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Once Upon A Thyme – Fluffernutter Popsicles

A fluffernutter is a sandwich made with peanut butter and marshmallow fluff and usually served on white bread. You can’t go wrong with the classic combo of peanut butter and marshmallow. These popsicles are just like sinking your teeth into the creamiest peanut butter and fluff sandwich you can imagine. Plus, its topped with a crunchy layer of cracked sugar cone pieces and melted chocolate. What better way to usher in summer with this decadent and fun dessert that tastes like the fluffernutter sandwiches we loved growing up!?

Recipe:

2 cans coconut milk

1/2 cup sugar

1 cup fluff

1 cup peanut butter

1 tsp vanilla extract

4 sugar cones

1 cup mini marshmallows

6 oz. dark chocolate

1 tsp oil

Popsicle sticks

1. Place coconut milk, sugar, fluff, peanut butter, and vanilla in a food processor and blend until smooth

2. Crack the cones into small pieces with your hands. Save half on the side for garnish and use the remaining cracked pieces to place inside the popsicle molds along with the mini marshmallows.

3. Carefully pour the ice cream mixture inside the molds. Place popsicle sticks inside each mold and freeze for 7 hours or overnight

4. Melt chocolate with oil. Drizzle melted chocolate on top of the popsicle and sprinkle with remaining pieces of the sugar cone.

Hot Summer Gadgets & Gizmos

Summertime is not just about sunshine and barbecues – it also inspires hi-tech gadgets that make our lives simpler and more enjoyable. Check out some of this year’s hottest new gizmos!

Monos CleanPod

This handheld UVC sterilizer is one of the best new gadgets around. Just charge it up, stash it in a backpack, and you are good to go! To sterilize something, just press a button, wave the Monos CleanPod over any surface for half a minute and it will immediately get rid of viruses, bacteria, and all other types of germs.

MyZone MZ-Switch Heart Rate Monitor

This fitness tracker is ready for anything, even if you’re not. The MZ-Switch measures your heart rate to understand how much effort you’re putting into your exercise.

What makes it unique is that this tracker can slot into different straps to read your heart rate from your wrist, arm, or chest. And it’s waterproof, too!

Superstrata Bike

Send Superstrata your dimensions, riding style, and preferences and they’ll 3D print you a carbon fiber bike frame made to fit. Prefer a stiffer ride? A bike for commuting or for touring? Superstrata has over 500,000 possible combinations!

Rise Personal Garden

The Rise Personal Garden is a small, smart hydroponic garden that fits on your countertop so you can grow fresh food right in your home. This smaller version of the Rise gardens can grow four large plants, eight medium-sized plants, or a dozen small plants. You can grow a wide range of vegetables and even microgreens.

ButterOnce Corn Butter Knife

Corn on the cob is a summer staple, but can also be messy. These uniquely-designed butter knives keep butter on the corn and off of your fingers, so you can enjoy every kernel without worrying about the mess.

Sobro Cooler Coffee Table

This coffee table brings you right into the future! The multifunctional coffee table includes a refrigerator drawer to keep cold drinks on hand. If that was not enough, add on Bluetooth speakers, LED lights, and USB charging ports for tablets, laptops, or a cell phone. Add guests and you are ready for the party!

Cold Snap Frozen Treat Machine

Delicious homemade ice cream can be yours in minutes. The Cold Snap Frozen Treat Machine uses pods with pre-mixed ingredients, allowing your frozen treats to be dispensed directly from the pod to your bowl. Besides producing delicious frozen treats, including ice cream, frozen yogurt, smoothies, and frozen coffees, this machine requires no clean up! Sweet deal.

Geneinno S1 Integrated Underwater Scooter 

Explore coral reefs and other underwater treasures with this beautiful scooter. This amazing underwater scooter reduces the energy and time it takes to reach your maximum depths. Great for use in the deep sea, pools, and water parks.

Cocoon Spherical Tree Bed

Sleep under the stars or relax in the daytime with the Cocoon Spherical Tree Bed. This luxury tent getaway fits a double bed inside. Plus, you’ll have room for accessories, unlike an average-sized tent. Thanks to the lightweight aluminum structure, it can be hung from two trees, and the six anchor points of suspension improve stability when you sleep.

Milo Action Voice Communicator

Use the Milo Action Voice Communicator to connect with your friends while enjoying outdoor activities this summer. This gadget lets you share your adventures when you can’t use your phone. With no buttons to push, this hands-free device doesn’t require a cell signal or Wi-Fi. And it features six low-distortion microphones that suppress wind and background noise to provide clear calls.

Beware of the Fox

Tishah B’Av is a time for mourning, but also a time for hope. What has kept us alive and allowed us to flourish throughout the millennia of turbulent exile is our nation’s unique ability to find comfort and solace amid the hardship, to introduce faith and optimism even as we mourn and lament. We observe the three-week period of mourning, culminating with the fast of Tishah B’Av – but then we get off the floor and enter Shabbat Nahamu and a period of great confidence and hope.

One of the most famous and cherished examples of this uniquely Jewish trait is the story told at the end of Masechet Makkot of how Rabbi Akiva comforted his grieving colleagues. Rabbi Akiva and three of his distinguished peers were passing near the ruins of the Bet Hamikdash, and they observed a fox scurrying about, running from the area which had been the site of the kodesh hakodashim – the holiest chamber of the Bet Hamikdash. The three other rabbis wept, while Rabbi Akiva laughed. The three rabbis asked Rabbi Akiva why he was laughing, and he returned the question – asking why they were crying.

Rabbi Akiva’s colleagues were astounded. “We shouldn’t cry?!” they exclaimed. This was the holiest site on earth, where only one man was ever allowed to enter – the kohen gadol, who went inside that chamber only once a year, on Yom Kippur. How could they not cry upon seeing the site violated by a wild fox?!

Rabbi Akiva responded that he celebrated the sight of the ruins of the Mikdash because it marked the fulfillment of centuries-old prophecies. If the prophets’ predictions of destruction materialized, Rabbi Akiva said, then we can rest assured that their predictions of our nation’s glorious redemption will also one day be fulfilled.

The Other Fox

There is one aspect of this famous story which often goes unnoticed – namely, that this is not the only time that we find Rabbi Akiva talking about a fox.

An equally famous story is told elsewhere in the Talmud, in Masechet Berachot (61b), about Rabbi Akiva’s tragic end. The Roman government issued an edict banning Torah study, but Rabbi Akiva courageously defied the ban, and publicly taught groups of students. Ultimately, he was captured and tortured to death. Before Rabbi Akiva’s capture, a man named Pappos approached him and asked why he would risk his life by defying the authorities’ strict edict.

Rabbi Akiva replied by telling a fable of a fox who walked along the seashore and observed the fish frantically jumping about. The fox asked what they were doing, and the fish explained that they were desperately trying to avoid the fishermen’s nets.

“Why don’t you just come to the shore?” the fox asked, “You’ll be safe over here.”

“They call you the cleverest of the animals?!” the fish responded. “You’re not clever; you’re a fool!” The fish explained that if their lives were endangered in the water, the place where they were generally able to live, then certainly they would face even graver danger if they left the water, their life source, to live on dry land.

Similarly, Rabbi Akiva explained, if the Jews faced danger while living “in the water,” immersed in Torah learning, their very lifeblood, then they would face far greater danger if they abandon Torah study.

In this story, the fox represents the seductive lure of life without Torah. It is the voice that tries convincing us that life will be better, easier, and more fulfilling if we leave the “water,” our life of Torah commitment.

Lamenting Our Spiritual Exile

With this in mind, we can perhaps return to the story of the fox running from the site of the kodesh hakodashim.

The rabbis saw this scene as a frightening symbol – one which portended the realization of their worst fears. They foresaw the “foxes” of all kinds succeeding in luring Jews away from the “kodesh hakodashim,” Torah commitment. What disturbed them was something even worse than the rubble they saw at the place where thousands of Jews would assemble at the spectacular, sacred Bet Hamikdash to serve Gd. They were horror-stricken by the spiritual exile which they foresaw, the widespread departure from the “kodesh hakodashim,” Jews heeding the foolish advice of the “fox” and abandoning their heritage.

This tragic process had already unfolded many years earlier, during the time of the prophet Yirmiyahu. In one of the haftarot read in the weeks leading up to Tishah B’Av, we read Gd’s harsh condemnation of the people for “shetayim ra’ot” – “two evils” which they committed against Him (Yirmiyahu 2:13). First, “You abandoned Me, the source of life water.” Abandoning Gd under any circumstances is bad, but even worse, the Jews abandoned Him “to chisel for yourselves cisterns – broken cisterns which cannot contain water.” The Jews turned their back on their faith in favor of vanity, of hollow beliefs, of emptiness. They were lured and tempted by the various different “foxes” that convinced them they would be better off out of the “mayim hayim” – the “life water,” our source of spiritual sustenance. But what they found was “broken cisterns,” a life without meaning, without substance, without direction and without real values.

This was Rabbi Akiva’s colleagues’ greatest fear. They foresaw the years in exile when the Jews would be dispersed throughout the world, and exist as a small, disliked minority among other cultures and societies. The “foxes” all around them will lure them out of the “kodesh hakodashim,” away from Torah, and convince them to embrace the “broken cisterns” of the other nations.

The other rabbis wept, but Rabbi Akiva rejoiced. Rabbi Akiva was fully ignorant of Torah – and could not even read – until the age of forty. He was very, very far from the “kodesh hakodashim.” He lived a life bereft of Torah devotion. But once he decided to change, and to begin making his way towards the “kodesh hakodashim,” he not only succeeded, but emerged as one of the leading sages of the Jewish People. Rabbi Akiva’s life story shows that our departure from the “kodesh hakodashim” is not the end

of the story. We can always return. Even if the seductive lures of the “fox” succeed in drawing us away from our life source, we must trust in our ability to find our way back.

The Modern-Day “Foxes”

The rabbis’ tears are even more understandable if we assume that they foresaw the “foxes” of our generation, the relentless pressures that the modern Jew faces that threaten to pull him away from the “kodesh hakodashim.”

There are millions of such “foxes,” and they are all in the palm of our hands, or in our pockets. Technology has placed lures of many different kinds around us at all times. The distractions are endless. There is a bottomless pit of spiritually toxic material that is readily accessible around the clock. All this pulls us like a magnet out of the “kodesh hakodashim,” away from Torah, and it takes a great deal of strength to resist this force.

We face ideological “foxes,” as well. Our surrounding culture presents itself as morally superior to our beliefs and values, which it considers backward and antiquated, Heaven forbid. Our principles of faith and our lifestyle are ridiculed and condemned as immoral. We must reinforce our firm conviction that our way of life is the “be’er mayim chayim,” the “well of life water.”

Our surrounding culture has a very alluring appearance; it seems to offer enjoyment and satisfaction, and it claims moral preeminence. This illusion is the sly, clever “fox” trying to pull us out of the “water.”

The Torah says about the pit into which Yosef was thrown, “The pit was empty; it had no water” (Beresheet 37:24). The Gemara (Shabbat 22a) comments, “It had no water – but it did have snakes and scorpions.” The message of this statement is far more profound than a description of the life-threatening danger that Yosef faced. It warns us that when our society or community is “empty,” without “water” – a symbol of Torah – then it is very swiftly filled with “snakes and scorpions,” with immorality, decadence and corruption. Life on the “shore,” away from Torah, might seem appealing, but in truth, leaving the water is the worst decision we could ever make.

The story of Rabbi Akiva and his colleagues ends with them turning to him and saying, “Akiva, nihamtanu – Akiva, you have comforted us.” Let us, too, take comfort in Rabbi Akiva’s inspiring example, which shows that the door to the kodesh hakodashim remains open for us at all times, no matter how far we have strayed. We must not be discouraged by the sight of so many of our beloved fellow Jews being led out of the “water” by the “fox.” Rather than feel helpless and weep, let us follow Rabbi Akiva’s lead and feel confident about the future. Amid all the upsetting problems and daunting spiritual challenges that we face, we must also see what Rabbi Akiva saw – living examples of Jews who, despite it all, defied the “fox” and proceeded to the kodesh hakodashim. Wherever we look in our community, we see so many such examples, people who have overcome enormous challenges and withstood immense pressures to devote themselves to Torah. These individuals not only set an inspiring example for us to follow, but also give us hope, allowing us to feel comforted knowing that we will all, please Gd, make our way back to the “kodesh hakodashim” and be worthy of the rebuilding of the Bet Hamikdash, speedily and in our time, amen.

Hungry Mom’s Food Diary by Susan Zayat – Pastrami Stuffed Burgers

There is nothing like a nice BBQ after a long summer day. BBQ is one of my favorite dinners ever! And a BBQ leaves you with such warm memories. Here are some ideas to take your BBQ dinner to a whole new level.

Now, you can stuff your burgers with whatever you’d like. A few Ideas are: sautéed onions, jalapeños, and sautéed mushrooms. I usually make my own burgers, but you can use store-bought and then reshape them yourself.

For the Burgers:

  • 1 lb. chop meat
  • 1/2 grated onion
  • 1.5 tbsp. Worcestershire sauce
  • 1 tbsp. teriyaki sauce
  • 2 tsp. parsley flakes
  • A sprinkle of allspice
  • Salt

1. Add all ingredients together in a bowl or foil pan and mix well.

2. Form patties to the size you’d like your burgers – but make sure half of them are a little thicker (you can probably make 4 patties from this amount of meat, which will be enough for 2 burgers).

3. Make a well (small indentation) in half of the patties (the thicker ones).

4. Sauté half an onion with approximately 4 slices of deli pastrami. Once sautéed, place the mixture into the well that you made in the patties.

5. Place a thinner patty on top and pinch together all around to close. Try to smooth out the outside to form a nice looking patty.

6. Grill based on how well-done you like your burgers.

Grilled Corn with Garlic Herb Oil

Boil fresh corn on the cob (that has been husked and cleaned of all silk) for around 10 minutes. Remove corn from the water, wrap individually in foil, and grill the ears for 10 minutes, flipping occasionally.

For the Garlic Herb Oil:

1. Heat up 1/3 cup oil.

2. Add in 2 cloves of crushed garlic and 1/2 tsp. crushed red pepper flakes.

3. Once the mixture becomes fragrant remove from heat and add in 2 sliced scallions, 1/4 cup chopped parsley, lemon zest, and lemon juice.

4. Brush the oil mixture over the grilled corn when ready to eat.

Baked Beans

This recipe is really simple but takes hot dogs, hamburgers, and smoked brisket to the next level. Trust me!

1. Sauté a chopped onion in a little oil.

2. Add in a can of vegetarian baked beans (Heinz are my favorite).

3. Add in 2 tbsp. ketchup and 2 tbsp. BBQ sauce. Give it a good mix and let it cook on the stove for around 10 minutes to get the flavors incorporated.

4. Make sure to mix every few minutes to prevent burning.

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From the Files of the Mitzvah Man – Always with Total Compassion

Pnina Souid

People approach the Mitzvah Man organization every day looking for help. Recently, a Mitzvah Man volunteer, we’ll call Rabbanit C., was helping an elderly woman named Rina who was living in a shelter. Due to the horrible conditions at the shelter, Rabbanit C. and others concerned for Rina were working on finding her an apartment and providing the basics needed for her to move in.

Rabbanit C. said that they finally found a suitable place for Rina, but it was a bare apartment. All Rina was asking for was a second-hand bed to sleep in. Just having an apartment of her own with a place to lay her head would be a huge improvement over living at the shelter.

Mitzvah Man asked Rabbanit C., “Certainly Rina needs more than this. She has an entire apartment to furnish!”

Rabbanit C. replied, “Rina will be happy with the bed. She is a very humble woman and is embarrassed to ask for any help at all.”

“I will send out a text message to my volunteers and will let you know the results,” answered the Mitzvah Man.

The Mitzvah Man followed through right away, sending a text to all his volunteers explaining the situation and requesting a used bed.

Almost immediately responses from the Mitzvah Man volunteers started coming in. One volunteer replied that he is ordering Rina a new bed right now. The next volunteer said that he spoke with Rina personally, and confirmed that her apartment is completely empty. “I am ordering her a chair, table, and a desk to ship today, and I told her that if she needs anything else to please call me,” he told the Mitzvah Man. The third volunteer said that since Rina just came out of a shelter, she must need some food to start her off. He offered to donate $500 worth of food. A fourth volunteer very thoughtfully added his contribution, “I am sending new sheets, pillows, blankets, and other bedding to keep her comfortable.”

Soon afterwards another volunteer texted, “I own a lighting fixture store. I’m sending over all her lighting needs plus some furniture.”

Within 48 hours everything was delivered, including food to fill her refrigerator and freezer. Rina was thrilled. She did not have enough words to express her thanks for all of the amazing hesed she had received. It was hard for her to believe that she was living in a new place, which allowed her to live with dignity, and even with a plentiful amount of food. Rina felt like she was living in a palace!

Rina’s story is just one of many that typify the kindness and compassion, giving and caring that characterize the Mitzvah Man organization and the volunteers who give of themselves wholeheartedly.

If you would like to join their chain of hesed or if you know someone who is need of assistance, please call the Mitzvah Man organization at (866) 355-1825.

Follow the Mitzvah Man organization on Instagram @mitzvahman.

There Is Always Another Option

Rabbi David Ashear

When Queen Esther was apprehensive about approaching Achashverosh without being invited, Mordechai told her that if she did not go, “relief and salvation shall come to the Jews from another place” (Esther 4:14). The Maharal explains the term “from another place” as a reference to Hashem. Mordechai was saying that Hashem has countless ways to bring salvation. “If you want to be the vehicle,” he told Esther, “then it will come through you. But if not, Hashem will bring it another way.”

We must keep Mordechai’s words in mind whenever we confront challenges in life. At times people say, “If I don’t get that job, then I’m finished; there are no other options”; or, “If we don’t get this order, this business can’t continue.” We are never bound to any one option. If one option does not work out, then Hashem will help in some other way. This is true when it comes to dating, as well. A person might say, “If I am not able to marry this person, then I’ll never be happy.” This is not true. Hashem can find someone else capable of making the person just as happy. It often happens that when the solution is found, we look back and say, “I can’t believe it. There were so many options and opportunities!”

We firmly believe that a person’s livelihood for the year is determined on Rosh Hashanah. Hashem has countless ways of bringing us the parnassah He decreed. If option A does not work, He can do it through option B. If that does not succeed, then there’s option C, and so on. We should never feel that we are dependent on any one source of income or means of earning a livelihood. Hashem will always get to us exactly what we are supposed to receive.

A few years ago, a certain organization was experiencing financial difficulties and needed to cut their employees’ salaries. A Rabbi who worked for the organization was earning exactly what he needed to pay his family’s bills, and now his salary was slashed by $7,000 a year. His job did not

allow any time to take on additional work to make up for the shortfall. He turned to Hashem and said, “I know my parnassah comes from You. You have many ways of sending it. Please show me the way I can make this money which I need.”

A week or two later, he received a bill in the mail from his homeowner’s insurance company. This had never happened before; the bill was always sent straight to the mortgage company. He phoned the insurance company, and the representative apologized for the error. When the Rabbi reviewed the bill, he noticed that the price seemed a bit steep. He was paying $7,000 a year for a less-than-stellar policy. After several brief phone calls, he found a different policy that offered better coverage for just $3,000. After signing up with the new plan, he received a $4,000 refund from the mortgage company for the difference. A couple of weeks later, he received a phone call from a synagogue asking if he could help lead their minyanim on Rosh Hashanah, offering $3,000 compensation. Just like that, Hashem made up the $7,000 difference.

There are many ways in which we can be helped. We should never feel limited. We have Hashem helping us, and He can help us in ways we could never imagine.

Adapted from “Living Emunah,” by Rabbi David Ashear, with permission of the copyright holders, ArtScroll / Mesorah Publications, Ltd.

Mashiah Revealed: Part X – The Messianic Era

Rabbi Eliyahu Haim Aboud

The world will undergo drastic changes following the wars of Gog Umagog and Mashiah’s arrival. In this month’s column we will attempt to paint the fascinating picture of how the world will appear and develop during the Messianic Era, based on the elaborate descriptions presented by the Prophets.

An Everlasting Redemption

Our sages tell us that our final redemption from exile in the end of days will involve more than a military triumph over the enemy nations and renewed sovereignty over our homeland, the land of Israel. This alone would not guarantee an everlasting redemption. After all, the Maccabees defeated the Greek oppressors and regained control over the land, but, as we know, their victory was relatively short-lived. During the final redemption, by contrast, Hashem will reveal to the entire world His sovereignty, glory and love for the Yehudim. The miracles He will perform and the harsh retribution He will deliver upon the wicked people of the world will bring about a fundamental and permanent change in perspective on the part of the gentile peoples. The Yehudim’s stature as Gd’s Chosen Nation will finally be recognized universally and persecution of the Yehudim will end as they are accorded the honor befitting the Almighty’s beloved people.

The prophets further describe the end of all foreign beliefs and religions after Mashiah’s arrival. The remaining gentile nations will accept upon themselves Hashem’s kingship and unite in the service of the one and only Gd. They will even make frequent pilgrimages to the Bet Hamikdash, where they will learn how to properly serve the Creator. However, they will not be considered Yehudim themselves. Moreover, the truth of Hashem’s sovereignty will be so clearly visible, that people of the world will cherish the honor of serving members of Gd’s Chosen Nation. Indeed, the Talmud teaches that one who ensures to fulfill the missva of sissit properly will be rewarded with 2,800 willing avadim (!) in the Messianic era1.

A Peaceful World

The Prophets also foretell that peace and tranquility will prevail throughout the world with the onset of the Messianic era. The world will no longer be torn by war and conflict, and nations will no longer need to obtain weaponry or train armies. The entire world will unite in perfect harmony, bound together by their shared desire to fulfill the Divine will.

The Perfect World

Our sages teach that in the beginning of creation, until Adam and Hava committed the sin of eating from the forbidden tree, the world was a far more perfect place than it is now. Firstly, Man was originally created to live in the idyllic conditions of the magnificent Garden of Eden, and was destined to live forever. At that time, the human being’s sole desire was goodness, and had no inclination to do evil. Animals, too, ate only plants and vegetation, and felt no instinct to prey on each other. It was intended that all mankind would maintain the highest possible level of prophecy, capable of conversing with Hashem freely, without restriction. Women gave birth on the same day they conceived, and did not have to endure the discomfort of pregnancy and labor. (In fact, Hava gave birth to Kayin and Hevel on the day she was created.) Similarly, trees and plants bore their fruits the day they were planted.

This all changed, of course, after Adam and Hava sinned. However, our sages tell us that in the Messianic Era, the world will return to its originally intended state of perfection. Man will no longer be inclined to do evil, and will instead be driven only toward righteousness and devotion to Hashem. Death will be eliminated from the earth, and the Yehudim will be elevated to such a high spiritual level that everyone – men, women and children – will receive prophecies from Hashem. (Different views exist as to whether death will be completely eliminated, or only among the righteous.)

According to many opinions, the animal kingdom will also return to its primordial state, at least in the land of Israel, and animals will no longer prey on one another. (Others maintain that the state of animals will not change in the Messianic Era.) Women will bear children on the day they conceive, and trees and plants will bear their fruits the day they are planted. All Yehudim will have all their needs cared for, and they will lack nothing. They will all immerse themselves exclusively in Torah study and the fulfillment of all the missvot. The world will thus return to its primordial state of perfection, and Hashem’s original intended purpose in the world’s creation will finally be realized.

The Land of Israel after Mashiah

Our sages describe the unparalleled splendor and glory that the land of Israel and its capital city, Jerusalem, will achieve after the coming of Mashiah. No foreign houses of worship will remain, and the entire land will be purified. The city of Jerusalem will be magnificently rebuilt, with huge diamonds and precious stones scattered throughout the city and freely available to all. According to one Midrash, the city will be surrounded with three massive walls of silver, gold, and precious stones with an additional wall of fire surrounding them. Mashiah, who will be a powerful king from the royal house of David, will reside in Jerusalem and rule over the entire world, making Jerusalem the capital and center of the earth. The land of Israel will encompass an area more than double the size of the present State of Israel; and according to the Midrash, it will actually expand immeasurably.

Rebuilding the Bet Hamikdash

The arrival of Mashiah will also bring the long-awaited reconstruction of the Bet Hamikdash, which was destroyed nearly two millennia ago. The Temple will be restored to its previous state of glory, and the sacrificial offerings will be reinstated. The Yehudim will once again come to the Mikdash together as a nation three times each year on the pilgrimage festivals (Pesah, Shavuot, and Sukkot).

The rabbinic scholars debate the question of who will build the third Temple. Some say that Gd Himself will build the structure, which will descend readymade from the heavens in a pillar of fire. Others, however, contend that Mashiah will rebuild the Temple. There are some who claim that both views are correct: Mashiah will first rebuild the Temple, but then a spiritual Temple will descend from heaven and enter the Temple constructed by Mashiah, just as a soul enters a physical body.

Free Choice and Reward

The purpose of man’s creation, in its most simplistic description, is to resist the temptation to sin and act righteously, whereby he will be deserving of eternal reward in the world to come. This gives rise to the obvious question as to the purpose of man’s existence in the Messianic Era, when there will be no inclination toward evil. What will be the purpose of man during this period of time?

This question led the Ramban (Rabbi Moshe Nachmanides, Spain, 1194-1270) to claim that there will indeed be no reward given for serving Hashem during the Messianic Era, when people will not have free choice to do evil. (Remarkably, the Ramban calls the time of Mashiah “the unwanted days,” because they will not offer the possibility of earning eternal reward!) Others, however, disagree, and explain that even in the times of Mashiah, people will endure spiritual challenges, though not to the same extent as they do now. Although people will not experience an internal drive to do evil, there will be some sort of external force luring them to sin. Just as the snake lured Adam to violate Hashem’s command, similarly, in the Messianic era we will be exposed to external sinful pressures. We will earn eternal reward in the next world by resisting these pressures and remaining faithful to the Almighty.

The Messianic Era and Olam Haba

Many different opinions exist as to the duration of the Messianic Era. Some scholars say that this period will last for only 400 years, while others claim that it will endure for 2,000 years. After this period, the world will reach the stage called Olam Haba – the world to come, when all of existence will be transformed into an entirely new entity – which we will discuss at length in next month’s installment.

Next Issue: Tehiyat Hametim and Olam Haba

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1 Masechet Shabbat 32

The Lighter Side – June 2021

Pie in the Sky

Rabbi and Rebbetzin Jacobson invited their new neighbors, the Applebaums, for Shabbat dinner. Not wanting to go empty handed Mrs. Applebaum baked an apple pie and brought it over. Rebbetzin Jacobson appreciated the gesture and happily served it at the Shabbos table. But when dessert came and she took a bite, it was clear from the first moment that the pie was terrible. She looked over at her husband the rabbi and he, too, could hardly conceal his disgust. As soon as the Applebaum’s left, the Jacobsons threw the pie out immediately.

Now Rebbetzin Jacobson had a tradition of writing thank you notes to anyone who brought over a gift. As the same time, she was a very honest person and couldn’t say anything that was untrue. So, she sent a note to Mrs. Applebaum which read: “Thank you very much for the apple pie. Something like that doesn’t last very long in our house!”

Pnina K.

The Importance of Charity

Mr. Cohen gives $1 every week to a particular beggar in his town. One week he sees the beggar and gives him only 25 cents. The beggar is indignant and complains, “Why did you give me only 25 cents?”

Mr. Cohen replies: “My business was bad last week.”

The beggar responds: “So you had a bad week and I have to suffer?”

Gladys A.

Doctor, Doctor

A mechanic was removing a cylinder-head from the motor of a Harley motorcycle when he spotted his cardiologist, Dr. Simon Goldstein, in his shop. Dr. Goldstein was there waiting for the service manager to come take a look at his bike when the mechanic shouted across the garage “Hey Doc, want to take a look at this?”

Goldstein, a bit surprised, walked over to where the mechanic was working on the motorcycle. The mechanic straightened up, wiped his hands on a rag and asked, “So Doc, look at this engine. I open its heart, take the valves out, repair any damage, and then put them back in, and when I finish, it works just like new.

“So how come I make such a small salary – and you get the really big bucks? You and I are doing basically the same work!”

Dr. Goldstein paused, smiled, and leaned over, then whispered to the mechanic, “’Try doing it with the engine running.”

Leba

A Success Story

A young man asked Morris, an old wealthy man, how he made his money.

Morris took off his glasses and said, “Well, son, it was 1932 during the heart of the Great Depression. I was down to my last nickel.”

“So, I invested that nickel in an apple. I spent the entire day polishing the apple and, at the end of the day, I sold the apple for ten cents.”

“The next morning, I invested those ten cents in two apples. I spent the entire day polishing them and sold them at 5:00 pm for 20 cents. I continued this system for a month, by the end of which I’d accumulated the sum of $1.60…”

“Then my wife’s Uncle Bernie died and left us two million dollars.”

Harry L.

Strictly Business

Sammy and Isaac haven’t seen each other in a while. One day they happen to meet on the street. They exchange pleasantries when Isaac says to Sammy, “How come you didn’t ask me how business is?”

“I’m sorry,” replies Sammy. “So, how’s business?”

“Oy – don’t ask.”

Elliot H.

Big Name

A visitor to Israel attended a concert at the Moscovitz Auditorium and he was quite impressed with the architecture and acoustics.

He inquired of the tour guide, “Is this magnificent auditorium named after Chaim Moscovitz, the famous Talmudic scholar?”

“No,” replied the guide. “It is named after Sam Moscovitz, the writer.”

“Never heard of him. What did he write?”

“A check,” replied the guide.

Nathan H.

Career Advice

Sol Greenwood is retiring from the garment business and leaving it to his son Stuart.

“It’s all yours now son,” Sol says. “I’ve made a good living. You know why? Because of two principles that I’ve always lived by: honestly and wisdom. Honesty is very important. If you promise the goods by the first of April, no matter what happens in the shop you’ve got to deliver them by the first of April.”

“Sure Pop,” Stuart says. “And what about wisdom?”

“Stuey, the wisest thing you can do: don’t make any promises.”

Lawrence G.

Strange Smarts

Yankele the shoemaker thinks that he is the wisest person in the town, when in actuality, he is the most foolish. In fact, the town folk tell him on a daily basis that he is a fool. One day Yankele hears the rabbi quote from the Bible that the Almighty protects the foolish. Yankele decides that this is his opportunity. “I’ll jump off the highest building in town. If the Almighty protects me then I am truly a fool, but I won’t get hurt, and if I get hurt then I’ll have proven to all that I am a wise man.” Off he goes, and he jumps off the roof of the town’s only three-story building. Of course, he falls badly and breaks many bones. While the town folk rush him to the hospital they hear him moaning, “I am not just a wise man. I am a genius!”

Marty T.

The Air up There

Aboard an El Al flight from America to Israel, Esther was taking her very first flight to visit her children and grandchildren who has just made aliyah (moved to the Holy Land). They had only been aloft a few minutes when the old lady complained to the stewardess that her ears were popping.

The girl smiled and gave the older woman some chewing gum, assuring her that many people experience the same discomfort.

When they landed in Tel Aviv, Esther thanked the stewardess. “Thank you very much for the chewing gum sweetie,” she said, “but tell me, how do I get it out of my ears?”

David M.

Get Rich Quick

A poor man managed to get an appointment with a wealthy Jewish philanthropist by insisting that he had a foolproof way for the man to make 5 million dollars.

“So let me hear your great idea,” said the philanthropist.

“It’s very simple,” replied the pauper. “I understand that when your daughter gets married, you’re planning on giving her a dowry of 10 million dollars.”

“Nu,” said the philanthropist.

“So, I’ve come to tell you that I’m willing marry her for half the amount!”

Jaqueline F.

A Pain in the Hand

Mrs. Cohen has been suffering from arthritis. On the advice of her daughter-in-law, she goes to see Dr. Rubinstein, a specialist.

After a long visit, Dr. Rubinstein prescribes some medication and sends Mrs. Cohen on her way.

After a few weeks, Dr. Rubinstein calls Mrs. Cohen saying, “Mrs. Cohen, your check came back.”

Mrs. Cohen answers, “So did my arthritis!”

Sara Schenirer Offers Affordable High-Level Education with a Twist

Edele Schwekey grew up in Long Branch, New Jersey and dreamed of becoming an ABA therapist. Although her older sister, Judy, found fulfillment as an accountant, Edele was looking for something different. She dreamed of working with children on the Autism spectrum and bringing in a generous salary to support her growing family.

Edele realized she would need to first earn both a bachelor’s degree and a master’s degree to fulfill her goal. She was not afraid of the hard work ahead of her or the time commitment. What scared her was the expense of such an education and the specter of spending decades paying back student loans.

Edele was interested in studying at Sara Schenirer Institute. However, like all frum degree programs, Sara Schenirer partnered only with New York colleges and this severely limited the amount of financial aid a New Jersey student could receive. Federal financial aid is available to students irrespective of location, but state-based financial aid is only awarded to in-state students attending in-state colleges. As a Long Branch resident, Edele was not eligible for full financial aid. This meant that she and others in her situation often had no choice but to pay far more than they could afford or to forgo earning a degree and the opportunity a degree would provide, allowing one to earn a stable parnassah.

New Arrangement Makes Financial Aid Accessible for All

The good news is that young ladies like Edele no longer face this problem. Just nine months ago, in July 2020, Sara Schenirer announced a new and exciting partnership with St. Peter’s University, a New Jersey institution of higher education, so that New Jersey students could receive the full amount of financial aid grants. This would ensure that every eligible student could receive her degree without paying any, or only very low, tuition costs. This is because the combination of federal and NJ financial aid often covers the full cost of a degree program. Sara Schenirer also arranged that even students who are not eligible for financial aid would be eligible for significant scholarships to offset the cost of earning a degree.

“Having observed New Jersey students struggle to afford a degree for so many years, we were determined to change that in a very significant way,” said Mrs. Batsheva Shonek, longtime Director of Sara Schenirer. “Our new partnership with SPU is a real game-changer. They worked with us to ensure that students receive full financial aid, or in the case of students who are not eligible, exceptionally large scholarships. This means that students will pay either nothing, or relatively small sums for what would otherwise be an expensive degree.”

Mrs. Shonek added that the senior leadership of Sara Schenirer from the president on down were all highly supportive of this effort. “They took a personal interest in our community and were committed to finding a solution to the problem. Every cost-saving measure that we could think of was embraced enthusiastically by the president, provost, and program deans.”

According to Mrs. Aidella Avtzon, the Academic Director, the college has been very receptive to her oversight, and equally flexible in their requirements. “I work closely with the deans of each program to recommend professors from within the religious community. Of course, they must meet the college’s hiring standards, but that’s not an obstacle. We have many outstanding professionals within our community and the college is enthusiastic about bringing them on board to teach the Sara Schenirer students.”

Bachelor’s in Education & Special Education

Although the partnership was only formalized in July, in Fall 2020 Sara Schenirer began their first program through SPU with a surprisingly large cohort of students. “We offered a BA in Education and a Special Education program that offers full NJ certification at the bachelor’s level,” explained Mrs. Chumie Meisels, New Jersey coordinator. “Whereas New York requires educators to have a bachelor’s and master’s degree, New Jersey does not. They require only a bachelor’s degree in education, and students receive full NJ certification at the undergraduate level. This eliminates the need for extra schooling and greatly reduces the cost since master’s degree students are not eligible for financial aid grants, only loans.”

Sophie*, a current student in the program, shared that her experience at Sara Schenirer has been thrilling. “The coursework is definitely challenging, but we’re learning so much and gaining real skills. I can see the difference these skills make in my classroom where I perform fieldwork. But the really exciting thing is that I will only need a bachelor’s degree to gain my certification. My friends who went elsewhere needed to earn a bachelor’s and a master’s degree.”

Education, Accounting, Psychology, & Business

Following their successful launch, Sara Schenirer is now opening the program to all post-high school students and adding multiple fields.

Students can choose from among four bachelor’s degree programs:

  • BA in Education & Special Education
  • BA in Psychology
  • BS in Accounting
  • BS in Business Management

Each program features the same expansive financial aid and scholarship options, and all can be completed in just three semesters, with the exception of education and special education, which take a bit longer.

Each of these undergraduate degrees are great options. Students interested in pursuing a career in accounting have been thrilled with the BS in Accounting program. Students planning to enter the world of business would find the BS in Business Management a great choice.

The real prize, however, is the BA in Psychology, which takes only one year to complete and is a steppingstone to a vast array of graduate degree programs. Thousands of Sara Schenirer students with BA degrees have successfully applied to graduate programs in ABA, Special Education, Social Work, Mental Health Counseling, Law, Art Therapy, Music Therapy, and so much more. It is the one undergraduate degree that can truly lead to all fields.

Convenient Classes

One of the most popular features of all Sara Schenirer programs is the timing for classes, all of which take place outside of working hours. In the bachelor’s programs, classes are held at their Lakewood location in-class on Sunday from 9:30-2:00, and live-online two weeknights each week. This allows students to hold either full or part-time employment while earning their degree.

“I worked as a teacher in the morning and as a secretary in the afternoon and I attended school on Sunday mornings and weeknights,” Victoria Gross, a Sara Schenirer grad explained. “It was an ideal schedule because I gained teaching and work experience while earning my degree, but I also came into my wedding with a nice amount in the bank. Some of my friends who attended regular colleges and had daytime classes did not have this benefit.”

Student Support

According to Mrs. Shonek, Sara Schenirer’s philosophy is simple. They recognize that most of their students come from very frum homes, and the world of college and degrees is foreign to them. They work to simplify it all and make the process as smooth and manageable as possible.

“You can’t work here if you don’t like helping people,” she says with a laugh. “It’s what we do all day every day. Our slogan is, ‘Once a Sara Schenirer student, always a Sara Schenirer student,’ and we live by that credo. Every day we’re helping former students with all sorts of issues and they marvel at how we make time for them despite the fact that they graduated years ago.”

Next Steps

Students who wish to find out more or apply should act quickly if they seek to join in the Fall. Applying to the program takes time, and documents such as transcripts need to be collected and submitted.

Girls who have completed 12th grade or have just returned from seminary should reach out immediately and request more information or set up a time to speak to an advisor. The advisors are experts at helping a young woman to identify her strengths and to choose potential career paths that suit her personality. Advisors are available by phone, email, and even a personal meeting.

Mrs. Shonek encourages all who are interested to join the virtual Open House. “Our Open House is on Zoom and hundreds of people join because we present the information in a clear and understandable way. We stay on until every last question is answered and participants feel equipped to take the next steps. We have parents and students joining and plenty of advisors on hand to give everyone the attention they require.”

An extra plus of the virtual Open House is the $75 coupon that all attendees receive. This coupon can be redeemed when a student applies and reduces the application fees by 50%.

The Virtual Open House will be held on June 21st at 7:30 PM. Pre-registration is required. You can register by emailing openhouse@sarasch.com, calling (718) 633-8557 ext. 32, or visiting www.sarasch.com.

* Name has been changed to preserve privacy.

The Case – Two’s Company?

Jennifer parked her car in the private two car driveway of her home. She had parked her car in a casual manner, leaving little room in her driveway for another car to park. Mike needed to deliver and assemble a large package to Jennifer’s next-door neighbor and was circling the block for fifteen minutes in search of a parking spot. Frustrated, Mike decided to squeeze his car into Jennifer’s two car driveway alongside Jennifer’s car. Shortly thereafter, Jennifer (who was not an experienced driver) pulled out of her driveway denting Mike’s car. Jennifer’s car was also damaged by the accident. Mike made a timely arrival to the scene of the accident and took multiple pictures of the two cars. Mike presented the pictures to our Bet Din and claimed that if Jennifer had been more careful the accident could have been avoided. He claimed that with just enough room between the cars for Jennifer to pull out, she is responsible for the damage inflicted to his car. Jennifer countered that Mike was illegally parked in her driveway, and as a result not only is she not responsible for the dent in his car, but she is also suing him for the damage to her car.

Is Jennifer responsible for her actions? Is Mike liable for parking illegally? How should the Bet Din rule and why?

Torah Law

According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch a person is liable for damages he inflicts on another’s property. Liability is imposed on an offender regardless of whether his actions were accidental or unintentional. Interestingly, very often liability is imposed on one that inflicts damage even if the event was due to circumstances beyond his control.

The above ruling is not applicable to instances in which one illegally enters another’s property and subsequently suffers damages inflicted by the homeowner. Since the victim illegally entered the domain, the homeowner has limited liability for his actions.

Hence, according to some halachic authorities, if the homeowner was unaware of the presence of the trespasser, he is not liable for damage he caused. If, however, the homeowner took notice of the trespasser he is responsible for all subsequent unintentional damage.

Other halachic authorities differ and rule that even if a homeowner was aware of the illegal entry, nevertheless, he is not liable for unintentional damage. Since the victim illegally entered the property, the homeowner is only liable if he deliberately inflicted unnecessary damage to the trespasser. This latter opinion is recorded by the Shulhan Aruch and is clearly applicable to litigants of Sephardic origin.

While by rule of the Shulhan Aruch a homeowner is not liable for damages he accidentally inflicted to a trespasser, he nevertheless cannot collect on the damages he sustained on account of the accident. Although the trespasser illegally entered the property, he by no means actively damaged the homeowner.

Thus, in short, the homeowner who played the active role in the accident is absolved from the unintentional damage he caused but may not collect for the damage he sustained.

It is important to note the above ruling is applicable to a victim that illegally enters private property. In instances in which a victim illegally enters or parks in a public area, a competent halachic authority must be consulted, as the law varies. Hence, in the event an accident transpired with a double-parked car or via an illegal turn or the like, a competent halachic authority must be consulted.

VERDICT: Two Is a Crowd

Our Bet Din ruled in favor of Jennifer and absolved her of the damage she unintentionally inflicted to Mike’s car. Nevertheless, our Bet Din rejected her claim for the damage her car sustained on account of the accident.

As mentioned in Torah law, by rule of the Shulhan Aruch even though Jennifer saw Mike’s car in her driveway and was aware of the inconvenience to exit, she is not liable for damages since her actions were not malicious or deliberate. Mike illegally entered her property and thus he must bear the cost of damage to his car. Although other halachic authorities differ and impose liability on Jennifer, since she clearly saw Mike’s car in her driveway. Nevertheless, she is absolved from payment as per the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch.

The underlying reasoning for rejecting her claim for her car’s damage, is that Mike did not take an active role in damaging her car. Although he trespassed onto her property, he did not inflict damage to the car and is not liable for the damage she sustained.

It is important to note, that the above ruling is applicable to a victim that illegally enters private property. In the event an accident happened with a car illegally parked in a public domain, the law varies considerably.

YOU BE THE JUDGE

As this article is prepared for publication, Israel is under fire with a barrage of missiles launched from the Gaza Strip. The following case took place just minutes after the first rockets were shot towards Central Israel. It portrays not only the obvious danger of the missiles, but also the interruption of daily life and the financial challenges involved. Due to the nature of the incident the case did not appear before our Bet Din, as the parties preferred to settle the matter via telephone at the scene of the dispute.

Under Fire

Abie and Joey hired a driver, to be paid per hour, to tour around Israel. Touring from Northern Israel towards the south they stopped at many of the regular tourist attractions. Upon their arrival in Tel Aviv, they were shocked when blaring sirens went off and their driver immediately forced them to evacuate the car and head for the closest bomb shelter in a nearby building. They spent nearly six hours in the shelter before they were able to resume their travels. The lengthy delay was due to a missile that landed only a few yards from their shelter. Upon arrival at their destination the driver requested payment for the six hours they were delayed in the bomb shelter. Abie and Joey were appalled that the driver had the audacity to request payment for an emergency stop that was beyond their control. The driver insisted that he was hired per hour and is entitled to his pay.

Is the driver entitled to payment for the time spent in the bomb shelter? How should the Bet Din rule and why?