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Riddles – November 2021

Riddle: Coin Conundrum

Submitted by Melissa G.

I have a large money box, 12 inches wide, and 6 inches tall. How many quarters can I place in it until my money box is no longer empty?

Last Month’s Riddle: Three Doors

You’re escaping a maze, and there are three doors in front of you. The door on the left leads to a pit of lava. The door in the center leads to a room filled with deadly gas. The door on the right leads to a lion that hasn’t eaten in three months. Which door do you choose?

Solution: The door on the right. A lion that hasn’t eaten in three months would be dead!

Solved by: Lulu Saadia, Abraham Cohen, Elijah Cohen, Label Stein, The Blum Family, Gabe Solomon, Mandomike, and The Shmulster.

Junior Riddle: A Hairy Situation

Submitted by Zak S.

How can a man who shaves several times a day still sport a long beard?

Last Month’s Junior Riddle: Making Cents

In my hand, I have two coins that are newly minted. Together, they total 30 cents. One isn’t a nickel. What are the coins?

Solution: A quarter and a nickel.

Solved by: Lulu Saadia, Shmuli Lieberman, The Blum Family, The Shmulster, Carey T., and Big Mike.

Loyalty

Last month we discussed Sellers Tips. While Sellers Tips are very important, I wanted to share with you a Buyers Tip that is equally as important. It is the concept of loyalty.

What do I mean by loyalty?

If you’re in the market to buy a home and you have contacted an agent that you have developed a rapport with and you liked, and you are confident that you can trust them, you’re getting good service, and you value their opinion, then stick with that agent. For example, you see a house for sale that is listed with a different agent, call your agent and ask them what they know about the home. More than likely, they will be able to give you information on the home and/or try to arrange a showing for you. They will work directly with the other agent to make that happen. Because of the relationship you formed with your agent, your agent will likely know exactly what you are looking for and is therefore able to eliminate certain homes to find the perfect home for you.

It is to the benefit of the other agent to allow other agents to come and show their home. This is known as co-broke, as it opens possibilities that weren’t presented before. When you are loyal to an agent, they want to help you, they want to show you the off-market homes and give you the best possible service, which in turn will help the you to secure your dream home.

Do You Need a Broker?

Although some sellers want to sell on their own, it’s not easy. Can people sell on their own? 100 percent. Do I think sellers make more money at the end of the day if they sell with a broker? Yes! It’s actually a fact. Can I say that is true for every house? No. Many times Hashem just sends the exact buyer for a specific house, they overpay, and it’s a done deal.

For example – There’s a seller that I know who didn’t want to use a broker to sell their home. They kept saying, “Why should I use a broker?” “Why should I pay a commission?” I helped them a bit through the process of selling their home. Normally a closing should take place within 60 days in NYC, and this was already six weeks after the 60 days. The seller was frustrated. It cost them money in taxes. They wanted to close before the new year. If they would have used a broker, the broker could have pushed the mortgage broker, sent comps to the appraisers, and done things to speed up the process, and be really on top of it. So, they lost four percent of the sale price. The sellers wanted to save money. Here you have a perfect example of “penny-wise and dollar-foolish.”

Brokers can guide sellers on home inspections, buyer financials, time frame, and the overall Market. I feel that hiring a broker is an essential part of selling a home.

HungryMom’s Food Diary – Fried Mac N Cheese Balls

By Susan Zayat

What’s a Hanukah meal without some yummy fried food? Here is a fun twist to a classic dish that’s perfect to enhance any Hanukah meal! Best part is, they can be made in advance, up until the last step. I hope you enjoy!

  • 1 box elbow noodles
  • Butter
  • Flour
  • Milk
  • Cheddar cheese
  • Eggs
  • Marinara sauce
  1. Boil a box of elbow noodles. Drain, and set aside. In a separate pot melt ¼ cup butter. Add ½ cup of all purpose flour and mix until it turns a light brown color. Add 1 cup of milk and mix until thick. Add ¾ cup of shredded cheddar cheese adding a handful at a time mixing in between. Mix until mixture is melted and smooth.
  2. Add the sauce to the cooked noodles and mix well. Transfer to an airtight container and place in the refrigerator for at least 1 hour.
  3. Roll cold noodles into tight balls. If it’s not sticking together, then put it back in the fridge for a little while longer and roll them out again.
  4. Once rolled, put on a parchment lined paper for at least one hour.
  5. At this point you can make these in advance and do the following step before serving.
  6. Beat 2 eggs with ½ cup of milk. Dip the frozen Mac N Cheese balls into the egg mixture, then into panko crumbs, back into the egg mixture and then again into the panko crumbs. Making sure it is covered really well.
  7. Now for the fun part, deep fry! Leave them until they turn a nice golden color. Drain the excess oil on a cooling rack, heat up your favorite marinara sauce and use as a dipping sauce, and enjoy!

Recipe by Susan Zayat. For more recipes and ideas follow @Hungrymom on Instagram. Check out her amazing homemade spelt sourdough for sale.

Photo styled and photographed by Sarah Husney. Sarah Husney is a food photographer servicing NY & NJ. She has clients from the food businesses in the community upgrading their photos for Instagram and websites. Contact info: 917 626 2991 / @sarahhusney_foodphoto.

One on One with Gali Dabbah

Ellen Geller Kamaras

“I knew I wanted to work with children. I checked out various fields in college, did internships and shadowed different professionals before I made my decision. I love what I do and definitely made the right choice in becoming a speech-language pathologist.”

~~ Gali ~~

Gali Dabbah, née Dahan, is one of the young female leaders of our community who I was blessed to interview. Our young women strive and succeed in finding their purpose and raising their beautiful children in an environment infused with Torah values.

A Little Background

As you read Gali’s life story, you will see that she is a positive, hard-working individual who decided on a career path after careful thought and research. She opted for speech-language pathology, a profession that allows her to accomplish her goals of connecting with kids and helping them to be the best version of themselves.

Gali, born and raised in Brooklyn, is a proud graduate of Yeshiva of Flatbush, studying there from pre-school through high school. Her parents, Yaffit and Henry Dahan, were born in Lebanon, lived in Israel, and met and married in New York. Gali is the oldest of three children and has a brother and sister.

The Dahan’s consistently emphasized the importance of education.

“My mom especially encouraged us to aim for success and reach for the stars. The three of us are all professionals: I chose speech, my brother is a doctor, and my sister became a business and finance specialist.”

Gali shared that she was always studious and is still close with a group of friends who all pushed each other to do well academically. School was a very positive experience. Her sister describes Gali as bubbly and friendly and shy at the same time. Gali herself says she is easy-going, hard-working, down to earth, and connects well with people.

Gali started working with children as a tween and always felt that she wanted to pursue a career centered around working with children. Gali just wasn’t sure what that would be. “I have always had a knack with children.” She babysat, worked as a camp counselor, and did peer tutoring and private tutoring in high school. As a junior, she tutored freshmen in her brother’s grade and as a senior, taught sophomores. “I made so many friends through tutoring who I am still in touch with today.”

Gali also got involved in other high school extracurriculars. She was on the volleyball team, yearbook committee, and Tehillim commission. “I signed up for the maximum teams/committees, wanting to soak up as much as I could.”

College and Grad School

Gali’s inquisitive nature, which drove her to get involved in diverse endeavors in high school, continued to motivate her in college. She enrolled at Brooklyn College and took many types of courses to help her clarify what major she wanted to choose. Gali believed she needed to be well-rounded before deciding on a career path. She found her classes to be too large to connect with her teachers individually, so she reached out to people in different fields to have one-on-one discussions about experiences working in different fields. Gali was a substitute teacher for a few months at Barkai Yeshiva, where she also shadowed a speech pathologist. Gali then felt prepared to elect majors in speech pathology and psychology and a minor in education.

Why Speech?

“It was a big decision. I spoke to teachers, psychotherapists, and speech therapists to pinpoint which track was right for me. My mom also guided me in determining which discipline was a good fit. I enjoyed the one-on-one relationship that comes with speech therapy and was also fascinated by learning about the brain, which is a huge part of speech and language. People often think of stuttering and articulation when they hear the term ‘speech therapy.’ They forget the language aspect. It’s also so diverse, you never get bored. You can work with newborns, children, adults, and/or elderly people who are recovering from a stroke.”

Gali studied at Brooklyn College’s graduate program in speech-language pathology. During graduate school, Gali stretched herself to absorb as much as possible and volunteered to work on Sundays for her mentor, Professor Carrie Idler. Professor Idler was looking for a grad student to go to patients’ homes to set up and then run a computer program for students with auditory processing disorders. Gali stepped up to the plate ensuring the program was operating correctly.

Gali graduated with a Master of Science in speech-language pathology and did her clinical fellowship at the Chehebar Academy, Magen David Yeshivah’s special education program. Gali was thrilled to have Prof. Idler as her fellowship supervisor. After completing her requirements, Gali received an offer to work at Chehebar Academy and she stayed there for eight years.

Gali’s Position at Gesher Yehuda Yeshiva

For the past two years, Gali has worked with children on a one-to-one basis at Gesher Yehuda Yeshiva. The students she works with range from kindergarten through eighth grade. Gali’s focus is language-based disorders, comprehension, vocabulary, executive functioning skills (such as organizing and planning) and social functions (for example, how to read a room, and how to maintain friendships).

What excites Gali about her current position?

Gali’s response was quick and enthusiastic. She gets to see the whole picture relative to her clients. Gali shares the strategies she uses with a specific child, with his or her classroom teacher and sits in on “IEP” (Individualized Education Plan) meetings. “I enjoy being part of the entire team, interacting with the occupational and physical therapists, reading specialists, the principal and directors, and reaching out to parents.”

Gali recently became a supervisor and she mentors and supervises clinical fellow students who completed graduate school.

Gali is on vacation from her school job in the summers and her girls are in day camp. She explores other areas of speech pathology, including taking on private patients. Gali thrives on knowledge sharing with the large community of therapists that she meets on Instagram. She also takes many continuing education courses to sharpen her skills.

Family and Career Balance

Gali first met her soulmate, Jimmy Dabbah, in 2013. They have been married since 2017, live in Brooklyn, and have two daughters, two and three years old.

Gali is impassioned about her family. “My kids are amazing, and I love doing everything for them.” Listening to Gali describe her work as a speech-language pathologist, I could tell that her career most definitely fulfills her and lights her up.

Gali works full-time and is grateful that her work hours match her children’s school schedule. “It’s a balancing act. My husband is a huge help! We drop them off at playgroup and Yeshiva in the morning and I pick them up from school at 3:00 pm. When I bring them home, I switch gears from speech-language pathologist to mom and begin a new marathon, cooking dinner and concentrating on my daughters. Although the girls are very young, they are beginning to understand that Mommy works.”

Gali explained that she is a mom 100 percent but also enjoys professional achievement and personal growth development. To her, what is important is the quality of time she devotes to her family and not the quantity. “Even if you only get to spend one hour with your children after school, make sure to engage with them, be fully present and put aside distractions,” Gali advises.

Both sets of grandparents are on standby to step in when needed, such as when a child needs to be picked up early. “I couldn’t be a working mom without their loving support.”

Covid

When the pandemic hit, Gali began zooming with her students and her husband was also working from home. With her young daughters at home, Gali and her friend Leah Lati developed activities to keep their own children occupied and engaged. Gali got to use skills that she had learned about but had never used.

Guess what? The two moms crafted “My Activity Kit” and their business was born. They sell kits with targeted skills for kids, “fun activities to enhance learning.”

Gali was fortunate that her school had a limited shutdown, and she was able to return in person before many others.

Hakarat Hatov

Gali feels very fortunate to live in the community. “What we have really doesn’t exist in other places. Our community is a special one to be a part of. There are so many resources, and everyone helps each other.”

Unwinding

To relax, Gali enjoys traveling and spending time with friends and family. She absolutely loves to walk, particularly to the beach. With her girls in a double stroller, she heads to the Coney Island boardwalk. The girls adore the aquarium.

Her advice to teenagers? Take time to explore different fields. If you are undecided on a college major, volunteer and talk to a range of professionals.

Please visit Gali’s Instagram pages, @thesavvyslp and @my_activity_kit to find out more about Gali’s specialties. You can contact Gali by messaging her on Instagram @thesavvyslp or emailing galidabbah@gmail.com.

Ellen Geller Kamaras, CPA/MBA, is an International Coach Federation (ICF) Associate Certified Coach. Her coaching specialties include life, career, and dating coaching. Ellen works part-time as an entitlement specialist at Ohel Children’s Home and Family Services. She can be contacted at ellen@lifecoachellen.com (www.lifecoachellen.com).

The Menorah’s Testimony

Hanukah, of course, celebrates our nation’s miraculous triumph over the Greeks, who had ruled over Eretz Yisrael and set out to obliterate Jewish observance. While many Jews at that time simply surrendered and gave up Jewish practice, the Hashmonaim, a courageous group of kohanim, refused to accept the situation. Armed with very few weapons but a great deal of determination and faith in Gd, they waged war against the mighty Greek Empire, driving them from the land. The Hashmonaim then cleansed the Bet Hamikdash, which the Greeks had defiled, and rededicated it for the service of Gd.

A mysterious passage in the Midrash perhaps adds to our understanding of what it was exactly that the Greeks militated against – and in so doing, it may profoundly enhance our appreciation of this very special holiday.

The Midrash comments on the second verse in the Torah, which describes how at the beginning of the process of creation, “hoshech al peneh tehom” – darkness filled all of existence. According to the Midrash, this description is an allusion to the Greek Empire, “which darkened the eyes of Israel.” The Greeks’ evil decree made our lives dark, like at the beginning of creation, before light came into existence. Curiously, though, the Midrash does not point to the Greeks’ ban on Torah learning, circumcision, or Shabbat observance. Rather, it states that the Greeks forced the Jews of the time to “write on the horns of the ox: We have no share in the Gd of Israel.”

Certainly, this was a terrible decree. It is akin to a government edict nowadays requiring all Jews to place bumper stickers on their cars announcing their rejection of Judaism. But why is this, in particular, the essence of the “darkness” wrought by the Greeks? What is the deeper meaning behind this decree?

Our Direct Line

The Ben Ish Hai (Rav Yosef Haim of Baghdad, 1833-1909) develops a profound answer, explaining that this decree touches upon the core essence of our nation’s identity, our status as Gd’s treasured nation.

The verse in the Book of Devarim (32:9) states, “Ki helek Hashem amo – For Gd’s share is His nation.” The commentators understand this verse to mean that we enjoy a special, direct relationship with Gd. All other nations have an angel assigned to serve as the intermediary between them and Gd. All nations are welcome and encouraged to pray to Gd – in fact, Gd exclaims through the prophet Yeshayahu (56:7), “For My home shall be called a house of prayer for all the nations.” However, the prayers of the other nations are brought to Gd via the agency of an angel, whereas our prayers ascend directly to Gd. He has chosen us as His “helek,” His “share.” Each angel chose a nation – and Gd Himself chose, as well, and His choice was Am Yisrael.

The Ben Ish Hai explains on this basis the verse in the Book of Mishleh (7:3) in which King Shlomo instructs us, “Tie them [the mitzvot] on your fingers.” The difference between Am Yisrael and the other nations, the Ben Ish Hai writes, is the difference between the thumb and the other fingers. The four other fingers have a second joint attaching them to the

hand, whereas the thumb attaches directly. Am Yisrael, the Ben Ish Hai writes, resembles the thumb – enjoying a “direct line” with Gd just as the thumb is connected directly to the hand. We are symbolized by the thumb because we stand apart from the other nations, just as the thumb stands apart from the other fingers. And thus Shlomo urges us, “Tie them on your fingers” – to contemplate to symbolism of our fingers in order to appreciate the special relationship we have with our Creator.

The Golden Calf

The Ben Ish Hai writes that this is the meaning of the phrase which the Greeks ordered the Jews to pronounce: “En lanu helek b’Elokeh Yisrael – We have no share in the Gd of Israel.” The Greeks demanded that the Jews renounce the belief in the doctrine of “helek Hashem amo,” that Am Yisrael enjoys a unique relationship with Gd. They insisted that the Jews see themselves as no different than any other people.

This is why the pronouncement was to be written on the horns of the Jews’ oxen. The so-called “proof” drawn by the Greeks for their claim, that the Jews had no special status, was the sin of the golden calf. The calf – a young ox – represents Am Yisrael’s greatest moment of failure, the moment when – in the Greeks’ distorted perception – Am Yisrael forever lost their special stature among the nations of the world. A number of commentators – most notably, the Ramban (Rav Moshe Nachmanides, Spain, 1194-1270) – explained that Beneh Yisrael did not actually worship the golden calf, or believe that this statue – which they had made from their golden jewelry – was a god. Rather, they built the calf to serve as an intermediary of sorts between them and Gd. After spending centuries among the Egyptians, it was difficult for them to immediately transition to a direct relationship with Gd, without any agent or conduit. This was the motive behind the fashioning and worship of the golden calf.

For the Greeks, this grave mistake signified the Jews’ own abrogation of their special relationship with Gd. After all, they themselves showed that they did not want a “direct line,” that they wanted to be like all the other nations, whose relationship with Gd is indirect, working by way of an intermediary force.

The Ben Ish Hai writes that this is the meaning of the Greeks’ decree: “Write on the horns of the ox: We have no share in the Gd of Israel.” They were, in essence, telling the Jews, “You yourselves announced through the ‘ox’ – the golden calf – that you are not Gd’s special ‘share,’ that you are like all other nations, without any stature of distinction.”

We might add that this perhaps explains the text of the Al Hanissim prayer which we add to the birkat hamazon service and Shemona Esreh throughout Hanukah. In this prayer, we proclaim, “Masarta giborim beyad halashim, rabim beyad me’atim, teme’im beyad tehorim” – You gave the mighty in the hand of the weak, the many in the hand of the few, the impure in the hand of the pure…” We repeatedly emphasize the “yad” – the “hand” of the Jews that defeated the Greeks. The miraculous triumph over the Greeks reaffirmed the symbolism of the “hand” – that Am Yisrael, like the thumb, stands separate and apart from other nations, and enjoys a special, direct relationship with Gd.

The Menorah’s Testimony

What, then, is our response to the Greeks? How do we continue believing in our nation’s uniquely direct, unmediated relationship with Gd, if our ancestors knowingly made a golden calf to serve as the intermediary between them and Him?

The answer is found in the menorah – the most obvious symbol of Hanukah.

The Gemara (Menahot 86b) teaches that one of the seven lamps of the menorah in the Bet Hamikdash miraculously burned longer than the other six lamps. In essence, a miniature Hanukah miracle occurred every night: the same amount of oil was poured into each lamp, but one continued burning after the others had extinguished. This miracle, the Gemara comments, provided “testimony to everyone in the world that the Shechinah [divine presence] rests among Israel.” The supernatural kindling of the menorah provided proof that although Am Yisrael failed at the time of the golden calf, their repentance was sincere – and thus accepted – and Gd lovingly took residence, so-to-speak, among them.

Appropriately, then, the symbol of the Hanukah miracle involved the menorah, which burned miraculously for eight nights. The menorah represents our response to the Greeks, showing that “the Shechinah resides among Israel,” that despite our mistakes and failings, Gd’s love for us remains, our special relationship with Him has not ended. Gd does not expect us to be perfect, but rather to acknowledge our imperfections and seek to improve. As long as we do that, His presence remains with us.

Our kindling of the Hanukah lights reenacts the kindling of the menorah in the Bet Hamikdash, reaffirming our unique connection to Gd. The Hanukah lights give “testimony” that the divine presence remains in our midst, that His boundless love for His nation has not waned.

Sometimes we might feel that our spiritual world is “dark,” that because of everything we’ve done wrong, “we have no share in the Gd of Israel.” We look back at the many different “golden calves” on our record, and conclude – as the Greeks wanted us to – that we are no longer worthy of a special bond with our Creator. The light of the Hanukah candles illuminate the darkness, assuring us that despite it all, we are still loved and cherished by Gd. As long as we continue working to kindle the light of Torah and sanctity, as long as we sincerely regret our mistakes and commit to try harder, we are worthy of the divine presence. This is the “testimony” given by the Hanukah candles in every Jewish home.

Hanukah is observed during the darkest time of year – shortly before the winter solstice, and at the end of the lunar month (Kislev), when the moon barely shines. The message of this beautiful holiday is precisely that even when we experience “darkness,” when we feel despair, when we wonder whether Gd is with us, we must realize that He is. His love for us remains even during our “darkest” periods – as long as we are striving to “illuminate” our lives and our world with the brilliant light of the Torah.

Getting Back to Old Respect

Can Every Child Really Cooperate?

The answer is, absolutely! How do we know? Fortunately, the Torah is our complete road map for life, and it teaches us that respect is for everyone. There are no exclusions. That means that children with ADHD need to be respectful, children who have sensory challenges need to be respectful, children with social challenges need to be respectful, and children with emotional challenges need to be respectful! Let’s examine a few reasons why children these days may find being respectful to be a struggle, and how we can restore the necessary old-fashioned respect in every home and school.

Firstly, many parents are afraid to enforce rules because they believe that if done too harshly, it can cause long term damage to their children. While it is true that harsh speech can, indeed, hurt a child, enforcing rules can be accomplished with soft speech, so long as it is done with complete confidence. Since children are able to feel our vibes, if we feel insecure about enforcing our rules, our children will believe that the rules are not so important. All children are capable of accepting limits (unless there is a cognitive delay that impedes their actual understanding). When little three-year-olds go into stores with their parents and ask for a food item that is not kosher, they stop begging when the answer is no because the child sees that the parent means business. Oftentimes when children are struggling to cooperate it is because they can sense the wavering feelings of the adult about the importance of the rule.

For example, a mother tells little seven-year-old Isaac who is playing outside to come in. He says no or simply ignores her. She is secretly feeling bad for him that he needs to stop playing now. She is not realizing that Isaac is sensing that ambivalent feeling from her. If Isaac was to almost bite into an unkosher item that she forbids, this mother would figure out a way to stop him, because she is confident and secure that she is doing the right thing.

Let’s follow the following protocol to regain the respect that children so desperately want to give.

1. Raise your children with a healthy attitude towards rules. Rules are there to protect us and Hashem loves us so much that He gave us the clearest possible guide on what rules to follow. Let your children know that people who know that live much happier and healthier lives than people who are constantly fighting authority.

2. Before you state a rule or instruction to your children, stop and think if you believe it is important. If not, skip it and do not say anything. If you do believe it is important, lower your voice and let your child know exactly what you do or do not allow. Then enforce it exactly as you would for the unkosher food situation. You will be surprised at how capable you and your child are!

3. If your child is struggling to cooperate, he or she probably is just stuck in old patterns of behavior. Deep down all people want to do what is good and right. (You may need a bit of help from a mentor to help your child move away from this pattern.) For starters, let your child know that you see through this, and that the real him or her wants to cooperate.

4. Discuss a plan with your child for how your child can hold himself or herself accountable, telling them that you know that they do care, and nobody wants to come across as, “I just do whatever I want in life, even if it disturbs others.” Follow through on the plan.

We do not connect to our children’s behaviors; we connect to their souls. The more they see that we truly believe that they want to do what is right, the more respect they will show.

From The Files of The Mitzvah Man – Hesed Stories

“I THOUGHT THAT I WAS GOING TO BE HOMELESS TONIGHT!”

Pnina Souid

It was getting late. Where is that Access-A-Ride? Jamie thought to herself. Jamie, a legally blind woman in her late seventies, had waited patiently for the car. It was daytime still when her doctor’s appointment in Manhattan was over.

Now she anxiously dialed the number of the Access-A-Ride dispatcher.

“Sorry to keep bothering you, but where is my car? I have been waiting for hours. It is raining and it is turning dark outside,” Jamie asked with a sense of urgency in her voice.

“Lady, don’t worry, we are sending someone to you. Be patient,” the dispatcher answered.

Jamie waited a little bit longer and realized finally that the pre-arranged ride was not going to show. She began to fear that she would be homeless that night. Who could she turn to? She asked Hashem to please help her.

Help with the Press of a Button

Then she remembered that at the Senior Citizen Center Residence on Kings Highway one of the staff members programed the phone number of the Mitzvah Man hotline into her telephone. If Jamie ever had an emergency (like the one she was having now), help might be just one pressed button away.

Quickly, Jamie pressed that button. A friendly voice responded. Jamie explained her predicament. “I am legally blind and have been waiting the better part of the day for my Access-A-Ride car. It is now dark and raining. I am afraid that I will be alone and homeless tonight. I am scared.”

The volunteer answered in a reassuring voice, “Don’t worry. We are here for you and are used to getting calls around the clock. We have a special hesed car service that will be able to come to you as quickly as possible. Just please give me your location.”

Unending Thanks for Hashem’s Compassionate Angels

In Jamie’s thank-you note to the Mitzvah Man organization she wrote that within 20 minutes a car pulled up and asked if she was Jamie. He told her that he is the Mitzvah Man driver and he helped her into the car, using utmost caution. Jamie was so grateful that he was able to find her in the dark, on that rainy night. The driver did not just drive her home. He spoke to her, calming her down as her fear of a night of homelessness had caused her entire body to shake.

Jamie ended her letter of gratitude with the following words:

I blessed the driver and the organization. What a relief to have such an organization staffed by such amazing volunteers. They are certainly messengers of Hashem.

I will never forget how I thought for hours that I was going to be homeless that night and how Hashem sent an angel to rescue me.

Top Tech Gifts for Hanukah

Take a look at these cool new gadgets, perfect for Hanukah gifts for family members and friends on your list.

Nanoleaf Canvas Light Panels Kit

These light panels are controlled via an app to display any color you like. By attaching them to the wall in a unique configuration, they can make some beautiful, high-tech art. This is mood lighting for the future at its best.

Ember Temperature Control Smart Mug 2

Coffee tastes better hot, and this smart mug will keep it that way for up to an hour and a half per charge. The intuitive Ember app allows a coffee drinker to tinker with the heat setting to best suit their preference, and alter settings for espresso, tea, and more.

Oura Ring Health Tracker

One of the smartest health wearables – and that’s saying something – to be released in recent years. This ring accurately tracks heart rate, sleep cycles, and activity, then provides insight and guidance based on what it tracks. Considering how discreet it is, that’s quite a feat of engineering.

DJI Mini 2 Drone

They can crouch and stretch and lean all they want. They still won’t be able to get the shot or capture the video from 4,000 meters in the air. The Mini 2 features 4x zoom, panoramic views, and an app to quickly save and transfer footage, among other features.

RadMission Electric Metro Bike

The RadMission adeptly bridges the gap between lightweight city bike and bulky E-bike. It can skirt cars and pedestrians with ease, but also give its rider a battery-powered boost when their energy is lagging.

Makeblock mBot Robot Kit

Teach kids the joys of artificial intelligence early on. The mBot is a programmable playmate that makes use of S.T.E.M. coding skills to function and move.

Thermoworks Classic Thermapen

This thermometer, designed for professional kitchens, takes incredibly accurate readings in two seconds. Anyone serious about cooking meat can use it to achieve grilling perfection.

Orbit Plus Turntable

U-Turn’s turntables not only look beautifully modern, but they pack audio tech that makes you really stop and listen. The Orbit Plus will impress the most intense of audiophiles and will impress the vinyl acolyte on your list, too.

Who Were the Maccabees?

Rabbi Zamir Cohen

This month we will celebrate the holiday of Hanukah.

As a person matures, he develops a more profound understanding of the insights he acquired in his childhood and builds on them. For example, we cannot compare the Torah we learned in elementary school to our in-depth study with the Torah commentaries as adults.

It is the same with Hanukah. When we were young, we learned a superficial and shallow view of the Hasmoneans. Now the time has come to understand them in a more profound way.

What the Rambam Tells Us About Hanukah

Let us begin with the Rambam’s words at the beginning of the Laws of Hanukah. He writes as follows:

“In [the era of] the Second Temple, the Greek kingdom issued decrees against the Jewish people to nullify their faith and prevent them from observing the Torah and its commandments. They [the Greeks] extended their hands against their [the Jews’] property and their daughters; they entered the Sanctuary, wrought havoc within, and made the sacraments impure.

“The Jews suffered great difficulties from them, for they oppressed them greatly until the Gd of our ancestors had mercy upon them, delivered them from their hand, and saved them. The sons of the Hasmoneans, the High Priests, overcame [them], slew them, and saved the Jews from their hand.

“They appointed a king from the priests, and sovereignty returned to Israel for more than 200 years, until the destruction of the Second Temple. When the Jews overcame their enemies and destroyed them, they entered the Sanctuary; this was on the twenty-fifth of Kislev. They could not find any pure oil in the Sanctuary, with the exception of a single cruse that contained enough oil to burn for merely one day. They lit lights from it for eight days until they could crush olives and produce pure oil.”

Two Miracles

From the Rambam’s words we can see that the Greeks’ main reason for waging war against the Jewish people was to destroy their unique Jewish identity, and this was why the Hasmoneans went to war against them. The Rambam also explains why we celebrate eight days: because that was the minimum time necessary in those days to produce oil and bring it to the Temple. Once they had produced the required amount of oil, there was no need for a further change in the laws of nature. The fire that had burned miraculously from the small amount of oil went out, and it was possible to use the new oil to light the Temple Menorah.

Actually, two miracles occurred on Hanukah: the first miracle was as we say in our prayers: “You gave over the strong into the hands of the weak, and the many into the hands of the few.” The second was the miracle of the cruse of oil: a small jug with pure oil sufficient to burn for only one day was found with the stamp of the High Priest but miraculously the oil burned for eight days in a row.

The Real Maccabees

Today, when describing the events of Hanukah, there are those who present things in a very skewed light. Judah Maccabee is frequently illustrated as a muscular man with a shock of hair blowing in the wind, without a beard, and with a defiant look in his eyes – as if he were an Attila the Hun. The historical fact is that Judah Maccabee was a completely different type of person. He and his brothers were Gd-fearing men and Torah scholars who realized that the Greeks were destroying the people spiritually and corrupting them morally. When he and his brothers saw that there were Jews who were failing this difficult trial and were becoming Hellenists and behaving like gentiles, their hearts bled. They decided to take a stand and wage a battle that had no logical hope of succeeding. The entire campaign against the Greeks was a battle over the spiritual existence of the Jewish people.

Maccabi is an acronym of the words Mi kamocha b’elim Hashem which means “Who is like You among the powerful, Gd?” This is the slogan that they chose as a rallying call to launch their war. After all, what did Antiochus want? Unlike Haman, who wanted to destroy, kill, and exterminate all Jews, Antiochus did not seek to kill the Jews’ bodies but rather their souls. He wanted them to abandon their religion. If the Jews had come to Haman or Hitler and told them that they were ready to change their religion, these mortal enemies would not have given up on their programs of extermination. Their goal was to eradicate any remnant of the Jewish nation, Gd forbid. Antiochus, however, did not want to wipe out the Jews, he only wanted to wipe out Judaism. He wanted us to adopt the Greek culture.

Greek Culture Versus Our Culture

Much of Western culture that we see today has its source in Greece. The word “Olympics” comes from the sacred Greek site Olympia, where the ancient Olympic games were held. The word “stadium” derives Greek as well, and the cult of the body comes from Greece. The Maccabees fought this worldview against all odds, and with full confidence in Gd’s assistance.

Judaism teaches us that it is important to keep our bodies healthy, so we can fulfill our spiritual goals according to the Torah, and to live happily and with contentment in This World and in the World to Come. But our body must not become an object of worship.

Logically, the war led by a handful of Torah scholars against the powerful and trained Greek army was a war they had no chance of winning. But from the moment they were willing to sacrifice themselves for Heaven – victory was theirs. And for this we praise and thank Gd and say: “You gave over the strong into the hands of the weak, and the many into the hands of the few.”

Once Upon A Thyme – Pulled Beef Latke Pizza

By Adina Yaakov

Potatoes are one of the most versatile vegetables. Making one large latke as a pizza crust and baking instead of frying saves time and makes a great dish for Hanukah. I’ve added my homemade barbeque sauce recipe, but you can swap with your favorite store-bought barbeque sauce for similar results.

Latke Pizza Base

  • 5 potatoes peeled, grated, liquids squeezed out
  • 1 onion peeled, grated, liquids squeezed out
  • 2 eggs
  • 1 tsp salt
  • ¼ tsp black pepper
  • 1⁄4 cup flour
  • Nonstick cooking spray
  1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees Fahrenheit.
  2. In a medium bowl, combine eggs and spices. Add the remaining ingredients and mix.
  3. Generously spray a baking tray with cooking spray.
  4. Carefully pour the entire batter onto the tray. Lightly press down to evenly flatten.
  5. Spray the top with more cooking spray and bake for 20 minutes.

Pulled Beef

  • 3 onions
  • 1 tsp salt
  • 1 tsp black pepper
  • 2 lb brisket
  • 2 tbsp oil
  • 3 cloves minced garlic
  1. In a large stock pot, sauté onions in oil until golden, about 10 minutes. Reserve half of the sauteed onions on the side, leaving the other half inside the pot.
  2. Sprinkle Salt and pepper on both sides of the brisket and add to the pot. Cook each side for 3-4 minutes.
  3. Add garlic and 6 cups of water to the pot and bring to a boil. Cover and lower to a simmer for 1.5 – 2 hours until tender.

Homemade BBQ Sauce

  • 1 onion
  • 5 cloves garlic
  • 2 tbsp oil
  • 1 ½ cup molasses
  • ½ cup ketchup
  • 1 tsp salt
  • ¼ tsp black pepper
  • ½ cup vinegar
  • ½ cup brown sugar
  1. In a processor, pulse onion and garlic until smooth.
  2. In a pan, heat oil and sauté onion and garlic.
  3. Add remaining ingredients and simmer on low for 15 minutes, stirring often so it doesn’t burn.
  4. Transfer to a container when cool. Keep refrigerated for up to 2-4 weeks.

Assembly:

  1. Pull brisket into shreds with two forks and then mix in 1 cup BBQ sauce.
  2. Place pulled beef on top of the latke pizza.
  3. Slice diagonally to create triangular shaped pizza slices.
  4. Garnish with reserved sautéed onions.
  5. Optional – garnish with garlic mayo, fresh parsley and Maldon salt. Serve warm.