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Sefer Torah Dedication Ceremonies Honor Hacham Ovadia Yosef, ZT”L, and Rabbi Shlomo Korach

Avi Kumar 

In a beautiful display of granting kavod l’Torah, two celebrations in honor of the hachnasat sefer Torah of a magnificent  sefer Torah, dedicated in memory of Hacham Ovadia Yosef, zt”l, and Rabbi Shlomo Korah, occurred days apart in Brooklyn and Jerusalem. The sefer Torah, donated by the Syrian community, is housed in a stunning silver casing. It was written in Jerusalem and is permanently housed in Bnai Yosef Synagogue in Brooklyn, home to one of the largest Sephardic communities in the United States. The celebrations took place in Brooklyn on May 14th and in Jerusalem on May 18th.   

Both events were blessed with pleasant weather and featured delicious food, and plentiful drinks. The musical accompaniment lent an uplifting spirit to these special celebrations. Approximately 200 people participated in the dedication ceremony in Brooklyn, and  in Jerusalem.   

 

Memories of Hacham Ovadia, zt”l 

It was a special zechut for Israeli-born Rabbi Uziel Admoni, 44, to organize the events. In fact, he attended both events in person. He said, “I had a special relationship with both rabbis, and was personally ordained by Hacham Ovadia in 2010.” 

Admoni, a member of Bet Din Torah U’Mishpat, described Hacham Ovadia as “one of the greatest religious leaders we have had in our generation.” Hacham Ovadia Yosef was born in 1920 in Ottoman Iraq and moved to Israel at the age of four. He boldly made the halachic ruling that determined that Ethiopian Jews were to be considered halachically Jewish. This was critical to facilitating the aliya of many thousands of Jewish refugees from Ethiopia.  

Rabbi Elie Abadie, Senior Rabbi of the UAE, said, “Hacham Ovadia Yosef wanted to unify all of the Sephardim under one roof and tradition. And he eventually turned out to become the ultimate Sephardic leader of the last one hundred years, if not more!”  

“He returned the Sephardim’s pride and put them at the forefront of Israeli society, whether it be it in Torah scholarship or social and political advancement.” 

Hacham Ovadia was especially known for his special trademark – giving an affectionate smack/caress to the face of youngsters who he was fond of. Many of his followers warmly recall his affectionate pats. Hacham Ovadia visited the Bnai Yosef Synagogue whenever he visited the United States.  

Hacham Ovadia Yosef passed away in October of 2013. The sefer Torah dedications fell almost a decade since his passing.

Celebration in Jerusalem  

The gathering in Jerusalem was a memorable event, attended by  many rabbis, yeshiva students, members of the Knesset, and city officials, notably members of the Shas party.  

Noteworthy among the rabbis was Rabbi Shlomo Amar, former Chief Rabbi of Israel and the current Chief Rabbi of Jerusalem. Rabbi Amar was a talmid of Hacham Ovadia Yosef. Rabbi Amar wrote a letter in the sefer Torah and blessed the donors at both events, in New York and Jerusalem. 

 

A Special Symbol of Unity 

Rabbi Admoni commented, “Something notable was that the sefer Torah was donated to a shul that has many members and it ultimately represents unity. Both rabbis [who were honored with the writing of the sefer Torah] were very well-known public figures who spoke about the importance of this unity. And our relationship with both of them was based in Torah values and halacha.” 

A special feature of the new sefer Torah is its smaller size, which allows even the younger set to carry it comfortably. Dan Frija, a member of Bnai Yosef for over 20 years, said, “This stunning Torah was just the correct size for an average person to carry and it’s especially more convenient for teenagers who would have the privilege to handle it.” 

“You must see the look in children’s eyes when they’re allowed to carry a sefer Torah for the first time. So, having this particular Torah made ‘just the right size’ will go a long way!” Frija concluded, “It was a magnificent event! 

 

 

Rabbi Uziel Admoni 

Abe Shrem, son of the synagogue’s former cantor Gabriel A Shrem (1964-86), said, “Rabbi Admoni knows how to draw in students to study. He knows how to come down to their level and has a great sense of humor. No words can describe the love he has for his students and we are grateful for his work.” 

Shrem’s father tragically passed away in Israel while attending his grandson’s bar mitzvah. Shrem still has tremendous gratitude for Eddie Sitt, then the administrator of the synagogue, who organized for Shrem’s father to be buried at the Mount of Olives. 

Rabbi Admoni said, “Some communities have difficulty getting sifrei Torah and many here felt uplifted that they were able to contribute. 

Maybe one day those who were inspired by this sefer Torah dedication will be able to contribute themselves, enabling the passing on to the next generation the values that we have had for generations and hold so dear.  

“The Torah is one thing that unites all Jewish communities across the world. It is written in the same way with the same letters. Although we might drive different cars and live in different houses and in different countries, our Torah is what we all have in common.” 

Many praised Rabbi Admoni for his work, and voiced that Bnai Yosef is, indeed, privileged to house the new sefer Torah, which is so meaningful. May it serve to inspire all those who pass through Bnai Yosef’s doors. 

One on One with Vanessa Broochian

We sell happiness. Seeing the happiness our gifts bring to people is fabulous.  Ilan and I are thrilled when we receive group pictures of our customers wearing our swag.”  – Vanessa  

Who is Vanessa Benun Broochian?  Vanessa is an energetic, creative, warm, and driven wife, mom, and entrepreneur, who sells happiness.  That’s right!  She is the creator of Frostings by Venee, a one-of-a-kind decorative apparel shop that also offers trendy accessories, gifts, toys, and much more.  

Born to Mona and Jack Benun, Vanessa grew up on the Jersey Shore and attended Hillel Yeshiva for elementary and high school.  Her father is of Syrian descent and was born in America.   Her mom was born in Egypt.  Vanessa is the third of four daughters. Her sisters are Rebecca, Sabrina, and Jasmine. The sisters became especially appreciative of their roots when their mother and maternal grandmother took the girls for a trip to Egypt. 

Jack modeled a strong work ethic, and Mona was very creative and graciously opened her home to guests and family. The Benun girls were blessed to participate in many parties in their childhood home and they helped their mother shop, decorate tables, and more. 

Vanessa recalls, “I was loud and friendly, the funny kid, the class clown.  I was always creative, even as a young girl.  When I didn’t like something, I was very honest.  I knew presentation was important and I could make my school projects look good even when I wasn’t that strong academically.”

Vanessa and her sisters described her special essence as creative, energetic, friendly, outgoing, and driven.  Although super focused, Vanessa is easy going when connecting with customers.  She loves people and she loves working! 

 

College and Career

After high school, Vanessa studied in NYC at FIT (Fashion Institute of Technology).  “I had around seven majors in my college years.  I knew that I loved art and was into fashion.” 

She took courses in display and exhibit, window decorating, and event planning. “The event planning classes were very intense.  I worked for a local wedding event planner, which was overwhelming, particularly when we built the huppah right before the bride and groom entered!  The commute to NY and back to NJ was also very tough.”   

After a year, Vanessa transferred to Brookdale Community college in New Jersey and received her associate degree.  She then felt more confident about what she wanted to major in and returned to FIT to study marketing and advertising.
 

“When the September 11th terrorist attacks hit, I didn’t feel safe in Manhattan and enrolled in Monmouth University in NJ. I majored in communications and minored in art, proudly graduating with honors. It took me five years to complete college.  I loved Monmouth and learned a lot. Our mom didn’t finish college, so it was important for us to.”

As we follow Vanessa on her path to adulthood and entrepreneurship, you will see that she was gifted with the ability to think out of the box and to find new businesses and artistic outlets.   

After graduation, Vanessa traveled the world with her sisters and then moved in with Sabrina in Manhattan.  Since Vanessa loved shopping, the two started an ecommerce business and bought trendy closeout items and sold them on eBay.  Their merchandise included hot accessories and clothing that celebrities were wearing.  “We loved the hunt!  We were ahead of our time since this was before Instagram.” 

Vanessa laughingly admitted that she even booked her honeymoon around product releases. 

 

Marriage and Kids 

Vanessa met her naseeb, Ilan Broochian, at the West Deal Synagogue at a mutual friend’s wedding.  Ilan’s father is Israeli Persian and his mom, a”h, was American Ashkenazi.  Vanessa’s and Ilan’s minhagim were very similar.  Ilan, a Brooklyn boy, asked Vanessa to try living in Brooklyn.  “I gave it one year, but I missed the suburbs. I was pregnant with our first child when we moved to New Jersey.  Ilan loves the Jersey Shore!”  

They  have one daughter, Esther (14) and two sons, Jack (11) and David (7).  Vanessa is still very close with her sisters. 

When Vanessa married Ilan, she was busy with her eBay enterprise.  After giving birth to Esther, Vanessa realized it was harder to keep up her business as a mom. The eBay fees were increasing and she lived far away from NY.  Vanessa continued the ecommerce venture part-time, but missed the rush and feeling of achievement of her full-time career. 

 

Frostings by Venee Is Born

Vanessa adored dressing up Esther and put rhinestones on her clothing and accessories.  When Vanessa decorated Esther’s shorts with rhinestones and brought her to day camp orientation, the other mothers asked Vanessa if she would sell the rhinestone shorts to them.  “Esther is fourteen, and I haven’t stopped selling items like those shorts since that day.”

Vanessa began to decorate apparel with rhinestones,  choosing the business name, Frostings by Venee.  Frostings refers to the rhinestones or bling on the clothes, accessories, and gifts. “Some people decorate cakes, we frost clothing. Venee, is short for Vanessa and sounds like Monet.  My dad helped me with the name.  I wanted to be a jewelry designer in high school and liked sparkling things.” 

When Jack was born, Vanessa also decorated his clothes, and he wore them to Mommy and Me, where they were a big hit.  She got an iPhone and discovered Instagram!   

For the first five years, Vanessa ran Frostings out of her Oakhurst home. She enjoyed working from home and being close to her family.  In those early years, Vanessa would sell in schools, shuls, and boutique shows. She went to events in Brooklyn, Manhattan, and Jersey and built a following. 

 

Frostings Branches Out 

The business grew and Vanessa needed more room and more privacy.  When she went to lunch at Diet Gourmet in Long Branch, she noticed the For Rent sign next door.  It was down the block from her home.  She rented the space and has been so happy with it.   

Customers come from New York, the Midwest, California, and even Montreal. Frostings ships throughout the U.S. and to Canada.  Frostings is a hot spot for the Sephardic families who come to the Jersey Shore for the summer season, and presents are shipped to overnight camps all summer long.  

In the past decade, Frostings has branched out from rhinestones to patches, screen printing, chenille, vinyl printing, and embroidery.

Most of Frostings’ clientele comes from word of mouth.  “We are so grateful for the entire Jewish community, our cheerleaders, who support us and enable us to sell such fun things. I so enjoy seeing customers who visited the store as children, return with families of their own.”

Ilan is the backbone of the business and is the yang to Vanessa’s yin.  Ilan joined Frostings full time in 2017 and the two complement each other well.  “Even when Ilan was working in the camera business, he helped me with Frostings, and without him we couldn’t have come this far.  Ilan is the more organized and structured person. I do the buying and selling, and Ilan does the financial, the technical side, and graphics.  We give each other needed space.”

The Pandemic and Beyond

Covid hit right after a very busy Purim season.  The Broochians decided to work and print from home.  “We changed the theme of what we printed and added printing equipment in our basement.  We made quarantine sweatshirts, masks, bar/bat mitzvah swag, and birthday packages, which we sent out as people couldn’t attend semachot in person.” 

They focused on remote gift giving and celebrating. Frostings became a gift store with presents shipped throughout the country.   

Running Frostings from home with three children to home school was very stressful, but Vanessa and Ilan appreciated  being busy with customers rooting for them.

Today, Frostings is one half a gift store, with the printing shop in the back.  The shop has toys, gifts, and apparel.  Gifts are customized for every age, including adults. 

Vanessa says proudly, “We sell happiness. Seeing the happiness our gifts bring to people is fabulous.  Ilan and I are thrilled when we receive group pictures of our customers wearing our swag.” 

Balance 

“We are so grateful for Shabbat when we can be with our children. Ilan and I are workaholics and are always striving to improve our work-life balance.”  Hands down, Vanessa says that the children are their greatest accomplishments, and the kids love Frostings.  Their oldest is a paid gift wrapper during busy times.

Vanessa unwinds with self-care and by chilling at home.  Ilan enjoys sports. The family takes time off for “yeshiva week.”

Please connect with Vanessa at sales@venees.com and follow her on Instagram@frostings by_venee or drop in.  

Dear Jido – July 2023

Dear Jido, 

My father is hurt and even a little angry that I haven’t shared the latest details with him about our son’s battle with an illness. He found out about what’s going on from my sister, who just assumed Dad would know what’s happening. 

I know my father means well and I feel bad that he’s upset, but the problem is that whenever I try to talk to him about stuff like this, he immediately goes into “stand-back-because-we’re-gonna-fix-this-right-now” mode, which is exhausting, especially since I am already exhausted. Besides, he can’t really suggest anything that we haven’t already tried or that we’re currently doing for our son. I just need him to listen. How do I get my father to just listen? 

Signed,  

Exhausted

Dear Exhausted,

“Ask your elders and they will tell you” (Devarim 32:7). Sometimes you don’t have to ask and they will tell you anyway. Yes, that’s the way with some of us older folks, we think we know everything. Many times, we do.  

 

Probably the best way to get your father to listen is to get him to talk. This is my suggestion. Call him and say, “Dad, when can we talk about Junior? I need about half an hour.” 

 

Go there with pen and paper. Write down in advance all the areas of help/therapy that your son needs. Ask Dad what he recommends in each area and write all his recommendations down. Now he has told you everything.  

 

Then review in column three everything you’ve already done in each area. Undoubtedly, there will be avenues that you have already explored in each of your father’s recommendations. Review them, debate them, discuss the outcomes. Tell him what else you’ve done.  

 

If your father really is a take-charge guy, there HAS to be an area you did not yet pursue. Let him know you will look into it. Now you’ve taken 90 percent off the table. Give him the kavod of looking into his suggestions with a promise that you will get back to him.  

 

This will convince him that you are doing/have done everything that he’s thought of since you’re also going to be taking his lead on the remaining items. You’ve now covered 100 percent of his ideas in one sixty-minute session. (I know I said 30 minutes – but it WILL take longer.) You will leave knowing you have given your father the proper respect and consideration and hopefully have addressed ALL of his bravado on this very sensitive, emotional subject for the last time.  

 

Refuah shelemah for your son – all should be well.  

 

Jido 

New Flashing Lights Make Long Branch Intersection Safer

Last month, pedestrian safety at the Jersey Shore got a major boost from the Pallone administration of Long Branch. The intersection of Cedar and Hoey Avenues, a four-lane roadway, has long been a trouble spot for pedestrians walking to or from the Sephardic Torah Center (Rabbi Diamond’s Kollel). Previous attempts to manage the problem with enhanced signage have proven insufficient. At the request of several community activists, Long Branch agreed to install a flashing yellow light system that will hopefully have a greater impact on drivers than signs alone.

The challenge faced by planners was whether to install a continuous-flashing or a pedestrian-activated system. Traffic experts opined that the direct activation option was the more effective choice, since a continuously flashing light would ultimately become just one more traffic device ignored by drivers.

Of course, pedestrian-activated flashing lights would present halachic problems on Shabbat and holidays when pedestrians are unable to push the button to activate the lights. The issue was brought to Rabbi Shmuel Choueka of Park Avenue Synagogue, who ruled that due to the dangers posed by this crossing, it would be permissible to hire a non-Jew to press the button on behalf of Jewish pedestrians. The Kollel has graciously agreed to arrange such a system during peak crossing hours on Shabbat and holidays throughout the summer season.

The Long Branch Jewish community is grateful to Mayor John Pallone, Police Captain Frank Rizzuto, City Administrator Charlie Shirley, and Public Safety Director William Broughton for their continued commitment to the safety and welfare of our community.

 

Summer Safety Tips

by Assemblywomen Marilyn Piperno and Kim Eulner

To ensure that everyone has a safe and enjoyable summer, it is essential always to keep safety in mind when in and around the water.

 

Assemblyman Kean’s bipartisan water safety bill, A618, which we co-sponsor, will help reduce the risks when venturing into the ocean by teaching children water safety. But until its passage, extra precautions should always be taken when around the water. Swimming in lakes, oceans, and pools requires caution and preparation. Awareness of tides, flags, and designated swimming areas is essential. Bring a swim buddy and consider potential dangers like rip currents and temperature changes.

 

Also, be sure to wear a life jacket or other protective gear and avoid the consumption of alcohol.

 

Finally, remember to slather on sunscreen. When safety measures like these are observed correctly, it is inevitable that lasting memories will be produced for years to come and that no harm will come from a beautiful day spent on the shore.

 

 

MDY High School Celebrates a Night of Appreciation

Magen David Yeshivah High School students celebrated the end of their internship season with a Night of Appreciation with “The Game of Life.”

Senior students gathered in the high school after working at their internships, reconnecting with their friends and teachers, reading their reflections, and telling stories of their experiences.

Co-founder and Senior Case Manager of Chaim Medical, Mr. Nathan Hoffman, spoke about recognizing and using the opportunities that are presented to us for good. Rabbi Eli Mansour spoke about students maintaining their spiritual level after graduation, and senior Linda Buchris recalled what she learned from her internship with Judge Gina Abadi.

Etz Haim: Shining Light on the Parasha

Rabbi Amram Sananes and Jack Rahmey are proud to announce the release of their new book, Etz Haim: Shining Light on the Parasha.

 

This book of compiled essays on the weekly parasha includes meaningful and heartwarming stories, commentaries by esteemed talmidei hachamim, and concise, easy-to-read lessons that the whole family will appreciate. These divrei Torah will perfectly enhance every Shabbat table!

 

The book is available to purchase at Eichlers, Mekor Judaica, and Tehilat Yitzchak in Brooklyn.

Turning Clean-up Into a Sport

Frances Haddad 

It seems as if you’ve tried everything to get your kids to do their chores. You’ve assigned tasks, commanded, and pleaded, yet your home still resembles the aftermath of an avalanche. Your children are no more motivated than they were before you lost your voice the umpteenth time you said, “Clean your room!”  You’ve continually met resistance, and to top it off, you’ve basically forgotten what color your countertops are since they’re piled high with clutter. 

During the last months of school, kids came down with “spring fever,” and now that summer’s here, it’s unrealistic to expect them to finally buckle down and put their things away. All they want to do is run around and play sports. So, it’s time for a new perspective. Get creative, and make cleaning into a sport! Here are some tips for making clean-up time (almost) as fun as play time.  

Race Against the Clock 

Using a timer is a fantastic way to motivate kids to work quickly. Instead of giving an indefinite amount of time to pick up toys that are strewn across the living room, give them a chance to beat the clock! Set the timer on the oven or your cell phone. Make sure to countdown an amount of time in which the task could be completed, but also keep in mind that kids may get restless if the timer is left running too long. Somewhere between 10 and 15 minutes is probably best.   

Set the timer and say, “On your marks, get set, go!” Before you know it, your kids will be scurrying across the room trying to put everything back in its proper place. And they may even ask for another round! 

The 10 Things Game 

Does a room in your house look like a tornado bulldozed through it? The “10 Things Game” is a great way to get rid of a big mess without the stress that clean-up usually entails. This is how it works. Take out two laundry baskets, a marker, index cards, and scotch tape, and label one basket “put away” and the other “give away.” Then get a garbage bag and label it, “throw away.”  

Here is where the game begins! Tell your kids that the object is to put 10 things from the messy room into each basket and to fill the garbage bag with all the “throw away” items they can find. Your daughter’s toys go into “put away,” the used plastic cup goes into “throw away,” and the outdated shirt goes into “give away.” Set your timer for 10 minutes. When time’s up, the “throw away” is discarded and the “give away” is sent to the local gemach. Each child should take a bunch of things from the “put away” basket and return them to their rightful place. With this game, every kid is a clean-up champion and the room becomes functional!  

Some ideas for other clean-up games: points for every toy put in the toy box, or counting down as kids collect “treasures” that fit the colors they were assigned. There are so many ways to take this, so get creative and get your kids moving! 

Pump It Up 

Music can transform even the most mundane clean-up routines into a party. Got dirty dishes? Put on a song with a really fast beat, and before you know it, the job will be done. Pop your favorite Yaakov Shwekey CD into the stereo, amp up the volume, and dance with the broom in one hand and the Bounty in the other! Your kids may follow suit soon enough.  

Superstar 

Kids love charts. Hang one on the wall in your child’s bedroom. Each time the child accomplishes a task, place a star-shaped sticker on the chart. When your child earns 10 stars, he can receive a small token. A boy may appreciate a matchbox car, and a girl may like scented erasers. Use whatever you feel will motivate your child. (Shy away from unhealthy candies and treats!) The entire family can also work together. After 50 stars from all the children’s charts, it’s time for a pizza party!  

The camaraderie that results from working together and having a blast will strengthen family bonds and will show kids that taking care of the home can be a fun and worthwhile mission. Cleaning can become a dream!

Sephardic Community Federation Leads the Charge Against Coney Island Casino

The Sephardic Community Federation has taken a firm stand against the proposed casino in Coney Island. Spearheading the “No Coney Casino” initiative, the SCF has launched the website noconeycasino.com, urging all community members to join their cause by signing a petition protesting the approval of a  casino.  

 

Uniting the Community 

The Sephardic Community Federation has galvanized the community by launching the “No Coney Casino” initiative. Recognizing the potential dangers posed by the casino, the SCF  has taken the lead in organizing and mobilizing residents of Southern Brooklyn to stand together in opposition. Their website, noconeycasino.com, serves as a central platform to spread awareness and for everyone to sign the petition, ensuring that our voices are heard loud and clear. 

 

Preserving Community Values 

The Sephardic Community Federation’s initiative highlights its commitment to preserving the values that make Coney Island a cherished landmark. By opposing the casino, the SCF aims to protect the area from the threats that a casino would bring. The SCF understands that a casino would pose a danger  to our Community’s  cherished values, and they are determined to safeguard those values for future generations. 

 

Empowering Community Engagement 

Through the “No Coney Casino” initiative, the Sephardic Community Federation empowers community members to actively participate in shaping the future of Coney Island. By signing the petition, individuals can express their concerns and contribute to a collective effort to prevent  the casino’s approval. This initiative serves as a reminder that the power of community engagement can influence the decisions made by elected officials.. 

 

Amplifying the Opposition 

The Sephardic Community Federation’s leadership in the “No Coney Casino” initiative amplifies the opposition to the casino proposal. By taking a prominent stance, the SCF encourages other community organizations and individuals to join the cause. Their proactive approach ensures that the concerns regarding addiction risks, economic disruption, and the erosion of community values, are voiced effectively, and in conjunction with other leading organizations. 

 

The Call to Action 

Led by the Sephardic Community Federation, the “No Coney Casino” initiative has become a pivotal force in the fight against the proposed casino in Coney Island. With the launch of their website, noconeycasino.com, the SCF  invites all Community members over the age of 18 to unite and sign the petition, sending a powerful message of opposition.  

By harnessing the strength of Community engagement, the Sephardic Community Federation is working tirelessly to preserve the Community’s values, protect against addiction risks, and ensure a prosperous and vibrant future for all residents of Southern Brooklyn. 

 

The SCF urges  all Community members over the age of 18 to log on to noconeycasino.com and sign the petition today.   

Magen David Yeshivah HS Shines in Washington, D.C.

Last month, Rabbi Avner Bitton arranged for a group of Magen David Yeshivah high school students to travel to Washington D.C. to visit the White House and the Senate in honor of Jewish Heritage Month.

Dr. Daniel Vitow, along with Mr. Bruce Bromfeld, and Rabbi Elinatan Bitton joined them as they met with Mr. Jake Turx, Senior White House Correspondent at Ami Magazine, who escorted them behind the gates, into the White House.

The students were also invited to the Senate, where they enjoyed a Jewish Heritage Celebration and heard from many senators and representatives. They visited the Senate Chamber as Senator Schumer was speaking and witnessed President Joe Biden depart on Marine One.

Afterwards, the students visited the International Spy Museum and took a sightseeing bus tour around the city.

The students expressed their thanks and gratitude to all the MDY staff members who accompanied them.

Community Board 13 Lodges Complaint About Housing Migrants in Neighborhood

Community Board 13, which represents the neighborhood of Coney Island, lodged a complaint concerning the plan of New York City to house some of the arriving migrants in the Sandra Feldman Gymnasium at 2818 West 35th Street. The gym is part of Public School 188, located at 3314 Neptune Avenue.

 

The Community Board reported that they were given no advance notice of the plan by any city agency, and noted that they had attempted unsuccessfully to receive even the most basic information

CB-13 is concerned about the number of people the city plans to house there, the length of time they are to remain there, if they have been screened for diseases, and if there is a plan in place to provide them with services

In protesting how the city handled this proposal, CB-13 members insisted they be informed about the process and be included in the discussions about implementing it.

SBH Summer Computer Workshops

SBH is offering free computer workshops this summer. All workshops will take place via Zoom. Register today, as the time for Summer 2023 courses is quickly approaching. For more information, please contact Jacqueline Tebele at jtebele@sbhcareer.org or call 718 787 1400 ext. 239

HOT Summer Gizmos & Gadgets

Summer is finally here! Make your summer more enjoyable with some of the latest hi-tech gadgets. Here are eight cool suggestions to enhance your summer fun. 

Beeline Velo 2 

The Velo 2 cycling computer attaches to your bike, giving you easy minimal navigation instructions that are built from tracking real life journeys. You can also track your speed, arrival time, distance, and check the time. It’s even weatherproof!

Biolite FirePit+  

With the FirePit+ you can enjoy a wood campfire without any of the smoke! This baby creates hyper-efficient flames with patented airflow technology. 

The improved airflow means the flame burns hotter and more efficiently, which produces less smoke. To transform it from a fire pit to a hibachi-style grill, lift the fuel rack, toss in charcoal, and rest a grill on the top. Voila!

Flite Board eFoil Series 2 Electric Water Board 

Take the ultimate ride at the beach this summer with this amazing water board. This updated model makes gliding over the water simpler and more user-friendly than ever.

Geneinno S1 Integrated Underwater Scooter 

Hold on to this incredible underwater scooter  for great wet adventures! Travel up to six feet per second and descend down 165 feet. Great for use in the ocean, the pool, or for deep sea ventures.  

Sobro Cooler Coffee Table 

A cold drink nearby is always appreciated in the summer. This product keeps  beverages chilled right in your coffee table. 

JBL Clip 4 Carabiner Speaker 

Take your favorite tunes with you wherever you go this summer. With this amazing little speaker’s integrated carabiner, you can even clip it to your backpack, belt loop, or any strap or buckle.  

Grillbot 

Good-bye dirty grills! Grillbot is a helper robot designed to get your grill squeaky clean. A rechargeable battery keeps three motors (outfitted with three replaceable metal brushes) going and an LCD alarm tells you when the dirty work is done.

Oombrella 

Summertime shower – no problem! This smart connected umbrella alerts you before it rains and then sends you a notification if you leave it behind. 

Mabrouk – June 2023

Births – Baby Boy 

Jonathan & Rachel Fox 

Jo-Jo & Jennifer Sasson 

Abie & Bracha Chera 

Mr. & Mrs. Meyer Safdieh 

Sammy & Shanny Antebi 

Mr. & Mrs. Jake Dweck 

Jesse & Sarine Antebi 

 

Births – Baby Girl 

Zaki & Liat Mustacchi 

Mr. & Mrs. Jack Bahary 

David & Claudine Winitsky 

 

Bar Mitzvahs 

Isaac, son of Robert and Jennifer Escava 

Ezra, son of Rabbi and Mrs. Leon Cohen 

 

Engagements 

Steven Srour to Victoria Cohen 

Marty Antebi to Joyce Gani 

Joey Attar to Rachel Sarwe 

Srulie Fischer to Rachel Antebi 

Reuven Semah to Stella Gindi 

Murray Mizrachi to Helen Mehani 

Weddings 

Reuven Semah to Rivka Esther Maslaton 

Eddie Cohen to Shelly Betesh 

Do I Need to Fast on 17th of Tamuz?

Ikey left his doctor’s office confused and upset and immediately called me. “Rabbi, I have fever and the doctor told me not to fast and I must continue my medication. But I’m feeling strong! Is the doctor being overly cautious or must I listen to his advice?” Sara and Rochelle also called because they were concerned the fast may affect their pregnancy and nursing. 

While it is universally accepted that anybody ill should not fast on the 17th of Tamuz, there is a difference of opinion regarding the status of pregnant and nursing women. This article will focus exclusively on the rulings of our Sephardic Hachamim regarding the fast of the 17th of Tamuz and not the stricter Tisha Be’av and Yom Kippur fasts. 

Fasting Exemptions When Pregnant or Nursing 

Sara was concerned because she is pregnant but otherwise healthy. Similar to men, healthy women should, indeed, fast. However, the Shulchan Aruch (O.C. 554:5) is clear that pregnant women are exempt from fasting even if they feel well. This exemption extends into the postpartum period for the first 30 days after birth, and even if the woman is not nursing (ibid. 554:6). And even after 30 days, if such a woman feels weak, she should also not fast (Kaf haChaim 554:28). This exemption applies equally after a miscarriage (that occurred at least 40 days after conception, Biur Halacha 617:4 quoted in Hazon Ovadya Ta’aniyot p. 288).

Rochelle called because she is nursing and was concerned that the fast would negatively affect her milk production. I explained to her that all nursing women are exempt from fasting on the 17th of Tamuz (S.A. ibid), even if they nurse just once a day (Ohr leTzion 3:25:7). Some poskim extend this leniency for a full two years after birth even if a woman is no longer nursing, although Hacham Ovadia, zt”l, rules that such a woman should begin the fast but may rely on this lenient opinion and break the fast if feeling weak, even if not actually ill (HazonOvadia, ibid p. 62). 

Fasting Exemptions for Physical or Emotional Conditions 

Back to Ikey’s question. The Hachamim did not institute fasting for the ill (even if the illness is not life-threatening). In this context, illness refers to someone with fever, an infection, or feeling extremely weak, and clearly to somebody more severely incapacitated, such as suffering from the flu or a migraine. This includes a person who has recovered from an illness or recuperated from surgery but still feels weak (Or l’Tzion 3:29:5). Someone with minor aches, pains, or discomfort is still obligated to start the fast so long as they can generally function normally, but they should break the fast if symptoms become more serious.  

Similarly, individuals with certain chronic conditions are exempt from fasting – if fasting may compromise their health. People with diabetes, heart disease, kidney disease, or weakened immune systems must not fast. Likewise, individuals with eating disorders should not fast as it can exacerbate their condition. This similarly applies to those for whom fasting may aggravate existing symptoms of depression, anxiety, or other mood disorders. 

Hacham Ben Zion Abba Shaul, zt”l, rules that any fragile person over the age of 80 should not fast (Ohr le’Tzion 3:29:5) as fasting at this age can often have negative effects on their health. That said, age is not a factor per se, and if at any age a person’s doctor feels that fasting will compromise their health, they should not fast (KafhaChaim 550:6). 

Is Ikey’s concern about taking medication a halachic issue? No – one who takes medications for fever, any acute illness, or daily prescribed medicine, must continue to do so, but should try to swallow them without water. Hacham Ovadia (ibid p.30) permits swallowing pills with a little water only if absolutely necessary.  

In conclusion, only healthy adults over the age of bar/bat Mitzvah need to fast. Pregnant women through thirty days postpartum and all nursing women are exempt from fasting. Anyone ill or whose health would be compromised by fasting should similarly not fast, and they should continue taking medication as usual.  

Importantly, fast days are intended as days of introspection, and even if not fasting, a person should use the day as an opportunity for growth and self-improvement by focusing on spiritual goals and aspirations.

Rabbi Yehuda Finchas is a worldwide expert, lecturer, and writer on medical halacha, and is the head of the Torat Habayit Medical Halacha Institute. His latest book is entitled “Brain Death in Halacha and the Tower of Babel Syndrome.” To contact Rabbi Finchas, or for a comprehensive Hebrew source sheet regarding those exempt from fasting, email rabbi@torathabayit.com.