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Cookies and Cream Hamantashen

Hamantashen is the triangular filled pastry connected to the Jewish holiday of Purim. The name refers to Haman, the villain in the Purim story. In Hebrew, hamantashen are also known as “Oznei Haman” which mean Haman’s ears. While the oldest and most traditional filling is poppy seeds, with prune butter and assorted jellies coming in second and third, recent years have bakeries selling every flavor under the sun. This recipe uses a vanilla and chocolate marbleized dough with Oreo butter inside, virtually creating a cookie within a cookie once baked.

Dough Ingredients:

5 cups flour

4 eggs

1 cup sugar

1/2 cup oil

1 tsp vanilla

2 tsp of baking powder

½ cup cocoa powder

Filling:

15 Oreos

¼ cup almond milk

Topping:

2 tbsp hot water

1 cup confectioner’s sugar

6 Oreos, crushed

  1. Beat together eggs and sugar. Add flour, oil, vanilla, and baking powder and mix well.
  2. Remove half the plain dough and set aside. Add cocoa powder to the remaining cookie dough and mix well.
  3. To create the marbleized black and white dough, alternate placing both chocolate and vanilla cookie dough side by side on your rolling surface, and roll out together.
  4. Use the edge of a glass cup to cut dough into circles.
  5. Blend Oreo filling ingredients in a processor and then place 1 tsp Oreo butter in the center of each and pinch three corners to create the hamantashen shape.
  6.  Bake for 10 minutes on 350 degrees Fahrenheit.
  7. When hamantashen are cool, mix together 2 tbsp hot water and 1 cup confectioner sugar until clumps are gone. If consistency isn’t thick enough, add one tsp hot water at a time. If it’s too thin, add one tbsp confectioner at time until its thick enough to pour..
  8. Drizzle frosting on top of cooled hamantashen and sprinkle with crushed Oreos.

Is there Life on Other Planets?

On February 18, 2021, NASA’s Perseverance rover landed on Mars and began its mission to search for signs of life.

Over the coming years, Perseverance will attempt to collect rock and soil samples in sealed tubes, to be eventually sent back to Earth sometime in the 2030s for lab analysis. They hope to answer the question: Could there actually be life on Mars?

For centuries, human beings have always asked: Do plants, animal life, or even sophisticated cultures exist on other planets? Can religious Jews believe in the possibility of alien life?

The question of whether life could exist in other planets received lots of attention during the 1950s and 1960s, when the first manned spacecraft was about to be launched. In 1960, astronomer Dr. Frank Drake took the first steps to finding an answer by searching for radio signals from alien cultures. In 1961, he published The Drake Equation – a formula to estimate the number of advanced civilizations in the universe. The calculations considered factors such as the estimated rate of stars’ development, the number of planets that might have suitable conditions for life, and the estimated period of existence of advanced civilizations. Dr. Drake postulated that in our galaxy alone, there are some 10,000 civilizations besides ours. During the years after Dr. Drake published his theory, astronomers raised this estimate significantly.

What is the Torah’s Perspective?

During the preparations for the first manned flights into space, modern-day Torah Sages were asked the question: What does the Torah tell us about the possibility of sentient life existing on other planets? Their answer was usually along these lines: We do not know of any Torah source which says there is no life on other planets, and so there really is no contradiction between the
view that such civilizations exist and Jewish belief. Still, the overall spirit of the Torah implies that there is no life elsewhere in the universe, other than that which exists here on earth.

Before man landed on the moon, astronomers argued vehemently about whether life existed there. Dr. N. Vidal, in his book, Heavenly Hosts, notes with amazement that the great Torah sage and Kabbalist, Rabbi Mordechai Sharabi, was asked about the possibility of life on the moon, and he replied by quoting a passage from the introduction to the Tikkunei Zohar, in the section entitled Patach Eliyahu:

“And You [Gd] created heaven and earth… and on earth there are trees and
grasses… and birds, fish, domestic animals, wild beasts, and human beings.”

“In view of this statement,” the rabbi wrote, “it is highly unlikely that there is life on the moon, for it states explicitly that: ‘on the earth, there are trees, grasses, birds, fish, domestic animals, wild beasts, and human beings,’ and this implies that only here on Earth were these creatures created.”

Dr. Vidal adds that according to this source, not only does life not exist on the moon; it may not exist anywhere else in the universe. Indeed, generally speaking, the claims made by scientists about the existence of life on other planets have been treated with strong reservation by the observant Jewish public – even though many outstanding scientists, such as the late Dr. Carl Sagan, have supported the opinion expressed by Dr. Drake. In fact, Dr. Sagan believed that the number of planets with advanced civilizations was far higher than Dr. Drake thought.

Questioning Conventional Wisdom

On the other hand, slowly but surely, as research on this subject progresses, many in the scientific world seem to be coming around to the opposite view.

William Broad, an award-winning science reporter at the New York Times, published an article on February 08, 2000, under the headline: “Maybe We are Alone in the Universe, After All,” accurately explaining the reasons for this change that has taken place among scientists. In the past, Broad writes, a growing number of astronomers took the view that alien civilizations are likely to be scattered among the stars like grains of sand, isolated from one another by the emptiness of interstellar space. But now, two prominent scientists say that this conventional wisdom is wrong. The alien search, they add, “is likely to fail.”

Astronomer Dr. Donald Brownlee and geologist Dr. Peter Ward from the University of Washington claim that based upon the latest astronomical findings, geological research and fossil record, it is the specific composition of matter on earth and its relative stability in space that permit the development of life. Contrary to previous assumptions, these conditions are extremely rare. Everywhere else in the universe, conditions do not permit life – radiation levels are too high, key elements are lacking, and planets lack orbital stability.

In their book, Rare Earth, the two authors write that many of the basic assumptions made by Dr. Drake and Dr. Sagan in suggesting that there is life on other planets have no foundation in reality. “The Drake Equation is riddled with hidden optimistic assumptions,” state the authors. They also claim that there are many astrobiologists who agree with them. According to Ward, the latest research indicates that most planets in the universe suffer from ongoing catastrophic events, such as a high rate of meteor strikes – many more than we suffer here on Earth. Dr. Ward writes that without the protection we get from the giant planet Jupiter – whose strong gravitational field attracts dangerous space debris – the number of meteor strikes on Earth would be 10,000 times higher. Thus, the chances of life existing in the center of the galaxies are exceedingly small: “If you’re in the interior of the galaxy,” Dr. Ward said, “you’re always getting bombarded.”

According to Dr. Ward, new research has revealed that very high levels of radiation comprising X-rays, gamma rays, and ionizing radiation are present in the center of galaxies, which make it impossible for life to develop.

The two authors list other very rare conditions found on Earth that are required for life.  For example, our planet is at the precise distance from the sun which allows for the existence of liquid water. If we were even slightly closer to the sun, the water on Earth would evaporate; if we were even slightly further away from the sun, it would freeze. Another factor is the existence of moons, which stabilize the planet’s rotation allowing for moderate climatic changes.

Ward and Brownlee conclude: “These are extremely rare conditions, but it seems that there are many who don’t want to recognize the fact.”

The Rebbe’s Advice to the Microbiologist

So, can there be life in other galaxies? We simply do not know the answer.

But in terms of our openness to the question, we might well ponder the response of the Lubavitcher Rebbi to Dr. Velvl Greene, a prominent microbiologist who, many years ago, was enlisted by NASA in their project to determine if there is life on Mars. Dr. Greene asked the Rebbe privately if this was something he should be doing. The Rebbe replied, “Dr. Greene, look for life on Mars! And if you don’t find it there, look somewhere else in the universe for it. Because for you to sit here and say there is no life outside of planet Earth is to put limitations on the Creator, and that is not something any of His creatures can do!”

Purim – Promoting Unity

The mitzvot concerning giving to one’s fellow Jew is something unique to the Purim holiday.  We are obligated to give mishloach manot and matanat la’evyonim.  There is no other festival in which there is a similar obligation of hesed (kindness).  What is the connection between these mitzvot and the story of Purim?

This question can be answered by analyzing of some of the pasukim in the Megilla.  When Haman approaches Achashverosh with his plan to destroy the Jewish people, he outlines why they do not deserve to be kept alive.  “And Haman said to King Achashverosh, there is one nation scattered and dispersed (meforad) among the people.” The commentaries explain that Haman was making an accurate criticism of the Jewish people, one which helped convince the king that they would not be protected by Hashem.  Haman argued that the Jewish people were not unified and, accordingly, they were lacking the Divine protection that they merited when they were unified.

Restoring Jewish Unity in Shushan Reversed Hashem’s Decree

Accordingly, one of the most important ways of removing the decree of destruction from Above, was to renew the sense of unity amongst the Jewish people. Rav Yonasan Ebeshitz, zt”l, explains that this was Esther’s intention when she instructed Mordechai how to overturn the decree. “Go, assemble all the Jews to be found in Shushan, and fast for me.” She recognized that only a unified effort could overturn the decree.

Indeed, this approach succeeded.  The Vilna Gaon demonstrates in a number of pasukim, that the Jewish people displayed great unity when they finally took the upper hand against their enemies.   “The rest of the Jews throughout the King’s provinces gathered together and defended themselves (amad al nafsham)…”  The Vilna Gaon notes the word “amad is in the singular form, as opposed to the plural form of “amdu.  This, he writes, demonstrates that they were completely unified, as if they were one entity.  Soon after, the Megilla informs us that Mordechai instituted the festival of Purim.  In reaction, it tells us that, “The Jews undertook (kibel) to continue the practice they had begun.”  Again, the word, “kibel” is in the singular form, further demonstrating that they were unified.  Finally, the Sifsei Chaim adds a similar explanation to the famous verse in which, according to Chazal, the Jewish people willingly accepted the Torah: “They fulfilled (kiymuand accepted (kiblu) upon themselves…to observe these two days…”  The word kiblu is read in the plural form, however it is written in the singular “kibel,” again alluding to the fact that the Jewish people accepted the Torah in complete unity.

Giving to Others – an Antidote to Promote Unity

With this understanding of the significance of unity in the Purim story, it is easy to understand why Chazal instituted mitzvot in the realm of ben adam lechaveiro.  Purim reminds us of the importance of unity amongst the Jewish people.  Giving to one’s fellow Jew is an excellent tool to help us care more about them.  Moreover, it is not enough for a person to give to one’s friends alone, he must not ignore those who are far less fortunate – the destitute people who are easily forgotten about.   Therefore, in addition to mishloach manot, Chazal instructed us in matanot la‘evyonim.

Purim is a time when we remember the importance of unity to the Jewish people.  May we merit to focus all our energies on the common goal of fulfilling Hashem’s ratson.

Building Self-Esteem

So many of our children today are suffering from low self-esteem, and we can help them! The great news is that nobody is born with feelings of low self-worth. Low self-worth is a pattern of thinking that can develop. Babies have natural confidence, with a sense of feeling that they have something to accomplish. We give them a crayon and they color. They don’t think, “Maybe I won’t do a good enough job.” They also don’t have thoughts such as, “That other baby is cuter than me, smarter than me, or more capable than me.” They just take the crayon and color. When they feel strong enough they get up and start walking. When they fall, they get up and try again. All this is natural without any unhelpful thoughts about themselves, their worth, or their abilities.

Then babies grow into toddlers and they go off to playgroup and school, where they have all kinds of experiences. They have all sorts of experiences and interactions in their home lives, too. They start to develop beliefs about themselves based on what they see. (Don’t panic – each experience is tailor made for them with love by Hashem as something they need to experience.) While we can’t prevent them from ever being put down, and we can’t control every experience they have, we CAN help them see their real worth no matter what they experience.

It is important to tell your child the following truth: Before you were even born, Hashem decided that the world needs YOU! That means that we each have a unique purpose in this world.

We want our children to know that they each have a special place in their family, their class, and in the world, that nobody else can fill. I like to let my children know that this is true about every child in our family and in their class, because it’s hard to argue with a universal principle.

So how do we get that message across when our children do have experiences that point their thinking in the opposite direction?

  1. If the experience was hurtful, we empathize.
  2. We model for our children that we are not afraid that they will lose their confidence, since it’s part of a human being’s hard-wiring, and never leaves us. It may get blocked, we may not see it or feel it, but it’s always there.

So when our children tell us that they are incapable, unlovable, or anything of that sort, I like to respond with a big smile and say, “My thoughts also tell me all kinds of things about myself.” This type of comment acknowledges that while the discomfort of that thought is there, it is actually nothing more than a thought.

If we raise our children with the above TRUTHS, when they are faced with adversity, they can get back to their natural state of confidence.

With that confidence comes the ability to create, produce, and have an effect on the world around us. When our kids have down time, they can come up with so many activities. When children are very young, I like to brainstorm with them about how to keep busy so they own these ideas as they get older. When they are young we can list categories of “Things to Do.” We can say, “You have much to accomplish every day. You can use the list if you’d like some ideas or you can come up with new ideas.”

 

Samples of “Things to Do” Categories

Things That Bring Joy to Others:

Call a grandparent

Make a card for someone

Call a kid in your class who was out sick

Creative Talents:

Art projects

Organize a closet

Practice a sport

Practice an instrument

Relaxing Activities:

Listen to music

Take a walk

Read a book

Tammy Sassoon is a parenting coach and educational consultant.  She gives live and online parenting courses. She served Dean of Students at Bet Yaakov Orot Sarah where she piloted her acclaimed social & emotional wellness programs, which she now teaches educators and students worldwide.

Heart

A powerful vortex of energy seems to whirl around Eli Gerstner as March 13th and the HEART concert draw near. The EG Productions team is immersed in preparations for an advanced, multi-faceted, musical experience promised to be as heart-warming as it is mind blowing.

HEART will benefit children and teens who have lost a parent. The unique beauty of the beneficiary organization is reflected in its discretion and sensitivity. Staying beneath the radar is part of the mission of Links & Shlomie’s Club, who aim to be there for support, therapy, Shabbatons, and a shoulder to lean on, without compromising their clients’ dignity and privacy one iota.

Despite this low profile, though, they have won the deep respect of those in the know. “I did not have to do any convincing,” Eli confides. “When performers, vendors, and sponsors heard that the organization we’ll be singing our hearts out for is Links & Shlomie’s Club, the reaction was immediate.”

Eli’s six year odyssey of working for Camp HASC (A Time For Music) included producing ten shows on a level perhaps higher than anything the Jewish music world had seen. For the last concert, Winter 2021 (ATFM 34), his team grappled with constantly-changing Covid regulations which could easily have seen the grand fundraiser cancelled, yet they produced an unprecedentedly glorious event on the ice rink of the American Dream Mall, watched by over 150,000 people on computer screens worldwide, and making over 3 million dollars.

Yet this year, it was time to move on.

“Klal Yisrael has organizations for every need,” Eli says. “The one I have chosen to work with has really captured my heart like never before. And the event we are working on will also be like nothing I have ever done before.”

Tapping Into the Electricity of Purim

After Mordechai learns of Haman’s genocidal plan to annihilate the Jews, a tense exchange ensues between him and Ester.  Mordechai commands Ester to approach Ahasheverosh and plead on behalf of the Jews, but she refuses – for a very good reason: “All the king’s servants and the people in the king’s provinces know that any man or woman who approaches the king in the inner courtyard without being invited – there is only law: that he is killed.  And I have not been called to come before the king for thirty days now.”

Ester’s logic seems unassailable.  If she would approach Ahashverosh uninvited, she would, in all likelihood, be killed.  Nothing would then be accomplished.  It would be better, therefore, to wait until Ahashverosh invites her, and she will then intervene on the Jew’s behalf.

But Mordechai, in a harshly-worded response, demands that Ester not delay, despite the risks entailed: “Do not imagine to yourself to escape…in the king’s palace… For if you remain silent at this time, rescue and salvation will arise for the Jews from somewhere else, but you and your father’s house will be destroyed.  And who knows if it was for this moment that you reached royalty?

Ester yields to Mordechai’s authority.  She calls for the Jews to observe a three-day fast, and then approaches the king uninvited.  As we know, the plan miraculously works, and the Jews are saved.

But we must wonder, what was the rush?  Why was it so important for Ester to risk her life to come before the king immediately?

Further compounding the mystery is the chronology of the events.  The Megillah makes it clear that Haman’s edict was issued on the 13th of Nissan – 11 months before the 14th of Adar, when it was to be carried out.  Ester had to assume that Ahashverosh would, sooner or later, call her in.  She was, after all, the queen.  There were 11 months to intervene – why did she have to go right away?

And, let’s not forget that all this was taking place on Pesach.  The Gemara says that the three-day fast decreed by Ester was observed during Pesach.  The Jews cancelled the seder that year.  Why?  Would it not have made far more sense to wait until after Pesach?

Rectifying an Ancient Mistake

The answer to this question begins with placing the confrontation between the Jews and Haman into its broader context.

Haman, of course, was a scion of the evil nation of Amalek, the nation that brazenly and cruelly attacked Beneh Yisrael as they traveled in the desert after leaving Egypt.  Already then, Gd proclaimed that an eternal war must be waged against Amalek, until their nation is utterly eradicated.

The eradication of Amalek was to have occurred during the time of Shaul – the first king of Israel, and an ancestor of Mordechai and Ester.  As we read in the Book of Shmuel I (15), the prophet Shmuel conveyed to Shaul Gd’s command to wage battle against Amalek and annihilate them.  Shaul complied – but not completely.  He allowed his troops to keep Amalek’s animals, and he brought the Amalekite king – Agag – as prisoner.

The prophet Shmuel killed Agag the next day – but in the interim, tradition teaches, Agag managed to impregnate a woman, producing offspring from which Haman descended.

Gd was angry at Shaul for failing to fulfill the command to completely eradicate Amalek, and the kingship was taken from him and transferred to David.

Centuries later, in Persia, Shaul’s descendant – Ester – was given the opportunity to rectify his tragic mistake.  This is what Mordechai meant when he said, “And who knows if it was for this moment that you reached royalty?”  He was telling Ester that perhaps the time had come for her to correct the grave sin of their ancestor, who failed to confront and eliminate Amalek.  If she squandered the opportunity, Mordechai warned, “you and your father’s house will be destroyed” – the family of King Shaul will be lost, as the stain of his mistake would remain forever.

Moshe’s Weary Arms

If, indeed, Ester’s challenge involved not merely the present danger facing the Jews, but also the centuries-old struggle against Amalek, then it behooves us to understand the nature of this struggle in order to more fully understand the events.

On Purim morning, we read the Torah’s brief account in the Book of Shemot (17:8-16) of the battle against Amalek.  The Torah relates that in response to Amalek’s vicious assault, Moshe instructed his disciple, Yehoshua, to mobilize an army and lead the war effort, while Moshe went to sit on a hill overlooking the battlefield.  As long as Moshe held his hands up high, drawing the people’s hearts heavenward, they were victorious, but when he lowered his hands, Amalek overpowered them.  Moshe’s arms grew weary, and so his brother and nephew – Aharon and Hur – held them up.  Ultimately, Beneh Yisrael triumphed.

The Zohar makes a startling comment regarding Moshe’s weary arms.  Moshe was a man of exceptional strength and physical stamina; he should not have had any trouble keeping his hands held upward.  His arms grew tired, the Zohar explains, because he delayed his response.  He had told Yehoshua, “Tomorrow, I will stand on the top of the hill…”  Rather than respond to Amalek immediately, Moshe took a day to prepare.  For this he was punished by losing some of his strength, requiring assistance to keep his arms held high.

The Zohar’s remarks seem baffling.  What could possibly be wrong with taking one day (!!) to prepare for battle?  Why would Moshe be punished for a one-day “delay” in his response to an unprovoked surprise attack?

Learning From Our Enemies

The answer can be found in a little-known detail about Amalek’s attack, which appears in Targum Yonatan Ben Uziel (to Shemot 17:8).  Targum Yonatan tells that Amalek resided very far from Refidim, where Beneh Yisrael were encamped at that time, and they traveled 1,600 mil in a single night in order to launch their attack as swiftly as possible.  This is estimated as a distance normally traveled in 40 days.  The Amalekites were determined, zealous, enthusiastic and emphatic in their hatred toward Beneh Yisrael and their desire to eradicate them.  And so they came at lightning speed to unleash their assault.

King David says in Tehillim (119:98), “Me’oyevai tehakemeni mitzvotecha” – literally, “Your commands make me wiser than my foes.”  The Ba’al Shem Tov (1698-1760) explained the words “Me’oyevai tehakemeni” to mean, “From my enemies You make me wise” – that is to say, we are expected to learn from our enemies.  When we see the passion and effort our enemies invest in their pursuit of sin, we are to gain inspiration and commit to invest that same level of passion and energy – at least! – in our service of Gd.

In the Zachor passage which we read on the Shabbat before Purim, Moshe commands us to remember how Amalek attacked us when we were “ayef veyage’a – tired and weary” (Devarim 25:18).  In contrast to Amalek’s extraordinary zeal and passion, Beneh Yisrael were lethargic and unemotional in their religious commitment.  We are to remember Amalek’s attack because we are to learn from Amalek’s enthusiasm and tireless efforts to perpetrate evil, following that model in pursuing spiritual greatness.

This is why the response to Amalek’s assault needed to be immediate.  Moshe should not have delayed, because Amalek had not delayed.  In order to triumph over Amalek, we must wage this struggle with at least as much energy and zeal as Amalek invests in trying to overpower us.

And this was Mordechai’s message to Ester.  Just as Amalek does not wait to attack Am Yisrael, we cannot wait to respond.  Shaul’s mistake was delaying the execution of Agag by one day – and that one day made all the difference.  In order to rectify this mistake, Ester needed to approach Ahashverosh immediately, without delay.  Amalek let nothing get in the way of its passionate hatred for Am Yisrael – and so Ester was not to allow anything to get in the way of her effort to defeat Amalek, not the threat of Ahashverosh’s anger, and not even the celebration of Pesach.

Eliminating the Lethargy

The modern-day Amalek, too, launches its spiritual assault tirelessly, without stopping or resting for a moment.  Lures and temptations which were always relatively easy to avoid are now ever present in our lives.  Today’s “Amalek” has found a way to challenge us at virtually every moment, bringing opposing ideologies, culture and behaviors into the palm of our hand wherever we go.  When our ancestors were in Refidim, Amalek traveled 1,600 mil in one night to attack.  Today, Amalek has made its way right into our pockets to attack us.  It is working overtime in its relentless effort to defeat us.

Like Queen Ester, we need to respond in kind.  There is no single solution to the spiritual problems posed by modern technology, but one thing is abundantly clear: we must resist with passion and zeal.  We must counter the forces of Amalek by generating excitement and enthusiasm for Torah and mitzvot, and by approaching them energetically.  We cannot allow our religious observance to be lethargic or lifeless.  Now more than ever, we need to ignite passion and vitality in our service of Gd.

Perhaps this is the underlying purpose behind the unique aura of excitement and fervor that characterizes the Purim celebration.  We counter “Amalek” with energy and enthusiasm, excitedly performing mitzvot and celebrating our special connection to Gd.

May the joy and excitement of Purim extend far beyond this occasion, and remain with us throughout the year, empowering us to triumph over today’s difficult spiritual challenges and to keep our hands raised high, determined and untiring in our quest to serve Hashem.

Purim FAQ

Reading the Megillah

 

The Megillah is “Pirsum Ha-nes” publicizing the miracle of Purim, and Hallel is praise and song in honor of the holiday of Purim. Women, as well as men, are obligated to hear the Megillah, as women were also under the threat of annihilation. Furthermore, a woman, namely Queen Esther, played a significant role in the miracle. Children should also hear the Megillah (as long as they behave appropriately). Publicizing the miracle of Purim makes it preferable to hear the Megillah in a synagogue setting among a large crowd. Therefore, one should endeavor to go to shul and hear the Megillah there.

Can I eat before hearing the Megillah?

One should not eat until he or she hears the Megillah. This applies for both for the nighttime recital and the morning reading. If one is weak and the fast has ended, then he should ask a Rabbi what to do in his specific case.

 

Do I need my own Megillah?

Although having a kosher Megillah is commendable, it is not necessary to fulfill the mitzvah as you will be hearing the words being said by the hazan.

If one does not have a kosher Megillah scroll, he should still follow along with the hazan by using a humash or any other text of the Megillah. This will enhance his focus and enable him to catch up on missed words if need be. However, he should be careful not to read aloud along with the hazan.

Due to the sanctity of the scroll, one touching the parchment of a Megillah without a kerchief is required to wash his hands before doing so. If one has already washed his hands before prayers, his hands are considered ritually clean and he need not wash again.

 

I was late to the Megillah reading. May I listen from where they are up to and hear what I missed afterward?

The Megillah has to be read in order. However, if one is only a minute or so late, he may catch up by reading from a humash or other text with the Megillah, provided that he starts from the beginning, and catches up to the hazan, and provided also, that more than half of the Megillah is heard from the hazan, or that he is reading from a kosher Megillah. The berachot should be recited before he starts to read.

 

What if I tuned out for a few seconds?

One must hear every word of the Megillah. If you know what the reader just read, then you have fulfilled your obligation even if your mind wandered a bit. However, if you missed a few words, you can make them up by quickly reading them yourself from any text.

 

I am unable to make it to synagogue – may I listen via zoom?

One must hear the Megillah being read from a kosher Megillah. If one possesses a kosher Megillah he may read it to himself. If one just listens to the reading on the phone or on zoom, he has not fulfilled his obligation. However, he may use a kosher Megillah and follow along on Zoom if he will follow along with the hazzan to utter the Megillah word by word.

 

I am reading for my family and there is no minyan. May I make the blessings?

If one possesses a kosher Megillah and is reading for his immediate family, if there isn’t a minyan, he may make the blessings before reading. However, he may not make the blessing after the recital of the Megillah.

 

Mishloach Manot

Mishloach Manot, which is the sending of gifts, is one of the more exciting mitzvot of the day instituted to increase camaraderie. Haman’s decree, to wipe out the Jews, was sold to Achashverosh on the basis that the Jews were not united. Therefore, to show our harmony, we renew and enhance friendships by sending each other gifts of love on the day of Purim.

 

Who must give?

Men and women; boys and girls over bar and bat mitzvah are all obligated to give Mishloach Manot. Younger children should also give as hinuch, training in mitzvot. A husband and wife should each perform the mitzvah as individuals. A man giving to a man, and a woman to a woman. One should preferably give Mishloach Manot through an agent. However, if one feels that giving the Mishloach Manot directly will increase the bond of friendship then he should do so.

 

When should I give?

The obligation to give Mishloach Manot can only be fulfilled during the daytime. If you ordered a package before Purim to be delivered to a friend (for example by Amazon), the obligation will be fulfilled only if it arrives on Purim day.

 

What should I give?

Preferably one should give something respectable that befits the stature and honor of both the person giving the gift and the recipient. One should give at least one of their Mishloach Manot in a way that meets this requirement.

To fulfill one’s obligation, one must give two different foods. Preferably one should give food that is ready to eat. Drinks are also counted as an item; however, a plain water bottle or seltzer is not. Teabags or even fresh ground coffee are not ready-to-eat foods. However, the giving of a hot or iced coffee, tea, or another flavored beverage does fulfill the mitzvah of Mishloach Manot.

 

How many should I give?

One fulfills his obligation by giving Mishloach Manot to one person. However, the more one gives the better, as you are creating or strengthening more friendships. If one has a choice between giving funds to additional needy individuals or giving a larger number of Mishloach Manot, it is better to give tzedakah to more destitute individuals. There is no greater happiness than making the hearts of poor people, widows, and orphans happy!

 

Matanot La’evyonim – Gifts to the Destitute

 

How much do I give?

The mitzvah is to give tzedakah to at least two poor people. Some say one may give each poor person a perutah, a small amount. Others say one should give enough to buy a meal, which is approximately ten – twenty dollars.

In practice, one should give the preferred amount to at least two poor people. To any additional needy person, one may give as he wishes, the more people the better.

 

Who gives?

Both men and women alike must give Matanot La’evyonim. Even a beggar who receives charity must also give. A husband may give on behalf of his wife, however each one gives to two poor people.

 

To whom should I give the money?

One fulfills the obligation of Matanot La’evyonim by giving funds to those in need who struggle to pay for their basic needs. This can be done by giving the appropriate amount to trusted people or to organizations collecting on behalf of the poor who will distribute them specifically on Purim day before sundown.

 

Can I send the money before Purim?

You may send the money ahead of time, provided that the money is received by the poor person on the actual day of Purim.

@HungryMom’s Food Diary – Chicken Pot Pie

Here’s a classic, delicious dish, that can be added to your Purim Seuda, adding a little festive touch to it.

3 tbsp oil

3 cloves crushed garlic

1 bag frozen peas and carrots

1 diced onion

3 stalks celery

1/3 cup all-purpose flour

1 ¾ cup imagine no chicken, chicken broth

½ cup soymilk

2 lbs. boneless skinless chicken breast

3 tbsp salt

Puff pastry dough

1 beaten egg

  1. In a pot sauté an onion, once translucent add in peas, carrots, celery, and garlic. Cook until the carrots are tender. Stir in the flour and mix until the vegetables are coated. Mix for a few minutes. Slowly add in the chicken broth a little at a time, and keep on mixing to avoid clumping. Once its smooth finish pouring in the broth and add in the dairy free milk.
  2. Cube the chicken breasts and sauté in a separate pan. Once cooked through add it to the mixture and simmer over  medium heat until thick like gravy. Season with salt and pepper.
  3. Transfer to a Pyrex. I used a round over here, but you can put it into a savory pie crust. Roll out a sheet of puff pastry, cut out a triangle as a hamantashen, and carefully cover the Pyrex, where the filling is in. Cut another small triangle and lay inside of the bigger triangle to resemble a hamantashen. Brush with egg wash. Bake on 375 degrees Fahrenheit for 30-35 minutes until crust is golden brown.

Recipe by Susan Zayat. For more recipes and ideas follow @Hungrymom on Instagram. Check out her amazing homemade spelt sourdough for sale.

Mabrouk – March 2022

Births – Baby Boy

Albert & Marjorie Ayash

Mr. & Mrs. Max Sutton

Jack & Suzy Haber

Mr. & Mrs. Yosef Cohen

Yaakov & Elaine Safdieh

Isaac & Lauren Dana

David & Gabrielle Cohen

Albert & Vera Zalta

Michael & Jocelyn Suede

 

Births – Baby Girl

Mr. & Mrs. Joseph Bahary

 

Engagements

Moshe Mizrahi to Leah Fallas

Joe Dweck to Sarah Tessone

Isaac Antar to Norma Shabot

Joe Rahmey to Diana Hoffstein

Sammy Saka to Esther Greenstein

Zack Ashkenazie to Lorraine Franco

 

Weddings

David Zagha to Francine Zafrani

Spiritual Leader of Brooklyn Heights Brings Torah Numerology to a New Dimension

Rabbi Aaron Raskin, noted congregational rabbi, author, and teacher, founded Congregation Bnai Avraham in Brooklyn Heights 32 years ago and has been the congregation’s spiritual leader ever since.

His followers call him a spiritual superhero. His positive energy, scholarly acumen, and deep commitment to community, know no bounds. He is known for his hundreds of halachic videos and for his oratory skills. His congregants love that he donned a superman costume on Purim, did cartwheels on Simhat Torah, and stood on his adult son’s shoulders to blow shofar at Yom Kippur’s end.

Rabbi Raskin’s mission?  “I am a public servant, helping and teaching people, enriching their lives, bringing purpose to people and bringing people back to their purpose.”  He utilizes Jewish wisdom to guide individuals to live their best lives.

Born into a long line of prominent rabbis, Rabbi Raskin’s maternal grandfather, Rabbi Jacob J. Hecht, zt”l,  served as an official translator to the Lubavitcher Rebbe.

At four, Rabbi Raskin dreamed of becoming an astronaut. But when he visited his grandfather’s shul at six, he was so enthralled by the experience that his future aspirations took a turn.

Rabbi Raskin is the nephew of Rabbi Abraham Hecht, zt”l, former rabbi of Congregation Shaarei Zion and Rabbi Sholem Ber Hecht, the rabbi of the Sephardic Jewish Congregation and Center in Queens.

Rabbi Raskin’s paternal roots can be traced to the Shaltiel Gracian-Chein family, the heads of the Jewish community of Babylon and later Spain (1061).  The Shaltiel family nasi, Yehuda ben Barzilai, studied under the RIF, R’ Yehuda, a Rishon and author of significant halachic works (1070-1140). Rabbi Shaltiel Chein (1376) was the last rabbi of Barcelona until the 1391 pogrom.

Rabbi Raskin is also the emissary of the Lubavitcher Rebbe and established Chabad of Brooklyn Heights.  He was ordained as a dayan, a rabbinical judge, and consults on Beit Din cases.

Rabbi Raskin is the author of seven books, the most recent, Simanim.

An expressive storyteller, writing has become another spiritual tool employed by Rabbi Raskin to educate and to connect with his followers.

His first book, Letters of Light (2003), was inspired by his childhood fascination with the Hebrew Alphabet. “As a carpenter employs tools to build a home, so Gd utilized the 22 letters of the Hebrew Alphabet to form heaven and earth – the letters continue to be a source of creation, reflection, prayer, and inspiration in our everyday lives.”

 

In By Divine Design, Rabbi Raskin’s second book, he expounds on the lessons found in the broken, enlarged, and even missing letters of the Torah.

What inspired Simanim the sequel to By Divine Design?

There are no chapter headings, punctuation marks or page numbers in handwritten Torah scrolls. So how do we know how to divide the text into sentences, chapters, and parshiot? Rabbis living between the seventh to tenth century arrived at a brilliant solution to this question and created simanin/mnemonics with a specific numeric value indicating the exact number of verses in each Torah portion. Most simanim are one word. For example, the parasha Chayei Sarah contains 105 verses with a mnemonic of יהוידע, Yehoyada.

105 = 70 + 4 + 10 + 6 + 5 + 10.

Rabbi Raskin expounds on Rav Feinstein’s renowned work and brings the commentary to the next dimension. Rabbi Raskin’s revolutionary book delves into the mysteries of the siman, a seemingly insignificant aspect of the Torah, providing inspirational insights and life lessons for every Jew.

Continuing with the siman Yehoyada, Rabbi Raskin finds Benayahu ben Yehoyada in Chayei Sarah’s haftorah and uncovers connections between this man and Sarah Imeinu.  One similarity is that both were considered alive after their deaths because of their righteousness.  Each parasha’s chapter also contains kabbalistic sources, a story, the gematria (numerology) of the mnemonic, and a positive action to take.

Visit rabbiraskin.org to view his lectures and to order Simanim and his other books including his powerful tribute to women, Thank You G-d For Making Me A Woman.

Rabbi Raskin can be reached at ravraskin@gmail.com.