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The Case – A Tunisian Connection

Zelig and Mendel, two prominent members of a well-known Hassidic sect, served as primary distributors of tallitot for their community. As per the specifications established by their Grand Rebbe, only tallitot manufactured in Tunisia were to be sold by the two distributors. This requirement was implemented in order to avoid the prohibition of sha’atnez. Since Tunisia did not grow flax, it was the ideal country for purchasing sha’atnez-free wool tallitot. Rahamin, a Tunisian Sephardic Jew, was their exclusive importer who purchased the tallitot from Arab factories in Tunis, and sold the merchandise to Zelig and Mendel, the retail distributors. After twelve years of successful cooperation, a major crisis arose. Rumors spread through the market that their tallitot were not one hundred percent wool. These rumors prompted Zelig and Mendel to do laboratory testing of their stock. The report determined that although the tallitot did not contain any linen, they nevertheless had an approximate forty percent polyester content.  

In Bet Din, Zelig and Mendel claimed nearly $600,000 in damages for their defective stock. They insisted that they were entitled to return the goods and have their money refunded. They explained that they could not sell the defective tallitot to their clients, since they did not meet the religious standards practiced in their circles. In addition, due to the extra-large size and heavy weight of each tallit, they could not be sold elsewhere and were virtually worthless. Rahamim defended his position claiming that although the purchase order was for a hundred percent wool garments, he stipulated at the time of sale that he was not responsible for the quality control of the merchandise. Contrary to standard practice in wholesale transactions, both parties agreed that the inspection of goods for quality control rested with the retailers. Rahamim expressed that he did not at any point come into contact with the merchandise, as it was picked up by the buyers directly from the port. He was therefore unwilling to take back six months of stock that should have been inspected by the retailers upon initial delivery. Rahamim pointed out that their failure to do so in a timely manner caused him to pay the Arabs in Tunis in full. As such, the merchandise is no longer returnable to its original source. Zelig and Mendel persisted that they were sold defective merchandise as per the purchase order signed by Rahamim.  

How should the Bet Din rule and why? 

Torah Law 

According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, when an item is sold with a concealed defect the buyer is entitled to return the item for a cash refund.  

This ruling is applicable even if the item perishes in the buyer’s possession because of the defect. Furthermore, even if the buyer had the opportunity to inspect the item he purchased and prevent it from ruin, he is nevertheless entitled to his money back from the seller.  

The obvious reasoning behind this ruling is that a seller is responsible to inspect his product prior to its selling. If he fails to do so, he is responsible to reimburse the buyer, and bear the loss of any consequential damages caused by the concealed defect.  

If, however, it is understood at the time of sale that the inspection of the product is the sole responsibility of the buyer, the above rule differs. Since the item ultimately perished because the buyer failed to inspect it in a timely matter, he is not entitled to any reimbursement from the seller. The buyer is to bear the consequences of his negligence. Had he performed his basic duty of inspection he could have spared the item from ruin and returned it to the seller for a refund. 

While the above ruling is the opinion the Shulhan Aruch and is viewed as common law for all Sephardic Jewry, nevertheless, the view of leading Ashkenazic authorities differs. In their view, a seller of an item is always responsible for the consequences and damages of a concealed defect. Hence, according to this latter view, even if the seller does not come into physical contact with the item and inspection is the responsibility of the buyer, nevertheless, the seller is to bear the loss when the item is wasted or perishes because of the defect. The reasoning of this view is that a seller is always accountable when selling a defective item in the market. 

A defendant of Sephardic origin is absolved of payment when his claims of defense is in accordance with ruling of the Shulhan Aruch. Since he has possession of his funds, he is entitled to withhold payment by relying on the halachic authorities that are true to his heritage.  

Verdict:  Failure to Inspect 

Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Rahamim and absolved him of paying Zelig and Mendel for the defective tallitot. Since Zelig and Mendel were responsible for the quality control and inspection of the tallitot they must bear the loss. From the very onset Rahamim stipulated with them that it was their responsibility since he never came into contact with any of shipments. Had Zelig and Mendel inspected the tallitot in a reasonable amount of time, the tallitot could have been returned to the Arab factory in Tunis for a cash refund. By failing to conduct a basic inspection for over six months they consequently damaged the value of the goods. Nevertheless, prior to exempting Rahamim, we first verified that Rahamim did not deliberately buy defective tallitot at a cheaper price to increase his profit margin. This was verified with the help of a professional team of accountants appointed by our Bet Din, that reviewed Rahamim’s purchase costs and found that he paid nearly the same price for the tallitot throughout the many years of doing business.  

Although Ashkenazic halachic authorities require Rahamim to reimburse Zelig and Mendel, Rahamim, who is of Sephardic origin, is entitled to withhold payment and rely on the opinion of the Shulhan Aruch. 

YOU BE THE JUDGE 

Buyer’s Remorse? 

Eddie, an affluent businessman, was for years interested in purchasing Gladys’s private home. Gladys, a recent widow, was upset with how Eddie allegedly manipulated her late husband in their business dealings. She therefore rejected his multiple business offers and swore to him that she would never agree to sell him her home. Consequently, Eddie requested of Morris, his business associate, to purchase the home with the intent of selling it to him thereafter. Morris agreed, and the two signed a document, which read, “Upon Morris’s purchase of the home, he agrees to immediately sell the home to Eddie.” Morris purchased Gladys’s home using his own funds and thereafter refused to sell the property to Eddie. Eddie began to verbally harass Morris for reneging on their deal, so Morris suggested the two resolve the matter in Bet Din. Eddie was reluctant to sign on a binding of arbitration with our Bet Din, but ultimately did so to resolve the dispute in a timely manner. In Bet Din, Morris explained that he reneged on his commitment since he regretted getting involved in a deal that will bring extreme pain to a widow. Eddie contested, claiming that the agreement they signed was binding, and by law Morris is required to sell him the home. Furthermore, he countered that Morris was not truly concerned with the widow and is only reneging on the deal since the value of the property appreciated in the interim.  

Is Morris required to sell the home to Eddie as agreed upon or not?  

How should the Bet Din rule and why? 

The Lighter Side – January 2023

Juicy Fly Swatter

My three-year-old son stuck out his hand and said, “Look at the fly I killed, Daddy.” Since he was eating a juicy pickle at the time, I thrust his contaminated hands under the faucet and washed them with antibacterial soap. After sitting him down to finish his pickle, I asked, with a touch of awe, “How did you kill that fly all by yourself?” Between bites, he said, “I hit it with my pickle!”

Mark T.

Mr. Fix It

Chaim and Rivkah were recently married and setting up their apartment with the necessary furnishings. One morning, Chaim proudly came home with a new refrigerator. Unfortunately, he noticed that it was taller than the old one, and there wasn’t quite enough space for it. Not wanting to disappoint his new bride, he told her not to worry that he would fix everything. To do so, he would cut away part of an overhanging cabinet to make the refrigerator fit.

Chaim got some tools and tried to figure things out, but he wasn’t quite having success. A little embarrassed, he went into the other room and closed the door. He called in to a local radio program dedicated to home fix-it problems for advice. Chaim was in the middle of getting the guidance he needed, when suddenly his wife burst into the room.

“You won’t believe this!” she said. “There’s a guy on the radio with the exact same problem you’re having!”

Eli T.

Volunteer Opportunities

Shira volunteers for Bikur Cholim, a wonderful organization that delivers meals to the sick. Shira usually visits the elderly, and on one visit she decided to take her four-year-old daughter, Rena, along. Rena was intrigued by the various appliances of old age, particularly the canes, walkers, and wheelchairs.

Then, Rena noticed a pair of false teeth soaking in a glass. As Shira braced herself for the inevitable barrage of questions, Rena merely turned and whispered, “The tooth fairy will never believe this!”

Eddie A.

Two Left Feet

Mr. Stern was coming over to take his grandson Isaac to the park.

“Okay Isaac, we’re going to the park!” said Mr. Stern. “Go get your shoes on!”

Being only four years old, Isaac said, “Okay, but will you tie them for me?”

“Sure,” Mr. Stern replied with a big smile.

Isaac bolted into the next room to put on his shoes, returning with a big smile and the shoes on the wrong feet.

Looking at his shoes, Mr. Stern smiled and said, “Isaac, your shoes are on the wrong feet.”

Isaac looked down, then looked back at Mr. Stern with a very sad face and replied, “These are the only feet I have.”

Hannah G.

See You Later

Mickey had this problem of getting up late in the morning and was always late for work.

After a few weeks of this, his boss was mad and threatened to fire him if he didn’t do something about it.

So Mickey went to his doctor, who gave him a pill and told him to take it before he went to bed. He got a great night’s sleep and actually beat the alarm in the morning. After a leisurely breakfast, he cheerfully drove to work.

“Boss,” he said, “the pill my doctor prescribed actually worked!”

“That’s all fine,” said the boss, “but where were you yesterday?”

Jacky L.

New Security Device

The Israelis are developing an airport security device that eliminates the privacy concerns that come with full-body scanners. It’s an armored booth you step into that will not X-ray you, but will detonate any explosive device you may have on your person.

Israel sees this as a win-win situation for everyone, with no fears about racial profiling. It will also eliminate the costs of other long and expensive security techniques.

So basically, you’re in the airport terminal and you hear a muffled explosion. Shortly thereafter, an announcement:

“Attention to all standby passengers, El Al is pleased to announce that a seat is now available on flight 670 to London. Shalom!”

David E.

Photo Shoot

Little Moishe walked to and from school daily. On one particular morning, the weather was questionable, as clouds were forming and the sky was grey. But Moishie made his daily trek to school anyway.

As the afternoon progressed, the winds whipped up and the thunder and lightning began to roll. Moishie’s mother was concerned that her son would be frightened as he walked home from school and feared that the electrical storm might harm him.

Worried, Mrs. Rosenbloom got into her car and drove along the route to Moishie’s school. Upon finding her son, she noticed her boy was walking along just fine, but at each flash of lightning, Moishie would stop, look up and smile. More lightning followed and with each flash Moishie would look at the streak of light and smile.

Puzzled, the mother approached him in her car, lowered the window and asked him, “What are you doing?”

Moishie answered, “I am trying to look nice. Hashem keeps taking my picture.”

Colette C.

Check, Please

One year, Suzie decreed that she was no longer going to remind her children of their thank-you note duties.

As a result, their grandmother never received acknowledgments of the generous checks she had given for their birthdays.

The next year things were different, however.

“The children came over in person to thank me,” the grandma told a friend, triumphantly.

“How wonderful!” the friend exclaimed. “What do you think caused the change in behavior?”

“Oh, that’s easy,” the grandmother replied. “I hadn’t signed their checks.”

Melanie C.

Go Ahead and Jump

Zukie enlisted in the IDF and wanted to join the famous tzanchanim – the paratroopers. So he went to one of the instructors in charge and asked how you jump out of a plane with a parachute.

“Well, one thing you need to know,” said the instructor, “is that it’s important to start preparing for your landing at around 300 feet.”

“How do you know when you’re at 300 feet?” asked Zukie.

“A good question,” replied the instructor. “At 300 feet you can recognize the faces of people on the ground.”

Zukie thought about this for a while before saying, “What happens if there’s no one there I know?”

Lauren J.

Service with a Smile

A customer was really hassling an El Al agent at the ticket counter in Tel Aviv – yelling and using foul language. But the agent was polite and pleasant, and smiled while the customer continued to verbally abuse her.

When the man finally left, the next person in line, a tourist from Canada, said to the agent, “Does that happen often? I can’t believe how nice you were to him.”

The El Al agent smiled and said, “No problem, I took care of it. He’s going to Detroit. His bags are going to Bangkok.”

Alan P.

Home Buyer Tips

If you’re considering buying a new home, visit that home and the surrounding neighborhood during a time when neighbors are likely to be out and about.  Visit during different times.  If you’re a night owl or an early riser, take note of the noise or quiet during the evenings and mornings.

Neighbors can affect the quality of your life. Before you buy, meet the neighbors!  They can make or break your experience and can impact the value of your equity.

Costs of Property Taxes and Homeowners Insurance

Taxes will go up, as will insurance.  It’s a given.  Make sure you can afford MORE THAN you are approved for, as even with a fixed rate mortgage, costs will increase steadily – and often more quickly than you may be prepared for.

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Having a mortgage will strengthen your credit. Taking on a mortgage and making your payments on time can do wonders for your credit rating.  Showing that you’re able to consistently pay off a large sum shows lenders that you are credit-worthy and reliable. 

How to Maintain Your Home on a Proactive Schedule

I know it is not always possible, but it is worth your while to schedule a time to clean your gutters. Regularly check your roof and take action when you need to paint the exterior or replace rotted pieces.

Keep a calendar for scheduled repairs and stick to it.

Things to Look for When Buying a Home 

When buying a home, we often overlook things that we only realize later were actually very important. After talking to some of our followers, we would like to share with you their thoughts and insights.

Zoning

“I didn’t realize how important zoning is when buying a house!  Due to the zoning, after buying our home, we found out that we couldn’t build the way we were hoping to.  This shows you that it is very important to speak to an architect or expeditor prior to buying if you plan on extending or building.”

Check the Sewer Lines

“I’ll tell you what happened to me.  No one advised me to run a camera down my sewer main line.  The home inspector did not mention it, so it wasn’t done. He simply turned on all the faucets in the sinks and if the water went down, he said it was fine.  The week I moved in, the bathtubs started backing up and the plumber came over and said the sewer main line had collapsed!  It cost me $12,000 to replace it.  The plumber said, had I ran a camera inspection prior to closing on the house, he would have seen it right away and we could have negotiated with the seller for a lower price or to replace the sewer main line.  So, make sure you have the sewer main line inspected with a camera by a professional plumber and make sure to sign up for sewer main insurance from the water company (which also nobody advised me to do).”

Monthly Update from Assemblywoman Kim Eulner and Assemblywoman Marilyn Piperno

With anti-Semitism spreading across the country, threats to New Jersey synagogues have become increasingly common. In 2021 alone, the Anti-Defamation League recorded 370 anti-Semitic incidents in the State of New Jersey compared to 2,717 accounts of anti-Semitism across the country, representing a 34 percent increase from the prior year.

Fortunately, the Federal Bureau of Investigation uncovered the most recent November threats. One was intercepted online after being shared via social media, and included inflammatory language about relations between Jews and Muslims. We thank the FBI for taking these threats seriously and for the timely notification of synagogues across the state to take proper security precautions and to exercise caution to protect their communities and facilities.

Violence or threats against any individual or community should not be tolerated. Everyone should feel safe in their houses of worship, and we will ensure that your right is protected to the fullest extent possible under the law. In the meantime, it is imperative that if you see something, you need to say something. If you wish to report an instance of anti-Semitism, please visit the Anti-Defamation League website. However, in an emergency, dial 9-1-1 immediately. We encourage everyone to speak up against such hatred and stand up for the Jewish community.

One on One with Adina Mezrahi

“My parents’ focus in life was helping others around them. Their actions, what they modeled to their children, seeped into all of us.”  ~~ Adina ~~

What a zechut it was to interview Adina Mezrahi, the youngest child of Rabbi Shlomo Lankry, zt”l.  Rabbi Lankry was the rabbi of Chesed L’ Avraham, the rav of the Moroccan Jewish community of Flatbush, the owner of Sisu bookstore, and the leader of the Chevra Kadisha for the Sephardic community for fifty years. Rabbi Lankry and his eishet chayel Zahava, ad meah viesri, lived their daily lives in a manner that greatly shaped their children’s character.

Rabbi David Ozeri wisely said, “Sisu was a front for the Rabbi to do hesed, to save people’s lives, to be mekarev people.”

Rabbi Shlomo and Zahava Lankry were born and married in Morocco. Both taught in yeshiva and preschool. As a young man, Rabbi Lankry embarked on his calling to teach Torah and practice hesed towards his Jewish brothers and sisters. 

The couple emigrated to the U.S. when hostility towards Moroccan Jews intensified after Israel’s victory in the Six Day War. 

Adina attended Bet Yaakov Ateret Torah for elementary school and high school.  This Brooklyn school, which is close to her father’s store and shul, is part of the Ateret Torah Synagogue community.  The school follows Sephardic nussach and minhagim but has a yeshivish hashkafa and derech halimmud. Its founding rosh yeshiva, Rav Harari-Raful, shlit”a, was praised for synthesizing the school’s two facets beautifully. 

Adina was very studious and was rather quiet. She loved going to overnight summer camp as a child. She fondly recalled that her mother worked as a cook in Camp Agudah, an Ashkenaz camp, and part of the boy’s division of Agudath Israel.  Adina attended its sister camp, Bnos, which was down the road. She had the best of both worlds, melding Sephardic and Ashkenaz traditions.

“My childhood friends are like family. I grew up going to sleepaway camp.  I have great friends and great memories from Bnos.”

And Then Came Marriage . . .

Adina met her naseeb, Eliyahu (“Eli”) Mezrahi, of Syrian descent, after graduating high school.  They spent the first seven years of their marriage in New Jersey.  Eli studied in the Deal Kollel and Lakewood Yeshiva.  When Adina married Eli, she saw how similar the Moroccan and Syrian customs were.  Eli now works with his father in Seuda, a Syrian catering business, known as “the place to sample kosher Syrian Jewish fare in Brooklyn.”

Back to School

After her third child was born, Adina decided to return to school.  It is no surprise that Adina chose a helping profession after growing up in a house where her parents demonstrated a consistent commitment to doing hesed.  “Helping people and finding peace and happiness in what you are doing is what I am passionate about.  It’s also the key to success.  My parents ingrained this in all of us.  My sister is the clinical director at Amudim, one brother is a rabbi, and another brother has a pizza restaurant in New Jersey where he quietly helps many teenagers at risk.”

From both her parents, Adina learned that “whatever you do in your life, you can help people and elevate your situation to be a spiritual one.” 

Adina recalls her father always comforting those who were grieving.  He encouraged people to find a meaningful purpose in their loss and to help others. 

Adina saw that her mom, who cooked both in schools and camp, did much more than just cook.  Former students told her, “Your mother helped us in ways you cannot imagine.”  The same is true of her father. His daughter Emily said, “So many people approached me and began, ‘You don’t know what your father did for me.’”

As a spiritual person, Adina lights a candle every Friday night for her father, keeping him close to her heart.

Adina chose a path that would not compromise her family’s care. Her family members would always come first. “I didn’t want to miss my children’s important events and other milestones.”  

At the age of twenty-six, Adina enrolled in Touro College. It took her four years to get her b.s. in biology and another two years to earn her bachelor’s in nursing.  Adina also studied two-and-a-half years at Pace University towards her Family Nurse Practitioner  Master’s degree.  She is currently working on her nursing doctorate to gain leadership and management skills.

A Balancing Act

Adina arranged her classes around her children’s schedules, returning to school in the evenings for weekly science labs.

Adina’s husband fully supported  Adina’s  nursing aspirations.  Her mother was also a tremendous help.  Zahava Lankry babysat for the little ones and helped fill in when needed. “My mother was my right hand when I was getting my nursing education.”

Adina’s children have wonderful memories of going on the toy elephant rides on Kings Highway with their grandmother.  Adina’s parents lived above her father’s shul, and her dad cherished hearing the babies wake up and then joining them to play. “I am blessed to have a supportive family who saw my potential, guided me, and taught me the importance of giving back,” Adina said.

She did her hospital training at Maimonides Medical Center and Coney Island Hospital.  The experience was intense, but she focused on taking one step at a time. 

“Hashem provided me with the strength to get through it,” Adina recalls. She also had mentors and friends during each stage of her education, who supported her throughout her journey

Adina expressed immense gratitude to both Dr. Jack Sadacka and Dr. Melinda Mann, who were willing to give her clinical experience and training during her family nurse practitioner degree. Dr. Sam Bekhar hired her as a new graduate and taught her a tremendous amount when she worked in his practice.

“They took the time to train me and to educate me. I learned a lot about caring for the pediatric population and how to talk to the parents.”

Adina’s training with Dr. Mann, an obstetrician-gynecologist, is what led to her developing a keen appreciation and passion for women’s health.

Her first position as a registered nurse was at First Response Ambulance.  She then moved to HASC (Hebrew Academy for Special Children) and is gratified with the care she has provided for the past five years. Although Adina has advanced degrees, she retains her role as an RN because of her commitment to helping the developmentally disabled.

At HASC, Adina manages the medical care of adults in group homes.  Her patients have developmental disabilities and range from low-functioning individuals who require assistance with daily living activities to high-functioning adults who can hold down jobs.  The ages of the approximately 30 patients she cares for vary from young adults to senior citizens in their eighties.  During the height of the pandemic, Adina’s responsibilities became more challenging, as she attended to her patients’ care remotely on FaceTime. BH  all of her patients did well despite the challenges.

In June, Adina took a part-time position at Parcare Community Health Network, a women’s health practice. She works alongside her mentor, Dr. Mann. Adina is passionate about women’s healthcare, and finds the job extremely rewarding.  “I deal with all kinds of issues facing women.  Women go through different challenges. I educate and help women of all ages. I help them to address their health issues and to relieve their anxieties. It’s a blessing, to educate them and calm their fears.”

How Does Adina Do It All?

Adina and Eli have six children.  Their oldest, a boy, is studying at Mikdash Melech Yeshiva in Israel and their youngest is a baby girl.  They are grateful to live in a unique community whose members care about and help each other.

Adina’s children are very proud that she is a nurse practitioner. They appreciate it when Adina checks their ears and throats, and they don’t have to go to the pediatrician’s office so often!

Adina’s her formula for juggling work and family is proper organization and balance.  “Like anything in life, you need to juggle and prioritize.  I try to be organized and make lots of lists. I plan my time off around the kids’ vacation schedules.  It’s the hardest when the children are little, but it does get easier.  My older ones help in many ways.”

Adina recommends staying focused on what’s right for you and your family and to avoid comparing yourself to others.  Getting support from like-minded people in a similar situation is essential.

Hobbies and Outlets 

Adina says it is key to have an outlet, and hers is swimming. She tries to swim as often as she can.  Adina loves to read and enjoys nature and spending time at Marine Park.

Advice for Future Nurses 

“If your goal is to help people, you’ll be successful. Find good mentors, friends, and support groups. It can make or break you.” 

Please connect with Adina at amezrahi01@gmail.com

Ellen Geller Kamaras, CPA/MBA, is an International Coach Federation (ICF) Associate Certified Coach.  Her coaching specialties include life, career, and dating coaching.  Ellen is active in her community and is currently the Vice-President of Congregation Bnai Avraham in Brooklyn Heights.  She can be contacted at ellen@lifecoachellen.com (www.lifecoachellen.com).

Once Upon a Thyme – Pasta Limone

Pasta Limone is especially popular in southern Italy and Sicily which are known for their lemon trees. You may already have most of the ingredients in your pantry and refrigerator. All you need is pasta, lemons, parmesan, heavy cream, butter, salt, and pepper. Using super fresh ingredients like hand-grated parmesan, fresh squeezed lemons, and cracked pepper from a mill grinder is what makes this dish worthy of an Italian restaurant. Buon appetito! 

Ingredients: 

6 cloves garlic  

6 tbs butter

1 cup heavy cream 

1 cup grated parmesan

2 tbsp fresh squeezed lemon juice

3 tbsp lemon zest ( about 2 

large lemons)

Salt and pepper to taste

One box spaghetti

1 cup reserved pasta water 

  1. In a large pot, heat water over high heat. Generously salt the water. 
  2. While the pasta is cooking, carefully scoop out 1 cup of pasta water and set it aside to add to the sauce later.
  3. Heat a large skillet over medium heat. Add butter and garlic and sauté for one minute. 
  4. Add heavy cream and stir. Add lemon zest, lemon juice, salt, and pepper. Cook for about 5 minutes until the sauce begins to thicken. Add in parmesan cheese and stir well.
  5. Stir in ½ cup of pasta water into the sauce. Let thicken for about 3-4 minutes.
  6. Mix the cooked pasta with the lemon cream sauce. Garnish with any remaining lemon zest, grated parmesan, and black pepper. 

Community Members Join Together to Fight Crime

– Avi Kumar

This  past year’s  headlines cited a sharp rise in New York City’s crime rate and mental health crisis in the city. Our citizens feel a growing  fear that our safety is in jeopardy. But, officials and common folk alike are banding together to address these issues.

Flatbush Shomrim Safety Patrol  

 

Bob Moskovitz, the Flatbush Shomrim Safety Patrol’s Executive Coordinator, told Community Magazine, “I joined this organization in 1991. The police cannot be everywhere all the time and the community needed a better response.”

“But at the end of the day, if we don’t have the cooperation and blessings of the NYPD and your local precinct then you cannot go anywhere with a ‘volunteer patrol’ – we must be on the same page.” Explaining how the Syrian community’s initial concerns with the escalating crime wave began, he explained, “Things got really bad around the time Bill De Blasio became mayor. When that happened, the Sephardic community reached out to me and asked if they could become part of the Flatbush Shomrim community.

“We are volunteers, so if we go for a half day of Grand Jury duty, that equals a half a day that we are not paid. We do not carry weapons and are not vigilantes. We do not go beating people up. Our eyes and ears are our best weapons.”

“In my 30 years, we have never had a non-Jewish member in our ranks, only because no non-Jewish person has applied. But say, if someone is breaking into a car – the vehicle does not have a kippa on top of it, so the non-Jews call us, too. And many non-Jews are very supportive and appreciative of what we are doing.”

David Assis, President of the non-profit Community Security Alliance (CSA) and Flatbush Shomrim member said, “We even pay for our own gas. We just want to help. We are not substituting for the police. The people we help could be your or someone else’s family member.”

Don’t Be a “Soft-Target”

Those involved in security urge citizens not to take things for granted, citing the latest laws have made it harder to punish criminals.

Joe Dwek, Syrian Community liaison to NYPD, said, “Make sure your car doors and windows are locked and nothing valuable is inside the car. Sometimes when people report something was stolen, we see the footage and notice that the perpetrator was checking every car on the block to see if it’s locked or unlocked. And if it is unlocked, they will go for it.”

Dwek explained, “When Rudy Giuliani was inaugurated as mayor in the 1990s, he cracked down on fare beaters and squeegees (people who harassed people to wash their car windshields for money). When they put away the minor criminals, the major crimes went down.”

Dwek described the downturn of events after almost three decades since then. “After the George Floyd incident, police officers cannot touch someone between their shoulders and hips. So, you cannot take someone down without touching them, even if they are pulling a gun. I cannot think of any martial art known where this is possible. It is worse than ‘having their hands tied’.”

Moskovitz advised, “Don’t be a soft target – make it difficult for them. Many people leave their cars for a few minutes to grab a water from the store and they leave the door open. And sometimes they even leave a spare key and the engine running, and someone can drive away with it. We see what is really happening. Many of the crimes are ‘crimes of opportunity.’ Some of the things people leave in cars is just not normal! Don’t leave anything in plain view. This is New York, not Kansas. If I told you what I’ve heard people leaving out, it is not normal – wallets, credit cards, iPads, jewelry! Do not even leave a garbage bag in plain view because criminals might think there is something of value inside and break in. Bail reform created a perfect storm!”

Mr. Moskovitz said, “Now, over 30 of our 80 Shomrim members are from the Syrian community and 60 percent of the phone calls we receive are also from Syrian community members. I would appreciate it if they would also match that with funding.”

Assis said, “Along with house and car break-ins, we also have endless package theft. And this is not a fun environment to be in, especially when it is like this! It was right around the time of the pandemic when things got so out of control and all these laws changed. It is unfortunately in your ‘backyard.’”

Assis suggests that things became “out of control” and “people can do whatever they want” since the pandemic era. “People will commit more crime when there are no repercussions.”

Rising Anti-Semitism
 

Everyone is clearly concerned about anti-Semitism. Moskovitz recalls an incident where suspects were believed to be targeting synagogues in the early hours. Shomrim deployed volunteers during Shabbat because the anticipated crime was ”life threatening.” Thank Gd the perpetrators were apprehended before they arrived.

Assis said, “Every day is a different day for us volunteers, but unfortunately, we have to worry about active shooters these days. If you see anything that does not look right, make a phone call to us or the NYPD. Don’t brush it off – that one phone call could save lives.”

Assis also sternly warned against posting “fake news” that could “put the community into panic.” He said, “Recently, we had a terror threat and people posted that the person was caught in front of our synagogue, but it was not right. As we went to warn people that there was an armed and dangerous man on Shabbat, when people were not on electronics, someone had posted that the person was captured in front of a synagogue in Ocean Parkway.  Sometimes they simply want to get followers and sound ‘juicy’ but that does not help!”

Inna Vernikov, member of New York City Council’s 48th District said, “Right now, the Syrian Community is split into three districts, mine, Kalman Yeger’s, and Ari Gegen’s. Next year when the maps are redrawn, I will have more Syrians in my district. They are very aware of my efforts to fight against anti-Semitism. I worked very hard to combat this in CUNY (City University New York) where many Syrians attend.  I work with the police, the Hate Crimes Unit and the Brooklyn DA’s office to fight this.” Last year there was a case where two boys were assaulted by Palestinians because one of the boys was wearing an IDF hoodie. The perpetrator who punched the boy wearing the hoodie got more bail than he would have if we didn’t fight it. Right now, things are not moving in the right direction at all, but I am staying here. I am not moving to Florida. I still have hope for the city.”

Conclusion
 

As petty crime and anti-Semitism in New York both are on the rise the general public must be more vigilant. Citizens need to stay aware of their surrounding and not be complacent.

Dwek said, “Members are free to contact me to meet the police assigned to their block and be able to communicate with them directly. In these times, it is very important to have relationships such as these.”

An Exam Like No Other

– Rabbi Eliezer Sandler 

Seven leading Torah sages spent hours engaging the avreichim geonim, the outstanding young prodigies of the Shas Yiden network, at the special 100 Siyumei Hashasim event held last month in Beit Shemesh, Israel. This year’s exams involved not simply questions and answers, but lengthy debate and discourse, to the sheer delight of both the young scholars and venerated sages, as well as the large number of American and UK visitors who marveled at the display of brilliance that they witnessed.

The annual exams on the entire Shas, and the Siyum Hashassim gatherings of the Shas Yiden network of kollels, have become a beloved tradition, a yearly celebration of extraordinary Torah scholarship. Each year, the video recordings of the event – which are available at www.shasyiden.com – are eagerly anticipated by yeshiva students and Torah scholars around the world.  Until this last year, the avreichim geonim (young prodigies) would cram into the home of the late Nasi (Chairman) of Shas Yiden, Maran HaRav Chaim Kanievsky, zt”l, who would administer a comprehensive exam, an experience which he said gave him immense pleasure.

This year’s event, which was held in Beit Shemesh last month, featured an incredible “lineup” of sages, a veritable “Who’s Who” of Torah learning, who tested the mettle of the avreichim geonim. They included Rav Baruch Mordechai Ezrachi, Rav Itamar Garbuz, Rav Yaakov Ades, Rav Elimelech Biederman, Rav Shmuel Yaakov Landau, and Rav Eliyahu Stefansky. Several other luminaries graced the dais, as well, such as Rav Mordechai Stern, rabbi of Heichal Dovid in Lawrence, NY.

This tradition was initiated by the Pozna Rov, Rav Avrohom Eisen, shlit”a, who founded the Shas Yiden network 14 years ago. The public farher (exam) is intended to honor the  young scholars of Shas Yiden, and to allow the generous sponsors of this unique program the opportunity to see the fruits of their support, the emergence of towering scholars with a comprehensive knowledge of every word of the Talmud, Rashi, and Tosafot. The Torah sages who test the young prodigies have expressed the joy and delight they experience by engaging with these brilliant young scholars, and how much they look forward to this remarkable event each   and every year.

A Gift Beyond Compare

One of the students in Shas Yiden is a grandson of Rav Baruch Mordechai Ezrachi, Rosh Yeshiva of Ateres Yisrael and a senior member of the Council of Torah Sages. Despite his advanced age and failing health, Rav Ezrachi made the difficult trip to Beit Shemesh and climbed the stairs to the dais on the stage. Once he began engaging with the avreichim geonim, discussing and debating some of the most difficult, intricate passages of the Talmud, all signs of fatigue and frailty vanished. The Rosh Yeshiva’s face radiated with excitement and joy at the incredible knowledge that was put on display. His enthusiasm intensified as he posed questions on subjects related to kodashim (the Bet Hamikdash and sacrifices), and the avreichim geonim responded instantly, clearly and masterfully, showing their thorough knowledge of these complex, esoteric subjects.

“Hopefully, my portion should be with yours,” Rav Ezrachi said, with a great deal of palpable emotion. 

He added, “I am sure that in Heaven there must be a tumultuous response to these moments — with 100 avreichim geonim who know all the words of Shas. In truth, one should be jealous of you for this great feeling, as you are able to study and contemplate Shas the whole year through, and it lives with you… The fact that there is a group of incredible talmidei hachamim [Torah scholars] like you puts the entire people of Israel on a different level. It obliges us all to express our great appreciation to the Pozna Rov who came up with this idea of establishing such an institution, and he has truly given the Jewish people of Israel a gift that is beyond compare.”

Raising the Grandeur of Israel

Rav Itamar Garbuz, Rosh Yeshiva of Orchos Torah, visibly relished the lively interaction with the avreichim geonim. He tested them through the length and breadth of Shas, and expressed his amazement at their incredible knowledge.

Rav Garbuz’s questions focused on broader Talmudic concepts and principles. For example, he asked the scholars to name all disputes between Rabbi Yehuda and Rabbi Shimon in Masechet Shabbat. The avreichim geonim not only listed all the disputes, but added numerous applications of these disputes, instances where Rabbi Yehuda and Rabbi Shimon’s opinions yield different conclusions. They also referenced comments of Tosafot throughout Masechet Shabbat, and then discussed implications of these debates relevant to Masechet Eruvin. The answers to Rav Garbuz’s difficult questions flowed forth at an extraordinary pace, dazzling everyone in attendance. 

After an extensive session with the avreichim geonim, Rav Garbuz exclaimed that it was a great honor and privilege for him to have this opportunity to engage in Torah study with such brilliant scholars. “In you, the Jewish people are to be blessed,” he said. “It is impossible to estimate or to describe the greatness of the zechut [privilege] of those who support this holy project that raises the grandeur of Israel and the holy Torah in such a remarkable fashion.”

Rav Elimelech (“Meilech”) Biederman, affectionately known as the “great mashpia” (“influencer”), exclaimed, “You see seated before you 100 avreichim geonim who know the entire Shas. Literally, 100 holy Torah arks before our eyes. How immense is the zechut of the donors and supporters! Through support for this cause, your merit and destiny will be enhanced for goodness and for success in all respects, both material and spiritual!” 

Rav Shmuel Yaakov Landau, dayan (judge) and rav of the Belzer Yad Cohen bet midrash in Beit Shemesh, is the father-in-law of one of the avreichim geonim.  He debated several Talmudic topics at length with the avreichim geonim, including the law which precludes the possibility of transferring or selling something which is not yet in existence (“davar shelo ba la’olam”), such as futures. He also dealt with the question of whether a person may appoint a messenger to perform a mission regarding something that does not yet exist, and other related issues.

“Add a Few Zeros!”

The discussions between the renowned scholar and Kabbalist Rav Yaakov Ades shlit”a, and the avreichim geonim was nothing short of spellbinding. Rav Ades began by offering warm words of encouragement to the young prodigies, and then launched into fierce debate regarding several topics scattered throughout Shas. He demonstrated extraordinary proficiency, as though the entire Talmud was open right in front of his eyes. As he discussed and debated with the avreichim geonim, his face shone with the joy and exhilaration of Torah. The discourse was intense, to the delight of  the avreichim geonim and of everyone present.

Afterward, Rav Ades turned to the donors in attendance, who were visibly moved and enthralled by the spectacle that they had just witnessed, and said, “I have a good idea for you. If any of you were thinking of making a donation to Shas Yiden – you should double the intended donation! And if you can, add a few zeros! You should know that the zechus of supporting such a great and holy project is indeed significant, and it’s not a simple matter. Such support obligates the avreichim geonim, as well. You have to pray for the donors and supporters, that they should be blessed with all that is good through the power of the Torah and of your prayers!”

A Celebration of Torah

The dazzling exams were followed by a heartfelt and inspirational arvit service, led by Rav Ades. This was followed by the Siyum Shassim, celebrating the completion of the study of the entire Shas by each one of the avreichim geonim over the course of the past year. 

Each of the kollel wives was personally presented with a cash-filled envelope in appreciation of their unstinting support for their husbands’ dedication to the exceedingly demanding study regimen of Shas Yiden. A sumptuous dinner followed, giving honor to the Torah and to those who generously support Torah, with musical accompaniment by Aharon Samet. It was a truly unforgettable event for everyone in attendance.

Videos of the lively and inspiring Shas Yiden exams and siyumim are available at www.shasyiden.com.

For more information about the Shas Yiden network of kollels, or to donate, please call 718-702-1528, or mail: 1274 49th Street #562, Brooklyn, NY 11219.

London: UK Registered Charity # 1191225 – Call 020-8066-1566 or Mail: 2 Timberwharf Road, London N16 6DB, England.

Reaction by Rav Baruch Mordechai Ezrachi, shlit”a 

On the Shabbat after the exams and siyumim, Rav Baruch Mordechai Ezrachi could not contain his excitement over what he had witnessed at Shas Yiden. A guest at one of Rav Ezrachi’s Shabbat meals reported that the Rosh Yeshiva regaled them about the exam in which he had participated, describing the brilliance that flowed from the 100 avreichim geonim and pulsated throughout the hall. “I have never been so moved and excited at a public gathering,” Rav Ezrachi proclaimed. “How fortunate am I that I was privileged to witness this remarkable event!”

Reaction of a Shas Yiden Student 

Shortly after the siyumim, one of the avreichim geonim commented. “I am just 27, and I tell you the truth – I never dreamed that I would get to this point in my learning. To know the entire Shas? For me, this was something achieved in previous generations! 

“But here at Shas Yiden, I have managed to achieve the unbelievable thanks to this network, the unique method of learning that includes reviewing many, many times, amid unceasing progress through the texts. I am excited today as never before, even my wedding day …”

Overheard at the Siyumim 

The fathers of two of the Shas Yiden avreichim geonim were sitting together at the Siyumim dinner, discussing their feelings of joy at this event in which their sons played an important part. 

“If all the gedolim here were not present, I would jump up and dance with reckless abandon,” one of them said. “I have to hold myself back.” 

The other responded, “Even when I married off my children, I did not experience such incredible joy. This is just unbelievable! My son completed Shas and was tested on it thoroughly. My son knows Shas! It was worth being born and toiling all these years just to get to this most memorable occasion. I have been privileged to marry off all my children, and I must confess that I have never experienced such simcha as I do now.”

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Harav Hagaon Eli Stefansky PLUS Shas Yiden = WOW

Teaching 18,000 Jews Every Day!

Harav Hagaon Eliyahu Stefansky, Nasi of the Mercaz Daf Hayomi, conducts the most popular and populous shiur in the world, delivering an English Daf Yomi shiur to 18,000 listeners every day, Sunday to Friday. His unique style, which features broad scholarship and colloquial English peppered with witty and colorful interjections and appropriate personal greetings that are at once charming and meaningful, has earned him an enthusiastic international following. 

Appropriately, Rav Stefansky was given the honor of serving as one of the farherers (testers) at the exam administered to the Shas Yiden avreichim geonim (young prodigies). He posed his questions in fluent Hebrew, and with a warm smile, to the delight of the young luminaries who responded with immense joy and electric enthusiasm.

The morning following the farher (exam), Rav Stefansky prefaced his daily shiur by reflecting on the experience:

“A very special thing happened to me yesterday. There are chaburot [study groups] known as Shas Yiden – a hundred kollel guys, about five or six kollelim in Israel, in a network called ‘Shas Yiden.’ These avreichim geonim finish Shas every year, and they know Shas cold… If you go online (www.shasyiden.com), you can see Rav Chaim Kanievsky farhering them… and other gedoleh Torah [Torah sages] farhering them.

“Well, last night, [94-year-old] Rav Boruch Mordechai Ezrachi, the oldest of the Rosh Yeshivos, and some other Rosh Yeshivos, farhered them…and they asked me, also, to farher them, and so I did. It was an amazing and special experience…”

Rav Stefansky asked the avreichim geonim about numerous different topics discussed in the Gemara, and then pulled out his “bag of tricks,” as he describes:

“I started out calm and easy, and then I suddenly pulled out my illustrations that were especially created for the occasion. They then had to decipher them and their riddles, as to which subjects in Shas were being depicted, the context, the outcome and the halacha. This, too, developed into an extended and lively session. It was quite exceptional.

“It was a great zechut [privilege] for me to test them. Truth is, I was not surprised at their knowledge, because one of them is my chavrusa [study partner], and in our kollel we have another avreich who learns there in the afternoon – a Belzer chasid – so I am familiar with them.

“…It was just amazing. Their knowledge…

“Afterwards, I was talking with them, and I asked, ‘Is there anyone here with a normal, average brain? Someone who is not an illui [prodigy] and with a head of a gaon [genius]? Many of them raised their hands. So, I asked them for ideas or suggestions for chazarah [reviewing] and memorizing, and that opened up an interesting discussion on the subject.

“Among my questions I asked these:

Where in the entire Shas are there seven consecutive words that begin with the Hebrew letter chaf? A: Nedarim 10b

Where in Shas are there 44 consecutive words that end with the Hebrew letter nun?  

A: Shabbat 104 

“In our sugyah [topic in the Talmud], we just learned about Bar Padda, and I noticed a note in the Artscroll [edition of the Talmud] that says that he was the nephew of Bar Kappara (Meilah 4). So, I casually asked who Bar Padda’s uncle was. Instantly, all of them – and they each had a microphone – called out together, ‘Bar Kappara, Bar Kappara! Meilah, daf dalet, Meilah, daf dalet!’ It was crazy, just crazy.

“Where does the Masoret Hashas note a sugyah that is found on five consecutive folios of Shas? 

A: Gittin 20 – 24 – dealing with witnesses effecting a get.

“An incredible, amazing experience … Every year they chazer [review] Shas, every year…”

Dear Jido – January 2023

Dear Jido,  

We’ve gotten into a situation where my preschooler associates Shabbat entirely with eating treats. While her diet is generally pretty healthy, Shabbat is a different story, and between dessert at dinner, kiddush after services, dessert again at lunch, and treats at afternoon playdates, it’s gotten out of hand. How can we scale back without taking away any of the joy?  

Signed,  

Sweet but Sour

Dear Mrs. Sweetness,

That’s a toughie. As a Jido, when the grandchildren come over, that’s what we DO.

Okay, let me try to go back about 40 years.

This is what I would suggest: Rather than making it into a fight that you can’t have this or you can’t have that, turn it into a positive. 

On Friday evenings, lay out on the table five or six of her favorite treats, portion-sized to your approval. Ask your daughter to pick three of them – one for Friday night, one for after lunch, and one for the afternoon “Shabbat Party.” Let HER choose. Empower her to be in charge of which treats she gets after looking at them and after you’ve already approved how much of each. (Try to be a little generous at the beginning, and week after week, cut back on the portions if appropriate.)  

Of course, after she picks the three that SHE wants, she can have some of the jelly beans all three times or a piece of the cookie twice. Also, of course, if she “cheats,” she loses the balance of what she’s chosen. 

Giving a child choices helps them to learn responsibility. It teaches them to make decisions within the limits that you’ve set. Believe it or not, children thrive when they have boundaries set for them. It helps them take charge of their lives.

Otherwise, she would probably just choose to come over to my house! 

Shabbat Shalom,

Jido 

Mabrouk – December 2022

MABROUK 

Births – Baby Boy 

Rabbi Ariel & Rivka Zafrani 

Ari & Teri Sofair-Fisch 

Andy & Abbey Mizrahi  

 

Bar Mitzvahs 

Morris, son of David & Susan Dana  

Elie, son of Mr. & Mrs. Joe Kadi 

 

Engagements 

Aaron Marcus to Florence Hassoun 

Ezra Ohnouna to Barbara Kassin 

David Shacalo to Terry Jemal 

Raymond Tawil to Sharon Chehebar 

Shlomo Abady to Simcha Srour 

Jack Levy to Marelne Gindi 

Freddy Srour to Rina Kabariti 

 

Weddings 

Abraham Hanan to Sara Sharaby