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Kids Cooking with Chef Shiri – Nutty Ice Cream Tacos

Kids – See if you have what it takes to become a Junior Chef!

Adult Supervision Required.

Utensils Needed:

9×5-inch loaf pan

Pot holders

Measuring cups and spoons

Foil

Spoon

Small microwavable dish

Ingredients:

8 mini taco shells

⅓ cup milk chocolate chips

1-pint vanilla ice cream (or flavor of your choice)

3 tablespoons chopped nuts

Chocolate syrup

Let’s Get Started!

  1. Heat oven to 350 degrees Fahrenheit.
  2. Stand the taco shells up in the loaf pan.
  3. Heat the taco shells for 5 minutes, or until they are crisp and look light golden brown. Using the potholders, carefully take the loaf pan out of the oven. Let the taco shells to cool in the pan for 10 minutes.
  4. Leave the taco shells in the pan. Use the spoon to put 1 teaspoon of chocolate chips into each taco shell. Set aside the remaining chocolate chips — we will use them in Step 6.
  5. Place a ¼ cup of ice cream into each taco shell on top of the chocolate chips. Put the pan of tacos into the freezer for 15 minutes.
  6. While the tacos are in the freezer, put the remaining chocolate chips into the microwave-safe dish. Microwave the chips on High for 1 to 2 minutes, until the chocolate is smooth when you stir it with the spoon.
  7. Take the tacos out of the freezer. Use the spoon to drizzle the melted chocolate over the top of each taco. Then sprinkle the chopped nuts over the chocolate. Freeze the tacos again for at least 10 minutes so the chocolate gets hard.
  8. Top with chocolate syrup and serve.

Makes 8 Tacos!

Did You Know?

A single chocolate chip can give you enough energy to walk 150 feet!

The Peanut Wizard
In the early 1900s, Dr. George Washington Carver, known as the “father of the modern peanut industry,” discovered more than 300 uses for the peanut plant.

NUTTY ICE CREAM TACOS

Chef Shiri Says… 

One of the many special things about the peanut is its long shelf life. This means that peanuts can stay fresh on your shelf for months, and even longer when kept in the refrigerator.

Kids Cooking with Chef Shiri is presented by The Jewish World of Wonders

Prayer Pointers From

Buzz the Brachos Bee  

The words “‘Melech haolam” mean, “King of the world.” When you say these words in a berachah, you are saying that you know that Hashem created the food you are about to eat, and He also is in charge of where it goes and how it gets there. That means that Hashem knows who is going to eat every piece of food.

The Case – How Embarrassing!!

Audrey sent her daughter to a local elementary school. Unhappy with her daughter’s progress throughout the school year, she wrote a brief text to many members of the board of directors of the school complaining that her daughter’s sudden regression is the result of her daughter’s terribly under-qualified teacher. After detailing the teacher’s shortcomings, she added a genuine request not to disclose her complaint or identity to the teacher. Audrey’s wrote that her reasoning for the confidentiality was because the teacher was clearly an unstable individual who is likely to avenge the complaint in a fierce and uncontrolled manner.  Shortly thereafter, one of the board members, a friend of the teacher, showed the teacher Audrey’s nasty text message. The teacher was appalled by the audacity of the text and was mortified that her employer and other staff members might actually believe it. The teacher turned to our Bet Din and complained that the text was only written because Audrey’s son was going through a bitter divorce with her niece. The text message was not only false, it was deeply embarrassing. The teacher explained that she is in so much distress that she can barely show her face in school. Although she believes that because of her good reputation as a teacher the text will not cause her to lose her job, nevertheless, she is seeking financial compensation for the anguish of embarrassment and defamation of character. The teacher added that only via payment authorized by a Bet Din can her name and status be rightfully restored. Audrey defended that her complaint is truthful and unrelated to her son’s divorce, and thus, she is unwilling to compensate the teacher.

How should the Bet Din rule, in favor of Audrey or the teacher, and why?

Torah Law

According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch, by letter of the law one who humiliates another with words alone is not liable to provide monetary compensation to the victim. Nevertheless, a Bet Din will consider the mental anguish suffered by the victim and impose a mitigated payment on the offender. Early halachic authorities emphasize that verbally humiliating another with slander or the like is a severe crime and can result in penalty measures against the offender beyond mere monetary compensation. People of a community are to value the status of their membership by maintaining respect and good will for one another.

Leading halachic authorities debate whether mitigated payment is required in instances in which one knowingly caused humiliation to another with a constructive intent. A primary example of this is one who breaks an engagement to be married. Some authorities view the breaking of an engagement as a form of embarrassment that requires monetary compensation. Although the decision not to marry is clearly constructive, meaning it is not done in order to hurt the other party, nevertheless, one is consciously humiliating the other when cancelling an engagement. Many halachic authorities differ with this ruling, and exempt payment for this type of humiliation. According to this view, an offender is liable to provide compensation only when he deliberately embarrasses a victim. If, however, the intent is not to humiliate, but rather is of a constructive nature, no liability is incurred.

Generally, Sephardic congregations world-wide do not impose payment for the humiliation caused by a broken engagement. However, this practice of not requiring payment is strictly regarding the humiliation and mental anguish sustained. Other costs or financial losses are subject to adjudication, and payment may be required.

Interestingly, one halachic authority rules that if an offender sinfully exposed factual information that led to the humiliation of another, no monetary liability is incurred. However, even according to this opinion, the offender is required to provide evidence that his humiliating statement is indeed true. In the absence of clear evidence, he is responsible for damages. Some qualify this exemption, applying it only in instances in which it was productive to expose the derogatory information. However, most halachic authorities impose liability for publicizing derogatory, humiliating information about another, even if proven true.

In instances in which the information is crucial to privately reveal to another in order to protect his welfare, a competent halachic authority should be consulted.

A Bet Din will analyze whether the intent of an offender was solely constructive, based on whether he or she acted excessively. Excessive behavior is sometimes a sign of an ulterior motive.

A Bet Din will seek to promote peace by arranging a settlement between the disputing litigants.

YOU BE THE JUDGE

The Wig Party

Sara ordered a custom-made wig from Yocheved, a local sheitel macher, at the whopping price of $3,500. Upon payment Sara brought her new wig home, only to hear comments from her family members that the wig was clearly not worth the price. Sara ignored the ongoing comments for a while, but when her mother-in-law expressed her disappointment with the wig’s quality, Sara called Yocheved and demanded a refund. Since Sara has been a regular customer for years, Yocheved agreed to take the wig back and make the necessary changes to improve its quality. Yocheved suggested to Sara during a phone conversation that if Sara was not satisfied with the wig after repairs, she would consider reimbursing her with a thousand dollars. Sara replied that she felt that a thousand-dollar refund is the least Yocheved should do. Sara sent the wig back to the store with Debbie, her neighbor, who was going there anyhow. Debbie did some shopping on the way and negligently lost the wig in a department store. Admitting to her negligence, Debbie was willing to pay $2,500 for the loss of the wig. Debbie explained that Sara herself acknowledges that the wig is worth only $2,500. Furthermore, Debbie claimed that Yocheved already consented to paying Sara the additional thousand dollars. On the other hand, Yocheved claimed that she is by no means willing to participate in the loss since she intended all along to improve the wig’s quality and not reimburse Sara a thousand dollars.

The three appeared in our Bet Din to resolve the dispute.

How should the Bet Din rule and why?

Whether or Not You Learn Daf Yomi… Amud Weekly is For You

Rabbi Raphael Netanel

The exhilaration of the 13th global Siyum HaShas, and the dramatic scene of 90,000 people dancing jubilantly in MetLife stadium – along with thousands more in Barclays Center and at numerous large gatherings throughout the world – has had a profound impact upon Jews everywhere. The joy and excitement surrounding the completion of the Talmud has inspired us all, and has driven us to commit ourselves to advance in our Torah study.

In an attempt to harness this newly reignited passion for Torah, Agudath Israel of America has launched a wonderful initiative under the title Ki Hem Hayenu (“For They are Our Lives”), whereby communities take upon themselves various learning programs. While the programs all differ from one another, they nevertheless will bind the Jewish People together in the joint, concentrated effort to grow in Torah learning.

The rabbis of our community conceived of a beautiful way to capitalize on the excitement generated by the recent Siyum for the sake of promoting Torah learning. Rabbi Meyer Yedid, in partnership with over 40 other rabbis from the community, have launched a program called Amud Weekly, which involves the study of one amud – one side of a page of Talmud – each week.

This program is tailormade for those who wish to study Talmud at a slower pace than the daily Daf Yomi system. Perhaps even more importantly, Amud Weekly seeks to bring together the entire community, from those opening a Gemara for the first time, to experienced and advanced students. Classes will be taught in virtually every community synagogue, on a variety of levels, ensuring that every community member will be able to find the framework that is right for him.

A special website – AmudWeekly.com – has been created to widen the reach of this exciting initiative. The website offers the following features:

  • Live broadcasts of Amud Weekly classes, and recordings of past classes;
  • Recordings explaining every Tosafot;
  • An up-to-date list of Amud Weekly classes in the community;
  • A precise calendar of the learning schedule;
  • A special hazarah (review) system to encourage review of the material;
  • A weekly, in-depth “be’iyun” class, delving into the intricate details and discussions of the commentators surrounding that week’s page;
  • A special print-out for Shabbat.
  • A ten-minute video breaking down that week’s page into six daily segments.

Amud Weekly offers the opportunity to not only expand and deepen one’s Torah knowledge, but also to bring together the entire community. Wherever one goes and meets other community members, they can immediately bond over the material they are both studying. The program is perfectly suited for fathers and sons, friends, neighbors, or even perfect strangers who happen to meet in a waiting room, in an airport, at a simcha, on a train, or anywhere else.

What makes Amud Weekly so special is that the pace of study makes it perfect for people of all backgrounds. For beginners, Amud Weekly offers a far slower, more manageable pace than Daf Yomi, allowing them to gradually and patiently hone their skills. For experienced students of Daf Yomi, Amud Weekly is the perfect way to supplement their Daf Yomi learning by devoting some extra time to mastering one amud each week.  And for advanced scholars, Amud Weekly is the perfect way to focus on, and delve into, a specific piece of Gemara every week, thus allowing them to combine breadth with depth.

The founders of Amud Weekly and its devoted team of teachers and volunteers invite all community members to come together through this exciting undertaking, through which they access the unparalleled merit of talmud Torah derabim – communal Torah study, which will, no doubt, elevate our entire community to greater heights of Torah knowledge and Torah devotion.

For more information about the Amud Weekly program, please visit amudweekly.com.

View from the Trees In a Rut? Don’t Despair, Tu B’Shvat is Here!

Rabbi Ephraim Nisenbaum

The 15th day of Shevat, Tu B’Shvat, is called the New Year for Trees. Strictly speaking, this title draws a legal distinction related to the laws of tithing in the Land of Israel. Tithes must be separated from any produce grown in Israel before it may be eaten. In a given year, the fruit taken as tithe from one tree may represent the owner’s other trees of the same species. However, one year’s fruit may not be tithed for another year’s harvest.

Tradition teaches the new year for fruit begins on the fifteenth of Shevat, because most of the winter rains will have passed and the sap of the new growth has begun to flow: the dormant tree is waking from its winter sleep. A tree that blossoms before Tu B’Shvat is considered last year’s produce; if it blossoms after Tu B’Shvat, it belongs to the new year.

Other than the day’s significance for tithing, there is no source in the Talmud or Midrash for celebrating Tu B’Shvat. Yet, from later sources we find many customs regarding the celebration of Tu B’Shvat: the practice of eating various fruits; the custom of dressing in one’s Shabbat finery for the new year for trees, because the Torah compares the human being to a tree (Devarim 20:19).

Let us examine the comparison between man and trees in order to understand the message on Tu B’Shvat for humankind.

The tree goes through cycles in its life. The heavy-laden tree of summer empties itself of fruit in the autumn, and then slowly loses its leaves, one by one. By winter time, the tree stands shorn of its previous glory. For all purposes, it appears to have died.

But then comes Tu B’Shvat. In the midst of the cold winter days, when all vegetation seems frozen or dead, the sap of the tree starts to flow beneath the surface bark. Rising slowly from roots buried in the hardened soil, the sap pushes its way up, pumping new life into outstretched branches that reach towards the heavens.

In life, we too often go through cycles of growth. Periods of renewal and growth may alternate with times of stagnation or dormancy. Rabbi Shlomo Wolbe cites that this cycle is part of man’s nature. He adds that a person must not become disillusioned when spiritual growth seems halted; the “low” period will usually be followed by a “high” period that will yield new opportunities for growth.

That is the message of Tu B’Shvat: Even when we feel lethargic, in a rut, and seem to have lost the drive to achieve, we must not despair. Just as winter is an annual hiatus in the life cycle of trees, so bouts of lethargy and unproductivity are necessary phases in the human cycle. Just as with the coming of spring, life-giving sap moves imperceptibly through the trees to branches stretching to the sky, so we too will have renewed energy from deep within our spiritual reservoirs, so long as we set our goal heavenward.

Proper Care and Maintenance Required

There is another message in the New Year for Trees. There is a difference between trees and annual plants. Although trees require some regular maintenance, they produce fruit each year without any new planting. Plants and vegetables, on the other hand, must be reseeded each year in order to grow.

If a tree is not given proper care, however, it will die. Man is like the tree. With good maintenance, we need not start over from the very beginning with each goal we set for ourselves. We can build on past accomplishments to go even further. But, as with the tree, we require the proper care to avoid spiritual damage and to grow anew.

Tu B’Shvat inspires us to remember our similarity to the tree. We must be careful to protect ourselves, in order to strive towards greater achievements without having to constantly start over again from scratch.

Rabbi Ephraim Nisenbaum is the founder and director of the Jewish Learning Connection, an outreach organization in Cleveland, Ohio. This article was an adopted excerpt from his book, Powerlines: Insights and Reflections on the Jewish Holidays, published by Targum Press.

 

One on One with Miriam Wielgus

Despite our Ashkenazi roots, my husband and I ended up in a largely Sephardic environment.  We joke that between the two of us we have the entire Sephardic community covered!”

Ellen Geller Kamaras

Sharing Miriam’s life story with my readers is particularly meaningful for me.  Miriam taught Jewish history to my children at Yeshivah of Flatbush Joel Braverman High School (“Flatbush”) and I have sat next to her in shul several times.  When I think of Miriam, I picture her power walking with her friends in Marine Park and serving as a trendsetter and positive role model for the girls at Flatbush.  My daughter referred to the modest Junee shirts that I purchased for her as “Mrs. Wielgus tops.”  Miriam’s warmth and vibrant energy always came through when we would interact.

And yet, when I interviewed Miriam I found out she was much more multi-faceted than I had imagined.  Here is her story.

Family History

Miriam Schonbrun Wielgus, daughter of Gitty and Chaim Schonbrun, grew up in Boro Park, Brooklyn in a family with Hasidic roots.  In fact, Miriam’s first language was Yiddish.  Her father miraculously survived the Holocaust as a baby, and Gitty, whose parents were Romanian, was born in Germany in a Displaced Persons (DP) camp at the end of World War II.  Chaim’s roots were in Krakow, Poland. From there his parents were deported to Treblinka, leaving their 20-month-old son Chaim with his 18-year-old aunt, Chaya Rivka. Chaim’s adoptive parents emigrated to Canada after the war, and it was there that Chaim grew up and married his bashert, Gitty.

“I was the oldest of four siblings, all brothers, which explains why I was a tomboy as a kid and grew to love sports.”

When Miriam described of her childhood, her love of sports and her curiosity took center stage.  Her favorite sports activities are cycling, running, and snowboarding. Miriam modestly describes herself as a good student (she was the eighth grade valedictorian and was the editor of her high school yearbook). Additionally, Miriam was more inquisitive about the outside world than most of her peers.  She was educated in the Bais Yaakov school system from kindergarten through high school, and spent her gap year in Israel studying at the BJJ seminary in Jerusalem.  The average Bais Yaakov high school graduate in those days did not continue on to college. Miriam, however, convinced her father to allow her to register at Touro College, a Jewish institution.

Meeting Her Naseeb

Miriam met her husband, Chaim Wielgus, who is three years older than she is, when she was a senior in high school at a New Jersey Shabbaton.  They were both volunteers for JEP, a kiruv organization that conducted many educational programs for kids with little or no knowledge of Judaism.   However, given their strict religious upbringing, Miriam said “they didn’t dare date” until she returned from Israel.  She attended Touro for two years and transferred to Brooklyn College after she and Chaim were married.  Miriam took a Jewish history class at Brooklyn College with Professor David Berger, who became her mentor. He encouraged her to pursue a graduate degree in Jewish history.  Her next stop was Columbia University where she earned a master’s degree and M.Phil. in Jewish history, while teaching and raising her children.

Hashem blessed Miriam and Chaim with five children and eight grandchildren, who they adore.

Teacher and Innovator

Miriam has been teaching since she was 19, when she returned from seminary in Israel.  “I always loved teaching. My passion is Jewish history. I started at a Russian school for two years and taught Jewish history and other Judaic studies classes at different elementary and high schools.  My dream, or so I thought, was to teach college.  Eventually I was hired to teach European history at Touro College during the evenings.”

Teaching night classes was challenging for Miriam, given that her own children were in school during the day and were home in the evenings. Then, as “luck” would have it, another mentor of Miriam’s, Professor Elisheva Carlebach, recommended Miriam for a job teaching Jewish history at Flatbush around 21 years ago.  Miriam has been there ever since, and views her career at Flatbush as the biggest blessing.  “I consider Flatbush my second family and I absolutely love my job teaching ancient, modern, and Sephardic history. I’m also the guidance counselor for girls contemplating a year of study in Israel after graduation.”

Miriam became the Department Chair when the prior one, my former teacher, retired. Miriam is consistently inspired by the members of the administration, who encourage her to grow as a teacher and to bring new and exciting programs to the students.  Around ten years ago, Rabbi Levy approved Miriam’s introduction of “Sephardic History” as an elective. This has proven to be a valuable addition to the curriculum, given the growing Sephardic student population.  Miriam takes advantage of available technological resources and is a big believer in engaging her students in experiential, and not only textbook learning.  For example, there are a variety of trips for students. These include both local excursions to museums as well as overseas trips to Israel, Spain, Morocco, and Gibraltar, where students have become impassioned about the subject matter.   Other examples of fun and appealing learning opportunities are “Music on Mondays” and “Tasty Tuesdays” (cooking classes).

Finding a Niche in the Sephardic World

And guess what?  Despite both Miriam and Chaim’s Ashkenazic roots, they both ended up in a largely Sephardic environment.  Although Chaim’s primary job is VP in a mortgage company, he is also a rebbe who has been teaching seventh graders at Magen David Yeshiva for 30 years!  Miriam teaches many students that were formerly his. “My kids joke that we sound more Sephardic than Ashkenazi because our Hebrew havara has been ‘Sephardicized’ after years of teaching in the community.”

Miriam expressed her special affinity for the Sephardic community’s history, food, and culture.  She is convinced that she has some Sephardic ancestry. “The only thing preventing me from doing an ancestry.com test is my fear that I will be greatly disappointed should no Sephardic lineage appear in the results,” Miriam quipped.

Passion, Purpose, and Positivity

After her family and teaching career, Miriam’s greatest love is sports!   Her husband is not super athletic and none of her children are as athletic as she is.  However, they all support her and are proud of her feats.  As a matter of fact, Chaim recently bought her a new bike rather than jewelry!

How does she feel when she cycles or runs?  “I feel a thrill and am so alive when I do sports. I clear my head and sports allow me to live in the moment, not worry about problems, and appreciate my health.  I enjoy my surroundings and the environment, it’s almost a spiritual experience.”

Miriam plays tennis on Wednesdays and ice skates every Friday.  Snowboarding is another favorite of hers, and she snowboards with her students on the senior ski trip.  Miriam also runs regularly and is a proud member of OPR, Ocean Parkway Runners.  Miriam has done several half marathons and hopes to run the NYC full marathon next November.  She was the Flatbush track team coach for two years and was the coach for Flatbush children running the Disney Marathon for Sephardic Bikur Holim.  Miriam is also a serious cyclist and has done numerous charity rides for Tour de Simcha, NCSY, and The Next Ride in Israel, which raises money for prosthetics for Israeli amputees.

Miriam’s life purpose is to enjoy every moment.  She advocates embracing life and making one’s own happiness. “Make the most of your time here. Life can be fabulous, so don’t focus on what you don’t have and be grateful for what you do.”

Health and Life Balance

How does Miriam do it all?  Her secret is to aim for a healthy work-life balance. “You can’t have it all, so you need to prioritize. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Truthfully, cleaning the house and dusting the furniture are not what’s important to me.  I am one of the original proponents of self-care.  Make sure you make time for fun and activities you enjoy. It’s the little things in life that provide the greatest pleasure.”

Miriam’s immense appreciation for her good health and ability to engage in the sports she loves led her to donate a kidney altruistically last year.  “I don’t take my health for granted.  I’ve experienced a number of sports related injuries, including a biking accident that resulted in a helicopter evacuation and a crushed collarbone. I feel a tremendous hakarat hatov to Hashem for all the blessings in my life and wanted to pay it forward.”

Miriam wants people to know that there are no negative side effects to kidney donation, besides having to take Tylenol instead of Advil afterwards, Her physical health and capacity to do sports, B”H, are as good as they were before.

Her next projects?  Miriam wants to expand the number of electives in Jewish history. The principals allow Miriam to run with new and innovative ideas, so she can’t get stale as a teacher.

Advice to Students

Follow your passion. “I wanted to be a psychologist because my aunt became one, and then I realized I was passionate about Jewish history.  If you love something, run with it even if you think it’s not lucrative.  You will find a way to make it work.”

 

 

Straight Talk

Is the recent rise in anti-Semitism something to worry about?

Absolutely! How could we not worry about it?

But we have to know that there is a fundamental reason why it’s happening – because Hashem is worried about us. We’re too involved in gentile ideas, and so there is a need to erect a wall. That wall is anti-Semitism. This happens again and again throughout history – when Jews start getting lost among gentiles, it’s time for the gentiles to begin building a wall to prevent that.

The first reaction to anti-Semitism should NOT be to contribute to the organizations that combat anti-Semitism. No, no! In most cases, those organizations cause anti-Semitism. The way to combat anti-Semitism is to build more yeshivot where children will be accepted for lower, more affordable tuition. The yeshivot should be so prosperous that they should be able to afford to accept children almost for nothing. That’s the ideal. The Jewish child, sitting in the yeshiva, will then be the one fighting against anti-Semitism in the most effective manner.

What is the best way to console a mourner when paying a shivah call?

The best thing you can do to provide comfort to a mourner is to come and show yourself. That’s the consolation. Just honoring him by coming –  that’s already a consolation.

If the mourner is really broken, then you have to use words that are suited to the occasion. But you cannot give one prescription that suits everybody. If a person is of a philosophical bent, then you talk to him about Olam Haba [the next world] and about this world being only a temporary place; you can talk about how a man who deserves reward was taken by Gd to Gan Eden, and he is enjoying all the great promises that Gd promised to those who serve Him. Whatever it is, there are ways and means of consoling each person according to his level of intelligence.

Some people are obtuse; they’re not intelligent, so you can’t tell them anything. So, all you can say is, “How are you, cousin Jake?” That’s all you can say. Actually, you shouldn’t say, “How are you,” because this is a greeting which one may not extend to a mourner (see Yoreh Dei’ah 385:1). But you can speak to him about ordinary things, and that’s the only consolation you can give him. So, it all depends on his level of intelligence.

Is the recent rise in anti-Semitism something to worry about?

Absolutely! How could we not worry about it?

But we have to know that there is a fundamental reason why it’s happening – because Hashem is worried about us. We’re too involved in gentile ideas, and so there is a need to erect a wall. That wall is anti-Semitism. This happens again and again throughout history – when Jews start getting lost among gentiles, it’s time for the gentiles to begin building a wall to prevent that.

The first reaction to anti-Semitism should NOT be to contribute to the organizations that combat anti-Semitism. No, no! In most cases, those organizations cause anti-Semitism. The way to combat anti-Semitism is to build more yeshivot where children will be accepted for lower, more affordable tuition. The yeshivot should be so prosperous that they should be able to afford to accept children almost for nothing. That’s the ideal. The Jewish child, sitting in the yeshiva, will then be the one fighting against anti-Semitism in the most effective manner.

What is the best way to console a mourner when paying a shivah call?

The best thing you can do to provide comfort to a mourner is to come and show yourself. That’s the consolation. Just honoring him by coming –  that’s already a consolation.

If the mourner is really broken, then you have to use words that are suited to the occasion. But you cannot give one prescription that suits everybody. If a person is of a philosophical bent, then you talk to him about Olam Haba [the next world] and about this world being only a temporary place; you can talk about how a man who deserves reward was taken by Gd to Gan Eden, and he is enjoying all the great promises that Gd promised to those who serve Him. Whatever it is, there are ways and means of consoling each person according to his level of intelligence.

Some people are obtuse; they’re not intelligent, so you can’t tell them anything. So, all you can say is, “How are you, cousin Jake?” That’s all you can say. Actually, you shouldn’t say, “How are you,” because this is a greeting which one may not extend to a mourner (see Yoreh Dei’ah 385:1). But you can speak to him about ordinary things, and that’s the only consolation you can give him. So, it all depends on his level of intelligence.

A Woman’s Perspective on The Siyum HaShas

Esther P.

Attending the 13th Siyum HaShas in MetLife Stadium is not an easy experience to put into words. And yet, to let the memories fade without capturing them and preserving them would be a missed opportunity. So, I will attempt to convey some of the inspiration I felt in the hopes that it will not be lost, but will continue to touch and motivate us for as long as we can hold on to it.

You might ask why is this event so challenging to portray? The simple answer is because it was a larger than life experience. The 90,000-seat stadium was full of Jews who gathered together for the purpose of celebrating the achievement of thousands of individuals. These individuals span the globe, and have completed the journey through Shas in seven and a half years. Each one of those people undertook the commitment to learn Torah every day without exception, toiled and persevered, and then realized the completion of this monumental task. While this would be a cause for celebration had just one individual reached this milestone, when multiplied by the multitudes who completed learning all of Shas, the celebration became magnified on a universal scale.

Celebrating Torah and Jewish Unity

Since the study of gemara is an assignment unique to men, I have neither completed Shas nor learned one masechet. I have not even learned one daf. But the celebration belonged to me in a very real way because I am a member of the Jewish people, whose essence and lifeblood is Torah. The Siyum HaShas was not only a source of joy for the ones who made the siyum. The nation united to proclaim that our identity is Torah. Torah is our happiness, our pride, and our life. That message belongs to every Jew, whether he or she is a member of the Daf Yomi movement or not, and the message of Jewish unity provided by Torah learning is a real reason to rejoice.

To me, the single most inspiring aspect of the Siyum HaShas was the sheer number of people who showed up in the cold in the middle of the day. Attending this event meant either taking time off from work or school or spending a precious vacation day, driving out to MetLife Stadium in East Rutherford, NJ, and sitting outdoors in the cold for hours. Yet the 90,000-seat stadium was not large enough to accommodate everyone who wanted to participate. When the event coordinators saw that the tickets were selling out fast, they opened another venue to hold an additional 30,000 celebrants who did not want to miss the opportunity to be part of the historical event. Because an occasion that acknowledges who we are as a people is not one to ignore.

Upon entering the stadium, one felt the anticipation and energy palpably. Men, women, and children of all ages and all walks of life were coming together for a bonding celebration that would serve to unite us all. Every mesayem was completing the same Talmud, at the same time, in the same place. After R’ Shmuel Kamenetzky completed the last few lines of the last masechet and recited the Hadran prayer with deep emotion, the entire stadium erupted in exultant singing and dancing. From the rabbis on the dais to the attendees on the floor and throughout the stands, there was a genuine, pulsating exhilaration that fused everyone together and made everyone feel part of a larger whole. Live hookups to locations all over the world were projected on screens, which showed Jews dancing and celebrating the siyum.. Everywhere there was dancing of triumph, of pride, and of unity.

Spotlight on Jewish Survival

It was also a testament to the survival of our nation. Although we have been persecuted and attacked throughout the generations, we are very much alive. Not just alive in body, but alive in spirit and soul. Interviews were shown with Holocaust survivors expressing their wonder at the vibrancy of the Jewish people, who have experienced the worst suffering but have prevailed and rebuilt Torah all over the world. The fact that we as a nation have reached this milestone is nothing short of miraculous.

A Deep Feeling of Connection

The program continued into the evening and culminated with thousands of Jews praying Arbit together. There was deep intensity as they loudly proclaimed Shema Yisrael together and answered Kaddish as one entity. But when everyone stood up and prayed the silent Amidah, the silence was deep and profound, as each participant connected with the Creator of the world on his own personal level.

And that was really the theme of the day. That each individual has a distinct role to play in the structure of our people, and that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. The accomplishments of an individual are exponentially more valuable when combined with the achievements of many, many others who are all carrying out the will of the same Father and who are following the principles of the same Torah. When we reach that awareness and that goal, it is indeed a cause for a celebration on the scale of the Siyum HaShas.

Spotlight on Security Detail at the Siyum HaShas

Frieda Schweky

Imagine an event at a sports stadium filled to capacity with over 92,000 people, where not even one disturbance or altercation occurred throughout an entire day. It hardly seems possible! But on Jan 1st, 2020, at the 13th Siyum HaShas celebration held at MetLife Stadium in East Rutherford, NJ, that’s exactly what happened.

Anti-Semitic Attacks Spur Expanded Security Detail

Due to the recent increase in  anti-Semitic attacks in the NYC area, the event required massive security, far above what was required previously. The event celebrated the completion of the Daf Yomi learning program, whereby participants around the world learn the same page of Talmud every day for a cycle lasting roughly seven-and-a-half years. Many in the crowd were celebrating their own completion of Shas. Others came as an expression of achdut, to experience the celebration with fellow Jews, and to show honor to the Torah. In the crowd were chief rabbis, prominent community leaders, politicians, and other dignitaries. An estimated 350,000 take part in learning Daf Yomi around the world. The celebration at MetLife Stadium was broadcast live to over 20 countries, where similar celebrations were taking place simultaneously. Even nearby in Brooklyn, the Barclays Center was packed with Jews watching the siyum held at MetLife live via satellite.

Law Enforcement Out in Force

NJ State Troopers preparing comunication equipment for the siyum.

Preparations for the siyum at MetLife began two years prior,  and the security and safety preparations began months in advance. David Heskiel, Police Chaplain, NYPD Clergy Liaison, and special Liaison for Councilman Chaim Deutsch, was involved in the planning and coordinating of the security team for the siyum held at MetLife. David worked closely with the New Jersey State Police Superintendent Colonel Patrick J. Callahan and state police brass. Additionally, David joined the FBI special agent in charge of Newark NJ, Gregory W. Ehrie, in working out security details.  NJ Homeland Security Director Jared Maples also played a key role in the security detail. Approximately fifty different law enforcement agencies were involved in protecting the participants at the siyum.

Over 350 uniformed NJ state troopers were inside MetLife Stadium during the event. Many were stationed at all the exists, and directed traffic on what they called “siyum detail.” A large number of Hatzalah members were present at the siyum, and ambulances fully stocked and prepared for emergencies were standing by. Agents from the FBI were also on duty to ensure everyone’s safety. The head FBI agent looked on and took pictures in amazement, telling David he was eager to show and tell his wife about this amazing experience. He also said he had never seen anything like this in his lifetime and he was very moved.

Siyum Sparks Kiddush Hashem

People who have worked in the stadium for years were amazed by the orderly and gracious behavior of all the participants throughout the event. It is rare, if not unheard of, that an event of this size was pulled off without any  fights or disturbances whatsoever. During prayers, the crowd was so silent you could hear a pin drop.

Chabad emissaries were on their usual mission to find any Jew who had not donned tefillin that morning. They actually managed to find a couple of men who had not, and helped them do so.

You may have heard the story of the NJ state trooper who pulled over a Jew the day after the siyum, asked if he had learned his page yet, and told him if he promised to complete learning the page he would send him off with a warning instead of a ticket., But  many may not have heard the following story: Two years before the Siyum HaShas at MetLife, Sol Werdiger, Chairman of the Board at Agudath Israel, was at the stadium  in order to reserve it for January 1, 2020. There with Mr. Werdiger were two secular Jews, the owner of the stadium and the man who built it. The builder told the other two that he just had to get something off his chest. He admitted that after taking ten years to build such a stadium, his work seemed futile. The arena would be used for people to have a few beers and watch a game, nothing very significant at all. He declared that now he knew Gd’s plan and intent for him in building this arena was in order for this very event to take place. He said it brought meaning to what he does and brought him happiness as well. Mr. Werdiger was stunned to hear this from a secular Jew. It was totally unexpected, and so very meaningful.

Siyum HaShas Brings Honor to the King

When the organizers of the siyum first considered where to hold the main event, they were concerned about staging it outside during the chilling East Coast winter. One proposal was to hold the main siyum simultaneously in five different indoor venues in New York, New Jersey, and Philadelphia, with live hook-ups between them. However, the Moetzes Gedolei HaTorah of Agudath Israel decided to hold the main siyum in one place, based on the principle of b’rov am hadrat melech, that Gd’s honor is increased when a large number of Jews gather in the same place. Indeed, the 13th Siyum HaShas was a testimony to Gd’s honor and to honoring Torah learning. Baruch Hashem, the celebration concluded with not only an absence of fighting or disturbances, but with not even one emergency.

SIYUMIM Around the Nation

Rabbi David Ozeri speaking at the siyum in Los Angeles.

Our community rabbis were asked to speak and give hizuk to thousands of people at various siyumim across the country.

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA

On January 5, over 2,000 men and women from Los Angeles’s Jewish communities gathered to celebrate the Siyum HaShas. Agudath Israel of California, headed by new Executive Director Rabbi Yisroel Gelb and longtime Chairman Dr. Irving Lebovics, organized the event. Rabbi David Ozeri was the keynote speaker.

CHICAGO, ILLINOIS

Rabbi Meyer Yedid addressing the crowd at the Siyum HaShas celebration in Chicago.

The Siyum HaShas in Chicago was a tremendous success, with an attendance of about 3,500 people. Rabbi Meyer Yedid inspired the crowd with divrei hizuk. Rav Shmuel Fuerst, Dayan for Agudath Israel of Illiniois, was mesayem Shas, using a Masechet Niddah printed in the DP camps that belonged to Mr. Nachi Shabat.

MONTREAL, CANADA

Rabbi Joey Haber at the podium at the Siyum HaShas in Montreal.

Over 1,600 men and women from Jewish communities across Montreal gathered in an unprecedented display of unity. Rav Yonatan Binyomin Weiss, Chief Rabbi of Montreal, delivered divrei beracha, and Rabbi Joey Haber electrified the audience with a most powerful message.

The “Religious” Sinner

Why is it any less “religious” to eat non-kosher or violate Shabbat, than to be rude or to deceive people?”

The Book of Shemot might be described as the book of miracles.  Numerous remarkable miracles, of many different kinds, occur throughout this book.

In Egypt, the women among Beneh Yisrael conceived and delivered sextuplets, leading to a supernatural population explosion.  Gd appeared to Moshe in the vision of a bush that was on fire but was not consumed.  He gave Moshe three miracles to perform for Beneh Yisrael to prove that Gd spoke to Him, such as turning his staff into a snake.  Gd performed ten miraculous plagues and then split the sea to free His nation from Egyptian bondage.  When they entered the desert, He provided them with food that fell each morning from the heavens, and water from a supernatural well that traveled with them.  He miraculously helped them defeat the nation of Amalek which attacked them.  And then they arrived at Mount Sinai, where He revealed Himself to them and gave them the Torah.

But there was also another miracle – one which is far less known, but certainly no less important.

Fifty/Fifty

At the time when Beneh Yisrael received the Torah at Mount Sinai, sacrifices were offered, and a special ritual was performed with the blood.  As the Torah tells at the end of Parashat Mishpatim, Moshe divided the blood into two halves, one of which he placed in containers, and the other half was poured over the altar.  He then sprinkled some of the blood on the people, announcing, “This is the blood of the covenant which Gd has struck with you…” (Shemot 24:8).

Rashi, based on the Gemara, comments that in truth, it was not Moshe who split the blood into two halves.  This was done by an angel, sent especially by Gd for this purpose.  The blood needed to be divided precisely equal, with not even 1 cc added to or missing from either half.  No human being is capable of such precision, and so Gd dispatched an angel from the heavens (!!!!) to come along and divide the sacrificial blood to produce two exactly equal halves.

We must ask, why was it so important for these halves to be so precisely equal?  What could have possibly gone wrong if the division was off by 1 cc?  Would this negligible discrepancy have had any effect on the process of Matan Torah?

We understand the need for ten miracles to punish Pharaoh and the Egyptians, and to prove Gd’s unlimited power, which they denied.  We understand the need for a miraculous means of sustenance as Beneh Yisrael journeyed through the dry, searing, uninhabitable desert.  But it seems very difficult to understand the need for a miraculous division of sacrificial blood.

Rav Yitzchak Hutner, the famed Rosh Yeshiva of Yeshiva Chaim Berlin here in Brooklyn (1906-1980), offered a powerful explanation.  The division of the sacrificial blood at the time Matan Torah, he said, was profoundly significant.  It represented the two basic categories of laws contained in the Torah – ritual laws, and interpersonal laws.  And so they needed to be precisely equal.

As we know, the Ten Commandments, which constitute the blueprint of the entire Torah, were engraved on two stone tablets, with five commandments written on each.  The first tablet featured the commandments “ben adam laMakom” – that govern our relationship to the Almighty – and the second featured the commandments “ben adam lahavero” – that govern our relationship to our fellowman.  The Torah refers to the two tablets as “sheneh luhot ha’edut – the two tablets of testimony.”  Our sages noted that the Torah did not have to emphasize “sheneh” – that they were two tablets, because the word “luhot” is written in the plural form, which already informs us that there were two stones.  The emphasis of “sheneh,” the rabbis teach us, indicates that the two slabs of stone were precisely the same size.  The point being made – and strongly emphasized – is that neither area of religious life is more important than the other.  One cannot embrace only the Torah’s ethical, interpersonal code while ignoring its ritual requirements, and one cannot follow only the ritual obligations while ignoring the interpersonal responsibilities which the Torah imposes.  The two tablets were therefore precisely the same size – to teach us that the weight and gravity of the two basic categories of obligations are precisely equal.

Significantly, the first word of the Ten Commandments is “Anochi – I,” a reference to Gd, and the final word is “rei’echa – your fellow.”  The entire body of the Ten Commandments is ensconced in this duality.  At the heart and core of Torah is the notion that we have responsibilities and obligations both to Gd and to our fellowman.  These two cannot ever be separated from one another, because both are equally integral to the religious lives that we are to lead as Gd’s chosen nation.

How important is this concept?  So important, Rav Hutner writes, that an angel was sent from the heavens to make sure that neither portion of sacrificial blood would be a fraction of a milliliter larger than the other.

As remote a possibility as it was that anybody would have noticed such a slight discrepancy between the two basins – it was VITALLY IMPORTANT that the two halves were exactly equal.  Gd needed to impress upon Beneh Yisrael, and upon Jews for all generations, that there is absolutely no possibility of affording greater importance to one area of Torah over the other.  He needed to make it absolutely clear that both areas of responsibility are precisely equal.

This is why a miracle was necessary.  The “equality” of the two sections of Torah is so fundamental, and so essential for us to recognize, that superhuman precision was needed to produce the symbolic representation of these two sections.

The Mistake of Religious Compartmentalization

This might help solve a mystery regarding Matan Torah that many commentators grappled with.

In the Torah’s account of the events, we find Beneh Yisrael making two different proclamations.  When Moshe first came to them and conveyed to them the laws he had heard from Hashem, they responded, “Kol hadevarim asher diber Hashem na’aseh – All the words that Gd has spoken, we will observe” (24:3).  Moshe then constructed an altar, ordered the offering of sacrifices, and split the blood.  At that point, Beneh Yisrael made their more famous proclamation: “Kol asher diber Hashem na’aseh venishma – All that Gd has spoken, we will observe and we will hear” (24:7).  Why did the people repeat their declaration of commitment to the Torah after the blood was split into two halves?  And why did they first announce only, “na’aseh – we will observe,” and then announce, “na’aseh venishma – we will observe and we will hear”?

The word nishma actually does not mean “we will hear.”  The more accurate translation of the verb sh.m.a. is “understand,” or “comprehend.”  Thus, for example, when we proclaim, “Shema Yisrael Hashem Elokenu Hashem ehad,” what we are saying is not, “Hear, O Israel,” but rather “Understand, O Israel.”  And thus “na’aseh venishma” really means, “We will observe and we will understand.”

Developing this point further, the words “na’aseh” and “nishma” refer, respectively, to different categories of mitzvot: “na’aseh” expresses commitment to those laws which we can only “observe,” without fully understanding them.  This is the faith and commitment we pledge to the Torah’s ritualistic commands, which we cannot fully comprehend.  By contrast, “nishma” expresses commitment to those commands which we can understand, the Torah’s ethical code which is aimed at creating a peaceful, harmonious, just society.

Initially, Beneh Yisrael proclaimed only “na’aseh,” figuring that it sufficed to pledge their commitment to the Torah’s ritualistic obligations, to the laws ben adam laMakom.  After all, they mistakenly thought, if they are entering into a covenant with Gd, then they needed to commit to do His will, to fulfill their obligations to Him.  Interpersonal laws, they assumed, were not included in the covenant they were forging with Gd.

Precisely for this reason, Moshe proceeded to offer sacrifices and have the blood divided into two halves with supernatural accuracy.  He wanted to correct the people’s very dangerous mistake, the mistake of religious compartmentalization, the perception that religion is only about ritual, about our obligations to Gd, and does not govern our interpersonal conduct.  He showed them that the two halves are exactly equal, that neither tablet can ever be given primacy over the other.  Our obligations to our fellow are not one iota less vital to the Jewish religion than our obligations to Gd.

The people then responded, “na’aseh venishma” – that they pledged their commitment to both tablets, to both areas of the Torah, and will be equally devoted to the Torah’s ethical code as they will be to the Torah’s ritual code.  Upon seeing the miraculous division of the blood, they recognized that they needed to make a dual commitment – a commitment to fulfill their responsibilities to Hashem, and a commitment to fulfill their responsibilities to one another.

“Tug-of-War” at the Foot of Mount Sinai

Unfortunately, as we know, the great heights which Beneh Yisrael achieved at the time of Matan Torah did not last.  Just 40 days later, they plummeted to astonishing depths.  Gripped by terror when Moshe did not return from atop the mountain when they had expected, they did what we might call a “theological about-face,” turning their backs on everything Moshe had taught them.  They fashioned a golden calf which they then worshipped, amid frivolous merrymaking and festivity.  Moshe came down the mountain and was greeted by this dreadful spectacle, and he took the two stone tablets and threw them to the ground, shattering them.

Avot De’Rabbi Natan teaches that Moshe faced some resistance before he threw the tablets.  The nation’s elders saw what Moshe was planning to do, and they rushed to stop him.  They wanted to prevent him from shattering the sacred stone tablets, upon which Gd had Himself engraved the commandments.  A “tug-of-war” ensured, with Moshe ultimately prevailing.

Why did the elders resist?  Why did they oppose Moshe’s decision to break the tablets?

One rabbi explained that the elders did not see any reason why Beneh Yisrael forfeited the right to receive Gd’s commands.  After all, they violated only the first two commandments: the command of “Anochi Hashem Elokecha” – to believe in Gd’s existence – and the command of “Lo yiheyeh lecha Elohim aherim” – which forbids worshipping other deities.  The elders felt that since Beneh Yisrael had rejected only these two commands, there was no need to deny them the other eight.

Moshe disagreed.  He understood, and he needed to show, that the commandments are all connected.  We cannot accept some and discard others.  If Beneh Yisrael abrogated the first two clauses of the “contract,” then they abrogated the entire thing.  There cannot be any “picking and choosing.”  The Ten Commandments comprise a single, integrated entity, and disregarding part means disregarding all.

Our sages teach that Gd congratulated Moshe for taking this bold measure of shattering the tablets.  It was a drastic, surprising decision, but Gd approved.  It was vitally important for Moshe to dispel the notion that part of the Torah can exist without the rest.  He needed to show – even at the expense of the stone tablets he had received from Gd – that we must embrace the entirety of the Torah, and cannot commit ourselves to one part but not the other.

This perspective is reinforced by the mitzvah of mahasit hashekel – the half-shekel tax that all Jews were required to pay to the Bet Hamikdash, a mitzvah that we commemorate on the special Shabbat known as Shabbat Shekalim, which we observe on the Shabbat before Rosh Hodesh Adar.  The Talmud Yerushalmi teaches that this half-shekel payment serves to atone for the sin of the golden calf.  The Biblical shekel consisted of 20 gerah (an ancient measurement of weight) of gold (Shemot 30:13), and so a half-shekel consisted of 10 gerah.  The Talmud Yerushalmi thus explains that the half-shekel payment atones for the people’s violation of the Ten Commandments when they made the golden calf.

Indeed, Moshe was absolutely correct.  By transgressing the first two commandments, the people transgressed all ten commandments – because it’s a “package deal,” and we cannot ever accept some of the mitzvot but not the others.

The “Religious” Jew Who Eats on Yom Kippur

The Gemara (Baba Metzia 59b) tells the famous story of a debate that raged between Rabbi Eliezer and his colleagues regarding the status of a certain type of oven (“tanur shel achnai”).  Rabbi Eliezer maintained that the oven is susceptible to tum’ah (ritual impurity), and other sages disagreed.  In order to prove his position, Rabbi Eliezer performed several miracles, such as making the water of the nearby stream flow the opposite direction.  His colleagues refused to yield, noting that miracles are irrelevant in the process of halachic decision-making.  They proceeded to take all the food which Rabbi Eliezer had declared tahor (pure) according to his view, and burn it in his presence to make it clear that they rejected his ruling.

The Talmud Yerushalmi comments that Rabbi Eliezer was, quite obviously, well aware of the principle established by the Torah in Parashat Mishpatim (23:2), “ahareh rabim lehatot” – that we follow the majority opinion.  However, he refused to yield to his colleagues’ decision because they burned the food in his presence.  The Korban Ha’edah commentary explains that in Rabbi Eliezer’ view, rabbis who act discourteously, without proper derech eretz (manners), are not qualified to rule on matters of halachah.  Their opinion simply did not count once they acted with disrespect.  Those who disregard one part of Torah cannot be considered adherents of, let alone authorities on, other parts of Torah.

It is told that people once came to a certain rabbi and asked him what he thought about religious Jews who are dishonest in their financial dealings.  He replied, “They’re the same as religious Jews who eat on Yom Kippur.”

The people asked, “What do you mean?  How could a Jew who eats on Yom Kippur be religious?”

The rabbi said, “And how could a Jew who acts dishonestly be religious?”

There is something very skewed about our perspective if we can consider a discourteous, arrogant, selfish, insensitive, or dishonest person “religious,” but we cannot consider somebody who eats non-kosher food “religious.”  Why does the neglect of ritual mitzvot make somebody “not religious,” but the neglect of the Torah’s ethical doesn’t?  Why is it any less “religious” to eat non-kosher or violate Shabbat, than to be rude or to deceive people?

At the time of Matan Torah, an angel was needed to show the people the equality between the ritual laws and the interpersonal laws.  If only we had an angel to teach us this lesson in our day, as well.  Rabbis speak so often, and so passionately, about the vital importance of decency, honesty, good manners, etiquette, and respect and consideration for other people.  And yet, there are still, sadly, many Jews who pray three times a day, who study Torah, observe Shabbat, maintain the strictest standards of kashrut – but simply aren’t nice people.  I cannot even begin to imagine how any Jew can consider himself “religious” if he is rude or dishonest, if he observes the Torah’s rituals but ignores the Torah’s ethics.  It simply makes no sense.

As we read this month about Matan Torah, let us renew our commitment to the entire “package” – and always remember that we are “religious” only if we wholeheartedly accept both areas of the Torah, without even considering the possibility that one can exist without the other.