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MDY Warriors Crowned Champions for 2nd Year in a Row!

Congratulations to the Satran Tournament Champion Magen David Warriors on capturing this tournament for the second year in a row! Kudos to Coach Ike Dweck and his assistants, Benny Mann, Leo Esses, and Morris Zarif on a job well done.

The MDY Warriors faced the HAFTR Hawks in the finals of the Satran Tournament. The game got off to an extremely slow pace as the Warriors led 9-8 at the end of the first quarter. The Warriors extended the lead in the second quarter and led 24-18 at the half.

Both teams picked up the pace in the second half and the Hawks tied the game during the third quarter. The third quarter ended with the Warriors holding on to a slim 35-33 lead.

The Warriors were led early on in the final quarter by Albert Nsiri. However, Nsiri fouled out with four minutes remaining, with the Warriors holding on to their two point lead. The Warriors hit clutch foul shots down the stretch to seal the victory. The final score was 51-45.

The Warriors were led by Edmond Antebi who had 15 points and 3 rebounds and the Tournament MVP Joe Sultan, who had 13 points and 8 rebounds.

The Warriors are three-time repeating Magen David Pre-Season Tournament Champions, back-to-back Cooper Invitational Champions, and now back-to-back Satran Tournament Champions!

Brooklyn Home Prices Jumped the Highest Over the Last Decade

The New York City neighborhood with the largest price increase over the last decade is Cobble Hill, Brooklyn, according to the Property Club, an online real estate portal.

While there are other neighborhoods in the city with more expensive homes, Cobble Hill is a virtual hotbed of real estate activity. Home prices have more than doubled (117 percent) in the area over the past 10 years, appreciating percentage-wise more than swanky neighborhoods like Tribeca and the Upper East Side of Manhattan.

Cobble Hill homes with eye-popping price tags are hitting the listings, like one being advertised by musician Norah Jones for $8 million or a penthouse at River Park for $4.9 million.

Not only has Cobble Hill experienced the largest price increase, but it is notable that Brooklyn includes 19 out of the top 30 neighborhoods in the city with the highest rate of appreciation

Brooklyn Lawmakers Seek to Create Hate Crime Exemption in Bail Reform Law

Following a recent spike in anti-Semitic incidents across the city, a pair of Brooklyn lawmakers have moved to amend the state’s newly enacted bail reforms by making hate crimes bail-eligible.

The bills – introduced last month in the State Senate and the Assembly by Sen. Andrew Gounardes and Assemblymember Simcha Eichenstein – would amend the current law to allow a judge to set bail for someone who has been accused of committing a hate crime. This would serve as an amendment to the state’s brand new bail laws, which went into effect on Jan. 1, 2020. The reforms eliminated cash bail and pretrial detention for those accused of committing a range of misdemeanors and non-violent felonies, including if they were bias motivated.

“This is something that I think should have been included in the original bail negotiations last year but wasn’t,” Gounardes said. “And, as we’ve seen over the last couple of weeks and in the data over the last year, incidents of hate crime – not just to the Jewish community but within others as well – have risen. I think that this highlights the need to have some ability to evaluate these cases on a one-by-one basis, especially because hate crimes, which are meant to terrorize an entire group of people, can have a greater impact on public safety.”

Eichenstein, whose district encompasses parts of Midwood and Borough Park, a pair of Brooklyn neighborhoods with large Jewish communities, contended that those who commit hate crimes “constitute a category of their own.”

“Their crimes are fueled by an inner hateful passion that is often irrational, uncompromising, and unstoppable,” he said. “For the sake of the victims and for all New Yorkers, let’s safeguard all our communities by including hate crimes in the list of offenses of which a judge has the discretion setting bail.”

Assemblyman Simcha Eichenstein Hosts Grant Funding Workshop For Summer Camps

The Securing Communities Against Hate Crimes grant program was founded as an innovative measure by Governor Andrew Cuomo in 2017. In 2019, Assemblyman Simcha Eichenstein’s first year in office, he spearheaded a campaign to expand the program to include summer camps as eligible recipients. As a result, summer camps may now be eligible to receive as much as $250,000 in grant funding for security upgrades such as surveillance cameras, perimeter lighting, alarm systems, fencing and barriers, security doors, and other safety measures.

Last month, Assemblyman Eichenstein hosted a workshop for summer camps where experts provided guidance on how to apply for the New York State Securing Communities Against Hate Crimes grant program and acquire the necessary funding to ensure a safer and more secure school and camp environment. Nearly 150 representatives of summer camps and yeshivas attended this informative workshop. They greatly appreciated Assemblyman Eichenstein’s bringing together a panel of experts to assist and inform them in our collective pursuit of making our institutions safer.

The workshop program included an abundance of useful and constructive information. Participants included Michael Snow, Director of Jewish Affairs for Governor Andrew Cuomo and Shelley Wharlich, Director of the Grants Program for the NYS Division of Homeland Security. A representative from Grants Gateway discussed the grant prequalification process, and Daren C. Scott, Director of Administration at the Hebrew Free Loan Society offered information on how to obtain a no-interest bridge loan to upgrade security without delay.

“There is nothing more gratifying than seeing the fruits of our labor,” said Assemblyman Simcha Eichenstein. “Today, we are being proactive and setting the process in motion so that this funding will be utilized quickly, efficiently, and effectively. The overwhelming response to this workshop indicates that our institutions take safety and security seriously, especially in light of recent events. I will do everything I can to help these institutions protect our children.”

Agudath Israel Applauds Efforts to Increase Funding for Nonpublic School Security

Children’s safety is a top priority for any community. In a time when anti-Semitism is on the rise, and after the horrific Jersey City shooting and Monsey knife attack, especially, it has become an even higher priority for Agudath Israel. That is why the Agudath Israel applauds the efforts of Assemblymembers Daniel Rosenthal (D- Kew Gardens Hills) and Stacey Pheffer Amato (D- Far Rockaway), who have called upon the New York State Legislature to increase security funding for nonpublic schools in the upcoming budget.

The current budget allocation for nonpublic school security is $15 million annually. Rosenthal and Pheffer Amato proposed that New York double its allocation to $30 million, to protect children against the dangers caused by rising anti-Semitism.

“I hear daily from individuals, schools, and houses of worship about their security concerns in the wake of these attacks,” said Assemblymember Rosenthal. “Anti-Semitism has no place in New York; this funding affirms our commitment to protecting our children.”

In a similar vein, Assemblywoman Stacey Pheffer Amato said, “I am hopeful that this funding will be granted so that a measure of peace can be felt by those who may be targeted, and so that we join together to demonstrate our stand against hate.”

Agudath Israel has long been involved with efforts to increase security funding for our children, having called, successfully, for the expansion of the NPSE grant to cover a wider range of security needs, and for the original grant allocation of $5 million to be tripled. But this has become an even greater concern now, said Rabbi Yeruchim Silber, Director of New York Government Relations for Agudath Israel. “With the dramatic spike in anti-Semitic incidents, security is foremost on our minds these days. We thank Assemblymembers Rosenthal and Pheffer Amato for taking the lead on this critical issue and we call on their colleagues to join them.”

Kids Cooking with Chef Shiri – Nutty Ice Cream Tacos

Kids – See if you have what it takes to become a Junior Chef!

Adult Supervision Required.

Utensils Needed:

9×5-inch loaf pan

Pot holders

Measuring cups and spoons

Foil

Spoon

Small microwavable dish

Ingredients:

8 mini taco shells

⅓ cup milk chocolate chips

1-pint vanilla ice cream (or flavor of your choice)

3 tablespoons chopped nuts

Chocolate syrup

Let’s Get Started!

  1. Heat oven to 350 degrees Fahrenheit.
  2. Stand the taco shells up in the loaf pan.
  3. Heat the taco shells for 5 minutes, or until they are crisp and look light golden brown. Using the potholders, carefully take the loaf pan out of the oven. Let the taco shells to cool in the pan for 10 minutes.
  4. Leave the taco shells in the pan. Use the spoon to put 1 teaspoon of chocolate chips into each taco shell. Set aside the remaining chocolate chips — we will use them in Step 6.
  5. Place a ¼ cup of ice cream into each taco shell on top of the chocolate chips. Put the pan of tacos into the freezer for 15 minutes.
  6. While the tacos are in the freezer, put the remaining chocolate chips into the microwave-safe dish. Microwave the chips on High for 1 to 2 minutes, until the chocolate is smooth when you stir it with the spoon.
  7. Take the tacos out of the freezer. Use the spoon to drizzle the melted chocolate over the top of each taco. Then sprinkle the chopped nuts over the chocolate. Freeze the tacos again for at least 10 minutes so the chocolate gets hard.
  8. Top with chocolate syrup and serve.

Makes 8 Tacos!

Did You Know?

A single chocolate chip can give you enough energy to walk 150 feet!

The Peanut Wizard
In the early 1900s, Dr. George Washington Carver, known as the “father of the modern peanut industry,” discovered more than 300 uses for the peanut plant.

NUTTY ICE CREAM TACOS

Chef Shiri Says… 

One of the many special things about the peanut is its long shelf life. This means that peanuts can stay fresh on your shelf for months, and even longer when kept in the refrigerator.

Kids Cooking with Chef Shiri is presented by The Jewish World of Wonders

Prayer Pointers From

Buzz the Brachos Bee  

The words “‘Melech haolam” mean, “King of the world.” When you say these words in a berachah, you are saying that you know that Hashem created the food you are about to eat, and He also is in charge of where it goes and how it gets there. That means that Hashem knows who is going to eat every piece of food.

The Case – How Embarrassing!!

Audrey sent her daughter to a local elementary school. Unhappy with her daughter’s progress throughout the school year, she wrote a brief text to many members of the board of directors of the school complaining that her daughter’s sudden regression is the result of her daughter’s terribly under-qualified teacher. After detailing the teacher’s shortcomings, she added a genuine request not to disclose her complaint or identity to the teacher. Audrey’s wrote that her reasoning for the confidentiality was because the teacher was clearly an unstable individual who is likely to avenge the complaint in a fierce and uncontrolled manner.  Shortly thereafter, one of the board members, a friend of the teacher, showed the teacher Audrey’s nasty text message. The teacher was appalled by the audacity of the text and was mortified that her employer and other staff members might actually believe it. The teacher turned to our Bet Din and complained that the text was only written because Audrey’s son was going through a bitter divorce with her niece. The text message was not only false, it was deeply embarrassing. The teacher explained that she is in so much distress that she can barely show her face in school. Although she believes that because of her good reputation as a teacher the text will not cause her to lose her job, nevertheless, she is seeking financial compensation for the anguish of embarrassment and defamation of character. The teacher added that only via payment authorized by a Bet Din can her name and status be rightfully restored. Audrey defended that her complaint is truthful and unrelated to her son’s divorce, and thus, she is unwilling to compensate the teacher.

How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Audrey or the teacher, and why?

Torah Law

According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, by letter of the law one who humiliates another with words alone is not liable to provide monetary compensation to the victim. Nevertheless, a Bet Din will consider the mental anguish suffered by the victim and impose a mitigated payment on the offender. Early halachic authorities emphasize that verbally humiliating another with slander or the like is a severe crime and can result in penalty measures against the offender beyond mere monetary compensation. People of a community are to value the status of their membership by maintaining respect and good will for one another.

Leading halachic authorities debate whether mitigated payment is required in instances in which one knowingly caused humiliation to another with a constructive intent. A primary example of this is one who breaks an engagement to be married. Some authorities view the breaking of an engagement as a form of embarrassment that requires monetary compensation. Although the decision not to marry is clearly constructive, meaning it is not done in order to hurt the other party, nevertheless, one is consciously humiliating the other when cancelling an engagement. Many halachic authorities differ with this ruling, and exempt payment for this type of humiliation. According to this view, an offender is liable to provide compensation only when he deliberately embarrasses a victim. If, however, the intent is not to humiliate, but rather is of a constructive nature, no liability is incurred.

Generally, Sephardic congregations world-wide do not impose payment for the humiliation caused by a broken engagement. However, this practice of not requiring payment is strictly regarding the humiliation and mental anguish sustained. Other costs or financial losses are subject to adjudication, and payment may be required.

Interestingly, one halachic authority rules that if an offender sinfully exposed factual information that led to the humiliation of another, no monetary liability is incurred. However, even according to this opinion, the offender is required to provide evidence that his humiliating statement is indeed true. In the absence of clear evidence, he is responsible for damages. Some qualify this exemption, applying it only in instances in which it was productive to expose the derogatory information. However, most halachic authorities impose liability for publicizing derogatory, humiliating information about another, even if proven true.

In instances in which the information is crucial to privately reveal to another in order to protect his welfare, a competent halachic authority should be consulted.

A Bet Din will analyze whether the intent of an offender was solely constructive, based on whether he or she acted excessively. Excessive behavior is sometimes a sign of an ulterior motive.

A Bet Din will seek to promote peace by arranging a settlement between the disputing litigants.

YOU BE THE JUDGE

The Wig Party

Sara ordered a custom-made wig from Yocheved, a local sheitel macher, at the whopping price of $3,500. Upon payment Sara brought her new wig home, only to hear comments from her family members that the wig was clearly not worth the price. Sara ignored the ongoing comments for a while, but when her mother-in-law expressed her disappointment with the wig’s quality, Sara called Yocheved and demanded a refund. Since Sara has been a regular customer for years, Yocheved agreed to take the wig back and make the necessary changes to improve its quality. Yocheved suggested to Sara during a phone conversation that if Sara was not satisfied with the wig after repairs, she would consider reimbursing her with a thousand dollars. Sara replied that she felt that a thousand-dollar refund is the least Yocheved should do. Sara sent the wig back to the store with Debbie, her neighbor, who was going there anyhow. Debbie did some shopping on the way and negligently lost the wig in a department store. Admitting to her negligence, Debbie was willing to pay $2,500 for the loss of the wig. Debbie explained that Sara herself acknowledges that the wig is worth only $2,500. Furthermore, Debbie claimed that Yocheved already consented to paying Sara the additional thousand dollars. On the other hand, Yocheved claimed that she is by no means willing to participate in the loss since she intended all along to improve the wig’s quality and not reimburse Sara a thousand dollars.

The three appeared in our Bet Din to resolve the dispute.

How should the Bet Din rule and why?

Whether or Not You Learn Daf Yomi… Amud Weekly is For You

Rabbi Raphael Netanel

The exhilaration of the 13th global Siyum HaShas, and the dramatic scene of 90,000 people dancing jubilantly in MetLife stadium – along with thousands more in Barclays Center and at numerous large gatherings throughout the world – has had a profound impact upon Jews everywhere. The joy and excitement surrounding the completion of the Talmud has inspired us all, and has driven us to commit ourselves to advance in our Torah study.

In an attempt to harness this newly reignited passion for Torah, Agudath Israel of America has launched a wonderful initiative under the title Ki Hem Hayenu (“For They are Our Lives”), whereby communities take upon themselves various learning programs. While the programs all differ from one another, they nevertheless will bind the Jewish People together in the joint, concentrated effort to grow in Torah learning.

The rabbis of our community conceived of a beautiful way to capitalize on the excitement generated by the recent Siyum for the sake of promoting Torah learning. Rabbi Meyer Yedid, in partnership with over 40 other rabbis from the community, have launched a program called Amud Weekly, which involves the study of one amud – one side of a page of Talmud – each week.

This program is tailormade for those who wish to study Talmud at a slower pace than the daily Daf Yomi system. Perhaps even more importantly, Amud Weekly seeks to bring together the entire community, from those opening a Gemara for the first time, to experienced and advanced students. Classes will be taught in virtually every community synagogue, on a variety of levels, ensuring that every community member will be able to find the framework that is right for him.

A special website – AmudWeekly.com – has been created to widen the reach of this exciting initiative. The website offers the following features:

  • Live broadcasts of Amud Weekly classes, and recordings of past classes;
  • Recordings explaining every Tosafot;
  • An up-to-date list of Amud Weekly classes in the community;
  • A precise calendar of the learning schedule;
  • A special hazarah (review) system to encourage review of the material;
  • A weekly, in-depth “be’iyun” class, delving into the intricate details and discussions of the commentators surrounding that week’s page;
  • A special print-out for Shabbat.
  • A ten-minute video breaking down that week’s page into six daily segments.

Amud Weekly offers the opportunity to not only expand and deepen one’s Torah knowledge, but also to bring together the entire community. Wherever one goes and meets other community members, they can immediately bond over the material they are both studying. The program is perfectly suited for fathers and sons, friends, neighbors, or even perfect strangers who happen to meet in a waiting room, in an airport, at a simcha, on a train, or anywhere else.

What makes Amud Weekly so special is that the pace of study makes it perfect for people of all backgrounds. For beginners, Amud Weekly offers a far slower, more manageable pace than Daf Yomi, allowing them to gradually and patiently hone their skills. For experienced students of Daf Yomi, Amud Weekly is the perfect way to supplement their Daf Yomi learning by devoting some extra time to mastering one amud each week.  And for advanced scholars, Amud Weekly is the perfect way to focus on, and delve into, a specific piece of Gemara every week, thus allowing them to combine breadth with depth.

The founders of Amud Weekly and its devoted team of teachers and volunteers invite all community members to come together through this exciting undertaking, through which they access the unparalleled merit of talmud Torah derabim – communal Torah study, which will, no doubt, elevate our entire community to greater heights of Torah knowledge and Torah devotion.

For more information about the Amud Weekly program, please visit amudweekly.com.

View from the Trees In a Rut? Don’t Despair, Tu B’Shvat is Here!

Rabbi Ephraim Nisenbaum

The 15th day of Shevat, Tu B’Shvat, is called the New Year for Trees. Strictly speaking, this title draws a legal distinction related to the laws of tithing in the Land of Israel. Tithes must be separated from any produce grown in Israel before it may be eaten. In a given year, the fruit taken as tithe from one tree may represent the owner’s other trees of the same species. However, one year’s fruit may not be tithed for another year’s harvest.

Tradition teaches the new year for fruit begins on the fifteenth of Shevat, because most of the winter rains will have passed and the sap of the new growth has begun to flow: the dormant tree is waking from its winter sleep. A tree that blossoms before Tu B’Shvat is considered last year’s produce; if it blossoms after Tu B’Shvat, it belongs to the new year.

Other than the day’s significance for tithing, there is no source in the Talmud or Midrash for celebrating Tu B’Shvat. Yet, from later sources we find many customs regarding the celebration of Tu B’Shvat: the practice of eating various fruits; the custom of dressing in one’s Shabbat finery for the new year for trees, because the Torah compares the human being to a tree (Devarim 20:19).

Let us examine the comparison between man and trees in order to understand the message on Tu B’Shvat for humankind.

The tree goes through cycles in its life. The heavy-laden tree of summer empties itself of fruit in the autumn, and then slowly loses its leaves, one by one. By winter time, the tree stands shorn of its previous glory. For all purposes, it appears to have died.

But then comes Tu B’Shvat. In the midst of the cold winter days, when all vegetation seems frozen or dead, the sap of the tree starts to flow beneath the surface bark. Rising slowly from roots buried in the hardened soil, the sap pushes its way up, pumping new life into outstretched branches that reach towards the heavens.

In life, we too often go through cycles of growth. Periods of renewal and growth may alternate with times of stagnation or dormancy. Rabbi Shlomo Wolbe cites that this cycle is part of man’s nature. He adds that a person must not become disillusioned when spiritual growth seems halted; the “low” period will usually be followed by a “high” period that will yield new opportunities for growth.

That is the message of Tu B’Shvat: Even when we feel lethargic, in a rut, and seem to have lost the drive to achieve, we must not despair. Just as winter is an annual hiatus in the life cycle of trees, so bouts of lethargy and unproductivity are necessary phases in the human cycle. Just as with the coming of spring, life-giving sap moves imperceptibly through the trees to branches stretching to the sky, so we too will have renewed energy from deep within our spiritual reservoirs, so long as we set our goal heavenward.

Proper Care and Maintenance Required

There is another message in the New Year for Trees. There is a difference between trees and annual plants. Although trees require some regular maintenance, they produce fruit each year without any new planting. Plants and vegetables, on the other hand, must be reseeded each year in order to grow.

If a tree is not given proper care, however, it will die. Man is like the tree. With good maintenance, we need not start over from the very beginning with each goal we set for ourselves. We can build on past accomplishments to go even further. But, as with the tree, we require the proper care to avoid spiritual damage and to grow anew.

Tu B’Shvat inspires us to remember our similarity to the tree. We must be careful to protect ourselves, in order to strive towards greater achievements without having to constantly start over again from scratch.

Rabbi Ephraim Nisenbaum is the founder and director of the Jewish Learning Connection, an outreach organization in Cleveland, Ohio. This article was an adopted excerpt from his book, Powerlines: Insights and Reflections on the Jewish Holidays, published by Targum Press.

 

One on One with Miriam Wielgus

Despite our Ashkenazi roots, my husband and I ended up in a largely Sephardic environment.  We joke that between the two of us we have the entire Sephardic community covered!”

Ellen Geller Kamaras

Sharing Miriam’s life story with my readers is particularly meaningful for me.  Miriam taught Jewish history to my children at Yeshivah of Flatbush Joel Braverman High School (“Flatbush”) and I have sat next to her in shul several times.  When I think of Miriam, I picture her power walking with her friends in Marine Park and serving as a trendsetter and positive role model for the girls at Flatbush.  My daughter referred to the modest Junee shirts that I purchased for her as “Mrs. Wielgus tops.”  Miriam’s warmth and vibrant energy always came through when we would interact.

And yet, when I interviewed Miriam I found out she was much more multi-faceted than I had imagined.  Here is her story.

Family History

Miriam Schonbrun Wielgus, daughter of Gitty and Chaim Schonbrun, grew up in Boro Park, Brooklyn in a family with Hasidic roots.  In fact, Miriam’s first language was Yiddish.  Her father miraculously survived the Holocaust as a baby, and Gitty, whose parents were Romanian, was born in Germany in a Displaced Persons (DP) camp at the end of World War II.  Chaim’s roots were in Krakow, Poland. From there his parents were deported to Treblinka, leaving their 20-month-old son Chaim with his 18-year-old aunt, Chaya Rivka. Chaim’s adoptive parents emigrated to Canada after the war, and it was there that Chaim grew up and married his bashert, Gitty.

“I was the oldest of four siblings, all brothers, which explains why I was a tomboy as a kid and grew to love sports.”

When Miriam described of her childhood, her love of sports and her curiosity took center stage.  Her favorite sports activities are cycling, running, and snowboarding. Miriam modestly describes herself as a good student (she was the eighth grade valedictorian and was the editor of her high school yearbook). Additionally, Miriam was more inquisitive about the outside world than most of her peers.  She was educated in the Bais Yaakov school system from kindergarten through high school, and spent her gap year in Israel studying at the BJJ seminary in Jerusalem.  The average Bais Yaakov high school graduate in those days did not continue on to college. Miriam, however, convinced her father to allow her to register at Touro College, a Jewish institution.

Meeting Her Naseeb

Miriam met her husband, Chaim Wielgus, who is three years older than she is, when she was a senior in high school at a New Jersey Shabbaton.  They were both volunteers for JEP, a kiruv organization that conducted many educational programs for kids with little or no knowledge of Judaism.   However, given their strict religious upbringing, Miriam said “they didn’t dare date” until she returned from Israel.  She attended Touro for two years and transferred to Brooklyn College after she and Chaim were married.  Miriam took a Jewish history class at Brooklyn College with Professor David Berger, who became her mentor. He encouraged her to pursue a graduate degree in Jewish history.  Her next stop was Columbia University where she earned a master’s degree and M.Phil. in Jewish history, while teaching and raising her children.

Hashem blessed Miriam and Chaim with five children and eight grandchildren, who they adore.

Teacher and Innovator

Miriam has been teaching since she was 19, when she returned from seminary in Israel.  “I always loved teaching. My passion is Jewish history. I started at a Russian school for two years and taught Jewish history and other Judaic studies classes at different elementary and high schools.  My dream, or so I thought, was to teach college.  Eventually I was hired to teach European history at Touro College during the evenings.”

Teaching night classes was challenging for Miriam, given that her own children were in school during the day and were home in the evenings. Then, as “luck” would have it, another mentor of Miriam’s, Professor Elisheva Carlebach, recommended Miriam for a job teaching Jewish history at Flatbush around 21 years ago.  Miriam has been there ever since, and views her career at Flatbush as the biggest blessing.  “I consider Flatbush my second family and I absolutely love my job teaching ancient, modern, and Sephardic history. I’m also the guidance counselor for girls contemplating a year of study in Israel after graduation.”

Miriam became the Department Chair when the prior one, my former teacher, retired. Miriam is consistently inspired by the members of the administration, who encourage her to grow as a teacher and to bring new and exciting programs to the students.  Around ten years ago, Rabbi Levy approved Miriam’s introduction of “Sephardic History” as an elective. This has proven to be a valuable addition to the curriculum, given the growing Sephardic student population.  Miriam takes advantage of available technological resources and is a big believer in engaging her students in experiential, and not only textbook learning.  For example, there are a variety of trips for students. These include both local excursions to museums as well as overseas trips to Israel, Spain, Morocco, and Gibraltar, where students have become impassioned about the subject matter.   Other examples of fun and appealing learning opportunities are “Music on Mondays” and “Tasty Tuesdays” (cooking classes).

Finding a Niche in the Sephardic World

And guess what?  Despite both Miriam and Chaim’s Ashkenazic roots, they both ended up in a largely Sephardic environment.  Although Chaim’s primary job is VP in a mortgage company, he is also a rebbe who has been teaching seventh graders at Magen David Yeshiva for 30 years!  Miriam teaches many students that were formerly his. “My kids joke that we sound more Sephardic than Ashkenazi because our Hebrew havara has been ‘Sephardicized’ after years of teaching in the community.”

Miriam expressed her special affinity for the Sephardic community’s history, food, and culture.  She is convinced that she has some Sephardic ancestry. “The only thing preventing me from doing an ancestry.com test is my fear that I will be greatly disappointed should no Sephardic lineage appear in the results,” Miriam quipped.

Passion, Purpose, and Positivity

After her family and teaching career, Miriam’s greatest love is sports!   Her husband is not super athletic and none of her children are as athletic as she is.  However, they all support her and are proud of her feats.  As a matter of fact, Chaim recently bought her a new bike rather than jewelry!

How does she feel when she cycles or runs?  “I feel a thrill and am so alive when I do sports. I clear my head and sports allow me to live in the moment, not worry about problems, and appreciate my health.  I enjoy my surroundings and the environment, it’s almost a spiritual experience.”

Miriam plays tennis on Wednesdays and ice skates every Friday.  Snowboarding is another favorite of hers, and she snowboards with her students on the senior ski trip.  Miriam also runs regularly and is a proud member of OPR, Ocean Parkway Runners.  Miriam has done several half marathons and hopes to run the NYC full marathon next November.  She was the Flatbush track team coach for two years and was the coach for Flatbush children running the Disney Marathon for Sephardic Bikur Holim.  Miriam is also a serious cyclist and has done numerous charity rides for Tour de Simcha, NCSY, and The Next Ride in Israel, which raises money for prosthetics for Israeli amputees.

Miriam’s life purpose is to enjoy every moment.  She advocates embracing life and making one’s own happiness. “Make the most of your time here. Life can be fabulous, so don’t focus on what you don’t have and be grateful for what you do.”

Health and Life Balance

How does Miriam do it all?  Her secret is to aim for a healthy work-life balance. “You can’t have it all, so you need to prioritize. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Truthfully, cleaning the house and dusting the furniture are not what’s important to me.  I am one of the original proponents of self-care.  Make sure you make time for fun and activities you enjoy. It’s the little things in life that provide the greatest pleasure.”

Miriam’s immense appreciation for her good health and ability to engage in the sports she loves led her to donate a kidney altruistically last year.  “I don’t take my health for granted.  I’ve experienced a number of sports related injuries, including a biking accident that resulted in a helicopter evacuation and a crushed collarbone. I feel a tremendous hakarat hatov to Hashem for all the blessings in my life and wanted to pay it forward.”

Miriam wants people to know that there are no negative side effects to kidney donation, besides having to take Tylenol instead of Advil afterwards, Her physical health and capacity to do sports, B”H, are as good as they were before.

Her next projects?  Miriam wants to expand the number of electives in Jewish history. The principals allow Miriam to run with new and innovative ideas, so she can’t get stale as a teacher.

Advice to Students

Follow your passion. “I wanted to be a psychologist because my aunt became one, and then I realized I was passionate about Jewish history.  If you love something, run with it even if you think it’s not lucrative.  You will find a way to make it work.”

 

 

Straight Talk

Is the recent rise in anti-Semitism something to worry about?

Absolutely! How could we not worry about it?

But we have to know that there is a fundamental reason why it’s happening – because Hashem is worried about us. We’re too involved in gentile ideas, and so there is a need to erect a wall. That wall is anti-Semitism. This happens again and again throughout history – when Jews start getting lost among gentiles, it’s time for the gentiles to begin building a wall to prevent that.

The first reaction to anti-Semitism should NOT be to contribute to the organizations that combat anti-Semitism. No, no! In most cases, those organizations cause anti-Semitism. The way to combat anti-Semitism is to build more yeshivot where children will be accepted for lower, more affordable tuition. The yeshivot should be so prosperous that they should be able to afford to accept children almost for nothing. That’s the ideal. The Jewish child, sitting in the yeshiva, will then be the one fighting against anti-Semitism in the most effective manner.

What is the best way to console a mourner when paying a shivah call?

The best thing you can do to provide comfort to a mourner is to come and show yourself. That’s the consolation. Just honoring him by coming –  that’s already a consolation.

If the mourner is really broken, then you have to use words that are suited to the occasion. But you cannot give one prescription that suits everybody. If a person is of a philosophical bent, then you talk to him about Olam Haba [the next world] and about this world being only a temporary place; you can talk about how a man who deserves reward was taken by Gd to Gan Eden, and he is enjoying all the great promises that Gd promised to those who serve Him. Whatever it is, there are ways and means of consoling each person according to his level of intelligence.

Some people are obtuse; they’re not intelligent, so you can’t tell them anything. So, all you can say is, “How are you, cousin Jake?” That’s all you can say. Actually, you shouldn’t say, “How are you,” because this is a greeting which one may not extend to a mourner (see Yoreh Dei’ah 385:1). But you can speak to him about ordinary things, and that’s the only consolation you can give him. So, it all depends on his level of intelligence.

Is the recent rise in anti-Semitism something to worry about?

Absolutely! How could we not worry about it?

But we have to know that there is a fundamental reason why it’s happening – because Hashem is worried about us. We’re too involved in gentile ideas, and so there is a need to erect a wall. That wall is anti-Semitism. This happens again and again throughout history – when Jews start getting lost among gentiles, it’s time for the gentiles to begin building a wall to prevent that.

The first reaction to anti-Semitism should NOT be to contribute to the organizations that combat anti-Semitism. No, no! In most cases, those organizations cause anti-Semitism. The way to combat anti-Semitism is to build more yeshivot where children will be accepted for lower, more affordable tuition. The yeshivot should be so prosperous that they should be able to afford to accept children almost for nothing. That’s the ideal. The Jewish child, sitting in the yeshiva, will then be the one fighting against anti-Semitism in the most effective manner.

What is the best way to console a mourner when paying a shivah call?

The best thing you can do to provide comfort to a mourner is to come and show yourself. That’s the consolation. Just honoring him by coming –  that’s already a consolation.

If the mourner is really broken, then you have to use words that are suited to the occasion. But you cannot give one prescription that suits everybody. If a person is of a philosophical bent, then you talk to him about Olam Haba [the next world] and about this world being only a temporary place; you can talk about how a man who deserves reward was taken by Gd to Gan Eden, and he is enjoying all the great promises that Gd promised to those who serve Him. Whatever it is, there are ways and means of consoling each person according to his level of intelligence.

Some people are obtuse; they’re not intelligent, so you can’t tell them anything. So, all you can say is, “How are you, cousin Jake?” That’s all you can say. Actually, you shouldn’t say, “How are you,” because this is a greeting which one may not extend to a mourner (see Yoreh Dei’ah 385:1). But you can speak to him about ordinary things, and that’s the only consolation you can give him. So, it all depends on his level of intelligence.

A Woman’s Perspective on The Siyum HaShas

Esther P.

Attending the 13th Siyum HaShas in MetLife Stadium is not an easy experience to put into words. And yet, to let the memories fade without capturing them and preserving them would be a missed opportunity. So, I will attempt to convey some of the inspiration I felt in the hopes that it will not be lost, but will continue to touch and motivate us for as long as we can hold on to it.

You might ask why is this event so challenging to portray? The simple answer is because it was a larger than life experience. The 90,000-seat stadium was full of Jews who gathered together for the purpose of celebrating the achievement of thousands of individuals. These individuals span the globe, and have completed the journey through Shas in seven and a half years. Each one of those people undertook the commitment to learn Torah every day without exception, toiled and persevered, and then realized the completion of this monumental task. While this would be a cause for celebration had just one individual reached this milestone, when multiplied by the multitudes who completed learning all of Shas, the celebration became magnified on a universal scale.

Celebrating Torah and Jewish Unity

Since the study of gemara is an assignment unique to men, I have neither completed Shas nor learned one masechet. I have not even learned one daf. But the celebration belonged to me in a very real way because I am a member of the Jewish people, whose essence and lifeblood is Torah. The Siyum HaShas was not only a source of joy for the ones who made the siyum. The nation united to proclaim that our identity is Torah. Torah is our happiness, our pride, and our life. That message belongs to every Jew, whether he or she is a member of the Daf Yomi movement or not, and the message of Jewish unity provided by Torah learning is a real reason to rejoice.

To me, the single most inspiring aspect of the Siyum HaShas was the sheer number of people who showed up in the cold in the middle of the day. Attending this event meant either taking time off from work or school or spending a precious vacation day, driving out to MetLife Stadium in East Rutherford, NJ, and sitting outdoors in the cold for hours. Yet the 90,000-seat stadium was not large enough to accommodate everyone who wanted to participate. When the event coordinators saw that the tickets were selling out fast, they opened another venue to hold an additional 30,000 celebrants who did not want to miss the opportunity to be part of the historical event. Because an occasion that acknowledges who we are as a people is not one to ignore.

Upon entering the stadium, one felt the anticipation and energy palpably. Men, women, and children of all ages and all walks of life were coming together for a bonding celebration that would serve to unite us all. Every mesayem was completing the same Talmud, at the same time, in the same place. After R’ Shmuel Kamenetzky completed the last few lines of the last masechet and recited the Hadran prayer with deep emotion, the entire stadium erupted in exultant singing and dancing. From the rabbis on the dais to the attendees on the floor and throughout the stands, there was a genuine, pulsating exhilaration that fused everyone together and made everyone feel part of a larger whole. Live hookups to locations all over the world were projected on screens, which showed Jews dancing and celebrating the siyum.. Everywhere there was dancing of triumph, of pride, and of unity.

Spotlight on Jewish Survival

It was also a testament to the survival of our nation. Although we have been persecuted and attacked throughout the generations, we are very much alive. Not just alive in body, but alive in spirit and soul. Interviews were shown with Holocaust survivors expressing their wonder at the vibrancy of the Jewish people, who have experienced the worst suffering but have prevailed and rebuilt Torah all over the world. The fact that we as a nation have reached this milestone is nothing short of miraculous.

A Deep Feeling of Connection

The program continued into the evening and culminated with thousands of Jews praying Arbit together. There was deep intensity as they loudly proclaimed Shema Yisrael together and answered Kaddish as one entity. But when everyone stood up and prayed the silent Amidah, the silence was deep and profound, as each participant connected with the Creator of the world on his own personal level.

And that was really the theme of the day. That each individual has a distinct role to play in the structure of our people, and that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. The accomplishments of an individual are exponentially more valuable when combined with the achievements of many, many others who are all carrying out the will of the same Father and who are following the principles of the same Torah. When we reach that awareness and that goal, it is indeed a cause for a celebration on the scale of the Siyum HaShas.

Spotlight on Security Detail at the Siyum HaShas

Frieda Schweky

Imagine an event at a sports stadium filled to capacity with over 92,000 people, where not even one disturbance or altercation occurred throughout an entire day. It hardly seems possible! But on Jan 1st, 2020, at the 13th Siyum HaShas celebration held at MetLife Stadium in East Rutherford, NJ, that’s exactly what happened.

Anti-Semitic Attacks Spur Expanded Security Detail

Due to the recent increase in  anti-Semitic attacks in the NYC area, the event required massive security, far above what was required previously. The event celebrated the completion of the Daf Yomi learning program, whereby participants around the world learn the same page of Talmud every day for a cycle lasting roughly seven-and-a-half years. Many in the crowd were celebrating their own completion of Shas. Others came as an expression of achdut, to experience the celebration with fellow Jews, and to show honor to the Torah. In the crowd were chief rabbis, prominent community leaders, politicians, and other dignitaries. An estimated 350,000 take part in learning Daf Yomi around the world. The celebration at MetLife Stadium was broadcast live to over 20 countries, where similar celebrations were taking place simultaneously. Even nearby in Brooklyn, the Barclays Center was packed with Jews watching the siyum held at MetLife live via satellite.

Law Enforcement Out in Force

NJ State Troopers preparing comunication equipment for the siyum.

Preparations for the siyum at MetLife began two years prior,  and the security and safety preparations began months in advance. David Heskiel, Police Chaplain, NYPD Clergy Liaison, and special Liaison for Councilman Chaim Deutsch, was involved in the planning and coordinating of the security team for the siyum held at MetLife. David worked closely with the New Jersey State Police Superintendent Colonel Patrick J. Callahan and state police brass. Additionally, David joined the FBI special agent in charge of Newark NJ, Gregory W. Ehrie, in working out security details.  NJ Homeland Security Director Jared Maples also played a key role in the security detail. Approximately fifty different law enforcement agencies were involved in protecting the participants at the siyum.

Over 350 uniformed NJ state troopers were inside MetLife Stadium during the event. Many were stationed at all the exists, and directed traffic on what they called “siyum detail.” A large number of Hatzalah members were present at the siyum, and ambulances fully stocked and prepared for emergencies were standing by. Agents from the FBI were also on duty to ensure everyone’s safety. The head FBI agent looked on and took pictures in amazement, telling David he was eager to show and tell his wife about this amazing experience. He also said he had never seen anything like this in his lifetime and he was very moved.

Siyum Sparks Kiddush Hashem

People who have worked in the stadium for years were amazed by the orderly and gracious behavior of all the participants throughout the event. It is rare, if not unheard of, that an event of this size was pulled off without any  fights or disturbances whatsoever. During prayers, the crowd was so silent you could hear a pin drop.

Chabad emissaries were on their usual mission to find any Jew who had not donned tefillin that morning. They actually managed to find a couple of men who had not, and helped them do so.

You may have heard the story of the NJ state trooper who pulled over a Jew the day after the siyum, asked if he had learned his page yet, and told him if he promised to complete learning the page he would send him off with a warning instead of a ticket., But  many may not have heard the following story: Two years before the Siyum HaShas at MetLife, Sol Werdiger, Chairman of the Board at Agudath Israel, was at the stadium  in order to reserve it for January 1, 2020. There with Mr. Werdiger were two secular Jews, the owner of the stadium and the man who built it. The builder told the other two that he just had to get something off his chest. He admitted that after taking ten years to build such a stadium, his work seemed futile. The arena would be used for people to have a few beers and watch a game, nothing very significant at all. He declared that now he knew Gd’s plan and intent for him in building this arena was in order for this very event to take place. He said it brought meaning to what he does and brought him happiness as well. Mr. Werdiger was stunned to hear this from a secular Jew. It was totally unexpected, and so very meaningful.

Siyum HaShas Brings Honor to the King

When the organizers of the siyum first considered where to hold the main event, they were concerned about staging it outside during the chilling East Coast winter. One proposal was to hold the main siyum simultaneously in five different indoor venues in New York, New Jersey, and Philadelphia, with live hook-ups between them. However, the Moetzes Gedolei HaTorah of Agudath Israel decided to hold the main siyum in one place, based on the principle of b’rov am hadrat melech, that Gd’s honor is increased when a large number of Jews gather in the same place. Indeed, the 13th Siyum HaShas was a testimony to Gd’s honor and to honoring Torah learning. Baruch Hashem, the celebration concluded with not only an absence of fighting or disturbances, but with not even one emergency.

SIYUMIM Around the Nation

Rabbi David Ozeri speaking at the siyum in Los Angeles.

Our community rabbis were asked to speak and give hizuk to thousands of people at various siyumim across the country.

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA

On January 5, over 2,000 men and women from Los Angeles’s Jewish communities gathered to celebrate the Siyum HaShas. Agudath Israel of California, headed by new Executive Director Rabbi Yisroel Gelb and longtime Chairman Dr. Irving Lebovics, organized the event. Rabbi David Ozeri was the keynote speaker.

CHICAGO, ILLINOIS

Rabbi Meyer Yedid addressing the crowd at the Siyum HaShas celebration in Chicago.

The Siyum HaShas in Chicago was a tremendous success, with an attendance of about 3,500 people. Rabbi Meyer Yedid inspired the crowd with divrei hizuk. Rav Shmuel Fuerst, Dayan for Agudath Israel of Illiniois, was mesayem Shas, using a Masechet Niddah printed in the DP camps that belonged to Mr. Nachi Shabat.

MONTREAL, CANADA

Rabbi Joey Haber at the podium at the Siyum HaShas in Montreal.

Over 1,600 men and women from Jewish communities across Montreal gathered in an unprecedented display of unity. Rav Yonatan Binyomin Weiss, Chief Rabbi of Montreal, delivered divrei beracha, and Rabbi Joey Haber electrified the audience with a most powerful message.