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Back to School

I found the tips given in last month’s article about the upcoming school year (“Can Our Children Return to School Safely?”) to be extremely encouraging and helpful. I would like to add that it is also very important not to speak negatively about school and/or government policies in front of your children. I’m talking from experience. Although at times things might not seem to make much sense to you, it is important not to air your grievances and frustrations in the presence of your kids. These complaints can add to your child’s stress level, making them feel all the more anxious. Our attitude needs to be one of cooperation and we should have the basic idea that everyone, that means our government and schools, are doing the best that they can under the circumstances.

Moe A.

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I am a concerned and anxious grandmother of seven grandchildren who are going to school this year. This article eased some of my concerns and calmed me down. Hopefully, it had the same effect on many parents and children as well.  Indeed, we all desire certainty – but when is life certain?! I thank you for the excellent back to school tips that make much sense to me.

Janet T.

 

Mashiah Revealed

The “Mashiah Revealed” series is a well-written column which inadvertently confirms the mystical uncertainty surrounding the appearance of the Mashiah. We only seem to know that we don’t know. Instead, authors on this subject resort to intelligent speculation about his entry into global society based upon cryptic and tautological statements of Chazal that require greater clarity. However, we should do our part by believing that that the redemption is coming and we  need to spiritually prepare ourselves. Our bad inclination is trying to distract us with politics. We need to put that aside and come together. Cry out for redemption and trust only in Hashem to help us. Let us pray that this is the year our speculation and uncertainty will end with the good news of his arrival.

Harold R.

 

Valuable Lesson

One lesson that this pandemic has taught us is that extravagant celebrations are simply not necessary. It boggles my mind that so many people go into debt and practically bankrupt themselves in order to pay for a single wedding. Weddings are supposed to be happy and joyous occasions. But how could they be under circumstances like this? Of course, weddings should be beautiful. But as has been proven over the last six months, a wedding does not need hundreds of guests in order to be beautiful. A wedding almost cannot help but to be beautiful, regardless of the length of the guest list or the simplicity of the venue. It is a time that is ripe for tefillah; the presence of the Shechinah is almost palpable.

Though none of us would have chosen a dangerous pandemic as the mode to learn this lesson, the lesson has been taught nevertheless. We do not need huge, expensive weddings. Extravagant flowers, bands, opulent halls – these are all window dressing. They do not matter to the main event, and their presence often is an impediment to the simcha of those making the wedding.

Sara B.

Election Day

A few things to keep in mind come Election Day. The community’s tax bill has risen since 2017.  We cannot afford another tax increase where personal deductions, property tax deductions, and state and local taxes are no longer deductible.  Worse, with a high standard deduction in most cases, the charitable deduction is useless. Then there is healthcare. We live in the richest nation on earth, yet healthcare is unaffordable. As New Yorkers we need a leader who will help New York.

Charles P.

 

 

“When you get a great deal, let me know.”

The most popular quote of 2020.  A lot of people have been telling me, “When you get a great deal, let me know.” There are a few problems with that, as it can mean different things to different people. Are you an investor who’s looking for a great deal? Do you only want to live within a six-block radius of your family? A great deal to you can mean $1.5M, but for someone else who doesn’t mind walking 20 minutes to their family, a great deal can be $900K.

I always ask people and listen to what they’re specifically looking for. What have you seen in the past few months that caught your eye, or was there something that didn’t appeal you? When someone who has seen 20 homes in the past few weeks, but not one of them has caught their interest or they thought the homes were all overpriced and haven’t even given a lower offer, I know that they need more time to understand the market. It’s all about market educating. I love educating my clients to where the market’s at and what’s available. You can’t look at something that was sold six months ago. Many times when I hear, “My neighbor sold last summer,” that means it was in contract for three to four months and was on the market for an additional three – to four months. That could be one and a half to two- years ago, and now you’re dealing with a totally different market.

So everyone thinks a great deal is something else. At our office, we have a great system of sending all our listings out. I always encourage those who are starting the home buying process to add their parents and relatives to our database, so they can see for themselves where the market is at. Many people are now looking for their children. They themselves bought their house 25 years ago at an entirely different price range, and there was no online home shopping then. What you saw was what you got. In the past, you called a broker, she offered five houses, and you took one of them.

I always advise clients to include their family members at the start of the home buying process. Obviously, they don’t have to see every house. Nowadays, there are many options available, such as virtual tours, videos, and links of what you’re looking for. That way everyone is on same page pricewise. I had a scenario this past year where there was a home that was a great deal. Five people saw it and one lucky buyer took it. One of the buyers who came knew that it was a great deal, but unfortunately, one of the family members only came to see this last house, they didn’t see the other houses. When he brought his parents, they felt it was too small and tried to lower the price. At the end of day someone else took it. I don’t like pushing clients.  If you like a home, I’ll work with you and assist with your needs or hesitations, but I’ll never push you. It’s your home and your decision.

Next time before you ask your agent if they have any good deals, try to be specific and be in the know.  Show up at open houses (obviously not that many right now), touch base, and give feedback. Sometimes, I don’t hear back from a client.  If you communicate exactly what your needs are, we can work together and I can offer the home that is best suited for you.

 

Corona & Closings?

Yes!!

Before COVID-19 most homes that were priced in the $1M range (anywhere from $700-800K up to $1.1- $1.2M), even if priced relatively well took a minimum of four to six months to go into contract. Now, due to historically low interest rates, if homes are priced well, the whole process can take about four to six weeks. There are plenty of buyers on the market, although we have definitely seen a surge of people moving out of Brooklyn, there are those that are staying and are actively looking.  Many are taking advantage of the low interest rates and homes are getting multiple offers. It is ultimately up to the seller.

Family Tree Required for Portuguese Citizenship

Sarina Roffé

Portugal’s two recognized Jewish communities, Oporto and Lisboa, have been flooded during the past few months with applications for a Jewish Certificate from Sephardic descendants around the world.

The certificate is a mandatory requirement for citizenship applications available to Sephardic Jews under a nationality law dated from 2015. Another requirement for the application process is a family tree prepared by a genealogist. The government has a specified format. Sephardic applicants need the family tree to go back four generations.

During the past few months, the number of American applications has swelled. Previously, most applicants were from Turkey, Brazil, Israel, Cape Verde, and Venezuela. There were over 41,000 applications in 2018 and nearly 80,000 in 2019. The exact number of American applicants is not yet known.

As a professional genealogist, our genealogy company, Sephardic Genealogical Journeys (www.sephardicgenjourneys.com),  has been handling applications for people in the community. Due to our attention to detail, the family trees our company has prepared have contributed to 100 percent approval of all applications our clients have submitted.

Many of the applicants want dual citizenship. And since you do not need to live in Portugal after receiving citizenship many people are applying. Some applicants also are interested in investing in the Portuguese economy. Medical cannabis is an especially popular area for Israelis who want to invest in Portugal. Many are drawn to the cheap land prices and off-grid living, with hundreds of Israelis buying small farms in areas around Coimbra and the Alentejo region.

Background

 Both Spain and Portugal passed legislation in 2015 to grant citizenship to descendants of Sephardic Jews expelled from Spain in 1492 and those forcibly converted in Portugal in 1497. Since Spain’s three-year legislation expired in October 2019, applicants are turning to Portugal. Jewish applicants do not have to prove they ever lived in Spain or Portugal, only that they are descendants of Sephardic Jews.

There were about 300,000 Jews who lived in Spain before 1492. As a result of the Spanish Expulsion in 1492 by King Ferdinand and Queen Isabella, it is estimated that about 90,000 Jews expelled from Spain ended up in Portugal.

More than 500 years later, both Spain and Portugal attempted to correct a moral wrong by allowing descendants to apply for citizenship. Citizenship in either country allows for access to the entire European Union, and a coveted passport.

Qualifications

The Jewish communities of both countries have guidelines for applicants. To obtain the Jewish Certificate, applicants need to provide proof of being Sephardic, have a family tree that goes back at least four generations to a Sephardic ancestor, some Jewish documentation (such as a ketubah), and a good letter from an Orthodox rabbi. The letter must be on letterhead and needs to provide the rabbi’s training and background, how he knows the applicants, and it must certify the applicant is a Sephardic Jew.

As a Portuguese citizen, you do not have to live or work in Portugal. You only need to pay taxes if you actually earn income in Portugal. Only those over 18 may apply, but children under 18 can apply when their parents become citizens.

The nationality law allows applicants to obtain a Portuguese passport and health insurance, open a local bank account, and study, live, and work anywhere in the European Union. A similar law was in effect in Spain from 2015 to 2019, but with much stricter requirements for residency and language, and with a clear end date. There is no end date for the Portuguese nationality law.

Three Steps to Obtain Portuguese Citizenship

  1. Obtain a Jewish Certificate by providing evidence you are Sephardic.
  2. Civil Application for Portuguese Nationality – a Portuguese immigration attorney must be hired for this step. Once the citizenship is approved, the government will issue you a Portuguese birth certificate.
  3. Apply for a passport – use the birth certificate issued by the Portuguese government to obtain a passport from the Portuguese Consulate.

 

Sarina Roffé is president of Sephardic Genealogical Journeys (www.sephardicgenjourneys.com). She is a professional genealogist and has worked on over 100 applications for community members applying for citizenship in Portugal. She has completed dozens of Sephardic genealogies. Sarina can be reached at sarina@roffe.com.

 

Simon Wiesenthal Center Honors One of Our Own

Pnina Souid

Last month, the Eastern Division of the Simon Wiesenthal Center held its fifth annual Heroes of Tolerance Awards Ceremony, established to recognize  leaders in the fight against anti-Semitism and injustice.

Among the four men to receive this prestigious award was our community’s own David Heskiel, Police Chaplain and Community Advocate. The other honorees were Mathew Dikovics, Michael Pock, and the Hon. Joseph Lagana.

Rabbi Aaron Kotler, CEO of BMG Lakewood

Ordinarily the event is held at Yankee Stadium in conjunction with the New York Yankees. The year, however, due to COVID-19 concerns, the Bousbib family of Englewood graciously accommodated all the participants in their spacious backyard.

The speakers included Michael Cohen, Director of the Eastern Division of the Simon Wiesenthal Center, Rabbi Aaron Kotler, President and Chief Executive Officer of Bais Medresh Gavoha (BMG) Lakewood, and Israel Nitzan, Acting Consul General of Israel.

The evening was also attended by the Mayor of Englewood and the Sheriff of Bergen County, among other notables.

David Heskiel with Engelwood Mayor Michael Wildes.

The Heroes of Tolerance Award goes specifically to those who have shown leadership in the fight against religious intolerance and bigotry. This award is designated to commend those who step up to the plate with positive actions despite the exceedingly difficult situation in  the world.

Michael Cohen publicly thanked David Heskiel for his constant support and assistance to the NYPD, the NY State Police, and numerous other law enforcement agencies.

David was commended for the positive actions he took during the COVID-19 crisis. David personally visited numerous police departments. He facilitated the distribution of meals to emergency personnel and helped with the acquisition and distribution of special masks for police officers.

David  quoted Simon Wiesenthal, leaving us all something to think about. “For evil to flourish it requires a few good men to do nothing.”

David Heskiel with NJ Senator Joe Lagana.

The Heroes of Tolerance Award recipients are a few good men who are doing as much as they can and more.

We are proud of our own David Heskiel, a man who is not taking a back seat, but has  become a leader and facilitator in the fight against social injustice and antisemitism in the midst of the worldwide challenge of COVID-19.

 

NYPD Pre-High Holy Day Briefing Held Via Zoom, Amid Pandemic, Tensions, and Soaring Crime

New York City will once again provide extra police presence around shuls during the holidays, police officials said last month at the annual NYPD “Pre-High Holy Days Briefing,” where Jewish leaders conveyed support for police during a period of soaring crime and anti-police sentiment.

The briefing has been the largest yearly get-together at One Police Plaza between police brass, rabbis, politicians, activists, and Jewish officials, usually over a bagel brunch. But due to the COVID pandemic, this year a more limited event was held via Zoom.

“It was in many ways a very different city back when this event started,” (over 40 years ago) Police Commissioner Dermot Shea said. “But what hasn’t changed is our commitment to your safety, and our resolve to make sure you can practice your faith freely and openly. During the High Holy Days, as always, you’ll see an increase of professional police presence at synagogues during times of services and events.”

An overarching theme of the speeches at the event was the rising wave of crime in New York. Anti-Semitic hate crimes continue to be a matter of concern in the city, despite a sharp decrease from 2019’s record-breaking levels.

There are currently no credible threats to the Jewish community in New York, officials stressed. The increased patrols around shuls are an annual event at this period in the Jewish calendar.

Jewish officials who spoke at the briefing said that while other communities are having difficult relations with police, and while many elected officials and other city and community leaders have been critical of police, they particularly wished to express the Jewish community’s support for New York’s Finest.

 New York City Warns of Coronavirus Spike, Including in Orthodox Communities

New York City Health Commissioner Dr. Dave Chokshi at a press conference at City Hall last month. (Ed Reed/Mayoral Photography Office)

New York City officials are urging continued vigilance in fighting the Coronavirus, as the city has seen a recent increase in COVID-19 cases in several neighborhoods, including some with large Orthodox Jewish communities.

In an email sent to Orthodox media outlets, Health Commissioner Dr. Dave Chokshi wrote, “The neighborhoods that have presented higher proportions of positive COVID-19 tests – when compared to adjacent areas – include the Forest Hills and Far Rockaway sections of Queens as well as the Midwood, Williamsburg, and Borough Park sections of Brooklyn. Moreover, we are receiving what we refer to as ‘signals,’ in smaller sections of these neighborhoods where there are anomalous spikes in cases.”

In a letter to the community late last month, Hatzalah warned of a recent uptick in cases. “While many of the cases appear to be relatively minor, there have been an increase in cases with more severe symptoms as well as hospitalizations and ICU admissions,” the organization wrote. “If we aren’t extremely strict and careful with following the recommendations of the CDC, State and Local Governments, and other healthcare professionals, we can, chas v’shalom, see a deadly resurgence.”

 

Magen David Yeshivah High School Holds 9/11 Memorial

Magen David Yeshivah High School commemorated the anniversary of the destruction of the twin towers on 9/11 with a memorial to Eli Chalouh, a”h (Class of 96), who was killed in the attacks. Students also watched webinars in their classrooms where survivors told their stories. The students had meaningful discussions with their teachers before standing for a moment of silence at 10:28am, the moment the North Tower fell, 19 years ago.

Between Car Pools – The Kid-Approved Healthyish No Mixer Oatmeal Cookie (Egg Free)

This is a kid-favorite breakfast treat (And guess what moms of allergic kids – there also happens to be no eggs or nuts!). All it takes is one bowl and about six minutes.

Everyone loves Quaker oatmeal cookies, but with a couple of sticks of margarine and the need to take out a mixer, we get hesitant. Rather, this is the oatmeal cookie that’s the go-to nowadays. They’re just as delicious and you can make them as wholesome – or not – as you like. We’ve made these with both white flour and white whole wheat flour, and honestly, the kids really didn’t know the difference. We’ve also used both coconut oil and regular oil. If you want to try to substitute the sugars for unrefined versions, I haven’t tried that, but you’re welcome to try. These substitutions, of course, don’t make a cookie healthy or light, but it does make it feel like a little bit of a better choice.

It takes about six minutes to get out all the ingredients and mix them together, which is another reason why I love this recipe. Just dump all the ingredients in the bowl. Just make sure to use that cookie scoop, it’s the easiest way to get this cookie dough onto the baking sheet.

Kid Approved Healthyish Oatmeal Cookie

1½ cups quick cooking oats
¾ cup flour OR white whole wheat flour
¼ cup sugar
½ cup brown sugar
¼ teaspoon baking soda
¼ teaspoon baking powder
A nice pinch of salt
1 teaspoon vanilla
½ cup oil OR coconut oil, melted
6 tablespoons milk (any type/ soy milk fine)
½ cup unsweetened shredded coconut

  1. Preheat oven to 375⁰F.
  2. In a bowl, combine oats, flour, sugars, baking soda, baking powder, and salt. Add in
    vanilla, oil, coconut, and milk until you’re comfortable with how the cookie dough is
    binding. Mix in coconut.
  3. Using a cookie scoop (I used a 1 tablespoon scoop), scoop dough onto a lined baking
    sheet. Press down slightly with your palm. Bake for 8-10 minutes, until golden brown at
    the edges and lightly golden on top. The cookies will be very soft when they first come
    out of the oven. If you like them crispier, you can bake for 10-12 minutes. Let cool for a
    couple minutes, then you’ll be able to pick up and enjoy!

 

Yield: 28 cookies

The Case – A Cash Advance

Solomon extended a five-year loan of $200,000 to his brother-in-law Danny back in 2018. The terms of the loan included monthly payments of $5,000 for 60 months. Although the loan was extended to Danny’s LLC, Solomon required Danny to sign legal documentation making him personally responsible for the funds. After making his monthly payments for two years, Danny expressed concern that he is paying interest of $100,000 to Solomon over the course of their five-year agreement. Solomon dismissed Danny’s concern, explaining that money extended to a corporation is not subject to Jewish law restricting interest. The two appeared before our Bet Din for clarification of the law and signed on a binding of arbitration to comply with our ruling.

Can Danny continue to pay his monthly payments uninterrupted? If not, what is to be done with the balance of the funds owed? Is Solomon required to forfeit collecting money over the amount of $200,000 even though two years already passed? How should the Bet Din rule and why?

Torah Law

According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch collecting interest on a loan is a severe Torah violation.  A Bet Din will require a lender to fulfill his Torah obligation and return the collected interest to the borrower. This ruling applies to any form of interest paid in violation of Torah law. As per interest paid in violation of rabbinical law the above ruling does not apply.

Leading halachic authorities rule that money lent to a corporation is not subject to Torah interest laws. The underlying reason for this exemption is because the borrower does not have any personal liability for the loan extended, the money is not viewed as a loan but rather as an investment. By Torah law, if a borrower is not personally liable, the money extended is not viewed as a loan. Hence, any dividend paid on account of the money received is not considered an interest payment but rather a return on investment.

This ruling is premised on the fact that should the corporation file for bankruptcy the owner is not personally responsible for the monies received, as they were borrowed by the corporation.

If a one personally accepts liability for a loan extended to a corporation, all Torah interest laws are applicable.

According to Torah law, if a loan with a stipulated interest clause was wrongfully extended, all paid interest is applied to pay off the principal. In short, a borrower may compel a lender to calculate his interest payments as a credit towards the unpaid balance of the principal. This remedy is obviously only relevant when the total sum of money paid by the borrower is less than the amount of the original loan. If the total payments including interest were made in excess of the principal, the additional funds must be returned to the borrower.

Contemporary halachic authorities suggest the following solution to resolve the violation of an active loan accruing interest. This solution is available for those who were unaware of the violation and wish to rectify their breach of Torah law. As aforementioned, all interest paid is first credited to pay off the principal. Thereafter, the borrower returns the outstanding balance in its entirety to the lender to pay off the original loan. The lender then promptly reissues the loan under the provisions of a proper heter iska. The heter iska document enables the lender to lawfully collect his profitable monthly payments for the newly extended loan. Additionally, it is permitted for the lender to structure this heter iska with a higher monthly percentage rate in order to receive the same monthly payments he originally received from the borrower.

 VERDICT: Reissuing the Loan

Our Bet Din restricted Solomon from continuing to collect monthly payments from Danny. Our Bet Din applied the two years of accrued interest to the principal loan and determined that the outstanding balance is currently $80,000. Since Solomon and Danny were unaware that it is strictly forbidden to lend with interest to a corporation with personal liability, our Bet Din implemented the decision of leading halachic authorities on the matter. We first instructed Danny to gather funds to repay the outstanding balance of $80,000. Once the loan was paid, we instructed Solomon to promptly reissue a loan of $80,000 to Danny. However, this time prior to the transfer of the loan, they signed a proper heter iska document. The heter iska document was structured in a way which enabled Danny to lawfully resume paying his five thousand-dollar monthly payments for three years.

Before Solomon and Danny signed the heter iska our Bet Din spent the time and energy to explain to them the rules and regulations of a heter iska agreement. By doing so we insured that Danny’s monthly payments were not halachically viewed as interest.

 

YOU BE THE JUDGE

The Rightful Heir

Jack wrote a handwritten last will and testament back in 2007. Upon his passing in 2019, the will was found with Jack’s papers in his safety deposit box.  The will was not prepared by a lawyer nor was it notarized or signed by witnesses. Jack simply fixed his signature to the bottom of a briefly written statement. In the will, Jack offered to gift his private home to the child that provides full time room and board for his son Joey, a child with special needs. In 2007, when Jack wrote the will, his only daughter was not yet married. In 2019, prior to Jack’s passing, his daughter, who was by then married, took Joey into her home for nearly six months before sending him off to a facility that provides for all of Joey’s needs. Jack’s daughter and son-in-law presented the handwritten document to our Bet Din claiming that their father legally gifted them his home since they provided room and board for Joey. Jack’s two sons acknowledged that they were aware of the document their father wrote before their sister provided room and board for their brother Joey, but they were nevertheless unwilling to transfer the property over to their sister.  The two brothers defended that it was not their father’s intent to gift his daughter the home for a mere six months of room and board. They explained that back in 2007 the circumstances were different and there was a real concern for Joey’s welfare.

Who should inherit the father’s home?

How should the Bet Din rule and why?

 

 

School in the Shadow of COVID-19 – A look at how our community yeshivot are dealing with the coronavirus

Mozelle Forman

The COVID-19 pandemic is primed to make the 2020-21 school year as challenging – if not more so – than the last.

The dreaded virus padlocked nearly every school building last spring in an historic disruption of education. Schools were forced to shift overnight to distance learning, while parents and students struggled with the logistics and limitations of technology. The virus caught the world unawares, and throughout the summer, a fierce debate raged about the safety of opening the schools, versus the danger to the social and emotional needs of children should remote learning be mandated. And, like everything else connected to COVID 19, there are no hard and fast answers.

To Open or Not to Open?

The latest data on the pros and cons of opening schools, despite the recent rise in Covid cases, falls heavily on the side of reopening.

Both the World Health Organization (WHO) and the American Academy of Pediatrics “strongly advocates that all policy considerations for the coming school year should start with a goal of having students physically present in school.” The CDC states: “Aside from a child’s home, no other setting has more influence on a child’s health and well-being than their school.”

The sudden lockdown of schools in the spring led to numerous social, emotional and academic disruptions to students despite the schools’ best efforts to shift to online learning. For many students, long breaks from in-person education are harmful to academic achievement.  For example, the adverse educational effects of summer breaks, known as the “summer slide,” are well-documented. Students can lose as much as 39 percent of their academic gains over the summer months. The prospect of losing several additional months of schooling, besides summer vacation, would likely have an especially severe impact on kids’ learning.

The CDC concludes that all “the available evidence provides reason to believe that in-person schooling is in the best interest of students, particularly when appropriate mitigation measures similar to those implemented at essential workplaces” are put into place.

These include, but are not limited to, social distancing, mask wearing, the ability to implement contact tracing, and enhanced sanitizing and disinfecting.

Citing scientific studies, the CDC states that “there have been few reports of children being the primary source of COVID-19 transmission among family members. This is consistent with data from both virus and antibody testing, suggesting that children are not the primary drivers of COVID-19 spread in schools or in the community.”

Additionally, children’s development of social and emotional skills is directly related to being physically in school. In an in-person school environment, children more easily learn how to develop and maintain friendships, how to behave in groups, and how to interact and form relationships with people outside of their family.

Community schools have risen to the challenge, committing themselves to meeting our children’s needs in the best possible way while ensuring to avoid, or at least minimize, the spread of the deadly COVID-19 virus.

“We Have to be Realistic”

One challenge schools are confronting is recovering the learning that was lost during the last several months of the 2019-20 academic year.

Mrs. Audrey Calvo, Assistant Principal of YDE Boys Middle School, acknowledges that remote learning in the spring may have affected the academic progress of students, but he believes that “the entire world is a little behind, so we are all at the same point, and eventually, all students will catch up.”

Standardized Achievement tests usually given at the end of the school year to assess progress were not administered at the end of the last school year, but are expected to resume in the spring of this year. For the current year, many teachers have been using assessment tools during the first few weeks of school to determine students’ progress – or lack thereof of – in order to revise curriculum. As one teacher put it, “We have to be realistic, [and realize] that we won’t get to everything on the usual schedule, and not get anxious about that.”

At Yeshivat Keter Torah, students are having two sections of math per day, to review and get caught up. Stephanie Kurtz, third grade teacher at Magen David Yeshivah, anticipates that there will be gaps in the achievement. “For the most part, we will still be teaching on grade level, and if a student needs more support, we will provide it.”

Safety First

Changes to classrooms and common areas were implemented, and some non-traditional learning spaces have been repurposed as classrooms.

For instance, a thermal temperature scanner has been installed at the entrance to the Hillel Yeshiva building, water fountains have been replaced with automatic and touchless water bottle filling stations at Magen David, and Keter Torah is now using the midrash to accommodate social distancing for its 8th grade.  At Hillel, signs and directional guidelines (providing for one-way traffic where appropriate) and hand-sanitizing stations in common areas and in each classroom have been added, and the ventilation systems have been upgraded.

All the schools have added partitions, either to students’ desks or between the rows, with YDE adding a partition in front of the teachers’ desks, as well.  Mrs. Calvo says, “This is a necessary step, but as good teachers do not sit at their desks, teachers will be wearing masks throughout the day.”

The CDC and WHO firmly believe that mask wearing reduces the spread of the virus, and all schools are adhering to this precaution, though there are different criteria for different age groups.  Mask wearing on busses and in common areas is mandatory at all schools. Some schools require masks in the classroom all day with scheduled mask breaks, while other schools are dispensing with masks in the classroom when physical barriers are available. Some educators, while understanding the need for the masks, see a downside as facial expressions, a key element in connecting with each other, will be obscured. One Rebbe at Keter Torah explained to parents that while he would be adhering to strict social distancing in the classroom, expanding on the six-foot requirement, he would not be wearing a mask in the classroom, because he felt that students would not be able to gauge his reactions to their behaviors and see his pleasure when they participate.

Mrs. Calvo elaborates, “Although I am worried about my own health and welfare, and wear a mask and a face shield when visiting the classrooms, nothing can replace the joy a child feels when I smile at him and say, ‘David, 100 on the math test – way to go!’ The lack of facial connection will be a great loss this school year.”

Cohorting

In order to limit students’ exposure to each other, to adhere to requirements for social distancing, and to manage contact tracing, all schools have adopted a “cohort” model for students.  According to the CDC, cohorting (sometimes called “podding”) is “a new term for a strategy that schools may use to limit contact between students and staff as part of their efforts to limit transmission of SARS-CoV-2 (the virus that causes COVID-19). These strategies work by keeping groups of students – and sometimes staff – together over the course of a pre-determined period of time. Ideally, the students and staff within a cohort will only have physical proximity with others in the same cohort.” This need for cohorts has necessitated many changes in the structure of classes.

The Magen David website explains the shift to single gender classes in grades 1-8.  “In grades 4-8, we have typically separated boys and girls for Judaic studies. This year, with the need for cohorts, we will be keeping the genders separate for general studies, as well.”

Most schools have adopted the policy of students remaining in the same classroom each day, and where applicable, teachers rotate between cohorts. While in the past, classes have been separated according to skill level, at MDY and Hillel, middle school classes will be tracked rather than leveled for individual subject areas. This means that students will spend the day with the same cohort for all subjects, instead of switching groups every period.

Another major challenge is transportation, especially in light of the delay in the opening of NYC public schools. When bus service commences, all riders will be required to wear masks, and, as the Department of Education’s Office of Pupil Transportation states, social distancing guidelines must be enforced on the bus, significantly reducing the number of students who can be accommodated on one bus. This means that many more parents will have to carpool their children. Magen David’s advice to parents vis-a vis carpools is to adhere to class cohorts as closely as possible. In an announcement to parents, the school pleaded, “Please understand that in mixed cohort carpools, children will be considered ‘close contacts’ and, if there is a positive case within the carpool, each student in that carpool will be required to quarantine.”

The Question No One Wants to Ask

The question on everyone’s mind, but which many prefer to avoid, is, how many positive cases will warrant closing down again?

And the answer is an unequivocal, nobody knows for sure.

The CDC offers this advice: “Schools should be prepared for COVID-19 cases and exposure to occur in their facilities. Collaborating with local health officials will continue to be important once students are back to school, as they can provide regular updates about the status of COVID-19 in the community and help support and maintain the health and wellbeing of students, teachers, and staff.”

Magen David’s policy when becoming aware of a confirmed case is to identify close contacts (within six feet, for ten minutes or more) of a person with a probable or confirmed case of COVID-19, and to notify the NYC Department of Health in order to gather information for the purpose of contact tracing and resuming normal school operations as allowable by law.

The Hillel Yeshiva website clearly and succinctly outlines the policy: “The school’s new temperature screening system will flag anyone who exhibits a fever of 100 degrees Fahrenheit or greater, and that individual will immediately be sent to the Nurse’s office, where a second temperature will be taken. If the second temperature is also above 100 degrees Fahrenheit, that student will be sent home.” The protocol proceeds as follows:

  1. PERSON A: Any person who tests positive for COVID-19

Must quarantine for ten calendar days (or the amount of days then currently prescribed by the CDC) AND submit a negative test prior to returning to in-person school.

  1. PERSON B: Defined as an individual who has been within six feet of a confirmed COVID-19 case for a prolonged period of time (approximately 15 minutes), whether inside or outside of school.
  2. Close Contacts: In the event of a positive COVID-19 case in a cohort, that cohort (i.e. class, and including any close contacts on the bus) will transition to remote learning for ten calendar days. It is recommended that these individuals get tested for COVID as well, although a negative COVID test will not be sufficient reason to return to school before the end of the 10-day period.
  3. Family Members: Any family members (i.e. siblings) of a positive COVID-19 case (Person A) will also be required to quarantine and learn remotely for ten calendar days. Family members will be required to wait this ten-day period AND submit a negative test result before returning to school. Unless a sibling exhibits symptoms and/or tests positive as well, his or her class will remain in live session.
  4. PERSON C: Defined as contact with a Person B.

This would include the class members of a sibling of a person who tests positive for COVID-19. No special precautions are necessary for this group.

As much as reasonably possible, the plan – and the hope – is that entire schools will not have to be permanently shut-down. But if necessary, administrators and teachers alike are confident they will be able to accommodate students more effectively than they did in the spring.

A Sigh of Relief

Parents are experiencing an overwhelming feeling of relief that their children have returned to in-school learning.

Jeanne Eliahou, mother of four children, pre-school to 7th grade, says that “keeping the children home has definitely had a negative impact on their academic achievement. The stress of the children being home all day, without any social outlets for them or breaks for parents, has taken a toll. I understand that for some children there is a higher risk of being in school, but for the most part I think it is best for most children.”

A teacher with elementary school age children of her own believes that Zoom is not effective for learning. “There is a lot for me to wrap my head around as a teacher and parent – we are taking a necessary risk – and part of me is sad to see how it has to be. But it is vital that we get on with our lives as safely as possible.”

Mrs. Kurtz presented the following report after her first day of teaching in Magen David:  “I noticed the typical first-day-of-school jitters – meeting the new teacher, learning about the classroom – not a ‘global pandemic’ fear. Overall, children are very resilient, and I believe they will be fine.”

With the safety measures put into place by our community schools, and with Hashem’s blessing, we hope and pray for everyone’s continued good health. We proudly salute and warmly thank our schools’ administrators, faculty and other staff members for their heroic efforts to fulfill the sacred mission of educating our precious children under these very difficult conditions, and we wish them and all students much happiness, health and success during what is certain to be a most unforgettable academic year.

 

Mabrouk – October 2020

Births – Baby Boy

David & Gabrielle Cohen

Mr. & Mrs. Aaron Manopola

Victor & Mirelle Kameo

Mr. & Mrs. Uri Cohen

 

Births – Baby Girl

Mr. & Mrs. Isaac Chrem

Mr. & Mrs. Benny Srour

Mr. & Mrs. Eliav Scaba

Mr. & Mrs. Max Sutton

 

Bar Mitzvahs

Avraham, son of Rabbi Mechael and Esther Semah

David, son of Rabbi Menachem and Rachel Haber

David, son of Abie and Linda Hakim

Yaakov, son of Avi and Victoria Dwek

Morris, son of Teddy and Ruthie Srour

Jojo, son of Richie and Merav Sayegh

 

Engagements

Jake Winitsky to Jacqueline Mamiye

Avraham Sutton to Miri Safdieh

Abie Chera to Bracha Seror

Solly Torkieh to Rena Weitzman

Weddings

Sammy Habbaz to Rakefet Marciano

Isaac Eastman to Gayle Zagha

Eliot Betesh to Linda Maleh

Isaac Kameo to Yvette Allaham

 

Dear Jido – October 2020

Dear Jido,

I recently retired so that I could help take care of my three-year-old granddaughter since daycare is so costly and her parents live from paycheck to paycheck. I have my grandchild Monday to Thursday, six hours a day. She rarely eats much, is very active, and now she will not nap. I am exhausted. I am out of ideas on how to keep her busy all day. I am 58, and lately I feel like I’m 88. Help!

Signed,

Exhausted

 

Dear Exhausted,

Famous story told by one of our Rabbis –

Man comes home from work, his wife is lounging on the couch and the house is “flying.”  Kids are a mess, toys are all over, supper is nowhere to be found. He asks in amazement, “What’s going on?” She calmly replies – “You know how you always ask me what do I do all day? Well, today, I didn’t do it.”

Well, today, women, mothers, grandmothers are being asked to do so much more. I’m thinking of starting a movement called “Mothers Are People Too.”  Not that fathers aren’t also, but it seems that over the last few months, the biggest burden has fallen on mothers (and, by extension, grandmothers).  They have become the teachers, drivers, schleppers, babysitters, innovators, entertainers, mentors, and referees for children of all ages. This is, of course, in addition to their everyday duties of mother and wife.

It’s not surprising that you are zonked.

There are many young families who find it necessary for both of the parents to work in order to make ends meet. And yet, somehow, Hashem provides.

I suggest you discuss with your daughter that the job is more taxing than you expected. Offer to reduce your hours, assist with the costs of a babysitter/play group or work out a dollar “support” plan that phases out over time (now that you are retired). It was a wonderful gesture on your part to agree to assist, but it is not your responsibility to bring up your grandchild.

Ease yourself out of the position. Your daughter will understand. And if she doesn’t, you can always become the charter member of the M.A.P.T. initiative.

Jido