere takes hold, harassment becomes easier to dismiss, intimidation becomes easier to rationalize, and even physical violence risks becoming part of the background noise.

State Involvement

State leaders, including NY Governor Kathy Hochul, have acknowledged the seriousness of anti-Semitism and have directed resources toward protecting Jewish institutions. Those measures matter – security grants, law enforcement, protection for synagogues and schools all matter enormously. But physical security addresses hatred after it has already become dangerous. A police officer can protect the entrance to a synagogue. A security grant can reinforce a school door. Neither can, by itself, change the atmosphere that made that protection necessary.

That work begins earlier – in classrooms, workplaces, universities, and government institutions; in the language we use about Jews and the assumptions we allow to go unchallenged; and in the education state agencies use to teach people what prejudice looks like in the first place.

This is not a critique of the people working in state government, many of whom I have had the privilege of working alongside, and whose commitment to this work I don’t doubt for a moment. It is a critique of a curriculum – one I encountered firsthand.

Discrimination and Harassment Training

Like many people who work in and around state government and its affiliated organizations, I completed the state’s discrimination and harassment training as part of my onboarding [onboarding is the structured process of integrating a new employee into an organization], and I found it deeply troubling. But not because of the people around me. What troubled me was the training itself.

Real care had clearly gone into making other groups feel seen: there were scenarios built around new and breastfeeding mothers, around employees with progressive political views, around someone being bullied for simply being different. That effort is worth acknowledging. But nowhere, not once, was there a scenario built around a Jewish employee, an Orthodox co-worker, or anti-Semitic harassment of any kind – despite the fact that, by the numbers, Jews are experiencing far more hate-motivated targeting in this state than any other group.

If the training could take the time to build out those other scenarios with such specificity, the absence of one for the community bearing the sharpest brunt of hate crime in New York is not an oversight that is easy to explain away.

The Department of Labor and Division of Human Rights are responsible for this training. Much of it is genuinely valuable: it teaches people to recognize prejudice, to understand how stereotypes shape treatment, to notice that someone in the room may be experiencing an interaction very differently than everyone else.

Post-October 7th

But it raises a larger question. In post-October-7 New York, is that training teaching people to recognize what anti-Semitism actually looks like now?

A closer look at the Department of Labor’s own model training confirms the gap. Every one of its six illustrative case studies concerns gender-based conduct – none touch religion, ethnicity, or national origin, though all three sit alongside gender on the training’s own list of protected characteristics. That is not a matter of law; the law already protects religious New Yorkers. It is a matter of what people are actually trained to notice. And when the state’s data shows New York recording more anti-Semitic incidents than any other state in the country, a curriculum that never once asks an employee to recognize religious hostility in practice is not neutral. It has simply not caught up to what is happening on the ground.

The training video makes a visible effort at representation – the employees depicted include a range of ethnicities and backgrounds, including someone who appears Muslim. But no one in a kippah appears. No modestly-dressed or visibly religious woman appears. Religious New Yorkers are not represented at all. For a workforce being trained on what vulnerability and prejudice look like, the curriculum designers chose to make several communities visible and left the community currently absorbing the sharpest rise in hate-motivated incidents in the state unseen.

The Commission of Omission

Contemporary anti-Semitism does not always arrive announcing itself as hatred of Jews. Sometimes it calls the Jew a Zionist instead. Sometimes it assigns collective responsibility to Jews for Israel. Sometimes it treats a synagogue as though it were an embassy. And sometimes it operates through something far quieter: omission. The state has developed a sophisticated vocabulary for identifying which people might feel marginalized – but Jews can still seem strangely absent from that framework even while they are being harassed and physically attacked at alarming rates.

That absence matters. Not because Jews should be placed above anyone else, and certainly not because Muslims, people with disabilities, or other minorities deserve less attention. They do not. The point is the opposite: if inclusion is a universal principle, Jews should not require an exception.

Jews – Successful but Still Vulnerable

Jewish communities also complicate simplistic ideas about what vulnerability looks like. A Jewish family can own a successful business and still fear anti-Semitism. A community can build schools, synagogues, and institutions and still require guards outside those buildings. Success does not cancel vulnerability. Achievement does not erase prejudice. Yet, too often Jewish success becomes part of the reason Jewish suffering is discounted – Jews are perceived as powerful, so hatred towards them gets treated as punching up [punching up means to criticize, joke about, or target someone who has more power, authority, or higher social status than you do]. Hatred is associated with Israel, so hostility toward individual Jews gets rationalized as political expression.

But the human being does not disappear because somebody has attached a political theory to him. A Jewish child on a hostage poster is still a child. A Jewish woman screamed at on the street is still a woman deserving to be treated with dignity. An elderly man trying to get into shul is still an elderly man trying to pray. None of that becomes less serious because someone has decided Jews are powerful.

Inclusion Training Needs an Upgrade

The Department of Labor and Division of Human Rights should take a serious look at whether this training reflects the world New Yorkers are actually living in after October 7. Where religious discrimination is taught, anti-Semitism should certainly be included. Show a rabbi. Show an Orthodox employee. Include a Jewish student. Build a scenario involving anti-Semitic harassment. Explain that an individual Jew should not be presumed responsible for Israel merely because he is Jewish – that opposition to Israeli policy does not give anyone permission to target Jewish classmates, coworkers, synagogues, or neighborhoods. Explain that a kippah, a sheitel, tzitzit, or a Star of David does not turn a human being into a political symbol. And explain that anti-Semitism can appear in language that does not initially sound like the anti-Semitism people learned about in history class.

This is not asking for special treatment. It is asking for relevance. State law already requires this training to be reviewed and revised every four years. That review is a built-in opportunity, not a new demand – a chance for the Department of Labor and Division of Human Rights to update the conversation the next time this training comes up for its scheduled revision, at a moment when one of the state’s largest and most visible minority communities is experiencing a dramatic rise in hostility.

The Goal

The goal is not to police every word anyone says. We do not want a society in which people are afraid to debate Israel, criticize politicians, or express strong opinions – political disagreement is necessary in a free country. The goal is simpler: teach the distinction between political disagreement and collective blame. Teach people to recognize when criticism of a government has crossed into hostility toward a people. Teach that Jewish identity does not erase individuality, and that Jewish suffering does not require a political litmus test before it deserves compassion.

Because that is ultimately what this is about. Humanity.

The mother walking her children to shul is not a geopolitical argument. The boy wearing a kippah on the subway is not the Israeli government. The elderly man entering a synagogue is not a military policy. They are people. And perhaps the most dangerous thing anti-Semitism does is to persuade society to forget that before it does anything else.

The real test of inclusion is not how carefully we protect the dignity of people everyone has already agreed are vulnerable. The test comes when the victim complicates our categories – when the minority is successful, when the person targeted is associated with a country or cause someone dislikes, when the individual standing before us does not fit neatly into our preferred understanding of oppressed and privileged. That is when universal principles either remain universal or reveal themselves to be selective.

New York already knows how to speak the language of inclusion. Now that language has to catch up with the reality Jewish New Yorkers are living. Update the training. Include Jews. Teach people to recognize the anti-Semitism that exists now, not only the anti-Semitism of the past – not because Jews deserve more empathy than anyone else, but because they should not have to prove they deserve empathy at all.

The views and opinions expressed in this article are solely those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views or positions of any organization, employer, or entity with which she is affiliated.

Community Highlights – Linda Argalgi Sadacka Receives New York State Senate Proclamation

Community Magazine writer Linda Argalgi Sadacka was presented with a New York State Senate Proclamation by Senator Sam Sutton in recognition of her community advocacy through writing, social media, education, and civic engagement.

The recognition was particularly meaningful given Sadacka’s role in helping mobilize conservative and Republican voters during Sutton’s campaign, building support in key communities that contributed to his victory.

Following the presentation, Sadacka sat down with Senator Sutton for a broader conversation about his first months in office, the significant accomplishments already delivered for the community, and several initiatives currently in the works.

For Sadacka, the meeting brought the process full circle, from mobilizing voters during the campaign to seeing firsthand what their political engagement has helped make possible.

New Tax Credit Could Boost Yeshiva Funding

A potentially transformative new source of funding for yeshivot and Jewish families is set to become available in 2027, with leading Torah organizations joining forces to maximize the opportunity.

Torah Umesorah and Agudath Israel of America have endorsed the Opportunity Fund for Jewish Education; a national Scholarship Granting Organization (SGO) designed to channel funds from the new Federal Scholarship Tax Credit into scholarships for students attending yeshivot and Jewish day schools.

Beginning January 1, 2027, eligible taxpayers will be able to contribute up to $1,700 annually to a recognized SGO and receive a dollar-for-dollar federal tax credit, subject to program requirements.

Through the Opportunity Fund, donors can designate contributions to participating yeshivot or day schools. The Fund has committed that 100 percent of every designated dollar will fund scholarships at the selected school, with operating expenses covered separately.

The national approach is intended to expand the donor pool beyond existing school supporters while allowing parents, grandparents, alumni, and others to make direct contributions to schools of their choice.

Yeshivot can begin preparing now by educating supporters and securing pledges for 2027. If participation reaches its potential, thousands of $1,700 contributions could generate substantial new funding for Jewish education, easing tuition burdens and strengthening yeshivot nationwide.

Hacham David Yosef Makes Special Visit to New York

The Rishon LeTzion and Chief Rabbi of Israel, Hacham David Yosef recently completed a brief but meaningful visit to New York, where he met with prominent rabbanim and addressed hundreds at a special gathering in Queens.

Despite the short duration of the visit, the Chief Rabbi maintained a busy schedule. He was accompanied throughout much of his stay by Queens’ own Rabbi Ilan Meirov, Director of CHAZAQ, together with several of the Rishon LeTzion’s close followers.

During his visit, Hacham David held important meetings with several prominent Torah leaders. He met with Hacham Yosef Harari-Raful, shlit”a, the Rosh Yeshiva of Ateret Torah, HaRav Yitzchak Yisraeli, Dayan and Chief Rabbi of the Bukharian community; and the renowned Hasidic leader, the Skverer Rebbe.

A major highlight of the visit took place at the new Beth Gavriel Center in Queens, where hundreds gathered for a special CHAZAQ evening of Torah and inspiration. The Rishon LeTzion addressed the crowd with words of hizuk in preparation for Rosh Hashanah.

Hacham David Yosef has personally guided and encouraged CHAZAQ’s leadership for more than a decade in their mission of reaching Jewish public-school students and bringing them closer to their Jewish heritage.

Although his time in New York was short, the message of the Rishon LeTzion was clear: every person has the ability and the responsibility to influence others. He called upon those present not to focus only on their own spiritual growth, but to look around, take responsibility for others, and use whatever influence they have to bring more Torah, inspiration, and Jewish connection to those around them.

Riddles – September 2026

RIDDLE: Tennis, Anyone?

Submitted by:   Karen B.

Susan and Lisa decided to play tennis against each other. They bet $1 on each game they played. Susan won three bets and Lisa won $5. How many games did they play?

Last Month’s Riddle: The Secret Password

A person approaches a secret club and hears a voice say “twelve.” They respond with “six” and are let in. Another person arrives, hears “six,” and replies with “three,” and also gains entry. The third person hears “ten,” and says “five,” but is denied entry! What should they have said to get in?

Solution: The answer is “three.” The trick is counting the letters in the number. “Ten” has three letters.

Solved by: Sarah Morris, Daniel Esses, Ralph Anteby, Lisa Cohen, Family Blum, Haim S., Big Mike, Victor Guindi, The Shmulster, and Murray D.

JUNIOR RIDDLE: Letter Mix

Submitted by:  Menashe L.

Rearrange the following letters to make one word:  NOR DO WE

Last Month’s Junior Riddle: What Is It?

What can be driven although it doesn’t have wheels, sliced but stays whole?

Solution:  A golf ball!

Solved by: The Blum Family,  Michael Fallas, Lawrence Dwek, The Big Cheese, Daniel Esses, Marie Beda, Norman H., and The Shmulster.

The Lighter Side – September 2026

Sound Advice

Joe is disturbed by his recurring dreams, so he decides to visit one of the country’s top sleep specialists.

At the appointment, Joe says, “Doc, I keep having these strange recurring dreams. One night I’m a teepee. The next I’m a wigwam. Then I’m a teepee again. Then a wigwam. It just keeps alternating, and it’s driving me crazy. What’s wrong with me?”

The doctor thinks for a moment and says, “It’s very simple, Joe. You’re two tents!”

Martin J.

Yitzchak’s Hearing Emporium

Morris realizes that he needs a hearing aid so he goes to Yitzchak’s Hearing Emporium to see what his options are.

“How much do they cost?” Morris asks Yitzchak.

“That depends,” Yitzchak says. “They run from $20.00 to $2,000.”

“Let’s see the $20.00 model,” says Morris.

Yitzchak puts the device around Morris’ neck. “You just stick this button in your ear and run this little string down to your pocket,” he instructs.

“How does it work?” asks Morris.

“For $20.00 it doesn’t work,” Yitzchak replies. “But when people see it on you, they’ll talk louder!”

Lisa D.

You Must Acquit

Howard Rose was a leading District Attorney in New York known for his work ethic and his wit. He had dedicated over a year to a murder trial that was coming to its conclusion. As the jury gave the verdict, he stared at them in disbelief.

Bitterly he asked, “What possible excuse could you have for acquitting this man?”

The foreman answered, “Insanity.”

Rose responded, “All twelve of you?”

Carolyn H.

A Blessed Decision

At a shul’s annual general meeting a very wealthy man rose to tell the rest of those present about his Jewish faith. “I’m a millionaire,” he said, “and I attribute it all to the rich blessings of Gd in my life. I remember that turning point. I had just earned my first dollar and I went to shul that night. The speaker was a famous rabbi who was fundraising for his yeshiva. I knew that I only had a dollar bill and had to either give it all to Gd’s work or nothing at all. So, at that moment I decided to give my whole dollar to Gd. I believe that Gd blessed that decision, and that is why I am a rich man today.”

He finished and there was an awed silence at his story as he moved toward his seat. As he sat down a little old lady leaned over and said to him: “I dare you to do it again.”

Joey F.

Yes, Sir!

Three-year-old Max had been told several times to get ready for bed. The last time his mother told him, she was very insistent. His response was, “Yes, sir!”

Correcting him, Max’s mother said, “You would say, ‘yes, sir,’ to a man. I am a lady, so you would say ‘yes, ma’am,’ to a lady.” To quiz him on this lesson, she then asked him, “What would you say to Abba?”

“Yes, sir!” came the reply.

“Then what would you say to Mommy?”

“Yes, ma’am!” he proudly answered.

“Good job! Now, what would you say to Bubbie?”

Little Max lit up and said, “Can I have a cookie?”

Sarah K.

Homework Issue Resolved

Mrs. Gold was having some issues with Moishie Rosenberg in her 2nd Grade class. He wasn’t doing his homework, he couldn’t seem to follow instructions properly, and it just seemed like he was all over the place.

Mrs. Gold thought she would try to get Moishie’s parents involved, perhaps the behavioral problems were even stemming from home. So, she decided to send home a note with Moishie and the next day she received the following note in return:

“Dear Mrs. Gold, Moishie is sorry he didn’t do his homework last night. He will never do it again. Yours truly, Chaim Yankel Rosenberg.”

Menahem R.

Taking Requests

Itzik’s Bistro in downtown Tel Aviv is usually full even on Open Mic Wednesdays. One particular Wednesday night, crowded as usual, a band was playing and Shuki and his friend Dudu were sitting near the stage, none too happy. At one point Shuki pipes up and asks the band leader, “Alo, can you play something by request?”

The band leader beamed and said, “Betach – of course. Whatever you want.”

“Then,” snapped Shuki, “sit down and play a game of shesh besh (backgammon) so I can finish my meal in peace.”

Rachel A.

What Would You Do?

Rabbi Feldman was teaching his 6th grade class about the halachic obligation that someone has to rescue a person in distress. Rabbi Feldman asked, “If you saw a person lying on the roadside, all wounded and bleeding, what would you do?”

Thoughtful little Sarah broke the hushed silence and said, “I think I’d throw up!”

Shirley G.

Logic Lesson

Mrs. Eckstein, the 4th grade math and science teacher at Bnai Israel school was giving was giving her students a lesson in logic.

“Here is the situation,” she said.

“A man is standing up in a boat in the middle of a river, fishing. He loses his balance, falls in, and begins splashing and yelling for help. His cousin hears the commotion, knows he can’t swim, and runs down to the bank. Why do you think his cousin ran to the bank?”

Little Rivky raised her hand and asked, “To draw out all his savings?”

Ralph S.

World Piece

One evening, Sy Feldman and his friend John McConnell are at a restaurant for dinner. As soon as the waiter takes out two steaks, Sy quickly picks out the bigger steak for himself. John looked surprised and disappointed by Sy’s actions.

Sy: “If you had the chance to pick first, which one would you pick?”

John: “The smaller piece, of course.”

Sy: “What are you so upset about then? The smaller piece is what you want, right?”

Alan Z.

Who Brews?

Manny and Miriam were arguing who gets to make the coffee in their house as both of them were very particular about how they liked their cup of Joe – the fact that they got a fancy new coffee machine also may have complicated matters. Manny wouldn’t relent and neither would Miriam, so they decided that the only way to resolve their dispute was to go and visit their rabbi.

In their meeting with Rabbi Epstein, Manny made a passionate plea, “Rabbi, the obligation of the man to brew the coffee is commanded by the Torah itself!”

“Really?” said Rabbi Epstein, surprised. “Where exactly does it say that?”

“It’s in our very name, Rabbi,” said Manny. “HE-BREWS!”

Jason L.

Back-to-School Gadget Guide 2026

Rocketbook Core Reusable Smart Notebook

The Rocketbook Core features durable synthetic pages that feel surprisingly similar to traditional paper, giving you a smooth writing experience. Use the included Pilot FriXion pen to take notes, then simply wipe the pages clean with a damp cloth and use them again and again – an easy way to cut down on paper waste.

Owala FreeSip Water Bottle (24 oz)

Staying hydrated is easy with the Owala FreeSip 24 oz bottle. Its clever FreeSip spout lets you drink through the built-in straw or tilt the bottle to sip from the wide opening, while the locking lid helps prevent leaks when it’s packed in your bag. Durable and easy to carry, it’s a school-day favorite. Available in various vibrant colors.

Bentgo Chill Kids Lunch Box

The Bentgo Chill lunch box features a removable ice pack built into the lid to help keep food cooler, longer. Multiple compartments keep snacks and lunch items neatly separated, making packing simple and organized.

Pilot FriXion Erasable Highlighters

Highlight with confidence knowing mistakes or highlighting don’t have to be permanent. Pilot FriXion Highlighters use thermo-sensitive ink that can be erased with the built-in friction tip, making it easy to tidy up notes or your friend’s book. They’re perfect for students who like color-coded revision without the stress of getting it exactly right the first time.

Nelko P21 Label Maker Machine

Keep school supplies organized with the compact Nelko P21 label maker. It connects to your smartphone via Bluetooth, letting you design and print labels for notebooks, folders, storage containers, and chargers in just a few taps. It’s a simple gadget that can make staying organized much easier.

Poojaed Magnetic Levitating Floating Globe

This eye-catching desk accessory uses magnetic levitation to suspend a globe in mid-air, where it slowly rotates above its base. It’s a fun demonstration of magnetic forces and is a unique decoration for a study space. Science and style come together in one cool gadget.

Shure MV5C Home Office Microphone

Whether you’re recording a school presentation or joining an online class,  the Shure MV5C is designed to capture clear, natural-sounding speech. It connects via USB to compatible computers and helps deliver more polished audio than many built-in laptop microphones. It’s a great upgrade for students who regularly create digital content.

Mustard Made Twinny Locker

Bring a touch of classic school style into your bedroom with the Twinny locker from Mustard Made. Inspired by traditional lockers, it includes shelves, hooks, and lockable doors for storing books, stationery, sports gear, or collectibles. It’s practical storage with plenty of personality.

Vihose Classroom Pencil Lamp with Glass LED Design Add a playful touch to your desk with this oversized pencil-shaped LED lamp. Its warm light makes it a fun decorative accent while creating a cozy atmosphere for reading or relaxing. It’s an easy way to brighten up any homework corner.

Protect Our Shuls: Urge Your Lawmakers to Back Buffer Zones

Linda  Sadacka

There is a difference between protesting a government (namely Israel’s) and intimidating a religious community.

Across the country, anti-Israel activists have increasingly taken their political grievances beyond government buildings, universities, and public squares and brought them directly to synagogues. Jewish families arriving for prayer services, communal gatherings, and events have found themselves confronted by hostile crowds, aggressive chants, blocked entrances, and an atmosphere that can make walking through the doors of a house of worship feel like an act of defiance.

First Amendment Protections

The First Amendment protects the right to protest. It protects offensive speech, unpopular opinions, and political expression that many Americans may find reprehensible. That protection is not incidental to American liberty. It is one of its foundations.

But the Constitution protects something else as well: the free exercise of religion.

Those two freedoms should not be treated as though one must swallow the other.

Americans have every right to protest Israeli policy, condemn Zionism, or criticize the Israeli government in public spaces.

Targeting

But when a political movement deliberately chooses the entrance of a synagogue as the place where American Jews will be confronted over the actions of a foreign government, we should ask a question that has too often gone unasked:

Why the synagogue? A synagogue is not an embassy. It is not a legislature. It is not the Israeli government. It is where Jews pray.

And to Brooke Goldstein, a human-rights attorney, award-winning filmmaker, and Founder and Executive Director of The Lawfare Project, the choice of target is itself revealing.

“The target tells you everything about who these protesters are really targeting,” Goldstein said. “When protesters walk past consulates and embassies, the United Nations, and every government office in New York City and choose to stand outside a Jewish house of worship, they are clearly and unambiguously targeting Jews as Jews.”

Intimidation

Goldstein points to the November 19, 2025 protest outside Park East Synagogue, where, a demonstrator was captured on camera saying, “We need to make them scared.”

“A synagogue doesn’t make foreign policy and is not representative of any government,” Goldstein said. “The only ‘them’ to make scared are congregants.”

New York State Senator Sam Sutton put that distinction plainly.

“When a protest is deliberately positioned at the entrance of a synagogue, the message is no longer simply political. It’s usually an act of intimidation designed to make Jewish families afraid to walk through the doors of their own house of worship. We must protect the First Amendment, but the First Amendment does not give anyone the right to threaten, harass, or intimidate people exercising their own constitutional right to worship. That is exactly why the buffer zone was so important: no New Yorker should have to face a gauntlet of agitators simply to pray.”

No American should have to run a gauntlet of political agitators simply to pray.

Yet elected officials have often appeared more worried about being accused of restricting protest than about confronting conduct that crosses from expression into intimidation.

As Sutton put it, “Protecting free speech and protecting people from intimidation are not contradictory principles. We can and must do both.”

That is the heart of the issue.

Protecting Freedom of Religion

Religious liberty cannot exist only on paper. It must be possible to exercise it in practice. Americans should be able to walk into a synagogue, church, mosque, or other house of worship without having to calculate whether organized intimidation awaits at the entrance.

The bipartisan Right to Worship Act seeks to address this. The legislation would create a 100-foot protected area around houses of worship during services and communal gatherings, to provide greater protection against obstruction, harassment, and intimidation while preserving constitutionally protected expression.

A Jewish mother should not have to walk her children through a crowd screaming about a foreign conflict simply to attend a synagogue program.

This is not an argument for silencing protest. Holding a sign, criticizing Israel, and peacefully demonstrating are considered speech. Blocking synagogue entrances, threatening worshippers, or deliberately disrupting religious activity are considered conduct.

Any buffer-zone law must be carefully drawn so government cannot suppress lawful political expression. But protecting access to a house of worship is not the same thing as suppressing speech. The right to protest does not create an entitlement to threaten or harass worshippers. Protecting religious access does not require the suppression of political dissent.

More importantly, this cannot be understood merely as a Jewish issue. Sutton framed the larger principle in terms that should concern every American.

“No citizen should have to choose between exercising their constitutional rights and exposing themselves or their family to harassment and intimidation. Today that may be a Jewish family walking into a synagogue. Tomorrow it could be any religious or minority community.”

Adaption – Not Acceptance

Freedom of religion is not a special accommodation. It is a foundational American right. Perhaps the most troubling development is how rapidly the extraordinary has become ordinary for American Jews. Private security, guards, and locked doors have become familiar features of Jewish communal life. Jews have learned to adapt. But adaptation should never be mistaken for acceptance.

The burden must also fall on government to ensure that intimidation does not become the price of practicing one’s religion. And this is where outrage must become action.

The Orthodox Union Advocacy Center is urging constituents to contact their senators in support of the Right to Worship Act through its pre-written action alert. Synagogues, schools, rabbis and community organizations should circulate it.

There will always be fierce political disagreement in America. There should be room for demonstrations over Israel, American foreign policy, war, religion, and countless other subjects. But the existence of one constitutional liberty does not require the surrender of another.

We should not have to choose between an America in which people can protest and an America in which people can pray. A free society should be capable of defending both, especially when political anger directed at a foreign government is redirected toward American citizens walking into a house of worship.

That is no longer simply a debate about Israel. It is a test of whether Americans still understand what religious liberty requires and whether we are prepared to defend it before intimidation becomes an accepted feature of American religious life.

America has plenty of space for protest. Surely we can preserve 100 feet for worship.

Chaos at M&S: One Spot, Four Teams, and a Finish Nobody Could Script

Sam J. Sutton

Eighteen years.

You would think by now M&S Softball had exhausted every possible way to create drama.

Apparently not.

As the 2026 regular season reaches its final games, we already know who sits atop the mountain. We know one semifinal matchup. We know who is waiting in the Wild Card. But somehow, incredibly, we still don’t know who the fifth and final playoff team will be.

And getting there may require an entire tournament just to determine who gets into the tournament.

Welcome to Year 18.

Icey Hot Leaves No Doubt

While chaos reigns beneath them, Icey Hot has been the one constant.

At 11-3, they officially secured the No. 1 seed after closing their regular season with six consecutive wins. Their latest statement was a sweep of the Party Animals. Two wins that simultaneously cemented Icey Hot atop the standings and threw the rest of the league into complete disarray.

Marc Sayegh has anchored the pitching, while Moshe Menshikov, David Brecher, Jackie Haber, and a deep lineup have made Icey Hot arguably the most complete team in the league.

Their reward? Rest.

Icey Hot now waits for the dust to settle and will face the eventual Wild Card winner in the semifinals.

A Heavyweight Semifinal Is Set

We also know the other semifinal matchup.

Chronicles Unhinged and the Summer Knight Kings will meet in the 2-vs.-3 series after both finished 8-6.

Chronicles has featured one of the league’s deepest offensive groups throughout the season, while the Summer Knight Kings looked nearly unbeatable early on, beginning the year 6-0 before navigating a much tougher second half.

Now none of that matters. They’re both in, and one will play for an M&S championship.

One Mo Time Is Waiting

Perhaps no team changed its trajectory more dramatically than One Mo Time.

At one point, buried near the bottom of the standings, OMT completely reshaped its roster through a flurry of trades and acquisitions. The result was a second-half surge that secured the No. 4 seed at 7-7.

Their assignment is now simple: wait.

One Mo Time will play the eventual No. 5 seed in a nine-inning Wild Card game, with the winner advancing to face Icey Hot.

Figuring out who OMT will actually play?

That’s where things get ridiculous.

Four Teams. One Spot.

The Party Animals and Murderers Row are both 6-8. Downtown and Take Two are both 4-8, with their final doubleheader still to be played.

And all four are alive.

If Downtown and Take Two split, Party Animals and Murderers Row meet in a seven-inning winner-take-all game. Winner gets the No. 5 seed.

But if either Downtown or Take Two sweeps, the sweep winner first faces Party Animals. That winner then faces Murderers Row.

Survive all of that and congratulations! – you’ve earned the right to play One Mo Time in the Wild Card.

Four teams. One chair.

The Future Is Now

Earlier this season, we called 2026 “The Future Is Now.”

A major youth movement has reshaped M&S. New stars have emerged, younger players have taken larger roles, and they’ve joined a veteran core that isn’t quite ready to hand over the keys.

After 18 years, the league keeps evolving. The names change. The stars change. The standings change. The drama never does.

By the time you read this, we may finally know who survived.

As I write it?

Four teams. One playoff spot. Absolute chaos. Welcome to M&S Softball!

Living Emunah – Open Wide

Our greatest privilege in This World is serving Hashem, following the Torah, and keeping the mitzvot. However, not everyone is so fortunate. Some have family members who have strayed from the path. Others have not been properly exposed to religion. It’s a merit to be able to serve Hashem, and we need to constantly ask for His help to continue.

The pasuk (Tehillim 81:11) says, “Open your mouth wide and I [Hashem] will fill it.” The commentaries explain that this refers to asking Hashem for help in religion. We pray a lot for our physical wellbeing. We ask Hashem for help with health and money, but we need to beg Him for help in religion, as well. The key to religious success is to want it and ask Hashem for help.

The book V’Sargilenu B’Sorasecha tells of a boy in Eretz Yisrael who came from a secular background. As he grew up, he yearned to become religious. He begged his parents to take him out of public school and put him in yeshivah.

After months of back and forth, his mother finally took him for an interview at Yeshivat Ohr Yisrael in Petach Tikvah. The Rosh Yeshivah, Rav Yaakov Neiman, saw that this boy had no background in Torah. He explained that his yeshivah was for boys much more advanced in their learning, and recommended a different yeshivah instead.

At that moment, the boy broke down in tears. The Rabbi asked why, and the boy explained, “My mother finally let me come to this yeshivah for a trial. It’s almost a miracle. Who knows if she will let me try somewhere else?”

Stunned by the child’s outburst, the Rabbi told the mother that the boy was accepted. She was a little disturbed. “How can you accept him?” she asked. “You just told us that he doesn’t have the necessary skills. He will be a failure.”

The Rabbi explained, “When I saw your son crying, and he explained how much he yearns to grow in Torah, everything changed. Someone who wants Torah that badly will have Heavenly help. When Hashem helps, anything is possible.”

We need the desire, and then we need to ask Hashem for help.

A principal in a local day school told me that one Rosh Hashanah, he had a dream that the Rosh Yeshivah was talking to him. “You think you are a good principal,” he said. “There is a father of a boy in the school that doesn’t even know how to read Hebrew.” He told him the name and asked, “Why aren’t you helping him?”

After Rosh Hashanah, the principal called the Rosh Yeshivah and asked whether he knew anything about this student’s father’s reading capabilities. “No,” he responded. “Why do you ask?” The principal told him about the dream, and the Rosh Yeshivah was taken aback. “You must call that father directly and find out.”

The principal called and casually brought up the subject of reading and inquired about his abilities. The man acknowledged that he did not know how to read Hebrew at all. He said that it was very embarrassing for him. On the High Holy Days, he is easily frustrated sitting in shul for hours, unable to read any of the prayers. He recently began begging Hashem, in his own words, to help him with his reading. In fact, moments before the principal called, he was telling someone about his reading problem and that he needs help.

 “How did you know I can’t read?” he asked the principal. “I always kept this fact as private as possible.”

The principal told him about the dream, and the man was amazed. Furthermore, the principal added, he had just taken a course on how to teach reading on all levels, even to those with disabilities!

The principal began giving lessons to this man, who knew of others who also couldn’t read; they are joining this class as well. The father had a desire to pray and learn in Hebrew. He asked Hashem for help, and Hashem helped him in a wondrous way.

We all need help in different areas of avodat Hashem. The key to success is desiring it and asking Hashem for help. If we lack the desire, we can ask Hashem for help with that, too!

Community Pulse – This Month’s Topic: Celebrating the Summer That Brought Us Together

Frieda Schweky

Every summer, our community shows up and shows out. This summer’s events included private simhas,  fundraisers, and gatherings for programs that quietly do so much good.  I asked a few friends to share the events that stood out for them most this year, and their answers reminded me all over again why this community is so special.

The Lev Organization Gala

One of this summer’s most stunning events was put on by the Lev Organization, a non-profit group that helps individuals and families navigate the Jewish divorce process. The evening was Lev Organization’s Fourth Annual Awareness Event: Surrender and Soar. It was held on July 9th, at the home of Barbara Fallas Klause and Jordan and Shirly Granger. The setup alone was breathtaking – a huge, magnificent tent stretched over the pool, twinkling with light, with a photobooth for guests to capture the night and a Chinese auction table piled with prizes. Dinner was catered by AkiMori, and it did not disappoint.

The planned keynote speakers were Rabbi Ali Cohen, a marriage counselor and motivational speaker, and Gedale Fenster, a motivational speaker. Unfortunately, due to weather-related disruptions and logistical challenges, Gedale Fenster had to cancel at the last minute. But the evening was saved when Rabbi Joey Haber and Adina Eden Kamkhatchi (founder of the jewelry brand Adina Eden) stepped up to the mic. Despite the short notice they delivered speeches so powerful and moving that most guests probably did not even realize there had been a change of speakers. It was a beautiful reminder that in our community when something doesn’t go as planned, someone always steps up.

Paint with Jill

Not every meaningful “event” of the summer is a big formal affair, and Paint with Jill, run by the talented Jill Levy, is proof of that. Twice a month throughout the summer, Jill hosts intimate parent (or grandparent)-child watercolor classes, sometimes mother and child, sometimes father and child, and sometimes grandmother and grandchild. Many kids count down the days until it’s their turn to attend with a parent or grandparent.

There’s something so lovely about sitting side by side with your child or grandchild, music playing softly in the background, with no phones or distractions, just paint, conversation, and each other. Jill always teaches something new, whether it’s a blending technique or a new way to look at color. Many see their painting abilities improve over the years thanks to Jill. Paint with Jill offers the kind of quiet, connective summer tradition that doesn’t make headlines but makes beautiful memories.

Leah Setton on Shirah Elementary’s Chinese Auction

Shirah Elementary (Bnot Shirah) really outdid themselves this year with a stunning Chinese auction hosted at the beautiful home of Charles and Ariella Ben Dayan. The evening had it all: garden photoshoots by Shelly Shmool, a lively Mahjong tournament, and guest speaker Jackie Bitton, who left a lasting impression on everyone.

Jackie’s message stuck with me long after the event ended. She told the story of how, right at the start of the school year, her son’s school announced there would be no school bus and every family would need to arrange carpool themselves. For Jackie, this felt like a genuine burden, another 40 minutes lost each day to Brooklyn traffic on top of everything else on her plate. Then, one day she got a call from a friend who was seriously ill in the hospital. Her friend told her that if she could be anywhere in the world at that moment, she’d choose to be driving carpool, because that would mean her life was back to normal. It would mean she didn’t have to rely on the kindness of others just to get her kids where they needed to go or to feed her family dinner. It would mean she had the privilege of doing those small, everyday tasks herself.

That phone call changed everything for Jackie. She never complained about carpool again. She shared a teaching from Rabbi Nachman of Breslov about always choosing simha and gratitude toward Hashem. She also told an inspirational story about noticing an African American woman in a store who, after accidentally knocking something over, laughed it off and said, “I’m too blessed to be stressed.” Jackie’s takeaway was simple but powerful: we all have the ability to brighten someone else’s day and be a light to the people around us, something her own daughter reminded her of before heading off to speak at a Shabbaton.

The line that’s stayed with me most is this: “I don’t have to, I get to.” The next time you’re tempted to complain about something mundane, like carpool, or laundry, or the school run, it’s worth remembering that somewhere, someone would give anything to be doing that very thing. A small shift in how we talk about our everyday tasks can entirely change how we feel about them.

Sari Shamah on the Morris Franco Cancer Center Spa Day

There’s no shortage of incredible programming in our community every summer. Sari could easily point to the Hatzalah Carnival or Yaakov Shweky’s electric concert for the Children’s Center, both of which were fantastic. But she wanted to shine a light on something a little more under the radar: the Morris Franco Cancer Center spa day, hosted at Dr. Gayle Krost’s home.

It’s a day built entirely around celebrating life together, volunteers and clients, side by side. There are massages, art projects, and wonderful food, but the real heart of the day is hearing directly from the clients and volunteers about how the program has touched their lives. It’s the kind of event that puts everything into perspective and reminds you exactly what this community stands for: when someone is struggling, there is an entire tribe ready to step in and help. Sari felt it was important to give credit to these unsung heroes who don’t always get the spotlight but absolutely deserve it.

Suzy Haber on Serenity by the Shore

Suzy’s favorite event of the summer was Serenity by the Shore, hosted by Magen Abot Yeshivah at Kassin Beach on July 13th. The day began with a workout overlooking the ocean, followed by a beachside meditation led by Nomi Simhon. From there, guests took a “roots and remedies” class, learning about which herbs and roots can be used for different ailments. Attendees got to make and take home their own tinctures. The Hut set up a jewelry-making station with beads and charms. Breakfast and lunch, catered by Nicole’s Kitchen, were absolutely delicious.

What struck Suzy most was how thoughtfully the entire day was planned. It wasn’t just about putting on a nice event or raising awareness for the school. It was about giving the school moms a relaxing, joyful day surrounded by wonderful company. There was a coffee bar, an acai bar, and even childcare so moms could actually unwind. The school principal gave a parenting class that Suzy and her friends found incredibly helpful. By the time the day ended, she and her friends didn’t want to leave.

A Summer to Remember

The common thread our community members picked up on this summer was the theme of connection. Whether it was a black-tie gala under a tent, a quiet watercolor class with a child or grandchild, a spa day for cancer patients and their families, or a sunrise workout on the sand, all of these moments was really about showing up for each other.

That’s what our community does best. We celebrate together, we support each other through hard times, and we find small ways to make ordinary days feel a little more special. As the summer winds down and we start thinking about the school year ahead, I hope we carry a little of that spirit with us: the gratitude, the willingness to step up when someone else can’t, and the reminder that even the mundane tasks of daily life are something to feel very fortunate about. Here’s to another summer of memories, and here’s to next summer already being something to look forward to.

Until next time, 

Frieda Schweky

Frieda Schweky is a community photographer, videographer, and writer. For photography & video inquiries or article topic suggestions, email her at [email protected] or follow her on Instagram @friedaschwekyphoto.

From the Files of the Bet Din – The Case Short Delivery

Robert requested of Simon, who was traveling to Israel, to take $4,000 to his sister who resided in Jerusalem. Robert placed the money in an unsealed white envelope and gave it to Simon. Simon did not count the money, but rather stipulated that he is not assuming responsibility for the funds. He placed the cash in his wife’s bag, which he stowed in the overhead bin on the plane. Upon arrival in Jerusalem, he took the envelope to Robert’s sister, who counted the cash and found that $590 was missing. In Bet Din, Robert’s sister reprimanded Simon for carelessly stowing the cash in an overhead bin. Simon responded that the $4,000 cash envelope he received consisted of many fifty, twenty, and ten-dollar bills. It was unreasonable to carry the overstuffed envelope in his pocket for the duration of the flight. Simon added that it was irrational to say that someone stole $590 and left the entire balance behind. Simon therefore suggested that perhaps he never received the complete $4,000 from Robert. Robert defended that he carefully counted the money before placing it into the envelope. Robert and his sister suggested that perhaps Simon or his wife mistakenly used the cash for their expenses, thinking the cash was their own. The couple responded that for the duration of their travels they did not use a total sum near the amount missing.

Is Simon responsible for the missing funds? How should the Bet din rule and why?

Torah Law

According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, one who is entrusted with money for safekeeping is required by law to store the cash in a wall or floor safe. If traveling, one is required to keep the cash in hand or in a front pocket for safekeeping. Unless agreed upon otherwise by the owner, one who deviates from these requirements is liable in the event the cash is lost or stolen. This ruling is applicable even to an unpaid watchman since deviating from the above-mentioned instructions is viewed as an act of negligence.

Interestingly, by rule of the Shulhan Aruch, if loose cash is deposited for safekeeping, the guardian of the funds is viewed as a paid watchman. The guardian of loose cash is liable for theft or loss even if he protected the money as required by law. The underlying reasoning behind this ruling is that since the money was deposited loosely, the watchman is entitled to use the funds deposited if needed. The right to use another’s funds constitutes a clear benefit extended to the safekeeper and he is thus liable for loss or theft of the cash. By contrast, if the money is deposited in a sealed envelope, the watchman is not entitled to temporarily use the funds and is consequently not liable for loss or theft. Since such a custodian is not receiving a benefit or payment for his services, he is viewed as an unpaid watchman and is exempt unless he is negligent.

According to leading halachic authorities, a watchman can stipulate a clause of exemption at the time the item is first received. Hence, even an unpaid watchman can, from the onset, stipulate exemption of all liability including the loss of the item even due to his negligence. Contemporary halachic authorities suggest that a watchman that does not specify the level of exemption he is seeking is limited in his liability but is not completely exempt. Hence, if a paid watchman vaguely states that he is willing to protect the item without assuming responsibility, he is exempt from claims associated with theft, but is still liable for all acts of negligence. Unless he explicitly stipulates when first receiving the item that he is not assuming responsibility for his negligence, he is held accountable. If, however, an unpaid watchman makes a general  stipulation that he is not assuming responsibility, he is exempt in case of loss due to his negligence. Since a standard unpaid watchman is only liable for negligence, it is obvious that his stipulation, even though it was unclear, must have included an exemption for negligence, the only thing he could have been  responsible for in the first place.

According to early halachic authorities, a messenger sent to deliver cash to another is not considered a paid watchman even if the cash he received is loose. The reason for such a distinction is that since the messenger is required to deliver the cash at the first opportunity available, his access to using the funds if needed is limited. Hence, if he is not getting paid for his services, the mere fact that the cash is temporarily loose is not grounds to make him liable for loss or theft.

By rule of the Shulhan Aruch, one who deposits an item for safekeeping assumes that both the guardian and his wife will be involved in protecting the item. Unless otherwise stipulated from the onset, a plaintiff may not accuse a defendant of wrongfully transferring the deposited item to his wife’s possession.

By Torah law, if a plaintiff states that he trusts the defendant and does not insist he take an oath to validate his claim, a Bet Din will release the defendant of the required oath. The defendant’s position is accepted as fact, and the case is adjudicated accordingly.

VERDICT: A Legal Exemption

Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Simon and found him not liable for the missing cash. As mentioned in Torah law, although the money was in an unsealed envelope, nevertheless, Simon was instructed to deliver the cash to Robert’s sister. A delivery boy is viewed by law as an unpaid watchman. Although an unpaid watchman is responsible if negligent, since Simon stipulated that he is not assuming responsibility for the cash, his stipulation obviously included negligence. An unpaid watchman is only liable in case of negligence; hence the stipulated exemption was intended in case of his negligence. Robert and his sister expressed that they trusted Simon and his wife when they asserted that they did not mistakenly spend the missing cash. Thus, our Bet Din ruled that Simon was exempt from payment.

In Loving Memory of Vera Bat Carol, A”H

YOU BE THE JUDGE

The Art of Deception

Steven is the owner of a residential building complex. By contract, a tenant who wishes to rent an apartment in his luxury building is required to prepay a year in advance at the time of signing. Gary, an old friend of Steven’s, showed interest in one of the smaller apartments in the building. Steven quoted Gary the price of $5,800 for the apartment and Gary rejected the offer as the price seemed exorbitant. Steven then showed Gary a larger apartment he had just rented out on the floor below for the whopping sum of $6,500. Steven explained to Gary that based on the larger apartment’s square footage the going rate for his apartment is at least $5,800. Gary was convinced. He signed and prepaid for the first year of his two-year contract. A short time thereafter, Gary spoke with the tenant on the floor below and inquired about the size and cost of his rental. The tenant told Gary that he was paying $5,000 for his apartment, which was clearly larger than Gary’s. Gary confronted Steven and demanded his money back, claiming that the apartment was rented to him on false pretenses. Steven dismissed Gary’s claim with the wave of a hand, claiming that the contract made no mention of any contingencies or considerations regarding the $5,800 cost of rent. He added that he did not necessarily recall the exact figure he told Gary regarding the larger apartment.  Furthermore, Steven explained that the larger apartment was, indeed, valued at $6,500 in the market. Gary contested and refused to be a victim of deception.

Is Gary entitled to breach his contract? Is he entitled to his money back? How should the Bet Din rule and why?