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Different Types of Heating: What’s Best for You?

Karen Behfar

Now that we’ve officially hit the cold winter weather, there’s really one thing and one thing only on most (if not all) of our minds – HEAT.  When looking into different heating options for your home you’ll want to know what choice makes the most sense for your home and your family.  The choices you make in terms of heating a home or building can lead to a lot of different impacts in terms of cost, home construction, and management. Here’s a profile on some of the common options and their benefits.

Radiant Heat – There are a lot of different sources you can use to take advantage of radiant heat, which is essentially transferring infrared waves around the home. This can range from using a wood stove to an electric heater to radiators connected to a central boiler. Major benefits are the fact that it’s clean, easy to maintain, and also allows you to zone certain areas of your house based on your heating needs. This costs around $11 per square foot on average.

Central Heating – The benefits of opting for this system include paying less on your bills, being able to heat up parts of your home instantly rather than waiting with radiant heat, as well as lower carbon dioxide emissions. $4,000 to $20,000 is the cost window that has been reported for installation. There can be a large swing depending on your needs and property size.

Gas Heat – Compared to electric heating, gas is a fraction of the price, which is instantly appealing for those on a tight budget. Along with this, it’s also efficient to run, and is reliable. Since natural gas pipelines run underground, you don’t have to worry about rough weather affecting your heating. Expect an $1,100 to $1,300 average cost.

Oil Heat – Oil heat is considered one of the safest and most efficient methods when it comes to heating a home. Compared to other fuels, it’s not combustible and is naturally stable in terms of upkeep. Oil heat flames also burn hotter than natural gas, which can be an asset in cold climates. Expect a $2,000 to $2,300 average cost.

Water Heaters – Modern water heaters are not only efficient, but are also relatively compact in terms of size, which can be an asset to smaller properties. They are also extremely easy to operate and adjust as needed. They generally have different zonings so every zone/floor can be a different temperature as needed.

The Truth Behind Federal Pacific Electric Panels

Part of being a homeowner is wanting to be able to protect yourself and your family no matter what arises. Naturally, the idea of your home itself being a potential threat to your family isn’t something you want to think about, but this is the case with many older homes across America and Canada that have electric panels installed by Federal Pacific.

The major issue here revolves around the Stab-Lok circuit breakers, commonly present in homes that are built with Federal Pacific panels between the 1950s and 1990s. The major issue with these is the fact that, since the 1980s, multiple tests conducted on the breakers have shown that roughly one in four of them are defective and won’t properly trip off. The role of breakers in a panel is to protect your home from electrical issues by tripping, that is shutting down power to the circuit in the event of power surges or circuit overload. If this does not happen, you suddenly have a huge increased risk of fire in the panel and in your home.

What’s particularly insidious about this issue is the fact that the panel can work perfectly fine for most of its lifetime, only to develop this issue when the breaker is actually needed. At the time the news story first broke in the 1980s, the Consumer Product Safety Commission never actually issued a recall, and closed its investigation due to budgetary issues, despite determining there was a problem. Because of this, homeowners with older properties should check their panels to see if they were installed by Federal Pacific between 1950-1990.

Changing the panel can cost as low as $1,200 approximately, but it’s super important and is many times overlooked.

 

Habits of Highly Effective People – PART II

Tammy Sassoon, M.S. ED

In last month’s column we discussed the first 3 habits in The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, which are about taking control of your own life. Habits 4, 5, and 6 are about enjoying healthy relationships with others, and habit 7 is about taking care of yourself so you can live habits 1-6 with strength and joy. Below is a brief summary of habits 4 through 7.

Habit 4: Think Win­Win

Most of us learn to base our self-worth on comparisons and competition. We think about succeeding in terms of someone else failing – that is, if I win, you lose; or if you win, I lose. Like, as if there is only so much pie to go around, and if you get a big piece, there is less for me;

it’s not fair, so I’m going to make sure you don’t get any more. We don’t have to play life’s game that way because we know that Hashem has enough resources and success for everyone.

Win-win sees life as a cooperative game, not a competitive one. Win-win is a frame of mind and heart that constantly seeks mutual benefit in all human interactions. Win-win means agreements or solutions are satisfying to you AND to the other person.

Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood

Communication is one of the most important skills in life. We spend years learning how to read and write, and years learning how to speak. But what about listening?

Most people seek first to be understood; they want to get their point across. And in doing so, they may unintentionally ignore the other person completely, pretend that they’re listening, selectively hear only certain parts of the conversation, or attentively focus on only the words being said, but miss the meaning entirely. So why does this happen? Because most people listen with the intent to reply, not to understand. We listen to the other person as we prepare in our minds what we are going to say, the questions we are going to ask, etc. And consequently, we decide prematurely what the other person means before he/she finishes communicating.

People who seek first to understand have much better communication skills and learn much more than most people who seek first to be understood.

Habit 6: Synergize

To put it simply, synergy means “two heads are better than one.” To synergize one must make a  habit of creative cooperation. It is teamwork, open-mindedness, and the adventure of finding new solutions to old problems. Synergy lets us discover jointly things we are much less likely to discover by ourselves. It is the idea that the whole is greater than the sum of the parts. One plus one equals three, or six, or sixty – you name it.

When people begin to interact together genuinely, and they’re open to each other’s influence, they begin to gain new insight. The capability of inventing new approaches is increased exponentially because of differences.

Valuing differences is what really drives synergy. Do you truly value the mental, emotional, and psychological differences among people? Or do you wish everyone would just agree with you so you could all get along? Differences should be seen as strengths, not weaknesses. They add zest to life.

Habit 7: “Sharpen the Saw”

If you take the time to sharpen your saw it obviously works more efficiently. This means preserving and enhancing the greatest asset you have – yourself. It means having a balanced program for self-­renewal in all areas of your life: physical, social/emotional, mental, and spiritual.

As you renew yourself in each of these areas, you create growth and change in your life. “Sharpen the Saw” keeps you fresh so you can continue to practice the other six habits. You increase your capacity to produce and handle the challenges around you. Without this renewal, the body becomes weak, the mind mechanical, the emotions raw, the spirit insensitive, and the person selfish.

Study and practice these 7 Habits in order to help you reach your goals, and enjoy the process as you are on life’s journey.

 

 

Is It A Sign from Hashem?

Rabbi David Ashear

If a person tries to do something good but obstacles come in the way, he should not interpret this to mean that Hashem wants him to stop. We do not know how to interpret “signs.” Our job is to try our hardest to do what is correct, and make every effort to surmount any obstacles that we confront along the way. For all we know, Hashem may have placed the obstacles in our way for the precise opposite reason: so we can earn more reward by having to invest extra effort to overcome the hurdles. Only after one has tried his hardest, there is nothing left to do, and he sees his efforts did not succeed, should he then conclude that Hashem, in His infinite wisdom, felt that this undertaking should not work out, and he should accept Hashem’s will joyfully.

For example, if a person wakes up early to pray with a minyan, but when he goes outside he sees his car is blocked, he should not say, “I guess Hashem does not want me to go to shul this morning, so I won’t go.” Instead, he should explore other ways of getting to shul. For all he knows, Hashem may have decided to present this challenge so he can overcome it and his prayers will then be especially powerful, and that day he needs a powerful tefillah. If, however, one made every effort to get to shul, but through circumstances beyond his control he missed the minyan, then he should accept the facts that Hashem, for whatever reason, did not want him to pray with a minyan that day.

This lesson applies to many different areas in life. We do not know how to read “signs,” and we should not even try. We should always just make our best effort to do what is right.

One area in which this lesson is especially relevant and important is shidduchim. Sometimes the road is bumpy and laden with large obstacles. When things do not work out immediately, one should not rush to decide that Hashem does not want the shidduch to come to be. Instead, he or she should try to do what seems to be in his best interests, and only if all efforts fail can it be conclusively determined that Hashem did not want this shidduch to work.

In the Torah, we find two stories of shidduchim: one which was completed very quickly and smoothly, and another which was plagued by hardship before working out for the best. And both were quite clearly Hashem’s will. In Parashat Chayei Sarah, we read that Avraham sent Eliezer to find a match for Yitzhak. Avraham did not give any detailed instructions, saying only that Eliezer should go to Avraham’s homeland and find a girl. We might have expected this to be  a difficult process, with so little information to work with, but in a matter of several hours the right girl was found and the shidduch was finalized.

Later, in Parashat Vayeitze, we read that Yaakov Avinu’s parents sent him to Paran Aram with very detailed instructions, telling him to marry one of Lavan’s daughters. It looked like it would be a very simple and straightforward process, but in the end seven years passed until Yaakov was able to marry, and even then he was given Leah, and not the daughter he preferred to wed. At that point, we might have expected him to say to himself, Look, what can I do? It must be that Hashem does not want me to marry Rachel. But this is not how he approached the situation. He persisted, doing what he thought was the right thing, and ultimately married Rachel. As it turned out, these obstacles that had to be overcome are what enabled Yaakov and Rachel to have children together. Our sages teach that Rachel was physically incapable of conceiving, but Hashem gave her the ability to bear children in reward for her giving the signals to Leah before her wedding to Yaakov, to spare her embarrassment. It was specifically because of the difficulties they confronted that the shidduch worked out as well as it did.

Dear Jido – January 2020

Dear Jido,

I have a 10-year-old daughter who does not want to go to school anymore. She says that she doesn’t fit in and that the other kids pick on her. She wants to stay home and get home schooled. Meanwhile her younger brother goes to the same school and he loves it and is doing well. She argues with me about this all the time and I just do not know what to do.

Any advice?

Signed,

Potential Home Schooler

 

Dear Potential,

The sage advice offered by the Department of Education is to:

  1. Tell your child how much you love her
  2. Build up her self-confidence, and
  3. Involve her in projects that build her self-esteem.

All worthy notions, but they don’t address the problem.  Youngsters need friends and have to feel part of a peer group.  Keeping her home and teaching her knitting isn’t going to help. And besides, that is only running away from the problem, not making it better.

Bullying has become a nagging issue in our community schools. Boys, and now girls, are teasing, taunting, and excluding those who are not part of their “group.” Unfortunately, this clique-ish behavior is reinforced by some of the parents who support the idea of remaining above and aloof from others.

The first solution is to let the teacher know what is going on in her classroom.  She is responsible for teaching and enforcing good behavior – at least during school hours. Without pointing out the culprits, you have to explain how your child is being treated by her classmates.  She needs to observe the interactions between your daughter and her classmates during class, lunch, and recess. A perceptive teacher will determine who is at fault and must act to make everyone in her classroom feel accepted.

If that does not work, you must speak with the principal and members of the administration.  Chances are your daughter is not the only one who is made to feel like an outsider.

Teaching proper midot is an essential part of a yeshivah education. You will be doing your daughter and her school a big hesed in bringing to light what is happening in the classrooms. With a special emphasis on “va’ahavta lere’acha kamocha” being presented in the classroom, your daughter will feel right “at home” in school.

J.

 

 

What is The Largest Kosher Fish?

The female blue marlin is the largest kosher fish in the sea. Female blue marlins, which can grow up to four times the weight of males, can reach up to sixteen feet in length and weigh over 1900 pounds! Males rarely exceed 350 pounds.

The blue marlin is quite a magnificent creature, with deep cobalt blue coloring on top, a silvery-white belly, and a very distinct dorsal fin. But its most noticeable feature is its long upper jaw that is spear-shaped, and extremely deadly. Blue marlins use their “spear” to slice and slash their way through a large school of their chosen prey, and then turn and come back to eat the dazed and wounded fish. They feed mainly on mackerel and tuna, but will also dive deep in the ocean to prey on squid.

Blue marlins are also among the fastest fish in the ocean, swimming up to 60 mph. They are found in the tropics and subtropics of the Atlantic, Pacific, and Indian Oceans. Blue marlins are migratory, which means they will move to warm ocean currents, hundreds and even thousands of miles away, every winter.

No Fishing! 

Although various types of kosher animals and birds qualify as korbanot, no type of fish is allowed to be brought on the Mizbei’ach as a sacrifice.

A Closer Look At…

Why the Blue Marlin Is Kosher

The blue marlin and the swordfish look very similar, and both fish are members of the billfish family – yet one is kosher and one is not!

One of the signs that a fish needs to have (see Torah Connection below) to be considered kosher is kaskesses, which is generally translated as scales. According to the Torah, real scales are those that can be easily removed without damaging the fish’s skin.

The swordfish does not seem to have scales when one looks at it. However, some say that it has scales but they are embedded so deeply into its skin that it is impossible to remove them without making a hole in the swordfish’s skin. Others say that it has kosher scales but only on parts of its body, and even those scales fall off during the swordfish’s development. As the accepted rule, the swordfish is not considered kosher.

The scales of the blue marlin, on the other hand, can be properly removed without tearing the fish’s skin. So, despite resembling the non-kosher swordfish, the blue marlin is kosher, as it has the requirements necessary for a kosher fish.

(Rabbi Y. Ephrati wrote a psak in regard to the blue marlin being kosher in the name of Rav Elyashiv, zt”l, in a teshuvah dated 11 Elul, 5763.)

Torah Connection

The Torah (Vayikra 11:9) gives two signs that determine if a fish is kosher: fins and scales. In order for a fish to be kosher, it must have both of these signs. According to the Gemara (Niddah 51b), any fish that has scales also has fins. So, if one is certain that a particular fish has scales, it is considered a kosher fish.

However, there are certain conditions that the scales need to meet in order to be considered real scales by the Torah. They must be visible to the naked eye (Aruch Hashulchan 83:15), and they must be easy to remove, whether by hand or with an instrument, without tearing the skin of the fish.

Examples of fish that do have scales but are not kosher include the sturgeon and the sand lance. The sturgeon has scales, but its scales are classified as ganoid, which means they are covered in a hard substance that’s similar in texture to fingernails. These scales cannot be removed without tearing the skin. The sand lance may have tiny scales, but they are not visible to the naked eye.

Any sea creature that does not have fins or scales is not kosher, regardless of whether it is scientifically classified as a fish or whether it actually resembles a fish. This means that whales, prawns, shellfish, octopuses, lobsters, crabs, and shrimps are all not kosher.

                                                             

 

An Interview with Dr. Manfred Gerstenfeld about Today’s Worldwide Anti-Semitism

Machla Abramovitz

Decades after the Holocaust, anti-Semitic sentiments are, once again, openly expressed throughout Western democracies.  Within the UN and other corridors of power, the world’s only Jewish country – Israel – is under attack, while threats of genocide by Iran are ignored.  On the streets of Europe, violence against Jews has escalated.  These attacks are at times rationalized as anger directed against Israeli policies. Britain’s Labour Party is beset by accusations of antisemitism, while its leader finds it hard to publicly apologize to Jews for their justified concerns.

Dr. Manfred Gerstenfeld, a noted authority on contemporary anti-Semitism, has carefully analyzed this escalating phenomenon since his retirement in 2000. Dr. Gerstenfeld, 82, was born in Vienna, educated in the Netherlands, and made Aliyah in 1968, where he pursued a career as an international strategic business consultant.  An esteemed scholar, Dr. Gerstenfeld authored 16 books on contemporary anti-Semitism, including breaking studies on European anti-Semitism. His myriad of articles has appeared in the Jerusalem Post, The Begin Sadat Center for Strategic Studies publications, and the news site Arutz Sheva (Israel National News).  On December 1, Dr. Gerstenfeld gave the keynote address at the 31st annual gala of the Canadian Institute for Jewish Research (CIJR) in Montreal.  He presented an overview of contemporary anti-Semitism with a specific focus on right and left wing, progressive, Muslim, and Christian anti-Semitism.  He also spoke about the priorities necessary to effectively combat the world’s “oldest hatred.”

Dr. Gerstenfeld was kind enough to take the time to answer the following questions  for Community Magazine.

CM: According to an ADL global study, over one billion people, covering 89% of the world’s population, are classic anti-Semites. This figure does not include those who consider themselves to be anti-Israel. Classic anti-Semitism (religious and ethnic/nationalist) targets the Jewish religion as well as Jews as a people. Moreover, studies conducted in 100 countries indicate that of the 75% of people who have never met a Jew, 25% of them harbor anti-Semitic attitudes.  After the Holocaust, how do you explain these shocking percentages?

MG: Due to the intensity of the propaganda waged against Jews over the centuries, anti-Semitism became profoundly interwoven with Western culture. Historian David Niremberg details this interweaving in his book  Anti-Judaism: The Western Tradition.

However, after the Holocaust, the promotion of Nazi ideology or genocide became considered taboo.  Antisemitism was, therefore, forced to mutate to remain integral to Western culture. This mutated anti-Semitism – often referred to as the “new anti-Semitism” – focused on the Jewish state.  It integrates the core beliefs of classic anti-Semitism, that see Jews and Judaism as inherently evil. Studies indicate that at least 38% of European adults believe that Israel intends to commit genocide on the Palestinians or that Israel behaves toward the Palestinians as the Nazis did toward the Jews.

The most significant source of verbal anti-Israelism in Western society comes from left-wing liberalism. As far as violence is concerned, Muslims and right-wingers play a substantive role in promoting anti-Semitism and anti-Israelism. They, however, play a minor role in public discourse.

The anti-Semitism and anti-Israeli incitement of the left is not new.  These views are part of a tradition that can best be called “progressive perversity,” and which began in the early 16th century with the “Prince of Humanism,” Erasmus of Rotterdam, who demonstrated extreme antisemitic behavior, even for his time. This ideology manifests itself not only against Jews but against other progressives, as well. Progressive perverts should not be confused with a sub-category, the humanitarian racists. These racists may single out Israel for blame and sometimes may even make valid claims, but they do not blame other states for far more egregious behaviors. The human rights movement, for instance, is replete with anti-Israeli NGOs; its highest organ, the United Nation’s Human Rights Council (UNHRC), is a morally corrupt body permeated by antisemitism. The United Nations can be called a hate-Israel world gathering.

CM: On Sept. 23, 2019, a report by UN Rapporteur Ahmed Shaheed titled Elimination of All Forms of Religious Intolerance was released.  Many Jewish organizations praised the Rapporteur’s report, a first for the UN, for tackling the issue of anti-Semitism. What did you think of it?

MG: The report noted several facts: that anti-Semitism is global, and that perpetrators of the hatred of Jews include white supremacists, neo-Nazis, members of radical Islamist groups, as well as leftists. It also exposed antisemitic tropes. Unfortunately, it artificially distinguished Islamists from other Muslims. Had it been more daring, it would have said “many Muslims” rather than “radical Islamist groups.”  The report also substantially referenced the International Holocaust Remembrance Alliance (IHRA) definition of anti-Semitism, which includes anti-Israelism, and noted the significance of anti-Semitic crimes against Jews among all hate crimes in the United States and Canada. Even though it discussed the BDS (Boycott, Divestment, and Sanctions) movement, it did not take a position against BDS.

Missing from the report were the following five taboos that the Rapporteur could not mention:  1) The UN itself promotes antisemitism of the anti-Israel variety.  2) Antisemitism is linked significantly to parts of the Muslim world.  3) Anti-Semitism is integral to Western culture.  4) Anti-Semitism is inherent in many Western socialist or social democratic parties, and the frequent use in Europe of the word “Jew” as synonymous with evil.  5)  It did not note any quantitative data from ADL studies, even though this data is readily available.

CM: Why is it important to acknowledge this interweaving of anti-Semitism and Western culture?

MG: Doing so makes it easier to point out the arrogance and hypocrisy of countries, such as Germany, as regards to Israel.  This awareness, combined with the IHRA’s definition of antisemitism, can be used effectively to combat Europe’s anti-Israel attitudes. For instance, according to this definition, the singling out of Israeli settlements for specific labeling by the European Union (not done for any other country) is an antisemitic act.

CM: Given the fundamental link between the two, can anti-Semitism be effectively combatted within Western societies?

MG: I believe it can.  I’ve prioritized three objectives. 1) Politicians and high-profile figures must be persuaded to acknowledge this link publicly.  2) The Israeli Government must be convinced to set up an anti-propaganda organization. Among its many functions, the agency must publicly expose the plagiarism and weak scholarship of many pro-BDS academics. 3) “Jewish masochists” must be countered.  These Jews criticize Israel for not being perfect, while ignoring significant deficiencies in Western democracies. U.S. Democratic Presidential candidate Bernie Sanders is a Jewish masochist. He calls Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu a “racist,” but remains silent about Palestinian President Mahmoud Abbas, who publicly stated that no Israelis or Jews would live in a Judenrein Palestinian state. Another disgusting example of Jewish masochists is a group of 240 Jewish academics.  When the German Parliament voted to outlaw BDS, they urged the government not to do that, in support of free speech.

I’ve elaborated on these suggestions and others in my book titled The War of a Million Cuts:  The Struggle Against the Delegitimization of Israel and the Jews, and the Growth of New Antisemitism, which can be downloaded free of charge.

CM: With the rise of anti-Semitism, are European Jewry’s days numbered?

MG: I don’t believe European Jewry will disappear, but will, instead, be subjected to more anti-Semitic aggression. If Labour leader Jeremy Corbyn becomes prime minister, which I don’t believe will happen, 40% of British Jews say they will consider leaving. I doubt that even 4% of them will go. Matters will have to get much more dangerous for Jews to leave.  It’s not easy to move.  There are family and business considerations. Even in those countries where anti-Semitism is most potent, Jews haven’t departed en masse.

 

Senator Felder Visits Yeshivat Shaare Tora

Senator Felder made a special visit to Yeshivat Shaare Torah preschool last month. As part of their unit on community helpers the senator spoke with the students, and each student received an activity book about community helpers.

Midwood Mugging

Two women were attacked and robbed at a Brooklyn subway station early Thursday morning on December 5, 2019.

It happened just after 12:00am inside the Avenue I subway station along the F line in Midwood, CBS2’s Marc Liverman reported. The surveillance video from inside the station shows a male suspect pulling one of the victims out of frame. Then, a female suspect grabbed another victim and pulled her straight down onto the subway staircase.

As soon as the male suspect got what he wanted from the first victim, he rushed in to steal from the second victim, hitting her over and over again before running off. But the other attacker kept holding her victim by the hair, going through her belongings before eventually getting what she wanted and taking off.

Both victims, ages 20 and 21, were taken to Maimonides Hospital with cuts and bruises.

Police say the attackers were carrying a knife and a taser. They got away with iPhones, pocketbooks, cash, and credit cards.

Anyone who has information regarding this incident is asked to call the NYPD’s Crime Stoppers Hotline at 1-800-577-8477.  Tips can also be sent to the NYPDTipsTwitter account or submitted online at NYPDCrimeStoppers.com.

Ira Jablonsky Promoted to Special Assignment

(L-R) David Heskiel, LT Ira Jablonsky, and NYPD Chief Charles Scholl.

On November 26th, long time community affairs NYPD LT Ira Jablonsky was promoted to Special Assignment by NYPD commissioner O’Neill at NYPD Headquarters.

“Ira is a tremendous asset to our community,” mentioned David Heskiel, NYPD clergy liaison and special community liaison to Councilman Chaim Deutsch. “Ira is always there to help the community in any way that he can, 24 hours a day.”

In attendance at the ceremony were community leaders including Councilman Chaim Deutsch, Douglas Jablon of Maimonides Medical Center, NYPD First Deputy Commissioner Tucker, and NYPD Chief Charles Scholl from Brooklyn South.

Thousands Mourn at Funerals of the Two Jewish victims of  the Jersey City Shooting

Thousands of mourners took to the streets of Brooklyn and Jersey City on December 11th, for the funerals of Mindel Ferencz, 31, and 24yearold Moshe Deutsch, who were killed in the kosher store shooting.

In Brooklyn, thousands of people followed Ferencz’s casket through the streets, hugging and crying. Many prayed. Ferencz was later laid to rest in Jersey City, where she had made her home in recent years and ran the grocery with her husband.

Thousands also accompanied Deutsch, a rabbinical student from Brooklyn who was shopping at the grocery when the assailants entered. The funeral service was held at the Satmar Beit Midrash in Williamsburg, Brooklyn.

Eulogies, in Yiddish, were broadcast to the crowds who filled the roads and stairs of homes along the route, with many sobbing and wailing.

Police provided escorts to both funerals.

The prospect of attacks against Jews weighed heavily on the more than 300 people who attended a vigil Wednesday night at a synagogue about a mile from where the shootings took place.

“I think maybe we have two parts of our brain,” said Temple Beth-El president Tom Rosensweet. “One part is absolutely not expecting something like this to happen in Jersey City, but the other part knows we have to be careful.”

New York Mayor Bill de Blasio said the attack was a “premeditated, violent, anti-Semitic hate crime,” while New York Gov. Andrew Cuomo called it a “deliberate attack on the Jewish community.” They announced tighter police protection of synagogues and other Jewish establishments in New York as a precaution.

Sephardic Heritage Museum Commemorates the Great Synagogue of Aleppo at Shaare Zion

Last month, on Shabbat Vayesse, the Sephardic Heritage Museum joined with the Shaare Zion Congregation  to commemorate the Great Synagogue of Aleppo, which served as the main synagogue of the Syrian Jewish community for over 2,000 years.

The historic event merged past, present, and future, as grandparents, parents, and their children welcomed a sacred Torah from the Aleppo Synagogue (c.1851) into the dome during Shaharit services.

An exhibit of precious artifacts that depicted the religious life of our ancestors in Aleppo were also featured. One of the artifacts on display was a Torah scroll that survived the Aleppo fires of December 1, 1947, the day after the Partition Plan of Palestine was announced in the U.N.

Hundreds of Flatbush Residents Protest Outside East Midwood Jewish Center

Once again, hundreds of residents braved the cold and turned out on December 8, 2019 to protest a planned charter school which will plans to be moving into the heart of the Flatbush community. The “Urban Dove Charter School” is reportedly planning on starting construction any day, and the last minute protest was held. No organization was behind the protest, but messages went viral, and hundreds showed up.

As YWN has been reporting, the East Midwood Jewish Center plans to repurpose the Jewish Day school established in 1950 with Urban Dove, a charter school that states in their mission statement that they cater to highly at-risk public high school teenagers.

East Midwood was established almost 100 years ago to further “traditional Jewish values and the establishment of a Jewish day school to educate future generations.” However, the current leadership has chosen to ignore the goals of this landmark institution.

In 2010, the controversial school tried to get into Aviator at Floyd Bennett field. They were promptly booted out of there. According to Aviator CEO Kevin McCabe, “[Urban Dove] has absolutely no support from the community,” joining a chorus of elected officials that panned the plan in 2010. Now they are planning to come into the heart of our community at 1256 East 21st between Avenues K and L.

Due to a shortage of classroom space in this neighborhood, local yeshivas offered to rent the building on the same terms, but the East Midwood board decided they would rather rent to an outside charter school.

Fearing this possibility turning into a reality, around 1,000 local community residents turned out for a meeting at the Jewish Center to protest the move. Last month, on a Sunday afternoon, another few hundred local residents showed up. The protest was not organized by any organization or synagogue – just hundreds of concerned community members showing up to make sure their voices were heard.

Boro Park Resident Finds Knife-Wielding Burglar in His Kitchen

Image of the burglar that broke into home. If you have any information that can assist the investigation, please contact NYPD 66th Precinct Detectives or BP Shomrim.

A Boro Park homeowner was terrified to find a man armed with a large knife in his kitchen on December 14th.

Boro Park Shomrim say the incident occurred at around 12:30am on Friday night / Shabbat morning in the vicinity of 11th Avenue and 54th Street. The homeowner was awakened by a noise in his house, and went to see what it was, when he came face-to-face with the man seen in security camera footage above.

Thankfully, the perpetrator fled the home without harming him. Shomrim has received multiple reports of burglaries in that same area on Friday nights. They remind residents to make sure their homes are properly secured and to always report any suspicious activity immediately.

If you have any information or additional footage that can assist the investigation, please call NYPD 66th Precinct Detectives at 718-851-5603 and the BP Shomrim Hotline at 718-871-6666 if you have any information.

 

 

 

Kids Cooking with Chef Shiri – Tasty Tomato Pizza Pie

Kids – See if you have what it takes to become a Junior Chef!

Adult Supervision Required.

Utensils Needed:

Large bowl

Spoon

8-inch pizza pans

Knife

Measuring cups and spoons

Rolling pin

Oven mitts

Pizza cutter

Cutting board

Ingredients:

3½ cups all-purpose flour

2 teaspoons sugar

¼ ounce dry yeast

1-2 cups lukewarm water

2 tablespoons olive oil

¾ cup jarred marinara sauce

¼ teaspoon salt

2 cups shredded mozzarella

¼ teaspoon dried oregano

3 plum tomatoes

Bunch fresh parsley (optional)

Let’s Get Started!

  1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees Fahrenheit.
  2. In a large bowl, combine the flour, sugar, and salt.
  3. Dissolve yeast in 1 cup of lukewarm water until layers of foam form (up to 5 minutes), then add to the flour mixture.
  4. Add olive oil and stir until the dough begins to form a ball in the bowl. If dough is dry, add more water, ¼ cup at a time. Mix together until dough is sicky and moist.
  5. Separate the dough into 3 portions. Sprinkle a pizza pan with olive oil, then take one of the dough sections and use the rolling pin to roll the dough into a circle. Use your fingers to push the dough to the edge of the pizza pan. Repeat with the other 2 dough balls.
  6. Cut the plum tomatoes into thin slices. Divide the sauce evenly among the pizza, then layer on mozzarella and tomato slices. Sprinkle on dried oregano.
  7. Bake the pizza pies until crust is browned (15 to 20 minutes).
  8. Let cool and place on cutting board to slice with pizza cutter.
  9. Optional: Tear leaves of fresh parsley into small pieces and spread on pizzas.

 Makes 3 Pizza Pies!

NASA left 12.5 million tomato seeds in space and they recollected them after 6 years. The seeds were given to school children for growing. The space-exposed seeds grew just as good as the earth-bound counterparts!

Tasty Tomato Pizza Pie

Chef Shiri Says… 

Ripe tomatoes aren’t always red. They can be yellow, pink, purple, black, and even white!

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Prayer Pointers From

Buzz the Brachos Bee  

Ideally, when you recite a berachah, you should give another Jew the merit of answering “Amen,” which also gives extra importance to the blessing.

The Case – A Missing Wedding Ring

Sally lost her engagement ring and she and her family spent over a week searching for her precious diamond. When the continued search proved to be futile, her husband purchased a wedding band to replace her diamond ring. Six months later, Sally and her husband hired the services of Avi, a contractor, to reconstruct their bathroom. Avi ripped out a built-in vanity of the bathroom and disassembled it outside, in front of the house. A hidden surveillance camera caught Avi pocketing the ring, which he found wedged behind the drawer of the vanity. Before Sally called the police, she reached out to our Bet Din to assist her in collecting her valuable ring in an amicable manner. In Bet Din Avi defended his position, claiming that since Sally lost the ring, she apparently despaired from ever retrieving it. Furthermore, he was in the process of trashing the contents of the bathroom and if not for his finding the ring, it would have been lost. Avi expressed that he is graciously willing to give back the sentimental ring to Sally if she monetarily reimbursed him with its market value. Sally was livid and her violent reaction to Avi’s claim caused the hearing to end abruptly.

Is Avi entitled to monetary compensation for the value of the ring or not? How should the Bet Din rule and why?

Torah Law

According to the ruling of the Shulhan Aruch a finder is entitled to keep a lost object if it is established that the owner despaired from ever retrieving it. This rule is subject to numerous rules and regulations, some of which are within the context of this article. However, prior to keeping a lost object, one is required to first consult with a competent halachic authority.

Leading halachic authorities debate whether an object that is lost on an owner’s property is subject to the above-mentioned ruling. On the one hand it stands to reason that even if an owner despairs from retrieving a lost object, another party may not claim its ownership, since it was technically never lost to the owner. The lost object was unknowingly in the possession of its owner all along and his despair cannot effectively render the object as ownerless. On the other hand, some halachic authorities view an owner who despairs from retrieving a lost object as having performed an act of abandonment, thereby allowing another party to take ownership even if the object was found on the owner’s property.

Additionally, even according to the former opinion, which restricts a finder from taking possession, some halachic authorities limit this restriction to instances in which the object was found in a protected area on the owner’s property. If, however, the lost item was found outside on an unprotected area in the owner’s domain, the finder is entitled to his keep. Other views differ, and restrict a finder from keeping an object found on an owner’s property regardless if it was in a protected area or not.

The above-mentioned rulings are applicable only when an owner despairs from ever retrieving the lost item. A primary illustration of an owner despairing from retrieving his lost item is when he verbally expresses his anguish that the item lost represents a financial loss. Alternatively, when it is apparent that an owner despaired from retrieving the lost item, either because of the amount of time that elapsed since it was lost or the like, a finder may take possession. As aforementioned, some halachic authorities restrict such activity in the event the item was found on the owner’s property.

By rule of the Shulhan Aruch, upon verification of an item’s rightful owner, a finder is required to conduct himself beyond the letter of the law and to return a lost object even if the owner already despaired. While a Bet Din will not legally enforce a defendant’s compliance with a ruling beyond letter of the law, it will nevertheless strongly instruct him to conform to his social and moral responsibilities that are cited in the Shulhan Aruch.

VERDICT: Serving as a Referee

Our Bet Din ruled that Avi is required to immediately return the wedding ring to Sally. We instructed him to apologize to her for his gross misconduct. Additionally, our Bet Din chastised Sally for her inappropriate violent behavior during their initial hearing. Instead of defending her position in an organized and productive manner, her reaction was rash and counterproductive.

As mentioned in Torah law, although Sally despaired from ever finding her ring, nevertheless, Avi was restricted from taking the ring for himself. Since the ring was all along in Sally’s home, according to numerous opinions Sally’s despair cannot effectively render her ring as ownerless.  In short, since the ring was in her home it was never considered lost from a legal standpoint. While other opinions differ, it is common practice of a rabbinical court to rule in compliance with the above-mentioned view. Although Avi found the ring in front of Sally’s home, nevertheless, upon inquiry, the exact area in which it was found was clearly within the property line. Additionally, based on the video review, it was somewhat evident that Avi detected the glittering diamond when he first exited the doorway of the house. The doorway of Sally’s home is clearly a protected area in Sally’s domain and thus satisfies other halachic opinions that support this ruling.

Lastly, by rule of the Shulhan Aruch, Avi is required to conduct himself morally and must comply with social norms. Thus, even if he has a legal claim to the ring, he should return it to Sally and conduct himself beyond the letter of the law as cited in the Shulhan Aruch.

YOU BE THE JUDGE

How Embarrassing!!

Audrey sent her daughter to a local elementary school. Unhappy with her daughter’s progress throughout the school year, she wrote a brief text to many members of the board of directors of the school complaining that her daughter’s sudden regression is the result of her daughter’s terribly under-qualified teacher. After detailing the teacher’s shortcomings, she added a genuine request not to disclose her complaint or identity to the teacher. Audrey’s wrote that her reasoning for the confidentiality was because the teacher was clearly an unstable individual who is likely to avenge the complaint in a fierce and uncontrolled manner.  Shortly thereafter, one of the board members, a friend of the teacher, showed the teacher Audrey’s nasty text message. The teacher was appalled by the audacity of the text and was mortified that many of her employers and other staff members might actually believe it. The teacher turned to our Bet Din and complained that the text was only written because Audrey’s son was going through a bitter divorce with her niece. The text message was not only false, it was deeply embarrassing. The teacher explained that she is in so much distress that she can barely show her face in school. Although she believes that because of her good reputation as a teacher the text will not cause her to lose her job, nevertheless, she is seeking financial compensation for the anguish of embarrassment and defamation of character. The teacher added that only via payment authorized by a Bet Din can her name and status be rightfully restored. Audrey defended that her complaint is truthful and unrelated to her son’s divorce, and thus, she is unwilling to compensate the teacher.

How should the Bet Din rule in favor of Audrey or the teacher, and why?

 

Artistic Endeavors

Mozelle Forman

Whether it be a finely cooked meal, a well decorated table-setting, or a work of art, I believe the urge to create is innate in every woman.  Woman, after all, is the ultimate creation of the supreme creator – Hashem.  Hashem created a majestic, magnificent world, perfectly composed with vibrant colors, vivid foliage, and multi-colored flora, aesthetically pleasing to the eye and we, who were created in His image, are endowed with the unique soul of the artist, with the desire to create beauty.

There has been a real renaissance of artistic creativity in our community,  and we are blessed with many talented artistic women. Our community women have artwork displayed in a large number of locales – our own Sephardic Community Center, local restaurants, JCC galleries throughout New Jersey, small galleries in small towns, large galleries in Manhattan, the prestigious Art Expo in NYC and even Art Basel, a yearly multi-day event in Miami, Florida.  Our artists teach classes for women and children, privately, and in our schools.  Our equally talented interior decorators are commissioning work from our community artists to enhance the beauty of the homes of their clients.

The Drive to Create

I had the wonderful opportunity to converse with many of these women, to gain an understanding of their craft and what drives them to create.  I found kindred spirits who have a passion for creativity, who find joy in the artistic endeavor, and a delight in sharing with others.

Many of the artists I spoke with attributed their love of art to being exposed to it at a very young age by their mothers.  Lesley Kassin recalls that her interest in art “began when I was a young girl and my mom took me to painting classes.  I knew that I really enjoyed being creative and working with my hands.”  Sisters Grace Azar and Irene Cohen were both exposed to art at a young age “when our mother started taking us to museums.”  Renee Beyda says, “My mother encouraged me to create art, especially in our dentist’s waiting room where he had crayons and large sheets of very special paper with rounded edges.”  Jill Levy recalls that most of her toddler pictures show her with a crayon in her hand!  The encouragement of an adult and the excitement of youth enabled these women to discover hidden talents and passion.  Pablo Picasso believed that “every child is an artist. The problem is how to remain an artist once we grow up.”

One retains the ability to remain an artist and continue to create by virtue of inspiration

from a muse, anything that inspires your imagination toward creativity.  A muse can come in a variety of ways, but should make you think, want to act, or want or create.  A box of vibrant colorful pastel sticks urges me to create in the same way that a new recipe calls to a consummate chef.  But the inspiration that answers the question: “What should I paint?” for me comes from my observation of nature – a radiant sunrise, a thundering waterfall, fiery red trees, or the patterns of shadow on snow. I spend much of my time collecting inspiration in the form of photographs.  Inevitably, when I review the hundreds I have snapped on any given day, one calls to me and begs to be painted.  Those paintings are always my favorites and are the most popular ones with my audience.

Artistic Inspiration

Artistic inspiration allows us to continue to create. Author Neil Gaiman expresses it most aptly when he said: “The world always seems brighter when you’ve just made something that wasn’t there before.” Yet the creating is just part of the endeavor, for at the soul of every artist is the desire to share that creation with others.  Ilana Greenberg, owner of the Ilana Greenberg Gallery on Union Street in Brooklyn, recently hosted the FAB, (Female Artists of Brooklyn) show, which featured the art of eight of our female community artists.  FAB was founded completely organically when these eight women gathered together to share their experience as artists.  “Artists are very isolated while they work and having a community to share your work and your ideas is so essential to your artistic development. Artists are also terrible at promoting themselves, so we are hoping to create a platform that will make it easier to showcase the work of female artists who are working in our beloved borough of Brooklyn,” Ilana explained.  “FAB is a community of women, who are there to encourage one another and help strengthen each other’s artistic pursuits – female artists supporting female artists.”

As our commitment to our family as wives, daughters, mothers, and grandmothers, supersedes all else, many female artists struggle to find the time to devote to their artistic endeavors.  “Because of the many commitments in my life, I do not have enough time to create my own artworks, sometimes only a few paintings in a few months. My demonstrations for my classes will often result in completed paintings.  I always wish I had more time to paint,” says Irene Cohen. Irene teaches pastel classes to women three days a week in Brooklyn, and in Deal in the summer.  I owe her a huge hakarat hatov as she encouraged me to pick up pastels.    Rhonda Tawil only manages to paint about one to two days per week “but would love to do more,” she says. I am blessed to be able to paint daily.  Many times, I will paint with my granddaughters, which allows me to fuse two vital and pleasurable parts of my life.

Art as a Hobby and Career

Even after years of training and creating, some women still consider their art a hobby, while others found their hobby taking on a life of its own and becoming a career.  Jeannette Cohen, whose artwork can be found @everythingseurope on Instagram shares: “When mosaics became an obsessive hobby, a very special friend, who is a successful interior designer, encouraged and literally pushed me into the mosaic business!  I have so much appreciation for her!  She gave me the shots of confidence I needed to take the leap.  Fast forward many years later – my acrylic painting, collage, and mixed media, which also began as a hobby, have blossomed into a career.”

Renee Beyda says, “When I’m delving deeply into creating and preparing for shows, I consider art a career. In the past eight months or so I’ve been focusing my time on my job, where I do a lot of writing, so art has become a secondary career.” Rhonda Tawil, who majored in fine arts in college and has been painting most of her life, considers art her career and she continues to pursue avenues to show and sell her paintings. Lesley Kassin, who has a teaching degree from NYU, has parlayed her art hobby into an art teaching career.  “I have done all types of art – including scrapbooking, pottery, and painting. Presently I am focusing on a type of pen and ink drawing called Zentangle and I actually obtained a certification to teach it. This art entails repetitive patterns of simple shapes, culminating in stunning, complex creations (see photo below). I am teaching this drawing style in a Product Design class at Yeshiva of Flatbush High School and it  has become a very popular course.”  Jill Levy also found her love of art transformed into a satisfying career. “Art was strictly a hobby and passion until I turned 28 and needed to provide for myself. I like to say my job is work that I love that feels like play. I’m fortunate that my job of teaching others doesn’t feel like work.  Giving over my knowledge to others feels wonderful.”

I too have begun to teach art classes and there is such a sense of fulfillment one gets when a student unlocks their creative spirit and soars.  To be able to do what we love and inspire others as well is truly a blessing and a legacy from Hashem, the ultimate Creator.

This article by no means covers all the artistic women in our community – only the ones I was able to interview.  There are many talented women teaching and creating and they all deserve our support and encouragement.  And you may even have a little artist at home – just waiting for that little inspiration and that big box of 64 Crayola crayons!

How Does Inspiration Call?

Jill Levy – “I am so inspired by my students. I work with people who have never held a brush in their lives. When I see the pride they feel for their work I am truly grateful to be a part of their emerging talents and abilities.”

Gracie Azar – “While on a trip to Chicago, I started to notice the different patterns of sewer covers and the wonderful patterns created by the architecture of Chicago.  I began to photograph these patterns, and since then I have not been able to put my camera down. I love the simplicity of lines and the sense of order they create.”

Rhonda Tawil – “Seeing beautiful art, whether in museums and galleries, or done by colleagues, inspires and ignites my creative process.”