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The Lighter Side – November 2020

Clever Canine

A wealthy man decided to go on a safari in Africa and took his small pet dog Fido along for company.

One day, while roaming the African plains, Fido started chasing butterflies, and before long the little beagle realized that he was lost. Wandering about, he suddenly noticed a leopard heading rapidly in his direction with the obvious intention of having lunch.

“Uh oh,” the dog thought to himself, “I’m in deep trouble now.” Noticing some bones on the ground nearby, he immediately settled down to chew on the bones with his back to the approaching cat. Just as the leopard was about to leap, the dog loudly exclaimed, “Man, that was one delicious leopard. I wonder if there are any more around here!”

Hearing this, the leopard halted his attack in midstride and, overcome by fear, quietly slinked away into the trees. “Whew,” the leopard said. “That was close. That dog nearly had me.”

Meanwhile, a pint-sized monkey who had been watching the whole scene from a nearby tree figured he could put this knowledge to good use and trade it for protection from the leopard. So, off he went to speak to the leopard. The dog saw the monkey heading toward the leopard, and figured that something must be up. The monkey quickly caught up with the leopard and, after striking a deal, revealed that the dog had tricked him. The cat, furious at being made to look like a fool, said, “Here, monkey, hop on my back and see what’s going to happen to that conniving canine!”

The dog saw the leopard coming with the monkey on his back, and began thinking, “What am I going to do now?” But instead of running, the dog decided to sit down with his back to his attackers, pretending he hasn’t seen them yet. And just when they got close enough to hear, the dog says, “Now where’s that monkey already? I knew shouldn’t trust him.”

Curious about the dog’s remarks, the leopard pauses for a moment and looks at the monkey.

Then the dog continues, “It must have been at least half an hour since I sent him to bring me another leopard!”

Yitzy D.

Delivery Service

After my friend landed a coveted job from DHL, we went out to lunch to
celebrate. At the restaurant he was contacted by the company’s human resources department with an urgent request to complete and send back some forms. “No problem,” he said, “I’ll FedEx them right over!”

Abe C.

The Calming Claims Rep

I admit I was becoming frantic when I couldn’t find my luggage at the airport baggage area and went to the lost luggage office to report the loss. Thankfully, Cindy, the baggage claim representative, calmed me down.

Smiling warmly, she told me not to worry as she assured me that she was a trained professional and I was in good hands. I was starting to feel relieved when this professional asked me her first question… “So, has your plane arrived yet?”

Eddie G.

What Daddy Does

Ruth, a travel agent, took a call from a man who wanted to book a flight for two to Colorado. When Ruth quoted him $59 per ticket, he wasn’t happy with the price.

“I want the $49 fare I saw advertised,” he insisted, saying that he would accept a flight anytime. After much searching, Ruth finally managed to find two seats on a 6am flight.

“I’ll take it,” he said. But he then expressed his concerns that his wife might not like the early hour.

“Well you’d better tell me for certain,” Ruth warned him. “There is a $25 cancellation fee for each ticket if you change the reservation.”

“Oh, that’s no problem,” he said dismissively. “What’s 50 bucks?”

Jack V. Grazi

The Crazy Cut

Bob walked in to Fred’s Barber Shop one day.

“Hello there,” Fred the barber said as he recognized the repeat customer. “Do you want a trim or a regular cut today?”

“How much for a crazy cut?” Bob replied.

“A crazy cut? What exactly is that?” asked the barber.

Bob answered, “That’s where you cut one inch off of the left side, nothing off of the right side, shave just the middle part of the top of my head, and cut the hair in the back on a slant from left to right.”

Fred the Barber laughed and said, “Yeah, right… I’d do that one for free!”

“Really?” asked Bob. “Because you charged me for it last time I was here.”

David B.

First Jump Jitters

As a sergeant in a parachute regiment, I took part in many exercises with young officers.

Once, I was seated next to a lieutenant fresh from jump school. He was quiet and looked a bit pale, so I struck up a conversation.

“Everything ok, sir?” I asked.

“Yes,” he answered quietly.

“Scared?” I asked.

“No,” he replied, “just a bit apprehensive.”

I asked, “What’s the difference?”

“That means,” he explained slowly, “I’m scared, but with a university education.”

Sari R.

The School Interview

Little Simon was applying to a religious school for third grade. Before being accepted, he had to be interviewed by the principal. “Now, Simon,” the principal asked, “tell me honestly, do you say prayers before eating?”

“No sir,” Simon answered, “I don’t have to… my Mom is a very good cook.”

Sarah S.

Laughing Gas

Morris was in need of much dentistry work. At his first appointment to fill one of his root canals, the dentist gave him laughing gas to ease the pain from the drilling. Upon completing the work, the dentist removed the mask, and Morris asked, “When am I going to stop laughing?” The dentist replied, “When you see your bill.”

David S.

Know Your Station

Barbara was in Grand Central Station on her way to Connecticut. She had never taken the trip before, and was wondering if she had to switch trains in Stamford. When she reached the ticket booth, she placed her money on the counter and announced her destination. As she received her ticket she asked the ticket agent, “Will I need to change?”

The agent looked up at Barbara and said, “Well, I wasn’t going to say anything but, yes… those shoes really don’t go with that belt.”

Jack V. Grazi

Courtroom Protocol

As the judge entered the room, everyone rose to attention. But as the judge sat down, a few people in the courtroom began talking again. Banging his gravel down the Judge bellowed: “Order in the court!”

“Ok,” a reply came back from the corner of the room, “I’ll take pastrami on rye with extra pickles.”

Victor D.

Stealthy Tricks for Healthy Eating

Chaya Steinman

SCENARIO ONE: Savory aromas of perfectly cooked gourmet food fill the air. The table is neatly set and the family is presented with a balanced, healthy meal of brown rice, steamed spinach, and seasoned chicken breast with a light side salad. Yet the mood quickly turns sour as one child suspiciously eyes the food announcing, “I’m not eating that!” followed by a dramatic “Ewwwwww!” from another child, while the toddler expresses his disgust by spitting out what’s in his mouth and throwing the rest on the floor. The parents, horrified by such a display of chutzpah, will not tolerate this blatant disregard of the revered food pyramid. The dinner table soon becomes a battlefield of parent vs. child, with threats and punishment fired from one side are fought with whines and resistance from the other. After much tears and coercion, each child has ingested enough nutritious food to satisfy the parents, but everyone is left with a bitter aftertaste.

SCENARIO TWO: The ding of the microwave announces that the frozen pizza and fries are ready. Happy kids scamper to the table and eagerly eat their share of greasy packaged food. Mom is enjoying the easy mood yet at the same time she feels guilty and embarrassed, hoping that no unannounced visitors arrive to bear witness to this feast of innutritious calories that her children are filling up on. One by one, the satisfied children finish the meal and continue the evening calmly and cheerfully.

While these examples are extreme, most families have probably experienced their version of each scene. Parents of picky eaters face the daunting challenge of choosing either wholesome food and miserable kids, or junk food and happy kids. Parents need to decide whether or not to burden their mealtime with anguish by forcing healthy foods on finicky kids, weighing the benefits of nutritional health on one hand and emotional health on the other. Tangentially, it bears mentioning that while forcing kids to eat healthily has short-term payoffs, in the long run, if eating is associated with emotional negativity, it might result in unhealthy habits in adulthood.

With this problem in mind, let’s take a look at the Jewish custom to serve stuffed cabbage or stuffed noodle dumplings during the Purim feast, in which the hidden food filling echoes the theme of the hidden hand of the Almighty in the Purim story. Taking inspiration from this Purim tradition, we can use the concept of hidden foods, to create a new repertoire of meal ideas in which healthy foods are concealed in kid-friendly fare.

Hidden Veggies

The best place to start is with food that your children already like, and then think of a vegetable that, when shredded or puréed, will blend in visually and add little to the taste. Any recipe with ground beef, chicken or turkey, such as meatballs or meatloaf, is the perfect blank canvas. Add in shredded veggies such as carrots and zucchinis, and seasonings that will overpower the vegetables. Similarly, ground chicken with cooked diced veggies or greens can be formed into bite-size patties, coated with breadcrumbs and transformed into mouth-watering chicken nuggets.

Sauces and gravies are an excellent place to hide puréed veggies. Marinara sauce can be enhanced with squash, carrots or red pepper, as the tomato paste and spices create the dominant flavor. Try puréed cauliflower in Alfredo sauce for an instant nutritional upgrade, or get in a serving of greens by adding spinach leaves to your pesto. Mashed avocado, seasoned with fresh lemon juice, garlic, and oregano, makes an unexpected yet delicious creamy sauce for noodles.

Another kid favorite is macaroni and cheese. Put puréed butternut squash in the mix, and it will blend in with the natural colors of the dish and add a unique rich flavor (see sidebar for recipe!). And who doesn’t love mashed potatoes? Make them more nutritional with mashed kohlrabi or cauliflower. For kids who fancy breaded chicken fingers, sneak some ground flax seed into the bread crumbs to boost the meal’s fiber content.

One of the more unique and fun trends in vegetable presentation is “spiralizing.”  A Spiralizer is an inexpensive kitchen gadget which turns vegetables into spaghetti noodle shapes. Spiralized veggies can be simmered in a skillet, cooked in broth, boiled, baked, or even eaten raw. When cooked, you can serve up guilt-free, carb-free, veggie-based pasta with your favorite sauce and toppings. The Spiralizer can also transform your veggies into rice, fries, chips and other interesting shapes. The list of vegetables that can be spiralized is wide-ranging, and includes zucchini, cucumber, beet, butternut squash, eggplant, carrot, apple, potato, cabbage, and broccoli stems. In addition to the nutritional bonus of a super healthy, hearty, plant-based meal, kids will love watching the Spiralizer in action, and might even join you in the meal prep.

Play With Your Food

Anyone who grew up eating “ants on a log” – celery sticks filled with peanut butter and topped raisins – can attest to the attraction of food that doubles as play. When food captures the imagination, kids will eat it, so get creative with food presentation to engage your child’s sense of fun. Try uniquely shaped sandwiches made with cookie cutters, or bite-size pieces of fruit and cheese on a skewer for a cool arrangement. Better yet, give your kids cut-up fruits and veggies in a variety of shapes and colors and challenge them to create original food art.

Quick Tricks

For cooks who are short on time, these concepts can be adapted for quicker meals. Vegetable purées and homemade spiralized veggie noodles can be prepared ahead of time, frozen and then defrosted when needed. You can easily then add these veggies to jarred sauces or boxed meals for a healthy boost. But if the thought of cooking, mashing, portioning and freezing makes you dizzy, look for packaged foods that do the work for you. For example, the company Barilla makes a line of pasta that incorporates fresh produce, such as carrots, butternut squash, spinach and zucchini, right into the noodles. They offer “[v]eggie pasta made with 25 percent freshly puréed in-season vegetables that delivers 20 percent of the daily recommended intake of vegetables so you can feel good knowing your family is getting the nutrition they need.” Many other brands are hopping on this bandwagon, so peruse the shelves of your grocery for ready-made food with hidden vegetables.

Last But Not Least

When it comes to dessert, there’s no reason why the last course needs to be the least healthy. In fact, with sugar to offset other flavors, mild veggies can be easily concealed in many sweet treats. Brownies, with their chewy texture and rich chocolate flavor, are the perfect base dessert for a healthy mix-in. There’s something magical about the combination of cocoa powder, sugar, flour and oil that no vegetable can ruin. Play around on Google and you will find brownie recipes that include shredded zucchini, black beans, kale, carrots, beetroot, and spinach. Similarly, you can satisfy your sweet tooth with chocolate chip blondies made from a garbanzo bean base (see Deep Dish Cookie Pie recipe in side bar!). Quick breads, muffins and pancakes are also a great place to sneak in some produce—think mashed bananas, chunks of apples and pears, berries and even shredded zucchini and carrots. Or, how about some creamy chocolate pudding with avocado slipped in!

We learn in Mishle (14:1), “Hochmat nashim banta beitah – The wisdom of a woman is what builds her home.” Let us be wise and use these ideas to build up the joy in our homes by removing meal time tensions with our precious children, and nourishing them physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

SECRET RECIPES

Mac & Cheese

1 1/2 cups elbow macaroni
Nonstick cooking spray
1 tbsp. olive oil
1 tbsp. all-purpose flour
1/2 cup skim milk
1/2 cup butternut squash, carrot, or cauliflower purée
1 1/2 cups shredded reduced-fat Cheddar cheese
1/2 cup reduced-fat or nonfat cream cheese
1/2 tsp salt
1/8 tsp paprika
1/8 tsp pepper

Cook and drain noodles according to package instructions. Coat a large saucepan with cooking spray and heat over medium heat. Add the oil, then the flour, and cook, stirring constantly, until the mixture resembles a thick paste but has not browned, 1 to 2 minutes. Add the milk, stirring until thick. Add the vegetable purée, Cheddar, cream cheese, and seasonings, and stir until the cheese is melted and the sauce is smooth. Stir in the macaroni and serve warm. (Adapted from Deceptively Delicious)

Deep Dish Cookie Pie

2 cans white beans or garbanzos (drained and rinsed) (500g total, once drained)

1 cup quick oats

1/4 cup unsweetened applesauce

3 tbsp. oil (canola, vegetable or coconut)

2 tsp pure vanilla extract

1/2 tsp baking soda

2 tsp baking powder

1/2 tsp salt

1 and 1/2 cups brown sugar

1 cup chocolate chips

 

Blend everything (except the chips) very well. Mix in chips, and pour into an oiled pan. Cook at 350 degrees for around 35-40 minutes. Let stand at least 10 minutes before removing from the pan. (chocolatecoveredkatie.com)

 

 

Introducing PROPEL’s New Initiative, PropelED …

A career is a life path that allows you to follow your passion to new experiences and self-fulfillment. Building on clients’ talents, skills and dreams, PROPEL professionals help women decide on a career trajectory and guide them along every step of the way.

PROPEL recognizes that many careers require formal education past high school, including college and graduate school, to maximize both earning potential and job satisfaction and independence. PropelED – PROPEL’s newest initiative – is designed to escort clients traveling on the path of higher education.

PropelED is a game-changer. By creating a clearinghouse for information relating to careers in education and related fields (social work, occupational therapy, physical therapy, speech pathology, etc.), as well as by providing hands-on, personalized mentoring to each client, PROPEL hopes to maximize each woman’s chance for success.

PropelED helps women navigate the often bewildering array of educational choices. We help clients determine the factors that are most important in making those choices. We help with the application process. In some cases, we help finance the education needed to achieve goals. We reach out to existing programs and guide the candidates to successful completion. And with linkages to community schools and agencies, we will work to ensure successful candidate placement.

PropelED plans to work with clients to achieve their career dreams through a variety of activities: workshops about careers, one-on-one mentoring and goal refinement, skills “boot camps,” and more. Building on established relationships with colleges and training programs, coaches can help clients find their “perfect education match,” apply, and successfully enroll. Informal networking with other clients on similar paths will help women create “communities of practice,” where they can share achievements and challenges, and strategize jointly.

PropelEd is coordinated by Gitta J. Neufeld, a nationally- recognized educator and teacher trainer who is well-known in the community. She has established deep relationships with area colleges and graduate schools and is able to match client needs and wishes with the appropriate programs.

Gitta works alongside

PROPEL’s certified career coach, Ellen Ades, and career counselor Caroll Dweck to help clients learn to think deeply about what they would like to do, and how to achieve that goal. Women are guided through the process and offered one-on-one coaching and assistance as needed, from application completion to study skills to time management. Thanks to her relationships with the colleges, Gitta is able to advocate for Community women and ensure a quality experience.

The time is now. Colleges and graduate programs are accepting applications. Reach out to PROPEL and find out how PropelEd can change your world.

Mashiah Revealed – A Detailed Look at Gog Umagog – Part VI

Rabbi Eliyahu Haim Aboud

The violent war of Gog Umagog forebodes terrible times for the entire world and an especially perilous period for the Jewish Nation in particular. This segment will discuss the prophecies that describe the war and its ultimate purpose in the redemption process.

Prophetic Visions

“Behold, the day of Gd will come… I will gather all the nations to Jerusalem for battle and it will be captured, its homes plundered and its woman abused; half its inhabitants will be evicted but the other half will not… (Zecharya 14:2) 

“It will be a time of suffering that has never been, from the birth of our Nation up until this time…” (Daniel 12:1)

 The prophet Zecharya describes the gentile nations’ successful conquest of Israel and its capital city, Jerusalem, after which they will neutralize its government and inflict severe pain and suffering upon the Jews. This is the period which the prophet Daniel foresaw as being the harshest period in the Jewish Nation’s history.

The early commentaries explain[1] that only “half its inhabitants will be evicted” because a bitter internal conflict will erupt among the Muslim and Christian conquerors, which will disrupt a campaign of persecution against the Jewish inhabitants. Gd will then visit harsh retribution upon the marauders, until they are finally destroyed.

Yehezkel’s Vision

“And Gd spoke to me saying… turn towards Gog, the land of Magog… and prophesize as follows: So says Gd, sovereign of the world… I will awaken in you [Gog] a strong desire to leave your country – you and your entire army…the nations Paras, Kush and Put accompanying you…and many other nations as well…to converge upon the land recently inhabited by the Jews who have gathered and returned from their many countries of exile to dwell among the mountains of the land of Israel that have always laid desolate…you will ascend upon them as a shoah (a sudden, deafening, dense darkness) covering the land like a tremendous cloud.” (Yehezkel 38:1-9)

It emerges from Yehezkel’s prophecy that the war will be instigated by Gog Umagog, who will convince the other nations of the world to come forth and invade Israel. The primary motivation behind this initiative, the commentaries explain, will be not to harm the Jews living in Israel, but rather to wrest control of the land from them and divide it among several nations. However, once they conquer the land, the invading armies will viciously persecute its Jewish inhabitants[2] [3].

The commentaries[4] identify the nations of Paras, Kush and Put as the Muslim countries of Persia (which is today Iran), Assyria (which is today Iraq and part of Syria) and Egypt. These nations will not have much ammunition in their arsenals, but Gog will supply them with arms to wage this battle against Israel.

Gd’s Ultimate Retribution

“Behold it will be at the time that I return the captives of Yehuda and Yerushalayim, I will gather all the nations and bring them down to the Valley of Yehoshafat and judge them there for what they have done and exiling my nation…” (Yoel 4:1-2)

During this war, Hashem will visit His final retribution upon the gentile nations that have caused suffering for the Jewish people throughout the exile. According to the Midrash[5], all the ancient rulers who had persecuted the Jews will be brought back to life during this war to receive their due punishment. These punishments will come in the form of supernatural events that will overshadow even the miracles performed at the time of the Egyptian Exodus[6]. In fact, according to some views[7], we will no longer be required to remember the Exodus from Egypt, as we will instead praise Hashem for our miraculous salvation during Gog Umagog and for establishing Mashiah as sovereign over the entire world.

This final retribution will take place during the holiday of Sukkot[8], and every year henceforth, the gentile nations will converge upon Jerusalem on Sukkot to pay homage to Hashem who revealed his glory and awesome strength to the entire world on this day[9].

The Downfall of the Gentile Nations

“And then prophesize, saying to Gog: So says Gd, sovereign of the world… I have brought you here [to Israel] to make My Name known to all when they beheld the punishment with which I shall afflict you… on that day My anger will be aroused…a tremendous trembling will seize the land…mountains will be flattened, towers and buildings will crumble, and fortified walls will fall to the ground…I will cause chaos and man will strike his fellow brother… and I will strike him [Gog] with torrential downpours and huge hailstones; fire and sulfur will rain down on him and all who joined him, and then I will be recognized and revered and all will know that I am Gd.” (Yehezkel 38:14-22)

“And this will be the punishment that Gd will deliver upon all the nations who have laid siege on Jerusalem: their flesh will melt off their bodies while standing, their eyes will fall from their sockets, and their tongues will fall from their mouths…” (Zecharya 14:12)

Many commentaries[10] assume that the “tremendous trembling that will seize the land” refers literally to a devastating earthquake that will bring chaos to the invading armies stationed in Israel, leaving death and destruction in its wake. The earthquake will occur just east of the Temple Mount, on Har Hazetim (the Mount of Olives), which will be split into two smaller mountains separated by an enormous crater. Interestingly enough, geologists have identified two significant fault line beneath the Land of Israel that have causes a number of earthquakes in Jerusalem and throughout the country[11]. Approximately once every century, the city is struck by a powerful quake, the most recent one having occurred in 1927[12].

Others, however, explain[13] “the deafening sounds and enormous explosions” as a reference to the heavy exchange of heavy artillery fire between the two armies, who will encamp on either side of Har Hazetim. The sound and force of the ammunition will cause the land to tremble and destroy much of the city.

The commentaries[14] explain the phrase, “and man will strike his fellow brother,” as referring to a bloody conflict that will be waged between armies representing nations of Yishmaelim and nations of Nossrim. These groups are called “brothers” because they descend from the same family: the Yishmaelim descend from Yishmael, and the Nossrim from Yishmael’s nephew, Esav. In fact, Esav married Yishmael’s daughter, thus forming an even closer relationship between the two. But during the war of Gog Umagog, these “brothers” will fight mercilessly against one another to the bitter end.

The Survivors

“And it will be that out of the entire world, Gd says, two thirds will be destroyed and only a third will remain. And I will bring that third through fire and cleanse them…I will test them…and I will answer those who call out in My name…” (Zecharya 13:8-9)

The commentaries[15] explain this prophecy to mean that a minority group of gentile nations will survive the ravages of this war. Which nations will these be?

The prophet Ovadia[16] predicted the complete annihilation of all vestiges of Edom, the descendants of Esav. The commentaries explain that the name “Edom” is used by the prophets in reference to Nossrut, which will be entirely eradicated during the war of Gog Umagog.[17] The survivors, then, will include Yishmaelim and perhaps other non-Nossrim. They will be “tested” and “cleansed” from their allegiances, and only those who call out truthfully in Hashem’s name will merit survival.

The Sages teach that Esav, the father of Edom, never repented and died a wicked man, whereas Yishmael repented toward the end of his life and departed the world in a state of piety. This is one of many reasons why adherents to Nossrut will not merit to see the End of Days while some Yishmaelim will.[18]

Seven Months of Burial

The prophets[19] describe the gruesome sight of hundreds of thousands of bodies, the remains of the fallen gentile soldiers, strewn all over the hills of Jerusalem with no survivors left to bury them. Their bodies will be open prey to the vultures and other wild beasts. The only nation that will merit a proper burial will be that of Gog Umagog, the descendants of Yefet, son of Noah, who will be rewarded for their forefather’s kindness in covering Noah when he found him sleeping unclothed. The Jews will bury them in a valley near Lake Kinneret, in the city of Tiberius, which will then be named, “The Valley of Gog’s Army.” The process of burying these thousands of cadavers will extend over a period of seven months! [20]

Jewish Survivors

The war of Gog Umagog will differ from the other calamities that have befallen the Jewish people over the centuries, during which righteous Jews were killed together with the sinners. In the war of Gog Umagog, all who remain steadfastly faithful to Torah and missvot are guaranteed to survive the war and behold the final redemption.[21] It therefore behooves us all to properly prepare ourselves for these turbulent times and ensure that we will be worthy of surviving the persecution and living to see Mashiah’s arrival.

The Purpose of Gog Umagog

Three main reasons are clearly outlined by the prophets as to why this catastrophe must precede the Messianic era. For one thing[22], as mentioned, the destruction wrought upon the gentile nations will serve as divine retribution for persecution of the Jewish people throughout the centuries of exile, and particularly for the destruction of the Bet Hamikdash. Hashem will cause them all to gather in the place of their past misdeeds, in Israel, where they will wage war against each other and ultimately be destroyed.

Additionally[23], the war will serve to rid the Jewish Nation of the sinners who are not worthy of redemption, and to purify those who are worthy but require atonement for sins they have committed.

Most importantly[24], however, the miracles that will occur during the war of Gog Umagog will clearly demonstrate to the entire world that Hashem is the true Gd, upon whom we depend and to whom we must dedicate our lives during the Messianic Era.  The war will pave the way to Mashiah by allowing all mankind to witness firsthand Gd’s infinite power and the chosen status of Am Yisrael.

Next issue: The Return of the Prophet Eliyahu before Mashiah

[1] see Abarbanel and Malbim on Zecharya 14:2

[2] see Yonatan ben Uziel on Parashat Beha’alotecha 11:26

[3] see Abarbanel and Malbim on Yehezkel 32:17, 38:1-9

[4] ibid

[5] see Sefer Aderet Eliyahu on Parashat Balak, Part 5

[6] see Tractate Berachot 12b

[7] ibid

[8] see the Tur, Orah Haim 490

[9] Zecharya 14:17-19, see commentaries

[10] Ibn Ezra and Radak, on Zecharya 14:2

[11] Jerusalem Post November, 2007

[12] Israeli Ministry of Energy and Infrastructure

[13] Abarbanel and Malbim on Zecharya 14:2 and Yehezkel 19

[14] ibid

[15] See Rashi, Ibn Ezra and Abarbanal..

[16] Chapter 1:18

[17] See Abarbanel and Malbim on Ovadia

[18] Yeshurun (2002), page 766.

[19] Yehezkel 39:4

[20] Yehezkel 39:11-12, see commentaries

[21] Daniel 12:1, see commentaries

[22] see Malbim on Yehezekel 38:1

[23] see Tractate Ketuvot 112b and Sefer Massme’ah Yeshua pp. 244-250

[24] Yehezkel 38:23, 39:21-29

An Exclusive Interview with Dr. Sebastian Gorka

DAVE GORDON

Former Trump advisor Sebastian Gorka speaks candidly about the president’s values and about several issues that concern our community

This past summer, Sebastian Gorka took on the role of presidential appointee to the Defense Department’s National Security Education Board. He says his position “Ensures that our Armed Forces have the requisite academic support from the private sector and academia in order to keep the Republic safe.”

Previously, Gorka served as Deputy Assistant to the President, and Trump’s strategist. Gorka’s initial remit was related to counterterrorism. However, once he came on board with all the clearances the job entailed, he worked on many other strategic issues, from the Defeat ISIS Plan, to the U.S. leaving the disastrous Iran Deal, and to dealing with the threat of China.

Gorka is also a Fox News contributor, and currently broadcasts his own radio show on the Salem Radio Network.

This election, Gorka says, will be more crucial than ever: “My biggest concern is the subversive Deep State, and getting our personnel policy right if, Gd-willing, we get the Boss re-elected.”

Community Magazine spoke to Dr. Gorka on several issues that concern our readers:

CM: You are a supporter of Donald Trump, and I’m curious to hear your response to the “Never-Trumpers” who say that his Twitter feed is unbecoming of an American leader.

Gorka: The mainstream legacy media is irredeemably corrupt. Just look at the way they aided and abetted the Obama administration, and the permanent bureaucratic class of Trump haters to subvert a duly-elected president with false accusations, such as Russian “collusion” and the Mueller probe.

That is why the President’s Twitter feed is so important, and why Never-Trumpers hate the fact that, with it, he can talk directly to more than 80 million people.

You have no right to call yourself a conservative if you complain about his tweets. With the caliphate of ISIS destroyed, 200 conservative judges and three originalist Supreme Court judges appointed, Jerusalem recognized as the capital of the eternal State of Israel, NATO revitalized, Iran contained, et cetera… Someone has a problem with his tweets? Those people are either leftists, or just fake conservatives.

CM: What are the top reasons, in your opinion, why North Americans should support Israel (not just Jews)?

Gorka: Easy. As my friend Jeff Ballabon taught me, our two nations are inextricably linked: America is the greatest nation made by man, and Israel is the greatest nation made by Gd.

More geo-strategically, Israel is the only functioning democracy in the Middle East. As such it is a beacon of hope for all those benighted communities in the Middle East who still yearn for freedom in the face of corrupt regimes, theocratic dictatorships, and religious fanaticism.

For that reason, all decent people should support Israel. But more importantly, all decent nations must support our great ally to ensure that the horror of the Shoah never happens again, and so that our Jewish friends will always have a safe homeland.

CM: Working with Donald Trump, what’s something you learned about him as an insider that most people don’t know, or might never see?

Gorka: That, despite the bluster and alpha-male character, he is also a very compassionate man. Read my book Why We Fight to get a full picture of who he really is.

CM: With the latest in peace deals between Israel, Bahrain, and UAE, these are optimistic times. What do you think differentiated Donald Trump from any leader before, that enabled him to foster this historic moment?

Gorka: Because he loves both Israel and the Israelis, and is not a career politician beholden to the moronic practices of the “elite” that failed in the Middle East for so long.

CM: What was the purpose of the Trump Plan for a “two-state solution,” if there was only an inevitable, predictable result of it being refused by the Palestinian leadership?

Gorka: Jared Kushner (the President’s son-in-law and advisor) and Jason Greenblatt (advisor on Israel) wanted to start with a tabula rasa (blank slate). This demanded figuring out for themselves that the PA was not acting in good faith, and that they still wish to see Israel destroyed. It took them two years to come to that conclusion by themselves.

CM: Trump visited Israel four months into his presidency. Trump recognized the Golan and Jerusalem as heirlooms of the Jewish people. And of course, he moved the embassy. His administration declared Israeli control over Judea and Samaria as “not illegal.” Trump removed Palestinian Authority funding and UNWRA funding. Question: What could a realistic “second act” look like?

Gorka: I can’t say more than just what is reasonable to expect in the near future: the addition of several more Arab nations to the Abraham Accords.

CM: In these particularly challenging times during COVID-19, people are worried about the economy and their own finances. What do you think has been a good move by Trump to help Americans get their heads above water?

Gorka: Everything. From the Payroll Protection for America’s businesses, to creating the fastest virus testing and vaccine production pipelines in medical history.

CM: Do you think the Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone (CHAZ) in Seattle – the month-long occupation protest that commandeered whole city blocks this summer – is just the beginning, or an aberration that will demonstrate itself to be a passing, failing fad?

Gorka: That is up to us. Brave Americans need to take a stand in the face of any new attempt to denude us of our rights, and subvert America, the greatest experiment in democracy the world has ever seen. That is why it is so vital that my boss, President Trump, be re-elected.

The Shehebar Sephardic Center Honors the Memory of Rabbi Michael Mendez Seixas

SARINA ROFFÉ

Rabbi Michael Seixas (1952–2019), was a beloved religious leader in Madeira and Belmonte, Portugal. He lived a full and inspiring life, that was tragically cut short last year. Rabbi Seixas was born in California and was the eldest of six children. Without quite understanding why, he was drawn to Israel.

Discovering His Passion

Rabbi Seixas researched his genealogy and discovered that his Portuguese paternal ancestors had an impressive Jewish lineage. This fantastic discovery helped Rabbi Seixas understand his deep love for Judaism.

His neshama led him to the deep faith of his ancestors. On his first trip to Jerusalem, Rabbi Seixas realized his heart longed to be there. His interest in Judaism grew and he constantly studied until he discovered that teaching about Judaism was his tafkid (role in life).

Rabbi Shlomo Kassin, the Rosh Yeshiva of the Shehebar Sephardic Center, helped Rabbi Seixas and accepted him as a student in his yeshiva in Jerusalem.

Israel

At the Shehebar Sephardic Center, Rabbi Seixas received extensive religious training. He made Jerusalem his home. Despite being ill with kidney problems, his greatest happiness was studying the Torah.

In 2018, Rabbi Seixas was overjoyed to receive his rabbinical ordination from the Abe M. and Geri Cohen Rabbinical College at the Shehebar Sephardic Center. He was appointed to serve as rabbi on Madeira Island, Portugal.

Rabbi Seixas was a humble , educated man who possessed great kindness. His smile was always present, as well as a word of hope. He always used to say this phrase in Portuguese: “Tudovaiserbom,” which means “everything will be fine.”

Rabbi Seixas’ wife, Batya Pontas, was from Venezuela and her mother lived in Madeira, Portugal. The Seixas family moved to Madeira and Rabbi Seixas became rabbi of the Jewish community there. He organized Friday evenings with the community, tourists, and Anusim, and he worked to rebuild the synagogue.

Belmonte

Rabbi Seixas came to know of a group of B’nai Anusim in Belmonte, Portugal, who lived there since the time of the Expulsion. They lived in a secluded area, had never assimilated, and only married within their community. Many of them have returned to rabbinic Judaism. Rabbi Seixas spent time with them, saw their needs, and taught them the Talmud. Upon returning to Israel, Rabbi Seixas promised to return to Belmonte, and did so twice a year, forming a strong and affectionate bond. He even taught himself Portuguese.

From Israel, Rabbi Seixas taught Skype classes to his Belmonte students. If there was no internet signal where he was, he would look for an appropriate place, sometimes in a town square and sometimes even in the rain. He would sit there with his laptop and would give a Torah class. Passersby often stopped and supported him with words of encouragement.

Once, at night (due to the time difference), Rabbi Seixas had a class scheduled. Although he felt weak and very ill, he still got out of bed, grabbed his laptop, and went to another room to give his shiur. Whenever a student could not be present for some reason, Rabbi Seixas felt very sad. His teaching method consisted of capturing and holding the student’s attention, and, at the same time, he presented varied topics in an attractive way.

The story is told of a boy from Belmonte who did not know anything about Hebrew. With patience and dedication, Rabbi Seixas worked with the boy for several months to prepare him for his bar mitzvah via Skype. Rabbi Seixas taught him to read from the Torah. The success was resounding! This young man currently reads the Torah just like an Israeli. In fact, many of Rabbi Seixas’ students have made aliyah to Israel.

Rabbi Seixas’ Last Visit to Belmonte

Rabbi Seixas traveled to Belmonte in 2019 to teach for a week before returning to Madeira. As soon as he got to Belmonte, he went from home to home motivating the men. He prayed with them every morning, donning tefillin with them and infusing them with love for their Jewish heritage. Rabbi Seixas dedicated the last days of his life to the Jews in Belmonte, tirelessly teaching Torah, praying, teaching classes, and helping people. Rabbi Seixas’ work was done purely out of love for the Torah.

The rabbi’s failing health did not allow him to work so hard without proper rest and nutrition. In early September 2019, his health was seriously affected, and he had to be hospitalized. Sadly, he suffered a massive stroke and died on 20 Elul, 5780 (12 September 2019), two weeks after his arrival in Belmonte. Within just a few hours, the Shehebar Sephardic Center, under the leadership of Rabbi Sam Kassin, arranged for Rabbi Seixas to be buried in the Holy Land.

WWG1WGA Takes Home the M&S World Series Cup

Heading into the Playoffs, WWG1WGA had an impressive 10-2 record, was the number one seed, and was the favorite to take home the storied M&S Cup. But what you don’t know is how they got there. They seemed to be a team that was all on the same page from day one, that clicked on all cylinders. But that couldn’t be further from the truth.

It all began in the 2019 M&S season. The Yankees, captained by Jackie Tawil, drafted and traded for much-needed emotional leaders and lock down defenders at 3B and SS in Sammy Esses and Teddy Ishak. This team soon was taken over by Sammy and TI and they reached the Wild Card, only to be derailed by a dropped ball. What came out of this season was clear: the duo was set for captain duties for the 2020 season.

Draft Night

It was clear that TI and Esses had their sights set on drafting the best players available, regardless of the personalities and potential fit. This almost backfired when they drafted former superstar CF turned SP Michael “MC” Cohen and perennial masher Yaakov Seruya. After weeks of trade demands and empty threats, co-captain Teddy Ishak finally found the right angle to take, stating: “Listen bro, if your friend wanted you, he would have drafted you. Now show them why you are the best players in the league.” This ignited a fire that never extinguished.

Aside from the aforementioned Cohen and Seruya, this team was rounded out to perfection with the likes of up-and-coming outfielders Aharon Cohen and Alan Jemal, which essentially gave them three center fielders. Yanky Gutman, a shortstop in his own right, was moved to 2B, and most importantly jumping on board was Eddie Harari, who slipped to the 12th round, giving them a total of two pitchers, two shortstops, and three center fielders. Teams like these are a rarity, but what’s even more difficult is getting all this to gel.

No team in community history succeeded with two starting pitchers that pitched on a weekly basis. As they say, there is only one ball. But with the presence of veteran David “Coney” Cohen at the catcher position, coupled with daily “team first mentality” pep talks from the captains, this team started to roll.

Even though this team was already stacked, the trade for first baseman David Harari put them over the top by adding yet another bat and emotional leader.

Post Season Run

WWG1WGA felt so confident going into the playoffs they hand selected their opponent in G.O.A.T. who was captained by reigning league Cy Young and World Series defender Max Yedid.

The G.O.A.T. organization took it personally and won game one via mercy, which sent shockwaves throughout the M&S universe. The sign of a great team is how it handles adversity, and instead of being down and out, they went on to win Games 2 and 3 and advanced to the World Series. A storyline that emerged was Eddie Harari, who was splitting games all season long with counterpart Yaakob Seruya, got the ball in the deciding Game 3 after stemming the tide in Game 2 and held down G.O.A.T., which set the stage for the World Series.

2020 Award Ballots

The 2020 M&S Award ballots were as star-studded as ever. A ballot was sent to each league member and league associate to vote upon the winners of the Gold Glove, MVP, Cy Young, Rookie of the Year, and much more.

After tallying 90 plus ballots, almost every award was decided within three votes. M&S will be hosting its yearly M&SPY’s/Award Dinner to reveal the winners with the entire league and softball diehards in attendance. A date has yet to be set but the gala event will be hosted in the social hall of the Synagogue of Deal in the wintertime.

World Series

Veteran Co-Captain Teddy Ishak has been playing in community leagues for 17 years, yet astonishingly, he never won a championship. It was clear that just like everything else in 2020, this year was just different. The yin to Teddy’s yang kept everything in order. Sammy Esses – the calm to Teddy’s storm, masterfully captained this team all the way to the championship with just the number two seeded Spindrift in their way of accomplishing eternal softball glory.

Spindrift, captained by the disciplined squad of Steven J Gindi and Joe Sefaradi, were fresh off dismantling the high-powered Punisher’s organization, and were not to be deterred.

Rookie starting pitcher Joey Cohen, brother of WWG1WGA star outfielders Michael and Aharon, was determined and ready to create a storybook ending of his own.

After the World Series festivities were finished the two teams were primed and ready for a battle, and boy oh boy did these games live up to the billing.

Game One

In the top half of the 7th inning with a 3-2 lead, Spindrift had the bases loaded for captain Steven Gindi. Hearts were racing as SJG fouled off pitch after pitch vs. young Eddie Harari. In the 11th pitch of the at bat, Gindi hit a hot shot towards the 2nd base hole. Yanky Gutman alertly cut it off and fired a strike to secure the all-important Game One.

Game Two

WWG1WGA came out strong in Game Two and took a 2-0 lead with a Gutman blast deep in the night, which set the tone. But like the first game, Spindrift had one last rally in their bats and battled back to get within one run. The score was 5-4 with hulking slugger Aharon “Hank” Dweck up. But like they did all year, WWG1WGA dug deep one last time and induced a long fly ball to the left field track, which was tracked down by Aharon Cohen and completed the journey.

The celebration ensued. “GAME OVER!”

A Time to Celebrate

The following week, the championship BBQ was hosted at the house of Victor Chrem and was fully covered by TI to kick off an offseason of festivities.

So, the question remains, is WWG1WGA the greatest team ever assembled? As a league commissioner for the better part of 15 years, I will tell you that they are definitely in the conversation.

Israeli Medical Expert, Dr. Ofer Merin Shares Insights into the Covid Spike

Israel has been experiencing wave after wave of Coronavirus cases and recently, unfortunately, has had one of the highest rates of infection per capita in the world.

Back in May, after two months of lockdown, Israel began opening schools again, with the belief that the virus had been brought under control. But that confidence was premature, as shortly thereafter the number of cases increased.

Israel then experienced an unexpected spike in cases since August, and then September. There has been strong speculation that the spike was spurred by the reopening of schools, and the renewal of large gatherings, where attendees did not wear masks or keep socially distant, as was required.

Israel’s Lockdown

In an effort to flatten the curve, Israel extended its lockdown rules in the beginning of October. At that time, they had already experienced a record number of 8,900 daily reported cases. There have been about a quarter-million cases total, with roughly 1,600 people having succumbed to the pandemic there.

In addition, as of late October, Israelis were restricted from leaving their homes, allowed to travel only 500 meters (a little over a quarter of a mile) from their doorsteps, without a specifically approved reason, such as going to buy groceries or for medical appointments. Only necessary workers (such as health care workers or employees at “necessary” businesses, such as grocery stores or gas stations) were allowed to travel to their places of employment. Public transportation was greatly curtailed.

Israeli Medical Expert, Dr. Ofer Merin

Shaare Zedek Medical Center in Jerusalem.

Dr. Ofer Merin is one of Israel’s most esteemed medical professionals and was recently appointed Director General of Shaare Zedek Medical Center. He is also chief of trauma services at the hospital. Dr. Merin headed the distinguished IDF mobile field hospital for the past 15 years, which has traveled around the world to treat casualties and save lives in many mass-casualty situations.

In his work with the IDF mobile field hospital, Dr. Merin’s team assisted with emergency relief during Haiti’s 2009 earthquake and natural disasters in Nepal, the Philippines, and Japan.

Dr. Merin is also a top-tier heart surgeon, an expert on emergency medicine, and a World Health Organization mentor for field hospitals.

He also has a strong connection to our community. Dr. Merin’s mother, whose maiden name was Rachel Sutton, and her mother, whose last name was Massry, are all of Syrian descent. Dr. Merin’s grandmother was six years old when she moved to Israel from Aleppo. Some of Dr. Merin’s Brooklyn relatives include Joe Cattan, Jessie Salem, Shirley Hanan, the Dweck family, Gloria and Albert Sasson, Joseph Sasson, and Jack Sutton.

Community Magazine spoke to Dr. Merin to get a better sense of how our beloved Israel is coping with the virus at this difficult time.

CM: What kinds of protocols did Shaare Zedek put into place to cope with the infection?

Merin: Ever since we received our first Corona patients in early 2020, we have been focused on being prepared for additional patients and waves. This has involved opening additional departments as necessary and we are continuing to do so as the situation mandates.

The hospital closely follows and coordinates treatment in line with recommendations from Israeli and international healthcare partners, as well as findings from our own experiences with patient care.

CM: How did your IDF training prepare you for crises such as this? Related to this, how did your rescue work in places like Japan, Haiti, Nepal, and Syria prepare you for a current crisis such as this, at home?

Merin: The most important insight from the army is to be several steps ahead. That means that when your hospital is nearing capacity, you are already making sure that the next unit is being readied for patients. Always be expecting the unexpected, and then you can be that much better prepared for whatever might come your way.

CM: Can you speak to how your makeshift Corona ward was built, and is in flux?

Merin: Until now, our Corona wards have been renovated from existing medical departments, but in the coming weeks we will be opening an all-new Corona ward, with nearly 60 additional beds, that has been designed and built from the beginning to serve Corona patients.

We have had temporary units that are allocated for Corona patients when the demand necessitates it and are closed when there is no longer a demand.

CM: Can you describe what the hospital is doing to protect patients and staff?

Merin: The safety of our staff has always been a foremost priority and we have invested very heavily in purchasing protective equipment and properly insulating the medical units that serve our Corona patients.

CM: How does the hospital balance the “humanity” of the situation?

Merin: The photos [of the doctors’ faces] on the scrubs is a welcome way for caregivers to forge that bond with the patients, that is taken away by limited contact and being behind the protective equipment. It’s an effort that helps patients feel more at ease in these difficult circumstances.

Shaare Zedek has always thrived on placing compassion as a priority, alongside advanced medicine. With Corona, the greatest challenge is how patients are separated from loved ones and how it can be very disorienting for patients – many of whom are older and may have memory and comprehension issues — to be treated by staff in full protective gear. Our goal is to do everything possible to alleviate those concerns and give patients and family members the understanding that we are caring for both their medical and emotional needs.

CM: Where do you notice there is public laxity on Coronavirus prevention?

Merin: While there are always segments of any population that are unfortunately less compliant with regulations, we strongly encourage all people to continue to embrace social distancing, mask wearing, and hand washing.

We know that defeating this virus will only be possible if the public abides by the restrictions and respects the need for social distancing and mask wearing.

CM: Is the hospital trying anything new now to help patients recover?

Merin: We are constantly learning new things about this virus and we are definitely in a far better place now than we were six months ago. This includes embracing new methods of treatment in how we position patients in their beds as well as use of specific medicines and therapies.

New Foundation Honors the Memory of Michael Mordi Kameo

The Michael Kameo Foundation is a brand new organization, founded by parents who hope to make an impact on the lives of community members in need, on the name of their son, Michael Mordi Kameo, a”h.

Michael was a happy, lovable one-and-a-half-year-old baby who had the time of his life driving around this past Purim, his father’s favorite holiday, enjoying all the fun festivities the holiday has to offer. He was dressed in an adorable Purim costume and danced around with his loved ones on the incredibly fun and holy day. The day after Purim, as we all know, the world turned upside down due to the COVID-19 outbreak. It was just four days after this that Michael passed away suddenly, from a different illness. His family and the community as a whole were both shocked and devastated.

Michael’s final holiday with his family inspired the mission of the foundation, which they named in his memory. The Michael Kameo Foundation’s goal is to help provide the most positive, exciting, and uplifting Purim holiday for the needy families in our community. To celebrate Purim in true Brooklyn Jewish fashion takes costumes, multiple mishloach manot to hand out to friends and family (who are either on a list or given to spontaneously when passed on the street), a large meat meal, and much more. The Michael Kameo Foundation (MKF) would like to raise the necessary funds in order to provide all this and more. MKF’s goal is to ensure that every family in our community has the Purim of their dreams, no matter what their financial situation is.

The foundation kicked off in July with the first annual Bike 4 Mike! The event was a walk/run and bike race around Monmouth County, New Jersey. There were 25 walk/runners and 30 bikers.

Each participant was asked to raise $2,000 to join. Some were inspired and raised even more. One participant raised $10,000 for the new foundation!

Keren, Michael’s mom, was asked what inspired the fundraiser. She answered, “When I was sitting shivah, that week I kept telling my husband, ‘I just want to run,’ and no, I’m not a runner, but the moment it was permissible, I started to run. My husband and his friends are bikers, so it only made sense that we make it a bike/run event.” Keren ran the race that day while pushing her four-year-old daughter Pauline in a stroller.

The race began at the Kassin beach and ended at the Kameo residence in Long Branch. The foundation’s logo was printed on tee shirts, hats, sweatshirts, water bottles, and more, all for sale to support the cause. A large dairy breakfast was served and a few people gave speeches. During this post-race event, people continued to donate money. The Kameos were overjoyed by the generosity shown towards their new foundation to honor their son. The fundraiser was a huge success, with over $100,000 raised for the Michael Kameo Foundation.

This venture is new, so the family members are not yet certain just how they are going to fulfil their mission to help community families with Purim. But their goal is clear, and they are definitely the organization to watch. MKF donated candy backpacks to the Ohel Yaacob Congregation (better known as the Lawrence Ave. Shul, in Deal) for Simchat Torah. This was clearly in keeping with the theme of bringing joy to community families on festive Jewish holidays.

For more information or to donate to the Michael Kameo Foundation, go to MichealKameoFoundation.org

Living the NEW NORMAL

ELLEN GELLER KAMARAS

“COVID-19 has changed the way we live and work, perhaps forever.” ~~ Spectrum News ~~

News reporters and commentators repeat this phrase ad nauseum, almost like a mantra. Trying to lighten our moods one newscaster adds in a positive tone that we have learned to recalibrate every day! For me, these two statements perfectly capture how the pandemic has impacted our lives.

Yes, COVID-19 has dramatically transformed how we live and how we work. We now wear masks in school, at work, when we shop, and at shul; we practice social distancing. We have been separated from loved ones. Our children have not been able to play with friends, attend school in person, or visit with elderly grandparents. Our shuls and our non-essential businesses were closed for months. We were furloughed from our jobs, and many of us now work remotely and feel a real sense of isolation. Those of us with young children have had to learn to multi-task from home, toggling between our paying job, our new job as homeschool teacher,andprovidingchildcareforourlittleones. Mostimportantly,we buried and mourned too many relatives, friends, and colleagues.

Coping with Uncertainty with Ingenuity

Our lives have been consumed by the pandemic and we are living a New Normal. We have learned to live with uncertainty and have worked to turn adverse situations into opportunities. So many of us, including our young children and seniors, have mastered Zoom technology, and learned to study, work, and even connect with doctors virtually.

Right before Sukkot, many Jewish communities were hit with an uptick innewcases. HotspotswereshutdownagaininBrooklynandQueens, taking us back to earlier pandemic phases with only ten men permitted to pray in synagogues and other religious institutions and schools. Non-essential businesses were also closed for a few weeks, causing financial hardship for their owners and inconvenience to their customers.

But, just like a GPS recalibrates when one takes a wrong turn while driving, we have had to learn to recalibrate and pivot our strategies for living and surviving on a daily basis.

The news reports regarding these hot spots evoked renewed fear, anxiety, and concerns about how we will deal with and recover from these shutdowns and the resulting surge in anti-Semitism. I coached myself to stay strong and to remember the wins we have experienced and the resilience, ingenuity, and resources we used to successfully create a New Normal in the past six months.

Research shows that unless we are occupied with positive thoughts, worrying is the brain’s default position. We can learn how to keep negative emotions and thoughts in check by amplifying positive emotions. Great leaders know that a positive attitude can be contagious. We do, however, need to take time to process trauma and negative events.

Living Life to the Fullest in These Challenging Times

So how can we best function and live our lives in the New Normal to the fullest, spiritually, personally, and professionally?

First and foremost, we can strive to cultivate a positive mindset. This requires both positive thinking and concrete actions to achieve positive results.

I personally thought about how much I had enjoyed Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur services. Both on Rosh Hashanah in California and on Yom Kippur in Brooklyn, I sat outdoors in a flowing and open white tent, praying for a healthy new year for all and for an end to the pandemic, a true plague or magefah.

Although I was sad that we were forced to sit six feet apart, and younger children and the most vulnerable community members could not attend services, I was struck by how much I delighted in praying outdoors. This was my own bright spot or silver lining during the agonizing six months of uncertainty, stress, anxiety, sickness, loss, and mourning.

As Jews, we are taught to practice positive thinking and gratitude. “Gam zu l’tova” (this too is for the best) is an expression we learn as young children. Growth through adversity and stretching ourselves to achieve our full potential are principles that we Jews have been practicing for thousands of years.

As Jews we understand that the spark that Hashem breathed into us is what helps us to overcome our limitations, be they physical, spiritual, emotional, or financial.

Stay Educated – in Moderation

It is important to be informed and to keep up to date on the latest Coronavirus research and the changing regulations. One way to stay educated is to check the state and Center for Disease Control (CDC) guidelines (including testing and contact tracing). “Staying informed is not just responsible, but critical to our safety right now,” says Kellie Casey Cook, MS, licensed professional counselor.

However, watching too much news and obsessing about Coronavirus statistics can increase one’s level of stress and anxiety. To maintain a healthy balance of staying informed while not overdoing it, the World Health Organization (WHO) recommends seeking news about the Coronavirus mainly so that you can take practical steps to prepare your plans and protect yourself and your loved ones. Once you have that information, turn off the news.

To help alleviate the mental and emotional toll this is all taking, the CDC recommends taking breaks from watching, listening, or reading news stories, especially since repeatedly hearing about a pandemic is upsetting.

Dr. Viktor Frankl and the Search for Meaning

The freedom to choose one’s mindset is a concept that was developed by Dr. Viktor Frankl, a psychiatrist who survived the Holocaust and labored in four different camps. His parents, brothers, and pregnant wife all perished. He kept himself alive and maintained hope by summoning up thoughts of his wife and images of reuniting with her. He kept himself focused on a better future, dreaming about sharing after the war what he learned from his Auschwitz experience.

Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms – to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way. When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.

One of Frankl’s key concepts is that life is a quest for meaning, and the three possible sources for meaning are in work (doing something significant), in love (caring for another person), and in courage during difficult times.

There are many life lessons we can take away from Frankl’s teachings about coping with suffering and survival and focus on living our lives with meaning and purpose.

Pay Attention to the Silver Linings

Many rabbis, psychologists, executives, government officials, and bloggers have reported silver lining experiences during these past six months of living with COVID-19. The key to survive the tough periods in one’s life is to maintain a positive outlook. During uncertain and traumatic times fixating on the negative aspects of life can drag one down and cause a downward spiral.

Let’s work to stay true to our special spark of positivity and focus on the silver linings or bright spots that we are experiencing.

Let’s focus on those teachable moments and share them with our families and friends.

I recently read that Coronavirus was the teacher and we are the students. We saw first-hand how people in all different spheres pivoted and thought out of the box to come up with solutions to the novel problems thrown at them during the pandemic. Educators, business owners, and so many others created virtual platforms to keep schools, businesses, and not-for-profit institutions operating.

Our shul set up a volunteer program for shul members to check in with homebound community members, delivering food for the hagim and Shabbat and calling them weekly.

Focus on Connections at This Time of Social Distancing

Again, we call upon our ability to redirect ourselves to foster much-needed connection.

My husband and I learned to read books and play games with our two-year-old grandson using FaceTime. We appreciated celebrating his birthday on Zoom and watching videos of his milestones.

I was so grateful that I could attend shiva calls and funerals remotely and talk to my doctors on video visits. My husband now studies Daf Yomi virtually.

I did my Zumba workouts online instead of at the “J” and joined virtual Weight Watchers meetings to avoid gaining “the Quarantine 15.”

In Conclusion

As you live your New Normal, think about what you want your future to look like. Author and coach Dave Hollis wrote, “In the rush to return to normal, use this time to consider which parts of normal are worth rushing back to.”

And remember to put Hashem into the picture. At the end of the day, we all know that it is He who is running the show.

Please stay safe and well.

What bright spots or teachable moments did you create during the pandemic?

Did you reconnect with friends or relatives?

Did you learn to appreciate the simple but wonderful things in your life, like family or doing hesed and being able to help someone less fortunate than you?

Did you develop a new skill to help cope with the hardships of
the pandemic?

What about a new hobby?

Many people took a host of online classes, from cooking to meditation, to learning a new language. Decluttering one’s home became popular as space was tight with moms and dads working from home and children learning remotely from the living room.