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Dear Jido – July 2021

Dear Jido,

I’m a single working father of four. I’m often given unasked-for parenting advice from female parents who often, frankly, have much less parenting experience in general, and absolutely none with my own kids. This ranges from comments like, “Children often do better in their mom’s lap” as I’m booking airplane seats, to being the only parent on an email chain to get extra tips and help on a class project. I’m not sure that these comments are always meant in a helpful manner, and many of them seem to imply that men don’t really know how to parent their children. Any words of wisdom on this one?

Signed,

Father of Four

Dear Father of Four,

It is known that children relate to each parent in different ways. The Torah says, “Honor your father and mother” and also says, “A person should fear their mother and father,” putting the mother’s fear before the father’s, since according to our Sages, the fear of the father comes more naturally to a child.

A father generally represents strength and wisdom while the mother represents warmth and spirituality. Every child needs a combination of both.

It is a well-known saying that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Whatever that means is up for debate. But it is highly likely that you (and I as well), being a man, cannot fully understand the relationship that a child has to his/her mother and vice versa. I would say that, most likely, these women are giving you advice from their vantage point as females and mothers. Their comments are likely well founded, if not fully understood by fathers. In general, some people might act like jokers, and some might be sarcastic, but when it comes to the welfare of a child, most people take it very seriously.

Perhaps, do an experiment. Next time you get some unsolicited advice from a would-be do-gooder, run it by your oldest child. See what he/she says. You might find that it helps to complement the extraordinary effort you are putting in to raising your children, by yourself, to the best of your ability.

The wise man learns from everyone. Separate the wheat from the chaff and give your children the benefit of all four parenting traits (strength, wisdom, warmth, and spirituality).

Good luck,

Jido

Purchasing Power

A buyer’s purchasing power is now greater than ever. Purchasing power is defined by how much goods and services one can receive for their money. In our case, it refers to what type or size of house you can purchase. Since interest rates are now low, one can now buy a more expensive house at the same price but pay less in the long run.

Let’s take a look at the following example:

John Doe can only afford a $2,000 monthly mortgage payment (principal and interest).

The average mortgage rate currently in 2021 is approximately 3.1-3.3% while the average mortgage rate in 2019 was 4.45%. So, let’s make a basic calculation. If in 2019 John Doe bought a house with a loan amount of $410,000, assuming a 30-year fixed rate mortgage of 4.45%, his monthly principal and interest payment would be $2,065. However, if he were to purchase home in 2021 with a loan amount of $480,000, assuming a 30-year fixed rate mortgage, his monthly payments would also be approximately $2,076. That means that for the same amount of money, John can now afford a home that is over $70K more expensive than he could have purchased it for in 2019. (All prices and rates are on average. Rates and monthly payments are taken from Google mortgage calculator.)

That’s Amazing!

And you can be John Doe. You can afford more home with the same monthly payments because the rates are so low. This is one of the reasons I see an overabundance of vacant rentals because many people are choosing to buy now.

Electric Bill Overload

I am sure by now many of you have seen a difference on your electric bills. If you’re in the city your air conditioner is probably running full time. Here are some tips on how to save a little bit on your bill.

1. Cover your windows. Solar screens or mesh-like window screens are effective in blocking most of the heat that will enter via the windows. Window films are another great option, but they only work if the windows are closed.

2. Many times, we get home and we are boiling! We run over to the thermostat and turn it as low as possible. This does not cool your home any faster and can result in a bigger electric bill because of the excessive cooling. I know it’s hard to break this habit, but perhaps you can arrange a timer or a smart thermostat that will start the A/C at a normal temperature before you get home, so your house is cool to enter.

3. Give your A/C some TLC. An inefficient air conditioner raises your cooling costs. It’s running but not doing its job so well. Your filter should be cleaned at least once a month in the summer and even more if you have a dusty home or own furry pets. And if your A/C needs a little bit more help, hire a professional technician. It will save you money in the long run.

4. There’s a reason why barbecues are super popular in the summer. They keep the heat out of the house. Try to reduce the use of your stove and oven, especially midday. And I’m sure your family would be more than happy with a cool meal in the summer. Salads, fruit, and sandwiches are always delicious options.

5. Seal the leaks. We all know that feeling of having our A/C running full blast, but our kid left the door open. Check the most obvious leaks first, windows and doors. And then do a visual check inside and outside looking for any gaps the cold air can escape through.

Good luck battling the summer heat y’all! Feel free to share any other money-saving techniques with me. I’d love to expand my list. One place to reach me is my Instagram @TheBehfarTeam. Can’t wait to hear from you!

Mayor Sam Cohen Welcomes the Community to Deal

Dear Friends,

As we finally emerge from COVID-19, I am excited to welcome our residents and community members back to Deal for another exciting summer.

COVID-19 restrictions have eased dramatically and yet our highest concern at the Borough of Deal remains your health and safety. As we return to a true sense of normalcy, I want to remind residents to continue to exercise safety and caution during the busy summer months. We kindly remind cyclists to always wear a helmet and ride on the right side of the road, and please ensure that all bicycles are equipped with proper reflectors. Furthermore, we urge everyone to exercise extra vigilance with their vehicles and homes. When parking vehicles, please remove valuables and lock your car doors. As usual, should you have any concerns whatsoever, please visit us at: http://www.dealborough.com/ and fill out a “Report a Concern” form. If you require any immediate assistance, police, fire or first aid for an emergency, please dial 911.

While we remain focused on health and safety, we also continue with our pledge to maintaining the incomparable beauty and extraordinary services of the Borough of Deal as well. During the past year, we completed road resurfacing at Roosevelt Avenue, Monmouth Drive, Roseld Avenue, Woodford Road, Beringer Road, Whitehall Road, and Wallace Road. You will also notice upgraded Ocean Avenue street signs throughout the town with Norwood Avenue to follow. Furthermore, we continue to plant new trees, as well as replace struggling young trees.

On our beaches, it is critical that Deal both services beachgoers as well as manage its safety. Therefore, we have added lifeguards and will require a beach pass at all accessible points of entry. Please note Season passes can be purchased at Borough Hall and Individual weekday or weekend day passes can be purchased on the website: https://parksrec.egov.basgov.com/deal/.

I would like to thank the Borough of Deal team for their tireless efforts this past year. And on behalf of our team at the Borough of Deal, let me be the first to share warm wishes for a wonderful summer together.

Sincerely,

Samuel Cohen

Mayor of Deal

Once Upon A Thyme – Fluffernutter Popsicles

A fluffernutter is a sandwich made with peanut butter and marshmallow fluff and usually served on white bread. You can’t go wrong with the classic combo of peanut butter and marshmallow. These popsicles are just like sinking your teeth into the creamiest peanut butter and fluff sandwich you can imagine. Plus, its topped with a crunchy layer of cracked sugar cone pieces and melted chocolate. What better way to usher in summer with this decadent and fun dessert that tastes like the fluffernutter sandwiches we loved growing up!?

Recipe:

2 cans coconut milk

1/2 cup sugar

1 cup fluff

1 cup peanut butter

1 tsp vanilla extract

4 sugar cones

1 cup mini marshmallows

6 oz. dark chocolate

1 tsp oil

Popsicle sticks

1. Place coconut milk, sugar, fluff, peanut butter, and vanilla in a food processor and blend until smooth

2. Crack the cones into small pieces with your hands. Save half on the side for garnish and use the remaining cracked pieces to place inside the popsicle molds along with the mini marshmallows.

3. Carefully pour the ice cream mixture inside the molds. Place popsicle sticks inside each mold and freeze for 7 hours or overnight

4. Melt chocolate with oil. Drizzle melted chocolate on top of the popsicle and sprinkle with remaining pieces of the sugar cone.

Hot Summer Gadgets & Gizmos

Summertime is not just about sunshine and barbecues – it also inspires hi-tech gadgets that make our lives simpler and more enjoyable. Check out some of this year’s hottest new gizmos!

Monos CleanPod

This handheld UVC sterilizer is one of the best new gadgets around. Just charge it up, stash it in a backpack, and you are good to go! To sterilize something, just press a button, wave the Monos CleanPod over any surface for half a minute and it will immediately get rid of viruses, bacteria, and all other types of germs.

MyZone MZ-Switch Heart Rate Monitor

This fitness tracker is ready for anything, even if you’re not. The MZ-Switch measures your heart rate to understand how much effort you’re putting into your exercise.

What makes it unique is that this tracker can slot into different straps to read your heart rate from your wrist, arm, or chest. And it’s waterproof, too!

Superstrata Bike

Send Superstrata your dimensions, riding style, and preferences and they’ll 3D print you a carbon fiber bike frame made to fit. Prefer a stiffer ride? A bike for commuting or for touring? Superstrata has over 500,000 possible combinations!

Rise Personal Garden

The Rise Personal Garden is a small, smart hydroponic garden that fits on your countertop so you can grow fresh food right in your home. This smaller version of the Rise gardens can grow four large plants, eight medium-sized plants, or a dozen small plants. You can grow a wide range of vegetables and even microgreens.

ButterOnce Corn Butter Knife

Corn on the cob is a summer staple, but can also be messy. These uniquely-designed butter knives keep butter on the corn and off of your fingers, so you can enjoy every kernel without worrying about the mess.

Sobro Cooler Coffee Table

This coffee table brings you right into the future! The multifunctional coffee table includes a refrigerator drawer to keep cold drinks on hand. If that was not enough, add on Bluetooth speakers, LED lights, and USB charging ports for tablets, laptops, or a cell phone. Add guests and you are ready for the party!

Cold Snap Frozen Treat Machine

Delicious homemade ice cream can be yours in minutes. The Cold Snap Frozen Treat Machine uses pods with pre-mixed ingredients, allowing your frozen treats to be dispensed directly from the pod to your bowl. Besides producing delicious frozen treats, including ice cream, frozen yogurt, smoothies, and frozen coffees, this machine requires no clean up! Sweet deal.

Geneinno S1 Integrated Underwater Scooter 

Explore coral reefs and other underwater treasures with this beautiful scooter. This amazing underwater scooter reduces the energy and time it takes to reach your maximum depths. Great for use in the deep sea, pools, and water parks.

Cocoon Spherical Tree Bed

Sleep under the stars or relax in the daytime with the Cocoon Spherical Tree Bed. This luxury tent getaway fits a double bed inside. Plus, you’ll have room for accessories, unlike an average-sized tent. Thanks to the lightweight aluminum structure, it can be hung from two trees, and the six anchor points of suspension improve stability when you sleep.

Milo Action Voice Communicator

Use the Milo Action Voice Communicator to connect with your friends while enjoying outdoor activities this summer. This gadget lets you share your adventures when you can’t use your phone. With no buttons to push, this hands-free device doesn’t require a cell signal or Wi-Fi. And it features six low-distortion microphones that suppress wind and background noise to provide clear calls.

Beware of the Fox

Tishah B’Av is a time for mourning, but also a time for hope. What has kept us alive and allowed us to flourish throughout the millennia of turbulent exile is our nation’s unique ability to find comfort and solace amid the hardship, to introduce faith and optimism even as we mourn and lament. We observe the three-week period of mourning, culminating with the fast of Tishah B’Av – but then we get off the floor and enter Shabbat Nahamu and a period of great confidence and hope.

One of the most famous and cherished examples of this uniquely Jewish trait is the story told at the end of Masechet Makkot of how Rabbi Akiva comforted his grieving colleagues. Rabbi Akiva and three of his distinguished peers were passing near the ruins of the Bet Hamikdash, and they observed a fox scurrying about, running from the area which had been the site of the kodesh hakodashim – the holiest chamber of the Bet Hamikdash. The three other rabbis wept, while Rabbi Akiva laughed. The three rabbis asked Rabbi Akiva why he was laughing, and he returned the question – asking why they were crying.

Rabbi Akiva’s colleagues were astounded. “We shouldn’t cry?!” they exclaimed. This was the holiest site on earth, where only one man was ever allowed to enter – the kohen gadol, who went inside that chamber only once a year, on Yom Kippur. How could they not cry upon seeing the site violated by a wild fox?!

Rabbi Akiva responded that he celebrated the sight of the ruins of the Mikdash because it marked the fulfillment of centuries-old prophecies. If the prophets’ predictions of destruction materialized, Rabbi Akiva said, then we can rest assured that their predictions of our nation’s glorious redemption will also one day be fulfilled.

The Other Fox

There is one aspect of this famous story which often goes unnoticed – namely, that this is not the only time that we find Rabbi Akiva talking about a fox.

An equally famous story is told elsewhere in the Talmud, in Masechet Berachot (61b), about Rabbi Akiva’s tragic end. The Roman government issued an edict banning Torah study, but Rabbi Akiva courageously defied the ban, and publicly taught groups of students. Ultimately, he was captured and tortured to death. Before Rabbi Akiva’s capture, a man named Pappos approached him and asked why he would risk his life by defying the authorities’ strict edict.

Rabbi Akiva replied by telling a fable of a fox who walked along the seashore and observed the fish frantically jumping about. The fox asked what they were doing, and the fish explained that they were desperately trying to avoid the fishermen’s nets.

“Why don’t you just come to the shore?” the fox asked, “You’ll be safe over here.”

“They call you the cleverest of the animals?!” the fish responded. “You’re not clever; you’re a fool!” The fish explained that if their lives were endangered in the water, the place where they were generally able to live, then certainly they would face even graver danger if they left the water, their life source, to live on dry land.

Similarly, Rabbi Akiva explained, if the Jews faced danger while living “in the water,” immersed in Torah learning, their very lifeblood, then they would face far greater danger if they abandon Torah study.

In this story, the fox represents the seductive lure of life without Torah. It is the voice that tries convincing us that life will be better, easier, and more fulfilling if we leave the “water,” our life of Torah commitment.

Lamenting Our Spiritual Exile

With this in mind, we can perhaps return to the story of the fox running from the site of the kodesh hakodashim.

The rabbis saw this scene as a frightening symbol – one which portended the realization of their worst fears. They foresaw the “foxes” of all kinds succeeding in luring Jews away from the “kodesh hakodashim,” Torah commitment. What disturbed them was something even worse than the rubble they saw at the place where thousands of Jews would assemble at the spectacular, sacred Bet Hamikdash to serve Gd. They were horror-stricken by the spiritual exile which they foresaw, the widespread departure from the “kodesh hakodashim,” Jews heeding the foolish advice of the “fox” and abandoning their heritage.

This tragic process had already unfolded many years earlier, during the time of the prophet Yirmiyahu. In one of the haftarot read in the weeks leading up to Tishah B’Av, we read Gd’s harsh condemnation of the people for “shetayim ra’ot” – “two evils” which they committed against Him (Yirmiyahu 2:13). First, “You abandoned Me, the source of life water.” Abandoning Gd under any circumstances is bad, but even worse, the Jews abandoned Him “to chisel for yourselves cisterns – broken cisterns which cannot contain water.” The Jews turned their back on their faith in favor of vanity, of hollow beliefs, of emptiness. They were lured and tempted by the various different “foxes” that convinced them they would be better off out of the “mayim hayim” – the “life water,” our source of spiritual sustenance. But what they found was “broken cisterns,” a life without meaning, without substance, without direction and without real values.

This was Rabbi Akiva’s colleagues’ greatest fear. They foresaw the years in exile when the Jews would be dispersed throughout the world, and exist as a small, disliked minority among other cultures and societies. The “foxes” all around them will lure them out of the “kodesh hakodashim,” away from Torah, and convince them to embrace the “broken cisterns” of the other nations.

The other rabbis wept, but Rabbi Akiva rejoiced. Rabbi Akiva was fully ignorant of Torah – and could not even read – until the age of forty. He was very, very far from the “kodesh hakodashim.” He lived a life bereft of Torah devotion. But once he decided to change, and to begin making his way towards the “kodesh hakodashim,” he not only succeeded, but emerged as one of the leading sages of the Jewish People. Rabbi Akiva’s life story shows that our departure from the “kodesh hakodashim” is not the end

of the story. We can always return. Even if the seductive lures of the “fox” succeed in drawing us away from our life source, we must trust in our ability to find our way back.

The Modern-Day “Foxes”

The rabbis’ tears are even more understandable if we assume that they foresaw the “foxes” of our generation, the relentless pressures that the modern Jew faces that threaten to pull him away from the “kodesh hakodashim.”

There are millions of such “foxes,” and they are all in the palm of our hands, or in our pockets. Technology has placed lures of many different kinds around us at all times. The distractions are endless. There is a bottomless pit of spiritually toxic material that is readily accessible around the clock. All this pulls us like a magnet out of the “kodesh hakodashim,” away from Torah, and it takes a great deal of strength to resist this force.

We face ideological “foxes,” as well. Our surrounding culture presents itself as morally superior to our beliefs and values, which it considers backward and antiquated, Heaven forbid. Our principles of faith and our lifestyle are ridiculed and condemned as immoral. We must reinforce our firm conviction that our way of life is the “be’er mayim chayim,” the “well of life water.”

Our surrounding culture has a very alluring appearance; it seems to offer enjoyment and satisfaction, and it claims moral preeminence. This illusion is the sly, clever “fox” trying to pull us out of the “water.”

The Torah says about the pit into which Yosef was thrown, “The pit was empty; it had no water” (Beresheet 37:24). The Gemara (Shabbat 22a) comments, “It had no water – but it did have snakes and scorpions.” The message of this statement is far more profound than a description of the life-threatening danger that Yosef faced. It warns us that when our society or community is “empty,” without “water” – a symbol of Torah – then it is very swiftly filled with “snakes and scorpions,” with immorality, decadence and corruption. Life on the “shore,” away from Torah, might seem appealing, but in truth, leaving the water is the worst decision we could ever make.

The story of Rabbi Akiva and his colleagues ends with them turning to him and saying, “Akiva, nihamtanu – Akiva, you have comforted us.” Let us, too, take comfort in Rabbi Akiva’s inspiring example, which shows that the door to the kodesh hakodashim remains open for us at all times, no matter how far we have strayed. We must not be discouraged by the sight of so many of our beloved fellow Jews being led out of the “water” by the “fox.” Rather than feel helpless and weep, let us follow Rabbi Akiva’s lead and feel confident about the future. Amid all the upsetting problems and daunting spiritual challenges that we face, we must also see what Rabbi Akiva saw – living examples of Jews who, despite it all, defied the “fox” and proceeded to the kodesh hakodashim. Wherever we look in our community, we see so many such examples, people who have overcome enormous challenges and withstood immense pressures to devote themselves to Torah. These individuals not only set an inspiring example for us to follow, but also give us hope, allowing us to feel comforted knowing that we will all, please Gd, make our way back to the “kodesh hakodashim” and be worthy of the rebuilding of the Bet Hamikdash, speedily and in our time, amen.

Hungry Mom’s Food Diary by Susan Zayat – Pastrami Stuffed Burgers

There is nothing like a nice BBQ after a long summer day. BBQ is one of my favorite dinners ever! And a BBQ leaves you with such warm memories. Here are some ideas to take your BBQ dinner to a whole new level.

Now, you can stuff your burgers with whatever you’d like. A few Ideas are: sautéed onions, jalapeños, and sautéed mushrooms. I usually make my own burgers, but you can use store-bought and then reshape them yourself.

For the Burgers:

  • 1 lb. chop meat
  • 1/2 grated onion
  • 1.5 tbsp. Worcestershire sauce
  • 1 tbsp. teriyaki sauce
  • 2 tsp. parsley flakes
  • A sprinkle of allspice
  • Salt

1. Add all ingredients together in a bowl or foil pan and mix well.

2. Form patties to the size you’d like your burgers – but make sure half of them are a little thicker (you can probably make 4 patties from this amount of meat, which will be enough for 2 burgers).

3. Make a well (small indentation) in half of the patties (the thicker ones).

4. Sauté half an onion with approximately 4 slices of deli pastrami. Once sautéed, place the mixture into the well that you made in the patties.

5. Place a thinner patty on top and pinch together all around to close. Try to smooth out the outside to form a nice looking patty.

6. Grill based on how well-done you like your burgers.

Grilled Corn with Garlic Herb Oil

Boil fresh corn on the cob (that has been husked and cleaned of all silk) for around 10 minutes. Remove corn from the water, wrap individually in foil, and grill the ears for 10 minutes, flipping occasionally.

For the Garlic Herb Oil:

1. Heat up 1/3 cup oil.

2. Add in 2 cloves of crushed garlic and 1/2 tsp. crushed red pepper flakes.

3. Once the mixture becomes fragrant remove from heat and add in 2 sliced scallions, 1/4 cup chopped parsley, lemon zest, and lemon juice.

4. Brush the oil mixture over the grilled corn when ready to eat.

Baked Beans

This recipe is really simple but takes hot dogs, hamburgers, and smoked brisket to the next level. Trust me!

1. Sauté a chopped onion in a little oil.

2. Add in a can of vegetarian baked beans (Heinz are my favorite).

3. Add in 2 tbsp. ketchup and 2 tbsp. BBQ sauce. Give it a good mix and let it cook on the stove for around 10 minutes to get the flavors incorporated.

4. Make sure to mix every few minutes to prevent burning.

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From the Files of the Mitzvah Man – Always with Total Compassion

Pnina Souid

People approach the Mitzvah Man organization every day looking for help. Recently, a Mitzvah Man volunteer, we’ll call Rabbanit C., was helping an elderly woman named Rina who was living in a shelter. Due to the horrible conditions at the shelter, Rabbanit C. and others concerned for Rina were working on finding her an apartment and providing the basics needed for her to move in.

Rabbanit C. said that they finally found a suitable place for Rina, but it was a bare apartment. All Rina was asking for was a second-hand bed to sleep in. Just having an apartment of her own with a place to lay her head would be a huge improvement over living at the shelter.

Mitzvah Man asked Rabbanit C., “Certainly Rina needs more than this. She has an entire apartment to furnish!”

Rabbanit C. replied, “Rina will be happy with the bed. She is a very humble woman and is embarrassed to ask for any help at all.”

“I will send out a text message to my volunteers and will let you know the results,” answered the Mitzvah Man.

The Mitzvah Man followed through right away, sending a text to all his volunteers explaining the situation and requesting a used bed.

Almost immediately responses from the Mitzvah Man volunteers started coming in. One volunteer replied that he is ordering Rina a new bed right now. The next volunteer said that he spoke with Rina personally, and confirmed that her apartment is completely empty. “I am ordering her a chair, table, and a desk to ship today, and I told her that if she needs anything else to please call me,” he told the Mitzvah Man. The third volunteer said that since Rina just came out of a shelter, she must need some food to start her off. He offered to donate $500 worth of food. A fourth volunteer very thoughtfully added his contribution, “I am sending new sheets, pillows, blankets, and other bedding to keep her comfortable.”

Soon afterwards another volunteer texted, “I own a lighting fixture store. I’m sending over all her lighting needs plus some furniture.”

Within 48 hours everything was delivered, including food to fill her refrigerator and freezer. Rina was thrilled. She did not have enough words to express her thanks for all of the amazing hesed she had received. It was hard for her to believe that she was living in a new place, which allowed her to live with dignity, and even with a plentiful amount of food. Rina felt like she was living in a palace!

Rina’s story is just one of many that typify the kindness and compassion, giving and caring that characterize the Mitzvah Man organization and the volunteers who give of themselves wholeheartedly.

If you would like to join their chain of hesed or if you know someone who is need of assistance, please call the Mitzvah Man organization at (866) 355-1825.

Follow the Mitzvah Man organization on Instagram @mitzvahman.

There Is Always Another Option

Rabbi David Ashear

When Queen Esther was apprehensive about approaching Achashverosh without being invited, Mordechai told her that if she did not go, “relief and salvation shall come to the Jews from another place” (Esther 4:14). The Maharal explains the term “from another place” as a reference to Hashem. Mordechai was saying that Hashem has countless ways to bring salvation. “If you want to be the vehicle,” he told Esther, “then it will come through you. But if not, Hashem will bring it another way.”

We must keep Mordechai’s words in mind whenever we confront challenges in life. At times people say, “If I don’t get that job, then I’m finished; there are no other options”; or, “If we don’t get this order, this business can’t continue.” We are never bound to any one option. If one option does not work out, then Hashem will help in some other way. This is true when it comes to dating, as well. A person might say, “If I am not able to marry this person, then I’ll never be happy.” This is not true. Hashem can find someone else capable of making the person just as happy. It often happens that when the solution is found, we look back and say, “I can’t believe it. There were so many options and opportunities!”

We firmly believe that a person’s livelihood for the year is determined on Rosh Hashanah. Hashem has countless ways of bringing us the parnassah He decreed. If option A does not work, He can do it through option B. If that does not succeed, then there’s option C, and so on. We should never feel that we are dependent on any one source of income or means of earning a livelihood. Hashem will always get to us exactly what we are supposed to receive.

A few years ago, a certain organization was experiencing financial difficulties and needed to cut their employees’ salaries. A Rabbi who worked for the organization was earning exactly what he needed to pay his family’s bills, and now his salary was slashed by $7,000 a year. His job did not

allow any time to take on additional work to make up for the shortfall. He turned to Hashem and said, “I know my parnassah comes from You. You have many ways of sending it. Please show me the way I can make this money which I need.”

A week or two later, he received a bill in the mail from his homeowner’s insurance company. This had never happened before; the bill was always sent straight to the mortgage company. He phoned the insurance company, and the representative apologized for the error. When the Rabbi reviewed the bill, he noticed that the price seemed a bit steep. He was paying $7,000 a year for a less-than-stellar policy. After several brief phone calls, he found a different policy that offered better coverage for just $3,000. After signing up with the new plan, he received a $4,000 refund from the mortgage company for the difference. A couple of weeks later, he received a phone call from a synagogue asking if he could help lead their minyanim on Rosh Hashanah, offering $3,000 compensation. Just like that, Hashem made up the $7,000 difference.

There are many ways in which we can be helped. We should never feel limited. We have Hashem helping us, and He can help us in ways we could never imagine.

Adapted from “Living Emunah,” by Rabbi David Ashear, with permission of the copyright holders, ArtScroll / Mesorah Publications, Ltd.

Mashiah Revealed: Part X – The Messianic Era

Rabbi Eliyahu Haim Aboud

The world will undergo drastic changes following the wars of Gog Umagog and Mashiah’s arrival. In this month’s column we will attempt to paint the fascinating picture of how the world will appear and develop during the Messianic Era, based on the elaborate descriptions presented by the Prophets.

An Everlasting Redemption

Our sages tell us that our final redemption from exile in the end of days will involve more than a military triumph over the enemy nations and renewed sovereignty over our homeland, the land of Israel. This alone would not guarantee an everlasting redemption. After all, the Maccabees defeated the Greek oppressors and regained control over the land, but, as we know, their victory was relatively short-lived. During the final redemption, by contrast, Hashem will reveal to the entire world His sovereignty, glory and love for the Yehudim. The miracles He will perform and the harsh retribution He will deliver upon the wicked people of the world will bring about a fundamental and permanent change in perspective on the part of the gentile peoples. The Yehudim’s stature as Gd’s Chosen Nation will finally be recognized universally and persecution of the Yehudim will end as they are accorded the honor befitting the Almighty’s beloved people.

The prophets further describe the end of all foreign beliefs and religions after Mashiah’s arrival. The remaining gentile nations will accept upon themselves Hashem’s kingship and unite in the service of the one and only Gd. They will even make frequent pilgrimages to the Bet Hamikdash, where they will learn how to properly serve the Creator. However, they will not be considered Yehudim themselves. Moreover, the truth of Hashem’s sovereignty will be so clearly visible, that people of the world will cherish the honor of serving members of Gd’s Chosen Nation. Indeed, the Talmud teaches that one who ensures to fulfill the missva of sissit properly will be rewarded with 2,800 willing avadim (!) in the Messianic era1.

A Peaceful World

The Prophets also foretell that peace and tranquility will prevail throughout the world with the onset of the Messianic era. The world will no longer be torn by war and conflict, and nations will no longer need to obtain weaponry or train armies. The entire world will unite in perfect harmony, bound together by their shared desire to fulfill the Divine will.

The Perfect World

Our sages teach that in the beginning of creation, until Adam and Hava committed the sin of eating from the forbidden tree, the world was a far more perfect place than it is now. Firstly, Man was originally created to live in the idyllic conditions of the magnificent Garden of Eden, and was destined to live forever. At that time, the human being’s sole desire was goodness, and had no inclination to do evil. Animals, too, ate only plants and vegetation, and felt no instinct to prey on each other. It was intended that all mankind would maintain the highest possible level of prophecy, capable of conversing with Hashem freely, without restriction. Women gave birth on the same day they conceived, and did not have to endure the discomfort of pregnancy and labor. (In fact, Hava gave birth to Kayin and Hevel on the day she was created.) Similarly, trees and plants bore their fruits the day they were planted.

This all changed, of course, after Adam and Hava sinned. However, our sages tell us that in the Messianic Era, the world will return to its originally intended state of perfection. Man will no longer be inclined to do evil, and will instead be driven only toward righteousness and devotion to Hashem. Death will be eliminated from the earth, and the Yehudim will be elevated to such a high spiritual level that everyone – men, women and children – will receive prophecies from Hashem. (Different views exist as to whether death will be completely eliminated, or only among the righteous.)

According to many opinions, the animal kingdom will also return to its primordial state, at least in the land of Israel, and animals will no longer prey on one another. (Others maintain that the state of animals will not change in the Messianic Era.) Women will bear children on the day they conceive, and trees and plants will bear their fruits the day they are planted. All Yehudim will have all their needs cared for, and they will lack nothing. They will all immerse themselves exclusively in Torah study and the fulfillment of all the missvot. The world will thus return to its primordial state of perfection, and Hashem’s original intended purpose in the world’s creation will finally be realized.

The Land of Israel after Mashiah

Our sages describe the unparalleled splendor and glory that the land of Israel and its capital city, Jerusalem, will achieve after the coming of Mashiah. No foreign houses of worship will remain, and the entire land will be purified. The city of Jerusalem will be magnificently rebuilt, with huge diamonds and precious stones scattered throughout the city and freely available to all. According to one Midrash, the city will be surrounded with three massive walls of silver, gold, and precious stones with an additional wall of fire surrounding them. Mashiah, who will be a powerful king from the royal house of David, will reside in Jerusalem and rule over the entire world, making Jerusalem the capital and center of the earth. The land of Israel will encompass an area more than double the size of the present State of Israel; and according to the Midrash, it will actually expand immeasurably.

Rebuilding the Bet Hamikdash

The arrival of Mashiah will also bring the long-awaited reconstruction of the Bet Hamikdash, which was destroyed nearly two millennia ago. The Temple will be restored to its previous state of glory, and the sacrificial offerings will be reinstated. The Yehudim will once again come to the Mikdash together as a nation three times each year on the pilgrimage festivals (Pesah, Shavuot, and Sukkot).

The rabbinic scholars debate the question of who will build the third Temple. Some say that Gd Himself will build the structure, which will descend readymade from the heavens in a pillar of fire. Others, however, contend that Mashiah will rebuild the Temple. There are some who claim that both views are correct: Mashiah will first rebuild the Temple, but then a spiritual Temple will descend from heaven and enter the Temple constructed by Mashiah, just as a soul enters a physical body.

Free Choice and Reward

The purpose of man’s creation, in its most simplistic description, is to resist the temptation to sin and act righteously, whereby he will be deserving of eternal reward in the world to come. This gives rise to the obvious question as to the purpose of man’s existence in the Messianic Era, when there will be no inclination toward evil. What will be the purpose of man during this period of time?

This question led the Ramban (Rabbi Moshe Nachmanides, Spain, 1194-1270) to claim that there will indeed be no reward given for serving Hashem during the Messianic Era, when people will not have free choice to do evil. (Remarkably, the Ramban calls the time of Mashiah “the unwanted days,” because they will not offer the possibility of earning eternal reward!) Others, however, disagree, and explain that even in the times of Mashiah, people will endure spiritual challenges, though not to the same extent as they do now. Although people will not experience an internal drive to do evil, there will be some sort of external force luring them to sin. Just as the snake lured Adam to violate Hashem’s command, similarly, in the Messianic era we will be exposed to external sinful pressures. We will earn eternal reward in the next world by resisting these pressures and remaining faithful to the Almighty.

The Messianic Era and Olam Haba

Many different opinions exist as to the duration of the Messianic Era. Some scholars say that this period will last for only 400 years, while others claim that it will endure for 2,000 years. After this period, the world will reach the stage called Olam Haba – the world to come, when all of existence will be transformed into an entirely new entity – which we will discuss at length in next month’s installment.

Next Issue: Tehiyat Hametim and Olam Haba

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